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I don't see how that follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:24 PM
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Alright, so I'm forced to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:24 PM
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I tried and couldn't find any. Do you know any? Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:23 PM
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Saying "dating is hard" is not woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:23 PM
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That's another personal attack. You can't violate the rules here. You'll get banned eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:00 PM
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Stop bitching then. Why do you care so much? Wild dude. You might want to consider going to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:59 PM
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No personal attacks, you have been reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:58 PM
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ignore this miscreant You called me a miscreant. That is a personal attack. You have violated the rules. You have been reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:58 PM
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Those who are women, some of them, could choose to like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:57 PM
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i’ve actually set up a couple people, it didn’t always work out but i’ve been mentioned in two sets of marriage vows and i’m pretty proud of that. Great, so who do you have for me? i am not single. Then I hope you can see how it's hypocritical for you to tell other people to settle for something you yourself aren't willing to settle for too. i have a couple of single girlfriends, but they’re generally like… single for a reason. Not a deal breaker, let's try to make this work. Don't let perfect g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:56 PM
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Experiment with things like clothes, deodorant, hair styles etc. That's controllable variables. We're talking about controllable outcomes, like getting into a relationship. Your error is assuming you can know ahead of time whether getting a relationship is something you can control or not. You can't know if anything is within your control or not until it is too late, so you can't say "if you can't control it then just accept it," because there's no way to know which things are controllable or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:54 PM
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No, what's your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:43 PM
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You too. Trying to "dunk" on people like you've tried to do indicates a serious mental illness. I don't know if you are mentally ill or not, I'm not saying anything about you, just people who do things like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:42 PM
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so the only thing that can be done is to date the person. Or try to introduce them to your single friends, or try something else. What have you tried so far? should someone dump their current partner to date someone struggling to find a relationship? what happens to the dumped partner? "You could date them" obviously only applies to single people. There are other obvious exceptions, such as it not applying to family members. Are you single? Tell me about yourself. Do you know anyone women who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:41 PM
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ahh, changing the subject, cute. Do you tell your rape victims to cry you a river?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:37 PM
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Do you? No one has to be with you. Right, and if everyone says no then together they are all forcing me to be single. How do you knot understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:37 PM
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no one cares what you need, they care about saying a polite thing. People seem to get upset about rapes. They can care. I suppose it's a matter of making people care? the advice means that you should be happy with your OWN self and with being yourself, no one means "people who are happy alone DONT WANT relationships". How is "should" relevant when it is not that way? Saying something should be one way or another doesn't change the way things actually are. you can be happy single and then you mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:36 PM
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Do you know what consent is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:31 PM
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Is that what you say to your rape victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:30 PM
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Your error is assuming that anyone can know what is controllable or not. You can't really know what is or is not controllable until it is too late to do anything about it, so you can't condition things on controllable vs. not controllable. Control what you can control, but you can't control how you're perceived once you make those changes. Well, yeah, that's what people are doing when they say "I want help getting a relationship, let's work on finding me a relationship." It isn't valid to say "y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:29 PM
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Wow, so you're calling me a bitch and a loser. That's the second comment in a few minutes where you broke the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:19 PM
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unfortunately it’s really difficult to help someone unable to find a relationship. It's super easy if you're the right kind of person: just choose to be in a relationship with them. You don't have to find the third person, you could be the person to be in a relationship with. beyond that, what reasonable actions can a person take to actually accomplish the goal? Tons of stuff! You could be in a relationship with them. You could connect them with the single people you know. Lot's of other things …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:18 PM
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Were you trying to say something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:15 PM
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Follow the rules, you've been reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:14 PM
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It's a fact, not an attitude. Hey, if you think I can force someone to be in a relationship with me, then please, tell me how it is done, step by step. No? Then I'm not the one forcing me to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:12 PM
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If you are single, then the group of people who are forcing you to be single is: everyone you would want a relationship with, if only they wanted you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:11 PM
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The people who reject me are forcing me to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:09 PM
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might call you lebron with those kinda jumps. Accusations like that tell me you know you're full of shit. you can spend your time on this earth trying to find joy in the not shitty When people say "I want a relationship but I can't, I need help getting that," that's what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:09 PM
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Your comment is one big just world fallacy. That society cannot be fixed by our outside intervention, the change must come from within. I don't know what that means, sound like bullshit to me. Some people could change me being single: the woman who I would want to be in a relationship with if only they would also want me. It is their choice. They choose "no." Life is a tragedy and some have more of it than others. All we can is move forward and do what little we can to make it better. That doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:06 PM
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I never said anyone owed me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:57 PM
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I know you are not interested in an actual solution, No, I am. No one is offering me an actual solution. What is actually preventing you from finding love is your neediness and desperation You don't know me. That's just victim blaming. But, hey, okay now I'm not need and have no desperation. .. hmm, no partner magically materialized out of thin air, so I don't think you're right. Your actually problem is that you're being raped, it's your neediness and desperation to not be raped that is actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:57 PM
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Ah, your "plan" is "I got mine, eat shit and die, loser." Wow, you sound like a very compassionate person. Get it yourself, I'm already doing everything I can, that's how we got to here. I already took your advice but it isn't enough. other users have literally no role in you finding yourself a partner. No, some of them could be that partner. Take some responsibity. I already am, but taking responsibility doesn't magically give me a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:49 PM
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There's nothing we can currently do about most of these things as the science/societies to correct them do not exist yet. There's plenty you could do, you just choose to not do it. "I got mine, eat shit and die, loser."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:46 PM
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So? It sounds to me like you're trying to justify rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:45 PM
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There will always be people who have things you want that you dont have or more of what you want. So? Just because you arent experiencing constant peak joy in your life does not mean you cannot foster a general feeling of happiness and contentment. Technically, you're right, but we're looking for more than "foster a general feeling of happiness and contentment." Content is defined as a state of peaceful happiness. If you're not willing to apply the same "content" standard to everyone then you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:45 PM
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I agree, that's just factually true. It is trivial, and I don't really care about you not being a millionaire. Me seeing it as not a problem doesn't make it any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:37 PM
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Okay, so the people who complain about being single - that sort of thing - are already happy being single. It's just that they want to be happier, similar to how you're happier with your husband. I would have happily remained single my entire life if I had not have met him That sounds like bullshit to me. It's easy for you to say when you don't have to actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:37 PM
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Your happiness should never be dependant on that. it does for every human your beliefs on what should or should not be are irrelevant. You must learn to be happy outside of a relationship, hobbies and friends and family and work. Okay, then here's the way it is: I'm already "happy" but an important problem that needs to be urgently fixed is for me to be "happier." But, hey, if you're right, then lets treat everyone that way. The people in relationships must learn to be happy with out them. Forci…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:35 PM
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The just world fallacy is rampant here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:32 PM
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Right now, as we speak, unspeakable atrocities are happening across the world and there's not a god damn thing we can do to fix it. What have you tried? You don't know you can't do anything about it unless you try. Some people, societies and systems are just broken and beyond control. And some aren't, and just saying "no, no, that is one I can't control, I'm sure" doesn't get you out of being a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:31 PM
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I never said there was no difference. You didn't answer my question which tells me you know you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:28 PM
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That assumes you are in some way entitled to being with them, and you aren't. There is no assumed entitlement. Where's your argument? It's like saying, women rejecting you for sex are forcing you to be celibate. No, it isn't like saying that. Other than a few edge cases "women rejecting you for sex are forcing you to be celibate" is a fact. Exceptions like rape is not allowed only attracted to women; men and children are outside of the scope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:27 PM
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there is genuine value in trying to make the best out of the situation you find yourself in. That doesn't justify abandoning people to shitty situations. "Make the best out of the situation" doesn't fix anything. If it did then it wouldn't be offensive to apply that to being raped. Just make the best of it and try to enjoy being violently raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:24 PM
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Do you see yourself as a good person? How? "eat shit and die, loser" doesn't sound very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:23 PM
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What's the point about being upset about having a broken arm? The answer is that you aren't really upset by it, the problem is the experience of having a broken arm. The same applies to wanting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:21 PM
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no one owes you this. I never said anyone did. when you complain to people they try to soothe you with platitudes, that's what the humans do. No, that's not all. given how insane you are coming off in this thread I thinks that's something you could work on first, understanding normal human behavior and learning to engage in it yourself I understand normal human behavior and engage in it myself, but you right there is you not actually trying to help, it's only a bullshit platitude. I don't need p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:20 PM
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They can, but that requires you and another person to be happy at once. They can't because they don't choose to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:14 PM
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Which things are so trivial that you say "go cry me a river" and which things are serious problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:14 PM
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I never said I was entitled to anything. No one's "forcing" you to be single. First, "forcing" is not the standard to go by. Second, every person who does not want to be in a relationship with me, collectively, is forcing me to be single. Some of those people aren't very relevant, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:13 PM
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Are you comparing a sex slave to someone who cannot form/find a relationship? You can compare $5 to $100. There is nothing wrong with that comparison, but I'm not comparing anything. All I did was illustrate a concept. The only commonality they share is that there are circumstances outside their control. No, they're also unpleasant things. Where you draw the line between trivial bad and super duper bad is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:11 PM
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one day you will be ready to leave this anger and hatred behind. I'm not angry, I'm just not getting what I want. i hope it comes before its too late and you've wasted your precious time being self-destructive. good luck I know what would help me. Do you want to help me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:08 PM
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Just so we're clear: your response to "I'm being raped" is "Go cry me a river," right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:07 PM
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People could provide actual help, which they absolutely could do, but they choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:04 PM
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That doesn't justify abandoning people to "lose." Oh, you're being raped every day? ''One can make no mistakes and still lose, that is not weakness, that is life.''
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:03 PM
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What if your happiness depends on getting the things you enjoy, like a relationship? What's your plan for those people? It sounds like your plan for them is "I got mine, so fuck off, eat shit, loser."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:01 PM
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You weren't really happy being single because if you were then you never would have bothered getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:00 PM
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other people want different things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:59 AM
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Where does it end? You should try being happy being raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:59 AM
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then let's force everyone to be happy being single their whole lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:58 AM
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be happy being single, i have never been in a relationship, better now? No, impose being single on everyone you know too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:57 AM
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Nah you should be happy single Why can't the people in relationships do that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:57 AM
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Okay, but don't complain when other people don't give a shit about you. Women dying because they don't have access to safe abortions? Go cry me a river Sex trafficking? Go cry me a river Rape? Go cry me a river Domestic violence? Go cry me a river Brest cancer? Cervical cancer? Go cry me a river Wage gap? Go cry me a river Female genital mutilation? Go cry me a river
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:56 AM
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if you cannot easily change an unfortunate circumstance (getting in a relationship), being frustrated by it long term will cause you mental distress. What if their circumstances could change if you would just give them the help that they want and that you can give? Will you help them or no? Basically, living with such a mental distress is bad for anyone long term. So, you have two options: getting into a relationship (which is kinda hard, considering that this is the original source of the initi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:52 AM
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I guess it depends on what they're complaining about. If it's something out of their control, I guess they can complain about it, but it's probably not going to help and may even hinder future relationship progress. No, I'm asking if it's a legitimate complaint or not. You didn't answer the question. Let's say someone is a sex slave, raped every day, and they have no control over it. Do they have a legitimate complaint or is your plan for them to just suck it up and take it? It's not something t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:44 AM
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Which people are we talking about? I don’t understand what you’re asking. The single people who want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:40 AM
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"You should try to be happy being single" is just code for "I got mine, so fuck off, eat shit, loser."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:27 AM
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I never said that at all. I’m not saying people have to blissfully happy single and never have any gripes with it, Then what's your plan to get these people the relationships they want? It won’t make the situation better. What's your plan to make their situation better? Sounds like your plan is "eat shit, loser, bye."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:26 AM
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Because you can appreciate things that are just okay. Then it should be good enough for the people in relationships too. Why don't they just be single if you're right? The answer is you are not right. They are not willing to live by what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:25 AM
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I was just saying, you can be happy when you're single, but then you start a relationship and further increase your happiness. Okay, so the people who complain about being single have legitimate complaints, is that it? You can also want a relationship, not get it and still be happy. You didn't get what you want, but sometimes things don't always pan out the way you want. That's bullshit. If you could still be "happy" then you wouldn't have had an interest in a relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:23 AM
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Then why does everyone tell single people to be happy being single? They don't have the option for a relationship good, bad, or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:21 AM
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If you tell single people to be happy being single, and you have ever been in a relationship, then your opinion is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:19 AM
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I mean, what are people meant to do when they want a relationship but are not in it? You tell me. Are they meant to be miserable? You could help them get what they want, for a start. Telling people to accept their current shitty position in life is a shitty thing for you to do. Oh, just keep getting raped, learn to be happy getting raped every day. Learn to be happy being a slave all the time. What, are you meant to be miserable? Just re-define 'happy' to be what your current life is. Obliviousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:18 AM
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the idea being happy (or at least content) with being single is that you can more easily walk away from bad relationships. Why bother getting into a relationship if you're already content with being single? The problem is that some people are really miserable alone and will jump into any relationship, no matter how bad it is for them. Then what's your solution for people who won't jump into any relationship, but still want one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:13 AM
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Then why do people tell single people they need to be happy being single? How can they be happy with something that is only neutral, according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:12 AM
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So in your opinion, happiness is a state that an individual can only achieve one way? Everyone starts life by default as single. There is no reason to change that if you can be happy being single. One can’t be happy being single and even happier in a relationship? Oh? So people who tell single people to be happy being single are full of shit, is that your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:10 AM
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Happy/sad isn't a binary, it's a spectrum of different levels of either way. So, all the people saying you can be happy being single are just full of shit? is that your story?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:08 AM
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The argument is: if you were already actually happy then by the definition of "happy" you wouldn't have any reason to change. Why do anything different if you're already happy? You wouldn't. Since people do get into relationships then that means by definition that they were not happy being single. What's your argument? Be single for the first 120 years of your life if you really think you can be happy being single. Prove it to me if you don't agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:04 AM
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Can you imagine a world where all men would be totally respectful and considerate, and not scary at all? Women would re-adjust their criteria "up" and nothing would be any different. I mean, how would it feel like to know that you are like fundamentally advantaged compared to the other gender in something? That's a question for women right now. Women already are fundamentally advantaged. Wouldn't it be nice for women to stop taking advantage of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:01 AM
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If you really were happy being single then you never would have tried, or been open to, getting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:58 AM
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If you really were happy being single then you never would have tried, or been open to, getting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:58 AM
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Why aren't you still single? If that really was the happiest time in your life then you never would have stopped being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:57 AM
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You wouldn't have been willing to get into a relationship if you were really happy being single. You weren't happy being single, that's just something you tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:56 AM
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If you really were happy being single then you never would have tried to get into a relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:57 PM
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