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Today 🌞
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:30 PM
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Pepperidge farm remembers. I do get tu soy to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:09 PM
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Call me, Hector. And you are, abuela?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:57 PM
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Hi, I’m 99 years old. Marry me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:12 PM
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How old are you and how would you rate yourself? And what’s your definition of high value? That context is important for the next question: what dating standards do you have in place? (Age, wealth, height, attractiveness, masculinity, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:01 PM
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Ohhhh, UMC means upper middle class? That makes sense Correct me if I’m wrong but this city is wildly starting to feel either UMC or Ultra UMC as west loop condos are $1M, Lincoln park is Lincoln park, Wicker/Logan/Lakeview/Southloop/Southport are all around $2k rent or more. Unless you mean rogers park/buena park and up to Evanston? Also, hi neighbor
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:13 AM
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Also from Chicago, confused by what you mean by “mixed race UMC Chicago north siders”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:22 PM
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I’ve done 0/1000th of this and have a 192/~765 success. Some of that success includes dating apps where they match/pursue me and I think 765 is closer to 900 but if I approach and don’t see good teeth/tits/etc then I make it platonic ha walk away.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 10:56 PM
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First comment on the thread but your flair caught my eye, what does a queen look like? And why can’t she spell ‘you’?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:29 AM
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You age sloot, you. I thought the 98 in your username was your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:48 PM
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Ha. This is amazing from someone who barely is legal enough to drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 11:39 PM
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Hmm, where do you and your partner post your swinger content/porn? What industry are you in? I’ve seen doctors (2) publicly advertise their sexual lives on public platforms with face photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:30 PM
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Much appreciated. You were neither clear nor explicit. You alluded to it. Can you expand on that one tightly wound sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:11 PM
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Link to Quora responses? I’m not that tech savvy. Those of us who really do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 09:55 PM
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Cool - I’ll go back to my iced coffee and trust your math
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:01 PM
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Someone with 300-600 partners is in the .01-.1% range of individuals in terms of N count, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:00 PM
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MGTOW, RedPill in training, or Chad? If you read my comments and last line of my post you’d see I agree, genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:52 PM
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I am joking about this girl, pure troll post. I find it amusing that she’s unwilling to admit that being in the .01% of number of partners doesn’t make her a slut. She feels guilt or the need to defend herself. I’m a slut. I’m a talented, charming slut. I don’t see myself in her shoes. And I don’t feel regret towards the meaningless partners, I think the majority of them sucked at sex (more of a witness than a participant to their orgasm). My “regret” is giving half of them an opportunity to sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:26 PM
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Stop reading my therapy notes! ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:06 PM
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Lol, go read my 1st post from 6 months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:54 PM
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Gender and what’s your definition of sloot?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:38 PM
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Would the same apply for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:33 PM
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Reposted, feel free to delete. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:27 PM
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Hmm, I didn’t delete the description. I asked if anyone would marry her/Kelly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:24 PM
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Good question. Mind answering my question before we dig into yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:19 PM
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Apologies for the mistake. But I don’t think gender matters, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:17 PM
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Lulz. I work in finance and banking, I have many women friends who are like this but devalue men who want the same thing as your friends. My approach is to always tell them “I want to adopt and so we are both working”. They freak out because kids apparently mean they can quit and be an at-home vacation mother. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 02:43 PM
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Expand on this? Did they not want babies previously?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 01:10 PM
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And this folks is the essence of red pill vs mgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 06:49 AM
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Somewhere between the choking and face slapping...🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 06:48 AM
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Is the assumption that women have higher or lower n count in your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 05:28 PM
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No, he’s attractive He’s like attractive Attractive like attractive You like attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 01:04 AM
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Why not? DM on here if it’s too personal of a question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 12:44 AM
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Lol, you just summarized this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:51 PM
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What are both of your SMV scores?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 10:28 PM
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120+ times but who’s quoting besides me and the therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 11:25 PM
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We are all autistic on this blessed day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 06:50 AM
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Hmmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:55 PM
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That’s before she cleaned up her profile after Christmas weekend 2017 and stopped shitposting about the boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:52 PM
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All valid points, plus the OP of the linked post is a notoriously fatty with high N. ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:48 PM
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You haven’t answered my previous questions and only posed compelling questions in return. Answer me and I’ll do the same. Bizarre but showing up on “mgtow philosophy blogs”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:21 PM
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Lol, triggered or menopausal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:14 PM
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I was placing you on opposite ends of the spectrum of people who sleep around. Those who fuck anything that moves or take advantage of new/ripe people in SMP vs the more attractive women who ride the cc. In your 20s? What’s changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:09 PM
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But are you attractive or the type that’s taking young men’s v-cards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:03 PM
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Finally, a real Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 09:11 PM
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1 motherfucker
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:26 PM
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Clearly, clearly...you’ve never met Bill Gate or lived in SF. /s Side note. Why does SF have a more unattractive population?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:22 AM
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That feeling that you can do better? It won’t ever go away. That’s your genitalia subconsciously letting you know that you’re missing more than looks/physical attraction. Find meaning in all things you do, this surface level shit gets boring quickly. So, go work on yourself or your relationship with this girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:36 PM
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I dont see any of this in the upper middle class area i live. Everyone wants to get married and start families soon after college. I dont know a single divorced parent at my kids school.. ​ Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:08 AM
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natty light and kamchatka vodka ​ This mindset is quite binary. I think you're quite possibly MC with intentions of moving up to UMC (career, focus on looks, and IQ) but those behaviors and gestures are missing. I've spoken at length on this subreddit before about how it's easy to spot those who can't eat, dress, or act like they belong...and it can't be taught in one generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 12:37 AM
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That’s amazing. Are you guys FI/RE’d? Or just non-Americans?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:45 AM
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What kind of work do you do that both people are WFH overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:29 AM
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That’s the experience my ex had in New York but when we tried it in a different city...yikes. I suppose say away from cold weather locations? I’ve only met one couple where it seemed like a sustainable foursome. The only other one were a pair of therapists who ended up with herpes...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:50 AM
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Curious...profession/industry, socioeconomic range, Coast, and attractiveness? I studied you people and tried it myself but...kept running into dudes who hid in the closet and jerked off watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:04 AM
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How does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 09:46 PM
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I truly depends on upbringing. Go to any “old school boys” country club and you’ll be able to tell the 40 year old who’s had the traits ingrained vs those who’ve made great strides to fit in via new money. You speak of your husband being aware. You married into money and jumped class?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 09:39 PM
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They do notice. They do understand how colors and seasonal color palettes do a number for you. They do notice health of skin, nails, hair, chest/upper arm health/moisturize, appearance of muscle, type of shoe (real leather, cheesy “G”, etc), and so much more. Spend some time with them and learn. I was taught “how a man folds his newspaper determines which class in society he was raised”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 12:59 AM
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Let’s dig into your logic. Do you assume yourself to be attractive, competent to possibly intelligent, and undervalued compared to similar male counterparts? I made seem sarcastic but I’m genuinely interested in continuing this conversation if it can possible change my perspective. ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:26 PM
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Not making this about you. It was a question. Questions aren’t inherently personal, just curious, unless you plant a flag and voice the “I’d special and not like that” BS. That antidotal BS on here is getting old - your experiences aren’t the experiences of the world. Women can want whatever their heart desires, and men too, but doesn’t mean the world will give it to them. The gender pay gap will never go away as long as we have 9-month pregnancies. There are large volumes of women in sales, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:51 PM
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You have negative experiences in DC? You’re fucked elsewhere. DC’s population welcomes confidence and finesse over traditional dating cues. Plus the population is skewed towards extremely educated women....time to move.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:34 PM
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What does she look like? And why isn’t she earning my line of business twice the value in a customer facing role where other VP’s dole out extra money for a pretty face. A competitor, Amazon, has an entire team to set up their senior Male Executives with female company. That same role doesn’t exist for women because those women are in the “Women who code” conferences upping the company value in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:24 AM
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Why should I? Never hired or promoted this type. Always directed them to the sales team where they are an asset. Organizations make that clear to directors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:03 PM
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I thought this was about women and men, not you and men. Am I confused here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:39 AM
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You skipped this question. You’re talking to some religious cucks who are clearly hiding their preference for pubescent bodies. I date women older than 28 (typically older) and fuck those younger. It makes absolutely no sense to invest time in someone 19-25 because both sexes haven’t solidified their goals or personalities. TRP is so stupid and short sighted in this fashion. Two questions in two separate directions: How shitty is your job? And how lonely is your life? Piling on, can you link a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:56 PM
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She is ugly...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:48 PM
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That was quick... What’s HCOL outside those two? That’s enough to live with meeting all basic needs and not worry about money. Lol. Who the fuck marries at 19? And where you even attractive? I’ve seen your femcel posts. So your schedule of eating at the gym is accurate? When I boxed and commuted for an hour, the entire trip to 3.5 hours. I’m confused at how you’re wasting time unless you’ve got 12-packs. KHV?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:00 PM
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If you’re in SF or NY, not a gold digger. But what are you making in that area? And true - nonprofit makes 50-60 in those areas. Also, aren’t you the girl that spent 4-5 hours at the gym and was cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:53 PM
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I was making a wild guess but indulge me for a second. You two don’t have kids? One or both of you relied upon your father’s to lead you to where you are today? You both found similar values in one another, jumped the gun quickly, and didn’t look around for something better? You rely on his leadership in the relationship? You have to ask for permission under the guise of compromise for things in your relationship? (Large purchase, redecorating, pets) One of you is out of shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:28 AM
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I tend to be right, glad that’s been established. Now, let’s review your assumptions. Good assumption. What field and what level of education? Spending what you don’t have. Also know as a 78% indicator of divorce when both parties have opposite expectations and goals for money. Good luck with those odds over 10 years and house training your teenager. Low IQ, low work ethic, and can’t save. Nice catch, lady fisherman. This is of course your one sided description of a man you basically called a au…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:23 AM
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What is SHE spending it on lately, stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:17 AM
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But you two chose not to have children? Something tells me he prefers to keep his clean clean and that comes at a cost (having to convince or negotiate for things that you want).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:51 AM
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Thank you. I guess reading comprehension is fucking lost in this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:39 AM
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You’re asking the wrong person. I make 80% more but my future wife is in jail for securities fraud and tax evasion. That’s how we’re fighting stereotypes. How are you fighting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:07 AM
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You’re 20 and projecting incomes of two 20 year olds into their 40’s? Are you looking at a career that has no options for growth or significant value driven salary? Your numbers definitely sound off from where I sit and I’d be happy to be proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:01 AM
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This IS a thing. When women mention or allude to being more educated than men, men pull away. Women with higher education degrees (past bachelors) have a difficult time being accepted by less educated men. Seen it up close too many times. What do you mean “problem with how much I earn and cheating on me because of it”? Edit: just read your post about used up sluts and you actually seem reasonable if you are truly the person you described...so why are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:02 AM
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This is where I’m at in my dating. How attractive and old are both of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:00 AM
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Happy to share this via PM.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:46 AM
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Those aren’t measurable. What kind of growth are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:33 AM
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Those aren’t measurable. What kind of growth are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:32 AM
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I, ugh, quit sex in June after my values were rocked recently in fucking a poly power couple. I think I want long term (finally) and I want it with someone who doesn’t want to birth kids. It’ll give time around her and maybe adopt if that’s where my head goes. Why are you so cynically making your situation look one-sided? I’m also moving and going through MD again so just bumming off time until my BE episodes pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:30 AM
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Woah. No. Grandma issues. (Joke) I was orphaned at 13 and had a major illness a few years later. I had to fight through it alone for a decade and that typically tugs at their hearts. I’m sure the 4 languages, wealth, cultured background, and above average cock help, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:02 AM
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I appreciate that. Thank you. Especially since we’re both single. Edit: and charm isn’t the reason. I think older women want to be maternal when they hear my life story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:55 AM
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Again, I don’t care what your age is or what other people care about it. When I ask someone something, it’s because I’m curious and want to understand how that aspect impacts the larger discussion at hand. ...back to your message: Your age isn’t disqualified in my book from what I’ve read in your threads. Your instant need to fight/argue/protect might be but I’m sure that could be given the nature of that subreddit and not a typical conversation. I’ve tried to describe to Anglo-White women I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:34 AM
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Lol...I’ve dated 32-44 in the last 2 years. Why so bitter about your age? You’d be my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:15 AM
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Context: I’ve subscribed to both sides but don’t lean either way. No. I think more men cheat than women (percentage based occurrences) but it’s quite close. I think men are delicate and don’t learn the ways of the world until later when things are taken from them...when they catch up. I think women understand and cheat much earlier in cohabiting relationships as they begin to seek better matches and partners leading to a hypergamous label applied to their actions (as they do end up with more mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:43 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:24 PM
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I’m a software guy now, too. I do garden and do some woodworking. I’m thinking of picking up kayaking on protected rivers but the lottery system for permits seem intense. I have a buddy who does it and might wander down that road soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:14 PM
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No, you’re right. My goal is the same as yours. Always has been even if I denied it. I began to devalue sex after maybe 15 partners, stopped seeing women as people but rather milestones or notches on a belt around 30 partners, and basically hated sex from 60-100. It’s changed recently as I’ve gone from selective to exclusively seeing a niche market where I can build up romance without getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:05 PM
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I’m fine settling. I am just looking for ways to ensure I stay settled - if that makes sense. I don’t want to enter another LTR only to begin doing threesomes or see other people in shitty open/poly relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:01 PM
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Touché. Link me to your pornhub?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:59 PM
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Well this was fun. Especially since I don’t subscribe to your gender pronouns, sista.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:50 PM
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Not quite 30 and my LTRs totaled 5+ years. During 2 of them, the women actively picked up people with me at bars and clubs to fuck together. I honestly wasn’t a big fan of that or sharing but when in Rome. I suppose you’re right about having to work for it. I put in my strategies and always had an equation + system for certain types of women. One of the LTR was with someone who was a bartender in college and she basically went home with a random guy at the end of her weekend shift for a year and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:43 PM
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Notes from Underground by Dostoevsky It fully applies - his unhappiness, bitterness, and self-contempt is the reason why I purchased it. I actually own the book but it's been sitting on my bookshelf. ​ Thank you for the reminder, and the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:51 AM
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Pics? If it's that holy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:30 AM
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Explain the flair - in detail. I'm new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:21 AM
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K. Let me know if you need someone to film it, Mrs. Conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:20 AM
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Thanks for your effort. What if this was the only way to save the life of someone you loved? Refer to #1 while I think of more hypotheticals. Disappointed and disgusted in what sense? What age range are you in? And what religion were you raised?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:59 AM
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That explains the yuck. It doesn't explain why you didn't answer #4.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:43 AM
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I have a kid I don't follow - why can't you take your kids with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:40 AM
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You'll be fine. Years ago when I was caught up in the corporate rat race, that would have deeply hurt me but fine is more than welcome these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:25 AM
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I don’t believe you know your exact number is 121 Sister is a doc and exes' were medical professionals who recommended the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:24 AM
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near future Why not? ​ Spend the next year buying a lot of mid-cap > small-cap stocks + diversify your portfolio and then leave it. I wanted to retire between 35-40 with $3.5M and was on track to do so but I'm pushing it off 5-10 years to go lay some strong roots somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:22 AM
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Ok so you could say you have slept with so many women that they are sometimes blurring together, or you have deja vu on conversations with and meeting them, and it's starting to bother you a bit? Well, it's funny that you say that. All the Asian girls were blurred and then eventually combined into the best/worst traits of all and the name kept changing (unless I looked at my google sheet). The sexual experiences felt the same. The emotional interest felt wasted even though it was almost all fake…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:09 AM
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Cool, sounds like you aren't just coming at it without knowing what you're getting yourself into. I try things a few times before I commit to them. Not a pun even if we're in this subreddit. I like racquet sports, fishing, and one-one trips in the wilderness where I can show someone the neat stuff I've learned over the years. ​ Why are you crazy? Unless you were sarcastically calling me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:58 AM
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But you'll never know that for sure. Have you ever been with one woman for ten years straight? Can you be happy doing that? You don't know. You can't. I've been with someone for 3 years and another for almost 2. I was extremely happy with the 3y but she cheated when she went off her bipolar meds at the end. That did it for me. How perfect does she have to be for you to be happy with her forever? And if she is that perfect, what do you do when she changes, as all people do over their lifetimes? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:54 AM
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You're an Asian woman or an Asian man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:42 AM
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Can you name one major opportunity that you decided to forego that makes you regret it? I started a company with my best friend and we had a multi-million dollar contract that I pissed away. I lost him as a friend and the next 4 deals that would have totaled $25-30M. He hasn't spoken to me in 3 years and I haven't stopped thinking about why I jumped between 3 relationships during that first year. Even that first contract would have set us to stay in the "boys only" industry but instead no one an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:41 AM
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60-65 partners is when depression and self-loathing became overwhelming, even for men? So I forgot to answer this but I was going through some bad life events (post higher up in the thread) which contributed but yes. I did feel like garbage from 60-65 and up until 75-80. Then I changed my mindset and only dated on business trips. I kept changing the dynamics as if to only run from the problems. It worked until recently. ​ I did stick my dick in crazy for 3 months while she talked in her baby voi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:38 AM
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It will require some pretty brutal self-honesty and commitment to action on your part. Thanks. I appreciate that! That's what I've been working through for the past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:34 AM
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No because... https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/aa4rfw/would_you_want_to_surpass_100_sexual_partners_irl/ecp89r5 ​ TL;DR: I'm trying to find different meaning so I can fight again and have that boring life everyone complains about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:32 AM
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Sorry we're all dickheads here at times I'm waiting, again, for the type of girl that acts like a dickhead and then apologizes. ​ Exactly @ being in the same bar. Apparently, she also had our first kiss planned out, top of a sunset hike, but I ruined it by waiting until we got back to the car (30 mins later). For a 32-year-old, she sure lived in a Disney world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:31 AM
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You're right except for the last part. Near the top of the thread, I stated how I'm wary of my next fight with an illness and have started to question why I don't have a support system. Almost a decade and a half spending birthdays, holidays, graduations, promotions, and so much more alone. It creates cracks in the foundation in which you invested. I feel like shorting my choices. I do have burnout and am taking a year off but I also have emotional fatigue that I created. Unlike Holmes, I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:27 AM
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I know you're joking but I can easily help set up a gang bang of attractive men and women if you want to commit to the joke #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:18 AM
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I was a Major Depressive and fighting early-stage cancer of my own at the time. I was orphaned before the teenage years and then homeless under a year at the end of my teens. I hated the world; I hated humans; I hated greed; I hated love; I hated my long-term dreams because they kept being taken away. So I fucked and I used my quasi-cultured facade to create a barrier and then find a place of power over women. (Why women? I had a guardian who passed away from breast cancer and blamed her for lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:16 AM
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I get salty on PPD because the arguments are so weak. My posts are really sterile if you just want the basics. This place makes me salty, too. I've only made like 5 comments on here from my real account. So many people live in their bubble and use XYZ study to prop up an argument? I was an academic researcher on digital dating, half the shit studies quoted on here weren't good enough to hypnotize/test against at the time so why are they good enough for a real debate... ​ As a person driven by sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:06 AM
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I fucking know it sounds like a humble brag. Trust me. I just didn't want to give a half-assed picture of the situation. Like yourself, I haven't had casual sex in a year and sex in general for 6 months. I'm changing my goals in life and part of that is coming to terms that I overdid things and feel bad (or ashamed) of how I treated people. I'm just looking for opinions to help my moral compass reset. I don't make great decisions and felt like posting here would provide a wide range - large enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:47 AM
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I’m not redpill, but I naturally used some of their tactics, hence why I’m against them now. I know how shitty you have to treat people to follow along. You said that in the other comments and that's the type of disgusting I'm feeling. I dropped a girl when her parent had cancer and she wanted emotional comfort. I dropped a girl when she had an ovarian cyst and was out of the sex game for 2 months. I convinced a happily married couple (friends) that the stress on their relationship was his push …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:34 AM
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Maternal instinct? Dude she's trolloping around on the father of her children. I don't know what the hell this woman did to you but lol. To be fair...they're in an open relationship and he fucks 4 (other) women in 3 cities. She only has me on the side (proven via home security camera log-in she provided). BTW are you married with 3 kids? You seem super RP and yet bitter. Yuk. Lol - I'm not going to have kids with her. She's over 35 but not 40. Also, we kind of ended thing 3 months ago and she is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:29 AM
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Oh yeah, that's brutal. If she can successfully sneak around on him then your woman can sneak around on you. And if you did fuck them then karma could be waiting for you down the line... So I DID NOT fuck her after she told me she was married. I dropped her late last October and in November she fucking had the nerve to invite me (as a friend) across the country to her family Thanksgiving party. I was livid because I thought about the karma and would I would want to know if I were him. In Decembe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:23 AM
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No. I do not have the spare resources to invest in women. I will get there. But I have no intention to spend resources if not needed. You summarized what I am going through well. At 100, I found maybe 3 candidates for marriage but they had personality and financial flaws. At 120, after I switched over the married women I realized that I had wasted so much time and resources playing "this game" that my favorite traits about myself (speaking 4 languages, cooking, great tennis player) faded. The op…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:18 AM
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Hung up on what? You want to raise another dude's kid, go for it. (Joke) No, he'd kill me first. (Serious) And no - He's the optimal Wall Street Chad with the worst behaved kids. They aren't the type I'd waste time or energy on. I liked her maternal instincts or at least internalized them to be great when I spent time in the guest suite as a "cousin". It made me deeply want kids for the first in years. I think you're right about the interacting with them turned her on. The only night I read them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:10 AM
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I don't want to fuck 100 fatties 4-5 squeak through on drunk bar crawls or office parties. ​ Based off your answers, you seem between RP and PP. Largely driven by politics and money?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:04 AM
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follow up question: what's the longest you've been alone? 8-9 months when I was homeless in my late teens. ​ Alone as in camping or living in a cabin. That used to bring me joy and a time-consuming hobby. I haven't had roommates in 2 years or anyone visit my place in 2 years as well. I generally only screw around on business trips in other cities. When I get home, I just lay on the sofa and or bed with books or vice news.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:00 AM
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trope deconstruction I don't think I should have learned how the sausage is made. As a previous commenter mentioned " My point is, what are you going to find in LTR land? You already know the whole thing is a sham. " I think I would have preferred to live at N=8-12 and in a failing LTR with hope instead of watching women who had not yet made it to 1 year into their relationship sending me nudes and ideas of how we'd fuck while planning their honeymoon. That's ruined any hope of trust in the oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:57 AM
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alpha widow Jesus Christ. I've never heard of that but I am hung up a semi-wealthy married mom. She's what I pretended wasn't in the market until I found her (late obviously).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:50 AM
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Well yes and no. The person who suggested I was overthinking my situation is a married woman who's in an open relationship and openly practiced hypergamy (her description, not mine). Having been around her for a year (just got the "Happy Anniversary" text) I feel like my mindset has been so wrong. MAYBE I should have used the CMV flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:45 AM
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N=100 is like quantum No, sorry. Former researcher and we use N to indicate the number to participants in studies. Example "N=27 Those who did not support the policy. T=52 Those who answered the question from the focus group." ​ 30 is definitely where emotions started to get removed. 60-65 is when depression and self-loathing became overwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:43 AM
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Sorry. ​ I am using my random account to write this and trying to gauge opinions (not gain fame). I'm tempted to go live alone for 3-6 months and would like input to see if I'm crazy. Disgusting? That's a given. Crazy? Still trying to figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:38 AM
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mournful penis Ugh, no fucking thanks? I thought incels was shut down... I think I'm going through jealousy as a sibling just had his third child and they lived an opposite life (marrying at 23, popping out kids every 2 years, etc). Their lives seem fulfilled. the spreadsheet Advised by my therapist and GP for testing and tracking. I don't publically share it. sex isn’t everything Sure - I definitely think that's the moral. Now just looking for a reset button. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:35 AM
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This seems rhetorical. And to answer your question, I'm not sure. That's why I asked. My last FWB suggested I take 3-6 months off and go hiking/camping alone. I'm planning that now to figure out what's next for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:30 AM
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No, I thought about asking only men but my ex-fiancée was at 80 something when we broke up. I'm open to all opinions and all red wine tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:28 AM
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disgusting In what sense? Not disagreeing, just looking for details.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:15 AM
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