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this is my theory as well and I think it makes a lot of sense. just sucks even more for short guys, not only are we considered super unappealing, the most attractive girls are also taller than us which sucks even more
/r/seduction19/04/20 11:51 PM
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I thought I was imagining it but as I have paid closer attention to it, it became so incredibly obvious
/r/seduction19/04/20 11:07 PM
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Personally I think the face is more important than a chiseled body. Face is the first thing women notice. If you don’t have the face, they’ll ignore your body. as I short guy, height is up there with face as well. I'm 5'5 and with most girls being this height or even taller it's almost impossible to create physical tension and attraction when you are so small
/r/seduction19/04/20 10:59 PM
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this is kind of depressing as it does not seem to work for men who are not reaching a baseline of attractiveness especially in height. for example im really short and it feels impossible to generate this level of physical attraction ​ >She gets nervous, she starts biting her lip ​ sometimes I feel like it's just me but the fact that this will never happen to me which is largely down to my genetics is very upsetting to me. I think in general you can say as long as you follow the rule of being att…
/r/seduction19/04/20 10:58 PM
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First, there's nothing wrong with lowering your standards at least a little bit. It sounds like you are expecting to pull models or something. When really after you fuck them a couple times you realize they have no personality most of the time and are boring to be around. When you get to know and like a girl, she can definitely become more attractive. ​ ​ people on the internet make me think there is only models and below average in attractiveness people. nobody, literally nobody is realisticall…
/r/seduction14/04/20 10:41 PM
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honestly how attractive exactly where those women? and before you say it no I am not only out there to date super models but a reasonable amount of physical attraction simply is important and when I hear really short guys say they dated well and with taller women I always imagine them to be not exactly attractive. I feel like people are lying to me so that I shut up about it and my worries get delegitimized
/r/seduction14/04/20 10:32 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqIzIkJbvq8 you can't be serious with this shit
/r/seduction14/04/20 10:11 PM
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It won’t matter how tall you are then. that's what I dont believe. its not like having a decent body is going to make women want to fuck a short man more, I feel like and have read a study too, that muscles don't really matter that much especially compared to frame and ultimately bone structure, things that can be altered always matter more because they signal better genes. v taper is something you are born with too if we are being correct. and for short men its better to look really lean than b…
/r/seduction13/04/20 12:07 AM
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ironically I dont want to be correct. but comforting lies are not helping anyone. problem is that what is most desirable for men is not achievable for a man my height. and that's why this whole self improvement stuff is completely nonsense. it doesn't address the problem. working out as a short man isn't suddenly going to make women want to fuck you. having a better personality is great for ourself but id honestly feel better to have women lust after my body than after my personality, anyone can…
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:47 PM
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I still haven't seen any evidence of short men succeeding. seems like you put in 10 times the effort to get 1/10th of the results with lower quality girls even. that just makes people more jaded and depressed. you think your comment is motivating when in actuality its just more depressing to realize how unappealing I am
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:40 PM
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you might be right about the nose but being 5'5 is a different ballgame it seems
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:32 PM
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but that is also not true, its literally just good feel motivational speech talk. this sub should be a source of realism and self improvement and not delusional baseless good feel bs. like, people can't even agree that looks are important and will set limitations depending on how severe the issues are. that's crazy, there are literal studies to support what I am saying
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:28 PM
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i have spent years on reddit doing that, what does it matter at this point
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:25 PM
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how tall are you? asking cause I read your post
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:04 PM
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that's just not true
/r/seduction12/04/20 08:40 PM
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ok then how do you explain this? ​ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/eotwy8/is_height_a_source_of_asymmetry_between_men_and/fef75h9/ ​ ​ i don't understand why these communities focus so severely on height. why is it always height, its because height is very important for sexual desirability
/r/seduction12/04/20 08:12 PM
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i have pm you maybe you would be interested to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:10 PM
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escaping the friend zone is mostly down to how attractive you are. as a short guy who has been friend zoned many times I like to call it the "height zone". for example for women who are taller than me which is about 75%, I am automatically height zoned. its really depressing but the only thing that can most people get out of the friend zone is surgery
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:56 PM
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yes lol, I am literally searching for anecdotes of short successful men and I haven't found a single one of them. not even talking about the scientific studies that show just how important it is for a man to not be short. its always "a friend of mine" but interestingly these men never have reddit accounts themselves I wonder why
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:52 PM
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Plus it’s so much sweeter when you meet a cool girl who sees past that bullshit. no it's not. realizing that it takes a certain type of woman to be attracted to me and how she could always do much better and I most likely can't, that is all a major turn off. people just like to tell that to themselves to make a shit situation seem less shitty. ​ >Just do but expect bullshit internet tinder attention. ​ I am not even talking about tinder. tinder just makes interactions of real life more obvious a…
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:50 PM
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I don't think this hot woman dating this 5ft!! bald guy exists at all
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:39 PM
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an excuse for what? I don't care about being some dude who eventually gets married after years of hustling, that's not the point of my issue whether you get it or not
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:34 PM
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you don't get the issue I have though. sure anyone can get a woman to settle for them at some points in their lives which is not equal to having a satisfying dating life and actually being sexually attractive. furthermore in the internet everyone seems to have this one short bald guy who kicks ass that's with the hottest women, its pretty much a meme at this point
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:31 PM
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studies would proof you wrong ​ ​ edit: downvotes despite actual studies showing women care about looks the same level as men do
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:28 PM
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who judge based on something as shallow as height. of course I am. my attraction towards other people does not depend on my height you know.. and there is nothing hypocritical about it, in fact I understand why women are not attracted to be and I understand not wanting to be with someone you are not physically attracted to. I wouldn't want that either. does that mean it will feel less shitty for me? no of course not ​ and it's not really dismissive, there is actual scientific studies on the matt…
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:58 PM
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short than 80% of women as a man
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:48 PM
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>First don’t get hung up on it. ​ lol. for me reading this alone is pure suicide fuel. focus on your talents while any other guy just has to go to a club for 15 minutes and find a sexual partner there who is actually attracted to them
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:47 PM
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as a 5'5 guy in a country where the male average is 5'11 and the female average is 5'6 I wish nothing more than to be asexual to be perfectly honest. its so discouraging and depressing because dismissed so hard and often and being unable to change a damn thing about it. its actually painful and I haven't found a single thing that helps with these feelings
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:35 PM
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I can relate to this as a tall woman though I don't want to come of as dismissive but by every metric, no, you can't. the reason majority of men don't show interest in a taller woman is because they a) think they don't have a chance anyway which is statistically true or b) they have fragile or insecure masculinity ​ most men have the capability of being physically attracted to a tall woman. vast majority of women don't have the capability of being attracted to a short(especially not actually sho…
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:33 PM
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probably because its the truth but also triggering. if at least someone would argue against it. hell, I am a short man and I am literally spending hours on reddit to find men my height who have been successful sexually and seeing what worked for them but to this point I could not find a single one. its sad but also kind of hilarious. I am definitely not an incel but a lot of what they say, even if it is uncomfortable is totally true especially in regards to male height. my life would be complete…
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:10 PM
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and the fact that you think going to a hooker in some way comparable to actually being sexually desired and wanted is actually insane
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:08 PM
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do you think this is the first time I have heard this? if anything this comment makes me feel worse because again I have found a guy my height who was not successful sexually when I was looking for the exact opposite ​ But every girl who has spent sustained time with me has always liked me back eventually, even as I’ve moved on. And I take great pride in that. you take pride in never being the guy a woman wants to have fun and pure sexual lust with but the "best friend" who will eventually luck …
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:05 PM
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and when you are not physically attractive, all this will make no difference when it comes to dating, something this sub is advertising to be actually about
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:25 PM
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personally I have legit been depressed and suicidal about my body for multiple years now so I guess that's what is left to try for me to be perfectly honest. you might not know what its like to be depressed and dysmorphic about your body and I don't expect you to but its actual hell. you are right, we get one life and I get to experience it in this joke of a male body
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:24 PM
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if you have reached the baseline of physical attractiveness then yes. this is what is so disappointing about this sub, people don't realize that no girl gets wet for a 5'2 guy that is bald and has an ugly face. no surely that is an extreme example but it is useful to outline my point. if you aren't physically attractive in some way you can be the most confident person in the world and all it will ever get you is friendship. I really don't get why this is so hard to understand. sure, looks only g…
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:22 PM
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lol you know you are utterly fucked when people come at you with "focus on other things " on a SEDUCTION sub. yeah, I will just arrest my sexual desires and I will just stop caring that everyone has such a ridiculously time getting laid and that I am the prime example of an unappealing invisible man. for what? so that I can work my ass off and do some hobbies that I don't even enjoy doing anymore because of how ridiculous I feel and look? I do have regrets, I have lived in depression and sexual …
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:14 PM
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not really I am searching for success stories of men who are like me but have done fine nonetheless. but all I ever find is depressing stuff like this https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/eotwy8/is_height_a_source_of_asymmetry_between_men_and/fef75h9/
/r/seduction12/04/20 04:36 PM
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yes because everyone always wants to have committed relationships nd marry the first women they sleep with all the time
/r/seduction12/04/20 03:36 PM
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dating unattractive women who are looking for a provider once in a while is not hope, its even more depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:20 PM
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studies proof the exact opposite you smooth brain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:17 PM
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as a short man in genuinely want to blow my brain out every day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:15 PM
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what the fuck does that have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:07 PM
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i don't think you understand how ridiculous it looks to be shorter than most girls, built or not
/r/seduction12/04/20 03:03 PM
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that's depressing that there's only been so few. I feel like being short is not like any other physical trait and more like an actual disability/disfigurement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:01 PM
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and how has your dating life been?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:57 PM
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shorter than average im shorter than the average girl. also I want to be desired and find attractive for my body as well which seems to be a ridiculous thing to expect considering my height?
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:56 PM
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Im super short, 5'5 and I feel like it doesn't matter what I do because my height will make anyone dried up immediately. lots of other short men on reddit seem to have made the same experience and that is only even more discouraging
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:46 PM
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like a lot of guys claim how do you claim the insane difference between what you are saying and what they are saying and experiencing though? like, if you go on reddit you'd think height was the single most important thing when it comes to attraction and that being below 5'7 is equal to having massive bourn wounds and scars or other disfigurements in your face. and its everywhere and especially on this sub and /r/tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:39 AM
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who is taller than me is it literally taller than you or "tall"? like say you are 5'5, would 5'7 or 5'8, taller but still short or below average, be enough or is it more like a 6ft or above preference/requirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:31 PM
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that's actually very encouraging to read. reading about height on reddit particularity this sub and incel communities has kind of been a major blow to my confidence and also mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:19 PM
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that's kind of depressing. do you factor in your height when you say looks match? cause I assume you mean not exactly the most appealing women then. it sucks for short men, not only does one have to put in 10 times the amount of effort, the results are just not really worth it because its not really going to be people I am attracted to and would date if I had other options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:27 PM
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btw I fan guarantee that its the same foe most of them. nobody who posts such shit online so obsessively is able to interact with women in a normal way in real life in my opinion, I don't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:08 PM
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at this point I can't talk to women anymore not even joking. I completely dissolved my brain into this ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:07 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:02 PM
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incels have made me so fucking insecure about my height not gonna lie, morbidly insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:00 PM
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how would you characterize these women in terms of appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:32 PM
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yes he is just read most of his comments. he is literally a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:32 PM
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ive been hanging on a lot of incel subs lately and its made me morbidly insecure about being 5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:41 PM
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what about same height or slightly taller like 5'7-5'8?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:39 PM
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so what would you do hypothetically if there was a 5'7 guy who was otherwise attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:38 PM
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how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:33 PM
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how has dating been for you as a 5'6 man, are you American?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:32 PM
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how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:24 PM
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