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Well, noted
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 10:05 PM
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Ive seen the correlation in a lot of things after I took off the rose tinted glasses unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 10:04 PM
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She shut her office door to “not be too loud and bother me” while she plays xbox and locks her xbox party. I knew at the point we were at the end. Then i found the proof in her texts when a iMessage notification popped up on our mac book while i was on it she was currently having a conversation that involved photos while i was on the laptop, but on her phone.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 03:16 AM
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Shoot my stbxw always told me that the issue was and i adjusted HARD and it was never enough. I think they try to soften the blow to you just so in the end youll settle for less. Mine is a major manipulator though. She cheated on me and the same time said “idk why i did youre so perfect” so personally id say, brace for impact and have all your ducks in a row based on how it sounds
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/24 10:18 PM
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Im afraid my ex is going to do this. She knows she makes more than me and can afford a long fight 2 years married no kids but she tried to force to divorce non contest and offered 5% of our total assets and wants to keep everything in her procession while i move across the country to my home state. Good luck to you my guy.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 09:06 PM
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I got an attorney that agreed to start for 2k under the retainer brother 🙏🏻 then i blocked her number
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 07:53 PM
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She is incredibly intelligent and manipulative. Everything of the sort has been said over phone call unrecorded.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 04:01 PM
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Unfortunately that seems to be the way its going to have to go.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 03:01 PM
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I cannot retain a lawyer which they need before starting work. They dont just start working. At least none that i have found do
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 02:49 PM
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I cant make her put the money back and i dont have access to other accounts. Only a lawyer can do that. But i cant hire one
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 02:44 PM
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I know brother, im doing my best
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 02:22 PM
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She wants that house damn bad though. If she thinks she can fight, she will
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 01:38 AM
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Yeah shes been rushing the process since day 1
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 03:09 PM
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No kids but, when it came to finances we were basically 80-20. She made nearly 3 times more than me. Actually due to health complications and lack ability to work a year or two she made 4 times more than me. But because of that i did all of the labor around our new house, remodel, landscape etc. She wants the house to bad but as days go that was our “forever home” meant for OUR family but thats not going to happen and i have no reason to care if she can keep it because I moved back to my home st…
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 03:03 PM
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I just initiated mine this past saturday and im 28 brother man. It’s hell for sure, you have to feel these things though unfortunately. You cant bottle it up or you’ll never let go. Thats really all i can say though, every human heart feels in its unique way so thats why we all say “it gets better with time”
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 04:24 PM
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As of today a 13k payout to me was agreed to which wipes out our savings. I can make do with that well enough. Youre right though
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 02:50 PM
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I told her i wanted at least 9k (dumb i know but wait) and she acted like i was insane and shes have to consult with her attorney. Then she told me shed no longer talk about i would be talking to her attorney exclusively, so then i told i ld be retaining an attorney because i dont want it to be no experience vs experience. Then SUDDENLY 9k was very easy and doable. Bet yes also i wake up everyday and work on reestablishing myself in my home state to distract myself then once friends or family st…
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 03:06 AM
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I feel like im in an infinite feedback loop of, i need to do this, and this and this but i need to do this first too
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 06:02 PM
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Well during my 3 days of nothingness and trying toget to my moms shes already set her side up, got papers ready, and thinks we should be wrapped by the end of the week. Does none of it matter as long as i dont sign anything?
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 09:07 AM
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Idk why the idea of going after her just also hurts. Its for my well being and yet it still sucks. Youre right though. Just need to push myself through for it
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 08:47 AM
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