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You've been veeery needy, some girls just wanna fk and then dip, its just like that sometimes. Absolutely never contact her again unless she writes to u first. And if she doesn't, try not to take it personally.
/r/seduction23/05/20 01:56 PM
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I wouldn't say teasing is manipulative at all, and i agree that there is a big grey area as to what manipulation really is, and i wouldn't say intentionally not talking to someone is manipulation either(unless they're trying to get at you first), you're just leaving them alone. But let's not be completely vague about it, if you blatantly lie about something, or yes, ignore a girl who's trying to talk to you, to make her want you more then that's definetly manipulation. If someone wants to do tha…
/r/seduction09/05/20 10:54 PM
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Very good post, to the point and makes complete sense, It's a shame how many people still rely on manipulation and gimmicks to get girls. It's always better to be the best YOU instead of trying to be someone else. What gave you the push to finally go out and approach? :)
/r/seduction09/05/20 03:18 PM
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No, that's exactly what you need to be doing, and if they reject you twice then you need to stop wasting your time on them. Online dating is always like this so don't think too much about it and go for the next one. Also if you do start dating someone you always wait for them to bring up having a relationship.
/r/seduction26/03/20 12:55 PM
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Are you telling them you want to date them or getting to know them in a more intimate way? Are you clear in your intentions is what im asking.
/r/seduction26/03/20 12:45 PM
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It's either this or him being in his head too much, could also be a combination of both.
/r/seduction19/03/20 02:06 PM
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A fellow student of steve the dean i see, glad to see his wisdom being used here. There's too much nonsense on these subs.
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:24 PM
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You're overthinking it. most people don't even notice this unless you're acting weirdly anxious about it. Yes it can help but you shouldn't be relying on social media to get women. they can be effective if they know what they're doing.
/r/seduction14/03/20 09:54 PM
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Why does it matter to you what they think?
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:38 PM
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Ok, I see your point man. I'll give you this, in nightgame you shouldnt excuse yourself because it's a completely different vibe and girls even expect to be approached. But if we're talking daygame i feel like excusing yourself is not weird or bad at all. It's just a good way to grab someones attention whereas jumping straight to "you're cute" would lead to some girls not even bothering to respond and just keep walking or some shit.
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:46 AM
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disagree heavily on your first point, excusing yourself is never wrong, don't overthink it. It's just a way to politely interrupt someone elses day which you are in fact doing.
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:33 AM
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Lots of assumptions here and some of it would be right but some of it not, he definetly is anti pua as in using tricks and gimmicks to pick up women, he doesn't talk much about purpose but he does talk about being a man with laws and values etc. He does not seem to like AMS as they did have a pretty heated argument once which you can find on youtube. I find his approach to getting women very good though, very simple and to the point, stating your intentions etc, also his text game is fucking ama…
/r/seduction27/02/20 10:00 PM
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He doesn't do infields, he does have TONS of receipts on his website though.
/r/seduction27/02/20 08:33 PM
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Steve the dean williams is the only one you'll ever need.
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:48 PM
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Doesn't matter why, you shouldn't care and don't ask her. This is about you not her. Make a move and find out if she likes you, that's all you can do.
/r/seduction26/02/20 03:39 PM
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She seems really interested so why would you give up? atleast try and make a move or ask her on a date or something. It seems like you're expecting her to lead which is a big mistake.
/r/seduction26/02/20 03:27 PM
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Life is too short to not be getting your sexual needs fulfilled in a relationship. As you've already talked to him about this several times without success i need you to think very deeply if you can see yourself living this way for the rest of your life. If the answer is no then you know what needs to be done. Many times we overlook the simple truth of a situation because it's uncomfortable to face it. The not having sex along with the obvious trust issues in the relationship just does not seem …
/r/seduction16/02/20 09:39 AM
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That's interesting, I've lived in both Norway and Sweden and I'm curious why you think that?
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:20 AM
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Aside from the pseudo shit RSD talks about, what can actually help you become more grounded is meditation, specifically mindfulness. Sam Harris is someone who's helped me understand it a lot more and he also has guided meditations, shoot for something like 10 min a day as a beginner :)
/r/seduction15/01/20 12:06 PM
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this shit cracked me up lmao.
/r/seduction12/12/19 07:09 PM
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no.
/r/seduction02/11/19 10:30 AM
2

Girls flake all the time for various reasons, it's hard to know if you misread the situation or not but i think most likely not. What i think is most likely is that she was feeling it at one point but then her emotions changed quickly for some unknown reason (which probably isn't your fault). I would message her again just to be sure and if she doesn't respond this time just leave it.
/r/seduction13/10/19 04:18 PM
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We need more context to this, check the rules of the sub, this is for sure "overly broad"
/r/seduction09/08/19 08:06 PM
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I live for your comments lmao.
/r/seduction31/07/19 12:56 PM
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Lmao cmon, You don't remember? That is just an obvious excuse. Also there is no choice, if you want to get good you have to go through with the process.
/r/seduction29/07/19 11:59 AM
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Do exactly what you did before the relationship.
/r/seduction29/07/19 11:46 AM
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Truly man, and i can tell you're a bright guy as well. You'll figure it out.
/r/seduction28/07/19 07:40 PM
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I can definetly relate to the last part, women have come and gone for a while but my close friends have always been there, I guess because with the relationship label comes things like jealousy and unrealistic expectations for a lot of people. Anyways, i can see why you would want to remain friends, especially cause you see her everyday. The most important part for you is to not rush it, let the feelings fade naturally and give her the space you would any other friend :)
/r/seduction28/07/19 07:36 PM
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It's that simple my man! Don't get caught up on this woman, plenty more out there trust me.
/r/seduction28/07/19 07:22 PM
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Shes already rejected you and you're now asking why it's been a little quiet all of a sudden. First of all, you obviously still have feelings for her so for your own sake i think you need space for a while. I would go no contact and let her come to you if and when she feels like she wants to. Second of all, if a guy friend didn't contact you for a week, would you be this worried? This is completely normal for friends.
/r/seduction28/07/19 07:03 PM
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Give this man mod already.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:54 PM
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So "models - mark manson" It's not just about sex but it's about getting women through honesty and vulnerability. It's a well known book and a must read for most men imo. It might not be completely what you're asking for my man but it's close enough i think.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:44 PM
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Have you made a move? Seems like that's all you need to do at this point.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:42 PM
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Wait a few days, ask again to meet up and if she doesn't give you a yes, don't contact her again.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:36 PM
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It's not a bad move, just different. Some dating coaches actually recommend this. I think that it's even more necessary to build a decent connection first if you decide to give her your number.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:29 PM
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Upvoted because you are so damn right. We need more mods.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:21 PM
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Adding on to other commenters here, a nice watch goes a long way.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:20 PM
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Try meditation, avoid a lot of the places on the internet where you get into shit with other people. Whenever you start to feel angry tell yourself that it's useless and won't help you. I don't know what you're doing in your day to day life but you should be focused on bettering yourself everyday in some way. Go to the gym, approach women, work on your hobbies and goals. Occupy your time with positive things and people and you won't have time to be angry and resentful. Edit: If all else fails i …
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:15 PM
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And this is why subs like our gets a bad rep...
/r/seduction24/07/19 04:02 PM
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Coke and hookers
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:38 PM
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I agree, there's definetly an advantage.
/r/seduction22/07/19 06:14 PM
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Stop using the "truth" and "facts" when you really don't know more than anyone else here. You don't have it figured out. looks matter some of course, but how much is always gonna be different in each situation and anecdotal evidence isn't objective truth.
/r/seduction22/07/19 03:27 PM
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Sounds like you're an introvert, which means that socializing pretty much drains you of energy. I'm like this too and it's something you just gotta learn to push through sometimes. It does help to get lots of alone time too though.
/r/seduction21/07/19 01:59 PM
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It's about damn time we get someone to clean this place up, too many stupid posts asking the same shit every day. At this point I'm thinking there's way too few mods here. Edit: Also the incels man, they seriously need to be banned into another dimension.
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:00 PM
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Oh ffs, no shit, why do you feel the need to post this? it gets posted 10 times a day we already know. Obviously one should look their best that's common sense. where are the god damn mods?
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:46 PM
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I very rarely see people saying that girls don't care about looks.
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:57 PM
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Honestly you seem like you need to see a therapist man, this can't be answered by random guys on a seduction subreddit.
/r/seduction18/07/19 11:13 AM
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I don't really understand how you can say that men were taught to just be nice and that's how they got women back in the days. I don't think thats true. I think men back then actually were taught to be strong, stoich, and more "manly" rather than the toxic masculinity and feminism that is pushed on men today. They probably had way better role models as well. That's my take.
/r/seduction18/07/19 11:02 AM
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Well, I can already see the number one thing that is holding you back is your mindset. Ima keep it simple with you, if you continue on with the negative mindset, you will never change. If you actually try to change and to start lifting yourself up instead of putting yourself down you might get somewhere if you stick with it.
/r/seduction18/07/19 10:04 AM
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It's awkward because you havn't practised it, again, if you want to do it, go ahead but the success rate is going to be less than trying to connect more. That's all :)
/r/seduction17/07/19 12:28 PM
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In your case i would say no, because you're using it as an excuse to not go for longer conversations and connecting more with random people you meet. Also it's just more likely to fail rather than trying to get a better connection with them first.
/r/seduction17/07/19 09:59 AM
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This is not the right sub lmao, we're no doctors.
/r/seduction17/07/19 09:57 AM
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When your dick stops working or you die its too late, otherwise your good to go.
/r/seduction17/07/19 09:53 AM
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Seems like you havn't really been flirting with her in any type of way which makes this a lot harder for you. When you never set the man to woman frame they are more likely to reject you just because they see you more as "a friend" or something like that. Furthermore, why do you think you need an excuse to get a girls phone number? practice being direct and honest with your intentions. I recommend the book "Models" by Mark Manson. Last thing you should know, "he" and "him" are used for males, "S…
/r/seduction08/07/19 08:20 PM
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Models by Mark Manson is a book that every male should read imo.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:59 PM
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Man what kinda advice have you been getting to think that respecting someone is beta? Take a minute to think about how maybe she's just telling you how she feels in that moment and that there is no angle to it. Don't overanalyse this.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:43 PM
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Ask open ended questions, get her to talk about her passions and life stories, relate to her with your own stories. family and occupation can both be boring topics if you make them, but if you try to get to know her on a deeper level you need to ask questions such as "what made you choose this career? or lets say she's an immigrant you could ask "So how'd your family end up in this city?" Those are two open ended questions which can't be answered with a simple yes or no.
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:09 PM
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I've noticed a trend of blackpillers/leftists and generally illiterate people posting on this sub and its really fucking annoying to the point where its ruining the sub imo. Like there are people who literally just troll here and ive yet to see anyone of them get banned, what the fuck is going on lmao.
/r/seduction02/07/19 10:59 PM
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Cancel culture basically, they really have nothing better to do with their time so they dedicate themselves to try and smear the PUA community as much as possible. It's like, some of this was pretty bad, and you found it, good job, it doesn't matter because RSD has mostly had a positive impact on a lot of mens lives. Even if these people succeed in really digging up some crazy shit they will always be bitter, sad people with no actual life worth living. so again, good fucking job.
/r/seduction02/07/19 10:46 PM
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You are overthinking this way too much. Just approach more.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:53 AM
1

Well that makes sense, i was last on tinder 2 years ago and if the quality of girls is worse now i can't imagine a reason to ever go back to it.
/r/seduction27/06/19 03:47 PM
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You can't have it be pointless and a waste of time and still get laid of it regularly, its either one or the other lmao. The whole point of Tinder is to get laid isnt it?
/r/seduction27/06/19 03:23 PM
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Am i supposed to have the same tone in every comment lol? There is a clear difference in his post and yours. Listen man i really don't know you so I'm not gonna say much more, but definatly work on that anger, also kinda weird to casually link my other comment, you should pick up on that by yourself i hope.
/r/seduction25/06/19 05:15 PM
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Yes, even ugly girls have it easy getting guys but you need to realize they miss out on all the awesome benefits of improving themselves, like that alcoholic girl you were talking about, just because she has a boyfriend doesn't automatically make her life good, sounds to me like she's living a shit life tbh. It's all about perspective man. drop the fking bitterness.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:54 PM
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Ok, i understand you, i really do, but you need to drop the anger and bitterness shit right now. It is POINTLESS. Women have have an easier time getting men, that's life, deal with it. Also, you should never be acting like something you're not. You should be actively focusing on improving yourself and becoming someone who is attractive. When it comes naturally you won't have to act. You can embrace the reality of the situation or you can keep fighting it and live in anger. Good luck!
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:46 PM
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It's not about a "guy code", it's about being a decent person. It's so painfully obvious that you'll go for this girl because you have no other options. Anyways, don't be surprised when she starts talking to other guys behind your back too if you do decide to go for it.
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:53 PM
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Well to be fair, yes it is ballsy to approach women and go straight for the number, but there is less chance to get their number since you havnt established any type of connection with them. But hey, you do you.
/r/seduction12/05/19 03:08 PM
0

Jesus, that was brutal to watch. All the soyboys in the comments just in consensus of how creepy it is to randomly approach a woman. But hey, makes me happy in a way that I'm not like that.
/r/seduction11/05/19 10:46 AM
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Yep, especially if they smiled at you thats a clear sign that you should dance with them! Also, yes i believe this is very common in the club.
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:20 PM
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I would say don't rush it, you don't wanna end up as the rebound because many times that just ends up getting you hurt. as in many cases they're just using you to get over their ex. As for all these questions about why shes doing what shes doing, it's mindreading, we don't know for sure, maybe she was curious about you in that moment? womens attraction can change in an instant so it's not worth dwelling on, but her sending you one word responses indicates that she's less interested than before s…
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:45 PM
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Ok man, you seriously need to make your number 1 priority to block this girl out from your life completely. She is obviously very toxic and any contact with her will only set you back, change all passwords, block her number and block her on all social media. Also if you see her on campus, AVOID HER, realize that she's toxic and that you can't ever change her. When you've done that, make your life about YOU, start working on yourself, exercise, go to therapy, talk with your family and friends, an…
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:34 PM
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