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Can you give me a reading list of posts No. Unplug. Have real interactions with real people. Writing, or reading novel length stuff about things you can you can and should find out for yourself in reality is how you got here. If most of your friends suck - from this moment on, it's a personal problem you should solve. I'd just kick them to the curb and be alone until you can find better people to serround yourself with. Get the career. If that makes you masculine, be masculine then. Almost all r…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 04:00 AM
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The point is to get a life.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 02:29 PM
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Nearly all of the redpill is complete junk just forget about it interact with real people in the real world
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:59 PM
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What ever gives them the next paycheck. I suspect there's going to be a lot of election denialism and Hunter Biden conspiracies as we get closer to the 2024 US election. The red pill well is almost fully tapped.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 01:00 AM
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Figure it out in real life. There are no walkthrough guides for social interactions. Nobody I know who has had or is in a relationship got one through the red pill or reading stuff like How to how to make friends and influence people. People are also saying therapy - this is a personal thing. If you are going into therapy for an external goal like getting a girlfriend you should save your money and stay home.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 02:11 PM
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Uh what? Watching porn or having more "options" isn't considered cheating by most people.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 11:18 PM
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A few things: Red pill statistics and really their world view only really applies to dating apps. Bumble, Hinge, Tinder and other are 80% men and 20% women in most regions of the world. Assuming a 100% match rate and 100% monogamy and straightness that means that yeah, 75% of guys do get left out. In most countries in the world there are more women than men. Dating apps are an extremely artificial form of attraction. It's quite literally only a snapshot of someone's life. When all women have to …
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 10:16 PM
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Who cares about what Marxist have to say, they're just another form of extremists.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/23 03:37 PM
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They didn't get demonetized for being redpill, they got banned for being idiots. Pearly Things was going around asking minors if they are hotter than adult women and refused to take the videos down after a guardian or a older sibling asked her to. Fresh an Fit brought in convicted pedophiles, widely known white supremacists, banned creators and then made monkey noises and said they were going to lynch other black creators in the same week.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:55 PM
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The first mistake you are making is getting these people to make you think your sole value as a person only has to do with sex an relationships. What do you value yourself for? Maybe you shared some time off your mile/1600m run. Maybe you got promoted or got a better job. Or you may be really good at very weird an specific things but good nevertheless. Figure out your own life and what you want to do with it. Think in away as if you are the only person in the world but you also have infinite res…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:44 PM
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I am 24. I dont like music festivals, they're almost exclusively drugged out rich kids and i have sensory overload problems. I'd rather do the other activities. I am not looking to date right now. I am trying to secure a full time job first. This will likely require moving.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/23 06:05 PM
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I get what you are saying but it may just be a generation gap. From what I have observed from people my age and my time going to bars, talk with strangers rarely if ever goes beyond small talk or drunkard making out that won't be remembered. Even today for my happy hour lunch everyone in the bar just talked to their coworkers or date. Shooters will still shoot so I am not mad at your advice, I just don't think having a friend group in itself is way, way more useful for most men struggling to fin…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/23 12:07 AM
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I feel like this is more for people who are still in college or have friend groups that still go out on town. Having a friend group in general is still a good idea though
/r/ExRedPill17/11/23 08:54 PM
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Almost all of their audience is so down bad or are actual kids and won't even be in a position to worry about a relationship anytime soon. Like anyone I know who has a vaguely healthy life thought they were cornballs.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 01:57 AM
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You need to take a break from social media including youtube and Reddit for a very long time. I am talking around 6 months. Your brain has been rotted out by very dumb content on the internet and you need to break from it and see what reality is like. Before you go, make sure yo turn off recommendations and unsub to any sort of relation advice channel or red pill stuff. Meet real people and real couples.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 02:25 PM
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Red pill is a clown world. That sort of content appeals to people who don't get outside and don't understand social nuance, no offense to yourself.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 02:34 PM
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Its still a trend that mostly exists online. I dont even go outside much if at all recently and once i log off the manosphere basically vanishes.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 09:08 AM
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You don't. Other's people's prejudice is not your obligation to dispel.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 01:39 AM
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Yeah nah. If you are constantly running into toxic men, or women, or theys, that's a personal problem. It's not anyone personal fault that shitty people happen, but it is up to them to make better chose. Online dating platforms or being like an oil worker are one of the real exceptions to that.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 01:36 AM
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That honestly sounds pretty sad. It seems that social media and our ability to substitute real life interaction with it has robbed everyone of the skills and opportunities to meet another and find a partner.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 12:40 AM
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The nicest and quickest way I can put this that you need to lay off the doomscrolling if you think this is consequential. Is it a shame? Sure. It's just one of the thousands of dumb goings on on the internet though.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 05:49 AM
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It's not that deep. It's two scammers shit talking for a promotion match. It's going to be immature and petty.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 04:06 AM
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Men's fitness culture now especially in the US now pretty much completely garbage. It's just exclusively physique and weightlifting combined with astrology for men topic like this whole nu-islam/spiritualism , no fap, alpha/sigma male and other rambles. A perfect embodiment of what I am talking about is Hamza. Dude just comes of as a sterlize nervous wreck that completely lives his life via check boxes and has nothing to show for it but a legion of 14 year old fanboys. Topics you will seldom if …
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 09:33 PM
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Red pill gurus access to women and relationships near exclusively from clout sharking, dating apps, sugar babying, and clubs. It's not really shocking given such extremely low context interactions that they looks and money as the being the only things that matter. That's basically it. Isn't really much else to it.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 07:58 PM
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Not only is it not other people's responsibility to break into the pipeline and start pulling men out of it, but also doing so doesn't work. I don't disagree, I simply am saying that people need to stop sating they are doing anything helpful when they are not. Not helping is fine, those who don't want to ought tog et out of the ways of those who want to. Because the switch is the "listen to people" switch, and listening to people is step 0 in deradicalization. Not even the first step, literally …
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 03:03 PM
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This really comes more off as lack of wider social awareness than it is really an wide spread accomplishment on the part of women. Feeling of respectfulness and if going there personalhood is up to the receiver of whatever given social behavior. I am partially deaf at 24 and I miss conversation details all the time and people constantly, quite abruptly call me out as a poor listener, and often from women as a chauvinist who just waits to speak rather than trying to listen. This is pretty hurtful…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 01:10 PM
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If you're looking for a cure-all solution, that's not what this is even meant to provide. Not at all. I am just asking people to think a little bit and think of the hows and why women could feel dehumanized why men could be doing this behavior before giving out blurting out out stuff that just only just riles people up. Do you people seriously think most men or people who may belittle or alienate women re just going to have a massive epiphany with this advice? Aare misogyny and sexual harassment…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 12:56 PM
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I don't, also not sure what this has to do with anything other than to insult.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 12:18 PM
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If anything, it's elementary advice, Yes, in the same vein of just telling homeless people to get a lease or buy a home. It completely skips over all and any part(s) of a problem that people actually struggle with in what comes off as flippant and smug. It's useless and just better not said because it gives way too many people a completely unearned sense of helpfulness. but this comment section proves people need reminders on even the elementary. This type of language helpful as it makes nearly …
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 04:25 AM
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I'm not really sure what the point of this comment or even the OP is to be honest. Who people are to you are changes how you interact with them. Could be a potential romantic interest, could be a boss. Just treat everyone has human is horrible advice even outside of a romantic relationship.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 03:53 AM
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Yes everyone are humans. Would you view your boss, parents, friend, sibling, or as just humans or do you interact with them in much different ways? If the answer is no, you're weird. There's things to be said about not treating women as walking flehslings, but advice such as "just be yourself" or "just treat them as human" is worse than useless, its useless and trivializing.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 01:47 AM
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These guys make the courses from these ideas vs actually doing it which is the real insidious part. These guys investment into their personality compared to a college degree or even a "real" business is extremely low. A quality tailored suit is $1k. A blue yeti mic is $200, a second hand DLSR is $500, halo rights and LED panels are also only a few hundred. Luxury cars, yachts, huge crypto wallets and NFTS can be rented. Their audience is already primped to be extremely unintelligent about financ…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 01:31 AM
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They're basically just promoting get rich schemes. A lot of the red pill audience are kids or down bad young men looking for shortcuts. The first shortcut is buying the rational male or hustlers university to get women and become a G, maybe the top G. Then you need to buy all of these crpyto and drop shipping courses to really grow your money. All of these guys just pretend to be ballers long enough to actually become rich, then they just use that wealth to legitimize their schemes.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 01:10 AM
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Maybe? If you're buying sex dolls, fapping 1000x a day to weird shit and creeping on women and girls then yes its a problem. As a whole the bigger problem is that both women and men are having significantly sex than before. Itemacy has become a lot harder to come by for everyone.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 12:03 AM
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And a lot of women are also watching porn. Pressing X to doubt here. I"m not saying its doesn't happen but women vastly prefer erotica to adult videos.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/23 11:04 PM
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Hopefully in the unemployment line soon.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 10:13 PM
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Teenaged boys: They're still kids. Of course the idea of becoming a millionaire free from rules with access to tons of hot women sounds cool, and these guys say you just have to do drops hopping, crypto, network, and hit the gym. All of the fuck school, establishment messages really speaks to 13 Kyle that doesn't want to do their trig homework. School and society is failing to mentally and socially engage young boys. ~13 years of shut up learn doesn't really light up with boys' developmental nee…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:22 PM
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I don't deny that men aren't doing well in some or a lot of areas, but their main target is just the terminally online young guys or bitter divorcees. Most of their stuff can only really latch onto guys who barely socialize in real life and have no to little dating experience.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 02:46 PM
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People should live how they feel like they need to. That's it. It's not that deep.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 02:43 PM
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Most influences, youtubers and "content creators" are clueless when it comes to really running a business and being an entrepreneur. YouTube, podcasting, etc are low investment industries that while hard to be seed at, have basically zero up front cost, required cooling, capital, or funding. It's why everyone does it. Getting a used DSLR and a few mikes and halo lights and firing up OBS is extremely easy... compared to me studding engineering for 5 years at a personal cost of $40k.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 07:13 AM
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Like 95% of podcasts especially with the pandemic and the fresh and fit copy cats are just mental junk food.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 07:06 AM
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Pretty much. I don't get how people don't find the doublespeak of the manosphere tiring.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 04:30 PM
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It's pretty sad how similar online dating is to getting your first decently paying job or after university. It's just apply, lie, apply some more, lie some more, you get matched then you fucking hate the "match".
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 12:44 AM
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Pick a time Sure, but we would be complete strangers. It would be better to ask hey, can you do 9pm on thruway bla bla than to demand it, since I know know if she's works or that's the day to herself. When a man fails to plan, it is a turn off. In the words of Adre 3000, you can plan a pretty picnic but can't predict the weather lol I tend to be a bit more traditional, though. Maybe, my parents average out to 55 and they just met clubbing and tarted to hang out lol. Could also be an age thing. I…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 12:32 AM
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You seem to have mentioned guys who fail to plan I don't really see how this is a problem?
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 10:14 PM
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What really needs to be planned for a first encounter which is all dating apps are good for anyway? The rest I don't really disagree with you.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 07:30 PM
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Society
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 09:26 PM
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some crumbs of box please fair lady, i've turned in your quest
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 09:20 PM
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This might be a didn't ask, didn't want to know situation but, a lot king and swinger scenes are weird as fuck and weird out even a lot of more sexually open couples.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 08:58 PM
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Yeah, and it doesn't help that a lot of gurus know a lot of these guys are stemlords and/or gamer so they make everything come of ass "hard cold facts" or with advice, like a walkthrough that guarantees you a GF if you just grind your player character enough.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 08:42 PM
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Here's my observation of the type of men who are getting sucked into red pills, either as followers or gurus: Clueless and uninspired but also naive: Quite a lot of young men don't know their purpose in life... which is honestly fine. Instead of just setting out on their own to find new hobbies, interests, friends, and communities a lot of guys turn to gurus who basically grown them to be ubermench for wars that don't exist. Society is collapsing, there's a crisis of weak man, so you need to get…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 08:33 PM
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Meh who cares. He's just another "alpha male" navel gazer with little genuine personality or charisma.Any good advice he has is coincidence. He's just another terminally lonely gritting guru who goes around plucking money from 13 years olds.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 07:16 PM
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Try to spend less time online
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:43 PM
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seems like podcast bro #89024 but more cleaned up
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 04:18 PM
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Even the expectation of being the single income earner for the family /relationship is goofy as fuck now. These guys keep going on and on about "cook and clean" thinking its still the 50s when reality it makes the come off as dusty as fuck, and wanting someone to mother them.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 08:48 PM
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just just getting turned down and being a loser about it if its a no for anything or they don't know, i just move on, i don't have the patieince for that stuff
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 07:58 PM
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its cool i get confused as well
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:46 PM
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Being outgoing (enough), fun to hang out with, similar hobbies, similar personalities, good banter/flirting/funny, and not being ugly as sin. This is a crass example but if being nice was enough to get a date, then downs individuals would be the "gigachads" of dating. Being nice only starts mattering once you get a date... which is where a lot of men aren't event reaching that that level of engagement from women. Even on the first date, its is only really just about not openly being rude and a b…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:33 PM
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Women are mostly explaining what they want in partners that are already at the commuted or long term stage. This is fine, but this is speaking past most men who are struggling to meet women to begin with. When first dating someone, you aren't living together, and you really, really don't know them that well. You're just trying to have fun, enjoy their company first, rather than thinking about if they do their share of the dishes. Having the qualities of a great long term commuted partner is grea…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:20 PM
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Being nice and honest isn't attractive on its on, hence the nice guy phenomenon. You can get a date while being emotionally vulnerable after you reach emotional maturity, is what I believe. Sure you can date while being all of that, but it won't be the reason why you are getting dates as a man.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:03 PM
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We're too stupid to understand our own hearts, desires, and needs. We're too much of a slut even in our evil little minds... This isn't really excuslive to women, mes, or theys. A lot of people have no clue what they really want. The vast majority of successful and good relationships are things that just happen, not from everyone coming up with all of these lists of either "cook and clean" or "ambitious and masculine", etc, or all of these meta conversation about "gender relationships" in genera…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 04:50 PM
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Most dating apps are 20% women and 80% men. That's all you need to know in regards to people trying to derive society wide meaning from them.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 06:20 AM
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I uh what What "government", there's like 180 countries in the world
/r/ExRedPill10/04/23 01:51 AM
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haven't really seen it but i am very much in that fuck it we ball demographics
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 04:39 AM
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I haven't really heard of people getting stuff to eat during a "night out" other than just Waffle House, McDonald, etc aftewards If it's like brunch... meh I've been a to a lot either with friend groups, or just being the being one guy on the "inside and once you've been to one you've been to them all. If you haven't been able to tell ready I am from the southeastern US so IDK about anywhere else.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 04:26 AM
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Nope. Dating isn't a RPG where you just level up your charisma and strength stats, grind for gold then you slay the dragon get the woman etc...
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 10:16 PM
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Having sex while drunk is a lot more frowned on than it was even 10 years ago.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 04:30 PM
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Not really. Every demographic group is having significantly less casual sex compared to decades before.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 04:28 PM
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People have the standards but I don't see how its helping anyone
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 09:40 PM
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I've never cared what peoples idea partners are. Dating isn't Build a man or build a woman. I will never meet all of those standards simultaneously, so I never even try to begin with. Dating while obsessed according to statisticians is goofy. The process not like you are an ATS machine trying to scan for the best resumes, you're trying to meet an actual human being who is actually unique. People need to be way more in the moment with this stuff and ease up.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 09:30 PM
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I get that and what I meant about the Zeus and 6 figures thing is moreso that the hard work and discipline it takes to achieve those is far better and more rewarding than turning to booze, drugs, porn, etc. Ambitious people have a fuck ton of vices. Executives are the main people buying the services of escorts, doing cocaine, etc. Most new college heavily drink drinks heavily.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 09:18 PM
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Being built like Zeus Literal myth. making 6 figs is the overall goal simply because the work it takes to get there is much more rewarding and requires a lot of discipline than doing the opposite Both of your examples are terrible. Most holiwood actors are using PEDs including anabolics steroids to get "shredded". While being obese with a 20+% of body weight as fat sucks, being at like 7% and shredded from starving yourself eating nothing but protein is also miserable. You're consonantly hungry,…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 09:15 PM
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Weak for what purpose? So many redpillers this, and plant seeds of doubts in doubt over nothing specific. They are justing using fear, without you even knowing what you are afraid about to sell you bullshit, wether if that bullshit is watchtime, alpha male coruses, or affiliate links. Think before doing and think before reacting to a feeling. Do this and you will avoid all this cringe shit that men need to be back like the good old days of Spartan warriors when the average life span was like 30.…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 06:15 PM
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Lack of muscles unless you are wheelchair bound isn't there reason you aren't having success with women. Getting into one isn't going to solve all or any of your problems either. You should be going to the gym because of something you want to do in particular. For me, I want to get in 5k - 15, eventually marathon and triathlon shape. Wanting to maintain healthy BMI or just maingain are also good goals / programs.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 04:56 PM
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It depends on your situation. Most young people the only really "manly chore" there is basically just taking out the trash. Most of us are renters so the landlord takes care of repair and lawn maintenance. Even most home owners are just paying people to change oil and cut grass as well. For most young people, chores are about picking up for yourself and not being a slob.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 06:03 AM
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This is what you need to be thinking about, the rest is basically noise. Are you domestically useful? One of the most common aggravating factor to divorce is that women are still doing most of the chores such as cleaning, cooking, etc despite working as much as their partners. Is she done with her education? Going of to college, grad school, law school, med school etc are pretty much synonymous with beak ups. You can also put enlisting into a military with this.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 05:30 AM
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I'm 23 rip I just remeber 2008 being severe.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 03:52 AM
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The study was poor sampled. Gay and bisexual men were over represented. We know that nearly every person who belong in the LGBTQ family of identities tend to be in relationships less often than straight people.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 04:08 PM
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And the 20s suck lmaoooo broke over worked stressed and anxious about the future. I don’t miss that. Life really begins after 40. :/ It's comforting to know that I am not alone but rip... I still just feel stuck where I am in life right now. Did you leave high school or college 2008-2012 by chance?
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 04:06 AM
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how is it I can’t hookup with girls but other guys can? Are you in college? Join a fraternity. If you aren't in college, then it really isn't happening that much. The vast majority of women have no interest in casual encounters. This could be for a little things like the orgasm gap, stranger danger, who knows. It's just rare in general.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 03:12 AM
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I promise not every woman is into hookup culture. Most men and women aren't. We are actually having the least casual sex than any other moment in recorded history.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 08:37 PM
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Make sense. To give context I was dating a lot of other seniors and grad students as that is pretty much my age group and then location... A lot of times talking about the futures just turned into career / lifestyle wishlist's... Pretty award stuff. To make it worse my college has more students from the 1% than the bottom half of Americans so just hearing my dates list off like damn near perfect guy like a Courney Ryan video has been awkward as fuck. I am going to try to do more activity dates f…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 08:34 PM
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It usually tells me a lot. Some answers will tell me we are very different people, have different values or outlooks on life. There are just better ways to find this out. Go on a few more dates, talk about hobbies, and just see what they do. I am in the moment person. On the first few dates I am just trying to have fun and through that I will see if you are even worth keeping company with in any capacity for me. I hate dates that feel like an interview to become a husband.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 08:09 PM
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Asking what people like is fine. Actions still do whoever speak louder than words. When it comes to asking for what someones ideal partner is, its just pointless. You'll never live up to that ideal. As people talk more and more into the subject they just work themselves more and more into some really dumb dating standards and remain single. It's also taking out out of the Monet. Instead of asking your date about people who quite literally don't exist, just ask or find out more about them. ike ho…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 07:59 PM
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Often asking women about what they want is in a relationship is a waste of time. One. Asking women what they want is often a waste of time. Often people ask women what their dream man would be like and they will just get a wish list because you asked their ideal boyfriend. Bro, you are asking for a dream, she's not going to say yeah, Jeff at IT will do. Its very similar to asking red pilled guys and other corny types of guys what they'd want in their girlfriend. It will basically be a free maid,…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 03:55 AM
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Apparently the new thing is to convert to Islam
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 10:57 PM
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therefore we got married. Teachers who are married can work together. Doctors who are married can work together. That does not change the fact that many of these doctors did not actively seek a doctor wife. Yes, most people who actually end up in relationships let alone healthy ones are not actively seeking out types of people. They run into people they get along with and find interesting and things go from there. We spend most of our time out out the emo at work, so unless you are in a assuage …
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 01:12 AM
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Even with Tinder and shit people still mostly date who is around them and who is like them.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 03:14 AM
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It depends in the circles you find yourself within. If you are in college or just fresh out, its pretty brutal for men. Wealthy women make up the plurality of college students and the lifestyle that their parents have afforded feels completely normal to them and comes with the expectations for a partner who can provide or reach that level. They've never been around truly average people and likely wont as college grads are increasingly concentrating the the same rapidly growing trendy southern ci…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 03:08 AM
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An 8th grade education means they are barely functionally literate. Imagine she as bought a universal TV promote and she can't understand the instructions at all and she has to call you or get your attention to read basically baby feed it to her.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 02:51 AM
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Get one if you feel unsure?
/r/ExRedPill26/02/23 05:13 PM
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Idk man I watch both and I don’t hear them saying that shit. Maybe not all of them but it's basically the script of Sneako and Andrew Tate. They might say it in a joking manner for entertainment but their overall message is literally to just not waste ur potential. They basically just tell guys that ther potential is getting as much money, money, and abbs as possible without encourage any thought about what their views actually want in their life. They say this is your Masculine Imperative or so…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 03:44 PM
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Eh... I wouldn't bother if I was OP. Nothing against them. A few reasons: Young single men don't really get many opportunities to play or get involved in BSDM and kink communities. If you're young you're basically already going to need to already partnered to partcipate and it's going to be with a woman. There's a lot of stigma and an "ick" factor to bi and gay men in many BSDM communities. This leads me to ny next point... These committees are an unironical real life actual black pill. More so …
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 06:19 PM
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Motivations can always change. Getting out of the house in general even if the initial motives aren't the best isn't really horrible.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 06:06 PM
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It depends. If you're young, a lot of your peers really just aren't about shit yet. I learned this very quickly when a lot of my "friends" couldn't provide an inkling of validation and support after I had a stroke very young at 21. They just wanted to keep shitposting, being edgelords and shame people out of having any sort of personal boundaries. When it comes to family and parents they just unfortunately not considering you to be grown adult and are still see you as a child. When it comes to a…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 06:03 PM
11

Parents, teachers and the actual mentor figures that people don't clam don't exist are very aware of who Andrew and Tristian tate are, at least anyone who deals with preteens in the US and UK... Which to be honest is almost entirely of where the redpill nonsense is circling around. The problem isn't there that boys have been completely abandoned to grow up without dads or guidance figures or anything. The problem is that you have theys guys essentially telling guys they have the cheat code in li…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 05:51 PM
3

The vast majority of online spaces where women, men, or its, spend most of their free time trying to "scientifically" analyze and compartmentalize everything about relationships, and "female nature" are mind meltingly dumb, and I find it boring as fuck. Why can't peoiple just focue on just maintain relationships (friends, family, coworkers) in real life, and finding love in real life than come on reedit or dude bro podcast #5832 and just talk about it in circles over over.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 05:32 PM
19

Move out if you can. Draw the line with your family that these comments will not be tolerated and continuing to make them means you're cutting contact.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 04:46 PM
4

Probably not. It seems like you need to occupy your time with more fulfilling things. It is best to go into dating and relationships not in the mindset that you need one to complete you but it's a nice addition to your that would be nice to have but you're still happy to keep doing what you are doing for yourself as you wait for that special someone.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 01:09 AM
4

The problem with the gym doesn't have to do with genetics its that women don't really care that much about being built and/or shredded. Its nice but... go to the gym for yourself and your own internal goals, trust me on this. Not only are looks fleeting and getting these Hollywood bodies is often a long, unsustainable and unfufilling process. As long as you aren't obese and generally look like you keep up with yourself and care about your appearance somewhat you have basically met the look requi…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 04:35 AM
10

He also comes off like someone has very limited to no real friendships in real life. A lot of these alpha male gurus, red/black pillers, MIGTOW, hustllers, guys are miserable people to be around. If you basically aren't min maxing your life around physical strength, testoerone, clout, obtaining women, and not even being a leater but a shitty, dictoral one then you're basically a jeffrey, blue pill, a beta, a NPC, what whatever is the latest cool kid way to say loser. Meanwhile these guys offer n…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 11:31 PM
6

Sorry. I should have read more. Usually when people have posts like this its already very much heading to the break up as the poster is already tired of there BF/GF/whatever just getting sucked into this world and refusing to listen. For you just tell him that he was fine as he is, you got with him for how he was when you met and not trying trying to be one of these "alpha males" one of which is a sex traffic and the other Hamza doesn't very few actual friends and can't hold down girlfriend for …
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 11:13 PM
4

It's easier to change your surroundings than the behavior, attitudes and beliefs of those surroundings. If most of the women you are encountering are having unreasonable standers its better to just mover on and surround yourselves with different people than to dwell on it.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 11:09 PM
10

Tell him to stop consuming the goofball shit on you tube or you're walking. If he feels like he is doing something wrong he needs to talk to you, not consult gurus on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 09:05 PM
1

You have to change the women you are associating with then
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 09:00 PM
5

Take an extended break from the internet and live in the moment.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 07:46 PM
1

Because life inst a JRPG my guy.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 07:45 PM
5

A lot of his advice is very goofy while trying to convince you that there's something wrong with you so you follow it.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 06:44 PM
2

This doesn't really work if you're black or Hispanic, as a lot of people in those communities are pretty racist or act like they only know about us from reading national geography.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 06:43 PM
5

You know how lockers in high schools had dicks, 420 , 69, swastikas, shit stains, srandom scratches, maybe a bit of gang graffiti on the walls? That's how its like using tinder as a woman.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 02:25 AM
6

The alleged victims all publicly stated that they weren’t trafficked by him. It's not testimony under oath and in most countries the will and the opinions of the alleged victims don't make an imapct on pursuance of charges for sex crimes. Romania is just a corrupted country who can put innocent people in jail Innocent people go to jail all the time in free and prosperous countries. Pre trial detention for suspects that are deemed a flight risk isn't rare. Arguably Romania isn't following the pri…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 02:23 AM
7

When it comes to red pill topics and evolution most of it is pseudoscience at best
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 05:21 PM
1

Stop trying to be things to people unless you need it for a job. Too many guys are putting nearly all of their self worth and free time into getting into a relationship. This is needy. These guys just need to find better ways to occupy their time.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 02:55 PM
7

The over analytical view of relationships that redpilelrs push is one of the biggest biggest reasons why its keeping a lot of guys single. People don't want to date or be around people with chips on their shoulders are so lost and worried about the "facts" that they aren't being being present and are boring to talk to. Also, dating isn't like applying for work my friend. Most people who are dating successfully aren't aren't looking at it as a volume problem.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 02:53 PM
4

Don't know don't care. Just live in the moment OP.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 10:42 PM
5

The Red pill is extremely americentric so with anything with it the answer to your first question always yes.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 02:52 PM
1

174cm isn't short, my best suggestion to you is to not use dating apps if you are already. I would see if you could try to meet women in contests that you will already be somewhat familiar with them already.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 03:04 AM
1

I'd rather just spend my tine doing interesting things around hopefully interesting people than set dress and still end up being another rectangle of probably a hundred other guys that also liked her profile. And I'm actually a guy who takes my appearance seriously, I am also just a very private person and I don't do pictures of myself other than meetings, conferences, professional head shots and such. I do interesting things, I just don't take pictures of it. I mountain bike and it's hard to ge…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:53 PM
1

There's not enough (active) women on the apps for everyone to get a like. Even if there were, there are so many guys who wipe right on so literally all profiles that it's just not reasonable to expect women to just sit there and try to hold a conversation with everyone. I don't put much effort in my profile, there's no incentive to. Tinder is more or less roulette.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:42 PM
4

It's not a be more "manly" or "high value" than le brad competition, its trying to stand out from the flood of likes that women get on these apps and the fact that the apps actively make it hard for you to match with people that you're more likely to actually go steady with. It's a lot like trying to get hired at a really prestigious company or something. The sheer volume companies receives often means the best pay to play is not to.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:37 PM
2

for me getting matches or dates wasn't the problem it was having interesting dates. so many felt like interviews
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 06:02 PM
3

Dating apps are awful for dating. They are also awful for women. Women only making as little as 15% of users in some areas isn't an accident.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 04:08 PM
3

While I appreciate this post was made in good faith you're kind of naive about how apps like Bimble, Tinder and other Match Group apps work, which is fine but this post comes off as twisting a knife a bit, at least to me. Even though I don't really personally struggle on these apps, I have in the past and I know how it fells. Firstly, you're treating it like a competition, and you're basing that competition on this idea that all women are looking for this one specific idea of what a good man is …
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 04:06 PM
4

the idea that most women are just having a ton of casual sex but only with the "chads" basically from 18-30.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 08:28 PM
11

it's none of my concern what they do
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 04:32 AM
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I don't think he is, but I also don't have don't like to consume content that I don't like so... I don't think its woman hating but its annoying how he repeats the whole "modern woman" nerrative when women are have historically the least amount of sex partners in their life than any time in recorded history so yeah it gets annoying when he shits on people who don't exists and builds up cope narratives over things that aren't happening.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 02:52 AM
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Purpose to protect Then guys are going to need to move out of the hood or stop playing James bond movies in their head. and provide. Vast majority of dudes who.... have the wealth to be on reedit are going to be in more or less 50/50 relationships where their partner is also working. testosterone Then they should go to their physician and then maybe an endocrinologist. and watch how this hormone influences your body mentally and physically Most red pillers are even missing a fresman's / high sch…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 02:42 AM
8

Purpose to do what exactly? What is the utility sitting around just talking about life when red pillers should instead just.. actually get one and live one?
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 02:09 AM
14

Not as shit as Fresh and Fit but as that's a very low bar to clear. Skip his content before yoiu become yet another self entitled gymbro. My problems with Hamza: His fitness advice isn't that good. The principles of fitness. Nearly everything to do with mass comes from diet and net calories. Keep increasing your load over time to keep getting stronger. You can't gain muscle without also gaining body fat. If you want stuff beyond that, go to someone who is actually pro or good at training. Hamza …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 01:28 AM
2

the content was getting stupider and I got a life.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 05:24 PM
4

My problem is that it's dumb. there's no set of ninjutsu to get panties to drop or get a GF or anything. The more of these contrivances you consume needing "alpha" "dominant" etc the goofier you look and the les like you are to get either. Want a GF or get laid? These people need to get a life far far far more than these three this garbage tier advice. Red pill is as far from a science you can get. It's hardcore cope working backwards to justify people's loser behaviors and tatus. Most of the st…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 05:03 PM
3

Personally no. Keeping up with one partner, my studies, work, and friends was already too hard with my last relationship that was heading anywhere.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 12:34 AM
22

A lot of RP guys are massive nice guys. Men in these scenarios are always presented as just honest hard working guys whos only flaw is not being tall enough or making enough. They want to make it feel that if you are just a "decent" guy, you are owed a relationship. In adition, being a decent guy doesn't mean you are getting plot armor against rejection or cheating. Shit that sucks happens for various reasons that have nothing to do with you as a person. Hypergamy horsehsit as RP describes it. ~…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 03:15 AM
7

Ease up man. This is curmudgeon thinking.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 09:41 PM
2

Youtube commenters are just so self righteous its annoying even thought I don't necessarily agree with the bans. Your present in the world won't be wanted everywhere, it is what it is.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:58 PM
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They are trying to sell you the idea that women are just walking fleshlights, stageprops or maids. It sounds cool guys who have never been in anything long term or had a really bad split with one. A lot of these guys literally have never been in a long term relationship (Myron/Fit) or are just gfrifting. Rollo Tommassi has a late-20s daughter who is single and a career woman but doesn't really have much to say her about it. These people are terrible with making and maintain friends of any gender…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:48 PM
-1

Yeah, twice. At the time I was more concerned with my club projects.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 04:47 AM
0

Yeah its easy to get stuck up in a friend or fuck zone with that approach... I just wish I actually just hang out more with the women my friends were clearly trying to set me up with. Oh well.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 04:07 AM
0

For me my friends that are like this usually just end up in a relationship from "hanging out", friendcest, or groupcest, etc. I am am/was a serial dater (it wouldn't be that hard for me to have at least one a week) but only around two of my dates really went anywhere the whole time I I was in college. It's kind of like my job search right now... ha.... Stuff like just be yourself, go where you are wanted, it will work itself out is incredibly corny but honestly i've work out in person with my ow…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 02:58 AM
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Like, the most effective way to leave all of this behind even if it gives you severe whiplash? Quit using the internet beyond work and other responsibilities and maybe streaming shows for a month or two.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 01:41 AM
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The same reason why the teenagers and younger men fall for it. Being older doesn't necessarily mean you are better adjusted with socializing and courtship. There's quite the group of men on the internet who never dated, developed social hobbies (sports, game nights, etc) or really have developed beyond being a shut in. There is however the added factor of heartbreak and/or divorce.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 01:39 AM
2

Keep in mind that most people look incredibly dumb when they are asked what they want for in a partner. For women and men it often becomes a wishlist's that few people can actually meet. Successful daters don't walk around with checklists and spend time over their own desires and what they think other people want. They live in the moment at just try have some fun and live a bit.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 08:01 PM
6

Midly irritated but not relaly a big deal IMO. I think Aba is misisng that people are laughing at JP not because he is trying to help young men but because he is a condecending douche but cries at practically everything now. He's a cry bully. He wants to be able to say unprovided some random model isn't pretty on twitter but people can't call him an incel king. Dude, come on now.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 03:50 PM
2

The short and curt answer is that you're spending way too much time online and you're spending that time online consuming junk food tier pop psychology that is severely severing your connections to the immediate world that resounds you. Stop worrying about how tall you are or how big your muscles are. Be comfortable in your on skin because that will get you much rafter than you will just impressing sallow people. How easier women, taller people, buffer people have you isn't any of your concern, …
/r/ExRedPill24/09/22 02:30 AM
2

Get off tinder is the short answer
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 05:46 PM
1

Not to be crass, but are these women that are in a relationship or even have a history of one?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 05:09 PM
6

Venus Williams did/does get a lot of shit for being single most of her life, unwed and childless. People are so nosy with how women choose to spend her time.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 02:14 AM
3

Just go out and be present. Talk and meat people. That's it. Forget all this red pill, black pill, sigma male, high value this, 80/20 this, it's all an obsession from people who are horrible daters.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 03:55 PM
1

No. Most Americans do not have a college degree, let alone attempt college.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 04:25 AM
3

The whole analogy unfortunately shows how much dating apps have propagated. Its pretty sad :/
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 03:07 AM
1

Don't know, don't really care. You're not dating all of society at once. You are just trying to find one person to spend time with or maybe 3 people if you are poly.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 07:26 PM
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It's probably some of the worse advice that the red pill gives out. Firstly, life is not an RPG. There are no game guides, no set route to do a character build to get some guaranteed result such as beating a dungeon or a boss fight. Just like actual RPGs such as runescape or WoW, if you become so obsessed with just "leveling up" or "grinding" that to everyone else you start coming off as a weirdo. Money is not a guarantee of romantic success, seeking it out so much actually is hustling backwards…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 08:28 PM
13

The concept of a "Beta male" is contrived so stop caring about it
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 09:21 PM
2

I get what you are saying but it's possible for 80% of a sample to fall below a mean via a skewed distribution. It's impossible for 80% of men to be below the median of attraction though.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 03:31 PM
6

How is this "80/20" rule true? When it comes to marriage, 53% of all adults are married in the US (which is nearly exclusively where red pill nratives come from) and a further ~60% of all men aged 15 and up in the us have biological children.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 03:29 PM
6

Most people end up dating coworkers, or friends of friends or just friends. "Cold approach" is an extremely inefficient way to find a partner and even PUA guys will tell you that much. While its unreasonable to expect anything approaching 100% success rate when it comes to dating and approaching, the amount of cold approaching that PUA and red pill guys suggest is a massive hustle backwards because of the amount you have to do it to get any success. It makes you desperate or your whole personali…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 03:26 PM
4

I agree. A big part of the problem is that people are spending too much time on the itnernet. It's a cleched answer but social media such as reddit, youtube recommendations, and such is designed to feed you addicting and afirming content even if it is self destructive, untrue, or just waiting your time. If you spend more than an hour or two consuming red pill content you are really hustling backwards when it comes to relatiosnhips, as shown by all of the women here posting how they have to break…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 03:22 PM
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All at the same time giving you the impression that casual sex and hook ups and women are all out of control and that the nuclear family is dying when the reality is that... The amount of casual sex is at record lows ever since records of it was tracked with any sort of real accuracy. Also, divorce races are decreasing.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 03:18 PM
2

Services such as OkCupid are are just like or even worse than just applying to jobs online because at least those people can't discriminate against your physical appearance.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 03:10 PM
2

What are the contexts of these encounters. Is at work, at the gym or is it just passing glances at a grocery store? If it's at work or somewhere more personal and you general at least have the same mission or know people more than just a complete stranger, that's tough man. Honestly, friendcest / friends matchmaking you is the best and usual way of meeting women.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 03:05 PM
1

love marriages have higher divorce rates because people don't think they should have to work at anything They also overwhelmingly take place in countries where no fault diverse basically doesn't exist and is an extreme social taboo. love marriages have higher divorce rates because people don't think they should have to work at anything This is ridiculous. People are willing to work through things, people are just now able walk away when things become too much or when boundaries are crossed. Back…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 03:40 PM
11

In a perfect world men and women would be chaste until marriage. Ohhh bruh that's cringe. There's few stupider decisions you can make than entering an expensive, legally binding contract with someone before you know you have any physical chemistry or compatibility. Dead or uninteresting bed rooms are up if not the number one on reason why marriages fall apart.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 11:33 PM
2

Both of those videos together are over three hour long. That's already losing 99% of people.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 05:04 PM
5

Let's tap those brakes a bit. Oftentimes when it comes to sexuality there is no off switch for women. They can be seen as being a tease, suggestive or just sexualized in far more contexts than us. For example in most places you can't really be topless as a woman. This also gets annoying when you are just trying to do literally anything, such pumping gas, working, or working your dog, or just trying to get to your car or home without being approached or assaulted by some stranger. I do feel like …
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 04:01 AM
1

Huh? I'm not talking about reuploaders. You can get a contentid trike for even just having a few seconds of someone else's video in yours.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 10:40 PM
1

A lot of people scrap their premier or davcinvi projects a few weeks after they are done editing them because they take up a lot of space.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 04:35 PM
1

This could mean that a lot if not most critical videos go down.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 03:11 AM
1

I think around 60% of FD takes are good when it comes to men's issue but I hate video essays. Is there a TL;DR/DW?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:33 AM
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Does this mean that videos featuring any or a lot of his youtube content is going to get contentid stricken?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:31 AM
5

Wrong, goofy and creepy. I hopefully I need to even bring up states for it to be understood why its wrong even in with a generous interpretation.... Why do people think "im going to get some milk/squares" is such a common joke or punchline? Oh man this is so goofy as a saying. You'd think red pill guys would be the main ones not trying to make guys out to be all as fucking dormats lmao. Creepy in the sense that women are already highly likely to have stalkers, salty EXes or weirdos that are obse…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 09:34 PM
2

Hmm I see. Thanks for sharing! I'm in a weird situation. Two years ago I suffered from as stroke despite just now being 23 so I'd say I lost most of my friends, guys or girls from that. The finishing blows for the rest was college graduation where people just vanish and act like they don't know you anymore. I I know two guys who would give me a place to stay if i hit a rough patch. I only really have one lady friend I keep up with anymore. I have other friends but its like a high one every two m…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 02:35 AM
5

Not to make it a gender war but being a single mom is tougher on average. A lot of guys don't want to date single mothers period. A lot of men, included just don't want to deal with the baby daddy or being a stepdad even if the biological father is a deadbeat and/or unreliable. Plenty of these guys will do nothing but start shit about where their kid they don't care about goes to school, or how they don't want another man chancing their kids deeper even though they never did, bla bla bla. If the…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 02:02 AM
2

I don't think its from a lack of emotional connection with other men at any point, I just think they tend to get thrown out as soon as work or relationships start which is sad. I think the "advantage" that women have is these connections have lower barriers so when they lose friends from those things they are sort of easily replaced. On the other hand I know plenty of guys who basically fall off the face of the earth as soon as they get engaged and basically vanish from history as soon as kids g…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 01:52 AM
5

Language like this is part of the problem i feel. It's not that a man may not be able to at that moment of time of expressing emotions in more healthy ways or sneaking the mental help (which is extremely hard in the US), its a personal failure of the lack of effort to. It ties into the stereotype of hypermasculinity that men are never allowed to be victims and thus owed absolutely no sympathy. It's especially cruel when you realize that more or elss the past centirues the rules of accepted male …
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 10:21 PM
4

A few things. Individual therapy is expensive and finding a therapist that works for you is a very exhaustive process especially if you don't have have much of an idea of what is explicitly wrong with yourself. I wouldn't really say the average woman has better mental health skill, just outside of things such as borderline personality disorder and bipolar disorders its more accepted for women to be struggling with mental health in general. TO me, it appears that a woman who has depression is see…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 10:16 PM
3

Dating apps: Not to go full tin follow hat but they make money keeping chasing after whatever you're seeking. Honestly for me a lot of the time when I was using them it wasn't even necessarily tog et a date, it to feel that I am attractive and just be able to talk about random bullshit with girls. Tinder and its affiliated apps (everything except Bumble, which still works basically in the same way) literally give you an ELO rank and along with other info it gathered about you, uses it against yo…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 10:07 PM
3

Uh.... Fresh and Fit motivated me to keep pushing through recovery from my stroke two years ago. It's really just Fresh and none of the dating device or any of that stuff. Fresh is an immigrant and has a stutter and even though I think he's a clown and a lot of ways it was still pretty motivating to see he got with his finances and taking care of his mom. Keven Samuels got me more interested in mens fashion even though he was never an actual image consultant.., go figure. Now I really just go to…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 02:54 AM
5

Before she created her podcast she was redpilled but was way more chill and open minded. Now she basically hammer homes Rollo and GOP talking points to guests and costars that usually aren't very bright either. She's kind of part of the whole Redpill Woman corner of Rebecca Barrett, RealFemSapien, and Roma MRA are in. I think Rebecca is just well in the honeymoon stage of her life. Not saying that Mr. Barrett is a bad guy but it's easy fer her to talk about how much she lives being a trad wife, …
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 02:43 AM
6

It's pretty well known that Rollo just goggles headlines to confirm his biases. A couple of very red pill guys have put out multiple videos more or less his entire ideology as bunk.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 09:59 PM
-1

Unless missed a lot of his later stuff because i got tired of his stuff very quickly, a lot of what he said when it came to a lot of the ladies biggest problems was pretty accurate only because it's extremely to people who frankly aren't deluded. He also was able to just shit on black women non stop because you aren't exactly getting the healthiest and best adjusted ones when his show starts at like midnight EST which is where most black people in the country live... Calling any Black Woman over…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 07:24 PM
1

Can't really disagree with this. Bi guys especially when young don't really much of a better sense of style and are usually dating different sets of women than the average straight guy.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 06:41 PM
1

It's pretty much dumb. "Mr Steal your Girl" etc is mostly just a rap and R&B persona. If for any reason at all, for safely a lone most women are hardly going to leave their current SO to go be with a complete stranger. If you're worried about getting with a cheater, take some preconditions. I am not annoying any of these people are bad people but a lot of women who: Try super hard to be one of the "guys" Have a trail of destruction of failed relationships Or avoids other women because of "drama"…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 08:10 PM
1

Not really accurate in my experience. A lot of women who are hardliners and/or are open about wanting a "providers" are broke, extremely religious or otherwise just really have nothing going on in their life. Even buy just having job or and education, any education (trades count!) you avoid a lot of that mess. And to be frank a lot of them end up having kids by deadbeats anyway.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:55 PM
5

Not really. My personal experiences in the BDSM communities have sucked and not in the good way. Here's my problem with the two i've tried to be a part of: It seems like most BDSM groups are dominated by the same wealther, white middle class guys. I never expected immediate access to every kinkster in the areas but when everyone's fetlife profile or whatever is "Owned by (insert local barowner here)" it made it hard to even meet people on even just a totally platonic matter. Not trying to come o…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:43 PM
2

Both of these guys are dumb, theysbee just dumb for different reasons.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 03:07 PM
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My first and only thing in college was exactly just over being fetishized. Quite using fetlife in my old college town (Athens,GA) over the same thing as well. I'm not a SJW or even that left winging but man, the shit white women have told me during my time there and in the king community is wild as hell even considering kink/BDSM in general. If you're black just avoide extremely liberal and extremely conservative areas, they're a shit hole for dating.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 02:14 AM
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I’m not particularly ex redpill as a quick disclaimer. I live in a predominantly white town :/... I am a young black guy like you and I know exactly how this feels. but am also in college at a very diverse school. I mean is it really that diverse? I went to UGA which everyone told me is so diverse but it really isn't. You are kind of describing the prototypical American college town. College towns for are about as as bad it gets socially other than living in a literal sundown town. My dad went t…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 02:08 AM
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I ask this because I've seen the idea thrown around a lot in non-RP spaces. Big dawg, this vast, vast majority of people. You don't have to qualify 99% of the world who doesn't waste their time with red pill nonsense, just qualify the ones who do. but still the same general idea of one type of man being universally attractive to all women This is an extremely hard tot est idea. I know people mention studies attempting to measure sexual measurable when exposed to certain people and things... A lo…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 07:17 PM
3

Darwinian evolution / national selection is a pretty well understood phenomenon. Evolution as a field of study is however way beyond just natural section now as most evolution creates "null" traits such as detached earlobes and dimples. Anthropology is a wild goose chase due information being lost to time and technical limits. Psychology as a field is even more shaky than anthropology as many psych ideas and hypotheses are completely unfalsifiable . Even the ones that are testable end up with lo…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 06:49 PM
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Appealing to nature is a seem very authoritative to a lot of people while also making it hard to argue against without seaming like you disagree with evolution as a concept.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 01:58 PM
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It's the same shit a different toilet. Instead of being blue pulled you're what he calls a "Jeffery". Instead of being alpha, red pilled, chad or whatever its being Adonis. It's the same video games bad, flapping bad, the average guy is ugly/cringe/lazy/desalinated/soy, gym good, self help good, and so on. Both are trying to make you as insecure as they are or were and convince you that you are a piece of shit as you are and that you need to listen to them and their follow their current lifestyl…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 05:09 PM
23

So sells brain worms and computer worms?
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 12:27 AM
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i have most red pill shit like rollo, fresh and fit set to do not recommend so im just confused why im getting him in my feed. I think some streamers are starting cover him more i guess
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 12:14 AM
3

Please give a TL;DR or your own arguments. I am not saying all of thema re invalid but I don't have the patience to sit through more than an hour of youtube podcasts.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 07:06 AM
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Red pill is very bimodal. It's mostly very young men or beginning middle aged men who have are divorced.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 07:02 AM
23

It's a dumb analogy. That doesn't work at multiple levels. It's just another way they the "red pill" breeds insecurities by having you compare yourself to other people's experienced most of which that are presented to you are fake. Anyway, continuing on with the market analogy. Most economists and their institutions are hilariously poor at future economic events and trends. Even when it comes to prescriptions (I.e what you should do given an situation) economists, central banks, investment banks…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 06:48 AM
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This is circular like most responses of this nature as the general levels of tolerance of a man who is defeated, visably annoyed, or afraid is significantly lower than it is for women.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 12:42 AM
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Get off Bumble, Hinge, Tinder and stop watching black pill videos. Most of their statistics are extremely cherry picked and they often make extremist conclusions from it.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 09:53 PM
1

There's a lot of fill good cap in this thread. Is your (romantic) life over if you're a broke guy? No, but it sure as fuck isn't helping an it will absolutely hurt you.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/22 08:21 PM
2

Yeah uh... With today's $30K is too low to considered financially stable unless the man is living with his parents or is codependent with someone else already, neither of which makes for a very attractive suitor. $15/hr at 40 hours a week ends up being $30K a year if you factor in some unpaid leave. This the literal starting wage of an Amazon driver or sorter or the wage of a Mcdonalds shift leader. Neither job comes with health care benefits so if you get in a car accident or dare to get sick t…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/22 08:12 PM
1

Yes
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 11:59 PM
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The night time show becoming dumb. Virtually every show would have a main guest who is a blowhard, or and a yesman and ofttimes all three. Myron usually then spins this apocalyptic negative about how """society""" is destroying marriage and relationships but himself wants/has a "rotation" and runs a podcast that's basically an giant onlyfan ad block. Then they just start throwing often incorrect out of context statistics at the girls and then basically pat themselves on the back. The afternoon s…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 02:16 AM
1

I'm in
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 03:47 AM
13

Just unfollow both type of channels. Self help is a trap.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 02:08 PM
2

As in physical attack you? 😬
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 02:40 AM
2

They're terminally online. There's a big spike in this stuff during and after the pandemic. Touch grass seems like acrass and trite response but it's right... They also have fundamental understand of science. They think science is absolute fact when science actually has to be falsifiable...
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 09:00 PM
2

It's a mediocre post in general, its better than the usual Red Pill nonsense but that bar is a tripping hazard in hell so... Not much was really said was novel at all. recolonization of the need for space for men is almost as old as modern society itself with sports, fraternities, masonic lodges, and yes even gentlemen clubs and guilds. Shit even just video games with the boys counts. The problem these is that: Quite a few of those type of groups are gated by status. For any type of frat you hav…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 11:18 PM
1

A lot of red pill if not the foundation is "evolutionary psychology" which Jordan Peterson is the largest promoter of with his absurd lobster theories and rambling.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 05:06 AM
2

The roommates podcast gives big redpill vibes while also saying they are not redpill. Most of the people in the "manosphere", self help, "evolutionary psychology", masculity/feminity coaching, and pick up artist community are more or less preaching the same ideas with different style to appeal to different slightly demographics. A lot of these people were irrelevant until: Jordan Peterson kicked off his campaign of grift ack in 2016. Rollo Tomassi started to rise in popularity on youtube in 2018…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 05:14 PM
1

No. You don't have to do anything, others also don't have to approve of those actions or lack of actions.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 04:48 PM
2

Women are allowed to age they are just not seen as generally attractive which is... not a big deal. Nobody is owed that.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 05:51 AM
0

To be cheated on you have to enter commuted relationship with someone, to get mugged you just have to exist. If all of your partners are constantly cheating on you you have to take some responsibility in who you are collecting to enter committed relationship a with.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 04:42 PM
0

Street muggings are very hard to impossible to stop or notice and most importantly non consensual. Committed relationships are exactly the opposite.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 12:28 PM
2

As well as women as well. Women are dangled in front of heterosexual men on these apps in a way that is very like rigged carnival games or casinos. The frustration aims to do two things; make you feel that it will be impossible for you to find someone outside of these apps, and to use that frustration to pay in and keep playing forever. Then women succumb to paradox of chose which then encourages ranking and discrimination against suitors of the very few superficial things you can find out about…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/22 03:10 AM
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I honestly think the biggest reason Red Pill flourishes, is because hurt men need a safe space they can vent their frustrations and be heard. Right now there's not a good solution, so men tend to vent in echo chambers, which breed more extreme view points. The barriers to getting therapist are only getting lower with services such as better help and similar services. There are places out there, we just have to go to them. I know therapy isn't always cheap but neither are the couses that all of t…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 11:50 PM
1

Do neither then.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 11:35 PM
2

The red pill arrogantly and small mindedly assumes eminence and poesesson of this "objective" truth. They do this in a way that basardizes the very fabric of science they clam to cite so much.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 11:35 PM
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It's hard to be around someone who doesn't see you in the day way. Just walk away.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 04:09 PM
1

It could be genetic but the mechanism of it's prevalence doesn't have much evidence to suggest they it was naturally selected for. Natural selection is a brutal near zero sume game that argues that certain alleles gain popularity because they re better fit than others and can basically dominate or out last others. Natural selection is also a very costly event that often ends up in extinction for animals with lacking the tait not being selected for. How many golden todes, sabertooth cats, or mamm…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 10:02 PM
2

You misunderstand the folklore example. Children are more likely to be abused by a step parent because they do not carry any genes from their step parent. This is obviously an integral part of any folklore and tendencies that have evolved over countless generation. It's silly to pretend this isn't real. I am not dosbuting they this occurs or thst it isn't a popular trope, I am disburinf that it is because of natural selection and others forms of evolution. If the origins of a behavior are from g…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 05:26 PM
1

Im starting to think the red pill is something to look at Well it's not. The red pill is mostly filed with cleverly dressed up bull shit. Even the name in tself it's an attempt to guilt you into accepting it as it's "the truth" and if you refuse accept it it just means you are apparently objecting to reality. More often than not when people come for the block with circular reasoning you are about to be sold something with weak to no evidence. I feel political correctness & wokness Be precise wit…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 04:59 PM
2

You are holding psychology to a lower standard than EP. I read somewhere that 60% of results published in psychology aren't replicated, so by that measure psychology is also a pseudoscience. I see EP as a a derivative field of study and part of psychology so general criticism of psychology also apply to EP in my opinion. When it comes to the repeatability with EP I cannot comment much on it other than many EP studies and the field in general being so new and concentrated in location. EP really s…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 03:57 PM
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don’t entirely agree with your title. But rather than argue, let’s clarify what exactly you mean by evolutionary psych. It is often discribed by its proponents to be psychology that has been informed and enhanced with evolutionary theory. In practice evolutionary psychology is usually the popular science process of making usually selecting a given human behavior and then justifying it by basically saying its down to natural selection. Do you disagree that either gender has very different parenta…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 05:41 AM
2

Evolutionary Psychology is pseudoscience, let it go.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/22 07:45 PM
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Not going to hold Cole to the standard of perfection but i didn't like this video. He says not to overdose on the red pill which is nice in theory but there is so much in red pill theory that is fundamentally flawed and/or comeotltly disagrees with statistical reality. There are just better places to get information from instead of having to spend sepersting the shit from the alright.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 10:11 PM
1

Well unless you only date one person in your life before settling down with whatever comes from that, dating is a number game for most people to some extent. I mean this is especially true in college and for me. Ive been stood up too many times to count.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 09:13 PM
1

Market behavior has existed outside and before capitalism was ever a thing. There aren't many resources that can't be described by market and supply and demand theory because both are analysis of the sum of a given set of subjective valuations from individuals.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 08:09 PM
1

Respectfully but this isn't really debunking anything. Economic market theories don't conflict with the idea individual tastes and preferences. Subjective value is demonstrated in markets all the time. See the current NFT craze, I may think it's dumb but there are people who still pay thousands for them. That means that generally stated as having value. Not to go down a weird "blackpill" rabbit but this can be easily observed even when it comes to dating ans there are some aspect of attractivene…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 08:05 PM
2

I walk away.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/22 12:12 AM
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He was addicted to kpins not xanax Xanax is still the same type of drug, there both benzodiazepines used to treat severe anxiety disorders. He was actually prescribed them by his psychiatrist because he couldn't handle the fact his wife was dying I never said that he obtained the xanax illegally or was abusing them. I don't blame him for needing medication to get through a tough time, i blame him for taking and advocating for an extremely reckless "treatment" plan is more likely going to get you…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 03:30 PM
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If one is addicted to benzodiazepines such as Xanax should someone consult their psychiatrist and come up with a plan some treatment plans... Or go on an all meat diet to then fly to Russia and Serbia go go go undexlosed clinics to be out in a medically induced coma because no US or Canadian doctor would do to him in order to help him quit cold turkey (which along with the coma is potentially deadly)
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:22 AM
4

Jordan Peterson and the Red Pill are like 99% the same things and their fans are annoying to deal with.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 02:16 AM
1

1) almost free prostitution so people can cope Porn exists. Price feelings also don't work to do anything other than create a shortage of the good or service in question. 2) our society put sex in everything , Define "everything", speak specific, it's very hard to engage with people who imprecise language. illegalizing oversexualisation of everything would be a good idea This sounds unconstitutional in the vast majority of developed societies. Also it seems like you are contributing to this supp…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 11:03 AM
1

It's dumb, PUA is dumb but you're not going tohrkpful dating device from most women and there are a few legitimate reasons for this. A lot of women give you advice on what makes someone a good long term partner but most a lot of guys don't even get to that point so it's moot. A lot of what men struggle with is intentional arousing initional attraction and many things they influence this politically incorrect to say out loud. They themselves don't know, if they did they would likely already be in…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 06:55 PM
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