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I kind of got that feeling too... like my mind went immediately to "what are the red flags". People with Borderline Personality Disorder or Narcissistic Personality Disorder will do something called "love bombing" to charm and make someone just head over heels for them until they feel like they can properly control them.
/r/seduction26/02/18 05:02 PM
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Stop over analyzing and have fun. If you're worried about not lasting long, you have a couple options. 1. Make sure she gets to climax first. 2. Go a 2nd and 3rd round. A good amount of women don't cum easily from PIV so lasting long isn't even an issue. But this is why communication is important.
/r/seduction26/02/18 02:12 PM
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So how many of them were rejected and edited out? Lol
/r/seduction22/02/18 03:16 PM
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punt
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:32 PM
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I get you're wanting to evaluate the situation and critique yourself but there could be tons of reasons why. She was on her period and not feeling well, nervous about meeting up (yes this happens to girls and they cancel), just wasn't feeling the same level of attraction you were (women are good at picking that up) etc. Just keep moving :-)
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:13 PM
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Depends in the process you're at. Being too eager to "spit game" can show desperation. Initially being a normal human being getting to know another human being works just fine. They might look good but you don't even know if you like them or not. The only way to put yourself in the friendzone is not closing on the deal. If you start treating them like a conquest, a trophy or a "thing" to obtain they're gonna pick up on that. Its a delicate balance that varies from woman to woman of how much you …
/r/seduction20/02/18 08:41 PM
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We were obviously interested in one another at this point, we had expressed that to one another. She came to me with her dilemma, and instead of being selfish with my own emotions (as we weren't officially a couple) I wanted her to be happy with herself. And she told me later how much she appreciated me not making things difficult. To her, my unselfishness was the charm. She had to make the decision, not me, about who she wanted to spend her time with. I couldn't force her to like me more than h…
/r/seduction20/02/18 12:58 PM
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I get what you're saying, you don't want her to think you're not interested in her. When first starting to talk to a girl, just talking to her shows you're interested, but in a friendly, non threatening way. You don't even know if you like her yet or not, but you ARE interested in getting to know her, and for many women that's flattering enough. A little story of mine is that I was talking pretty often to a girl, its obvious we liked one another and we had made plans a few times to get to know o…
/r/seduction20/02/18 02:45 AM
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A general rule when I was single was-- They're not your friend They're not your lover You're not in a relationship with them So, treat them like you would any one else thats an acquaintance you're trying to get to know better. My wife just said yesterday she could tell when men were eager for a relationship and it shows desperation, and being desperate is not attractive. Be comfortable, happy and confident with yourself as you are as a single person and women and men will find that attractive.
/r/seduction19/02/18 09:01 PM
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If you are getting called "creepy" on a consistent basis it may be time to do a really good evaluation of yourself.
/r/seduction14/02/18 02:39 PM
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It means she admires your character and you seem like a good prospect, but unfortunately you're probably in the friendzone at this point if shes openly saying this to you. Akin to telling a girlfriend of hers, "you're so great why aren't guys falling all over you"
/r/seduction06/02/18 07:09 PM
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You made your first step into fixing your problem by realizing what you're doing. So remind yourself about the reddit post you made concerning this every time you start to pursue a girl. Keep disciplined. Keep "cool". Your anxiousness is what is bothering these girls, not you pursuing them. Girls like to be pursued, they however don't like anxiousness/insecurity, and thats what they're sensing when you start being needy.
/r/seduction01/01/18 09:44 PM
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This. Being emotionally and mentally healthy is more important than being "mature". I am 38 and I play video games. Some would consider that immature. I don't. Its my escapism and hobby that I enjoy and doesn't affect anyone else. Being a decent human being to others is more important than what is perceived as mature or immature.
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:55 AM
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Why even sweat it? If she's not interested she's not interested and leave her alone and move on. If someone is REALLY interested they will take the initiative to contact you back without you double texting her. I even have done this when I start getting one worded answers. A woman will invest her words/texts in you if she is interested.
/r/seduction06/12/17 05:42 PM
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You're over thinking this in my opinion. Hot girls get nervous too and don't know what to do or how to react. Just have a friendly nature with her. Some people don't do the back and forth banter until they know someone well enough to feel comfortable
/r/seduction05/12/17 07:16 PM
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Then what happens? You listen to what she says and as if she rejects you you get rejected, move on and don't let it bruise your ego. Don't presume shit, but don't try to hard either. Women eat up a silent confidence. Gonna make a shitty analogy, the more often and loudly you bark the less likely she will want to pet you and take you for walks.
/r/seduction05/12/17 06:16 PM
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As pseudo creepy as this sounds you have to isolate her and talk to her to close the deal, having that much interference isn't going to bode well.
/r/seduction05/12/17 04:32 PM
2

Keep getting rejected until it no longer phases you, then you will have developed yourself and your character and believe it or not without you even knowing your confidence will have improved which women can smell from a mile away.
/r/seduction01/12/17 12:08 AM
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Having confidence first in touching a woman should be a thing to work on as well. Over thinking or having anxiety about it will be picked up on immediately by her. Women like the feeling of your hand on their back because it shows them reassurance that you're there for them and to protect them.
/r/seduction07/11/17 03:57 PM
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Opening doors for her and "guiding" her through the doorway with your hand on her lower back works well. You're being a gentleman, plus touching her.
/r/seduction07/11/17 02:24 PM
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