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I mean yea. Women can be coercive rapey pieces of shit. It’s just men don’t view them as such. But you should!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:17 AM
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But you’re talking about a pre-existing relationship. Were these guys talking about girlfriends and wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:14 AM
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But why would women do this if they didn’t have to? Like when men propose these ideas it never made sense to me. “Women should pay more!” Or “women should asks guys out!”. Yea but she already doesn’t have to, so what’s the incentive to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:03 AM
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You don’t see what’s wrong with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:00 AM
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Your premise is that porn addiction and scrolling through apps are similar. They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:58 AM
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Somehow I don’t see you complaining about the “women bad” threads that pop up here daily. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:08 PM
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Honestly this shit is so embarrassing. You ask for evidence and people post blogs? What the hell is going on? Someone posted “statistics” from a goonermonthly blog. Like this can’t be serious right? RIGHT???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:06 AM
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I still don’t understand why this bothers you. She wanted something serious and it didn’t work out. I don’t see that as an L it’s just literally what happens in every single aspect of dating. If two people don’t want the same thing they go their separate ways there is no L to take for either party. Actually it’s a win because the woman didn’t waste her time believing in something that wasn’t real and the guy didn’t waste his time going over her house without getting sex. She didn’t lose out on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:56 PM
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lol I don’t see how this is an L on her part. The guy showing no interest in her outside of sex was somehow HER fault? So are we now contributing his the lack of interest on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:24 PM
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Yea but men have posted these things? Men have posted women asking for ridiculous things and/or being weird. It’s the internet dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:35 PM
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Doctor here! Real career women are already married and/or quietly single and working. I don’t hear them complaining about this at all. They met their match in high-school, college, graduate school, med school or law school etc etc. or their single and going on trips with the girls and working 100 hours a week. But I hear boss babes on Facebook complaining. Single moms and divorcees complaining saying a man can’t “handle” all that lmaooo I think they belong to two different groups honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:59 AM
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Nope I can’t give you the pathophysiology of why some enjoys smut or pornographic material. If you don’t get that already I can’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:59 PM
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You asked for how I felt. I said how I felt. But somehow I didn’t answer the question? Yea I’m done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:25 PM
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Excited. Entertained. Happy. Next question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:40 AM
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The excitement! The mystery! The taboo of the forbidden! The descriptive erotic scenes is the why!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:38 AM
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What do we get out of imagining fucking a hot vampire? You don’t get that? What I would get out of fucking a tortured soul who’s only sane for me? You don’t get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:10 PM
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What do you want me to address? Is it super hot to read about a hot guy who is obsessed with me and stalking me smelling my underwear? Fuck yea. In real life? FUCK NO. ✨fantasy✨. Some women may want to be fucked by a homeless werewolf? What led up to that? There are usually 10-15 chapters making this homeless werewolf fuckable. They’ll appeal to the reader through looks, a traumatic past, he’s crazy but only sane for her etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:09 PM
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Dude. It’s a fantasy. None of that shit would work out in real life. The majority of that stuff is unrealistic. Half of those dudes are like vampires, werewolves etc. some of them have straight up bestiality in it. And no it’s not one type of guy there are several different archetypes of guys. It gets wicked in those books. Let the girls have their fantasies. It’s NOT REALLLLLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:48 AM
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I mean yea all of it. It’s a sexual fantasy. Some women are down with the sexual aggression, rape, choking etc. in fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:38 PM
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You can’t understand why a woman would want some super hot rich guy to be obsessed with her? It’s a fantasy and sounds super hot on paper. Do I actually want a guy obsessed with me smelling my underwear and showing up at my job? NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:44 AM
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Yea I get it. The men here read what they want to with as much animosity as they can think of and assume the worse interpretation of whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:44 PM
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Because it’s literally just not? She’s saying she’s been pleasured by guys within that range. And from HER perspective she was happy with it. She’s assuming that other women are happy with it too which is OK because from her perspective it isn’t a big deal. She didn’t say 4 is = to 7. She says “hey I’ve been good with those sizes in the past.” There wasn’t a one-to-one comparison with every inch. She saying most guys are average so maybe it’s something else outside your dick size causing an issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:54 PM
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Where did she indicate that they were the same? I swear you guys read what you want to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:33 PM
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So men are admitting to doing this but somehow still don’t understand when women say men are assholes on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:30 PM
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What? So don’t work on your personality at all because your cute enough? You guys must be young and in highschool. No way a fully grown adult out here in the real world who interacts with people daily believes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:18 AM
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Oh. What so the manosphere is a men rights movement? It’s helping fix societal issues for men? Because I thought it was supposedly just teaching you all how to get vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:49 PM
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What does this have to do with what I am replying to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:47 PM
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Of course they do. But it’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:45 PM
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Oh yes I see drug dealers being rewarded with money cars and hoes. I’m going to start selling bricks tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:09 PM
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You know why that is? Because women actually care about other women and girls. They fought for it, put it in peoples faces, poured money and resources into it. They MADE people care about. When women have issues all women agree on it and put energy and effort behind it. So yes we make society care about our issues. You think men always cared? You think we cared if they did? They got with the program when they realized they want to be in community with women. Now men’s issues, what are men doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:04 PM
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Yea she’s an asshole. Is that supposed to mean something? You know the asshole things men have said to me? Who cares dude. Somehow you guys think men don’t say fucked up things to women and only women are these cruel heartless creatures. News flash buddy! People can be assholes! Kick them to the curb and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:59 PM
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You shouldn’t be listening and doing what every woman wants to the letter. Who told you to do that anyways? Can you imagine if women did everything a bunch of random dudes wanted her to do? She’d be a slut virgin single mom traditional wife prude whore. Lol. The idea is to step back and look at everything that’s going on. Are you seeing what you want to see? Are there literally no nice or trustworthy women in the world? No? Then you have a worldview problem. If I looked around and ALL I saw was …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:54 PM
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Nope not true. Every single time a woman tells a guy he should be nice he’ll respond by asking if it’s going to get him pussy. They want a reward for being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:50 PM
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But if a woman says this you’d say she needs to stop choosing losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:48 PM
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What specifically are women telling you turns them off when it comes to look maxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:43 AM
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That doesn’t mean it’s not true she just also needs to be attracted to them. She didn’t say ONLY having a good heart which is what men hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:26 PM
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And the nice guy was still a HOT ACTOR PLEASE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:25 PM
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So ignore all real life examples where the good looking people clearly got better treatment? I learned this in elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:24 PM
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No attractive guys get laid more often than the rest. Dark triad means fuck all if you’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:23 PM
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Of course they want these things from men they are attracted to. WTF?? Was that ever a question? Wait so men not know you need to be attractive for a woman to be attracted to you? Holy cow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:22 PM
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NOTHING guarantees getting laid though? There is no sure fire way of guaranteeing vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:20 PM
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But unless they post a picture for us to critique their looks, all we can go on is it must be their personalities. I mean what else we got?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:19 PM
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But like if I have a lot of groceries and I’m struggling to get up the stairs a man helps me, I don’t want to assume all these negative things about him. What if he saw me struggling and JUST wanted to help. Is that so crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:17 PM
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Lying and manipulating gets you more of everything in life that’s not something new it just depends on your morals for how you want to operate in the world. What are you willing to do to get what you want? I don’t fault men or women for being upset they were lied to and/or manipulated though. Being good (whatever that may mean), CAN increase your attractiveness depending on what it is and what type of woman you’re trying to attract though. Baseline attraction/interest is always the lead point th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:51 PM
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A certain type of woman like gang members. Growing up around gangs I can tell you right now that the women who like gang members are not women you would be interested in. I ASSURE YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:26 AM
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It’s soo fucking annoying. A woman will say, I find a man who is highly educated to be really attractive. And a man will respond and say “stop pretending like a man ONLY having an education turns you on!!” Who the fuck said ONLY? The person obviously has to be initially attractive in the first place?? Like an ugly person doesn’t become attractive JUST because they are educated. I have to be attracted to them before that or at least interested in someway. Non-looks based characteristics makes you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:22 AM
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What narrative? Women want to be with men they are attracted to, that’s not a secret. You need to be attractive (whatever that may mean). You guys just don’t want to hear that there are other things that can make or break attraction that are not looks based. A man who is educated can absolutely make a man MORE attractive and a man who is uneducated can make him unattractive. People can be turned off by not looks based traits. Women are not saying they’ll date a man who’s ugly if he proves to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:18 AM
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So women want to fuck men they are attracted to? News @ 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:11 AM
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That’s the goal dude? So you don’t want to focus on men bettering their careers, focusing on their happiness and well being, bettering their mental and physical health, better education and security? Sticking it to the feminist? That’s it????? Yea yall REALLY don’t care about each other at all. That’s super sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:53 PM
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If you think the person is lying to you despite what they say then what do you expect anyone to do? This is not a working long term strategy. Why believe anyone about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:29 PM
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Only 10% of divorces end in alimony. The average man makes 60k, rents an apartment and leases a car. The majority of men are NOT getting divorced rape. Most people don’t make enough to be divorced raped. Most people don’t own a house that can even be taken. Yall gotta stop saying this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:51 AM
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It’s a mental thing you have to be open to it. It’s not about “changing” your type it more about discovering your type. There is someone attractive in every race, shape, hair color etc. you just have to keep looking. Forcing a change won’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:36 PM
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I was just in Walmart this morning. Average everywhere you look. And the women looked just as average. And everyone was mid-sized to overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:19 PM
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I think YOU value that the woman APPEARS to be feeling good. That’s the porn you value, great. I think you underestimate how most men don’t really care if the woman is genuinely enjoying herself or not. A woman getting her throat smashed by a 10inch dick is NOT enjoying herself I can assure you. Also, behind the scenes nobody is enjoying themselves not even the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:16 PM
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Yes it is a skill issue if you repeatedly date abusive men. Next question?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:44 PM
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You make what sells. That’s it. Men are the bigger consumers of porn. It’s about money. Ad revenue and subscriptions. That’s it. Men like to see woman pounded? They are subscribing more to that content? Make more of it. That’s it dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:32 PM
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Really? The guys were saying it was a real problem. I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:15 PM
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Don’t forget to add in all the bots, prostitutes and OF models trying to get you to add or follow their social media pages. I’ve been informed that this is a not an insignificant problem for men on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:58 PM
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I had a super rigid “type” of man I was into growing up. Then I went off to college and left my neighborhood and realized there were hotties everywhere in all different fonts and sizes. So I believe environment can shape your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:03 PM
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Hmm I used to have a type when I was a preteen. Now I don’t really have a type. All my exs look wildly different. Different races, skin tones, body types, eye colors, some sporty types, emo types, nerdy/anime types. Height ranged from 5’7-6’4. I’m all over the place. Superficially they were very different but my friend pointed out to me that they were all calm, back of the room types and quiet. Always steady never really excitable. So that might be my “type” personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:59 PM
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I don’t understand how an app can have so many bots and prostitutes in there. If they could get rid of that it would markedly improve the app from the male side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:05 PM
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Yea same with women. Women have literally been shouting this from the rooftops. But let me guess you don’t believe that right? Every woman who’s not with a chad or rich man is settling because they are superficial delusional gold diggers. But men are the deep thinkers, deep feelers who are much more genuine and don’t go for looks. Riiigggghhtttttt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:28 AM
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Oh! Let me guess all these kind hearted men are dating fat ugly homeless women then? You guys kill me with this BS. So men are out here doing charity work for dating? A man is NOT taking a girl out for her heart or mind. You know how I know that to be true? Because he doesn’t even know her yet. So he’s probably dating her because he finds her ✨attractive✨= looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:40 AM
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Yep. Men can choose better women or be alone. Women can choose not to go to dangerous places. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:26 AM
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So anecdotes? Got it. Do you want to go anecdote for anecdote because my experience was different. Is your more valid than mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:24 AM
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They can. Women can choose not to go to bad places alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:14 PM
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Yea they can choose to be alone. That’s ALWAYS a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:52 PM
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Women do not say their dating issues are equal to men. You’re being dishonest. Women say they have DIFFERENT dating issues, NOT equal. Let’s be honest here. You don’t think women have dating issues period. So when a woman speaks, about anything, ever, you guys don’t want to hear it. We can get dick, so therefore, women have ZERO problems. That’s how you and the other men here view it. There is no debate or discussion to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:20 PM
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Why don’t I see you in the comment fighting for women who only want chads? How come I don’t see you arguing with the men when they say women should lower their standards. I don’t see you champion this idea at all. I’m calling BS
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:15 PM
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Yea you lack reading comprehension if you got sex with husband is as laborious as horseback riding. You are intentionally misunderstanding because you already have the idea that women don’t want to have sex with their husbands in your head. It’s useless to argue with someone who’s acting in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:29 PM
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What? Acknowledging that something takes energy, time and mental capacity doesn’t mean it’s unpleasant. That leap of logic was incredible. I fucking LOVE horseback riding. It’s my favorite thing to do in this world. Does it take energy, time and mental capacity? Yes. Do I still love it? Yes. Am I too exhausted from work or life to do it sometimes? Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:30 AM
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Where do we agree? I might have missed that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:26 AM
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Where is the lie? It’s unnecessary info. If the last guy was so amazing she’d be with him. Why would I tell the guy that I am currently with, that I like and/or love and am happy with about how big the last guys dick was? Or how many orgasms he gave me? That’s just WEIRDDDDD. Same thing for a guy, if you met a woman that you like and are happy, why would you tell her about how tight and wet the last girl was??? How better at BJs she was? It’s so unnecessary and ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:26 AM
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There is literally no way you could know that she “enthusiastically” did it with her previous partners. Women are typically not coming up off this information. This is a delusion in your head that you have created out of insecurity my friend. These women are typically not explaining in any meaningful way, how amazing, big dicked and all the orgasms the previous bf gave her. There would be no advantage to telling anyone that information. You know she did it before but doesn’t want to do it now. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:57 PM
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I mean they don’t seem particularly miserable though? Like not a specific different kind of misery than anyone else. Like they are just making average able-bodied complaints about the world. Love, friendships, family, weight etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:20 PM
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Nope they do know. Women tell them. They say Chad doesn’t have to do that so why should they? Whatever a woman says they want, a man will reply and say it’s too much. You can’t even say, “I want my spouse to have a job” without the men swarming on you to call you a gold digging piece of garbage. What men want is for women to shut up. There is nothing a women could say they want without a man have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:17 PM
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Literally every other post is a guy reinforcing this idea that sex is all a woman is useful for. But you’ll have guys comment and say “what???!!! Men don’t say that!!” “I’ve never seen this!!” “Maybe one guy said that one time!” It’s literally throughout this entire subreddit. We have a weekly N count thread, we have got to be serious. Men swear women only see what they want to see but at this point I think they are completely blind to what happens here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:13 PM
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Yea I’m not going to keep repeat your sentences back to you this is getting silly. We’re done here. You win!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:00 PM
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I literally said what you followed it up with?? At this point YOU aren’t reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:52 PM
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Yep. Abolish both for men and women. The only reason I specifically brought up men is because OP said they are expected to provide and protect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:40 PM
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I disagree. Outside of celebrities or “chads”. The men are doing all of the legwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:38 PM
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It’s not going to happen. But you keep trying buddy! Women have ZERO incentive to do the “legwork” and I mean ZERO. So if men don’t, women won’t. And then that’s that. Also the provide and protect thing is so ridiculous in this day and age where the average man makes 60k, rents an apartment and leases a car. Stop putting financial pressure on these men to do things they cannot afford to do. I see BOTH men and women doing this. It’s unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:54 PM
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You say that “she’ll come back” —don’t even give men this false hope in the first place even if you follow it up with a “and even if she doesn’t”. So yea read it! Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:50 PM
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You have never seen an American talk like this? Like what? I’m genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:41 PM
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What does asshole mean even? What specific behaviors are we saying fit this description?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:39 PM
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Weird. I don’t see you saying this to the men who cc one on here being annoying and preachy online. Interesting. You guys are so unbalanced it’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:36 PM
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Oh I did. I gave multiple other options outside of ghosting your partner, which essentially is what you’re saying they should do. I agree with you that trying to win someone back is a fools errand unless you know you did something wrong and need to apologize for something. I added that even if the woman does come around after you leave you should still show her the door. Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:31 PM
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“The key to my problems with women is that they’re all secretly lesbian”- this guy probably
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:21 AM
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If a woman is showing signs of losing interest you can do a couple of things. 1. You can just dump her and move on. 2. You can sit down and discuss with her what’s going on, especially if you really like her and this behavior is new or unusual for her. 3. You can stay and suffer. “Trying to win someone back”, implies that you did something wrong and are trying to reconcile something in someway. That’s not a good way of thinking because that’s assuming her lack of interest is YOUR fault when it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:19 AM
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Guess you can’t read? Are you done with assigning dick sizes now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:10 AM
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Have YOU read it? She also used “I fucked her”, “a key that opened by many keys is a shitty lock.” And “she’s a hoe and belongs to the streets”. What size does your dick have to be to use these???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:43 AM
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These are examples of men using degrading language to describe consensual sex that men use. You weren’t specific with which sayings only big dicked guys would say based on the OP. If you mean that specific example then ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:31 PM
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I’m saying, can you really enact these traits if you’re ugly? You think a man who is unattractive will all of a sudden become attractive by doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:52 PM
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Well if you’re not Chad, can you really afford to be mean? Ultimately what it comes down to is you’re not hot enough to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:49 PM
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“Wildly high rate?”>>>>> oh imma need some statistics on that. That sounds like vibes and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:48 PM
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It’s not because they are dark triad. It’s because they happen to be attractive. If you have dark triad qualities and ugly you get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:45 PM
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You don’t hear men calling when “used up”, “ran through”, or “easy”? You only hear that from the big dicked chads? We have an N count thread that literally discussing this weekly. I’ve seen these terms throughout this sub constantly so must be a lot of big dicked men around here then I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:20 PM
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Male podcasters? You see this language all up and through this sub??? Why when someone calls something out about men, do men all of sudden act like they have never seen it?? Men here have called when “ran through” “easy” and “used up” etc. shit even women use that type of language to describe other women. That language is SO prevalent that I honestly can’t believe you’re are asking “which men?”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:18 PM
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So your only options to choose from are to validate men or invalidate women? You don’t see the problem with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:56 PM
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Aren’t a large share of pregnancies accidental? Not a lot of deep thinking and planning going on there my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:14 PM
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How can you say men, in general handle rejection better? Do you date and turn down men? My guess is you don’t. So where are you getting the data that men handle rejection better than women? Also, there’s a simple reason women refuse to approach that has nothing to do with your little made up fantasy. Women do not approach simply because they don’t have to. They know the men will do all the work. That’s it. Women get all the advantages at the initial stages in dating, it would be RIDICULOUS for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:12 PM
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So what’s your argument regarding alimony exactly? If most men don’t even experience it and never will how is it even useful in your debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:06 PM
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I mean yea that happens too. People get overly attached and assume you want what they want and then get sad and hurt when you don’t. That makes sense to me. I’m not arguing that. This specific poster, based on his replies to others and myself, is intentionally not saying anything about what he wants because he feels like he doesn’t “need” to if the woman doesn’t do it. He COULD be upfront but he admits here that he doesn’t want to be the mature one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:26 PM
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You see how I said be upfront and honest and you went to the extreme of treating people like babies and giving them step by step instructions? Do you see how ridiculous that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:23 PM
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I thinks it very strange that you wanna focus on the 10% and ignore the 90% that do not end in alimony. I think it’s strange that when women bring up rape, the men here say it’s a small percentage of men and it isn’t worth discussing. But when it’s in your favor, a small percentage is worth discussing? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:22 PM
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I have to tell you?? It ain’t obvious that you should be upfront and honest about your intentions and what you want. Sorry I thought it was super fucking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:15 PM
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If a woman was asking the question I’d say the same thing??? I assumed YOU the MAN was asking about YOUR behavior??? You can’t control the woman’s behavior, you can only control and be accountable for your own. Your second paragraph is just a whole a lot of assumptions buddy. How can I pretend about a scenario that you didn’t bring up? Stay focused and stick to what’s actually being discussed vs trying to assume I just blindly criticize men and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:06 PM
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But only 10% of marriages end in alimony tho??? The average man makes 60k, rents an apartment and leases a car. Men need to stop living vicariously thought rich men, that’s not reality. Unless you are defending super rich elite men then? Idk man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:42 PM
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Ultimately, you know what you are doing. You know what the right thing is but you don’t want to do it because you likely won’t get what you want. Everything else is just excuses. “Well people lie all the time!” “Women lie to men all the time why should I have to say anything!” “If I say nothing is it really lying??” “It’s on them to communicate what they want” Etc on and on. You don’t want to do the right thing. We both know this behavior is not ok but you want sex and you can think of a million…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:28 PM
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They have no idea how harmful it is to push these type of ideas out into the world. They truly believe it’s isolated and that these terrible morals wouldn’t one day affect them. True lack of foresight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:09 PM
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I’m sorry what evidence do you have that she lied under oath?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:56 PM
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Which airways exactly? Because they are all over social media and on podcasts calling women ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:55 PM
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Why are you assuming loyalty is a reason? I was thinking more trauma for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:53 PM
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I’ve seen it personally. But you can believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:25 PM
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Oh but there are. But they are fat, old, single mothers, non-virgins etc. the women men say they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:55 PM
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Angry? No. We’re just fuxking around on Reddit dude it’s not that serious. And I was talking to you. You brought up men wanting a relationship I’m telling you men here say they don’t want a relationship, they just want sex. They have options for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:53 PM
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Relationship? The men here said they just want access to as many women as possible for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:29 AM
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Oh they have options. They just don’t like the options. There are desperate disgusting women out there or prostitutes but men say they don’t want that. Those ARE options though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:21 PM
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We keep saying the same shit over and over year after year. Just be honest, no matter what advice a woman could or would give you, you wouldn’t be interested. No advice from a woman would be “good” advice according to you. Just say you don’t wanna hear from women at all. At least that would be more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:22 AM
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What do you mean they didn’t like the real you? I thought chads get everything and every woman they want and that their lives were absolutely perfect??? Have I been lied to??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:09 AM
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Wait wait wait I thought men were so desperate they couldn’t even afford to filter women out??? Men have options now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:03 AM
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Incels are updatable because they aren’t attractive AND they are mysogynistic. If they were hotter they might have been able to get away with it but since they aren’t, they can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:54 AM
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Isn’t there a way to post threads for “men only answers” here if you don’t want to hear the opinions of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:25 AM
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Wait, is there actual peer-reviewed data on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:49 AM
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I don’t hate that theory. What peer-reviewed evidence do we have that women are being preferentially hired in corporate over men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:35 AM
0

What compromise? We not talking someone is tired or not in the mood, that can be compromised on. I have to coerce you to eat me? Like you don’t like it? No sir. That would make me feel like shit. Also, I only want an enthusiastic eater nothing less or we aren’t sexually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:53 PM
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Can you explain to us how the corporate world prefers women? Because I thought they only preferred more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:10 PM
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If the girl wants it and the guy doesn’t want to do it, then they are sexually incompatible. They should have discussed this earlier on in the relationship so they didn’t have to waste all this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:04 PM
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Coercing a man to eat a girl out (the reverse of sexes) also sounds gross 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:50 PM
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You’re being disingenuous. I’m done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:52 PM
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You sir do not know the definition of what a fling is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:42 AM
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Pumped and dumped? They were in a long-term relationship? He brought her to meet his parents? They bought a house together? Is that the definition of pump and dump now? Oh baby you all might be delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:36 AM
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Wait, are men ok with women using them for money now? Because I thought those women were gold digging whores? Is that an acceptable form or love now? Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:35 AM
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Then he can do that not in a relationship. Why MUST you be in a relationship just to cheat? GO BE FREE!!!!! Let the coochie rain down on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:32 AM
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Wait wait wait, Klay KNEW all this and still decided to be with her so imma say he didn’t care. He brought her around his family and even bought a house with her. So if he had an issue with her past sexual history etc he should have never dated her publically or brought her how to meet momma. Yall gotta stop with this projection. Also, these athletes, rappers etc all share these women. They live in a different world than you do. You have NO idea how the culture of the NBA works. They are all dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:29 AM
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He heard she was black and assumed she was fat. I have to believe he’s just never seen her before otherwise there is no way he saw her and thought she was fat honestly. I just don’t want to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:26 AM
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You think Beyoncé couldn’t go get her a billionaire from another country if she wanted? Be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:21 AM
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This argument is weird to me. Klay chose her though? If he had a problem with her showing her body or having a backlog of exs then he shouldn’t have dated her. YOU have a problem with it, but clearly he didn’t? He brought her around his family? They bought a house together? He clearly didn’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:21 AM
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It’s not about women. Good looking people get extra privileges period. You can be a criminal, a terrible person, a bipolar train wreck. It’s doesn’t matter if you’re good-looking. The one caveat I’ll add here is that there are plenty men AND women with enough self-respect not to date these people just because they are good looking but some people will. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:11 AM
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False. Those who are more attractive have more sex and more partners PERIOD. An ugly bully ain’t getting bitches I promise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:12 PM
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Nope I never made a claim that it was a universal experience. I was merely commenting that her experience may not be representative. That’s all. I didn’t say that it was the norm either. You’re extrapolating wayyy too much out of my comment that was not made. And who’s rage baiting? So you read my comment, accused me of all types of arguments I never made and then accused me of rage baiting and needing to touch grass? Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:15 PM
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“Attractive people are attractive!!!” - like no shit Sherlock. They keep acting like this is new information. Like where the fuck have you been that goodlooking people don’t get treated better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:05 PM
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I’ve heard this my whole life from lots of women actually. Guess it must exist outside your own personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:01 PM
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You guys don’t understand anything outside of a yes or no. It’s feels super simple-minded. Like just say you don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:00 PM
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Wanting to improve your get better access to women isn’t a huge problem. The bigger issue is placing your self-esteem in the hands of strangers some of which you haven’t met before. You will feel like absolute dog-shit if you rely on other people to make you feel whole, confident or to boost your self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:36 AM
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I know what this is about. You basically think all advice given won’t work so people should stop giving advice right? If it doesn’t work 100% of the time, come with a guarantee or come with step by step instructions for every unique situation, it’s useless. Same shit different day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:22 PM
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I’m proud of you for having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:16 PM
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You see how you don’t know anything about me and your claiming I’m going to validate a woman simply because I’m a woman? You see how ridiculous you sound right now? Should I assume things about you based on you being a man? The very thing you guys claim to hate but do allllll the time? And you ignore me saying I don’t care about men’s preferences either right? Of course you did typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:13 PM
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The claims are always just guys saying men are super logical and the women are emotional children who lie about everything. But when you go to a post about a guy being ridiculous none of those guys are there calling them out. Its only the women they want to engage with. I just find that interesting is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:36 PM
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Naw I respond to all things ridiculous. I don’t care about the gender. Some women are dumb af
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:30 PM
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I just don’t think it’s unreasonable if you can obtain it. Do I think it’s personally ridiculous? Yes. But for them? As long as it’s not something harmful I don’t really care. If a guy wants a woman with certain ass to hip ratio etc I don’t care either to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:29 PM
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Wait, why is this unreasonable? I’m not being funny I don’t think I understand this example. Because if she can find it then what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:58 AM
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Doesn’t it have more to do with how you all react to women? For example, if you see a man being mean and cruel in the comment section you pretty much ignore it. But if a woman is doing it you feel a knee-jerk reaction to respond and correct her. That’s why what stands out in your mind is women’s reactions. You guys aren’t as balanced as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:49 AM
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When the men are talking shit about women like this I don’t remember you in the comments setting them straight. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:40 AM
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Yes my love is conditional even for friends and family. You treat me like shit and you will be dropped. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:37 AM
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Is this what the statistics say? Pretty sure people marry within their socioeconomic bracket. Please drop the new data. I’m intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:37 AM
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So if your wife fucks another man and gets pregnant you’re going to forgive and stay with her because your love transcends her bad choices and behaviors?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:35 AM
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I don’t think they downplay it, I just think most women think it’s obvious that the man she’s with had to be at least somewhat attractive for her to even be with him in the first place. It’s only recently that women realized that they have to say outloud for men, because again it seemed obvious, that men need to be attractive to attract women. Also, if a woman can get one attractive man she likely can get others, so maybe the guy being attractive by just face alone isn’t the ONLY reason she want…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:31 AM
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You keep saying women enjoyed it. I’m asking for PROOF! Peer-reviewed evidence that women “enjoyed” being a housewife in the 1950’s. If you do not have it then it is vibes. And if it was a minority, which I suspect it was, then go for that small minority of people I guess? I’m sure some women enjoyed being stay at home moms even today no matter how few that might be. What’s your argument? That some women out there enjoy their husbands? Well yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:24 AM
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Sour grapes? In what way? I only joined the group because they are EXTREMELY entertaining. If you ask any clarifying questions you will get kicked outs they are delusional to the max over there. I’m not saying the men weren’t attractive in some way, most weren’t my type but my point is women wanted them and they were not 6 foot, 6 figures with 6 packs. That’s all I’m saying. They were not chads and they didn’t look like Andrew Tate or clavicular lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:21 AM
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“Saw a study the other day” You know it’s going to be some nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:57 PM
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I was part of one of these groups before I got kicked out. The whole “women only date chads” theory was immediately kicked out the door. The majority of those men were NOT CHAD AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:54 PM
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He said good for society but didn’t say how. You’re acting like he just laid out a slam dunk of an argument. How is women dating unattractive men “good” for society? Shouldn’t we be trying to breed out the uglies for the future gorgeous kids of America?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:52 PM
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Everyone is virtue signaling if they disagree with you. Got it. So why are you here? You believe what you believe. Anyone who disagrees is a liar, so why engage with anyone at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:56 PM
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Yea some might have. But how many families could actually afford that? Were there enough of these women to be statistically significant? Do you ANY data for this? Cause it sounds like you’re going off of “vibes”. And I’m not addressing that other stuff you talked about because it’s nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:50 PM
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What’s wrong with boasting with emojis? Is that a bad thing? She ain’t hurting nobody. You all have got to stop reflexively hating like this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:06 PM
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Because she’s had a big dick before him? You think the vagina holds the mold of the prior dick or something? You’re overestimating the impact of a big dick. As a person with a vagina it’s not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:04 PM
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You know in the 50’s a lot of men died right? They worked themselves to death, died from drugs, alcohol, abuse, murder etc. most people could not afford a wife with a martini greeting you after work, two kids and a dog. Most people lived in slums, breathing in smog, barely able to secure a meal for themselves and their families, working 20 hours a day. You guys have GOT to stop romanticizing the past like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:03 PM
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Why would she be posting on camgirlproblems? Did I miss something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:57 AM
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Have you been here long? You think the men here are consistent? I’ve seen yall arguing in the comment section over body count, religion, rights, children etc. you only notice the women being inconsistent because that’s what you focus on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:53 AM
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They really think a hot young woman is sexually attracted to an old man? And they say women are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:49 AM
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These men read comments from women and then it goes into a filter and they reply the weirdest things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:46 AM
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It’s not that size doesn’t matter. That’s not what was said. She’s telling you that there’s a such thing as too big for most women. A big penis could be more pleasure but HOW big is where the debate will be. Also, is women are TERRIBLE at eyeballing size so I’ll admit that is super unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:46 AM
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But is a man willing to fuck anything really something we can compare though? This just feels unfair. If a desperate guy looks at a sloppy whale and goes “hmm why not!?” Why is the woman judged for going “nah no thinks!” You guys KNOW how desperate some of you can be and you still compare it to women and act surprised why the disparity exists when you know why already. It’s not because women are too picky, it’s because men aren’t picky enough (or at all really).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:44 AM
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Ok so if I see you but don’t find you fuckable, do you then not exist? Because that would be INSANE.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:38 AM
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When they bring up the OKcupid study you know its about to be nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:36 AM
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Whaat does this sentence even mean??? She’s had a big dick before so therefore what???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:28 AM
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For some women yes. For some women no. You do realize that even good-looking men get turned down for a variety of reasons? Not every woman is a 15 year old horny teenager running after hot bad boys. Some of us are old and lazy actually 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:27 AM
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Do you not see how childish this response is? Femcel behavior? Enjoy seething? Redditors are so fucking weird man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:23 AM
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Oh they definitely do say this. Because they don’t have any options to be picky so they gotta take what they can get. <<<<< that’s what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:20 AM
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Birds like me? That’s such a childish and odd thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:16 AM
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Also why do we skip over the fact that clavicular was always attractive? If he literally stopped all this shit and went off to college with Brad and Jason he would have been fine. He doesn’t have the secret sauce he was quite literally born with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:41 PM
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What I’m saying is, if women are having casual sex it’s likely not going to be Chad. There are not enough theoretical chads out there for all these women to be fucking him at the same time. These women are having sex with average guy for a myriad of reasons. I’m not saying these women like the guy or that they are good people. They could be having sex with him because they are bored, have personal issues, using him for money, validation etc. but it’s happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:36 PM
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This IS the case you all just don’t wanna hear it. Ain’t enough chads out here for us to all be fucking him I promise you. Men who are 5/6/7’s in the right place at the right time, with a little humor and some liquor will experience this. It may not be very time the go out, damn could be once or twice his whole life, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:20 PM
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OH. So you dont care about how to help other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:31 PM
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Correct. If a hot young woman NEEDED him he wouldn’t mind at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:27 PM
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So they want options like women do? Chad doesn’t even have the options women do. How tf do they think they are going to accomplish this???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:53 PM
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Someone women reinforce bad behavior from me. and then complain about the results. Some men reinforce bad behavior from women and complain about the results. It’s a world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:31 PM
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These men do NOT want to hear women. Period. Doesn’t matter what quality advice you are giving, they don’t want to hear it. I have even see them attack other men for giving advice. If it’s not “fuck these women the are privilege stuck up bitches” then they don’t wanna hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:27 PM
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Sure. Then do nothing and die then I guess? OR if you really want a companion, like you all keep saying you do, then try to maximize all areas so that you can try to get that. Or you can whine and cry online idk. What about the guys who are 5’6,5’7, 5’8,5’9, you know the majority of the population, should they try to work on their social skills? Or should they just do nothing and die because they aren’t chad either?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:20 PM
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What?? Of course not. This is why I think something is wrong because where did I say that? You have to be attractive to attract women. The level of attraction and what you need to be attractive to certain type varies. How you look is OF COURSE IMPORTANT!!!!! <<<<< did I address it enough for you? But there are varying degrees of being attractive between butt fucking ugly and Brad Pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:12 PM
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The problem is that guys here think you need to be Chad or it’s a bust. If your a 3 fair enough, social skills are going to work for you. But a 5?6?7? Social skills might put you right where you want to be. It’s always 0 or 100 with you guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:59 PM
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The truth being that you need to be attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:16 PM
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News flash- most men simp. Yea including your favorites behind close doors. They are lying to yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:10 PM
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You see that goal post move? Lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:37 AM
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No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 01:36 AM
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I’m speechless 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:27 PM
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I do not think those are related. They are related to life satisfaction but they aren’t related to each other. Are you doing this to all women you encounter in life? Or only the attractive ones you think would choose you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:18 PM
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So you are going back and editing your replies? This conversation is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:58 PM
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Wait, you need someone to give you something for treating them equally in the workplace? And how does the workplace translate to dating? Why are we combining these things? Everyone in the workplace should be treated respectfully and equally regardless to gender or you wanting to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:57 PM
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If I agree to that definition, people STILL have to ability to choose the kind of behavior they want right? Like if a man wants a woman that cooks and cleans and the woman wants a provider I wouldn’t be like “omg what about equality??!!!” Because they are choosing that lifestyle. That also doesn’t make that dynamic UNEQUAL just because she wants to be a stay at home mom. A woman choosing not to approach a man has nothing to do with social equality, it’s biology. Men want sex and/or women more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:59 PM
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But equality isn’t even about going 50/50 economically. Feminism is about equal legal rights and opportunities. You’re trying to make this about dating but it’s not. If a woman wants a man that pays that what she wants, if a man wants a woman that goes 50/50 that’s what he wants. Whether or not a woman or man approaches first has nothing to do with men and women being equal in all things. Society may pressure men to be providers and even women may have those expectations but it’s has nothing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:09 PM
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I’ll initiate in some way but I won’t chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 07:17 PM
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I don’t understand this response. When people say equality do they mean women should approach men? Because I don’t remember that being part of “equality”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 07:16 PM
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Oh so now you’re telling me, without knowing anything, that my definition of ugly MUST be off so somehow you’re still right. With AGAIN, no evidence for anything just opinion and “vibes”. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:48 PM
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Ok and I’ve seen ugly men with girlfriends. Now what? Whose anecdotal evidence do we use here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:09 AM
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Yea but they like the video because they were entertained, they understand her feelings, they are sympathetic to the situation etc. it doesn’t mean that people agree that all men are trash. It’s a specific story about a specific man and woman, who usually is a good story teller.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:01 AM
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The average American make what? 60k, rents an apartment and doesn’t even own their own car. Let’s be honest here about what the AVERAGE person actually has. Edit: Spelling mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:54 PM
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Oh they aren’t going to take this well. Only miserables allowed here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:28 PM
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Because men are complaining about being sexless, lonely and unable to get women. That’s the reason. I thought you guys were desperate and would take anything? Where are these standards coming from???? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:05 PM
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I mean is jealousy logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:57 AM
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You do not know that those men are dating down because according to this sub those men don’t even exist. Either you’re ugly or you’re Brad Pitt. In all seriousness, we already know, statistically, people marry and settle with their looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:56 AM
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You’re arguing with a wall. According to this sub you’re either ugly or a chad. No inbetween, and your personality means absolutely nothing. I don’t know what the 5/6/7/8 out of 10’s men are doing but apparently they don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:28 AM
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Even in a dystopian society, women would only cluster around the group of men with the most resources for survival. There still wouldn’t be this one-to-one of women approaching larger groups of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:21 AM
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How does he compensate though? What actions does he need to take to compensate for being undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:43 AM
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Which is to do what? How do they make up for their lack of looks? A hot guy can be an asshole BECAUSE HES hot. An ugly guy is only going to hurt himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:25 AM
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Wait wait, who told little boys that personality was all that mattered even if they were ugly? I don’t remember my teacher saying anything like that. But you know what I do remember? Hot girls and boys in school getting dates and fucking and ugly boys and girls dating each other, got bullied or went without. The truth was alllll around you. The better looking ALWAYS got treated better in literally every single chapter of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:21 AM
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I mean if a man is ugly, what else does he have to work on besides his personality? Like, a hot guy who gets lots of women isn’t coming to the internet looking for advice right? It’s likely men who aren’t pulling. If a guy is ugly, are you going to tell him to use the asshole method to get women? It won’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:17 AM
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True if you are hot enough, personality and character don’t matter. But guys seeking advice obviously aren’t hot enough, so telling them personality and character don’t matter are not going to help them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:14 AM
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How would we even know any of this information? And if he currently treats me well, why would I care what he did before if I’m currently happy with how he treats me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:51 PM
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Just because I disagree with you doesn’t mean I’m angry. You guys always defer to “ahhh ha yourrrrr maddddd!” Like children. It’s Reddit. My original comment which you seem to have missed and are now just going off on a tangent. Was referring to people only talk about being a nice guy, a simp, or an asshole. There seems to be no in-between, such as chill and pleasant. NEVER did I even SUGGEST that all you needed to have sex was to be chill and pleasant. Above everything you needed to be attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:44 PM
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I don’t understand meme references because I’m a woman as opposed to me not having seen the meme? You’re so fucking weird man. Looked up the meme. Your comment is still dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:11 PM
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I’m saying dumb things but you equate a guy being chill and pleasant to normal SpongeBob. That’s not a reasonable persons comparison. It’s strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:55 PM
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If chill and pleasant = normal SpongeBob to you (whatever the fuck that even means), then you are very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:00 AM
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Women? It’s the women in here who are doing that? Lmaoo sure sure buddy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:48 PM
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Also are those men thriving? Because it looks like only the top elite men get the good food, good women, and all the spoils. The rest of the men AND women are dying either in war, poverty or famine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:58 PM
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You realize that men allow you too right? Like those “men” who would make the rules for what’s allowed would also be telling you what to do. You wouldn’t be UP there with them. You would be put down and told what to do just like the women. When men talk like this, it feels as if they think that THEY would be part to the group of men making the rules. But you wouldn’t. You would be looked down upon and treated like shit just like the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:55 PM
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But when we bring of a problematic male you all will say we are rage baiting, it’s not real, how can one man speak for everybody else, it’s a small percentage of the population etc. But then you turn around and post this shit? It doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:52 PM
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No I realize you guys just hear what you wanna hear. You take the most negative interpretation of what a woman says and the most positive and generous interpretation of what men say. Like yea some women are liars? That’s fine. But when we apply a negative male behavior to the entire male population you guys have a heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:32 PM
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They keep posting those studies but has anyone actually gone through them? They don’t support the claims that are being made. But I guess that’s fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:12 PM
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Is that all there is? Asshole or nice? You guys are so black and white it makes no sense to me. You could just be chill and pleasant. Is that not an option at all? Chad or ugly. Simp or asshole. I don’t understand this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:11 PM
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Hard stop standards? Ain’t nobody ever said that. Women say looks aren’t ALL that matter and yall hear looks don’t matter at all. We all know that looks matter. Women say that shit to men who are ugly because what are you going to tell him??? Your ugly give up on life? Or hey, looks aren’t all there is, work on your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:06 PM
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Disagree. The hot asshole gets a certain type of woman and misses out on the women who wouldn’t put up with that. The nice hot guy is literally a fucking god. He’s damn near Jesus from what I have seen. The good girl, bad girls and everything in-between want him. And no nice doesn’t mean a doormat. Just means chill and pleasant. I’m telling you men like that are drowning in puss. The asshole can be off putting to any woman with a little self esteem. The hot nice guy? 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:03 PM
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Advice? From women? No sir we have been down this rode. Men DO NOT want advice from women no matter what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:00 PM
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Do you say that to all the men who complain about poor treatment from women on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:36 PM
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Genuine question, can you see why a woman would not empathize with the male loneliness epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:35 PM
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Most women can’t eyeball size. We have no idea what size anything is. If you tell us to guest size and/or height I promise we will be wrong the majority of the time. Also, don’t mistake preference for a requirement. As long as you’re not on either extreme end of size, I would bet most women do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:32 PM
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Mind you these me have no way to verify if these women are actually dating Chad. Also, these men think any man that can attract a woman is a “Chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:41 PM
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I don’t care where or how the desire is created. The desire develops over time. That’s the point I’m making. You said that doesn’t happen. It does. What’s confusing for men is that a woman could be completely uninterested in you at the beginning and can develop desire for you overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:18 PM
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If you had no sexual desire for someone when you first met them and then you developed it. Then it’s developed genuine desire. It’s happened to me, friends have done it. It’s happens to men. It’s not that deep. The WHY you developed desire later on can be debated but that the ability to develop desire for someone doesn’t exist is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:48 PM
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Then you have no idea how alot of women work. This is not a new or crazy phenomenon. But somehow in your world it doesn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:21 PM
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Oh so you must HATE this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:56 PM
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The problem with this is that you guys always assume the woman is operating in bad faith and the man is operating in good faith. When a woman complains about a man you all ASSUME she’s complaining about Chad. And you guys will not hearing anything else. Because apparently only Chad’s treat women like shit. And when a man complains you assume he did everything right and the woman was the problem no matter what. So when you guys say take accountability we know you all just mean don’t speak. Becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:46 PM
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Is this for both genders or just the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:41 PM
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So what I’m seeing from the replies here is that men just don’t believe “emotional labor” is a thing. That might be the disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:04 PM
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I don’t think women want a metal they just want recognition because people keep telling them that taking care of a family is easy and it’s just something women are “supposed” to do as opposed to it being an expected team effort for the mom and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:00 PM
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So when men say women we are to assume all of that but when women say men you need her to specify for you? Lol. I find you guys assume everything in good faith and need no explanations or specific designation’s from men but assume bad faith and need specific labeling from women. It’s odd but sure I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:58 PM
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So when women say men they need to designate that it’s men they are or were attracted to? That’s seems silly and unnecessary. Do you demand men also specify that when they speak about “women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:41 PM
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Wait…. Is she supposed to be talking about men she’s NOT attracted to? That doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:42 PM
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If a woman starts lacking in a relationship or not treating you correctly that’s a problem. Talk to her about her behavior or leave her. I’m strict on advocating for being treated well. Don’t let anyone treat you bad I don’t care what the issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:44 AM
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The dating apps are wildly unfair to men because the ratio is SUPER skewed. It’s a complete sausage fest. One woman per every 2-3 men. I’ve seen men quote higher ratios but I don’t have data to back up anything higher. And a good percentage of those women are probably bots and/or prostitution and only fan girls. And once you filter out the women who are only on their to promote something or their social media the ratio of REAL single women to men ratio probably looks ridiculous. And the other is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:09 PM
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Aww you’re super sweet. It’s just that Reddit fatigues me after I respond for a while. I don’t know how you do it! Oh! So is this us asking the MEN why they are struggling? Or are we asking the women why the men are struggling? Because I would bet the men probably have no idea why the women aren’t choosing them. If the women aren’t responding to messages because the men aren’t attractive enough then I concede because you have to meet the looks threshold to even stand a chance I admit. And with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:24 PM
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Ughh there is so much to reply to but I’ll just stick with this. Are you telling me you cannot think of reasons outside of looks that would make a man not a a good candidate to date? Because I can literally name 100 reasons to disqualify a man as an options without even meeting him. You can’t think of any? I’m calling foul play. And I KNOW for a fact that when you asked women why the guys in their matches/DMs/Inboxes were not proper candidates for saying they gave you reasons outside of they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:33 PM
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Agreed. The men who actually have access to young women aren never apart of these conversations because they’re busy getting younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:57 AM
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Interesting you think like this, keep this same energy when women bring up rape and sexual assault and all the men in here respond with it’s not a big issue because only a small percentage of men are responsible for it and women are over-reacting. I hope to see you in the comments. I find that when you all harp on an issue that only affects a small percentage of men we should care and make it a big issue but when women do that it’s only a small percentage and shouldn’t be a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:55 AM
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Is this happening in real life or on social media? Because I wake up everyday, work out and have breakfast. Then I head into work were I meet several of my male colleges who I can only assume, had a similar morning to me. We start working whilst complaining about our jobs to each other all day. Then we all get off at various times and go home. socially inept, monsters, or romantic ideals. Caricatures. I don’t really feel or engage in this sentiment in my daily life. And when I look around no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:25 AM
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Yea and the women they are with didn’t seek them out in prison are because they were criminal specifically. The women they tend to be with tend to be like THEM. And are in the same shitty environment as these men. I grew up in the ghetto. Those women are exactly like those men. They tend to be on drugs, promiscuous, engaging in prostitution, committing crimes themselves, missing teeth and have several kids by multiple men of the same caliber. It’s very RARE that little innocent Susie que from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:14 AM
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Yes that just confirms his point. Pretty privileged means that pretty people get privilege my friend. If you’re not part of the pretty club (which most people aren’t) then don’t worry about it. It doesn’t affect you. How is she treating you right now? Is she nice? Respectful? Showing interest? Putting in effort? Then keep going. Wtf you thinking about another man for?? I swear you guys snatch puss right out the jaws of success with this weird way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:57 AM
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Follow up question, are you Chad? Because if not, then you don’t get Chad privileges my friend. Sorry to break it to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:54 AM
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You know this would take social skills right? You’re asking a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:53 AM
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Wait are random women walking up to you being mean? Or do you mean you want women to be actively nice to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:51 AM
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What is the actual power we are talking about here? Because the only power I see women having here is the power of choice. Women do not have any physical or mental power over men so you must mean the power of choice. A woman by definition has MORE options than men. I don’t think anyone is arguing raw numbers here. Women have more options. The argument men always want to pose is that the options women have are great high quality options and that women are just complaining and being too picky wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:40 AM
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I know plenty of really nice guys who are especially loyal and gentlemanly with women. Ok but are they attractive? Like yea yea the water tastes good but how are you going to get the horses to come over and drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:07 AM
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But most men will never experience this. It’s a non-issue. And the small percentage of men who can get a younger woman to fuck them, are too busy getting fucked to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:59 AM
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I love when I man sits down on the couch, legs spread and head tilted back resting on the cushion, eyes closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:24 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:51 PM
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Honestly, this is probably the best summary of this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:12 PM
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I understood exactly what you meant. I don’t understand why people are arguing with you about this. It’s silly af
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:55 PM
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I am responding to another commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:55 PM
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Why is this even an argument? The goal post keeps moving. Are the men fucking, marrying and dating? Ok then. Now it’s well but are they having sex with women they desire?? Wait wait wait yall just said men weren’t fucking?? Now we gotta care the quality of sex and the desire they are getting???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:07 PM
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Yea that was not at all my argument. Not even close to my argument. If that’s what you got out of that then you are being disingenuous on purpose and cannot engage in meaningful discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:01 PM
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Oh I agree being attractive + social skills is the winning combo for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:23 PM
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Let’s break down what you quoted and how they do not say what you think they say. “In the 12 months prior to taking the survey, 83.8% of make made to penetrate victims reported only female perpetrators” True according to the survey, but this is only for MTP, not for male rape (being penetrated) or serious sexual assault. It does not mean that women are the majority of perpetrators of all serious sexual assault against men.Most male-on-male rape occurs in prisons, jails, and assault situations ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:19 PM
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This paper does NOT say or conclude in any way that “women are responsible for the majority of rapes against men” OR that “men are actually raped at the same rate as women” There are a lot of issues with this data let’s discuss: This paper treats “made to penetrate,” coercion, unwanted contact, and rape as equivalent for prevalence comparisons. -Ignores differences in severity, trauma, legal consequences, and health outcomes. -Mixes community and prison populations -Household surveys (NISVS, NCV…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:04 PM
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Umm… what?? Do you have data for this? Or this just vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:33 PM
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Then they need to become attractive. What other answer is there???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:30 PM
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Yes I am aware what alpha widowed is, that doesn’t change anything I said. It’s a term men made up to explain female behavior. When in reality it’s not gendered and it just means you’re stuck on your ex. It’s not THAT deep or complicated. It’s not a female centered phenomenon. I know you guys like to invent terms for shit that everyone else already knows about but it ain’t new. You have no way of knowing if your second best or not unless you just assume that if she’s ever been with a guy who loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:30 AM
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“The wedding so many women dream of” Oh brother. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:50 PM
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How is this relevant? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:29 PM
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As if whores have an issues getting wifed up. Even the famous ones are getting chosen. I do feel bad for men because I realize in your heart of hearts you want the slutty women to be punished but it’s just not the case. The men still want them and it ain’t low quality either like you’d want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:59 PM
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Even if she was more physically attracted to him what does it matter if she is sexually satisfying her current bf? If there sex life is terrible because she’s still obsessing over her ex than yea she’s a terrible person for wasting his time but that’s didn’t seem to be the case. Because what if the boyfriend was being sexually fulfilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:55 PM
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Yea what she did was foolish and pointless the outcome is why MOST people should not do that. Here me out, let’s say your dating someone and she was super in love with her ex etc etc. it did not workout in everybody moved on. She treats you great now, you guys have a wonderful sex life, she’s respectful etc etc. Does her being super into her ex actually matter? This woman just ruined her relationship with her current boyfriend for no reason. And just wrecked his self-esteem. How useful was this …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:12 PM
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But even if they were hotter than you, bigger and taller, if she is CURRENTLY meeting your requests and making you happy, why worry yourself about this shit? It’s an unnecessary anxiety you are taking onto yourself especially in a population who is already struggling to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:49 PM
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Oh no I KNOW it’s significant and I think it’s mostly cultural and mostly pushed on other men by other men. I say that because it would not benefit women to make men feel insecure about these things. What I am worried about is, men telling young men they SHOULD be worried about it and shaping the next generations anxiety unnecessarily. Especially if these men are already struggling to get women you know? Let’s say a man finally manages to find someone he likes and the woman likes him too but now…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:45 PM
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I knew something was off about this post because he didn’t linked any of the post he was talking about. Everytime they complain about a post and link it they get destroyed in the comments because they just give you THEIR interpretation of what happened it’s almost always inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:59 AM
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Question, if she treats you well and YOUR happy, even if you found out she slept with her ex a week before you, does it really matter? Is this something we should have men who are already struggling with finding women to settle down with to be worried about? Like big picture here, is this important frf if the woman treats you how you wanna be treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:19 PM
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Yes but it doesn’t have to be “meh”. It’s not chad or ugly troll. It’s always either 10 or 0 with you guys. There are alot of men who are on the spectrum between that. A 6 that has a good personality and cares about himself can and do lock women down. You guys are underestimating how common that is. The guys in the 5/6/7 range fan make tweaks or fit into niches that can get them in the door. But then you guys will make those guy feel like shit by saying “your not Chad she must have settle for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:33 AM
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You all keep asking different versions of this question and women keep saying no. But I guess you all will keep posting until you find that yes. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:18 AM
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“Alpha Widowed” is a term that comes from men. This is how they perceive women to be feeling after she gets treated like shit by Chad. Women do not think like this. No women are using that term or summarizing their situations like this. Men watch a woman do something. Think of why she’s doing it. Then they label it and pass it amongst each other. Has nothing to do with what women are thinking or how women actually feel about any of this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:17 AM
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And what is this fear going to do for him besides make him paranoid and probably ruin a good thing he’s got going on? All men should focus on is how this woman is currently treating you. That’s the only metric you should care about. Is she caring? Thoughtful? Are you sexually satisfied? Yes? Then that’s it. Anything more than that is self sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:13 AM
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That info still doesn’t help you because if she says she slept with 4 men, for example, you STILL do not know if she treated them better than you or if she felt “insatiable” lust for him and is settling for you. There is literally no way of knowing that. Why not just focus on how she treats you now? What’s the point in being paranoid about who she might have treated better? Does she take care of you? Does she show love for you? Is your sex life satisfying? Yes? Then obsessing over how she might …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:09 AM
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Yes. So just guessing got it. Unless you are in that room with that woman and man while they are fucking you wont know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:32 PM
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But you will never be able to know this information. NO woman is telling men “hey I had insatiable lust for the last guy but not you”. It would be ridiculous for a woman to show her hand like that even if she did feel this way. So that leads me to believe, men are operating off of a perceived prior relationship that they do not even know truly exists. Which is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:17 PM
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I disagree. If I ask are you a virgin? And you say “you’ll have to find out” I wouldn’t automatically think you’re virgin. Actually I would lean more towards thinking the opposite. Women don’t assume most men are virgins generally. If anything they assume the guy is a whore. Women mistakenly think it’s super easy for men to get sex and that most men have had it. The default is not he’s a virgin. Yes, we are very delusional in that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:48 PM
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This is what I’m saying it doesn’t really matter what you think. An insult is purely meant to insult the other person it does not matter what is or how you feel about it. You can spend all day trying to justify why being fat is worse than being short it’s doesn’t matter. If the person that is disliked is fat they will be called fat. If that person has bad skin, a virgin, poor, a disability it will be mocked. If the person who is disliked is short then they will be called short because people are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:43 PM
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I’m not arguing with you I agree with you. Your take is a lot more nuanced and understood. I only wanted to address the guys who come on here who feel insecure thinking women are measuring their dicks when that’s not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:39 PM
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You are right in that I do think your standards and expectations should change as you gain more experience. But I ultimately think men think women are comparing them 1 vs 1 to other men while having sex with them (dick size etc) and I have never heard of women doing this. But I have heard of all the terrible nasty things they are thinking about the man in that moment though. It’s more of a “god he sucks” vs “John was better than him” situation. But I want to leave the door open because maybe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:42 PM
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Most memorable time? When I turned him down and attempted to follow me home, I’ll never forget that. Favorite part? Never had one. Least favorite part is having to turn people down. I HATE turning people down. It’s an overall uncomfortable experience for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:22 PM
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To be fair, why would we assume she’s talking about someone unattractive when speaking about casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:18 PM
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Yes these are indirect ways to answer but they are not deflections. Deflecting- Purposeful redirection away from a topic or question Being indirect- Communicating without stating something explicitly Again, these are ways to answer the question without having to lie or tell someone you’re a virgin which will ultimately hurt you in the long run. But also keep the convo going and can even be flirty. These are ways to help. Obviously if we are talking about serious things like stealing panties or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:07 PM
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For example, if I’m with a guy and the sex is bad I’ll think “damn this sucks, he’s not x correctly, or this hurts me blah blah” I’m thinking about all the ways HE is bad. I’m thinking of all the ways you are bad currently. What’s NOT happening is me thinking “damn the last guy was sooo much better at X and had bigger X” which is how men think we think. I may even compare you to how you were last time. I don’t yearn for past people I’ve been with or experiences with those people. I’ve moved on, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:00 PM
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I don’t see it as deflection at all. These are polite ways to tell someone to mind their business but also ways to keep the conversation going, flirty evn if done right, to maintain the convo and answer the question without having to lie. You shouldnt be forced to answer that question if you don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:54 PM
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“You’ll have to find out” “That’s personal I don’t share with people how many people I’ve slept with” “I’ve had experiences, learned things, and I’m good with all of it” “Between zero and infinity” I’m not answering that, but I’m happy to talk about expectations, values, or health if that’s what you’re getting at” I can go all day. So many ways to answer this without lying and without giving up the goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:48 AM
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I was not. You are being overly sensitive. If you want to believe that no matter what I say. Have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:29 AM
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Why even mention it at all? Volunteering information like this doesn’t make sense to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:28 AM
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People on the internet can also be super sensitive and assume everyone is being “mean” to them when they aren’t agreeing with them. At least sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:27 AM
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Anything about my attitude is assumed and/projected. I wrote that with no feelings whatsoever. Stop telling people your business that that do not need to know that would only harm you in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:14 AM
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How is anyone going to know if you don’t tell them? Let’s work on keeping certain things to ourselves in 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:34 AM
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Yes people wanna be approached by people who are attractive and not approached by people who are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:24 AM
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You just admitted in an earlier comment that it’s not 100% true for everyone. But as soon a woman tells you she’s one of those variants that doesn’t mind you accuse her of lying? Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:22 AM
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Who is “we” you are the only person mentioned 3rd grade specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:15 AM
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I’m talking about throughout school generally. Do you just wanna focus on 3rd grade?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:13 AM
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Nope it’s not. I’m not going to say some insults are better than other which is what you want. You think being call fat is OK because that’s something you can control while as being made fun of for being short is worse because he can’t control that. That’s true I wouldn’t argue that fact. Insulting people is wrong PERIOD. However, people are going to insult you based on what they see that will upset you. They do not care whether it’s in your control or not. Arguing which insults are acceptable i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:10 AM
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Nope I knew it was because they looked better. It was really obvious dude. The fat girls with zits all over their faces got no play. The prettier kids even got treated better by teachers. It was hilariously obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:06 AM
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“Liberals?” Damn we have really lost the plot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:06 PM
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I feel it’s different because 1. Chad differs every-time I hear an explanation for what a chad actually is. To a guy who is ugly, they consider every other guy to be chad. Sometimes Chad is described as brad pitt level attraction and then other times he’s any guy who has had sex. At least billionaire has a recognizable definition “a person whose worth or owns at least a billion dollars”. 2. The ratio on dating apps is sooo skewed its hard to take them seriously. If you were the only guy in a roo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:12 AM
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They can do what they want I just don’t wanna hear them complain about it. Make your decision and accept everything that comes with it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:37 AM
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If you randomly approach a woman in the wild you are going to be accused or rape or arrested. At worst she’s a bitch to you and tells you to fuck off. The outcome depends on how attractive you are and how open she is to being spoke to in that moment. You will not be able to tell which women want to be approached and which ones don’t. Be respectful and take no for an answer and keep it pushin. That’s the only advice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:29 AM
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This is what I can’t get over. Even in elementary I know which girls were popular and which ones weren’t. I knew that attractive boys got more attention than the ugly or fat ones. The fact that they are acting like they never know seems like cope to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:26 AM
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I’m not a man so I really do not understand it. Why would you want a woman who can’t suck a dick? Wouldn’t you want the best dick sucker in the room? You want lazy starfish sex? I’d want the woman who could suck me off the bone. This virgin thing doesn’t make no sense to me at all. But again, I admit I am not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:23 AM
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They make fun of disabilities, how the person face looks, eyes, nose, chin. If you have something that sticks out a person will insult it. Doesn’t matter whether you can control it or not the person is mentioning it to be MEAN to you. They are trying to hurt you. It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:20 AM
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Noooo I get it no point missed. I just don’t understand why you’re upset by it? Because insulting people is inherently disrespectful to the person right? Like insulting people is wrong. But that’s the whole point isn’t it? The insult it typically mean, terrible or disrespectful. And yes people do barrage black people with the n-word to disrespect them because that’s the purpose of insulting them. Nick Fuentes does the same thing to people on his show. He actively insults people and gets insulted…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:18 AM
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People in general, who have options don’t have to commit. Shit people without options don’t have to commit. Loyalty and commitment is more of a character trait than how good you look. There are good looking women and men who settled down or choose not to cheat or disrespect people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:15 AM
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That’s not what we are saying. What we are saying is that when someone wants to insult you, man or woman, they will think of an insult. Typically something mean or terrible that they think will hurt your feelings, hence it being an insult. Seems pretty obvious?????? No?? Like a fat girl would get called fat? A disabled girl will get her disability made fun of? Because it’s insulting?????? Did I say it was right? No. But that’s what insulting people is though?? Yall ain’t never been bullied befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:13 AM
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So why are we even discussing what 3% of the male population is doing? What even is the point????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:10 AM
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So why do we even waste our time talking about wha only 5-10% of the population of men are getting and living like? Wouldn’t it make more since to discuss the 95-90%??? Now I’m starting to think these chad convos are a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:10 AM
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That seems wayy too subjective to be used as an objective measure. So Chad is basically anyone attractive. Which could be anything to anyone? Then this is useless to talk about in my opinion. Because to a guy who is ugly, every other man will be considered a “chad” to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:08 AM
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People insult people by saying things that are insulting. News @11
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:19 AM
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Isn’t nick fuentes whole thing that he talks shit on his show? I’m not saying it’s right but if I make a show shitting on people I expect to be shitted on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:18 AM
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Won’t it turn off the virgin and low body count women though? Are those the women you all want?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:15 AM
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Let’s be honest how common are chads REALLY? Or is any attractive man considered Chad? Because 10/10 men are extremely rare anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:14 AM
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In your mind are there just chads and uglies? Like 100 to 0 and no men in between ? Also, men with 10/10 face and body are rare as fuck. How are we defining Chad? Are we talking supermodels and actors?? Or is any man with an attractive face a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:13 AM
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First dates are for ruling OUT more than ruling in. Are they as attractive in person? Are they being rude to you or the staff? Are they only talking about themselves and not engaging with you at all? A first date can show you what you immediate red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:05 AM
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I’m literally saying it’s all about looks. It’s a superficial app in which you swipe pictures left and right. How much meaning do you think is going into this??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:03 AM
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We gotta tell yall you gotta be attractive to attract women. That’s the lie yall have been told?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:02 AM
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They aren’t ONLY about looks. But it is very shallow dynamic and I can understand the frustration with guys who are average or who aren’t photogenic not getting a real chance on dating apps. Especially since the ratio is soooo skewed. That’s why it feels like women are only picking the top picks because they probably are which makes sense for anyone in that predicament. If a guy legitimately had 100 women to choose from he would pick out the best looking ones first. And then get to know them aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:38 AM
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The plot has been lost for some time now. I fear it’s too late for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:27 AM
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Dating apps are pictures sliding left and right across a screen. That is all you really have to go off. Most men don’t fill out a meaningful bio. These apps are asking you to choose based off looks. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:33 AM
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I’m calling BS. They didn’t notice that all the hot guys in elementary, middle and highschool were getting all the women? Did they not pay attention to any movie they saw where the hot guy always gets the girl? Even the designated “nerdy” guy in movies was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:42 AM
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How do you know that these women have different rules for different men? Are the women telling you this? I HIGHLY doubt it. It would be disadvantageous to women to tell men “hey I took it easy on the last guy, but you’ve gotta work harder”. There is ZERO incentive for a woman to show her hand like that. So that leads me to think you guys don’t actually know how these women treated the last guy. You ASSUME she MUST have treated Chad better than you because deep down you know your not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:14 AM
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I think you haven’t been paying attention. I see these type of men post in here all the time about actively deceiving women for sex, taking women’s rights away, saying women are as dumb as children, calling all women whores etc. If you aren’t seeing these guys then you are just actively ignoring them. Which is fine but it’s pretty frequent and widespread across this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:09 AM
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How? Once a woman approaches her 40’s and 60’s her “biological imperative” which I assume you mean is to have children won’t even be important anymore as she approaches menopause. Eventually it truly is a nonissue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:06 AM
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But men admit that they swipe on every single woman so the can optimize matches. So having lots of likes is essentially meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:02 AM
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I keep saying this. Men have a fantasy of a bad boy who gets 10/10 super models and that’s just not it. The bad boy has no education, no real job, commits crimes, might be missing teeth, likely does drugs and is menace in his community. AND the women who want him are doing drugs, have high body counts, sloppy, violent, commit crimes themselves etc. It’s a fantasy that is actually horrific in real life. You DO NOT want these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:20 PM
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This is a post I can get behind. Relax. Act normal. A woman is still JUST a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:16 PM
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People settle for things all the time. If a man or woman is engaging with a person they don’t find attractive, then they are wasting everyone’s time. Let’s not talk about people who are actively deceiving you. Can’t do nothing about them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:22 AM
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This doesn’t make sense? Why would Chad be paying attention to a woman who isn’t all that? Ignore her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:18 AM
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You can get advice to become Chad that’s fine. But until you actually become Chad don’t expect Chad like privileges. I say the same to women making outrageous demands or expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:17 AM
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Yea but are they chad?????? Why do men who are not chad complain about not getting chad privileges??? That doesn’t make sense. Like I’m not Angelina Jolie so why would I expect Jolie privileges???????
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:30 AM
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This is not how that works. The bar is”is he attractive to me?” That’s IT. This break down of attractive enough for this, not attractive enough for that, is not a thing. Once the looks threshold is met everything after that is based on non-looks based measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:23 AM
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Yes hot or really good looking people get advantages. But most people aren’t hot or really good looking so idk why you all continue to bring this up? It feels like every guy in here is arguing for Chad privileges knowing they don’t look like Chad and then refusing to hear anything else. I don’t get it. “You guys should really work on your personalities so that you can better attract more women” “But Chad doesn’t have too!!” Yea dumbass. He’s Chad. You ain’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:02 PM
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Nothing too extreme on either end
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:16 AM
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In order for me to talk to you at all in a romantic way, whether that be for casual or long-term, I need to find you attractive. I don’t really have a calculation to it. Is the guy attractive to me? Yes? Then that’s the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:48 PM
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You know most sex workers are making a lot of money right???? Tell me you KNOW this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:13 AM
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They have no idea. They make it up in their heads. It is not in a womens best interest to tell the current man she’s with that she treated another man better. I absolutely do NOT believe women are doing this. These men are imagining made up scenarios to be mad about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:17 AM
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The men here will say that’s impossible because women only have sex with 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:13 PM
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You meant to say “attractive men that happen to be old”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:31 PM
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Depends on who’s hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:23 PM
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Naw most men have the capacity to be violent against me, but if I like him enough I’ll ignore the danger. Isn’t that obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:16 PM
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OR they could just ghost them like they been doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:12 PM
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Nope these women are not telling these men this information. It’s literally all made up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:23 PM
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Men kind of bit themselves in the foot with this by always comparing themselves to animals lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:11 AM
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You feel them and their gone. And everybody goes on with their day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:10 AM
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Hormones just cause feelings and you can do whatever you want with those feelings. Post-nut clarity is also a thing for women. Men also release large volumes of vasopressin when they orgasm which is their “bonding” hormone. Doesn’t mean you are emotionally attached to these people once the hormone wears off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:35 PM
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Who is telling you that therapy is going to help you get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:21 PM
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What if he has shit against his wife he needs to work through? Or what if there are things he wants to work on and not tell his wife through fear of rejection or embarrassment? His wife doesn’t need to know EVERYTHING about him. The therapist is there JUST for you and won’t judge you or feel some type of way against you when you lay down next to each other at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:14 PM
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You took to big of leap there. Women are not attracted to majority of men they come across but that doesn’t mean the men they get with aren’t the ones THEY find attractive. These women are finding men they want to be with and/or sleep with. Men are just mad that they aren’t those men. I think it’s silly to assume that the women in relationships aren’t attracted to their partners. Women are not saying they don’t care about looks they are saying they don’t ONLY. That doesn’t mean they don’t care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:43 PM
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It’s not lying by omission because it’s not intentional. They assume you understand that a person has to be attractive for someone to be attracted to them. You guys need everything spelled out to you while also being the more logical gender. An ugly guy who is also sweet and kind is not going to be pulling in any women so I get the frustration but you might get lucky and have a woman take pity on you BECAUSE your kind. Sympathy cooch is better than nothing according to you guys. No need to be ug…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:38 PM
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No those women aren’t lying. The “he obviously has to be attractive to me” is silent and also obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:15 PM
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When I go outside I do not see anyone cheering anyone on about anything, I just see people minding their business and going on with their day. Your outside must be different from mine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:58 PM
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These men just want to sleep with as many women as possible. They aren’t interested in compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:14 PM
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The reason why a man may appear more attractive in a relationship than single is because he’s usually acting more secure, more laid back because he isn’t feening or hunting for pussy because he gets that at home already. He’s isn’t giving off an air of desperation. He’s chill because he’s already been selected. That type of vibe is what pulls the girlies in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:57 AM
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If they publicize it, it will be and often IS criticized. BOTH the sugar daddy and the sugar baby are criticized. If passport bros were quiet about their exploits and weren’t trying to fight and argue with people about what they are doing, nobody would care about it either. There is a subset of women who literally go to Jamaica to fuck black dudes. Why are we talking about that? Because they are quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:49 AM
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They don’t want to hear this though. They think this bombshell of a woman all of sudden wants them super bad because she’s madly in love with them. Like no dude she wants your money and/or citizenship. But don’t delude yourself into thinking that these woman actually want you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:42 AM
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Yea because he’s Chad. I wouldn’t be mad that Angelina Jolie gets more men than me. Because I ain’t her. Why do you think you deserve Chad-like rewards when you aren’t Chad? This never made sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:39 AM
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What do they think happens to the women and children during these wars? lol they never seem to ask or just assume the women are living it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:28 PM
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The evidence people provide here shows me why people actually need more education because what???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:40 PM
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There response to this is always “men don’t get women so we’ll take whatever we can get” and then be confused when a woman doesn’t want to be the “whatever” in this situation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:32 PM
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Agreed. Women aren’t MORE kind or empathetic than men. Women are people. Men need to stop holding women up on these pedestals and convincing themselves that women are naturally soft and kind, naturally more nuturing blah blah it all feeds into this fake version of what a woman is. It’s not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:03 PM
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Oh we know. We just don’t care. Fair enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:45 AM
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Who are you quoting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:21 PM
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Not YOU. But men are particularly angry about this. And it’s like a woman can never complain about anything because some desperate guy will fuck her. That’s the end all be all for most men here. Because you can be fucked, stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:32 PM
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“Men still trying to date you” Yea because men are desperate. The inherent value is the coochie that men want real bad even if the woman is overweight , lacking hygiene etc. That dynamic isn’t because of the woman. If I’m sitting here overweight and disgusting but some desperate guy is willing to fuck me no matter what, how is that the my fault?? I’m just sitting here all fat and gross. What do you want from me? To just not exist??? That’s my inherent value that you want me to be so proud of? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:42 AM
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Men do this everytime they post some wacko women off tic tok saying “fuck all men” and they go “SEE WOMEN ARE EVIL!!” and we all collectively roll our eyes. So just got with it man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:29 AM
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Lmao @ the data you linked. Jesus Christ. This is fucking hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:25 AM
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Correct. Sometimes it’s just pure dopamine people are chasing in these toxic individuals. Some people love drama and excitement. Some women are toxic themselves or have shitty childhoods and just latch on to the easiest thing they can. YES it’s typically about looks but there can be other things happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:04 PM
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The real issue is people just say shit. No evidence. Just vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:47 AM
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They’re overlooked because they aren’t attractive enough to overcome their “boring” personality. Assholes get women because they attractive enough to over come them being an asshole. It’s sooooo obvious guys come onnnnn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:40 AM
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Question, how do men KNOW that the woman had quick sex with the last guy? These women are not telling you all this information. So how do you all say this so confidently?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:43 PM
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Why do men think they deserve Chad like privileges without looking and acting like Chad? This always confused me. Like I’m not mad scarlet Johansson gets more privileges than me since she’s beautiful and famous. Also, most of y’all do not know if she gave it to the last guy quick or slow because I know for a FACT women are keeping those details tucked because it would disadvantageous otherwise. So I can only assume you all are guessing who women are giving it up to quickly. No data whatsoever. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:40 PM
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Correct. This isn’t a gotcha. If Billy was attractive he wouldn’t be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:35 PM
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I don’t need to. It’s so simple. I have no lack of suitors so why would I need to approach anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:50 AM
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Why the fuck would he tell me that? Why would I need to know that information? Is he treating me well? Is our sex life good? That’s it. Also everything I said IS related to what you were JUST saying. You’re are obsessing over thoughts that if you were busy and had shit to do and were a confident normal human you wouldn’t be thinking about. Never have I ever thought about the vagina of the next girl. Literally never.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:53 PM
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This is so odd to me. Like it’s just not inline with my reality. “the most butterflies she’s feels?” Are you a child? Like working breathing adults are not sitting around thinking about “butterflies” or the last dick they had. You meet a guy or girl and you’re compatible and you like each other. Get to know each other. All of this just feels insecure to me. Like are you imagining a bunch of blonde haired Stacy’s sitting at a bar talking about the biggest dick they’ve had? As an adult that work 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:18 PM
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I wonder if there is a spectrum/autistic survey. I have a feeling it would be quite high around here. No offense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:10 PM
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Damn. I respect this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:09 PM
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Attractive people get special treatment? News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:06 AM
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Women have been telling y’all looks matters. What you all REFUSE to hear is that it’s not the ONLY thing that matters and that other things can boost attraction. You guys only think in black and white and only hear what you want to hear. I’ve been on this sub for years and women, for years, have been telling you all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:06 AM
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Yes everyone does. Men AND women. People graduate from college, get better jobs, move etc. People grow up. I don’t understand how that’s a weird concept to you all? Maybe 50’s or 60’s is a better example for settling down because a woman options between 25-30 aren’t THAT different as long as she doesn’t gain weight she looks pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:01 AM
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That’s not what I see on my end maybe it’s the way our algorithms are set up but that is not what I see Also, I’m glad women did change their minds after evidence came out and called her out. 10 years ago they would have defended her to the death no matter the evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:31 PM
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It’s funny you bring up the DoorDash incident because I saw an overwhelming amount of women calling her out on her BS. Most of the social media speaking against her and calling her a fool were women. But somehow that gets left out of the conversation. When women support each other that’s all you guys see. When we do hold a woman accountable you all don’t count that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:13 PM
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Despise? No. Indifference? Yes. Because when we talk about men’s issues here it never goes anyway. For example, let’s say I care, what comes next? What do you want me to do about any of these things? Especially when it comes to men wanting more access to women. Like what do you all want women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:15 AM
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This is glorious. Well done
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:29 PM
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No data to back it up. Just “vibes”. I love this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:13 PM
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“Primal desires?” You know some people just like to cheat right? It doesn’t always mean YOU did something wrong. Like what if she was just an asshole? You gon blame yourself for that too? Come on dude. It’s the mindset you have, you have completely taken responsibility for HER being a garbage ass human. Now you’re beating yourself up because you didn’t invoke some primal urge in her? Like that would have stopped a woman who wanted to be gangbanged????? Naw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:56 PM
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No I wasn’t even thinking about a husband. More like a colleague? Or like a neighbor? Or friend of a friend that you put in a no sex zone (due to professionalism, boundaries, respect, etc) but objectively you think “he kind of cute” or “hes not ugly” and then as you spend time with them they flip over into the “possible” category because they grew on you while meeting the bare threshold of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:00 AM
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I suspect a woman agreeing to do a gangbang in GENERAL is quite rare let alone cheat on someone to have one. That’s a wild experience and I am so sorry you went through that. That’s ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:57 AM
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I mean it can. But you still have to be attractive in someway. But whenever I say attractive the men here think I mean Chad 10/10, 6 pack with the body of a god. When really I mean she thinks “oh hes kind of cute”. So it’s hard to converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:21 AM
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Why would a woman want to be just someone’s pulse though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:18 AM
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Sorry dude I don’t know if it’s the app or what but I can’t see what you copied there. It’s showing up as little black spaces for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:55 PM
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Ok so any negative statement about a group is bigotry? Just for definition purposes “Bigotry is having strong, unreasonable prejudices or hatred towards a group of people based on their identity, such as their race, religion, or gender, and being unwilling to recognize or respect their differences” Saying men want to be the prize is an unreasonable prejudice or hatred towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:53 PM
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Wo wo wo. You’re adding ALOT of extra sauce on that my friend. That’s NOT defending the statement. I am merely wanting him to be careful with his use of the word “bigotry” I don’t care who thinks they’re the prize. Women are superior to men?? When the hell did I say that? You are really over-reaching here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:49 PM
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Where in my statement am I defending negative comments about men? I was just telling him it wasn’t bigotry I didn’t say it was right to say. And I’m calling him out on being sensitive to one side and blatantly ignoring the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:47 PM
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Where did I say that? I think you’ve got it flip flopped my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:42 PM
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Saying men want to be the prize is not bigotry. Men say messed up stuff about women on this sub all the time and I don’t see you calling them bigots in the comment section. Oh. Wait. I see. It’s ONLY bad when a woman says something negative about men. Got it. Carry on king.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:32 PM
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If making an observation and expressing an opinion of the opposite sex is bigotry then this whole sub is a wash
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:29 PM
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Umm that’s not what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:28 PM
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Since when are women allowed to do that? Y’all shit on those women all day every day. So take your shitting as well sir
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:22 PM
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Nope I can judge your actions or what you’re doing. Your face could be fine but are you acting like an asshole? Or are they smoking cigarettes? Being loud and disruptive? Being bitchy and standoffish? Like dude come on there are so many ways you can judge someone. It’s also not just your face and body. She could be super hot but how is she dressed? Is she wearing a sundress or a thong? Is she quietly reading a book or acting sloppy drunk with her friends? That shit matters it’s not JUST about yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:59 PM
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You can judge people without getting to know them. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:38 PM
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Because sometimes physical appearance isn’t the problem. Theres ALOT of reasons you can be unattractive that has nothing to do with your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:24 PM
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Personality can still be a problem? Because compatibility is important
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:23 PM
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YES BECAUSE WHY WOULD YOU BE ROMANTICALLY INTERESTED IN PEOPLE YOU DO NOT FIND ATTRACTIVE?? This concept got the menz in a chokehold
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:06 PM
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Listen, if you wanna lower your standards and to fuck by all means. Have at it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:23 PM
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You my friend have standards. These dudes clearly do not. And I hate that for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:33 AM
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Is that a real experiment though when half of those matches are bots and prostitutes? Which is a HUGE problems that men face on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:42 PM
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Nope. Miserable people keep people miserable. I know married women who are making everyone around them miserable. Marital status means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:18 PM
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Have sex 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:39 PM
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Nope it’s not like saying that. Choosing something against your best interest once or twice? Sure. Subjecting yourself over and over to verbal and or physical abuse is NOT normal for man or woman. That’s NOT normal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:13 PM
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You can ABSOLUTELY fuck it up even if your hot. Especially if you’re dealing with a certain type of woman. The requirements can be steep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:26 PM
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Oh I’m sure it makes sense to the woman in question. But it doesn’t have a general “sense”. Like maybe he reminds her of her ex? Maybe it was the way he talked? Maybe she wants to fuck his friend? Maybe he asked multiple times and she was like “sure I’m bored let’s do it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:09 PM
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Yes “vibes” can be SUPER complex but a lot of the times there is no real sense to it. They were hot and she wanted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:59 PM
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I agree could be a lot of things. I think you made great points. It could be that deep for some women. Could also JUST be he was hot and she was horny. Could just be that too no? Y’all give women wayyy to much credit sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:30 PM
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I am a woman and have had these embarrassing conversations with other women. They have had sex with guys they want nothing to do with and guys that they are embarrassed to advertise. TRUST me. You all need to stop trying to make women into these deeper beings who think about all this crap when it’s all just good looks and vibes when your looking for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:25 PM
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If a person is just trying to have sex. All you need is attraction and to feel safe. You might not ever speak again why would she care about his job?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:23 PM
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That’s what the men say who frequent this sub not necessarily you. It CAN be a turn off to some women. But those just tryna have sex don’t care. I am a woman around women. You guys need to stop thinking women are THAT deep. I trust your account of your friends however, if a guy is hot and you’re trying to have sex with him. Him being boring makes no difference. And if alcohol and/or partying is involved, then as long as the woman feels “safe” (whatever that may mean to her), he doesn’t need to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:20 PM
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It’s not a just world response. What type of normal well-adjusted individual would willingly subject themselves to an abusive person? I have never seen a person flourish under these conditions man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:32 AM
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I’m going to disagree. You just need to be hot. That’s it. Needing to be charming, confident or having a high status job is not important for fucking my dude. You are the same men who will say that women don’t care about personality and will fuck a Chad no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:19 AM
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People speak in THEIR general terms. The person you are replying to is 100% correct in my experiences as well. Through college, graduate school and in my job today. I’ve seen it all throughout my life. Women will fuck dudes who are hot they don’t care what his job is, how abusive he is, his social status etc. Being a hot guy will get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:16 AM
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Of course looks and attraction matter but to what degree they matter will differ from person to person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:02 PM
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To be fair a good chunk of those are bots
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:02 AM
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Your single because you’re prolly ugly. The misogyny doesn’t help you. If you are already ugly, having a shit personality will only harm you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:13 AM
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Yea but they are garbage and you will find out way in a really terrible way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:48 AM
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We don’t know what you look like. All we have to offer is ways to change your personality or actions. Post a pic and we’ll start talking about your looks. You guys are asking for the secret sauce without showing us anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:47 AM
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Yea no shit. You gotta be attractive for women to be attracted. Don’t know how y’all missed that lesson growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:43 AM
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Yea you have to be attractive. What’s the secret? And the erotica (that I’m soooo sure you do not read) usually shows some wealthy or mean mafia type who is only good and loyal to HER. They don’t write fantasy books about men abusing them lmaooo or treating them like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:42 AM
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So if a woman does porn or is a prostitute your not going to care about her job? Yea sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:57 AM
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But there are some guys who it will help. Should we just not say anything because some guys are too ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:35 PM
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Again then stay ugly. I mean I don’t know what you want me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:30 PM
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Naw the hoes are getting wifed up. Not only do I see normal everyday guys chasing after hoes, buying them things, taking care of their kids I also see celebrities sharing the same instathots giving them babies and inviting them on boats. It’s all BS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:59 PM
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Why would you get something if you weren’t attractive??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:49 PM
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That doesn’t make my prior statement untrue the majority of the time women aren’t being approached by chads. The majority of guys who hit on women, the women do NOT find attractive. I agree that if an attractive guy hit on me and I thought he was being a bozo then yea I would turn him down. And you’re telling me a man wouldn’t. Attractiveness is all that is needed no matter what type of BS the woman is on? Men don’t turn down attractive women ever? Then men don’t value themselves enough I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:47 PM
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Yea most of the time women are being hit on by men that are not attractive to. I feel that if men were being hit on by women they had NO attraction to they wouldn’t like it either. I’ve seen men be approached by not attractive looking women and they didn’t seem THAT excited about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:42 PM
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Ok so not 9/10’s then. If every woman was guaranteed to get hit on by a 9/10 I’m telling you they would enjoy that too. It ain’t happening
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:24 PM
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Are women getting hit on by a bunch of 9/10 men? Because I don’t think so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:01 PM
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No one is lying they just aren’t saying the obvious part outloud. “You need to be attractive to attract a woman”. We thought that bit was obvious. You havent see attractive people being treated better your whole life? What’s the mystery? Or would it be helpful if we just said “your ugly give up” so we could be the super villains you think we are? Also, who would calling you ugly be helpful???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:51 PM
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We can only assume it’s your personality because we don’t know what you look like. How can we tell you what to improve on if we can’t see the raw materials??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:09 PM
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The most logical sex can’t figure out whether they are attractive or not? Interesting. So throughout their whole life they didn’t see that attractive people got treated better?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:08 PM
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Yes! Because they are not attractive. What’s the confusion???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:07 PM
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Wait wait wait. We have to tell the most logical sex that in order for a woman to be attracted to them they have to be attractive? Also when we told men to lose weight, shower, put on muscle they were PISSED and said we don’t tell “Chad” to do all that. So, in conclusion, men don’t want to hear the opinions of women AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:05 PM
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Until y’all start posting pictures up here for us to judge your looks all we can tell you is how to adjust your personality to become more appealing. That’s ALL we can do with the little information we got. If you say “I’m too short to get women” women will start listing other ways you can be attractive to someone (personality traits that would be appealing, actions that might be appealing). You have already acknowledged that your short, what meaning would it have for me to bring it up again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:02 PM
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If I had to think about my personal experiences, 60% of the time I’ve been hit on, saying no was not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:18 PM
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Every single time a man makes a claim based on self reported studies I wanna see you in the comment section telling them self reported surveys is not data. Because I swear I only see you data purist under post about women’s behavior NEVER about men’s behavior. I need you to be more militant in this sub 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:11 PM
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Yea she was a suit communicator. AND????? Like is this example supposed to something? The MOMENT someone shows you they are terrible communicators then you leave them. Simple math. Glad you left her!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:46 AM
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Yea because men don’t make a stink about it. Women will make a huge deal out of it. Go to HR. Have meetings. Send emails. Even get the police involved depending on what’s happening. If the men are just sitting back not doing anything you can’t also complain that nothing is being done????? There have been men here who have outright said they would love to be harassed by women and don’t know what the issue is. I have never seen a woman admit outloud that they would like to be harassed. I don’t thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:03 PM
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They have this “Hollywood” understanding of what criminals actually look like and the lives they live. The majority of these guys are NOT el chapo. They are dirty looking dudes, sometimes with missing teeth, likely on substances, dodging the police with no place to stay aside from their momma’s house. And the women who want those men live in the same neighborhoods as them and engage in the same lifestyle. These dudes are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:12 PM
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Definitely not in this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:05 PM
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Yep I’ll assume it’s a character issue whether it’s a man or a woman. UNLESS they post a picture then that changes everything. Man or woman if you post a picture the conversation would change
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:03 PM
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Trailor trash Becky?? You wanna slay violent women who are sleep around and are likely on drugs?? That’s who you want access to??? You gotta love yourself more. The type of women that want these type of men are just as trash and are missing just as many teeth as brain cells as the men. Life is not a TV show. These criminals are not sexy lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:07 PM
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Lol it’s clear you have never seen the show. No woman or man is watching that show envious of those people. People watch because it’s entertaining and trashy. THATS IT. They look and act exactly how poor trash criminals would. These aren’t “TV criminals”, these are people who barely have any teeth, anger issues, no life goals, disrespectful, no job, on drugs, living off everyone around them etc. and their partners reflect that. Their partners are also trash. These aren’t “sexy” criminals the men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:55 AM
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Have you seen the ladies on love after lock up? (A show about people dating criminals) there ain’t no high quality women on there let me tell ya. Are those the women you guys want access too?? Because the type of woman who’ll knowingly date a criminal aint nothing you want trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:56 AM
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I thought she was just explaining your point some more not trying to negate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:55 AM
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Offended? Hardly. Look at your comment and look at mine, which one comes across as offended? Lmao Translator? That’s an odd thing to say. Delusional? Yea this conversation is over once you start being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:22 AM
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Also the article you linked is saying that people aren’t having sex as much as the used to. So is this actually as big of an issue as you’re making it seem like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:46 AM
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This is just like a blog of summarized old data. Peer reviewed articles with their research methods unfolded is the only data I’m looking at. It’s hard to find strong data that isn’t just sensationalized garbage Edit: removed a study that wasn’t strong enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:20 AM
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Google it? I did you one even better. I asked chat gpt to gathered peer-reviewed studies instead of one off surveys from random sites. Here’s what I’ve found: First‑Year Female College Students: Longitudinal Survey In a U.S. study tracking 483 first‑year female college students (average age 18.1), 34% had engaged in hookups involving oral or vaginal sex before college, and 40% during their first year of college PubMed . First‑Semester Female College Students: Cross‑Sectional Data Another study o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:59 PM
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But you made this up “it’s current year and she’s given at least one man those things freely” you have absolutely no data to back this up. You quite literally just THINK that’s happening Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:18 PM
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lol you know these numbers hes spouting are made up? “2/3” “at least once in a year”. Just made up crazy talk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:14 PM
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Then stay ugly. Like what do you want me to say to this? Don’t improve then. We’re done here. Call in the next one!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:49 PM
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It’s usually part of a list of things you can do to improve. Already have incredible hygiene and smell good? Then move on to the next item on the list. What’s the big deal? First y’all were saying that women give too much fluff, smoke and mirrors when they are giving advice. Then you say you want blunt honesty, something actionable. I list some actionable things and y’all still get mad. You don’t want advice from women PERIOD. It doesn’t matter what is actually said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:45 PM
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Oh was that a serious question? Umm…. Enough? I’ve been to enough conventions to know that’s something funky is going on. Some men might need help with their hygiene. Is that hard to believe? Ok so is your hygiene’s perfect? It is? Ok let’s move on the next item on the list. It’s that simple. Let me guess, if I say you need a new haircut you’ll say “most of these dudes haircuts are PERFECT” how many bad haircuts do you think there are in the world!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:43 PM
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Only I have experienced this. So now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:00 PM
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Actionable items. Do you shower and wash your hair regularly? Do you smell good? Do you wear a fragrance? These are things that can help. But here y’all go proving why no advice from a woman would be good enough. Oh and I’ve physically smelled and visually seen dirty men before. But somehow you’ve gotta convince me I didn’t experience that right? So you could be right? Got it. Knew a guy back in college who had horrible dandruff. Shit was flying everywhere. Hooked him up with some shampoo/condit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:59 PM
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Yea some women do, do that. They remind you guys that hey there are some women out here who actually like xyz. Mainly because you guys talk in ridiculous generalizations sometimes. “You have to be 6 foot to get any pussy etc” so of course the millions of women out there who were with men who were shorter than 6foot are going to be like “what?? That’s not true!!” Just like men do everytime a woman says something about men. A man will jump in the comments and say “that’s just the dudes you guys ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:24 PM
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Let’s take a min and be honest with each other. If a woman wrote that in response to another man. Do you think these men would be happy? Satisfied? Open to it? Because I think we both know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:19 PM
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If you don’t think taking care of your beard, showering, and working out don’t improve your looks I don’t know what to tell you. It doesn’t get more blunt than that. But I have a feeling by “blunt” you mean tell me what I already think you wanna say not what you ACTUALLY want to say. Because even when a guy is facially ugly and asking for advice, men are giving him actionable things to work on (hair, clothes, hobbies etc). Y’all aren’t calling those dudes liars. What do y’all want us to say?? “Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:46 PM
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But y’all don’t say “women like attractive men” y’all say “women only like men with 6 packs, who make 6 figures blah blah” or y’all say “women are only attracted to chads” or “women only want the top 0.0000001% of men and if she’s with ANYONE else she’s settling” That’s the shit y’all say. We try to have a nuance discussion about how attraction works for women (which is different from men BTW) but y’all don’t wanna hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:40 PM
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It’ll rotate through again in a couple of days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:20 AM
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Then y’all are slow. There has not been a piece of media in this world that didn’t show you that you must be attractive. Not a comic book, not a commercial not a movie that didn’t show you, that attraction matters. All throughout elementary, highschool, college and the working world, attractive people were treated better. The more logical sex didn’t notice ANY of this???? If y’all didn’t notice any of that, then it is actually you guys who have been living in shells. In 6th grade the chick with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:16 AM
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I call BS. When women were telling y’all to fix y’all beards, dress better, shower and work out (all things that would help with attraction BTW) the men were MAD af. “Chad doesn’t have to do any that!!” “She fuck Chad even if he stinks!!” “Why should I have to put in alllllll that work for a 3/10!!!!” “The fat chicks don’t have to lose weight!!!” That’s what y’all sound like. Just be honest, y’all don’t want to hear from women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:02 AM
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Needing to be attractive to attract a woman is a HIDDEN PRECONDITION? As in, you guys didn’t know you needed to be attractive????? I DONT WANT TO BELIEVE THIS. Yea y’all are lost mane. Y’all can’t be helped. Pack it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:58 AM
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I’m sorry, are we in the TRP sub right now? No??? So I’ll meander right here. Thanks. Also, you don’t know the “substance I like” assuming it would be the relationship sub because I said you guys should want to do better for yourselves and not be so obsessed with pussy is also sad af
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:50 AM
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Turns out people are selfish. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:07 PM
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Or you could do all of that….. because you wanna look good and be successful. Is the only end game “touching a woman”? God y’all are sad af
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:05 PM
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Do you HAVE to though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:02 PM
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Let’s say we have two guys that are cute enough. Let’s say 5-7/10 in looks. One has his shit together and the other one doesn’t. Who do you think has better chances? Y’all need to stop acting like this shit doesn’t matter. Once you get out of college and highschool IT MATTERS. But deep down I think you know that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:02 PM
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Yea I agree with all that. However, that’s not what’s happening here. He’s quite outrightly saying it. If a bunch of women say something he disagrees with they are lying. If one woman says something he agrees with she’s telling the truth. ALOT of people do that on this sub. They ask a question, everyone says no. The one person who says yes they comment and say “Finally! Some truth!” It ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:58 AM
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They keep ignoring this nuance despite it being clarified over and over and over. And it’s ignored every time. Keep putting up the good fight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:41 PM
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You get how odd this is? A group of women saying something = lies. One woman confirming your beliefs = truth. Conclusion for you is every single woman lies unless they say what you already think is true? Y’all are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:26 PM
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This seems like a total waste of time. You gave your body to a piece of shit for “revenge” ? Y’all need to love ya selves more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:22 PM
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You don’t “measure” anything. You just act normal. If you wanna chat with her do it. If she’s not interested move on. Simple. A “hard no” are just thoughts. I don’t yell or attack anyone, I don’t call the police or pull out a gun. These are JUST interactions between people. Maybe I see you at a function and decide you’re not my type. YOU did NOTHING wrong. But then I see you interact with someone else or you interact with me that changes my mind and I think “actually hes kind cute.” That’s it. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:33 PM
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I was part of a sorority when I was in college and dated frat guys. Let me clear the air right now. HOT guys who are assholes get women 100%. But they didn’t get ALL the women. Theres a certain type of woman who is ok being treated like shit. Some women are not going for that shit no matter how hot you are. Those women had self-respect. But I know you guys don’t care about THOSE women. Ugly guys who were assholes, got NO women at all. Do whatever you want with that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:46 PM
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It’s not either or. You guys don’t listen. LOOKS MATTER OBVIOUSLY. It’s just not ONLY looks. But no matter how often women tell you guys that you don’t hear it. For example, for a guy who is a 5-7/10 in looks, personality ABSOLUTELY matters. How he carries himself and interacts with others can shift his chances of success 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:30 PM
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Because those guys are hotter than you so they get to sleep with more women. Simple math. What’s hard about this for you guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:17 AM
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I’ve only ever heard men perpetuate this theory. I don’t hear women ever saying this. I’ve even had a hard no, become a yes. Y’all perpetuate things among each other and then when women say no we all must be lying. It’s so odd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:13 AM
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Nope that’s not what that means. Your personality can always hold you back from greatness man or woman. But you still gotta be attractive for a woman to be attracted. Simple math
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:49 AM
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Attractiveness is the primary factor for literally everyone. It’s just not the ONLY factor. Makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:06 PM
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YES! Looks is the problem!!! YESSIR! You’ve got it! You have got to be attractive for a woman to be attracted to you. That’s the barrier baby! Let’s wrap this forum up. We have solved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:38 PM
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Yes because he’s unattractive. How is this a hard concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:20 PM
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My bad replied to the wrong comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:27 PM
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Hot people get treated better. News at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:34 AM
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Yea they are better options for casual sex AND long-term if you want chances to have an active sex life. And just because some aren’t anti- sex doesn’t mean they give it up quickly let’s be clear on that too. Plenty of liberal women who do not participate in hook up culture. And yes you are MORE likely to experience a dead bed room with a conservative woman than a liberal woman who can match your sexual enthusiasm. I was raised in the church, trust me true conservative women don’t all of sudden …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:20 AM
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So because YOUR boyfriend forgave YOU we should be ok with cheaters? You see how silly you sound???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:22 AM
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I didn’t say this. But if that’s your conclusion I’ll let you have it. I must caution you though it seems like that’s a sure fire way to get a dead bedroom but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:20 AM
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Woman here. A cheating woman is….. a cheating woman. I do NOT care what your BS reasoning is for cheating. Hang it up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:43 PM
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This is the only answer. Liberal women aren’t as anti-sex and anti-freaky as conservative women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:31 PM
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My point is, you guys said 80/20 blah blah. And the app is NOT backing this up. These women described dates and sexual encounters with these men who were NOT Chad as you all keep telling us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:11 AM
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Lmaoo have you seen these guys on the tea app? The majority of them ARE NOT chads I can promise you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:11 AM
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Because they are in prison all day sitting on the phone. These men can talk the panties off a woman. ALL THEY DO IS SIT IN PRISON ALL DAY TALKING. No job. No bills to pay. NOTHING. All they do is talk. That’s their ticket out of there. You know how good a prison probably is at pillow talk??? How good a prisoner has to be to talk a woman into sending him money??? What are autistic men doing? You think they have the conversational skills to compete with that? Also, have you seen love after lock up…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:14 PM
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How is this an argument? Women have an easier time getting dates. No shit. I thought we knew this already? In other news, water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:08 AM
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I would argue the way fathers protect their daughters “All men are trash and after your vagina” isn’t exactly helpful either lol. Most fathers don’t say anything at all. You act like fathers are doing a great job teaching their daughters and your wondering why the mom is trailing behind? The father are playing a “BIG “ role is absolutely false. The fathers are doing a shit job, if their even around at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:06 PM
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I literally wrote that BOTH parents should be involved in parenting their children. But that men should play a larger role since the boy will model his behavior after his dad. MEN and WOMEN should be modeling good behaviors for their children. Stop putting it all on the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:39 PM
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Why is this how you see the world? ALL OF THEM??? Like come on dude. There are NO successful women who are just normal people? That’s what you’re telling me? You guys are just as extreme as the women who say all men are dogs. The exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:45 AM
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So it’s all or nothing huh? Who do boys model their behavior after? Women or men? I’m saying that the male plays a LARGER role in the success of boys. You keep saying the mother is responsible and I’m saying that it should be MAJORITY the dads responsibility because the son would be modeling his dads behavior not the mothers. Essentially both parents should be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:43 AM
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Yep those are the only options. Everything is always all of nothing with you people. Every successful woman is insufferable. It’s like we live two completely different lives where I see normal successful women walking around who love their husbands and their children. Like who do you surround yourselves with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:35 AM
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Are broke bimbos the only option? You could date women who are just as successful as you. Why is this never an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:27 PM
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Why is the expectation for the mothers to be the ones to teach the boys about this? Shouldn’t the fathers be MORE involved and not less?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:41 AM
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This needs to be a whole thread because this is what the numbers actually shake out to look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:37 PM
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From your replies here, it clear you don’t want advice. It’s clear you don’t want to change anything at all. So what is the point to posting? What exactly do you want from us? Lack of libido, lack of sexual or relationship experience is not the issue here. There are women out there who would date guys like this. But you have much deeper issues. You live with your “hoarding” parents, who apparently you are going to live with “forever” and you have no plans to increase you value or address any of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:45 PM
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This is a weird thing to ask. Whether it’s about n-counts or prostitutes, if the person doesn’t tell you then you won’t know. Once you find out, you break up. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:22 PM
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Honest question, do you think people living off the government are living well? Like is that a coveted lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:19 PM
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I’m sure that definitely happens. However, men AND women have to grow up and start taking their lives/futures more seriously. As you get older your supposed to want more for yourself. I’ve always been pursuing medicine so the people I was around were always fairly serious so they took less risks than most groups of people. Most people are working and trying to pay bills. Most people are trying to hold on to the little joys they have left When you are younger you have more time and energy to be o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:21 PM
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Really? I thought it wrapped everyone up pretty nicely. I’m glad it ended before it dragged on to become something horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:20 PM
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I read the manga ending. Thought it was great. You didn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:18 PM
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It ended beautifully. I’m kind of sad that it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:15 PM
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American here. It’s the same for me. I saw those dynamics in high school and maybe early college days. But after 25 I just don’t see these things playing out. Most people are just tryna put food on the table. All those games are for the young and the idle It also depends on who you hang out with. Once I pursued my professional degree and then off to medical school most of the people around me were hardworking and exhausted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:06 PM
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I agree 100% People really underestimate the value of someone who is honest, knows who they are and knows what they want. Honest slut > confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:23 PM
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So what I’m reading in the comment section is men cannot consent to relationships because they are desperate? Is this for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:58 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Maybe you personally need that whole list of things. If a man is hot, he can get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:24 AM
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Financially successful? Interesting? Intelligence? Kind? All you need is to be hot to have sex. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:17 AM
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If you like regular show have you tried “Close Enough” ? Has the same animation style,creator and humor. It’s currently on HBOMax
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:04 PM
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Of course and there are both women and men out there making it happen. I’m not excusing anyone for letting themselves go, I just think these are some things that can make it more difficult to maintain over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:15 PM
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I think it’s simple. Working out and being consistent with dieting is really hard for most people. Throw in long work hours, stress, school/studying, disease/illness, mental health issues, kids and other family matters and a healthy lifestyle becomes even harder to maintain for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:02 PM
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This is it. People convince themselves of this stuff. And these dudes be showing you exactly who they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:25 AM
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For the most part, we don’t have to deal with this much. I appreciate you FDS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:19 AM
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Lies are like roaches. By the time you see one, it’s already too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:29 AM
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I also like how he called daria out for playing dumb. I was like “okay Trent 👀”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:12 AM
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These excuses always seemed weird to me. Like are you going to break up with me everytime something stressful happens or when you need to focus on something? It doesn’t make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:40 PM
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Online or in-person ....it all sucks 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:35 PM
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I have used a bunch of dating apps and honestly I can’t really tell a huge difference between the them and tinder. The men just act the same no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:07 PM
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This is disgusting. Both the message and the act. shivers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:47 PM
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Omg online dating has been so ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:09 PM
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