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And if she doesn't ask me questions? (8 times out of 10) and no it's not because I'm unattractive
/r/seduction09/05/16 09:07 PM
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Shoot...I'm blanking on the reference, somebody help me out? Edit: nvm..."This is the end". Is there another movie though? I distinctly remember this quote from elsewhere. Ah well, thanks for reminding me. Edit2: oh shit, I keep fucking seeing it on Reddit, that's why. Just Google searched to an /r/outoftheloop thread that was asking about it. Crazy. Anyway, whats going on around here? Something about a fish or some shit? Ah well
/r/seduction10/02/16 04:33 AM
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Agreed for the most part. I have a two strike policy, the aforementioned med student MAY not have been feeling well. If the 2nd time I try to set something up and she flakes or declines without trying to reschedule, I just flat out don't text back. There have been a few that will text me 2+ weeks after the fact wondering why we don't talk anymore. But I wouldn't "one and done" them, some women can be a tad shy
/r/seduction06/02/16 02:47 PM
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Depends how you left it. I follow the find a new girl principle regardless of how or where conversations lead me, because I know these women have plenty of chumps texting them throughout the day, and I need to have that kind of poker hand as well. I try to give ladies a 2 strike policy...invite them to a friendly outing drinks/bar/club/smoking whatever, if they give a straight no I wait about 2 weeks before one more invite. If she declines without rescheduling--she falls off the map for good and…
/r/seduction05/06/15 08:39 PM
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One of the most praised conversation pieces for after opening up any group of people of 2+ or more is "So how do you/you all know each other". Whether it be meeting new friends or sarging town for women. Sal employed this technique here and probably learned it in his time learning improv, a definitely useful video for this subreddit
/r/seduction20/12/14 10:23 AM
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The phone is more interesting than you. Ouch.
/r/seduction14/09/14 02:55 PM
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That technique seems interesting. What i find myself doing is making plans in advance (needless to say, seduction rules indicate its in your best interest to: make plans via text, make conversations in person/over the phone) and ending the text conversation with something like "Alright sounds good, ill call you tomorrow night" Essentially its what you described as "framing the call", but i cant imagine framing a call like the one you suggested.
/r/seduction01/03/13 07:24 PM
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Inductive reasoning
/r/seduction27/02/13 05:19 PM
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^ exactly why i asked. I've found that to be the case with girls that were 22 and then 21, it wasnt a "dismissal" but it was definitely a subtle emotion that really required extra effort. So I'm extremely interested in how a 25 year old, and now a 26 year old would go on dates with an 18 year old. Unless they were simply humoring their attempts simply to be "flattered"
/r/seduction19/01/13 06:22 PM
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I dont understand how that's possible unless the 25 year old is either insecure in general or simply very desperate? Age is just a number and all, but fresh 18 yr old talking to a 25 year old just sounds improbable.
/r/seduction19/01/13 03:33 AM
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Wow. Hey im just interested in this story, i don't have any advice in particular. This is really fucked up though, would i be wrong in suggesting you just abandon ship and figure out wtf is going on? People are saying HG is possibly into you, but you say youre sure thats not the case. You and Ann had a GREAT connection (it seemed) but all of the sudden out of nowhere "it was just a joke"....that seems fairly odd. Im not sure how good of friends you and HG are but if i were in your situation i wo…
/r/seduction05/12/12 09:28 PM
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...I still clicked
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:52 PM
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No, don't beat around the bush. Aside from the great post, That was a horrible thing to say. I wouldn't be surprised if she fucked him cuz he made her feel guilty as fuck. Like she was repaying him for the damage she had done. You know after that, drunk or not, you would feel like a total asshole for spilling shit even if you weren't scolded half to hell But hey, he got the fuck....i guess.
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:48 PM
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OP: "Not as good as this girl, SO BACK THE SHIT OFF MOTHERFUCKER I OWN YOU"
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:49 PM
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he's going to act like a douche and or homophobe. Thats the big one. With a line like that its almost impossible for him to successfully recover positively.
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:26 PM
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Fuck i knew brevity would bite me in the ass
/r/seduction02/10/12 08:38 PM
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Hey im with you, i dont think the friendzone entirely "exists". For brevity's sake i wont go into a lot of detail, I didnt read your topics, but in my opinion the "friend zone" is just a way for girls to treat guys they dont find physically attractive.
/r/seduction02/10/12 07:47 PM
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embellishment and elaboration my friend. In this way, reddit has actually become a useful tool. Take some of those askreddit stories that i know everybody reads, and twist those into a story that would fit your life. Take some of the facts/jokes out of there and insert them into your own story. Lastly, its not what you say, its how you say it. (this comes up a lot in this subreddit but ill give a small anecdote that might make it easier) I cant begin to describe some of the absolutely pointless …
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:56 AM
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I too enjoy the thrill of the chase. It seems like when a girl wants me i tend to lose interest fast. But when i am chasing a girl i like to do things and try things that might work, theres a certain enjoy i get out of that. Even when (if) i do "get" the girl, i get a little less attracted to her than i was originally.
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:48 AM
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You know what i take a different approach. Its a shame this wont get upvoted because of these jokesters. My approach is different because instead of defiling women below you, it raises yourself internally. When i see a pretty girl i tell myself the following: "Jonngotti, last night she was masturbating to the thought of you, go get her" I boost my confidence and quickly make my move.
/r/seduction13/09/12 01:42 AM
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100% legitimate. Although i am on the extreme side of things.
/r/seduction18/08/12 06:33 AM
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That's what i try to tell all my faggot friends that are breaking up with their 2 month girlfriends and crying to me about it. They don't seem to understand that they're going to meet so many people and change in so many different perspectives. To be honest the thing that i learned from r/seduction, was simply meeting all kinds of people: men and women alike. Through decreased approach anxiety and increased conversation threading i figured out how to quickly make friends whether they turn into l…
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:43 AM
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Exactly. stuff like that, they dont even realize it themselves but the attraction grows.
/r/seduction04/08/12 03:09 PM
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I'd like to chime in for the "talk to everyone" When you talk to literally everyone your mind subconsciously removes a persons (already) overrated characteristics or physical attributes. They just become another person that you can talk to.
/r/seduction04/08/12 01:53 AM
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Haha. drag, dude. When i take them out of almost any situation/event. i get behind them solely to be able to place my hand on gently on her back and direct her out. thereby initiating more trust/kino.
/r/seduction04/08/12 01:51 AM
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Its painfully difficult to establish it after the initial interaction because immediately she'll be accustomed to getting paid for and asking her to pay for herself im sure shed be out right offended. even though in reality, its absolutely reasonable. Id do it when the bill arrives, sometimes the girl will say "how much do i owe" or "ill get that" thats when you lay the "go dutch" line, ask her what shes doing next week, and set yourself up a next date.
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:19 PM
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thats if she agrees to go dutch. Also, Not taking my wallet out to eat sometimes is quite bliss
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:13 PM
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the reason i utilize Dutch, is because it gives a sense of necessity for both persons in the relationship. She needs him, He needs her. its a subtle subconscious way to familiarize with one another. i guess we can both at least agree that you never pay for her at first?
/r/seduction13/05/12 10:56 PM
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and if shes not interested why would you stick around? Edit: I'm just going to delete it, im very biased and extremist
/r/seduction13/05/12 10:48 PM
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im still confused..
/r/seduction02/04/12 12:02 AM
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even when sending witty texts that could possibly increase attraction, you have to keep them short.
/r/seduction12/03/12 02:38 AM
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I accepted the challenge and it didnt turn out too hot. You have to weigh the investment and the reward. Is she worth all the time money effort etc? In the words of a great friend of mine: "Every girl has a freaky side" You just have to find it or expose it
/r/seduction01/03/12 05:46 PM
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Id like to add onto this. I 100% agree with it and am so glad you said it. But id like to respond to the question the OP asked at the same time. definitely follow this advice, however from my experience when a girl flakes i would say "Bummer! Some other time" and never speak to her again. after doing this what happened to me on 2 different occassions is that the girl initiated the conversations or hang outs.
/r/seduction03/02/12 02:11 PM
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haha okay i just read his summary of NLP. what hes basically describing is a form of Delayed Classical Conditioning. its a psychological real thing and works for just about everybody. Ivan pavlov He performed the experiment with dogs: every action stimulates a response, so giving a dog food stimulated the response of hunger, or made the dog drool. Then every time you give the dog food you introduce a different stimulus, pavlov used a bell. So as he fed the dog he rang a bell. After a while pavlo…
/r/seduction30/01/12 01:39 AM
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Vocal Tonality. Important. it truly doesnt matter what you say, its how you say it.
/r/seduction30/01/12 01:26 AM
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Live the life you want to live, by doing this and simply communicating with girls eventually you will find one that wants to come along for the ride
/r/seduction26/01/12 06:14 PM
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Thank you. Very helpful
/r/seduction26/01/12 06:13 PM
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listen to both 30vanquish and TheOuts1der, combine both their responses. its true all you really have to do is randomly talk to people and that will start to generate stories for you. but also take TheOuts1ders advice as much as possible. the story can be extremely boring but if you deliver it confidently, positively, and enthusiastically more than likely will people receive it as fun and enjoyable to listen to.
/r/seduction24/01/12 01:50 AM
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hahaha....sweet
/r/seduction17/01/12 02:33 AM
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cant believe i got downvoted so much....alright anyway i have 3 honest questions for you 1) why do you (girls) do the pull back in the first place? 2) if you DO do the pullback, does that mean you dont want it at all or you just dont want it at that time during the night? 3) what should a guy do in a case of being kiss rejected?
/r/seduction16/01/12 04:08 AM
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i like to make a big scene out of it, like if i go in and she in any way rejects it or pulls back etc...i like to say in a high pitched voice "whaaaaaattt" and then follow it by smiling and playfully saying "i know you did not just give ME the pull back" and then try to continue what you were talking about or based on what she says keep being smooth... Look at it this way, if you and a girl are in a situation in which a kiss is likely, its more often than not simply a matter of she not feeling f…
/r/seduction15/01/12 08:39 PM
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this needs to be upvoted
/r/seduction15/01/12 05:35 PM
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read everything you said, agreed 100%. When i started playing the game i figured these things out relatively quickly because THEY ALL WORK THE (9 times out of 10) SAME, whether anybody believes it or not. First, OP needs to be in /r/romance . and people in /r/seduction need to realize that seduction is very primitive.
/r/seduction15/01/12 05:31 PM
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love it.
/r/seduction15/01/12 05:15 PM
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How to GET a cougar as a FWB? would love to have answers to that.
/r/seduction15/01/12 05:13 PM
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that looks like it, thanks a lot man
/r/seduction10/01/12 03:49 AM
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can someone tell me the name of the diet he mentioned? i couldnt make out the name.
/r/seduction10/01/12 02:29 AM
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i find religion a fun topic to talk about. Edit: just have to watch for boundaries and not be commanding
/r/seduction30/12/11 03:31 PM
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i agree, but her manners are that of what some will call a bitch. and as for your second point, thats an assumption
/r/seduction30/12/11 04:16 AM
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Well that was'nt very witty at all...
/r/seduction30/12/11 03:10 AM
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i agree with superchibisan2, this girl is, in fact, a bitch. this guy taps a girl on the shoulder says "How are you?" and she flashes a wedding ring? i dont know what else to call a girl that does that. She has no clue whether his intentions were to pick her up or simply talk to her on an escalator. She just assumed "this guy is hitting on me" thats a bitch if ive ever seen one. This Girls Thought Process: "oh my god this guy is asking me how i am, he clearly wants to fuck me, i better flash my …
/r/seduction30/12/11 03:09 AM
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i can verify this. however, if i know im going clubbing or out to get laid, i will NoFap for 1-2 days which is pretty manageable, and ill be able to last a while.
/r/seduction30/12/11 02:21 AM
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be careful though, men get stuck in awkward situations more frequently in a type of setting that involves, sitting at a desk watching youtube videos, showing her pictures, etc. due to the chance of getting bored fast. its a great idea but you need to secretly have a tentative plan for the night that will keep her entertained.
/r/seduction27/12/11 11:36 PM
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Impressive Edit: PEW PEW PEW
/r/seduction27/12/11 11:31 PM
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tell that to the girls
/r/seduction27/12/11 11:29 PM
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liked this enough to log in and comment. thats all...
/r/seduction27/12/11 11:22 PM
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its true, for those of you that are too lazy to read, Reddit Today I Learned is a great place to get those random interesting facts that you could just talk about.
/r/seduction15/12/11 10:59 PM
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i just wanna jump in here, box-monkey is 100% right, but i just want to stress one of his points. when you get her number, if you elect to stay and talk to her, it is ABSOLUTELY VITAL that you make conversation flow. ive known many guys to get the number and then theres that ...awkward pause... this KILLS everything, everything. you have to make it seem like its not a big deal. it has to be --talk talk talk talk talk get number talk talk talk talk-- plus girls will think youre the smoothest fuck…
/r/seduction21/11/11 02:35 PM
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accept it as it is.
/r/seduction17/10/11 03:26 AM
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the douchebag mentality isnt what gets the girl, youre not looking at this from the girls point of view. what the mentality displays is confidence, indifference, adventure, excitement, masculine and they appear to know how to talk to women (whether they truly know how, or not) . these traits are what attracts the girl. as for these girls trying to make conversation. whether they are trying to, or not, the Alpha answers are appropriate. the alpha answers will spark better conversation than giving…
/r/seduction17/10/11 01:41 AM
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this. tickling is the perfect friendly/humorous/nice gesture / girls dont usually pick up that you are trying to fuck them while you tickle them..so while shes being tickled (on the floor maybe?) slow down the tickling and look into her eyes.
/r/seduction04/09/11 03:51 PM
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thats the problem...girls always end up wanting more. i would be honest and explain to her that youre not in a position to make a commitment right now, currently you just want to experience life and wait a while to start serious dating because you feel that its too early in your lives to do that. life is short and it shouldnt be spent serious dating too soon. this works for me all the time, because its polite, youre not bashing her, and you can convince her to believe you and then its back to se…
/r/seduction03/09/11 03:34 PM
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interesting, im working on getting better at my game and am seeing progress. did you get the movie reference? otherwise it wasnt a funny line...plus she would have to get the movie reference too. otherwise its just awkward.
/r/seduction23/08/11 02:10 AM
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i hail from a little barbarian village called "lickenzedicken" care to visit? .....thats clearly the response she was looking for...
/r/seduction22/08/11 11:01 PM
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i love you.
/r/seduction21/08/11 07:42 PM
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i like to obviously..take a shower...wear some nice clothes....shave/make myself look good..while listening to either some music that just makes me wanna fuckin do whatever the fuck i want, or i watch funny parts of a funny movie like "Night at the Roxbury" for like 15 minutes
/r/seduction21/08/11 12:49 AM
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make her want you. dont take this too harshly but from reading this it seemed like you came off as desperate for anything you can get.
/r/seduction16/08/11 11:24 PM
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Abundance mentality <--- this.
/r/seduction15/08/11 02:53 AM
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okay fuck that...if shes gonna be on the phone all the time i wouldnt hang out with her anymore..let her hang out with her friends that she wants to clearly be talking to. on to the next one re1s.
/r/seduction13/08/11 02:42 PM
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just find a decent excuse, like say "sorry sorry my friend is on the other line were about to do something, can i call you back later?" Edit: i think i read your post wrong...one second
/r/seduction13/08/11 02:39 PM
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her: youre too cocky guy: youre too easy
/r/seduction13/08/11 02:36 PM
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this. yo dude "on to the next one" i know you might have feelings for her but if shes gonna play you like that you should not be giving her the satisfaction of knowing you still want her
/r/seduction12/08/11 11:31 PM
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i wouldnt...my friends and i talk behind the back of one of our best friends because he humps us...but we dont make fun of him...he just humps us..
/r/seduction11/08/11 04:33 AM
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dont start humping them.
/r/seduction10/08/11 04:45 PM
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100% agree. however fun for 17 year old high school popular cliques is to "go to parties, get shit wasted nd smoke up a J every night"
/r/seduction09/08/11 05:05 PM
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Im in high school too, and honestly high school is no place to pick up girls, even for a school thats not lacking the problem isnt the quantity its the fact that all of them are in a bad mood cuz theyre at high school and not in any position or mood to be approached by any male except close male friends. high school girls are annoyingly and VERY judgemental. for example, generally the "cute chicks" are in the popular cliques, and if ANYBODY thats not in the popular male clique tries to talk to t…
/r/seduction09/08/11 04:34 PM
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thank you, that makes a lot of sense
/r/seduction07/08/11 02:24 PM
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i have a question, are movies a bad date idea? (why did you say "I KNOW")
/r/seduction07/08/11 03:21 AM
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This. i like this
/r/seduction06/08/11 12:29 AM
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"Soo....ever been on an elevator before?"
/r/seduction04/08/11 01:33 PM
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this...lol through practice ive developed a two-face.
/r/seduction28/07/11 10:32 PM
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this.
/r/seduction24/07/11 07:10 PM
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Penfish, life is way too short to dwell on things, thats what you need to understand. you need to quickly let that girl go. put yourself in her shoes and realize she has moved on, why should you think about her. plus shes not even the person you originally liked. just tell yourself "it had to be done, its for the better." also key phrase of advice for achieving your old january self: "Youre the Man!"
/r/seduction10/07/11 06:52 AM
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honestly i think all of you are looking at this from the wrong angle. how about looking at it from the angle of how absolutely superficial the real girls must be if theyre only going out with him because he was socially affirmed by other attractive women? what the fuck? im giving 100% props to OP (mesonoxian) and my faith in females is going down. we shouldnt be discussing morality of the OP. what we should be discussing is progessively new game to adapt to the progressive superficial assholenes…
/r/seduction06/07/11 05:53 AM
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the only thing you need to worry about now is not getting a boner
/r/seduction29/06/11 02:02 AM
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about 2 or 3 days ago i read a comment from a seddit post that very much helped me ENHANCE my "Jonngotti, go talk to her, she wants you" attitude. Im unsure which redditor said this quote but i copied it just to help myself: "imagine when talking to a girl (any girl) that they played with themselves last night thinking about you. This makes talking to any woman so much easier, and you'll likely go into bedroom eyes mode, which is good." Edit: looked weird
/r/seduction29/06/11 12:55 AM
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i second this motion, and i thank you for helping me too, passive listening sounds like something i do
/r/seduction29/06/11 12:20 AM
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lol "Ghengis Khan is my ancestor" ?
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:55 PM
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just curious...what would be the best way to respond to this shit test?
/r/seduction10/03/11 10:50 PM
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ive become one.
/r/seduction08/03/11 11:11 PM
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masturbation eliminates your sex drive. and that is a huge factor when it comes to gaming girls
/r/seduction08/03/11 02:26 AM
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Sir Isaac is right about the golden rule thing. going back to the attribute posts; get some physical exercise, do some more hobby-related sports/activities. not only will this improve your confidence/self esteem by improving your body fitness and/or skills in different activities, its also a great medium for getting to know people/social intelligence.
/r/seduction08/03/11 01:16 AM
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This. there is a huge misunderstanding between confidence and douche. douches HAVE confidence and thats what gets them the girls. not their douchyness. Nice guys generally (likely) dont have confidence and it is this that turns a babe off.
/r/seduction08/03/11 01:10 AM
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The "alpha" about it is his i dont give a fuck about what anybody thinks of me attitude. He just doesnt care. if people like him, they like him, if not, then GTFO. its admirable..to an extent
/r/seduction28/02/11 10:22 PM
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i criticize their technique and tell them my grandma can grind better. this really gets them going.
/r/seduction22/02/11 10:11 PM
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1) i express to people that i do hot yoga..when they call me a bitch i tell them "why dont you try it"...and sure enough...they dont. hot yoga is hard as fuck. Own It. 2) i do it with a girl, thats a friend...who knows hot fucking girls that do hot yoga. (win.) 3) i too feel revitalized afterward, and feel like the fucking man. 4) ask a girl to do hot yoga. makes for an interesting date, and she will be impressed that you do yoga. and its an excellent bonding time(Note: i am not gay.)
/r/seduction18/02/11 04:15 AM
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