Jonny2266 Archive

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-4	Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truths A star NBA player trumps pretty much any current rapper outside of maybe Drake (and maybe Jay-Z, Kanye, 50, and Lil Wayne in the past decade... Kendrick and Em too but got different type of appeal). Most other rappers wear fake or borrowed jewelry and are more or less just gang members these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 03:11 AM
7	Women want a wedding, not marriage. A sizeable amount of married people are retired	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 08:32 PM
9	If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates. Maybe they'd be in delusional in much of Europe where people go to Dutch and the dating culture is different, but that's not the case in a lot of places in the US. Especially in NYC, it was a trend in recent years of women in their 20s and even 30s accepting dates with men each day of the week for free dinners. How widespread this phenomenon is beyond NYC or other major American citites is anybody's guess, but it definitely exists at some level. Add to that many women in the US making demands fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 02:59 PM
2	Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man. Their gender presentation changes and their sex characteristics may change during transition, just like it may for female bodybuilder on steroids, but the actual reproductive sex does not change from one category go the other as humans are not a hermaphroditic species. So if a trans person had biological children they can only ever be a biological father or mother to their children - i.e. not a female father. A trans woman can be socially and legally female though, but that is different from bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 04:05 PM
0	Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man. It's a queer attraction on the bi/pan spectrum. One could sensibly call it gynephilic bisexuality but some people wouldn't find it validating enough, I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 03:54 PM
3	Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual. Straight porn websites feature plenty of trans women, gay porn websites don’t. They are not "straight websites," nor do they generally advertise as such rather than just adult content. Transgender content is also segmented from "straight" content on these websites (unlike all other "straight" categories based on ethncity, fetishes, and even lesbuans) because it caters to fundamentally different preferences even if some enjoy both. There is research that has conceptualized trans attraction (speci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 05:30 PM
2	Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual. Most people haven’t really wrapped their heads around the idea of gender not equaling genitals. This by itself is a hill a ton of people will die on. People that aren't queer don't use gender identity over sexual characteristics to conceptualize their own or others sexuality, and for good reason - they themselves don't experience predominantly gender identity-based attractions. Even so, there are actually labels that specifies trans-focused and trans-inclusive attractions but a lot of trans advo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 12:44 AM
3	Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual. It's one thing to respect how someone identifies, and a different thing to literally believe certain behaviors correspond with particular sexualities, empirically and definitionally. For instance, if closeted homoflexible men identify as straight because of hetero privilege, that doesn't make the behavior hooking up with 10 new male partners for every one first date with a woman straight behavior because of how they identify. You can respect his choice to identify as straight, and not out him wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 12:07 AM
10	Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual. The counter point to your argument is that actual gay men, and I mean men who would typically identify as gay, are near exclusively not attracted to trans women. Which makes sense, because gay guys aren't attracted to women, or by extension, people who present/identify as women. And actual straight men are near exclusively not interested in trans women either, arguably even less than gay men. Meanwhile, though, bisexual and queer men are interested to a much larger degree, suggesting that it's a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 11:56 PM
–	DEI programs should end after the college level Edit: i thought this was a feminist community, and expected to get a bunch of backlash. But rock and roll y’all cool. You thought a redpill-esque debate space was a feminist community?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 12:17 PM
1	My coworker I liked rejected my kiss. You're a whole entire mess. Not only is it generally inadvisable to go after a coworker, especially one you just met, you're creepy insistence after rejection could make you liable for sexual harrassment and ruin your career. You appear unable to read social cues and put women on a pedestal so you should probably just stick to online dating unless you want get labeled a creep at your new location.	/r/seduction	19/07/24 09:42 PM
–	Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own age Sure, women generally tend to prefer to date men their "own age," at any age, not just their 20s. Some women in graduate school even find men dating someone two years younger in college "weird" or "creepy." However, once you've been in the real world for a few years, plenty of women still in their 20s open up to dating men in their 30s and maybe even 40s, especially if you live in a large city because such men are still at a similar "life stage" just with way more money, status, and life experie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 04:59 PM
–	As a White Man, Black Women get hated for no Reason, and i never understood why this is. Those stereotypes are for women in the US, not Europe or Africa, and, even there, it's more of a class and socioeconomic issue while still also being a gross generalization by dudes "redpilled" by the Black manosphere during the pandemic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 09:12 AM
1	Would you hate even more the french dating scene ? Yeah, these things all sound better than the US datng scene, generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 08:46 PM
3	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick I think they're making the distinction that men care about celebrities more in terms about their craft than about gossip regarding their personal lives and relationships. For instance, men would care about Leonardo DiCaprio's next movie while many women would care about Leo's next girlfriend and her age. Celebrity endorsed prodicts are just marketing and for athletes it's usually sports-related anyway. If I'm going play basketball, why not wear the same shoes that LeBron does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 03:31 PM
11	(M23) Needs advice on how to proceed (F40+), (22F) I implore you to use some common sense. No, a 40-year-old teacher being nice to you is just being nice, and is not just going to damage her career and social reputation by hooking up with what is essentially a kid (in her eyes). You're just way too horny, buddy, and it's clouding your judgement. If she wasn't your teacher, it'd be fine to make a move, but you got to keep in mind that 40-year-old women don't tend think the same way about life and relationships as 20-year-olds, which is why it's a…	/r/seduction	10/04/24 05:30 AM
12	Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbag It's mostly autism that does it. Not sure why other "neurodivergent" conditions are all lumped together in this way, as it is basically just any mental and behavioral difference from the norm, including those that may be beneficial for a man in attracting women such as dark triad traits. Even something like ADHD isn't even a handicap when it manifests as risk-taking, fun-loving, partygoing, and globetrotting, while being socially competent. (Every guy I knew on Adderall/Ritalin/Vyvanse in HS exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 02:01 AM
5	If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s? "Compared with fathers between the ages of 25 and 34 (the average age of paternity in the United States), infants born to men 45 or older were 14 percent more likely to be admitted to the NICU, 14 percent more likely to be born prematurely, 18 percent more likely to have seizures and 14 percent more likely to have a low birth weight. If a father was 50 or older, the likelihood that their infant would need ventilation upon birth increased by 10 percent, and the odds that they would need assistanc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 08:32 PM
0	If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s? It makes sense to me because sexual and romantic attraction is 100% triggered by looks and older men are not in their prime in looks especially given that men can start balding at 18. That is much less true for men than women. Both men and women are subconsciously attracted to good genes and fertility, and age is just a proxy for that. There is likely a strong social aspect to women's preferences rather than purely biological, otherwise it would trend the same as those of men. So young women pre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 07:54 PM
1	If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s? I think men here often play a very cunning subconscious game where they will say women are attracted to older men, and when they do so, they use a very complex definition of "attracted to" which is to say that they realize these men are not physically attractive to these women, but that their money, power, status, and sometimes maturity (compared to a very young woman) are attractive. And then they pretend that means he's physically attractive to her. It's not disingeneous. Women generally aren'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 07:33 PM
5	Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age? That may in part be because men with autistic traits are likely to have children later in life. But simply being over 40 or even 50 when becoming a father does not mean there is a great risk the child will be autistic. Even if it's slightly greater than a younger man's risk, the absolute risk is still fairly low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 03:03 AM
4	How to escalate flirting to sexual questions when I myself am a Virgin? Yikes! Why would you ask these questions in the first place? These questions aren't even "flirty" either, just cringe, unless maybe she's taking the initiative first. You don't need to be open about your inexperience but don't put on her a pedastal such that you worry excessively about trashy white lies being discovered in a relationship unlikely to happen (assuming you're talking to multiple women).	/r/seduction	14/02/24 08:39 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Anatomical features are coded by genes but behaviors are not. Of course, they are. Hence how dogs and cats become domesticated and why pitbull terriers exhibit more aggression than golden retrievers, etc. Selective breeders carefully pay attention to the behaviors of the parents to control the probability of certain behavioral traits occurring in the offspring. The four laws of behavioral genetics seem to focus on genetic twins which in my opinion does not invalidate the extensive research on ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 05:45 PM
1	"just be skinny" doesn't work Maxine Waters is 85, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 08:54 AM
5	CMV: The most important factor in life is neurotypicality You are wrong. The best example I can give of this is greats like Kobe/MJ. Kobe and MJ aren't autistic (though Einstein may have been), which I think is the implied emphasis of OP, not simply being way more competitive and single-minded than average. Sure, "neurodivergence" can terminologically be applied to non-autistic traits or conditions but it's predominantly a term related to the autism and autism rights movement. So referring to non-autistic traits as enabling a person to be successful, e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 09:01 AM
–	More men are bisexual /sexual fluid than we admit It's obvious that lots of closeted bisexual men label themselves as straight yet behave otherwise. That still doesn't disprove the numerous studies that have shown women to be much more sexually fluid overall (even subconsciously) than men, which is also borne out in the real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/23 04:14 AM
6	Kevin Samuels was a great man who only wanted to help If you followed him since he was just reviewing fragrances, you'd realize Kevin Samuels was a grifter and a borderline scammer who found his niche appealing to gullible and jaded men and hit the jackpot rehashing the sex wars during the pandemic. He did help provide some perspective to people but he typically went too far and even failed to live up to even the simplest standards he would impose on random women - all part of his "image," as a fake BS "image consultant." But kudos for playing the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 09:09 PM
1	Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men? Lol I was about to say. Most women prefer gay porn and bi men because they're much more attentive imo. "Most women" don't even watch porn and among those that do, gay male porn is far from the most popular category. In fact, lesbian porn is the top ranked category, but that's mostly because the straight category is so heavily segmented yet could also suggest that two women having sex is still way more appealing to straight women than two gay men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 08:54 PM
7	Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men? There are a lot of women who find MM hot. Gay male/male fanfiction and erotica written by women is now even more popular than heterosexual romance. Fanfiction is incredibly niche and has long been dominated by slash shippers and written by queer people themselves or straight women that fetishize gay relationships. I don't think that a small portion of women being highly enthusiastic about gay fanfiction translates into the vast majority of straight women finding their man sucking penis to be a d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 08:38 PM
5	Men age like wine, women age like... Bruh... tbf though, women who really take care of themselves can look pretty good into their 50s and 60s especially if blessed by Xenu.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 09:10 AM
1	Let's just be honest, about men and height. Kris Humphries had equal status and money to pre-Nazi Kanye in the 2010s??	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 09:05 AM
2	Let's just be honest, about men and height. There's likely some self-selection bias involved. That is, women with very strong height preferences such that they'll buy a premium membership to filter out shorter men will be overrepresented in the sample. Also, height preferences abd such may not be as rigid IRL where men can better reflect other, less superficial qualities about themselves. Tall height is still a major benefit in general but the blackpill narrative is overblown.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 09:02 AM
3	Let's just be honest, about men and height. No, it's an inclusion filter based on range of heights included among women stating their height preferences. There's a self-selection bias present though so it's not entirely appropriate to extend the same preferences to single women dating in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 08:56 AM
14	Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating Trends What's interesting to me is if white is the beauty standard in Western countries then it's not fully explanatory for why Asian women are more popular than white women. I think this data is just for the US, but in general they tend to be less overweight abd shorter on average than other races and there may be a perception that they're also more submissive. That doesn't mean the idealized Western beauty standard of a tall-ish blonde chick a la Taylor Swift, which most white woman do not come close…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 04:36 AM
2	I am slowly starting to despise Andrew Tate He's black/mixed though, lol. And seems that most of his "women" are just prostitutes and cam models for his business. Otherwise yes, the rich (athletic) bad boy is one archetype that can do well with women but so can others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 10:46 AM
0	Q4M: what should women know about sex? For cucks, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 10:28 AM
4	The reasons women show for not wanting to date a bisexual man are pretty similar to the reasons behind not wanting to date a high N woman. But somehow only the second case is sexist. Of course, it's socially acceptable. That's what why constitutes a preference. Publicly shaming people for being bisexual or having a high number of sex partners shouldn't be (but often is) socially acceptable, but the stigma still exists in much of the modern heterosexual dating market. People just keep it to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 11:42 AM
2	Are women more superstitious? Sexual selection is literally part of Darwininian evolution. Deny that and might as well evolution as a whole. Whether it's true in the sense of how the Red Pill applies it is a different story. Astrology on the other hand is complete bunk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 04:27 PM
3	Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average woman Men with decent incomes can age very well without being close to rich. The issue isn't wealth but lifestyle and self-care. Lots of guys simply don't care about how they look (no skin care routine or sense of style), have a poor diet, bad stress management, and don't workout properly so they age poorly. It's not even that men become more desirable in a vacuum compared to peer-aged women. It's that they become RELATIVELY more desirable as they age in relation to the women they want to attract wher…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 03:55 PM
2	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating Lol being on the spectrum actually has a higher likelihood someone has a very high IQ compared to average. No, people on the spectrum have lower IQs on average, unless maybe you want restrict it to high-functioning autistic people or people with savant syndrome. Regardless, IQ doesn't necessarily translate to social and intercultural competence anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 10:47 AM
3	Something most women just wish men understood Eh, of course men understand it. Men are even much more likely to be the victim of male violence than women are. Doesn't stop such statements and from being prejudicial though when applied to "all men" wholesale with self-righteuous unawareness and dismissiveness. The rhetoric really isn't a serious men face but people find it annoying due to the hypocrisy when a lot bitter men could echo similar broad statements about "not trusting women," "women being irrational," and "women are unfit" for cer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:31 AM
0	The importance of male neurotypicality is underrated in dating Not so fast. Studies also show that autistic men are just as empathetic as their NT counterparts [7] on top of lying less frequently overall and lying less adeptly [8]. This doesn't appear true even according to the cited study: The results showed that the empathy impairment evident in individuals with ASCs is component specific; that is, trait-cognitive empathy, trait-empathic concern, state-cognitive empathy, and state-empathic concern are impaired, whereas state-empathic accuracy remains inta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 11:49 PM
1	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. To an extent but the pattern is typically stronger the other way around. Women screen out men not on their level or above, educationally and professionally, but men generally don't have an equally strong preference. It's the whole basis for why dating is "hard" for educated women in large cities since women get more degrees than men and won't "date down." In medicine, for instance, 25% of female doctors marry other doctors and 11% marry non-doctor healthcare professionals such as nurses, whereas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 07:46 PM
3	It’s significantly easier to be an attractive woman than it is to be an attractive man Lol, 1D Harry Styles appealed to teenagers. His current appeal is among women in their 20s is based on leveraging his status as a rock star and fashion icon, not his "ideal of masculinity." Ironically, he's actually become more masculine with age. Surprise fact though: star power nets you attraction regardless. So wearing a dress is just seen as a "bold fashion choice" for a male mega celebrity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 10:30 PM
1	Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractive There's a difference between 26 and 31 and 26 and 36. And even so, it may not be due to lack of attraction but simply because they don't hang out in the same circles. 36-year-olds hang out with other 36-year-olds and are also likely to meet and get to know other women who are around 36-year-olds and potentially date them. Likewise with 26-year-olds and 31-year-olds. But that doesn't mean there's an inherent lack of attraction due to those dating and sicializing patterns. Students from College X …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 08:30 PM
-1	Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractive These are two separate things and don't really make a point. Whether men are disgusted with promiscuous women or not is independent from whether or not women like older men. In religious societies, sich as in the Middle East for instance, promoscuity is frowned upon but many marriages got large age gaps in large due to the man's status (aquired over time). But yes, in the US, dependent early 20s women in college and such are less likely to date men over 30 but that's also in large part because t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 08:21 PM
5	What do you think a High Value Man wants from a partner? He is fit. He exercises 1-2 days per week and eats mostly healthy. That's near "low-value" tier, lol, even just in terms of general health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 12:23 AM
15	Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly? Yes, they are an anomaly. College-aged women, and their friends, care more about the dudiest frat bro or the captain of the football or basketball team. College life is also a bubble, so even men below 30 are outside most of these women's considerations unless they met while in college or maybe graduate school. Women 22 and under don't yet proper perspective regarding the attractive benefits that someone over 30 may have, but they'll gain those at about age 24-25 once the post-college phase is o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 10:51 PM
7	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West This gender war could be a long-term outcome of the current trends of western dating culture. Often, this sub’s users will discuss the phenomenon of women being empowered and college educated while men increasingly become hopeless, lonely, and poor. Redpillers think the phenomenon will culminate in a major antifeminst reaction, while blue-pillers think it won’t go anywhere and it’s just a revenge fantasy. This instance definitely proves the former. As I mentioned above, modern anti-feminism is n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 01:52 AM
4	I shorter-average height guys need to learn how to use their height to their advantage. Being tall and muscular doesn't make you "threatening" unless you behave in a threatening manner. If anything, it makes you seem more "protective" once they get to know you, which is highly attractive. But even being seen as dangerous can elicit bad boy attraction too if you look the part so even on that end it can work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 03:16 PM
3	AI Researcher wants to find a long term monogamous partner to have biological children with - rate his profile No, it's because he gives off rather obvious autistic vibes and men with strong autistic traits are almost fundamentally incompatible romantically with most women not the spectrum unless they take major steps to adapt. On top of that, I suspect the way he repeatedly lectures about something as normal as wanting to have children can come across as off-putting to a lot women too. I don't think he'll be unable to find someone eventually though, esoecially if globalmaxxing with developing countries-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 03:34 AM
2	What are good examples of the female gaze in media? Anime has a lot of good examples of the female gaze. Its truly astounding how much content is geared to female audiences compared to western nations, where female gaze is almost nonexistent (anime still has more male gaze content but stuff for women is certainly there). I'd say it's because manga (and by extension anime) is more of an auteur-focused, low-cost medium unlike Hollywood movies approved by committee which allows for incredible volume and variety of work. Most manga authors are also w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:55 PM
5	What are good examples of the female gaze in media? I know Mad Max had a feminist consultant, but just because you a have strong female co-lead doesn't men it has a "female gaze." Same with Wonder Woman to a great extent. I can't recall either of them really having any sexualized males, while both movies had notably "sexy" female actors and supermodels like Gal Galdot and Rosie Huntington-Whiteley. Though I guess Chris Pine was the dreamy boyfriend and Tom Hardy the bad boy but I still think these stand out in that regard either way. George Cloon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:39 PM
1	What are good examples of the female gaze in media? Yes, I'd say the "female gaze" is basically about a very high-value man (i.e. prince) or men finding a relatable but otherwise low- or medium-value women irresistable. The Bachelorette is probably an example of this dynamic for women, but also the Bachelor in a sense as pretty but average women get to attain a "prince" and women live vicariously through the competitors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:27 PM
1	Straight men, when is it OK for gay men to cold approach you? Useless analogue. This is much closer in comparison to asking lesbians when it's OK for straight men to approach them. Heterosexual gender dynamics and expectations are also different even if men can over do it or lack the social awareness of when it's appropriate to approach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 06:39 AM
2	Men dont age better It's somewhat common for women above 25 to date men 5 to 10 years older (and sometimes more) especially in larger cities. I don't think a lot men in their 30s even in NYC go for college-aged women except for a potential hook-up due to differences in maturity levels and lifestyle. But if a guy stays in shape as he ages, it's not too difficult to attract women in their mid-to-late 20s, relatively speaking, specifically IRL. May even be easier than attracting a peer-aged woman for guys in their 30s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/22 03:19 AM
3	Intra-Sexual Competition Mega-Thread No, it isn't. The old fashion way is meeting women at a bar, night club, house party, social circle, hobbies, school, work, etc. Hitting on women at work or systematically cold approaching women at a mall is (justifiably) deemed creepy these days but most other situations is fair game. People know that they can fall back on online dating though so it might make such situations trickier to realize but it's still kosher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 12:29 AM
6	“If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts? I believe they're saying that while regular sex is an implied contract in monogamy, and necessary for compatibility for many couples, some women may believe they have the similar libido as their man and that the man is demanding too much or that it's his fault for not being able to get her in the mood. So then the women won't view it as a sexual compatibility issue and instead blame the man for her lack of desire and breaking the implied contract.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 01:21 PM
5	Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world? It's also a tribal brain thing and humans are inherently tribal. If you show that you're unable to adhere to tribal (i.e.) social norms and customs, then you're much more likely to become a social outcast (from the tribe) which is unattractive in terms of ensuring the survival of your spring (a key subconscious driver of sexual attraction).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 12:02 AM
2	Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world? Not really. People are called incels due to how they behave in relation to not being able to get with women, not necessarily just for being single and "bad with women." If your autism and celibacy don't evolve into a social movement and attitudes chastising women as a whole, then you're unlikely to face "legitimate" criticism for your status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 11:57 PM
1	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD I've previously stated that the ideal height preference for women who actively prefer TALL men (in the West) is 6'2"-6'6" and this data bears that out. In a lot of Western countries, 6 ft is just about average height or a bit taller and is as such not considered definitively tall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 10:30 PM
7	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD A lot of women don't care about that apparently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 10:25 PM
10	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD Fun (wishy-washy) fact: About 17 percent of 7-footers have played in the NBA, so yes, they DO understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 09:49 PM
1	What issues do you actually feel for women about? There has been an uptick in crime in many areas since the pandemic but the overall trend is still that violence and human suffering is declining overall, both in the US and globally. People typically think it's getting worse because of the narratives and news stories covered by the media, not because of actual data. For instance, US homicide rates have declined by half since the 90s yet you argue society it's less safe than ever. That may be true of your particular neighborhood but not American …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 07:42 PM
2	What issues do you actually feel for women about? And can you believe it used to be worse? The main reason it may seem worse is because the world is much more digitally connected today and you're able to follow global news and events in real-time. But the world since World War II is the most peaceful it's ever been and it's trending to be ever more peaceful despite occasional hiccups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 06:52 PM
7	Women's preferences in men are culturally engineered I don't think women go for the bodybuilder obsessed with proteins type of guy. I think that's just male fantasy. Bodybuilders were never attractive for hetero women. This is too much black-and-white thinking as if all women have the same preferences. On average women prefer a leaner, muscular look but there are still plenty of women that very much like the bulky muscular look. The benefit of bulky muscles is that for example only 1% of men attain it but 15% of women really like it over the lean …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 08:22 PM
1	is the best sex being had by the hottest people?? Not by the absolute hottest women, though maybe the men. Many of the hottest women just want to be serviced with vanilla sex and could "get away" with putting in minimal effort or find another high quality man if the current bf is unsatisfied. Women with a chip on their shoulder looks-wise, though still possibly rather hot, are more likely to engage in hotter and kinkier sex to maintain a great sex life and strong relationship with a high value man who'd get bored with vanilla sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 10:40 PM
2	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? I highly doubt it, men find the thought of a bisexual women to be extremely arousing. Usually, only if they wish to have threesome in a relationship, otherwise no. Also, women's sexuality and men's sexuality work differently on average. Men are more strongly visual while women often care more about intangible and behavioral traits, which is why may also find bisexuality a turn-off in a partner, which they literally explain themselves in OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 10:13 PM
2	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? Finding something to sexually be a turn-off, isn't the same thing as "finding them disgusting." Just because Sally is turned off by geriatric men doesn't mean she finds grandpa "disgusting."	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 10:05 PM
2	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? That does not automatically mean that sexual and romantic preferences can't also have roots in engrained bigotries. Then prove that outside the context of dating then, if it's truly that bigoted. Otherwise you are in fact just shaming people for their sexual boundaries, which at some level is predatory regardless of any generic disclaimers. So maybe questioning people's preferences "can be both" trying to point out bigotry and be predatory at the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 09:56 PM
2	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? One man's 9/10 is another's 3/10. I would possibly date this hypothetical woman you described, and I do think stereotypes can negatively affect black women in dating, but it's a bit like telling people to ask why they wouldn't you date this 9/10 400-lb woman if they're not into obese women because of physical preferences rather than cultural stereotypes about fat people lazy and healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 09:48 PM
1	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? No one should be pressured into sex or relationships with anyone, but it's really worth examining why someone has racial preferences, or height preferences, or weight preferences, or any other preferences about things that are not fully within someone's control. Unless you keep dating the wrong people because of your date selection criteria, no it kinda isn't. Even then, most physical preferences aside from ethnicity are tied to indicators of genetic health and fertility to varying degrees and a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 09:39 PM
1	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? Having sex with other men is technically less masculine behavior since most men don't have sex with men, but exclusively with men. Doesn't men they're less masculine in all other ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 09:10 PM
3	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? It literally is less masculine, since being attracted to and having sex with men is a behavior overwhelmingly associated with women, not men. That doesn't mean certain related stereotypes about bisexual men are correct though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 09:07 PM
2	I never realized how many men actually go bald until I hit late 20s/30s. It’s more common than you think Most men look like chemo patients bald. I'm not saying balding is better, of course not, but no if you are an average man (actual average) even lifting won't make you handsome bald. Lots of darker skinned men look pretty good with bald hair, but otherwise a guy would likely have to be able to lean in to a rugged bearded look (which may even be incongruent) to look handsome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 09:47 PM
1	If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual? No, not at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:43 PM
8	If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual? And men want to see gangbang porn but they don't want their wives or girlfriends to have participated in gangbangs. Could be similar to a queer Madonna/Whore complex from the perspective of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:42 PM
3	Dating within your social circle is inefficient Depends on where you live, really. It's much easier to attract younger women when you get older in major metropolitan cities in the US than in small towns. A lot of people that doom/chastisize age gaps even over 3-5 years don't seem to live around big cities. Not that age gaps are the norm, but it's not really a big issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 02:41 AM
1	Is it more difficult for transgender women to get dates, relationships and casual sex from straight men considering that men tend to be more homophobic and more transphobic than women? It's because straight men aren't queer but many men with queer attractions and relationships still identify as straight even if their sexual behavior technically doesn't constitute heterosexuality (which is based on sex). Similar pattern exist with women, except women's sexuality tends to be less rigid than men's so there are more women with fluid sexualities that identify as straight than there are men and that are conceivably open to date and marry trans men. Some detractors label this bigotry…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 03:51 AM
1	What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22? A guy who'd rather get it out of the way than remain a bitter virgin? Guys also don't really romanticize their first time like that especially past a certain age. And how would she find out he's lying, shame him for it, yet still have sex with him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 05:38 PM
1	What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22? It's probably more because people on Redding dating subs, including this one, would legit say that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 05:30 PM
4	Are you aware of any red pill/purple pill content creators who are females? She's more purple pill or no pill than red pill but a bit of a grifter in the sense that she tries to appeal to the same group of younger, often "lost" men that the manosphere appeals to using similar language and concepts but from a nicer, more standard female dating coach perspective that you'd read about in GQ or something. She's dated that Teddy Baldassare guy since way before her channel grew so it's not like it this from experience unless they're swingers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 08:10 AM
–	Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about Men Aren't a lot conservative men already complaining that liberal women won't date them? At least to the extent that multiple articles in prominent journals have been written about it. I suspect this is just going to exacerbate that pattern.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 04:21 PM
4	Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered? Based on US and some EU metropolitan cities: 1) 5'7" and below 2) 5'8"- 5'11" 3) 6'0- 6'4" or 6'2"-6'6" with good proportions and athletic frame. Anecdotally, 6'4 to 6'6" is a bit of a polarizing range but a lot of women REALLY like really tall men beyond 6'0" so probably cancels out the effect of shorter women that wouldn't consider themselves a good fit. 4) With a good frame probably above 6'7"-6'8" unless top athlete, but at that point it could still be positively used for peacocking unlike b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 01:45 PM
2	Do you agree/disagree with this discussion that women should not fuck around till their 30's in finding a husband? We also have Ally Drumond/ RealFemSapien (27F) , Pearl Davis/ JustPearlyThings (25F) and Kornelija Slunjski/KoKo Beaute (31F) who are three female relationship experts who all give different advice to women on how they should approach dating and sex. Reading and regurgitating blue pill or red pill talking points doesn't make you an expert, no more than a frequent dating shitposter on Reddit is an expert. Unless you mean not being utterly delusional qualifies as expertise, but that's beside the p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 01:21 AM
2	Who are the low value men? Bruh... it all makes sense now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 02:55 AM
9	Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+ If men know they want multiple kids, they need to start popping them out before 35+ too. I'm starting to feel my age already, I don't think I could've done having a toddler in my forties or older haha. Hrm, no they don't really unless you lead a unhealthy lifestyle. A lot of people lose energy in their 30s mostly because they let go of themselves and become more sedentary, not because of age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 03:48 PM
3	Would you date a widower or widow with children? Would you date someone with children if you yourself had children? > I don't think many 50-year-olds with kids want to start having them again when they're pushing 60. For all the posturing, parents tend to date each other. Alec Baldwin begs to differ, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:03 PM
1	Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting married Will Smith can't really be compared to the average simp, really. I think if anything what happened to Will was he got overwhelmed with all the scrutiny and trolling in one single moment. Guy been trying to keep up appearances, maintaining a pristine celebrity and role model image for himself and his family (with varying success) for years, agreeing to open marriage and fucking other people while keeping the family intact, all while facing public scrutiny especially in the last few years. There i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 04:01 PM
1	Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting married Surprised Mark Manson didn't give him some mindset advice when he wrote Will's book. Or maybe he did, but those edgy platitudes are only minimally useful especially when he's no longer a PUA.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 03:13 PM
2	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with And I am interested to know why, besides self improvement and health (great reasons by themselves) do men seem to over emphasize this aspect of their lives in regards to attracting women? Because for many men it's proven to help being attractive to the many (other) women who do value a partner being in shape and find that sexy. Should a 300 lbs single fat guy just stay at that weight when most women find that unattractive especially compared to the leaner look he can get by going to the gym? Tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 12:52 PM
2	Value is determined by the market This is too simplified. Proximity and familiarity play a large role in people forming relationships which is why male nurses can have great success forming relationships at work because of their proximity and ability to form bonds of familiarity with potential female partners over time. Or consider a male boss that marries his secretary even though more supposedly desirable women would be happily willing to date him. In contrast, a male engineer may lack those opportunities due to working a near…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 05:07 PM
1	Are women just more queer than men? Yes, women are statistically more sexually fluid than men are and male sexuality is typically deemed to be more rigid whether gay or straight. One possible evolutionary reason could be that a bisexual woman could have six with one man and five women or five men and one woman within in a year and both setups would result in a single offspring. By comparison, a bisexual guy could have sex with five men and one woman or five women and one man which would result in either just one or five offspring.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 09:34 AM
3	Men & Women of PPD rating Perhaps, but she's the best looking one overall, IMO, even if weren't to be "my type."	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 06:05 AM
20	Men & Women of PPD rating Would be even harsher if you went by the standards of r/truerateme but I find those ratings a bit lofty, so these ratings seem just about right IRL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 06:02 AM
1	TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s prime I'd at least go with half-your-age plus-7 rule. A 35-year-old and 18-year-old are way too incompatible lifestyle wise to be intrigued by each other (and I think that goes both ways). Even a 25-year-old is typically too old for an 18-year-old. To a 25- to 28-year-old woman though, the 35-year-old very well could have a major advantage, and there'd be no contest with 28+ women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 11:08 AM
1	TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s prime because age takes its toll. It's like how a 20 year old can drink and party all night and go to work the next day and feel mostly fine while a 30 year old feels like they are on deaths door. Depends on the person really. Lots of people in their 30s still drink and are fine the following day. But that's also more of a function of the liver and somewhat independent of other health aspects. There are always exceptions of particularly healthy people, but in general a 35-40 year old is going to have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 10:54 AM
4	Have women become more sexist over time? Not really, you probably just hear it more because of social media. A lot more women are becoming more feminist though and there are certain issues affecting men particularly that are largely overlooked, but I don't even think those things are as bad as they may have been before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 06:53 AM
2	If women don’t want to be approached at the gym, the grocery, the bar or in the dms - where are guys supposed to meet women? Well, what I do is I just start kissing them, it’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a HVM, they let you do it. You can do anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 12:07 AM
3	What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships? Programmed? Why? There are a lot of things that biologically we are programed to do but we don't because we are more than our biology. Why haven't men evolved to not care about n count when it really doesn't matter as long as the sex is safe? Why is it okay for men to have a high n count but not women? Evolutionarily speaking, it would be because a high n-count woman is more likely to have another man's offspring than a low n-count woman. A man could (consciously or subconsciously) think he succ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 04:36 AM
7	If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics? Death By Snu Snu	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 03:41 PM
1	Using economic logic for dating is flawed Modern economics is built on the assumption that when making economic decisions, humans are always rational. That's standard [classical] economics, modern behavioral economics assume that cognitive biases prevent people from making rational choices. Even so, standard economic theory is based on controlled conditions which obviously doesn't hold in much of the dating market for most interactions. I think economic models are mostly just useful for understanding society-wide dating and marriage pat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 03:34 AM
1	What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner? Having a preference is not automatically racist but your reasoning makes no sense, outside of missing the /s mark. And those preferences you allude to are "taught," not genetic if that's what you're implying, in the sense that you may have preferences for the type of people you grew up around and you're affiliated with but that's because you learn about which group you're supposed to identify with and belong to, which is backed by research. And that applies not just to race, but class, religion,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:36 AM
8	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are Yes there is. If someone is opinionated about every little thing and freely make it known all the time, that would be insufferable especially if they conflate that as being intelligent. Most well-calibrated people also have strong opinions about things but they know what issues are largely insignificant as well as when and where to make their stronger opinions known.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 03:23 AM
1	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? OK, yeah the BMI thing is a bit nonsensical for people that lift seriously but I took it as you using yourself as an example for the wiry-thin types the Kevin Samuelses of the world look for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 01:17 AM
1	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? But then you still aren't "thin" but bulky/muscular without being fat. Some guys that look for "thin" women don't desire more muscular women either however fit they may be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 01:05 AM
2	Men shouldn't care about "power imbalances" in relationships Just because two people come from the same socioeconomic background doesn't mean there's no room for "divorce rape." Careers and jobs requiring similar levels of education can have vastly different income potentials and even in two-earner households one partner may take a step back to accommodate family needs, which would justify at least some balanced compensation. A doctor or lawyer could be married to a journalist and still get "divorce raped."	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/21 06:17 AM
2	Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value? poor mental and physical health, self-centered, insecure, bitter, entitled, unreliable, irresponsible, manipulative, victim mentality, low self-respect, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 08:43 PM
44	Gender professor claims men can never truly "Like" woman. Do you Agree? And that's why he's a gender professor. Seriously though, part of the problem here is conflating gender roles and stereotypes with "not liking women." Saying a man is defined as being as not being a woman is as much as an argument as saying a penis is defined as not being a vagina. It's almost like the argument is, "why aren't men women." A better explanation for the phenomenon, I think, is actually sexual selection and male intrasexual competition where the real impetus is not avoiding being li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 09:41 PM
-1	Is there a category beyond alpha and beta for men? Sigma male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 05:48 PM
5	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Inflation is trending globally due to the economic shock of the pandemic and had already reached record levels in the US for plenty of goods before Biden came into office in part due the much greater spending passed by Republicans and Trump. Another major factor is global supply chain shortages which lies outside government control. If anything, a historic inflation rate following a historic pandemic was inevitable for either party if they sought to avoid a historic economic depression. But poli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 05:45 PM
1	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Means more women for Democratic and independent men. Why are democratic women so against dating a republican man. Seemingly clashing values and world views in a lot cases, especially with how divisive and polarizing politics are today. Also why would women date a soy boy instead of a masculine alpha man? Doesn't this prove the redpill wrong? Stereotypes aside, "pure masculine alpha-ness" is only attractive up to a point and becomes relatively less important with greater education and income. At …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 05:26 PM
1	Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bonding I mean the data disagrees with you in so far more sex partners increases the chances for divorce and reduced satisfaction in married couples. Though the disparity in satisfaction isn't as great as one might suspect I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:48 AM
26	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date Coffee should be fine since it's low stakes for both sides. Drinks even better. A walk in the park is pretty lame though to be honest. But you don't want to waste money on awkward initial dinner dates with a stranger that go nowhere. Save the dinner dates for later when you actually know the person a bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 01:08 AM
1	Gender, sex and social constructs No you could think gender is irrelevant and be comfortable being born male or female sex and be ok with it. That would make you gender non-conforming and cisgender. Plenty of cis people think gender is or should be irrelevant including radical feminists, but they're not agender. Or you could be androgynous and not want to be either male or female. This fits the description better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 01:02 AM
1	Gender, sex and social constructs You would need to see yourself as NOT being your birth sex rather than simply accepting it to be agender. People usually accept it because it accurately reflects who they are based on their body, just like people accept their age and ethnicity even if that doesn't define them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 12:03 AM
2	Gender, sex and social constructs The idea that gender is a social construct has more to do with the different associations society attaches to things based on biological sex. Initially, the concept was mainly related to grammatical categories such as feminine and masculine nouns in French and later on gender roles. So the idea is if society can divide colors, clothing, and toys into gendered categories why can it not be possible to divide people themselves into the categories of man and woman if they identify differently from t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 11:30 PM
1	Gender, sex and social constructs I bet there are many people who just accepted what they were born as and there are more agender people than we think. If something doesn't bother you, then why worry about it? "Just accepting" one's birth sex, as most people do, makes one cisgender not agender. AFAIK, to be agender you would need to actively reject your birth sex/assigned gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 11:10 PM
5	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky Ballix. More Bluepilled nonsense. TIL science is Blue Pilled. The difference is in availability. Women know that that they can get casual sex, at any time, with a decently attractive man. And once again, the difference in availability exists because men have higher sex drives. That gap wouldn't exist if the sex drives on average were the exact same. If I knew that at any moment I could have a decently attractive girl rush to my house, with just one swipe of an app, then hell yeah I would have ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 10:55 PM
2	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky Yet more Bluepill received wisdoms. You don't even know what you're talking about. Is saying "Bluepill" to a No Pill person meant to prove a point? It isn't true, women's sex drives are just as high as mens, the difference comes from the fact that they aren't nearly as desperate, on average, as men, because they know that they can get sex with a decently attractive man whenever they want. They aren't as desperate because they generally have less of a sex drive in large part due to less testoster…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 10:34 PM
1	What's the best dating advice for women Read Get The Guy by Matthew Hussey and follow that advice and let go of the FDS nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 06:37 PM
2	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky The point I'm making is that the number of men sufficiently attractive to trigger such a response from women, is much lower than the reverse. Because women generally are not as horny men or at least very different.. Women have higher thresholds for sexual attraction because of lower libidos on average, or at the very least they follow different patterns. It's not as simple as saying that women have the same sex drives as men it's just that men are much uglier even if women face more stringent be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 04:28 PM
1	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky No, they don't since on average since they got lower sex drives (or at least very different/more fluid ones i.e not equal). If they did want to have sex as much as men that would be reflected in the data. But women masturbate much less than men and male gay couples have much more sex than lesbian couples with straight couples in the middle. And the fact that men have a much broader and less attractive pool of people they're willing to have sex with proves that they want to have sex much more on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 04:22 PM
29	Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So Far The Red Pill is based around much of David Buss' work to begin with (prior to the added toxicity) so this shouldn't be a surprise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 03:22 AM
8	Daily Community Chat Megathread Their Founder is a race mixer Ooops, showed your hand...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 01:40 PM
2	How do you explain the apparent lack of women? A variation on A and C. There are fewer women on dating apps because women can much more easily find relationship opportunities in real life. On dating apps women are also much more selective (in part due to evolutionary sexual selection pressures) about who they swipe right on, again, because they have many more potential mating opportunities/offers both online and in real life. So say men swipe right on 80% of women while women swipe right on 20% of men. In a group of 100 men and 100 women, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/21 06:27 AM
0	More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere? Even so, there are different kinds of sex outside of PIV that don't involve pain. It says something if a partner isn't open go any way of pleasing their partner and being pleased themselves with for example oral sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 05:20 PM
13	26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ? I wouldn't recommend disclosing it directly. It's like a scarlet letter and essentially calling yourself an incel to be specific about it at your age. That's not to say that you should feel shame about it or conjure up elaborate lies, but rather just say you haven't dated seriously in a while (and are a bit rusty if you need to). You still be confident but also PRACTICAL. Proclaiming you don't have any friends isn't the best way to gain new friends if that makes sense.	/r/seduction	29/10/21 12:13 AM
5	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? Yeah, I don’t like bulky, I don’t like the roided look of Hollywood stars AT ALL. Gym twice a week and relatively lean is fantastic, those were pictures of “perfect”. Specifying a gym frequency doesn't really say much about how lean or bulky a guy may be in isolation. Some people are fat and do cardio six days a week, and some skinny guys lift four to six days per week and are "just" lean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 02:34 AM
22	What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex? Michael Phelps worked out casually a few times per week when he was winning Olympic medals?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 02:26 AM
12	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? It's 3 as well as 5. being turned off by behavior deemed to be emasculating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 08:10 AM
4	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? I think it's mostly number 3 in addition women not finding it masculine, not due to having to compete with men for men, but because they find men into penises to be a turnoff in a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 08:08 AM
1	So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men? Men have higher libidos and are more turned on quicker visually, and less so emotionally, compared to women on average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/21 11:45 PM
1	Will the trans community affect dating preferences? It will likely only change for closeted queer and bisexual people who may be more open with their preferences than previously, but maybe that change was already happening. I don't think conventionally straight people in general will change their innate sexualities to accommodate trans people except maybe to pay lip service in some leftist circles, but I don't think most non-LGBT leftwing people really buy into it either in practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 04:03 AM
2	Will the trans community affect dating preferences? They might get more attention but it's from guys on the queer spectrum not heterosexual men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 03:54 AM
3	Is there a good reason to treat older man/younger woman differently than anything else? It's natural for older men to be attracted to young women in their early 20s. Women are the same way. That isn't true, generally speaking. Women are attracted to men their own age and a bit above as they grow older, while men continue to find women in their 20s most attractive, regardless of age. Whether any of these potential pairings are always completely compatible is another issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 03:27 PM
3	Thoughts on transgender people? I believe the issue with the opposite-sex brain argument is that the overall data is actually mixed and doesn't conclusively state that trans people have the brain phenotype of the opposite sex, which already isn't definitive. Rather, there are some slight observed correlations with opposite sex brains in SOME structures, while most other structures resemble their birth sex. Furthermore, it's not quite clear how much of those correlations are due to sexual orientation rather than gender identity…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 09:18 PM
1	Thoughts on transgender people? It's often overstated but there kind of would have to be something to it on average, given the known effects of hormones on the brain and behavior, and also since men are predominantly interested in women, and women are predominantly interested in men. If gendered brains weren't a thing, at some level, then men would be as sexually interested in men as women are, and vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 08:47 PM
3	Thoughts on transgender people? That wouldn't actually be heterosexual though, but more on the queer spectrum. Sexual orientation is technically based on sex and two people of the same sex can't be in a straight, opposite-sex relationship by definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 08:20 PM
1	Sex Toys Mega-Thread I mean, that doesn't really mean anything. People get the toys that help them "get off" the best way they see fit for a particular moment. Getting off is getting off whether it takes more or less time, is more or less intense, relies more or less on imagination, etc. Some women can find using a vibrator to orgasm unfulfilling just like how some men find jerking off just to cum unfulfilling, and instead both groups may resort to dildos and fleshlights, respectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/21 04:18 AM
3	Sex Toys Mega-Thread Jeez, dildos and vibrators aren't the same thing and dildos are specifically phallic and don't typically vibrate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 12:27 AM
1	Study: Most romantic relationships start as friendships Well, of course. That's the whole premise of social circle game. Doesn't mean close friends though, just somebody in an ectended friendship circle which helps in "subconsciously" vetting people and men in particular to make more desirable than a stranger. In addition, exposure also helps in amplifying "lust" or crushes which is much more likely in common settings or friendship circles once out of school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 05:41 PM
1	So where exactly are all these single women? Not close to the extent that it would lead to a 50% increase in singlehood between 30-49 and 50-64, which is way below the average lifespan for both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 04:11 AM
2	So where exactly are all these single women? I mean, that just isn't true. Women find men about their own age or a bit older most attractive, but men of all ages find women in their 20s most attractive. Doesn't mean that all these men aren't most compatible with women closer in age, but sexual attraction is definitely higher for younger women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 04:04 AM
44	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier IIRC, it's largely because of women are much likely to have stronger social networks even while single while many men tend to get lonelier as they get older especially while single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 07:03 PM
8	I think tonight I will ask out the girl I like from work. It depends in where you work, not all corporate settings are the same and a lot of work places got HR policies prohibiting romantic and sexual relations between coworkers and especially between superiors and subordinates in order to CYA. Not only could it mess up the workplace dynamic if things don't work out, you'll be seen as conveying poor judgement and may even be reported for sexual harassment or contributing to a hostile workplace, which will fuck up your career prospects. And all these th…	/r/seduction	27/06/21 09:57 PM
3	“Do women like muscles?” Amazing, generalising a whole gender like we don’t have individual preferences. “All women like muscles” is the biggest bullshit I’ve heard today. Yes, it's BS to suggest that all women like muscles. At the same time, it is very likely to increase the attraction he receives from a larger number of women because of his muscles, especially if those women value fitness themselves. Try to listen to women if you want to get with women. But every fucking advice on this whole sub is men listening to me…	/r/seduction	12/06/21 12:02 PM
1	Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre. In high school movies where the protagonist is a dork crushing on the hottest cheerleader that’s dating his bully, the star Quarterback. Then, at the end of the movie, the super hot girl realizes dork is better than her boyfriend, usually by showing he’s morally better. Eh, no high school guy takes those seriously, but I suppose it is emblematic of the "nice guy" values society places on guys in part through media. The harem is more accurate as being a Nice Guy wish fulfillment. The male protago…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 05:23 PM
1	What Standards that the Opposite Sex has do you Consider Acceptable/ Encouragable? i don’t get offended when men don’t want to be with women whose hobbies are ONLY entry-level makeup knowledge, reality tv, social media, and listening to music, as in not making it. I think women legit care much more about partner hobbies than what men do, unless of course they overlap or involve fitness (but that's basic). A guy may try to neg a woman for certain hobbies or think they seem cool, but otherwise it's probably inconsequential to most men's interest level. however, i will say that a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 06:44 AM
10	Do you believe that the female sex drive is as high as the male sex drive on average? But why would you assume it's equal generally when the underlying physiology of sex isn't the same? Sure, plenty of guys use it as a crutch, but on the other hand, why is the "barrier to having sex" higher for men if it wasn't harder to elicit a sexual response from women to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/20 03:13 AM
1	In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy. I think this is way too simplified. Girls that are only a few years out of college, if they went, tend to still have a cohort mentality and "new to the real world outlook" so anyone more than a few years older may not be in their radar. But around 25 or so and with time spent living in the real word and not "post-college," it seems women are a lot more open to dating older men, with a 5-10 years age difference being fairly common. This also a lot more common in larger cities where attractive, su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 02:52 AM
6	If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested. Sounds like simp behavior to be honest. I mean if an opportunity pops up out of the blue, sure, move on it. But sitting around for a whole year waiting for her to like you sounds a bit weak and desperate.	/r/seduction	30/06/20 09:56 PM
2	Q4M - do you expect “assumed exclusivity” from women after the first date? Not after the first date, but if after 3 or so good dates and intimacy she was still seeing other dudes, I'd be unlikely to move things forward beyond FWB.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/19 10:49 PM