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Hey man. Look, I went down the blackpill path myself. It made me clinically depressed. I have body dysmorphia because of it. I realized my whole life I had a small chin, a weak jaw, flat cheekbones, huge forehead, naso-labial folds, and I'm 5'10. To boot, I have a basic ass boring life, and in not great shape. I have scars on my arms from IV drugs in my early 20's. After reading red pill and black pill material, the world has become a much worse place. I got sick and tired of feeling this way. I…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 03:55 PM
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Currently on the tail-end of a oneitis withdrawal. I'm 28, have had maybe 4 oneitis bouts at this point. Right now I'm struggling with the ruminating thoughts; I think of her getting fucked by other dudes, how and when I messed up, and the fact that I'll never see her again. All that matters is that I've experienced 3 other instances of it, and in hindsight none of those people would have been good for me, are that hot, or would have helped me achieve my mission in life. Become aware that the re…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:54 AM
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Im in the exact same situation. What's your 5 month update?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:38 AM
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Ya I mean, I guess maybe I am delusional and I agree, I probably didn't fuck very well. Will try to improve
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:30 PM
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She was a friend first and grew on me. I don't know, it's a sunk cost feeling or something.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:29 PM
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Oh then I'm a 6 lol my bad
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:17 PM
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Ya, she didn't seem to care at the time. And that's a good question, but likely I'm deriving value from her and the rejection feels personal or whatever. Also that time where I wasn't interested in her, I guess I feel like I emotionally invested for a long time and doesn't feel real that itd be over in 2 weeks. It's pathetic, but it's why I'm here. Just feel like I'm always gonna be the backup. A lot of you here got good mindsets and I'm trying to cultivate it.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:32 PM
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I'll definitely check the book out. One issue I have is I guess the having fun part. I was definitely really serious and boring during the fling. Any advice on how to be a bit more fun? Seemed to have lost that at age 22 or so
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:21 PM
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What do you mean by creating opportunity with her? I feel like the only time I'm successful with girls is when I don't like them. As soon as I do, I bore them to death.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:18 PM
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It's the loving myself part I'm having trouble with. I'm a borderline incel these days even though I'm fairly attractive, maybe a 7 or 8 at very best. I think the reason why I get dumped or ghosted is because of more attractive men. When I look around my city, I see all these better looking guys and I think how can I compete? All my exs have left me or dated better looking guys after me, and after reading self defeating blackpill incel bullshit, I can't shake that's the reason. However, I also d…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:34 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Ya, you make a good point about monk mode. I am trying to run. Ive been through this obsessive oneitis shit many times before. It really fucking sucks. Honestly, I just kind of wanted to find love as pathetic as it sounds. Now I just want to turn that feeling off and focus on moving forward, but I'm depressed. I can't stop feeling negative.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:12 PM
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Man, I really appreciate the time you're taking to explain this to me. I'm actually sitting here, feeling better on a spiritual level. You're also right, I am depressed and lonely. I have a lot going for me, but I'm stuck in a mindset that's holding me back. I'm looking at this girl to fill a void and getting unnecessarily attached. Honestly, I'm aware enough to give her space and to explore other people, but it also leaves a pit in my stomach that I'm likely not going to be chosen. This isn't t…
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:30 PM
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I've actually read both, but they are worth rereading cause I haven't internalized any of it yet. Is it just me, or does hypergamy depress you? Like, how can I possibly compete with other guys out there? I'm not the most uninteresting guy.. But i get in my head on a psychological illness level and it ruins me. I quit alcohol and pot 6 months ago to work on myself, but I find most younger girls find this behaviour not exciting. I uno, I feel boring sometimes.
/r/seduction12/08/19 06:34 PM
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Thanks man. It is really hard to separate myself from the feelings. She messaged me earlier tonight, I guess to open up lines again, but I can't keep this going cause I'm only going to get hurt. Honestly this feels so wrong. I wish I could go and separate the sex but given our history I can't. The games man, never experieced it
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:13 AM
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I meant she came back for 3 days lol, not didn't leave for 3 days haha. I didn't last long the last time we hooked up :S
/r/seduction11/08/19 07:08 PM
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I feel like my feelings are irrational. Like, why were my expectations so high you know. I feel so much rejection it's making me sick. Ive never dealt with this before. Usually once a girl sleeps with me, it's usually more of a thing than a couple day fling and move on to another guy. The feelings of inadequacy are strong. Thanks for this advice, Im going to work on accepting and seeing others. The thought of other girls repulsed me rn. Got that oneitis.. Haha
/r/seduction11/08/19 06:49 PM
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Yes haha. It's just tourist time in the city. But no, nothing against Ontarians. Some are put off by Anglophones but that's rare in the city. You'll be good, just go to those streets for easy gaming.
/r/seduction30/07/19 06:31 PM
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Montreal native. Go to bars if you drink and have a good time. There are a lot of tourists in the city right now, so pay attention to Crescent and St. Laurent street bars. I don't drink anymore, but when I did, this was me and my friends' go tos. I wouldn't cold approach or any of that, as you probably know we're a French-speaking province and chances are you'll hit a language barrier (assuming you don't speak of course). Most of the bars on Crescent street will have english-speaking college gir…
/r/seduction30/07/19 04:37 PM
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He's not talking about how his physiotherapist touched his thigh a little more seductively than usual, it's a vocal coach. They aren't supposed to be touching you. I'm guessing this wasn't a tap on the leg with a "good job for hitting that falsetto", and more in line with someone who wants you to know she's trying to break down that professional barrier.
/r/seduction20/03/19 03:43 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Not really self-conscious, I'm much more confident now that I don't mess with substances. I feel great now that I don't touch drugs or alcohol, but super confused on how to make such a drastic change. For now, I'm avoiding bars, as I'm still only a couple months sober.
/r/seduction19/03/19 04:45 AM
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