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Well what they're doing now. The shaming and shunning. Is doing dividends ain't it! First step, stop and genuinely listen with a complete open ear. There is a failure to do this. This is the first step is sparking the flame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:28 PM
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Ironically enough. Listening to these men and helping them form their own space and it's evolution is exactly what men did for feminism and whatever marginalized and oppressed group that is not accepted by society. Everyone chips in whatever way they can be comfortable with. Now I see a refusal to chip in. Why do the young men get a short stick?😂 I think I know why. Because people think that we're genuinely just chronic complainers. I mean have U noticed that there's more and more ? Why? Why did…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:19 PM
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I kinda agree tbh. Older dudes are busy telling us to work like they did. But the rewards they got are mostly unattainable for us young men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:44 PM
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This is not just it though although it is a factor. you're basically speaking about third spaces. Boys don't really have third spaces once they leave high school. A new male movement or initiative should have the revival of third spaces (for all genders really) as one of its foundations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:42 PM
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Honestly great to hear. I've been posting it for days but always felt as if something was missing to add to the potency of my argument. Then I bounced up on that standard study, I have assistance from the data to back up my anecdotal experience. Still wanna hear the rebuttals tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:26 PM
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That's kinda true but it's subtle. They won't say it in a statement but they'll say it in their expectations. Whether it be platonic or romantic. Id not complain about women's standards , If it actually worked out for them, but it mostly doesn't. The demands are shallow and even unrealistic. They want a superhero , based on your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:48 PM
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It's entitlement, birthed from the socialization of the young women. From young they tell them to only date the attractive , wealthy prince Charming. This is where it goes wrong. Do the women benefit in any way , going after this archetype? NOPE, because he does not really exist. So they end up with men who are perceived to have these things based on their appearance. But the perceiving is wrong most of the time, so they get disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:43 PM
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Everything U said is correct but swap out biology for socialization. Women are socialized to go after these men. Why does a big minority of women have realistic and down to earth expectations of a relationship and the bigger mass tends to vary between being moderately superficial to ridiculous and superficiality is a bad thing. Also these women who go after these guys aren't even benefitting that much being with them. The man doesn't care for her as an individual, just her body. Side notes :I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:30 PM
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I also think they're blowing the 'evil' of the republican party out of proportion. Yes the progressives are a stain. They took over social media and some big news networks. So us young men grew up , seeing that everyone else fears and hates us. The resentment builds up and now we are lashing out. I don't endorse violence though. But from the perspective of just appreciating psychology. Shaming and silencing a large group of people will just bring about violence eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:12 PM
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Educational training on boy issues. They get punished - especially black boys - far more aggressively. Thanks for bringing this up. I think this is linked the clear evidence that men in general suffer more mental health issues. I think it's linked to this. Complex trauma. Whether it be physically or socially. Us boys get punished wayyyy more aggressively. Even at a very young age. They beat and shun us into improvement. It fails more than it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:59 PM
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So your comment basically says "I agree with you, but the people with the power to fix it , simply doesn't care enough to fix it" And what we need is a Messiah or some sorts to lead us out the depths of despair. I agree with both of those takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:48 PM
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The physical fitness one I can get behind but most boys I know aren't big and fat lol. Obesity is more present in women anyway. Complete and utter lack of ambition/competitive drive in careers, dating But this..... Having no motivation for ones future cannot be blamed down to generalized psychological profiling. That is insane. The healthy human mind is one that is extremely 'bright future' oriented. A large number of young men being completely unmotivated= bigger societal issues. Low dopamine m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:37 PM
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What about their lifestyles astonished you? I can't really say anything until u say what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:24 PM
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I'm literally saying I want to be involved I just don't know where I'm supposed to get involved, and this is the response you have? I got a very rhetorical vibe from your questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:23 PM
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Do nothing go on and just do nothing at all👊🏾 cuz that's what the men did when modern feminism took its first steps ,right???? The young women did all the work and the men did nothing, right?????? This is sarcasm if I have to spell it out. Societal issues are societies problem to solve , not just the ones who suffer from it. That's what our predecessors did for the women. Just blaming the people who are suffering , that their suffering is all their fault will just do more harm than good for soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:14 PM
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I need you to think back on the early days of modern feminism where they actually fought for equality. Society put things in place so the young women naturally feel empowered for who they are. Now the young men are facing their own issues and now the other side says "what am I supposed to do!!! Solve it yourself" when they didn't even solve their own problems by themselves. It was a holistic effort. This moral high horse, that most modern women have came from nowhere. It is pure delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:09 PM
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All the comments are proving my point man, it's so so sad. I don't even feel like responding but I have to. They all just say "your problems are your own" when it isn't...... They'll realize the shit they did when a large group of them is formed. Which seems inevitable at this point because of all the oppression they are facing .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:06 PM
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Society is wiping all the young women's ass tho! Even the shitty ones. Young men notice this and they lash out. Simple as. There is equality talk but no equality action.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:04 PM
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Most of the other comments are literally proving my point, so I don't feel like even responding to them. But I have to respond to them or else the post would just get taken down!😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:03 PM
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This isn't really true. The young women have changed alot in their socialization compared to their previous counterparts. But they changed for the good and worse. Now it's mostly entitlement. And are they benefitting from the entitlement relationship wise? Nope , there's a loneliness epidemic on both sides now. Women can't find a man who satisfies them and men can't find any woman at all. I think it's societies' fault about lying to women about relationships expectations. They simultaneously ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:24 PM
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All great points. The women are abusing this new power and nobody are calling them losers for it. They are literally empowering and fanning the flames of their bullshit opinions and stances but this will bite them in the foot. Oppressing and vilifying the next half of your species is really really not a good idea. Do I even have to say this? Men are bigger and stronger and better strategist. Now society decided that hating them is a good idea. They are creating monsters. Before I'd say that thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:20 PM
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I still struggle with this. I don't get the chance to speak with much girls my age face to face. Back in high school I was completely avoiding women. Girls would have a crush on me and I'd just ignore, mostly because of fear tho. Now I'm still kind of avoidant but at least I'll talk I guess. I'm getting better than I was before and that's all that matters. You can do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:38 PM
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I get your point. It's a great one but I have to challenge it simultaneously. The reasons I'm not prioritising it is because of 💲 and time. It's not really avoiding. But Ur point is still true in some senses , just not in it's entirety. I guess I can be a bit more aggressive in terms of searching for women. I can agree with the fact that ill become too passive/averse if I go ALL IN on this. But that's why I still went out to lunch today with that co worker who flirts with me and she already has …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:33 PM
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What a bunch of baloney. Not only do these worker bees often grow up to be lonely 40 year old virgins, but they soon find out all their hard work is for nothing. They don’t feel happier, more fulfilled and more desirable. It was all for nothing, when they could have enjoyed sex with beautiful women when they were young only if they got over their fears and phobias That's what YOU want me to be. I'm just fine the way I am now. I have women that are interested in me, I have female friends. I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:19 PM
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I don't know what's wrong with those guys. It's very odd. They literally want me to be miserable by calling this "cope" like I'm literally fine rn. I guess they were miserable when they were getting no play and they're secretly envious that I can be content with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:46 PM
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Having a woman and pursuing excellence are not mutually exclusive. One thing you guys seem to overlook is my age. I am 20 years old. I'm in college, I was always a bit shy and introverted. I was extremely depressed and anxious about 3 months ago took mdma , and my outlook on life flipped. Now since getting out of my depression, my lust has reduced. I still find some women sexy as fuck but the lusting is not something I'll do. For now at least. I'll see them and be like cool, no anxiety, no nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:41 PM
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No I do not consider myself an island. Where did U get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:35 PM
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I'm not extremely attractive but I also have women that are interested. I just went out on lunch with one of my co workers who flirts with me and she already has a bf😂😂 she literally asked to come along. I just don't think with my dick anymore in Have different concerns right about now In life. I was always kinda shy on top of that too. The red pill weirdos will say I'm coping tho😂 it's like they Want me to be miserable , just judging by their comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:31 PM
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That's literally me. Can you tell my why all the other comments tell me I'm running away and hiding from women? I have female friends and I have girls that are interested, I'm just not so thirsty for that so much anymore on top of the fact that I'm introverted and bit shy. It's so weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:00 PM
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It's crazy how you were the first comment and I kinda of disagreed with you, but after all the others. You seem to be the only one that got the closest to what I'm talking about.. Everyone else just thinks I'm in monk mode and runs away from girls. I just don't thirst after it so much anymore. I'll try now and then but I don't have the time, money or energy for that right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:57 PM
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I don't disagree with anything you said. I don't find it takes away anything from what I've said as well. It sounds like it's black and white? Sorry about that. I didn't intend for it to sound like that. I am one who likes to explore all the grey areas. My point is that most young women are unhappy with their dating options. The options they have are almost all the time , the men who approaches them. Or course not every single one of those men are depraved pos. Even the ones that are after sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:46 PM
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Whats ironic? The Buddha never called himself a sigma male. I don't care if he fits the archetype as well because sigma male is a stupid sounding term. It kinda takes away from the Buddha and what he truly stood for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:12 PM
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What? 😂😂 Bro the amount of useless social/psychological Evolutionary traits I can list for you here..... Tribalism, exclusions of outsiders, Gender roles. All evolutionary traits rendered detrimental to our overall benefit. Do you know that it's possible to intentionally reduce your lust? You often see it in meditators. I meditate. One could say it's reduced testosterone. I think it's moreso you have greater control over craving. Nothing is wrong with sex mate. But with the modern dynamics, for …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:11 PM
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That's different from what I'm saying. Who you're talking about is guys who literally avoid women. What I'm talking about is the guys dropped their lustful desires and find focusing on their individual future and making the world a better place. If a woman says let's fuck, he'll probably reject one day and on another he'll day yes. He's not actively pursuing sex or a relationship around the clock , unlike most other guys. Hes not controlled by his lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:52 PM
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Ummmm.... I really don't want to say I'm currently practicing to become a sigma male that sounds extremely cringe. Like , a Buddhist can read my post and fully agree that controlling your lust and desires and dedicating that extra energy and effort into more long term benefits and being more altruistic is good and extremely attractive traits. I don't think he'll resort to naming it as you have though. He'll just keave it as is. Sigma male just sounds kinda silly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:48 PM
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since I've seen one too many people deliver "I'm sorry you feel that way" type of speeches when talking about this issue Ik what you mean brother. The pitying saddens and angers me as well. I also notice the people that do it genuinely does not understand how it feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:04 PM
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Na mine isn't a speech really lol. More of a discussion about anectodal and evidential facts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:50 PM
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Okay man. I hope you feel better about this eventually (if you even want to) Here this as well. Do you relate to this in ANY capacity? Complex post-traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD, sometimes hyphenated C-PTSD) is a stress-related mental disorder generally occurring in response to complex traumas,[1] i.e., commonly prolonged or repetitive exposures to a series of traumatic events, within which individuals perceive little or no chance to escape. -Wikipedia For example. Being called ugly all your …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:47 PM
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Is being alienated and feeling alien entirely separate tho? I think me and you are fighting for the same cause here. They're alienated by person after person, eventually they will feel alien. People tend to instinctively avoid people who show odd personality traits and habits. The person then notices that it happens no matter where they go and with whom and then they start feeling like an alien.Its a very sad reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:42 PM
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That's really pessimistic. It really depends on the reason as well. If it's social skills then yes. If all women find your character and personality unattractive AND you don't even know why. It's likely that said person is Neurodivergent. Ugliness can make someone Neurodivergent as well. I think people who suffer because of their physical attractiveness, especially if it's unchangeable, I think they have Cptsd in some form. Because the bullying , avoidance and neglect , from childhood to adultho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:31 PM
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Sorta in a way. But I specified a certain group of men. The ones who inherently think that all women find them unattractive. They feel alien. Feeling alien is a very common experience with Neurodivergent people. CPTSD ADHD and autism tends to overlap ALOT. And is more common in men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:25 PM
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There are less Neurodivergent women on planet earth mate. I think the ratio on average is 4:1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:18 PM
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? Mate icl I don't know what you're trying to say. Women just aren't often attracted to men who show any signs of neurodivergence. Yeah I know. Don't see what it takes away from my statement tho. there is no "see themselves as". That's what an incel is(the nicer definition btw). They see themselves as inherently unattractive to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:16 PM
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No I didn't say that. But I'm glad U brought this point up because I have a point in return. I think ugly men who suffer because of their looks have Cptsd. They're treated way differently socially and they always notice it. From kindergarten, till they're adults. Thats surely a traumatic life experience, being called ugly and people showing avoidance of you. That's damaging to anyone. Cptsd looks alot like Neurodivergent behaviour as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:12 PM
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Funnily enough. Neurodivergent people have 0 problem making great friendships and relationships with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:02 PM
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I think men who see themselves as unattractive to all women are likely Neurodivergent. Feeling alien is a corner stone of diagnosing neurodiversity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:36 AM
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But I still find it funny that even if they do. They're still miserable and feel lonely. Scarcity Vs abundance and yet both are as miserable as each other. Something is wrong here. The ones that do the choosing end up miserable. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:01 AM
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Yeah. The external locus of control Vs internal locus of control dynamic. Women are socialized to have stronger external locus of control and men a more internal one. Blaming outside of ones self Vs Blaming ones self
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:57 PM
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Yeah you're definitely not in reality..... This is just totally lacks any sort of compassion or empathy. I hope you're just a troll , if not , you're exactly the type of woman I'm talking about. Literal self delusion😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:45 AM
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Exactly, this is the exact point. Both genders should hold their lives and destinies accountable. Of course there is stuff that are beyond our control, but complaining miserably about it does nothing. Women end up with an external locus of control view and stick with it. They do this because the media and social media in general protects them from self accountability. The opposite is done for men, inside their own circles and outside. This is good. But why do most modern women refuse to hold the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:42 AM
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Get their money up? Have U seen what modern capitalism is doing to the youth???? The young men are getting the worse end of the stick here. We are struggling to get our money up😂😂😂. Owning land and houses look like fairy tales nowadays. And most of the white collar jobs prefer women. College offers mostly white collar jobs as well... Women are outnumbering men in terms of enrollments. Something is off here...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:37 AM
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Yeah, there is almost no set of reason with these people and notice also how they immediately come in opposing me and picking and choosing which points to attack. There's no nuance, it's either black and white for them. Im sure they think of everyone who opposes as virgin basement dwelling incels😂😂😂. Like bro , most of us are in normal society now, they really don't understand how lonely the young men are these days. Even the extroverts pay the price. Our real opinions have been kept hush hush b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:28 AM
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Its literally this. And it's been going on very long. So young boys seeing all of that online and in real life are going to feel as if he's alien relative to the other half of the species. We need to start calling loser women , losers. The bar is very different for both men and women by what is defined as a loser as well.... How? I think we know the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:22 AM
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They'll just say it's our own fault when the number is growing and growing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:01 PM
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Yeah it has never worked and it never was. But what they did do was monopolize social media, banning and shunning anything that seems conservative. Even tho it's a spectrum 🤷🏾‍♂️ If your not with them. You're against them apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:19 PM
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Yeah, this is just a consequence of Their actions. It's basically " we don't want you here, your ancestors and your overall psychological nature is dangerous to our well being, but if U do wanna be here, follow all these rules and requirements! Or else , just fuck off" I'm talking about modern feminism btw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:11 PM
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They realise on their own when they get older. But it's too late. So much baggage and trauma and you can see the depression on their face. Us struggling men just gotta focus on improving 1% everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:06 PM
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I think they are older. They don't experience it first hand. Took a while for me to notice that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:46 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about😂😂😂😂 I'm saying that modern feminism is married to solipsism. There isn't much self accountability anywhere in these circles so they just blame all men for their multitudes of bad dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:45 PM
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Lmao. They hate us even more now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:42 PM
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This x 10000 I really really don't know why they pretend that young women don't literally look for older men. They are repulsed by young guys in terms of dating lmao. And it starts from a very young age btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:38 PM
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The criteria is 18-29 years of age. Do you still have the same thoughts???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:23 PM
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Feminism is a bunch of bullshit. But the red pill is EXACTLY the same. Just men and women blaming the other. And both movements being completely hypocritical. Don’t be a hypocrite. I'm not red pill , please stop putting me there. I am not there. I don't subscribe to any of that fuckery. I didn’t exempt the women, you turnip Cmon sis. We didn't have to resort to personal insults😞 If someone tells you that you are too clean. Your standards of hygiene are too high, that you need to lower your stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:22 PM
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None of that shit you listed is anything I've ever heard outside of reddit links and rage bait. Jesus Christ.All those things I listed , funnily enough, I've never heard on Reddit. I'm saying what i heard in real life😂 Have U never heard any of that in real life? If not you are definitely not gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:16 PM
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U basically say U r refusing to watch a video of the exact thing I'm talking about. So you're just refusing to view the evidence that goes against your side😂😂 That's not a debate at all then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:11 PM
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<image> Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:09 PM
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Exactly that. they don't even try to reach you intellectually. They just assume you're angry towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:00 PM
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What? Super common on Reddit? Which Reddit? These things aren't to be said out loud ANYWHERE anymore and that's good. Regardless Reddit is literally a corner of the internet, most people literally are not on here.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:55 PM
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Yeah but the young women women who also provide nothing and , wants a man who provides everything and they get "success". They don't really get success though, because the older guys are using them like whores. She thinks she has him on ropes and is in a relationship with him but he's just stringing her along for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:51 PM
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And it's demonized, deservedly. That's fucking bullshit. I don't agree with. So what's your point? I'm mostly talking about how the women side of this gets a free pass. For some reason.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:47 PM
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Okay. Who are they dating again????? The criteria for young here is 18-29. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:45 PM
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There are two definitions for solipsism. You are the one that doesn't know. <image> Atleast I had the thoughtfulness to specify about a certain group of women , particularly most of the gen z(there are still exceptions). You just lumped all men in one group in your comment. It's just so sad that your comment will be the kind of ones that get traction 😂 Total lack of self awareness. Your comment speaks the exact type of thing I'm talking about . You demonize the men and yet, every single female i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:43 PM
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The Lack of self awareness is just insane at this point. Need more people calling out the women who do this. They're key dissuading men from the more moderate and REALISTIC women. Most guys nowadays is a combination of being uninterested in dating or having no success. The two arent mutually exclusive. They failed so much they just give up. And it isn't even completely their fault lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:38 PM
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Red pill propaganda Uno. You guys don't even want a debate/discussion 😂😂😂 It's just a losing game at this point. There's nothing we can say. They just lump is in with the worst because our opinions are from a similar perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:35 PM
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Second paragraph is insane. So all of a sudden these young men have nothing to provide and the young women always have? Look in those 3 years.. tik tok blew the up and all the feminist and boss girl shit just took over their feeds. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:32 PM
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Ur arguing a point I never made. Men can be solipsistic and it's often reprimanded. the women examples are glorified: "If he's broke don't go with him" "He's shorter than you" "He's ugly you can do better" " Get a man who treats you like a princess" Also I realise most people here tend to be older . They really just really don't know how these young girls think in their brain.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:27 PM
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But she has to choose him tho. Women only choose who she views as in the top 20%. She chooses him based on what he has. And the guys that have whatever modern women want are a small %.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:24 PM
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Exactly idk what that person is talking about. Regardless, whenever that smaller % of men bounce up on one of these women , he doesn't respect her, he treats her like a whore and lies to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:21 PM
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If I post this on self or twox this post is getting taken down within 30 seconds. This is one of the few subs willing to have discussion/debate about this. And then we're on Reddit..... So I'm in a corner of one of the corners of the social internet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:16 PM
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The onus to provide even in Society where women have more if not equal opportunities. Young girls are entitled and kind of lazy. They can attract older and richer guys and they are encouraged to do so (because those are the guys with money these days). Barely any reprimand for this is seen. They still seek to live off other men. Why is this still a thing? Didn't they fight for equality? The biggest issue is the lack of self reflection. So their standards just raise and raise. That men aren't als…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:13 PM
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It has two definitions. This is off Google the quality of being very self-centred or selfish. "she herself elicits scant sympathy, such is her solipsism and lack of self-awareness Edit: wow so the person who came in and commented something extremely wrong got more up votes than my comment correcting her 😂 she even accepted the correction. They're really boycotting any purple pilled opinion on this app😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:12 PM
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I think habits and practices being ingrained into society would change it more effectively. Like meditation. Imagine if they taught meditation in schools and have meditation centers. In 25 years I predict it would cause a 200% improvement in mental health amongst people. It's scientifically proven to be effective in changing people and I think it's the best because it's free whilst being incredibly effective. Legalising certain drugs (Molly) and make it have a place in society will improve us as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:06 PM
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It is exactly and LITERALLY THIS. Love your point about how we are raised. Us being traumatized as children causes alienation and loneliness because they tell us it's our fault😂😂 The women get outside assistance from friends and even relationships (since people approach them more often to seek our friendships or relationships). They have a shoulder to lean on. It's all political, sociological and biological and it's rewarding older and richer men in dating AND with finances. They told us it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:53 PM
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Women don't like bad guys. They like the confidence and leadership abilities. The assholes you speak of tend to have these qualities in some capacity or are willing to fake it to attract her. It's all a kind of pretense by the guy. They do it and succeed and then make that mentality a part of their dating philosophy, because they saw success. That kind of thinking brings a dilemma to young men nowadays. "Do I have to be an asshole to get with my crush?" That's very very demotivating so they just…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:24 PM
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We ain't got shit,but so does her. Let's grow together then. But they don't want that.... They think they deserves more because they're pretty. And sometimes they're not even that pretty and they have this mindset, because it's encouraged in their circles, online or irl. This just leads to stagnation in their growth and careers. A similar problem exists on the men side. I am aware, but that side is already demonized , the girls? It's Literally encouraged. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:09 PM
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Lol I agree but my view is an unpopular one , which I also think played a very subtle yet influential part. It's basically the raised standards and superficiality of Younger women in dating. And it's encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:10 PM
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This is just an example. Young women are encouraged to date men who can spoil them with material stuff, Nowadays that isn't young men, we are mostly kinda broke.... So these girls,They date older men , preferences are preferences, go right ahead and do whatever u like, but notice how nobody really objects to this. Then more and more of them subscribe to this. And then they simultaneously complain that all men are bad because they end up in relationships where the guy neglects them emotionally. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:03 PM
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That what it was initially meant. When it went overboard nobody foolproofed it, it's just getting ridiculous and more ridiculous. Young women are more superficial nowadays Edit: look at your comment, look at how U didn't even mention the overly superficial young women (which are in large enough numbers to even mention). Nothing U said was wrong but the lack of nuance is just kinda annoying at this point. Nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:12 PM
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The effect is mostly seen on gen z. And the preferences are kinda pushed by feminism. Modern day feminism. The ones proposed by millennial women and the older gen z. They're indoctrinating these girls to "never settle" for whatever society gives them. And those kind of things get alot of traction online for them. They encourage the raising of standards until they reached a point where self reflection was thrown out the window. So nowadays it's bullshit. I had a girl who literally works for less …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:02 PM
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Yes. It's a psychological human thing. Women are more socialized to adopt this kind of mindset. Men are socialized for a more internal one. Nowadays, young men are complaining (in large amounts) about unfair it is to get into successful careers and get dates. The response to this newfound externalizing of control in young men? "It's all your fault , get outside and improve yourself" then they do that and see it's also really hard to even improve themselves 😂 and even if they do manage to improve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:46 PM
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This is exactly one of my points that I raise. People seem to tolerate and even encourage this bullshit from the women and then villianize the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:39 AM
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