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| 3 | How do I stop getting attracted to every girl I see or meet?Forget all these beta comments, your a man that is attracted to woman. Biologically men are wired to want to fuck and procreate anything in sight. We are however not monkeys anymore, so you need to chill out and distinguish between sexual desire and actual love and manage your emotions | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Talked to an absolutely gorgeous girl. She had a boyfriend but I need some advice on something.You did the right thing, in scenarios like this, just enjoy the feminine energy and she’s going to do the same. Being in a fateful relationship doesn’t mean woman won’t enjoy some masculine energy from time to time. You were your true self and you established interest, so one day she might be available and she will remember the exchange of energy you had. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is this Approach Anxiety?It’s not about the content of what you’re saying, It’s the vibe, confidence and how grounded you are. Content will come later on, but to approach you need to lead with vibe. Example 1, Creepy as fuck: « Hi my name xxx, so what are you shopping for?? Do you go to the mall often... ++ more questions ». SHE FUCKEN KNOWS MAN. Right off the back she knows you’re just looking for sweet sweet validation and that you’re trying to «pick up » a girl and she will most likely try to end the conversation as … | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | What could I be doing better appearance-wise? [20M]Listen man! You're over analysing stuff, you don't pull out your note book and pencil and try to find the solution to this kind of stuff. This isent a degree! Wake up every fucken morning, walk up to your mirror and point to yourself and say "I'm the fucken shit!!!!" Scream it as loud as you can! Walk out of your door and live your life like a boss. You need to believe it before you can be it man | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What could I be doing better appearance-wise? [20M]80% of girls attractions is towards a guys confidence, vibe, social status, presence and groundness. 20% is physical appearance, and you look good brother. But you need to realise that even if you are really really good looking, but you have 0 confidence, no vibe, you're shaky, you cant even look at a girl in the eyes, you'll never be able to atract girls fully. You might have girls open up to you and say hi, because you're good looking. But once you start talking they will immediately loose att… | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 05:05 PM |
| 61 | [FR] Blue ballsStop asking her to come inside your place, stop trying to convince her to stay. Girls know what you're up too. Girls want to keep going, they just don't want to verbally agree or admit that they want to sleep with you, go inside, wtv. It makes them feel like a slut. So... next time just grab her hand and say "Come" and pull her into your house and continue to comand her to do things and not ask. "Let me show you this", "Here take a drink","Come see my xxx collection" Stop asking for permission, … | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Sometimes, I feel like more people hate me than those who like me.No one is going to approach you or interact with you if you don't put out a good positive vibe. Vibing is essential in social settings, its a representation of your happyness, your confidence and your willingness to socialize. Vibing is the act of saying or doing something with no actual intension other than to demonstrate your current state. If you walk by someone you know, and you say "you the man" and point a him, it's useless to do so, but it's putting your vibe out here, and people want to … | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Quitting the gameOkay bye! no one cares about you, no one cares about me, no one cares about anyone except themselves. If you want something, get it yourself. But I will care for you with this one comment, but that's is all -> It feels like you should work on you're inner game, you're worrying to much about if you're going to succeed. When you go out, or when you're with people, stop trying so hard to game and pull, be yourself, be super self amused, just have a good time. BE THE FUN. You're going to be having s… | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 01:43 AM |
| 74 | So how do i know if a girl find me attractive or is 'checking me out'?Exacly, if you're waiting for permission to approach you're not being a man, you're being a little bitch. Yes girls are attracted to physical appearance, but they are way more attracted to a guys confidence, if he's grounded and if he's purposefull. Therefore you need go approach anyone who YOU think is attractive and show her your confidence, your vibe, your wit and all that a good stuff. Assume you're the shit. | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 02:54 PM |
| 1 | When to pull the trigger in a "complicated" relationshipYou have the wrong mindset, stop being afraid of doing something that pushes her away, stop trying to please her. It's needy and she feels it. Just be like """Hey girl, You're fun, I like you a little bit(this is helps you not look needy, she will be like whattt just a little bit?? ), come over and watch a movie (always command, never ask or say: you should.. blah blah blah)( doesent need to be a movie anything you want) Tuesday night. (To bring a girl over, you can use a movie, but movies screa… | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 07:10 AM |
| 1 | I just finished chapter two of Models. I've been a Jim my whole life - how can I change my mindset and become a Jeff? And how did you former "Jim's" do it ?Reading is the best way to become a better you, and becoming good with woman. We live in a world where everything is leading us to become like Jim, movies, books and all that good stuff is teaching you to become like Jim. It's socialization. It's funny because simply reading a few of these books can change your life drastically for the good. A portion of your time for a way better life, it's a good fucken deal I'd say.. The way of the superior man - David Deida No More Mr. Nice guy! -Robert A. G… | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 06:19 AM |
| 4 | Sexually frustrated and need advice.Yo dude, just by reading this it feels like you're being needy. By needy I mean you're happiness, you're joy and you're purpose are being fed to you by resources that you do not have control of. You're relying on your friends, girls other people for happiness and joy, and people FEEL it, they are to scared to connect to you emotionally because they feel that neediness and they do don't want to be the resources. You need to get your joy and happiness from yourself, you need to become the resource… | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Question about having a high energy talking personalityI think you would do great. Girls are attracted to guys who are present in the moment, when you put all your mind into talking to a woman she will feel how present you are and that will attract her, she will latch on to your presence. An example of a way to know if you're present in the moment is usually when you're talking with someone and you don't notice the time going by. If you're already good at that part, that's good, but you also need to know how to seduce and move forward to your goal w… | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Prolonged Eye Contact and Attraction: What The Science Tells UsThis is nice and all, but It really comes down to the fact that you have the balls to look at a woman in the eyes, and that you're not a little frightened boy. Stair that bitch in the eyes and she will know you're the man. | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 06:31 PM |
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