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And thats why most men should be extremely picky and be okay with staying single in our 30s and 40s. The dating game completely flips then. I rarely find a girl over 30 attractive anymore. So if she doesn't have an amazing personality, willing to provide something or put lots of efforts on adding benefits, i just feel like im better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:24 AM
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I do the same now. Coffee dates or nothing. No exclusivity before sex. Nothing. Men need to see how it is today in our modern age. Women need to learn that using guys comes with consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:21 AM
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I see your point and thats why single moms aren't desired by most men. You took the risk and fucked up, no one should now save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:18 AM
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I ain't settling down and im 30. Not interested in it either. My 30s are for me. Not going to be the fall back guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:27 PM
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Oh they're not random that's a way to avoid accountability and growth. Dating is never random.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:19 AM
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Sure, but im confuses on how these women are able to hookup casually or have ONS with guys who aren't even doing this if "fun high efforts dates" are needed. Kinda of debunks this entire argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:13 AM
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We if it works for you then great. Idk anyone personally that be down for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:51 AM
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Im 30 and my youngest male friend is 21. Doesn't change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:07 AM
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That's great but I dont know a single men who would accept being exclusive with a girl before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:00 AM

Yep and I wont even entertain a girl like that. Ive spent my fair share of money on good dates to end up being heartbroken. No more. The only girls who can use that are the ones who only had or have sex with someone in a relationship. If they had a fwb or ONS then this would imply thaf their liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:58 AM
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Good! Let them be! In your 30s sit down and watch most women complaining about being in terrible relationships or men not putting any efforts anymore. They wanted those guys, they should keep going for them. That's why men today need to have a backbone and refuse to accept women who were into those guys unless they're worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:22 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:08 PM
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Lmao 🤣 I won't even bother responding to this guy... You're unhinged, my man. "You never had sex before" while commenting previously, "You can only have sex with prostitutes....which one is it, my guy? No shit she chose the alcohol over you. Have you heard yourself? The level of stupidity from your mouth is next level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:55 PM
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Ah yes, tell me how uneducated you are without telling me how uneducated you are. Have you ever heard of a thing called condoms? It's a pretty cool way of protecting yourself during sex. Also, have you ever heard of independent escorts? Or what about legalized brothels that are overseen by health authorities?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:46 PM
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Of course, it does a lot to benefit society... that's an ignorant half glass statement right there. It keeps people happy sexually. It allows people to have companionship. Now, if it was legalized and overseen, it would bring tax dollars and more benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:31 PM
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I can glow up? Really? You gotta any pills that can make me go from 5,4ft to taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:05 AM
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Well clearly allot of women aren't selective on the personality level at all then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:36 PM
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Ask Charles Darwin. You may not like the answer, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:04 PM

Woman aren't more valuable, get your head out of the sand already,. Each gender has their own advantages. Women are supposed to be pretty and sought for, men are supposed to provide a decent life quality. If a men does well in his 30s and 40s, he isn't settling and accepting to be a ATM for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:14 PM

I would disagree. Yes almost any women can have a sexual prime, sex is extremely easy for women to get. You know what is not easy? A good relationship with a financial stable, emotionally stable, decent shape men with a amazing personality who wants to actually be a good partner. This tends to happen in our 30s. That is when the dating game flips completely. This is when men should be extremely picky and actually explore their sexual prime as much as they can. These man are rare at that age as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:11 PM
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Oh yeah? That's odd because 70% of SSRI prescriptions are prescribed to women. So i highly doubt happiness is involved here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:03 PM
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Thank God im done with trying to date as man in me 30s. You get the end of the stick, and you still have to work more. Theirs no winning here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:35 AM
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Actually, I don't. What i want is for women to stop complaining about men being "assholes" and "narcissistic, "abusers, or wtv they like to throw around... Because frankly, if man you date are always like this, then sorry to say, the problem is you. Your "high" standards (which i like to call unrealistic) are bringing you these guys. Women today focus so much on looks and status, and whatever social media tells them, the ideal guy should be that they forget what really matters. In my case, I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:48 PM
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Easy, look up hypergamy. It's a really thing and has been studied sociologically. When we say that, we mean come back to reality or keep chasing the top tier of men and getting played, but please dont cry or complain after if we aren't interested as we get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:47 AM
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No we do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:20 PM
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BINGO! This person gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:38 PM

Yeah, I ain't paying for another men's children. That's insanity right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:35 AM

But when she becomes less attractive, is it okay to go provide with another one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:33 AM
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"Most good-looking successful men" I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:01 AM
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At 30 years old, I've learned at least one thing in all my pain with dating women. What women say they want in dating is the completely opposite of what they go for. When you hear all these "sweet guys, nice guy, good job, social, caring"... bla bla bla, that's the logical side speaking. The emotional side doesn't have words. Just stay quiet and observe their actions. You'll save allot of pain and efforts like I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:40 PM

No hesitation. I genuinely want a serious long-term relationship, but that doesn't mean I ain't open for something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:37 PM
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Well, isn't that what feminism is all about? Being equal to men on everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:34 PM
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Lol, the same applies the other way around. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:30 PM
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You should go watch some of his videos and analyze them a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:53 AM

Yeah, that's never going to happen because they are literally the same types of people. Have you seen Charlie Kirk debate against Liberal Man and Women? He dominates every single one of them with facts. They leave and get mad, too. As a moderate, I find this hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:28 AM
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Well, allot of them aren't good at vetting clearly if we have so many single moms and women complaining about dating, then 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:47 PM

Couldn't be closer to the truth. It's about time people start saying the truth here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:15 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like your fiancé is extremely insecure and a coward at the same time if he looks at it this way. What if he shakes a man's hand that's stronger than him, and he can't "size him up"? What happens then? He runs away?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:13 AM
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Well, it's 100% looks, just nobody wants to admit it. I have very good-looking male friends with dog personalities, and they couldn't care less about girls' feelings or how they treat them. But oh boy, do they get lots of girls' attention. They barely have to make any moves. It took me this, and I just looked around to understand everything I needed to know. Looks first and personality after.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:08 AM

Im sure you or most women dont think about men like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:44 AM
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https://time.com/3547890/tinder-men-women-swipe-right/?utm_source=chatgpt.com "On the popular dating app, which has users swipe right to indicate they “like” a potential match and swipe left to say “nope,” men are almost three times as likely to swipe right than women are, the New York Times reports. Men do it 46% of the time, while women do it just 14% of the time."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:03 AM
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https://www.swipestats.io/blog/tinder-statistics?utm_source=chatgpt.com "Swiping Behavior Men swipe right (like) 16,368 times on average (median: 5,096) Women swipe right 2,283 times on average (median: 989) Women pass (swipe left) on 41,100 profiles on average (median: 19,553) Men pass on 28,086 profiles on average (median: 10,051)" Here is one. Please come again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:01 AM
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Oh yes they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:32 AM
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Damn I've never chatted about sex and always try to get to know the girl. Guess what? Trying to have a convo with them is like trying to make a psychopath have empathy Online dating is fucked. Women have to many options and end up chasing to top 20%. Then they complain about online dating when thise 20% of guys have access to 80% of women to choose from. Im not a mathematician, but you can see how the numbers may not work. Tinder and match group also proved that the 80/20 rule is factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:32 AM
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I honestly don't care. I just dont want to hear the whining and constant complaining by women. Or refused to be settled for and used. Want to reproduce with the best-looking guys or only have fun with them? Cool, dont complain after when you end up just being an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:07 PM

This is why I'll be using this particular subject for my thesis for my master's. The men loneliness epidemic is real, and it won't only affect men down the line. It will affect children and even women. They aren't feeling in now because it just started. Everyone needs to start taking accountability and finding ways to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:17 PM

Wow, you couldn't be more right. I can't wait to see those who try to debate you on those. They'll look pretty stupid considering the facts that these things are actually often said, even her and on the bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:06 PM

I don't think anyone rational is debating that. But to correct you, sex is actually a need. This can be achieved solo although.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:59 AM
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That's called false confidence and masked insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:20 PM
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So if a new guy walks up to you and asks you for a date, you're able to determine his personality right away? What about online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:14 AM
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I wonder why? No way you can't be this ignorant in life? Actually, given the way society is going, I'd say yes now. I know lots of guys with amazing personalities, but look wise, they are average looking. I know lots of guys with dirt personalities, narcissism, high ego, lack of empathy... etc. But they are good-looking. Want to guess who gets the most attention from girls? Lying to ourselves to avoid confronting reality, does not change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:13 AM

Wasn't speaking about you directly. Then why so many single moms and unhappy women in relationships? That's the question you must answer without being biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:10 AM

Ignorance is a bliss 😊 Imagine thinking it must be worse all the time. I know plenty of great men, and I know plenty of players and non emotionally attached guys with low EQ. Want to guess who gets the most women? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:08 AM

Sure, but hearing women complaining about being with deadbeat baby daddies. drug addicts, unhappy relationships, unable to find good man...ect is annoying. You don't want to be relationship with allot of men, then don't complain about anything when you are literally ignoring amazing guys out there. Be happy single like OP said lol. Also, if you have too much baggage prepare to be not as wanted by man and do not complain either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:15 AM
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They can't because women control sex. Almost any woman can get laid anytime she wants....Men not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:39 AM
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Yeah, that's why once you have the proof, you get a paternity test :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:15 PM
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Yeah I wouldnt date a "whore". But have you heard about a thing called women cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:07 PM
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Are we talking hookups and casual sex or relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:04 PM
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Because they're fun and we aren't choosing them, trust me. Some girls are only for sex. Others are for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:58 PM
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Every reason is legitimate for a paternity test. This affects the child and the father's life. It's incredible how so many women are against something that would prevent so many issues down the line. A man shouldn't have to pay any form of support without proof of a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:18 PM
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It's okay, but dont expect men to commit and settle for you in your 30s and 40s. Every choice has consequences in this life. Also, please stop complaining about dating, too. If you're all gonna share the same type of men, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:56 PM
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The average man must make peace with the possibility of being alone. Only then can he control whatever he wants to control because the results won't differ for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:21 AM
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Oh, they work on their personalities and characters when the looks no longer provide. But that comes later in life. That's when reality hits hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:16 AM

I actually compared your actions and not you personally. But go on...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:21 PM

Damn that's a lot of bullshit and assumptions coming out in one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:19 PM

Who cares for your chances of getting women to become lower? He'll you don't even need a woman and women don't need men either. Clearly, she wasn't for you, and you don't need their validation. Right now, you're preventing yourself, hoping that you'll be more acceptable later. That's looking for validation. It's like men judging women for her sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:17 PM

Like a large body count shows low value, too. Valuable things don't go around as often, that's why they are valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:13 PM

Okay and?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:13 PM

Can you rephrase this so it makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:12 PM

It's exactly the "gotcha" that you think it is because all you're doing is assuming stuff and barking it out loud like a chihuahua
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:08 PM

Of course, because she's smart and knows she can make a living of this. Like OnlyFans content creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:06 PM

OP DO NOT feel judge or accept this kinda behavior from her. She ain't better, and this is just a way to guilt trip man. Guarantee you she's one of the first ones to go insane when the bodycount convo comes on. Their is nothing wrong seeing a sex worker, and a lot of them do it by choice and love doing it. As someone who worked with sex workers in counseling, i can tell you that a lot of my clients were independent and enjoyed their jobs. In fact, some of them advocated for prostitution laws to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:58 PM

I don't think she's capable of seeing the double standards being called out here. Or she is, but to avoid any accountability, she must go look for something to discredit my comment. Is this a women question? Sure! Is there a lot of hypocrisy and double standards here? Absolutely 💯 And we should definitely call that out when we see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:51 PM

Are you assuming that all sex workers aren't capable of making their own choices and aren't happy with what they do? That's a bit judgmental of you. I guess you think OF models don't want to actually do it either?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:47 PM

And to think my post got blocked 🚫 while I see this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:48 AM

Everything just past right over your head, eh? Do you know what else is a risk taking behavior? Having a high body count because it proves someone inability to control their sexual urges and lust, and that's a weakness.. Also, STDs and stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:14 AM

I agree, and body count does matter because of the risk of STDs, personal values, pregnancy, and lack of bonding. I think women shouldn't shame men for having a preference towards bodycount. Everyone is entitled to date who they want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:07 AM
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So precisely exactly what the RP is mentioning . "They're conveniently attractive, charismatic, and flirty with a large social circle, In other words, women are attracted to these traits and things about men. If they weren't attracted to these things, these men would not be as successful with women. Exactly what the OG RP is trying to teach man, how to be more confident, more charismatic, work on yourself, take accountability...ect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:31 AM
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Amazing post! It's about time someone calls things out properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:11 AM
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I sill dont see how your entire paragraph proves that the red pill is sexist 🙄 Also, if the OG red pill was BS as mentioned, how could we explain how some men have literally no trouble getting girls for casual sex and dating? We have guys that are literally sleeping with 10 different women at once on rotation while other men aren't even getting female attention at all. So what do these men have more than the other ones? I'll take a guess and say they're more attractive to women because things th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:06 AM
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Unless they are extremely wealthy....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:02 PM
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The problem here is I really want to believe what you just said, but I haven't seen it in my personal life. I can make friends with girls so easily, but never get more than that. "Im a catch, with an amazing personality who's got everything going for him," but yeah, not for them, just for some other girl. So it's extremely hard to believe in something you haven't personally experienced yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:22 PM
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Don't need cooking or cleaning. I'm already doing that myself, and my last relationship it was mostly me anyway. A lot of women would be surprised how many guys they ignore, have their shit together, and expect nothing. Younger women are more beautiful, statistically speaking, and more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:03 PM
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Maybe you didn't, but majority of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:41 PM
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I ain't claiming anything. I'm just saying by my personal experiences. At my age, their isnt allot a women can offer me more than what I already have. I don't want kids either....so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:40 PM
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Yeah help me I'm drowning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:37 PM
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That's why men need to invest in themselves and really up their standards when it comes to LTR. Men must also be fine being single forever in today's world. Don't be afraid to have standards, and if no women meet those, plenty to do single. I travel, gym, hobbies all the time, have my pets, lots of friends. I actually don't need to date or have a partner anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:31 PM
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It sounds like you may actually have a point. Hence why I started focusing on myself and stopped even wanting to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:28 PM
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Same as women. I'm not sure what's the difference 🤔 Make-up isn't the basic for women? But gym memberships and facial skincare is? What about expensive cologne or clothing? That's basic too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:20 PM
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I don't expect a virgin and probably wouldn't want to either. But most women i know will act like they want that great guy and won't settle for less meanwhile they fuck low EQ man for absolutely nothing. Yeah, if you're gonna do that, don't pretend like you're only accepting high value man when you don't behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:18 PM
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I mean that's you. I prefer women who look natural. Also, you act like you buy these things just for that one date. Like so much capping is unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:15 PM
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I say let them be. I just entered my 30s, and the dating game flips so much in favor of man you wouldn't believe it. I prefer younger women who are more fun than those in my age range. Also, those in my age range don't really have anything to offer that I don't already have anyway. These types of situations will always end up costing both sides at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:13 PM
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But you have no problem spending your time with guys that will fuck you without even bothering texting you or yet invite you on a date. Makes total sense 👏 ladies and gentlemen, modern dating for you. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:10 PM
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Exactly why I'm no longer interested in LTR, only hookups now. At least i learn what her resume is before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:08 PM
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So you're saying women only do this when it comes to dates? I have to pay for my shampoo and soap, too, my gym membership, my clothing, my facial skincare products, my haircuts....so wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:08 PM
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Okay, but why do you think they have bad personalities? Let's answer that question now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:07 AM
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Everything women say when it comes to love only applies if you're attractive to them. The evidence is pretty hard to miss
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:04 AM
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The part i don't understand is that if we know if it doesn't work ever, why do women still fall for it? It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:51 AM
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Why judge? Who cares what others do? This does not affect you in any shape, form or way!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:26 PM
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This! How many times will you have to call it out before accountability comes into play?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:57 AM
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I want a Lamborghini for the price of 2$...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:53 AM
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Yeah, I got a receiding a hairline, too, so I am at a severe disadvantage. Making friends with girls is very easy for me. Dating not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:00 AM
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So their isnt much I can really do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:44 AM
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I've got most of them, but the jacked part and I could use more hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:27 AM
0

What's the best version of you when you are 5'4ft at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:16 AM
1

Well i for one, won't be married very long if sex and affection aren't in it. Actually kinda don't even want to get married with today dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:30 AM
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Fair enough for me, but i have a high sex drive, and a dead bedroom won't cut it for me. But if you want better genetics for a child, I'm all for it. That being said, the child is still legally mine and I'm his father.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:36 PM
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You just can't win anymore. Whatever you do, it's wrong today? This is why women lose credibility fast. You can't day something and do the opposite. That applies to everyone in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:27 PM
0

And I won't date or commit to a woman before sex. I think it's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:22 PM
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That's why I don't care about women struggles when it comes to dating. They have the upper hand in that area anyway. When it comes to other stuff, then yes I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:18 PM
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If your statement was remotely true, a lot of these frat good-looking boys wouldn't be getting laid without contributing because "nothing is free" But yet here we are with hookup culture and single moms everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:46 PM
1

Thats perfectly fine, we can be mutual friends but not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:32 PM
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They are friends and I don't want more than friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:27 AM
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Chill lil bro, you're getting worked up for no reason here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:20 PM
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Good then, tell us then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:52 AM
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Ignorance is a bliss, isn't it? Welcome to modern society, where we ignore our problems, criticize solutions, and cancel those we don't agree with. The future will interest to watch, but at this rate, I have a feeling it won't be a nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:50 AM
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Well allot of women chase top guys and then complain. Of course, these guys have options. It's like us man who wants the hottest girls. We all know how that's going to go for most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:09 AM
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"Women offer then men." Yeah, I'm not sure this is the case in both your examples here.. but go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:51 AM
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I've learned that the hard way. Now I'm too wise to fall for this. I have female friends who are just friends, and I have no romantic feelings for them. But if you're a girl that i do want something romantic, we can't be just friends. I respect your choice, but I'm also putting my boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:54 AM
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This is exactly it. I was in the exact same boat to a point where I just accepted it. Now I no longer have the desire to even try to interact with women unless I have too. Clearly I do not appeal to them and this hurts my confidence, so to avoid that I just work on myself and pretend like nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:28 AM
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