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And thats why most men should be extremely picky and be okay with staying single in our 30s and 40s. The dating game completely flips then. I rarely find a girl over 30 attractive anymore. So if she doesn't have an amazing personality, willing to provide something or put lots of efforts on adding benefits, i just feel like im better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:24 AM
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I do the same now. Coffee dates or nothing. No exclusivity before sex. Nothing. Men need to see how it is today in our modern age. Women need to learn that using guys comes with consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:21 AM
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I see your point and thats why single moms aren't desired by most men. You took the risk and fucked up, no one should now save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:18 AM
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I ain't settling down and im 30. Not interested in it either. My 30s are for me. Not going to be the fall back guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:27 PM
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Oh they're not random that's a way to avoid accountability and growth. Dating is never random.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:19 AM
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Sure, but im confuses on how these women are able to hookup casually or have ONS with guys who aren't even doing this if "fun high efforts dates" are needed. Kinda of debunks this entire argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:13 AM
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We if it works for you then great. Idk anyone personally that be down for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:51 AM
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Im 30 and my youngest male friend is 21. Doesn't change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:07 AM
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That's great but I dont know a single men who would accept being exclusive with a girl before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:00 AM
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Yep and I wont even entertain a girl like that. Ive spent my fair share of money on good dates to end up being heartbroken. No more. The only girls who can use that are the ones who only had or have sex with someone in a relationship. If they had a fwb or ONS then this would imply thaf their liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:58 AM
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Good! Let them be! In your 30s sit down and watch most women complaining about being in terrible relationships or men not putting any efforts anymore. They wanted those guys, they should keep going for them. That's why men today need to have a backbone and refuse to accept women who were into those guys unless they're worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:22 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:08 PM
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Lmao 🤣 I won't even bother responding to this guy... You're unhinged, my man. "You never had sex before" while commenting previously, "You can only have sex with prostitutes....which one is it, my guy? No shit she chose the alcohol over you. Have you heard yourself? The level of stupidity from your mouth is next level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:55 PM
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Ah yes, tell me how uneducated you are without telling me how uneducated you are. Have you ever heard of a thing called condoms? It's a pretty cool way of protecting yourself during sex. Also, have you ever heard of independent escorts? Or what about legalized brothels that are overseen by health authorities?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:46 PM
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Of course, it does a lot to benefit society... that's an ignorant half glass statement right there. It keeps people happy sexually. It allows people to have companionship. Now, if it was legalized and overseen, it would bring tax dollars and more benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:31 PM
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I can glow up? Really? You gotta any pills that can make me go from 5,4ft to taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:05 AM
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You heard it, OP. Women are more emotional in their reasoning, while men are more logical. Always has been and always will. So it doesn't matter that 80% want the 14.5% even when math says it doesn't work. Therefore, listening to women complaining about dating is pointless. You cannot reason with emotions, only with logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:37 AM
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Well clearly allot of women aren't selective on the personality level at all then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:36 PM
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Ask Charles Darwin. You may not like the answer, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:04 PM
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I'll keep this short. The best thing to learn is: What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to. Attraction is an unconscious feeling or decision, same as love. One can not decide what they are attracted to. So when they say all these things, this only applies to man they find attractive. Think about it, if women truly wanted what they say, a lot of men wouldn't be complaining because they're decent guys. Therefore, dating pages like this wouldn't be as…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:01 PM
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Woman aren't more valuable, get your head out of the sand already,. Each gender has their own advantages. Women are supposed to be pretty and sought for, men are supposed to provide a decent life quality. If a men does well in his 30s and 40s, he isn't settling and accepting to be a ATM for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:14 PM
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I would disagree. Yes almost any women can have a sexual prime, sex is extremely easy for women to get. You know what is not easy? A good relationship with a financial stable, emotionally stable, decent shape men with a amazing personality who wants to actually be a good partner. This tends to happen in our 30s. That is when the dating game flips completely. This is when men should be extremely picky and actually explore their sexual prime as much as they can. These man are rare at that age as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:11 PM
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Oh yeah? That's odd because 70% of SSRI prescriptions are prescribed to women. So i highly doubt happiness is involved here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:03 PM
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Thank God im done with trying to date as man in me 30s. You get the end of the stick, and you still have to work more. Theirs no winning here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:35 AM
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Actually, I don't. What i want is for women to stop complaining about men being "assholes" and "narcissistic, "abusers, or wtv they like to throw around... Because frankly, if man you date are always like this, then sorry to say, the problem is you. Your "high" standards (which i like to call unrealistic) are bringing you these guys. Women today focus so much on looks and status, and whatever social media tells them, the ideal guy should be that they forget what really matters. In my case, I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:48 PM
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Easy, look up hypergamy. It's a really thing and has been studied sociologically. When we say that, we mean come back to reality or keep chasing the top tier of men and getting played, but please dont cry or complain after if we aren't interested as we get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:47 AM
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No we do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:20 PM
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BINGO! This person gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:38 PM
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Yeah, I ain't paying for another men's children. That's insanity right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:35 AM
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But when she becomes less attractive, is it okay to go provide with another one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:33 AM
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"Most good-looking successful men" I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:01 AM
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At 30 years old, I've learned at least one thing in all my pain with dating women. What women say they want in dating is the completely opposite of what they go for. When you hear all these "sweet guys, nice guy, good job, social, caring"... bla bla bla, that's the logical side speaking. The emotional side doesn't have words. Just stay quiet and observe their actions. You'll save allot of pain and efforts like I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:40 PM
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No hesitation. I genuinely want a serious long-term relationship, but that doesn't mean I ain't open for something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:37 PM
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Well, isn't that what feminism is all about? Being equal to men on everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:34 PM
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Lol, the same applies the other way around. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:30 PM
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You should go watch some of his videos and analyze them a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:53 AM
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Yeah, that's never going to happen because they are literally the same types of people. Have you seen Charlie Kirk debate against Liberal Man and Women? He dominates every single one of them with facts. They leave and get mad, too. As a moderate, I find this hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:28 AM
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That's been pretty established by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:24 AM
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Well, allot of them aren't good at vetting clearly if we have so many single moms and women complaining about dating, then 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:47 PM
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Couldn't be closer to the truth. It's about time people start saying the truth here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:15 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like your fiancé is extremely insecure and a coward at the same time if he looks at it this way. What if he shakes a man's hand that's stronger than him, and he can't "size him up"? What happens then? He runs away?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:13 AM
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Well, it's 100% looks, just nobody wants to admit it. I have very good-looking male friends with dog personalities, and they couldn't care less about girls' feelings or how they treat them. But oh boy, do they get lots of girls' attention. They barely have to make any moves. It took me this, and I just looked around to understand everything I needed to know. Looks first and personality after.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:08 AM
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Im sure you or most women dont think about men like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:44 AM
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Typical reddit where they attack you for calling out truth. Honestly wouldnt even bother with them. Some people rather live in ignorance their entire lives because it easier face our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:42 AM
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Most women aren't taught properly what a loser is, so they rely on social media and their "friends."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:40 AM
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Yes, that sounds about right, I keep noticing it in real life, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:26 AM
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https://time.com/3547890/tinder-men-women-swipe-right/?utm_source=chatgpt.com "On the popular dating app, which has users swipe right to indicate they “like” a potential match and swipe left to say “nope,” men are almost three times as likely to swipe right than women are, the New York Times reports. Men do it 46% of the time, while women do it just 14% of the time."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:03 AM
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https://www.swipestats.io/blog/tinder-statistics?utm_source=chatgpt.com "Swiping Behavior Men swipe right (like) 16,368 times on average (median: 5,096) Women swipe right 2,283 times on average (median: 989) Women pass (swipe left) on 41,100 profiles on average (median: 19,553) Men pass on 28,086 profiles on average (median: 10,051)" Here is one. Please come again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:01 AM
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Oh yes they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:32 AM
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Damn I've never chatted about sex and always try to get to know the girl. Guess what? Trying to have a convo with them is like trying to make a psychopath have empathy Online dating is fucked. Women have to many options and end up chasing to top 20%. Then they complain about online dating when thise 20% of guys have access to 80% of women to choose from. Im not a mathematician, but you can see how the numbers may not work. Tinder and match group also proved that the 80/20 rule is factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:32 AM
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I honestly don't care. I just dont want to hear the whining and constant complaining by women. Or refused to be settled for and used. Want to reproduce with the best-looking guys or only have fun with them? Cool, dont complain after when you end up just being an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:07 PM
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This is why I'll be using this particular subject for my thesis for my master's. The men loneliness epidemic is real, and it won't only affect men down the line. It will affect children and even women. They aren't feeling in now because it just started. Everyone needs to start taking accountability and finding ways to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:17 PM
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He can't debate anything you said, so he has to attack you personally. I've read his answer and laughed within seconds. This guy could use a sociology, psychology, or even a history class to learn about issues like this. Hell, he could read up on it from researches if he wanted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:09 PM
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Wow, you couldn't be more right. I can't wait to see those who try to debate you on those. They'll look pretty stupid considering the facts that these things are actually often said, even her and on the bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:06 PM
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Women are extremely good at gaslighting and avoiding accountability. Men as well, but in my personal life, women are experts at these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:03 PM
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I don't think anyone rational is debating that. But to correct you, sex is actually a need. This can be achieved solo although.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:59 AM
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Your logic does not make sense in this scenario. Because the con artist aren't complaining and the great guys aren't robbing banks. But please go on...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:46 AM
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Wait, what? Im so confused. Aren't we trying as a society to make women more independent and free? Why would they be improvished?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:16 PM
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That's called false confidence and masked insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:20 PM
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So if a new guy walks up to you and asks you for a date, you're able to determine his personality right away? What about online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:14 AM
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I wonder why? No way you can't be this ignorant in life? Actually, given the way society is going, I'd say yes now. I know lots of guys with amazing personalities, but look wise, they are average looking. I know lots of guys with dirt personalities, narcissism, high ego, lack of empathy... etc. But they are good-looking. Want to guess who gets the most attention from girls? Lying to ourselves to avoid confronting reality, does not change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:13 AM
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Wasn't speaking about you directly. Then why so many single moms and unhappy women in relationships? That's the question you must answer without being biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:10 AM
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Ignorance is a bliss 😊 Imagine thinking it must be worse all the time. I know plenty of great men, and I know plenty of players and non emotionally attached guys with low EQ. Want to guess who gets the most women? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:08 AM
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Sure, but hearing women complaining about being with deadbeat baby daddies. drug addicts, unhappy relationships, unable to find good man...ect is annoying. You don't want to be relationship with allot of men, then don't complain about anything when you are literally ignoring amazing guys out there. Be happy single like OP said lol. Also, if you have too much baggage prepare to be not as wanted by man and do not complain either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:15 AM
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They can't because women control sex. Almost any woman can get laid anytime she wants....Men not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:39 AM
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Actually man here bitch about their lack of dating experience...so its a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:19 PM
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Yeah OP I dont think you're getting anywhere here. "Choose better" means way more than just that. Women are often the one complaining about their relationships and dating experiences. That's why this is said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:20 PM
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Yeah, that's why once you have the proof, you get a paternity test :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:15 PM
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Yeah I wouldnt date a "whore". But have you heard about a thing called women cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:07 PM
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Are we talking hookups and casual sex or relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:04 PM
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Because they're fun and we aren't choosing them, trust me. Some girls are only for sex. Others are for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:58 PM
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Every reason is legitimate for a paternity test. This affects the child and the father's life. It's incredible how so many women are against something that would prevent so many issues down the line. A man shouldn't have to pay any form of support without proof of a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:18 PM
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It's okay, but dont expect men to commit and settle for you in your 30s and 40s. Every choice has consequences in this life. Also, please stop complaining about dating, too. If you're all gonna share the same type of men, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:56 PM
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But that's not what you're saying right now. You have low cards right now, so you'll prevent yourself from having fun, in hoping you have good cards? How do you know your cards will improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:32 AM
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So you're gonna prevent yourself based on "chances." Let me use your logic in another scenario. Im going to gamble tonight my entire paycheck because I still have a chance of winning. I won't stop gambling because if I do, I'll never have the chance to win. Does it make sense? No!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:43 PM
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The average man must make peace with the possibility of being alone. Only then can he control whatever he wants to control because the results won't differ for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:21 AM
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As far as im concerned, you are definitely not one, and you have no idea what you're talking about. A lot of organizations actually advocate for sex workers' rights. But you wouldn't know any of that because you only want to see one side of the story, the one that fits your narrative. As for your entry point comment, you're right on that one. This doesn't mean that a lot of women of men don't do it out of choice. Just go look into the Netherlands, Germany, and other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:51 PM
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You clearly did not read properly at all. The entire time, I'm actually calling out the double standards, and you come out with "well men do it too, men do it more often." You're which to whine and insult when men judge a woman's promiscuous past but will happily throw darts at men for other things. If that's the case, you have zero credibility in anything you say. You think I'm not a counselor because I'm calling you out on the hypocrisy, and you hate that. Think what you want, it doesnt change…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:46 PM
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So why the fuck is it okay to judge a man by his past of sleeping with these escorts and independent sex workers then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:15 AM
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Its not because a lot of women are sexually trafficked that their isnt a lot of them who do it independently and by choice. Plenty of legal escort agencies and independent sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:11 AM
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Oh, they work on their personalities and characters when the looks no longer provide. But that comes later in life. That's when reality hits hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:16 AM
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Exactly like paying for an escort or independent sex workers. As long as you practice safe sex its fine. Besides, it's the past. It doesn't define who that person is now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:15 AM
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Another example of deflecting from accountability. "It's okay for us to judge because I'm fine with it, but you can not judge our past because I'm not fine with it." We don't care about your biased opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:10 AM
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You have no idea what you're spewing. You have zero facts or statistics in your statement. Screaming the opposite of what I'm saying doest make you right. Please try again 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:08 AM
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It's hilarious and ironic. Precisely why I went out of my way to call it out. As men, we are constantly told that "past doesn't matter" "You're insecure if you care about that" ...ect. We are expected to shut up and accept it. But when it's the other way around, it's completely fine, apparently. If you're gonna lecture me and insult me for judging a women pass, you better as hell not be doing the same towards men. And I believe they do see the hypocrisy here, but its the classic case of "If I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:48 PM
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I actually compared your actions and not you personally. But go on...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:21 PM
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What's wrong with that? What's wrong with having a high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:20 PM
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Damn that's a lot of bullshit and assumptions coming out in one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:19 PM
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Who cares for your chances of getting women to become lower? He'll you don't even need a woman and women don't need men either. Clearly, she wasn't for you, and you don't need their validation. Right now, you're preventing yourself, hoping that you'll be more acceptable later. That's looking for validation. It's like men judging women for her sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:17 PM
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Like a large body count shows low value, too. Valuable things don't go around as often, that's why they are valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:13 PM
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Okay and?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:13 PM
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Can you rephrase this so it makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:12 PM
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It's exactly the "gotcha" that you think it is because all you're doing is assuming stuff and barking it out loud like a chihuahua
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:08 PM
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Of course, because she's smart and knows she can make a living of this. Like OnlyFans content creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:06 PM
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OP DO NOT feel judge or accept this kinda behavior from her. She ain't better, and this is just a way to guilt trip man. Guarantee you she's one of the first ones to go insane when the bodycount convo comes on. Their is nothing wrong seeing a sex worker, and a lot of them do it by choice and love doing it. As someone who worked with sex workers in counseling, i can tell you that a lot of my clients were independent and enjoyed their jobs. In fact, some of them advocated for prostitution laws to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:58 PM
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I don't think she's capable of seeing the double standards being called out here. Or she is, but to avoid any accountability, she must go look for something to discredit my comment. Is this a women question? Sure! Is there a lot of hypocrisy and double standards here? Absolutely 💯 And we should definitely call that out when we see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:51 PM
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Are you assuming that all sex workers aren't capable of making their own choices and aren't happy with what they do? That's a bit judgmental of you. I guess you think OF models don't want to actually do it either?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:47 PM
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And to think my post got blocked 🚫 while I see this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:48 AM
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Everything just past right over your head, eh? Do you know what else is a risk taking behavior? Having a high body count because it proves someone inability to control their sexual urges and lust, and that's a weakness.. Also, STDs and stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:14 AM
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I agree, and body count does matter because of the risk of STDs, personal values, pregnancy, and lack of bonding. I think women shouldn't shame men for having a preference towards bodycount. Everyone is entitled to date who they want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:07 AM
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Louder for the people in the back, please 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:19 AM
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So precisely exactly what the RP is mentioning . "They're conveniently attractive, charismatic, and flirty with a large social circle, In other words, women are attracted to these traits and things about men. If they weren't attracted to these things, these men would not be as successful with women. Exactly what the OG RP is trying to teach man, how to be more confident, more charismatic, work on yourself, take accountability...ect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:31 AM
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Amazing post! It's about time someone calls things out properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:11 AM
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I sill dont see how your entire paragraph proves that the red pill is sexist 🙄 Also, if the OG red pill was BS as mentioned, how could we explain how some men have literally no trouble getting girls for casual sex and dating? We have guys that are literally sleeping with 10 different women at once on rotation while other men aren't even getting female attention at all. So what do these men have more than the other ones? I'll take a guess and say they're more attractive to women because things th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:06 AM
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Unless they are extremely wealthy....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:02 PM
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The problem here is I really want to believe what you just said, but I haven't seen it in my personal life. I can make friends with girls so easily, but never get more than that. "Im a catch, with an amazing personality who's got everything going for him," but yeah, not for them, just for some other girl. So it's extremely hard to believe in something you haven't personally experienced yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:22 PM
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Don't need cooking or cleaning. I'm already doing that myself, and my last relationship it was mostly me anyway. A lot of women would be surprised how many guys they ignore, have their shit together, and expect nothing. Younger women are more beautiful, statistically speaking, and more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:03 PM
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I suggest you look it up too. Just my cologne alone is 150$...so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:42 PM
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Maybe you didn't, but majority of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:41 PM
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I ain't claiming anything. I'm just saying by my personal experiences. At my age, their isnt allot a women can offer me more than what I already have. I don't want kids either....so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:40 PM
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That's actually easy to achieve. High-end restaurants go for 150-200$ and then go out after.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:38 PM
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Yeah help me I'm drowning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:37 PM
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That's why men need to invest in themselves and really up their standards when it comes to LTR. Men must also be fine being single forever in today's world. Don't be afraid to have standards, and if no women meet those, plenty to do single. I travel, gym, hobbies all the time, have my pets, lots of friends. I actually don't need to date or have a partner anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:31 PM
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It sounds like you may actually have a point. Hence why I started focusing on myself and stopped even wanting to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:28 PM
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Id have to buy cologne too and clothing for dates as well. Nothing really changes by gender. Both have to but the equal amount effort in their own respective ways. I've always paid for the first dates, but now I'm extremely picky on who I'll ask on a date. Haven't been on one in a year because I don't know any girls who would be worth asking and paying 200-300$. You girls want all these dates paid, but do you even bother asking yourself if you're worth that to a men eyes? What makes you think yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:27 PM
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Same as women. I'm not sure what's the difference 🤔 Make-up isn't the basic for women? But gym memberships and facial skincare is? What about expensive cologne or clothing? That's basic too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:20 PM
-1

I don't expect a virgin and probably wouldn't want to either. But most women i know will act like they want that great guy and won't settle for less meanwhile they fuck low EQ man for absolutely nothing. Yeah, if you're gonna do that, don't pretend like you're only accepting high value man when you don't behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:18 PM
0

I mean that's you. I prefer women who look natural. Also, you act like you buy these things just for that one date. Like so much capping is unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:15 PM
0

I say let them be. I just entered my 30s, and the dating game flips so much in favor of man you wouldn't believe it. I prefer younger women who are more fun than those in my age range. Also, those in my age range don't really have anything to offer that I don't already have anyway. These types of situations will always end up costing both sides at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:13 PM
2

But you have no problem spending your time with guys that will fuck you without even bothering texting you or yet invite you on a date. Makes total sense 👏 ladies and gentlemen, modern dating for you. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:10 PM
0

Exactly why I'm no longer interested in LTR, only hookups now. At least i learn what her resume is before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:08 PM
1

So you're saying women only do this when it comes to dates? I have to pay for my shampoo and soap, too, my gym membership, my clothing, my facial skincare products, my haircuts....so wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:08 PM
1

Okay, but why do you think they have bad personalities? Let's answer that question now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:07 AM
1

Everything women say when it comes to love only applies if you're attractive to them. The evidence is pretty hard to miss
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:04 AM
4

The part i don't understand is that if we know if it doesn't work ever, why do women still fall for it? It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:51 AM
2

Why judge? Who cares what others do? This does not affect you in any shape, form or way!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:26 PM
-5

This! How many times will you have to call it out before accountability comes into play?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:57 AM
4

I want a Lamborghini for the price of 2$...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:53 AM
1

Sounds like you hate men...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:15 PM
1

Please elaborate, because whatever you said makes absolutely no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:14 PM
1

Well I mean not going to stop seeing others before we have sex. So not being inclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:41 PM
1

No, you don't commit inclusively like I just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:01 AM
1

No fantasies here! Calm down Lil bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:18 AM
3

Yeah, I got a receiding a hairline, too, so I am at a severe disadvantage. Making friends with girls is very easy for me. Dating not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:00 AM
0

So their isnt much I can really do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:44 AM
1

I've got most of them, but the jacked part and I could use more hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:27 AM
0

What's the best version of you when you are 5'4ft at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:16 AM
1

Well i for one, won't be married very long if sex and affection aren't in it. Actually kinda don't even want to get married with today dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:30 AM
1

Okay. So, if this average man becomes wealthy and is way better looking one day, it's okay for him to leave this girl because she doesn't meet the threshold anymore, and he has better options?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:51 PM
1

Fair enough. But what do these women offer, or how do they market themselves up? If they give sex to attractive guys for nothing, why's would any other average guy want less for more effort? Also, a lot of women and men will end up alone because of the way modern dating is going. The difference is that women have access to sex easily, and relationships are a different thing. They're still alone at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:55 AM
1

So the guy that is relationship material but less attractive to you, what does he get more? I mean, you're already giving everything to a guy that's attractive and does nothing for you. What's the incentive for me to chase you? It's better to be the first guy than the other one. That's the message a lot of modern women are sending today without realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:05 AM
1

Why not have lifelong commitment with these guys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:23 AM
1

Yes, why are you asking or even demanding that a man you're dating should contribute to a child that is not his? That's using people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:37 AM
-1

Correct! But expecting other men to provide is diabolical. I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:59 AM
1

Yeah except nobody dies after a set amount of sex sessions???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:15 PM
1

Women don't ask men on dates very often, so paying them to would never occur. And it means men shouldn't commit to a woman before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:38 PM
2

How are the benefits higher if the results are still the same? Bruh 😂 wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:37 PM
1

Fair enough for me, but i have a high sex drive, and a dead bedroom won't cut it for me. But if you want better genetics for a child, I'm all for it. That being said, the child is still legally mine and I'm his father.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:36 PM
1

For the choices you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:33 PM
1

That women stop complaining about how shitty men are in general. If you keep making these choices and they keep going wrong, then obviously that's on you. Also, men should not be pressured to commit or pay for the first dates. I believe in sex before love. I'll never commit to having sex again in my life. Did that once.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:32 PM
11

You just can't win anymore. Whatever you do, it's wrong today? This is why women lose credibility fast. You can't day something and do the opposite. That applies to everyone in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:27 PM
1

And I won't date or commit to a woman before sex. I think it's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:22 PM
4

That's why I don't care about women struggles when it comes to dating. They have the upper hand in that area anyway. When it comes to other stuff, then yes I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:18 PM
1

I know the thought of taking accountability is funny sometimes. 🤣😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:14 PM
1

Okay then their isnt any problems in society regarding dating now. Everything is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:13 PM
1

Good, let's all keep going forward with how we are doing right now because everything works perfectly well. Women and men can choose and act the same in dating period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:12 PM
0

So women need to make better choices in dating to avoid this and stop with the superficial stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:17 PM
3

What are the benefits then? You're still stuck being a single mother, paying for everything on your own. The kid doesn't have a father, any it's harder for you to be in a relationship. So their isnt truly any more benefits in someone more attractive. But there are more benefits, in a guy that has a great personality, values and ambitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:13 PM
-3

Well, i beg to differ. A lot of those men are average and have great personalities and lives. They aren't just noticed by women because they are less physically attractive. This comes back to hunt women later in life as their isnt enough top percentile men for all women, and they can't compete anymore against younger women. The number of women I see complaining pass 35 is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:11 PM
4

So good-looking guys do not need to offer anything, and average guys need to? Sounds very equitable. So is it okay for those average men to leave their wife's for younger and more beautiful women when they get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:06 PM
-1

Exactly. Thank you for confirming my entire thought. These unfuckable men shouldn't be providing for another man kids, shouldn't be paying dates when these other guys have sex without nothing provided or efforts, and these should never settle when women are passed their prime ages as they have too much to offer. Exactly where we are heading ae a society and nobody wants to acknowledge except world renowned psychologist and dating expert. As the years keep moving forward, more men will stop carin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:29 PM
1

Good, because here's a scenario of a friend of mine right now. He was deemed "unfuckable" in his 20s by women. In his 30s, after investing a lot in crypto and stocks, he was able to become wealthy, buy his house alone, cash, buy an audi cash, travel... he also worked on his physique His personality didn't change, only his assets. Now, so many women are bothering him and want more. He doesn't want to settle and just wants to have causal sex. He's 35 now. So you would agree that it's okay for him …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:17 PM
0

You obviously don't understand my reply 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:13 PM
-1

But still, the women have the same amount of responsibility as the man. She should have vetted the man well enough before deciding to have a child with him To excuse women of all responsibility is outrageous and deceitful. Besides rape, women choose to have sex with certain men. Therefore, they also have responsibility for the outcomes. I'm all for women to freely have casual sex with anyone they desire, but if things go sideways, they must also take responsibility. After she chooses that GUY be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:13 PM
-1

In what context besides rape then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:55 PM
1

Stop the bullshit. It's refers to both genders. It takes two to conceive. Like seriously now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:54 PM
0

Nobody is punishing anyone for sex?? Women are allowed to choose who they sleep with, and that's normal. Since most of the average guys aren't desired for casual sex, why should these men accept responsibility for the more attractive guys' kids out of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:53 PM
-2

Not really, if you're capable of comprehending it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:42 PM
-4

So women should also assume responsibility if their chosen mate didn't provide. After all, she made the choice to choose him. I truly believe those attractive guys they get sex easily should be the one to take care of kids and resources, not the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:41 PM
-3

No, but the single mother did make bad choices in her partners and therefore also owes the same level of responsibility as the father. Remember, women choose who they mate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:34 PM
0

Fair enough. Then, when women are less desirable past their prime years, it's safe to assume these "unfuckable" men shouldn't settled for them or take care of their kids or provide either. Get the fuckable guys to do all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:32 PM
-2

So, mostly average man then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:22 PM
1

So, does the risk of pregnancy or other situations go down when the guy is physically attractive? Im a bit confused here. It's a risk one day but not a risk when the guy is attractive? Could we stop bullshiting eachother please?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:48 PM
9

If your statement was remotely true, a lot of these frat good-looking boys wouldn't be getting laid without contributing because "nothing is free" But yet here we are with hookup culture and single moms everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:46 PM
1

What constitutes and unfuckable guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:43 PM
-5

So, a single man without kids shouldn't commit to a single mom because he shouldn't be responsible for her making bad choices in previous partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:42 PM
1

Thats perfectly fine, we can be mutual friends but not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:32 PM
1

They are friends and I don't want more than friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:27 AM
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Yes, and that's why at 30, I have way higher standards than I ever had. Men, after 30 entire their prime years, unless they didn't work on themselves. I also don't mind being alone if I can't find what I want. Most of my 20s were alone, so it's not a big deal here. I have so many hobbies now and goals that I don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:27 PM
1

Chill lil bro, you're getting worked up for no reason here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:20 PM
7

Good then, tell us then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:52 AM
2

Ignorance is a bliss, isn't it? Welcome to modern society, where we ignore our problems, criticize solutions, and cancel those we don't agree with. The future will interest to watch, but at this rate, I have a feeling it won't be a nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:50 AM
6

Well allot of women chase top guys and then complain. Of course, these guys have options. It's like us man who wants the hottest girls. We all know how that's going to go for most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:09 AM
1

"Women offer then men." Yeah, I'm not sure this is the case in both your examples here.. but go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:51 AM
1

You are not wrong and I came to realize this as a 30 years old male. I decided I no longer wanted a relationship or any commitment like I use too. I actually don't even go out of my way to date. The thing, is that men SMV goes up past their 30s. This as been proven so many times as women and men want different things from each-other. So entering my 30s where I make more money, have more assets, take care of my body, am educated and have more hobbies, I want a better woman or I rather not have on…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:10 PM
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I've learned that the hard way. Now I'm too wise to fall for this. I have female friends who are just friends, and I have no romantic feelings for them. But if you're a girl that i do want something romantic, we can't be just friends. I respect your choice, but I'm also putting my boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:54 AM
32

This is exactly it. I was in the exact same boat to a point where I just accepted it. Now I no longer have the desire to even try to interact with women unless I have too. Clearly I do not appeal to them and this hurts my confidence, so to avoid that I just work on myself and pretend like nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:28 AM
1

Well if I meet women who prefer assertive dirtbags over super shy guys, I am not interested. If she's into things that are toxic over good things and makes bad decisions base on emotions, then this will be a recipe for disaster. Good women, with good values and accomplishments would rather have the second option any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:11 AM
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