Josselynceste Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
71	The most subtle but important signs of interest you should read	Fundamentals	Josselynceste	/r/seduction	03/09/25 12:27 PM
19	Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends?	Lifestyle	Josselynceste	/r/seduction	28/01/26 01:43 PM
6	How to escalate during discussions?	Escalation & Calibration	Josselynceste	/r/seduction	28/04/25 04:31 PM

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138	Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happened I think there is a difference between "join club to find girls" and "join clubs of things you genuinely enjoy, to meet people that have common interests. Make friends, take initiatives, meet more people, including girls, and know how and when to act when you meet someone that is worth your time and energy". Girls can feel when someone is in a club only for the sake of picking up girls, and it’s not attractive. They can also feel when you are in your element, doing activities you like, and you gi…	/r/seduction	16/03/26 04:20 PM
1	Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends? Finally some people with fucking common sense and actual dating/relationships experience	/r/seduction	28/01/26 06:04 PM
1	Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends? Yeah I forgot this sub is filled with actual losers who wants to fuck, or depressed fuckboys giving technics to get laid as much as possible without connexion. Thanks for the comment !	/r/seduction	28/01/26 06:02 PM
10	Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends? I think it really depends on the context. Also these people see friends as "danger". But I have very good and respectful friends. Including girl friends. And showing her a teaser of my social life can be beneficial I think, especially since I am quite popular among my friends.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 02:46 PM
1	Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends? I guess it depends on the girl and the context...	/r/seduction	28/01/26 02:42 PM
2	Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends? She talked about me to her friends and suggested that I should meet them (because there's a good connexion so far). But for me it’s a bit too soon and I know I have to go slow with these things. I am asking mostly because of my limited time and don’t want lose her when I'm away.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 02:00 PM
-1	Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends? Doesn’t have to be introduced as my "girlfriend " or anything. It’s early and we keep it light at the moment,	/r/seduction	28/01/26 01:48 PM
23	What are low-pressure openers I can actually use in class, gym, coffee shops without looking like a tryhard? https://youtu.be/P2pGXdqI9s4?si=4IhPw890jLRv7VRX Key point : use your sense of observation, be in the present, to comment on something in the environment, make some jokes, or ask or compliment on someone's outfit for example (never on something physical like eyes). It should : - Be genuine - Be open ended (but not too much) for a minimum of discussion - Be a "test" to see if the person is receptive My advice : practice with EVERYONE, even dudes, old ladies, people you are not attracted to, and w…	/r/seduction	18/10/25 04:31 PM
10	What book changed your dating life?..(for the better) Models by Mark Manson by far. You will not become a fuck boy, but it gives you the keys of understanding dynamics between men and women, and how attraction works.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 03:49 PM
3	The most subtle but important signs of interest you should read Sorry that wasn’t clear : proposing dining for a first date, unless the girl is 100% onto you, is a bad idea. A bit hard to explain, but it’s too "relationship" connotated. It’s better to escalate as the dates go by : coffee --> drink --> dinner depending on the level of interest.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 01:57 PM
2	The most subtle but important signs of interest you should read Coffee < bar < dining. Dining for a first date is a bad idea in my opinion though. It’s already a bit "relationshp" vibe, and in the early phase it’s a positive sign	/r/seduction	04/09/25 12:54 PM
3	The most subtle but important signs of interest you should read I'll explain a bit more the reasoning : heels or dress for instance --> she accepts to sacrifice some of her freedom of movement because she knows you will handle the logistics, and she relies on you in case of problems, only to look pretty to your eyes. The most pretty or sexiest outfit are generally not the most comfy And no, if she comes to the date for a coffee, or only one drink but not more than that, then she's not comfortable altering her judgment, puting herself vulnerable with you (of …	/r/seduction	04/09/25 12:46 PM
35	23, shaved my head 4 months ago—dating confidence has taken a hit If you don’t feel attractive, you won’t be attractive. Own it, go to the gym, eat well, dress well, develop your social skills and you'll be fine. Unless you're really ugly but I doubt it.	/r/seduction	26/08/25 12:30 PM
6	Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I Expected First : always start by telling your name. Don’t start with "we looked at each other and i thought.." Talk about her exercises, or be curious about her program / goal etc. And compliment her about it. If she's answering positively, keep going, if not, give up. Gym or not, just try to read the situation, and a rejection is only part of the process. Take note and do better next time. I once was writing down everything that I thought went wrong during approaches or dates to not do the same mistakes…	/r/seduction	25/07/25 07:34 AM
1	How to escalate during discussions? Thanks, that’s the kind of response I was looking for ! Gotta start practicing until it becomes natural	/r/seduction	29/04/25 09:55 AM
1	How to escalate during discussions? I get you, and I mean a way that’s not too straightforward or uncomfortable. I am used to rejection, I have been honest etc. It’s that I need to relearn how to do it confidently and without being too abrupt.	/r/seduction	28/04/25 07:07 PM