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| 3 | Anybody got any nuclear lines for "You're so old"? | Jouissance_juice | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 09:59 PM |
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| 1 | High level tips on nuancewhich is? | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Not sure what to say next. Please helpJust say, "no hard feelings, hit me up if you wanna grab a drink or hang out" Sometimes if someone says, "lets be friends", if I want to then I'll reach out to them like one time. if plans fall through or whatever, then the ball is in thier court. Or just be like, "If you wanna be my friend then invite me to something", like you don't say that but you just leave it up to them to make the effort to initiate the friendship. It's not a waste of time either, it's a bit of an ego boost to have some… | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a woman losing attraction to you?You can minimize incidences of ED by not smoking or using nicotine, moderate alcohol use and check in with marijuana use. All three things, while not for everyone, can cause ED. as other people have said, keep some sildenafil handy, its so easy to get and cheap now there's no reason not to. On to the other part, you really can't help but take that shit personally, so just deal with it. Spend some time with yourself. I mean people are fickle af. Maybe your ED issue had something to do with it, bu… | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 10:21 PM |
| 7 | I become 'too nice' around girls I'm attracted to.You want to be nice to girls? Go ahead! It's just you aren't being nice by "being nice". I have never in my life met a woman who was worth a damn who preferred being flattered over being picked on. And I'm not talking about "negging" or whatever 90's pick up garbage...I mean think about your sister or cousin or friend. When you hang out are you constantly telling each other how great they are or kissing their ass? No! The both of you are taking the piss, it's more fun and frankly builds more com… | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Is this an appropriate way to approach in college?Your welcome. I just want to reiterate that it is okay to be afraid. The reason why I want to clarify is it's easy to beat yourself up over it. There will be some days that you will be too anxious to approach or if you do you might freeze up or something, and I don't want you to read into that as like a personal flaw. Accept your fear, learn to love your fear, understand that it will protect you if you nurture it into a healthy mature fear. If you find yourself in a social situation gripped with… | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Is this an appropriate way to approach in college?Yeah, adding to this, everybody your age is completely racked by the same insecurities that you experience. There are people who lack introspection, and that seems like confidence but it isn't. Real confidence is knowing yourself which comes at a price, especially when you are young and still figuring these things out. The price is this constant second guessing of your own desires and intentions and the way that your actions will be perceived. There is nothing wrong with this. that "natural feel… | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Did I fail? How to make her want me?I don't know, things change. Early this winter I was texting a girl, and our conversations became downright explicit. I was pretty sure she was a done deal. Gorgeous girl, hella smart. We go on the date and right from the start I can see it: she's not feeling it. So I do my thing, we have a few moments but nothing really clicks. We kiss, it's kind of unremarkable, and the next day we agree on friendship. I've seen her out since then, and I've been with other girls too. And now I think she may be… | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Did I fail? How to make her want me?you didn't fail, she did. I don't understand how you are still nurturing any sort of attraction for her after all of this. If you like her, give her a reaaaaaaaalllly long leash, like don't text her at all. If she gets in touch with you, then chat a bit but if the convo dries up or she says some boring shit, drop it. If she gets in touch with you a few times like this, with her initiating or whatever, Then ask her out and...maybe not fast food my dude. You can't make someone want you. the attrac… | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 07:27 AM |
| 4 | Why do women lose interest?Why do you lose interest? Sorry, I just don't see much division between the sexes on this matter. Be someone you would be attracted to and you'll attract your kind. Easy peasy. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Cutest rejection everYes apparently zero women are in open relationships with their spouses. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Cutest rejection everThe best game is game that isn't game | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 03:24 PM |
| 3 | What were some of the ancillary benefits that you got as a result of seduction? How did your life get better outside of just being able to get laid?I'm 1000 x percent more honest with myself and everyone else. I also have a lot more friends and have become more adventurous | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Friendzoned/walked/how to react?Yeah I don't know how to respond to "maybe" either. You either wanna go on a date or you don't, it's not a big ask. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Asking a girl who friendzoned me for Valentines?Her loss that she couldn't recognize a good thing when she could have had it. Chances are it's a pattern for her and you dodged a bullet. Have fun out there! | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 12:34 AM |
| 12 | Should I dump her?>Either she values tv over chatting with me So what? >or she lied, for example because she was actually on a date with another guy HOOOOLD ON just chill. Also who cares? Is this your wife? The thing about being single/dating is that most people fucking suck and so your job is to not suck. Just be cool. >Furthermore she didn't ask me back what I was doing. And now I sent her a text "are you awake" I said *don't* suck >Then I go on badoo, the dating app where I met her and I see she is online. Onc… | /r/seduction | 04/02/19 11:33 PM |
| 9 | Coworker does this strange tschick tschick noise sound when she sees me. Does that mean anything?Call her out. It's so weird you could playfully pick on her pretty hard for it. Could end up being pretty funny. | /r/seduction | 04/02/19 11:20 PM |
| 26 | Asking a girl who friendzoned me for Valentines?Don't do it. She said no, just move on. She's playing games and you're all twisted around, making excuses for yourself like, "maybe if I don't put her on a pedestal and act needy then she'll come around." In my experience, it's not likely. There are literally a half a dozen women in your circle who will chase you like the mailman. The only way to break out of the friend zone is to like friend zone her back. You wanna be friends? fine we're just friends now. And every time you see me you'll see m… | /r/seduction | 04/02/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What to tell a girl that gives you a "soft" no?I work out Rock climbing, yoga, gym dates are a thing. Hiking club, running club uh for starters. guitar and music production Start/join a band and spend a lot of time immersing yourself in the local music scene. Socializing is much easier in a context than just like walking up to strangers. Just make friends for now, no presh. Everybody has like some antisocial tendencies, I know I definitely do. Don't view them as weaknesses, think of them as latent strengths. You may not kill in every soc… | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | What to tell a girl that gives you a "soft" no?What are your interests? are you saying they are cooking and dancing? because those are goldmines my dude | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | What to tell a girl that gives you a "soft" no?I like OKCupid for my online stuff, because I can read their profiles and engage them like intellectually. But regardless, yes, create a community around yourself based on your interests and just meet new people. Once you get some abundance you won't get as hung up on the little shit like messaging protocols. Good Luck! Edit: Also dating is a skill so don't be afraid to go on a few burners, either. | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What to tell a girl that gives you a "soft" no?How many women are you currently talking to? Just this one? Are you gaming irl or using online or meeting through friends? Honestly, I think you might do best joining clubs and building a bit of a community around your interests. Making new friends and branching out. You come off itt as funny, kinda no bullshit, not a sexist chud. And you seem like you're searching for quality encounters over body farming. Just my opinion, but I think you might benefit from cultivating abundance. And you aren't … | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | What to tell a girl that gives you a "soft" no?What kind of women are you attracted to? | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What to tell a girl that gives you a "soft" no?You have never had anyone attracted to you in your entire life? Is that what you really believe? | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | What to tell a girl that gives you a "soft" no?"Fuck yes or no" Let her come to you, give her some space to think about you. If you played your cards decent and she's down she'll reach out. Can't force it, just move on. | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for a 40 year old guy?I'll be 39 this year and I'm killing it. It's not creepy. I do date women in their 40's though, but I also date in their 20's. Early 30's is pretty easy to pull, and I find early 20's easier than late 20's. It literally doesn't matter, if there is chemistry learn how to make it go boom. My life is awesome, you should try it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 11:19 PM |
| 34 | The deal with “hot” girls... and why they’re definitely not out of your league.proverbial, not preverbal like a proverb, an allegory. not like before spoken communication. good post | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 10:47 PM |
| 17 | Mentioning my country completely kills the conversation. What should I do?can you come up with any "I'm from Pakistan" jokes? | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 09:57 PM |
| 9 | Shy guy actually wants some freaking love but doesn't know howYour shyness is a strength, it's a kind of energy and you need to learn to harness it to realize your desires. That social anxiety, where your mind starts racing a million miles...you realize that a fast-thinking brain is also called "wit"? It's a latent talent and you should try to develop it. Two things tht ayou should work on are self expression and practice. A lot of people on this sub can tell you about the practice aspect, so let me get into self-expression. An easy way to start, and one t… | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Anybody got any nuclear lines for "You're so old"?I feel you on the basic human respect, but don't do me any favors, I don't owe anybody anything, that's not what seduction is about. If anything, I'm doing a favor by seducing. I like to seduce, and I like to be seduced, just like two people who decide to have sex with each other (hopefully) both enjoy sex. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Anybody got any nuclear lines for "You're so old"?Meet up somewhere for a beer then if we are feeling it, go from there, or have her over for dinner. I don't know if what I do would be traditional "game" but I like this sub, yall guys are great and I learn a lot from you. Edit: I'm pretty up front that I'm non monogamous so like, wherever it goes, it goes. I've never said, "do you want to be friends with benefits". | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Anybody got any nuclear lines for "You're so old"?That's kinda funny, what else you got? | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Anybody got any nuclear lines for "You're so old"?What? I don't live in the Matrix dude | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Anybody got any nuclear lines for "You're so old"?I mean I'm not constantly knocking down girls that young but it does happen. I don't really know what you mean by "seen in her neighborhood". Why are you even thinking about that? Also, I will charm the fuck out of her friends, so like, who cares? Just talk to people, it's like 90% eye contact, 10% jokes. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Had my first kiss today. At 30 years old. Story inside:I will ask a girl if she wants to meet again. Granted, I'm extremely busy and have nurtured abundance, so YMMV. I'm not into girls who are on the fence about getting together. I don't have time to fuck around and do this to gauge interest. Another thing that works extremely well that I got off of this sub, is find something thst you want to do, whether its check out a new bar or go dancing or take some class, and tell her "I'm doing (thing) on (this day) do you want to come?" Open with a flirty … | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Had my first kiss today. At 30 years old. Story inside:Be honest with her, 100% honest. Like, "I'm sorry but I lied to you when we met. I wasn't there because I just got out of a relationship, I've never been in a relationship." And that's it. Don't talk about social anxiety or that shit. You wouldn't even have to bring it up but since you lied you have to be honest with her. Lies ruin everything. A man has no reason to lie, ever. | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Had my first kiss today. At 30 years old. Story inside:Don't text about anything. Get the date, then follow up the day before/day of with a reminder. If she wants to text you, let her text you. If she's feeling you, she will. When she texts, crack a few jokes. Like if she asks a question, answer with a joke response. You can follow it up with the answer if you want to be understood. But that's not that important. Getting to know someone is more exciting when it's an adventure than like a trip to the museum where everything is curated. But if the con… | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progressShe does. FemmeDoms can be really fucking mean irl | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 03:14 PM |
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