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She sounds like a waffler. OP, State your intention and leave it open, then soft next. She'll probably text you the green light in a week or 2
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:44 PM
6

This reminds me of my ex calling me out of the blue and wanting to go out. I declined. 3 days later she moved cross country to live with her apparent fiance and was married within a few months. At some point this dude was texting me (because he was rampantly insecure and trying to figure out if I was flirting with her via text) and said himself, I shit you not, "she wears the pants, I make the money" They since married then divorced within 8 months or so. I can always tell when she's between dif…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 06:57 PM
3

I've been in about half a dozen street fights over women that I had already been regularly seeing. Only one of those women actually wanted much to do with me after the fact. For the most part, women want a man who is in control. It's a feeling of security to be controlled by someone who simply knows better and has that level of influence.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 04:34 PM
3

Problem is showing compassion until she feels ok can quickly turn into "i'll be not ok so he stays compassionate"
/r/askTRP03/10/17 10:42 AM
2

The issue with the lying dark triad asshole isn't that women will somehow be repelled by Mr. Bad boy, the issue is in the inherent risk of offending people you associate with en masse. You can tote all the bravado and confidence you want around, but you don't get out of the social game. Piss people off and it makes life more difficult, in your career, in your bullshit rape allegation defense, and really anything else that has some social part to it.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 10:35 AM
30

Quit, but only because you have another job.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 10:16 AM
4

No disrespect, but I disagree with this. OP is better off starting over with someone new rather than trying to make it up to this girl. I simply wouldn't recommend dread game with someone who has enough anger to physically attack an SO. Any dread should be neutral, not revenge or anger-charged, and I don't see that being a line that OP can draw at this point in his journey. Edit: in short, he certainly has some growing to do as a man, but that doesn't mean he has to do it with her.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:14 AM
60

Pay attention, everyone. This is what a legitimate and honest self-analysis looks like.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:06 AM
1

It takes 30 seconds to make a cold approach. Being 'too busy' is and always will be a shitty lazy excuse.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:18 PM
1

He realizes it, he's just too lazy to look for any other pussy.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:10 PM
3

Ran into the exact same thing in high school. She came around when i started fooling around with her friend. I think she was not able to hamster it away so nothing happened a second time, but at that age I was probably just looking to boost my numbers or something.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:23 AM
1

Imho = in my humble opinion. So it was accurate to my opinion.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 05:07 PM
2

Everyone here is talking about BPD, that's not the same as daddy issues, it's more like one of the possible results of daddy issues on steroids. Daddy issues can be extremely subtle and usually are, because most people have them to some extent. It's a very wide scale.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:26 AM
13

Imho a lot of those early med school girls know they'll never make it and just want to find their beta bux gravy train before they flunk out. The competitive nature is due to lack of suitable participants.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:22 AM
1

I saw that thread and it's good to note the standard reddit demographic of forever alone overweight IT guys that most women wouldn't go near. Men with no value don't have much real advice to offer, since we can assume you don't have any interest in them. If you want a man with any kind of value, acting on that fantasy will very likely hinder it. Having it as a fantasy is one thing (who cares if you think about it), but needing to act on it makes it a fetish, which will no doubt lower your value …
/r/askTRP30/10/16 01:47 AM
3

Not necessarily. Either you'll eventually act on it or not. Some people may not want to take the risk, others will. Fantasies don't have to come into play at all if you don't want them to.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 01:40 AM
1

It's something I haven't actively pursued, but as someone who's passion in life is boxing, I will admit I get a level of enjoyment out of asserting some kind of dominance over other men. There's that level of taboo and the feeling of power that comes from having another man's woman, but at some point, you stop seeing it the same way. Like any taboo, it loses it's luster in time.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 01:00 AM
1

For me, I got over it by having more exes. You realize it's not a single occurrence, it's not a special snowflake. You have a desire for someone, but it doesn't have to be that someone. So in short, abundance mentality
/r/askTRP30/10/16 12:52 AM
2

She probably was a cam girl the entire time and just didn't have the link up beforehand.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 12:36 PM
2

Glad you mentioned how the routines work on some women more than others. That's absolutely the case. You hear the advice here: Listen to her actions, not her words. This applies just as well to sex as anything else. Being attentive to what exactly does it for them is important. It is NOT all physical, but women do generally fall into 2 very broad categories of physical stimulation. Essentially, clit and g-spot based. Think of these as 2 separate scales from 1-10 and try to pin a number of how mu…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 12:47 PM
2

The novelty wears off and you find yourself playing a game of Twister where the only color is pink
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 12:15 PM
1

For your own sake, you should be no contact. It cannot possibly benefit you to keep her around. As you'll hear often here, abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:15 AM
4

Just want to emphasize #3 here. One of the things that gets forgotten about constantly, even here. Women enjoy sex. Not just the physical act, but the experience as a whole. It doesn't do much good to run short game and raise your SMV to the skies just to have it be brought back down to reality. The actual sex is probably the most underrated part of plate-spinning that gets discussed here.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:12 AM
2

I feel like any guilty feeling should be overridden by the fact that it is an intentional attempt at guilting you. Your guilt is your decision, not hers. You know you did right by yourself. No need to change for someone else's sensitivities.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:01 AM
2

But can you verify it?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:57 AM
1

I'd say 80% are blue pill when talking to women, and like 40% actually have blue pill ideas when talking to other men. There's a good chunk of guys out there that go into bro-mode when talking about girls, but then when they actually talk to women, they just blue it up.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:57 AM
2

Rip off the band-aid quickly and get it over with. Or just show beta traits and wait it out until she bangs someone else.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:53 AM
6

As long as they are all white. Wouldn't want to be an accidental racist and have to have that conversation thrown at you.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:42 PM
1

It usually depends on the amount of hard surfaces to land your head onto.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:38 PM
1

Yes you can always stop going outside just in case someone is mad at you.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:27 PM
1

It's usually a sucker punch.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:13 PM
2

She's the Unicorn circling around on the carousel out in Puerto Rico.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:01 PM
1

If you only want a relationship, you probably have to both: Improve yourself to top-5% of men areas Wade through a metric ton of horse shit and dump the unworthy ones quickly.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 12:12 PM
0

Well, ideally he would block it also, but yes.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:17 PM
3

The queen was probably pretty tight back in her day.. ohhhhh shit I lost it.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:14 PM
3

100% ridiculous shit test. She used ice cream of all things to make op jealous then had to get more attention for it on social media. I wouldn't even call this plate material.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:09 PM
4

That's not a funny feeling, that's more like an understanding you should have already. Have you seen the sidebar yet?
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:02 PM
3

You don't ask them to introduce you. You use the connection to make your approach. Women typically only set up their ugly friends that they feel better around.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 11:57 AM
1

I don't personally see much difference between a "porn star look" and "model look"
/r/askTRP23/09/16 11:54 AM
3

Apple would be killing a good bit of their demographic if they fired her for this and it became public. As a business, firing her is too risky of a move, but they may try to remove her over time somehow.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 12:14 PM
10

There was a HB6 that worked vaguely near the tech department and if I needed to coordinate anything with her, there was always a line in her cubicle to get through.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 12:12 PM
1

Some year after I dropped my nutjob ex, she texted me trying to get me to visit or to move out near her (she moved back with family a couple states away) A week later she moved across the country and was engaged to the virgin dude she used to talk to online. I assume she was trying anything she could before settling for the lowest BB option she had.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 11:15 AM
11

When I dumped my ex LTR of a year the only thing of hers that was left was a bar of soap that I used only to wash my asshole for the next month. Petty but it works.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 03:58 PM
2

Which is why I dont understand the comment about not stamping Red Pill onto it too quickly. We know the band dude is running game, and he got the girl up there and away from OP. How is that not relevant to sexual strategy?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 03:57 PM
1

And why does it appeal to a musician to have some rando girl playing an instrument on his stage during his show?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 11:49 AM
1

It's better dick than the others and he's not even trying. The world is in a sad state
/r/askTRP02/09/16 12:10 PM
7

This is about it. From talking to other guys, I find my standards of intelligence in women are typically higher than theirs, and I mostly just prefer women who can hold a decent conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 12:07 PM
16

100% classic shit test and you're failing it by even having it in your head still.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 12:01 PM
3

How is she nice and supporting when she branch swung on you? You're going to have to stop idealizing the past before you can actually move forward.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 08:36 PM
1

Whatever works for you. I typically want to get more intros in quicker and not waste much time, and there's really no way to beat copy paste in speed.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 08:26 PM
1

Online requires more uniquity. By that I mean, make a unique opener and copy paste it everywhere. It doesnt matter if you open with something stupid so long as the response comes.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:16 PM
0

It's kind of telling that he took the effort to research your sales and use it to attempt a comeback to a reality check. OP, work on making your time more valuable than that.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:14 PM
1

High school was a big learning point for myself. Things are a bit different in HS. You tend to be more successful with a DGAF attitude, but fucking your way through your HS isn't necessarily the way to go. (rumors and random white knight sucker punches are not unlikely) Most HS hookups happen with alcohol at parties. Get yourself invited to the parties and learn how to talk to females and you're ahead of like 95% of your school. The other approach is to GF-up with a girl and drop her if she isn'…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:48 AM
1

Breaking no contact with the happy birthday is usually not too indicative of anything other than an attempt at getting closure. If she was interested she would attempt a reconnect earlier. Plus OP said oneitis which should always be a next. You don't risk the abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:41 AM
2

Success rates online arent even close to half of a cold approach, but you can put out hundreds of messages a day (I recommend copy pasting)
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:35 AM
1

Middle aged men go through following a life of blue pill lies and get eaten alive for it, then try to exist in a world that doesn't give a fuck about them anyway.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:35 AM
1

"No, something with yours."
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:49 PM
3

Being shorter means a fair chunk of women will be immediately dismissive of you. The key word here is immediately. You can pick up on that lack of interest within the first minute of an approach and be on your way. It's not really as big of a problem as some people seem to think
/r/askTRP25/08/16 10:42 AM
1

Back in my teen years I went to see a female friend/plate and one of her friends from out of state was there thirdwheeling and basically hurling insults or immature comments my way while conversation is actually happening between her and I. I laughed an disregarded several times and then went for a confront when he crossed the line, telling him flat out to stop with the snotty ass comments. His response was surprisingly aggressive since he wasnt particularly bulky. but long story short, he took …
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:21 AM
7

I have an instructor who is not a full-on professor because as he states, he hasn't finished his masters since he is supporting his girlfriend while she gets hers first. I feel bad as he is genuinely great at what he does and would go to improving the field he teaches which seems to have a shortage of good instructors. Unfortunately, though, i'm sure she's going to branch swing as soon as she finishes her degree.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:10 AM
5

She's a perfect 10... inches deep from all the cocks piledriven into her
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:03 AM
3

I once met a girl who actually willingly told me the story about these 3 mexican dudes she banged in a row and how they each were outside waiting and taking their turns and then the 4th guy came in but he was extremely old and saggy so she drew the line there.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:01 AM
1

Everything except persistent ultimatums. Girls with a bunch of social media orbiters get big headed and eventually daring them to branch swing will have them do it. Apathy is usually better, it lets a hamster do it's thing better instead of dealing with clear cut facts. Also, 2 weeks is basically irrelevant and as soon as the other guy turns out beta or disinterested, she'll probably be back, assuming OP maintains frame throughout.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:20 PM
6

Most boxers are shitty people anyway. Source: boxer
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 11:00 AM
-1

I don't think this is the point of her quote. In boxing, you compare by weight class, and by how a fighter stacks up against their competition. If the idea is that there isn't much competition, then your status typically takes a hit. I don't know that it was intended as some feminist statement that she could actually fight a male professional boxer of equal weight class. Most women that show up at boxing gyms with that kind of arrogance get put into their place pretty quickly, and if she thought…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 10:54 AM
1

I just don't understand these 8-9 hours of sleep people. How do you get anything at all done in your life then? I always found it's more important to keep a consistent sleep schedule than anything else. To me, an extra 2-3 hours of sleep a day would mean giving up on something, either side business or otherwise. Maybe it's different for others, but imo if you're not handling a pretty full schedule each day, you're probably not building up much SMV.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:12 PM
1

If you wanted to stop, you'd do it. Trying to put it to this subreddit to help you do it is your way of putting the responsibility on someone other than yourself. This way, you can blame the shitty reddit people that didn't support you and then keep on what you're doing. You need to take control of your own life and actions. That includes the responsibilities of both of those.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:03 PM
1

At 26 it's around average or lower for a city girl
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:46 AM
2

And because she's so used to hanging out with this guy now, if he tells her not to, she'll throw a fit, of course, but now instead she goes to her 'best friend' for support. Then he suggests what always helps women in peril, apparently. A dick in the mouth.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:40 AM
1

Chad Thundercock, mr. Neckbeard, or Backup Option Bob
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:37 AM
3

Even if she didn't cheat with him, she was probably on that before he got the girlfriend and is hanging around for the opportunity to branch swing
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:33 AM
2

Considering i've never heard of it, I doubt it's going to help. If you're interested in coding and working in that field, w3schools and codeacademy. If you're not motivated or interested enough to do those, you'll suck complete balls at programming in general. Also it's significantly harder to get a job without a formal degree, but coding a popular game or app would do it instead. Wouldn't rely on that though.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:44 AM
1

Dr oz and his herd of cattle. Public speaking is a bit different from day game.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 12:16 PM
1

They're all friends, it's a girls club situation, he's like the boytoy. Number one thing that will help is some attention from a girl on the outside. Then their internal chitchat turns from how they teased OP into how this other girl is a slut and how OP can do better and they all silently realize their attention cash cow is leaving, The one with the strongest daddy issues is the first you'll close when running through a group of friends. Conveniently, she's easier for the remaining girls to cal…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 12:14 PM
2

This is exactly right. You're currently the attention they're getting and probably laughing about at night with each other. You'll want to detach yourself a bit. If you can bring another one into the fold, it's ideal. If not, some clever phone game works too. Your odds are good with one of them if you drop some sort of outside abundance mentality on them. And of course, isolate harder. Try it in daytime. You dont have to bang in the middle of the night
/r/askTRP17/08/16 12:07 PM
1

The great thing about this is that if the girl is quick on her feet, she'll feed you and it'll be a clear showing of who is on the outs, even in his brain where he only has to feed a woman and say she's pretty and instant success.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 10:48 AM
5

Some massive homophobe at my old work would always call this slow kid that worked under me gay and rip into him to the point where this kid's work was declining, so each time I overheard this, I asked why he was so obsessed with men's sex lives, and just generally implied his latent homosexuality. Eventually he started to realize that he can't fuck with the kid without making himself a target. I wouldn't recommend anything like this if your workplace has an actual HR department though.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 10:46 AM
1

Applying nuclear levels of dread to a woman who is this comfortable will just make her bounce on her coworkers dick to get back at him, then trash him when he files for divorce. There's no respect left to hang onto or build off of. Would be better to just divorce at that point.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 08:04 PM
1

Everyone has an exclusion list. You'll be on more women's exclusion lists, which is why you need to hit up more women
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:36 PM
1

It seems like you're just looking to disagree with something. What we're saying isn't very different. As far as it stands, OP's been with this deceitful cheating woman for 7 years and she now feels comfortable enough that she admits to her cheating. Earning back the respect of himself and his wife isn't something he's going to do at this point. It's a nice and sunny sentiment, but just not realistic. Women don't pull the wool over your eyes for 7 years and then suddenly change it all because of …
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:31 PM
1

The quality and health of the marriage would improve if OP tosses his dignity out of the window. It would be the opposite of red pill, but if he deludes himself it would make things simpler for him and is about the better chance to save the marriage. If the number one goal is to save the marriage, he's going to need some delusions.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:52 PM
22

The current way to stop it is never communicate or be in a room with a young girl, apparently. I've been glared at for walking by a playground.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 10:50 AM
5

Guarantee she got that idea from the internet somewhere. Either some rape related site or directly chatting with someone who claimed or otherwise. He should have been stricter.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 10:48 AM
8

Based on the context of the post, it sounds like she has basically no social life, and the last time she did have one, she was cheating. If the last 7 years have been honest and loyal, then she either got better at lying or hasn't made any friends in 7 years.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 10:45 AM
6

It's not personal, I guess. Their job is to help a marriage stay together and improve the quality of it. Even if it's not the best thing for OP, the counselor is suggesting the best thing for the marriage itself to succeed, which is that OP accept the past and move on without holding grief over it. The counselor is meant to be pro-marriage. The question is whether OP is or not, and a counselor isn't going to answer that question.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 10:37 AM
1

Learn the word no, it's an amazing thing. You'll lose some mooching ass friends but who cares anyway
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:44 AM
1

From what i'm gathering from context, you're not talking about actually having sex with her, you're talking about flirting to gain favor, right? This isn't always a terrible idea, but it's incredibly situational to the point where it's safe to say it's not a good idea usually. I've had some success in doing something similar, although we are talking about a small school and nothing nearly as glamorous. Basically, I had her pegged as a try hard early, and initially came off as pretty short with h…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:42 AM
1

This is an exact statement of the situation and the two ways you will almost always see it fork towards. It sounds like OP has put a little dread on and his SO is showing apathy instead of effort. If that continues, i'd bow out of this one if you're looking for something better.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:28 AM
1

Women wont run out of encouraging voices telling them they can let themselves go. They have to actually want the man more than they want to believe the bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:26 AM
1

I do the exact same amount of approaches as you do and I am pulling pretty consistently. You're doing something wrong somewhere, or you're not as attractive as you think you are
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:21 AM
1

My ex's phone stopped working and it somehow lead to a completely one sided 'argument' that I don't think I said more than 2 words and maintained frame, yet it escalated until she was threatening suicide. BPD or whatever, these kind of girls are a horrible match for RP men. The more you maintain frame, the more their antics escalate because all they're looking for is a crazy reaction that makes them less of the fuckup. When they don't get it, they get more crazy.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:17 AM
1

He's young, and doing ok considering that, but definitely doesn't sound like she's a winner. Disrespectful as hell. Reminds me of some of the early women I dated.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:10 AM
1

I was going out with a girl for a couple months and I mentioned chatting on skype once in a while since she's a bit of a drive, she immediately shot back with her available hours. The amount of camgirls roaming the wilderness is kind of staggering.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:22 PM
1

Only male friends is your big ol red flag. I'd say you're putting too much emphasis on what she says instead of what she does. Soft next
/r/askTRP14/08/16 02:36 PM
1

See how quickly you can change the locks
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:15 AM
3

In this case, she'd be right. She isn't responsible for his life. He is.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:07 AM
0

They've always been victims of rape during war time. It's a part of war, regardless of how little people talk about it.
/r/becomeaman14/08/16 04:03 AM
1

Wait until you have these threats of suicide in text or voicemail form and you have not been near her that day, then call the police. Once she's got that psych eval on her record, police are much less likely to believe any shit she spews. It's also actually helpful to break frame a bit and make her believe there is some chance in hell that you'll take her back. Of course you won't, but unstable women tend to escalate their behavior when they get the powerless feeling that occurs when they match …
/r/askTRP13/08/16 01:24 AM
1

And kudos to my buddy Dale and his sister's seemingly infinite supply of hot friends that got me through high school.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 12:20 PM
1

I once found a mid-20s girl that was a virgin due to a long term boyfriend that was religious, even though she wasn't. She was kind of a nutjob though and liked to lead other dudes on then claim (to the next dude in line, not police) that they sexually assaulted her when they touched her. So it makes sense that nobody hit that before me, I guess. Not exactly worth the risk.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 12:17 PM
13

Chad is just the modern civilian adaptation of the old marine corps trope of Jody, the guy that's fucking your girl while you're deployed who has a bigger and better cock than you.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 12:07 PM
1

To people who are very matter-of-fact, it's a hard concept to really get your head around. It's essentially a job interview, and it doesnt come naturally to people who aren't already frequent bullshitters. (and us who are have our own issues)
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:22 PM
0

It's something you have to expect and deal with as it comes up. Be polite and friendly as you would before and to anyone else, when the moves start coming in and he starts to try to invest, politely but firmly decline. You'll probably have to do it a few times and state that you're not really interested if it persists. You'll probably see some random outbursts from angry betamale types but this is more or less their problem. If he starts to make it become your problem, that is what the police ar…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 12:23 PM
2

Depends how it aligns with your morality, as far as whether you should act on it or not. If you want to look at it logically: Will this screw with your friendship? I'm assuming you want to keep the friend. You run the smallish risk of him assaulting you or so, depending on how protective he is of them. It's possible that he won't even give a shit, depending on his views and how long he's been in their lives. Personally, I never risk losing any friend I give half a shit about over a lay. Abundanc…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 12:14 PM
2

Yeah, it sounds like you're generally putting too much concern into your interactions with her. Understandable since LTRs tend to be more involved and you do have to take some steps to be invested in her, but i'm thinking that you've taken a few extra ones. DGAF attitude should help.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:28 AM
10

It's tough for the LTR seekers here to let go of some of these girls who pretend to play the part, because women who are actually LTR worthy material are getting more and more rare, and those ones still tend to get snapped up quickly enough by the higher value males. There are certainly not enough LTR material women for the top 20% of men.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:24 AM
3

Look at it this way. Women are either talking about great sex or they're talking about bad sex. But there will still be another girl or so who is now thinking about you and sex at the same time
/r/askTRP27/07/16 12:15 PM
5

They can feel like a slut then rationalize it away in a second because of the way you smile at them
/r/askTRP26/07/16 09:14 PM
2

It matters, but it's not everything. A sub-30 percentage of women actively care about it, and some form of majority of women will think less of a man with a tiny one, but a lot of it is a mental thing for both parties. Dick sizes have way greater impact on insecure men than they have ever had on women.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 09:05 PM
4

Although work is basically always a flimsy bullshit excuse, she did offer to reschedule. In this case, I would have taken her up on it, but probably playfully counter with a thing she'd have to do for me for the inconvenience.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 10:33 AM
1

Or file false rape charges
/r/askTRP26/07/16 10:28 AM
3

i'd estimate usually 65% situation/emotion and 35% direct stimulation. It floats around about 15 percentage points between women.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:11 PM
1

It's an aggressive all-encompassing fuck of a woman who appreciates that sort of thing.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:09 PM
1

I always assume those types of things are just to get them social media followers. When a girl starts spouting about tumblr or something, I just set up the phone to put a contact in and hand it to them to just put their number in. If they make any excuse or refuse, I get out within a sentence. To be fair, i've probably only contacted a few women on social media after approaching them, then I started essentially ignoring that request, so maybe i'm wrong and that isn't as low percentage of a play …
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:03 AM
1

I'd verbally lay into his insecurities and provoke him to escalate to the point where someone has to step in and call the police on him. I would hope that even those south Asian families have a certain point where they have to do so.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 01:14 PM
1

Just have the surgery and do everything exactly the same as you would, talk about the surgery and just own it. If there's something stopping you, hiding it isn't going to help. You can do some foreplay. Make it clear that she is going to have to wait for you. Make it into a good long tease. It may or may not work but it's not like you were going to get any in that time frame anyway.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:40 PM
1

Domination is a thing and all women want it to an extent, but the general idea is if you fuck a woman exactly the right way, she will be crawling back to you. You've just found some women that need exactly what you give, and some that you haven't been hitting as well. Basically, your soft game isn't as good as your hard game.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:34 PM
2

Cheater's fault for cheating, other's fault for staying.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:28 PM
1

Not online, that's for sure. Basically anywhere in person with a cold approach can net you a solid well behaved plate. The online girls are always going to be flaky, entitled shit testers. You can always plate but they're rarely worth it.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:10 PM
1

That's a bit silly. I'd imagine you should always have a feel for another man's smv. It's pretty important if you're going to group up
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:04 PM
1

To be fair, if she's bisexual then that's the difference there, as OP can bring up that he isn't into dudes whereas she's into girls, but that would be making a logical argument and that is dangerous territory.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:02 PM
1

The issue with MFF threesomes vs. MMF threesomes is it's way easier to organize the latter. If she wants to set one up every day she probably could. So while you'd be 'open' to both, it becomes a matter of what is available. Her opening that door is going to be more like bursting it off the hinges, in reality.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:00 PM
1

It gets them noticed. From there, it depends on how they look or act otherwise. It also depends how much of a try-hard the girl is. Generally it's always a balance though. I've heard some hilarious stories about negging gone wrong. Basically it's better to leave it subtle.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 11:55 AM
0

Running isn't the correct way to deal with 3 guys and a deadly weapon. At least one of them will be faster than you. In that situation you need deadly force or if it is one knife held by the group alpha, you can try to take him out, but it's going to be a challenge to control the knife hand while 2 others will likely jump in. Any martial art can be helpful aside from the karate mcdojos that give you a belt if you pay more. But realistically, you aren't going to want to counteract 3 people holdin…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 11:34 AM
1

I'm fucking amazed every time I hear about these people grabbing other's shirts to threaten them. Not saying it's a great idea, or that it'd be enforced correctly, but you're within your rights to hit people who aggressively approach you like this. Mostly it just surprises me that they haven't been cold-cocked yet in their life and they still do shit like this.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 11:22 AM
3

Basically zero chance that this isn't the case.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 11:05 AM
0

Nothing alpha about street gangs. It's drive bys and gang beatings.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:36 AM
2

I was this way from an early age. As a kid, I attacked everyone who I thought was disrespecting me. Luckily enough, I got into a boxing gym where I could get these physical competitive needs met. In short, you probably can't alter everything about how you think and feel and your competitive nature, but get into something more directly competitive than lifting and you'll see yourself calm down in other situations, your confidence will grow, and that combative nature won't be there in social situa…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:33 AM
1

Just get that one good message and copy-paste it. It doesn't matter what you say anyway.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:26 AM
2

This is the right answer. Just be careful not to take it too far. There are always arbitrary lines drawn in the sand somewhere.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:25 AM
13

Doesn't sound like she's worth the gas is takes to get to her place, though, based on the story.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:19 AM
2

Yeah, she doesn't mention that stuff unless she's shit testing OP, and on date 3, god damn it's only going to get worse. OP did the best thing in getting the hell out of there and not wasting any more time on this one.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:15 AM
1

I'd say 4 a month at this point, typically 3 weekends and an odd lunch or something along those lines. Between work, schooling, and side business, there is usually not much more time for it. Cold approaches, 3-5 a week, typically a pair of numbers pulled so I have a choice for the weekend or next.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 10:15 PM
5

Went 70/30 on a large car downpayment with the ex, had only a few payments left to make by the time I threw her out, she told me that she would take the car for me and make the rest of the payments so that I didn't have to. It's still astounding that someone can delude themselves to the point where they ask you to give them a car and then believe that it's for your benefit. To add the result, I offered her about 1/3rd of her initial downpayment in cash, after which she tried to get the police to…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 02:15 PM
1

Her father may be more understanding to your situation than you expect. Women that amp up their shit tests immediately when you pass them in order to get a reaction out of you typically did the same kind of thing as a kid.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 10:53 AM
1

If this was a legitimate person, they would not show up in the search. Catfishes steal popular photos from porn actresses or facebook pages.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 10:05 AM
-4

Thanks, it was pretty relevant.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 10:00 AM
1

No. My asian friend always got initial looks from girls very consistently, because he carried himself well and was a good looking asian dude who was clearly going to be a success. (Never stuck because he was BPAF) I've seen the same with black and Indian. My guess is just that you're not attractive and it's easier to blame that on your race.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:39 AM
1

I've known some lazy fuck marines and some hardcore work ethic marines. I wouldn't say it's as black and white as that, but the clear structure helps some people.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:36 AM
1

She said her love life was complicated. I'd say that puts OP at 3rd choice, at the bare minimum.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:24 AM
2

This is it 100%. Just want to make it clear to OP because he is framing it as building further attraction, and I worry he doesn't understand this part: you have built as much attraction as you can via text, either escalate to physical or it will only go down.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:22 AM
1

OP, if you haven't received pictures from 'her', it's a catfish. If you have received pictures from 'her', use google reverse image search immediately on each of them. Typically someone only 10 minutes away is not going to be continually requesting dick pics when you can easily be there.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:10 AM
1

Well clearly she is a hot single in his area. Nothing could go wrong.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:07 AM
1

Based on the science, it's not a completely dumb question. It may actually attract some women to some extent, but it's not something that anyone could rely on, nor would it realistically improve anyone's chances, based on practical experience. The kind of shitpiling in this thread is something I would've expected on /r/relationships, though. What the fuck are we doing?
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:00 AM
7

You might have saved yourself a pair of diseases there, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:50 AM
-12

It's sad that i've done shit like this so much. I like chatting up 3s and 4s with BB boyfriends and listening to their hamster wheels spin up a storm as they construct illogical reasons that dirty talking me all day is not cheating at all. Nope, you're totally justified in sending nudes under the covers in the bed you're sharing with your boyfriend, because the sex is bad.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:42 AM
2

Former amateur boxer here: It's very necessary to have women distanced from your fighting world. It absolutely has nothing to do with them. Most of them, if they see you in training, will be afraid. This is ideal. Keep them away from the work, let them see your passion for it, let them watch the end result and cheer for you, but you keep them the hell away, because in that world, they will just be in your way. Any old timer trainer will fucking grill you if you have a woman floating around you, …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:36 AM
1

Too much yammering on and hanging on one topic tends to make you seem either insecure or just generally unsure of yourself, even if it doesn't actually mean a god damn thing. Make one or two statements on the subject then move on, basically. That's your safest route
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:20 PM
1

I also envisioned some kind of hyper suggestive voice raise when he said that to OP, the same way shitty untouchably superior parents scold their children.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:16 PM
7

Not true because there are 3 guys and 3 girls. That's 9 unique combinations and out of 9 male-female 'friendships', probably about 8 of them on average include someone wanting to fuck someone else.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:13 PM
2

Warning: anecdotal experience, may completely fail. Be the first to call the police based on her threats of suicide or self harm, but don't break up with her for a few weeks after she gets off of psych eval. Pretend you are doing it for her own good and suggest you'll help her through. Then the police will be aware of her mental health history by the time they have to get involved when you drop her. Any more threats of self harm, call the police again. They'll send someone over to wherever she's…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:52 PM
2

OP, How do you say you like her personality but dont like that she cant handle her emotions? That's a part of her personality.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:43 PM
1

Generally speaking, it's not something you can do consistently. You can approach it by roping them along and suggesting future potential commitment, but that bait only lasts for so long. You can also just be blunt about it. Low success rate, but if her confidence is trash and the physical sex is good, it can work out, but eventually she will go back to wanting commitment. Either way, the previous taste of commitment kind of fucks most things up. People in general like to feel like they're progre…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:39 PM
1

He wont downgrade her to plate. He'll break it off and she'll start fucking his best friend.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:02 AM
3

It sure as hell is. Could pay off huge and seems like a good path for him. Most new millionaires are programmers. Just that eventual jump from side-business to quitting and diving headfirst into a full on life investment that gives a lot of folks pause
/r/askTRP19/07/16 09:57 PM
3

It is simple. The issue is that not having a girlfriend means getting laid consistently requires more effort. It's simple as fuck, OP would rather be a lazy cuck than put the effort in to being single.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 09:52 PM
1

Hugh Hefner did gay stuff too. Seems like no one gives a shit there either. Most of the world doesnt give a shit about you. That includes where your dick goes.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 09:46 PM
1

This is a great idea, as it combines talents with social skills and potentially enormous success. That said, it's more risky than some would want.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 09:39 PM
1

In the words of most grandfathers, "they're all the same, just pick one" If you decide to want an LTR, you suffer from the pitfalls of that and you reap the benefits of it. Those pitfalls and benefits are pretty well documented here.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:20 PM
6

Sleeping around is just self esteem issues. They can't get their confidence from within, so they seek it out in men.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 12:17 PM
3

Number 1 is the biggest point. I'd say it's 'okay' to be easy, but expect to fit in to the rightful place you belong according to the simple supply and demand logic behind it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 12:14 PM
2

Gordon Ramsay gets thrown into the mix a lot Clint Eastwood, for sure. Some people say Bill Burr. His comedy style is as close as standup gets to red pill. I don't know that you want to take his life as an example though. Edit: also, David Spade quietly fucked his way through a dozen A-list actresses, apparently, but i'd say he's pretty hushed about it, so not sure you'll find anything intriguing there.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:14 PM
1

In my view, if you develop some kind of oneitis, even minor as this, it doesn't do much good to keep her around. Move on and condition yourself to keep cycling through them. In short, might want to listen to your logical side that says ditch her. It's usually right.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:11 PM
1

It works on the original girl, not her fat friend that you vaguely flirt with
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:59 PM
1

Until the friend is a dude then you're out with 2 girls and a walking cockblock
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:55 PM
1

/u/fuzzyface1980 is right, but doesn't really give much practical advice on what to do in the situation. Can you really get this girl's respect? You fucked up with your move, but moving back to where you shouldve been will somewhat reinforce her shitty behavior. Disrespect all around, i'd probably step back from this LTR and start again somewhere else.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:19 PM
1

You're probably used to being able to read the signals better and she's throwing you for a loop. It's easy for the mind to misinterpret different for better. I once pursued a girl in high school who had liberty spikes. Recognize the infatuation with a minor difference and move past what is essentially a oneitis phase. You seem like you know she isn't worth your time. Kudos for that, just got to act like it now.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:16 PM
3

Sucking the beta male market dry is a brilliant business move. At least until someone decides it's prostitution (according to law)
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 12:12 PM
2

Yeah, I probably would have not responded when asked about the other girl if it was in text. In person, I typically make one direct but fairly uninformative statement on the matter which confirms my single status, then deflect any followup questions. Ex-LTRs turned plates just about always crash at some point, though. It's best to keep from the drama as much as you can.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:09 PM
2

If you spend more than 30 total seconds on a tinderella, you are doing it wrong. This post counts to that total. I dont think the last line was solid but it's not horrible. You can salvage but keep frame and don't suggest that you're the lucky one anymore.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:05 PM
3

Not quite, though. The entitlement was there (she was from an extremely wealthy family), I think she just tried harder when she didn't have so much attention. It saved me some time on nexting her, actually. But it does go to show that some women can seem to be unicorns early on when their efforts are high. She just kept it going for longer than most.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 12:00 PM
4

It wouldn't matter to me, but it's his decision whether or not it's a dealbreaker for him. Think of what your father would want, if he'd approve and if he would think highly enough of your SO to give your last name to him. Memories won't die either way. It's a name. It's meant for the living to understand where you stand now, not where you stood before. Good luck, and sorry for your loss.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 11:57 AM
3

This is where I stop short on it. I don't say women have it easier. Certain things are easier, absolutely. There are differences. Good and bad. They definitely get more attention, both good and bad. To be fair, it would be potentially nerve racking to walk around as a physically unimposing person whose body is desirable to most others. And their goal is certainly more lofty than ours, so they likely wont reach it. Getting a top 1% male to commit is much harder than slamming an 8. I would say tha…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 11:00 AM
11

Blaming disney is a stretch. There are lofty ideas they put out there, but they wouldnt have any legs to stand on if the beta male hordes didn't pin women up every time. Women think differently because they're treated differently. They're allowed to be a pain in the ass because they've found someone will deal with them anyway. If men are a pain in the ass, they get attacked eventually.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:46 AM
19

If they're a 6-7 out of 10 all they need is 10 porn videos and a twitter account for a stable income. I'm not kidding, porn stars always have twitter accounts in order to collect gifts.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:43 AM
7

My Ex-LTR found online gaming (including voice chat) and the entitlement grew in bounds as she was the blessed female in a nearly all beta male community. It was a shame as up until then, she was pretty respectful.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:40 AM
1

You were her best option, then you weren't. Now you are again. Simple
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:09 PM
1

Best, riskiest, quickest way is to start a business. Long term, semi safe way is to get a good desk job and job hop for higher pay
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:07 PM
3

I think straight up no contact is perfectly acceptable here. It seems to be a mutual parting of ways at this point.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:00 PM
1

My response would have most certainly been something along the lines of: "I totally agree with you. Our relationship is based on sex. We can change that, but it will of course end that relationship." Naturally the next thing she says would be something along the lines of questioning whether or not you're de-committing to her. I'd basically ignore that and tell her to think of it as starting over. Then pretty much detach for a good while. Not saying it's perfect game or even good, but it's just w…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:35 AM
2

Typical the weak beard genes just end up making you look young which just means that you'll peak later.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:29 PM
1

Any other women in your life? I'd focus there instead of whatever this one girl did to you.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:22 PM
2

The revenge will not make her come crawling to your feet. Living a totally badass life without her will probably do that. (after she breaks up with her boyfriend and needs a new branch to swing to) that's what i'd be concerned about. You've already ascertained that she is not worth your time. Now act on that fact and stop spending time on anything involving her, ignore her completely, and when she comes back at you after bf tosses her out for sucking some other dudes dick, you can feel a bit bet…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:15 PM
6

It's what makes us strong and capable of doing what we do. The safety net is also the reason that women act like children for so long. Maturity happens when people stop putting up with your shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:13 PM
2

Not super common that they'd be googling it. More likely a beta orbiter doing googling, if anyone. But either way, some kind of script is better than nothing. (preferable to have your own game though)
/r/askTRP13/07/16 02:11 AM
5

It seems like they're trolling the shit out of you. He probably just didnt want to hang with your chick repellent friend.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 12:18 PM
2

This was the idea I got from the post. You typically don't just get outright ditched by a dude unless he thinks you're going to weigh him down.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 12:16 PM
1

Done kegels, I don't know what you're talking about with the erections on command thing. All it does is hold the flow of your urethra, which can stop orgasm and if you do it late enough, it'll give an effect like /u/thewelshpill talked about in this thread, where you orgasm without ejaculating.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 12:12 PM
5

Constantly. Fucking constantly. Especially if they're younger. There is a good chance of there being a posse of women following your text correspondence like a twitter feed. At least one beta orbiter will be getting updates on your status too.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:18 PM
1

Didnt see this right below before I made my comment. Kudos
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:12 PM
1

No, that's why the 19-20 year olds with a job and car fuck the high school girls.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:11 PM
4

Half that sugar baby shit is about showing up to parties with some arm candy to impress your friends. The other half is prostitution, of course
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:09 PM
1

For real. It's just about all helpful, but literally the only mandatory piece of TRP is abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:09 AM
0

A&A. Sidebar, then sidebar again.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 08:34 PM
1

Aye. Good game is basically just tossing out the idea of instant gratification. It's a waiting game, which is exactly the reason abundance mentality is so necessary.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:18 PM
4

Not all women are sluts. What have you been reading? Women act like children because most of the world will still put up with them until they hit the wall. Men don't get this luxury. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:14 PM
3

Being single is like the best way to save money. I didn't buy shit for my LTRs and still somehow money was being spent on all sorts of weird shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 12:07 PM
1

But you've posted like 8 bitch comments in a row
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:34 AM
3

What a world you must live in where calling them a fag is an insult but it's totally ok to talk about throat fucking a dude
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:32 AM
3

Oh my goodness I was just sewing your new gift and I tripped and the needle poked holes in all of the condoms which were stacked vertically. begins to cry
/r/askTRP05/07/16 12:18 PM
1

Love that viewpoint. My 'instincts' are a result of growing up with 4 older sisters and a beta cuck father that was constantly being disrespected and shown to be a perfect example of what not to be.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 12:15 PM
2

Maybe on twitter while getting a tag teamed blowjob from 2 high priced whores and cleaning up the mess with 100 dollar bills.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 12:03 PM
2

If you wait, they're usually in the divorce proceedings by the time they believe you anyway
/r/askTRP03/07/16 12:27 PM
2

I'd recommend a boxing gym. Most have weight rooms too and the community there tends to err on the side of helpful. Those Karate mcdojos are a total waste of time, so avoid them.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 12:25 PM
5

The whole idea of deleting the jokes is part of the problem. OP, Your mentality should not be to stop everyone from thinking badly of you. It should be to not give a fuck about it, and to improve yourself for you.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 12:16 PM
16

Those are the girls you can live with and have the same work schedules and spend every other second together, then she gets so poor and lonely on her one day off that she sits down to cry and woops she accidentally sat on that guy's dick.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 09:15 PM
1

I approach just about every one, yes. Pursue is a bit less accurate. High approaches = more options = less pursuits needed.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:21 PM
2

Theoretically, if we ignore the morality, legality, and the oneitis OP has, keeping logs would be a mild strategic advantage.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:19 PM
0

Demoting an ex to a plate tends to only hold for about a month due to her expectations being raised. I'd say go for it, providing you aren't risking oneitis since it's crystal clear that she isn't LTR material. From your post, it doesn't seem that this is the case.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:16 PM
2

You've got to accept that women have options out the ass and they will land on their feet instead of pining for you. You aren't special, but neither is she. Move on bro.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:12 PM
20

I like how she refers to 'normal' guys as if another species to confident ones. The sense of entitlement shines through so brightly.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:27 AM
14

Yeah, that abusive ass wouldnt let her ride her ex's dick
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 07:24 PM
17

I like bullshitting more than I like sex so i'll probably keep being a loudmouth, personally. It's not perfect game by any means, but it's not boring to me. I get a lot of approaches in, which is the only reason this is doable. If you embrace abundance mentality hard enough, you can basically do whatever you want, otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 12:24 PM
1

Blocking her on social media seems silly if you see her daily. It'll make it pretty apparent that you're sending a message of sorts. Most people commenting say you broke the obvious rule, don't shit where you eat. That is true, you painted yourself into a corner, really. The best course of action is a normal, professional relationship. Don't try to prove that you're moved on. Spend that effort on actually moving on.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:19 PM
2

This isn't a particularly hard one to ignore. Your life will change when you realize that you don't have to actually answer someone when it's implied.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:12 PM
1

This is /r/asktrp OP is doing exactly what he should be. How about you? Contributing anything?
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:10 PM
1

People can have different reactions to these things. It's entirely possible that she is able to move on. It may still crop it's head up in certain areas later on, but as long as it's not a situation where she is spinning herself out of control, it'd very doable.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:05 PM
2

Exgf years ago was a friend for a long time and re-rationalized her drunken romp with an ugly dude as rape by the time our relationship had started. It was interesting to see the way it changed as she slowly decided she wanted whatever attention she got from claiming rape. I was also painted as a villain when I dumped her for getting drunk with some other dude, and I laughed incredulously as she told me it wasn't a bad idea given the history of her drunken experiences. She told everyone she coul…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 12:16 PM
19

"I sing the national anthem at cockfights" is my go-to.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:08 PM
4

And thieves in the variation of lawsuits, when you get up there enough.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:07 PM
10

These lines are what breaks like 90% of my plates. Dear god..
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:05 PM
1

It sounds like OP is at least half way to the right conclusion. He knows where he went wrong in his relationship, so i'd expect him to change it up on the next one, whenever he gets to that point.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 12:03 PM
2

Some people are still stuck on the idea that virgins don't exist. They do, but they're usually not really worth it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 11:57 AM
2

Give advice on what you know because you do know more shit than them apparently. Give advice; get respect. It shows in groups.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 01:44 AM
1

You're far off, brother. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 01:41 AM
1

I was talking to a 3-4 out of 10 who told me something along the lines of: "I don't mean to brag, but I could have my choice of attractive guys tonight. There are a lot of hot guys that want to fuck me." I'm fairly nuclear and tend to embrace abundance mentality to the extreme so that I can entertain myself, so my response was something like: "I could also fuck attractive guys. Guys will fuck anything. Unfortunately, though, I'm straight. So i'm talking to you."
/r/askTRP25/06/16 01:40 AM
1

They want awkward guys like Robert Downey Jr.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 01:33 AM
8

Exactly. The closest you can get to "getting back at her" is dropping her with no explanation and living the kind of life that gives no fucks about her.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 01:23 AM
3

That's what I'm making sure of. She's going to be like a Comcast retention specialist over the next few weeks. It's easy to think you're just getting a quick lay and end up getting caught right back in that oneitis shit.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:18 PM
2

OP also should be prepared for this girl swinging for the fences to get her orbiter back. She'll move an inch at least, but even if OP can use that and hit it, for his own sake he really should just be done with her.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 11:16 AM
1

You can't really turn a woman like that into a wingman and expect things to work out. You may be able to take desperate text snippets and showcase them, but it's hard to not come off the wrong way doing so. There's a reason wingwomen are basically nonexistent. They need to be a high level of not giving a fuck, not relationship oriented, halfway decent looking, and they'll always have high partner counts.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:07 PM
5

What the hell are you talking about?
/r/askTRP21/06/16 07:53 PM
1

No need to bring it up, if she asks, say yes while suggesting it doesn't matter in the slightest
/r/askTRP21/06/16 07:52 PM
5

If you get to 400lbs without 'breaking' I don't see any hope.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:47 PM
10

One of my plates told me that the reason she was enamored with me was because I "wasn't above the influence" but that I "was the influence" This kind of fits in.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:41 PM
9

This wildebeest at my old workplace told me she was pretty good looking for her age. She was about 50 years old, 400 pounds, could barely walk, literally had to be sent home for shitting her pants on multiple occasions when she couldnt make it to the bathroom, face covered in moles and liver spots, and usually had the scent of McDonalds still hovering around her from whenever she last ate. I wanted to tell her she didn't even look good for her weight class.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:38 PM
10

He'll still probably be convinced that he can swoop in later.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:35 PM
3

Exactly like that except without the 3d projection and it's usually in at least somewhat of a joking manner. Usually..
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:33 PM
3

Or that he's so pathetic he won't bother her for sex at all.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:29 PM
2

I'm assuming she's a long term low maintenance lay. Those are good to keep in your back pocket, who cares if they blow the comic-book guy for an apartment to stay in.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:26 PM
2

6'0" 160 can be healthy and even look pretty good in the mirror, but it won't show at all with clothes on when you need it to.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 12:17 PM
1

I rarely, but sometime do live approach women and it always ends with the I have a boyfriend. Its getting really demoralizing. This is your issue. You need to make more cold approaches. There shouldn't be anything demoralizing about the standard polite female decline, either. Even decently attractive dudes get declines more often than not. Internet dating is a shit show and weeding through the swath of entitled bitches is exhausting.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 12:16 PM
1

1 hour per day.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 12:21 PM
1

Wrap your dick and it's a good sign.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:18 PM
1

They're great, but i'd rather have a career.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:17 PM
3

She just wants more orbiters/potential late term beta bucks. Ignore is a good idea.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:16 PM
7

More likely a breakup
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:15 PM
1

We're not about that shit here, sir.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:14 PM
4

So? Treat it like any shit test. Ignore it and bask in your post-coital glow
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:12 PM
3

You guys are all entirely missing something. Even on 4-5 hours of sleep, caffeine pills should (though not a good idea) absolutely be getting him through a day without falling asleep. Hallucinations are a sign of serious sleep deprivation. (the kind you get from not sleeping for 4 days straight, not from having 4-5 hours a night of sleep) Either OP is exaggerating to fuck, or he needs to see a doctor to see exactly what is impacting him this much. It is not normal, and more sleep isn't going to …
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:05 PM
0

8 hours of sleep is the recommendation for children. An adult needs maybe 7 hours, 6 is perfectly doable if it's consistent. In fact, it's more important to have a consistent schedule than having 8 hours of sleep. No idea how people can get anything done if they sleep 8 hours a night. But if OP has taken caffeine pills and still can't stay awake, it's something a doctor needs to be looking at, because it's clear he isn't getting anything out of the sleep he does get.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 11:56 AM
2

I love the start, don't know about the killing herself part, it adds a little more villainous intentions in the political warfare afterwards. That said, I am totally agree that you need to do what you do with pigs, you roast em.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:07 PM
3

While I really only do this with plates, my typical response to these shit tests is a firm "no, bye" and cut contact for about a week. While it's not the high retention play, i'm very heavy on approaches so abundance mentality means I don't give a shit if she comes crawling back. If she does, though, I won't see a shit test for a good while.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 12:21 PM
2

Rough, sure, dominating, definitely. Not all women like being choked.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 12:01 PM
7

It's annoying for dudes like me that have absolutely no desire for anal and have to firmly state that, less I be classified as less than the great Chad that previously plowed that pooper.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:45 AM
3

Had this before. Even holding frame at all other times with a BPD girl, letting her move in will kill that respect and it won't be long until she's looking to take advantage.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:42 AM
9

For someone inexperienced, he'd be better off going no contact instead of trying to plate her.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:53 PM
3

Oh thank god, this means he doesn't have to make a decision, because she'll just leave him when she's done with her degree. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 07:48 PM
1

100% this. If OP isn't even going to put effort in to describe his issue, then he sure as shit isn't going to be fixing anything.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:15 PM
3

Nobody. If I wanted to make a difference, I'd build an army.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:13 PM
6

That's not the inner most, really. That's more like what she thinks she wants. If she actually tames an alpha, she'll get bored and look for the next one. Women want an alpha 'project' and someone to make decisions for them, for the most part. They're not going to be satisfied even if they tame one.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 12:04 PM
14

Accountability. Women's actions are like children's simply because they haven't been shown that people wont put up with their shit
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 12:01 PM
6

This is the kind of woman that makes the first move
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 12:12 PM
2

No contact is right. She'll get to you if you're worth it. Just don't expect it to really be a long term or reliable plate. They basically never are.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:18 PM
7

I can see this going wrong. I'd just agree and let the hamster work. She's already thinking about it, but her 'strong moral fiber' will not allow her to suggest a fuck.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:16 PM
3

Nothing in your story is remotely untrue and you bring up mostly good points. That said, you're bringing in superb risks of shit going waaaay south with some bullshit legal situations. Also, without a doubt that shit will always in every single case be used later to make you out as a villain to whomever she jumps on next. It's perfect "asshole ex" material for her to use to sculpt her beta bux.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:13 PM
4

But the lies are hilarious ones
/r/askTRP31/05/16 12:20 PM
3

It means your dominant traits are showing in exactly the way you want them to.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 10:53 AM
11

She's probably exaggerating more than lying. There's a grain of truth behind every lie, isn't there? He probably told her to take her phone and get the fuck out and tossed it to her uncoordinated self. She attempted to catch it by throwing her arms up into the air like the triangle button on the old madden games, it bopped her on the face and she started wailing uncontrollably. Then, decent guy as he is, he probably went to console her and she started slapping the shit out of him and he grabbed …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 10:45 AM
0

Same as coworkers. Keep them at a flirtatious distance and use that to drive any decent women into competition mode
/r/askTRP29/05/16 04:44 PM
6

This is so disturbingly true. I have a plate who is low maintenance but definitely very relationship-seeking. Every once in a while she will stop texting at me for an amount of weeks and then I get an out-of-the-blue late night text and bask in the glow of her breakup anger sex.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 04:40 PM
14

A donkey with a plunger stuck to it's face.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 04:35 PM
1

NYC? That's like the fuck-capital of the world. If you can't get laid in NYC you're not even asking the right question here.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 04:31 PM
4

Get a car and play sports. That's what passes for status in highschool.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 03:35 PM
-1

Or, as a dude in my social circle did to me in the same situation, tell the girl that I am recording the fuck tapes and selling them on the internet in an attempt to nuke everything.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:31 PM
1

This is totally correct but playing by the book is boring sometimes.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:28 PM
2

It's his ex, she will recognize the dick or the room.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:27 PM
9

Ex I dumped literally went through the online game I introduced her to and jumped on every guy there that would give her attention. Some friends of mine were asking what the hell was up with her because she kept following them around the voice chat channels and coming on way too strong.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 03:24 PM
1

As long as you're ready and able to deal with and shut down some drama. You can be completely noncommittal and promise no form of relationship and still have her attempting to turn everyone you know against you and say that you were a lying deceitful so and so. It's a matter of what's better for you and what you deal with better.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 12:20 PM
3

In my experience, these kind of plates shatter hard within a couple months if affection or commitment doesn't come.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 07:58 PM
1

The game isn't the problem, it's the potential drama. I tend to keep coworkers at a fairly distant flirtatious distance. Any other women that meet them do pick up on it and it helps there, but actually pursuing coworkers can be way more drama than you need.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 12:19 PM
13

I kind of doubt any actresses are good in bed. They don't need to try, people want them regardless.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 10:40 AM
1

Mall food court, make conversation in the line in front or behind of you. Passing commentary based on the situation can do. I've lead with random shitty jokes about how busy the mall is, like "what, is it a holiday or something?" during black friday week. It never really matters what you say, as long as you have some half assed excuse to talk to her, it only matters how you say it and how you look, really. Bottom line, you will get girls that are noticeably awkward about being approached (maybe …
/r/seduction20/05/16 12:17 PM
4

New job or copy-paste lots of online intros
/r/seduction20/05/16 12:03 PM
1

Also don't presume that she is safe or trustworthy based on her past. Any girl can find the internet dick train at any time in life.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 11:25 AM
2

Vegas does not have legal brothels
/r/askTRP12/05/16 01:20 AM
1

You could be stabbed on the street too, that doesn't mean you don't go outside.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 01:17 PM
-1

Why? I've done it on at least a dozen occasions with no consequence.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 07:31 PM
5

This is good. It allows your standard cheater to hamster it all away.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 07:24 PM
2

Yeah, if your answer to this particular variety of shit test impacts whether or not she is interested, you never really had her in the first place.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 11:01 AM
2

I'm sure that's another barrier but i've got a good friend who is asian and runs through 8's like it's his job.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 10:08 AM
1

As someone not much taller, it's a complicated question. There will always be an immediate barrier between you and certain women who are keen to judge your value based on your height. These aren't always taller women, either. Learn to read them a bit better to stop from wasting your time. This barrier is not insurmountable, but I wouldn't say it's ever quite worth the effort for the odds. Short answer, you can do fine, but it will be limiting at times. Learn to walk away, most of all.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 09:42 AM
2

This is one of the most effective yet succinct nuggets of advice i've seen here.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 09:33 AM
1

She is probably in med school to meet her future betabucks doctor husband, so this.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 12:14 PM
1

You've lost 100 pounds in 3 years. Do you have loose skin around your stomach that these women are seeing? That would seem like an obvious reason, albeit one you arent going to be able to do much about
/r/askTRP06/05/16 12:11 PM
2

Mostly the women that go out for drinks on date 1 are looking for sex too, whether admittedly or not. Likely he's filtering out LTRs and even plates by jumping to the drinks.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 12:07 PM
1

You asked me to comment on this, but I don't feel like my method would work for you, considering: i dont want to fight him For me, all my social interactions are colored by my boxing past and a very stubborn contrary attitude. In 5th grade I was threatened by a taller older kid and told to stay away from a female friend of mine. I went straight over to talk to her in front of the kid. Got blindsided and jumped on the way back from school by 4 older kids. Do you know what I learned? Fucking nothi…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 12:04 PM
2

Yep. Traditional Indian girls usually have those insanely strict parents that they just love to rebel against.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 12:15 PM
3

The internet allows for some experienced virgins, if you'd call them that after their spread-eagle pics have been shared with a few dozen guys.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 12:10 PM
1

I'd have to agree. I would probably end up doing it, but i've also been sucker punched about a dozen times for the kind of shit I end up doing.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 10:59 AM
5

Exactly this. Women only "move on" when another better guy comes along.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 10:00 AM
1

Even the grades wont matter in time.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:19 AM
1

A man is as good as his word. If you are straight up bullshitting your LTR, well then it's likely you're spitting bullshit all around. If you want to have your words hold weight with anyone else, they need to be truth. That said, Red Pill isn't really concerned with commitment issues so much as strategy. There is too much morality tied up in that issue, and you won't really find a strong stance on it here either way.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:15 PM
2

Because they only did the first part.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:52 AM
1

Just don't take on the faith argument head-on. Ignore shit tests and continue game instead of a jokey or clever deflection. They'll probably still consider themselves strong believers and get sour at the idea that you are mocking their beliefs or whatever.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:41 AM
1

Sure, but where is the benefit in proving yourself to others? For me i'm more worried about what i'm getting out of something. Everyone has different things they're going for though. To me, a celebrity isn't going to do anything better.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:26 AM
2

I've tried it both ways a few dozen times or so, I find it's like any 'bold' play. It works less, but works well when it does and it can make things pretty interesting. I'd say it's not worth it by any means, as i've had much less success doing it that way, and there are better bold moves out there.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:23 AM
1

Seems like an odd pick, but Archer on FX is a pretty good Alpha example with virtually no fucks given one way or another.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:17 AM
2

It's easier than you think. Girls that are under strict rules are usually looking for ways to get away from that. Not sure that you do anything particularly different.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:55 AM
1

I actually love this. It's much better in person when combined with a smile to diffuse potential nuclear bitchfits, but it's the kind of risky bold shit I like to go for when I get a dumb response or shit test.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:10 AM
5

True, but when you're dealing with online dating, most of these women are talking about themselves literally all day, and it's not going to particularly stand out to ask a standard open ended question you may expect a long response to.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:03 AM
2

The first step is to go talk to them. Seriously, if you have everything you claim, you are either not approaching, or you have a glaring issue that you just don't see. We can't tell you if it is that based on your post.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 09:42 PM
0

I dont plan on it, but if I were to have a daughter I would want her to be capable of being self sufficient but also feminine enough to be able to choose not to be.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:19 PM
13

Your mother is right. (sort of) As soon as you argue with a woman, you're doing the wrong thing. You simply state your point and wait and hold frame through the shit show.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:17 PM
3

Because she wants both you and her saturday night. Either that's a girls night out at the club where she expects to lay down, or she has a guy she likes better set for that day. She's obviously at least somewhat interested in you to offer wednesday, but at this point you dug yourself into a hole. You could meet with her wednesday but then I wouldn't expect to be her top interest. You would be best off going no contact and waiting for another opportunity.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:15 AM
1

Chad has saturday night booked with her already. Yes, it's a shit test. Not sure you are going to be going out with her this week without falling for it, though. I'd find a suitable time to go no-contact. I'd guess on about a 2 week period before she hits you up, unless she really has something else going on.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 10:42 AM
1

She is too flaky to try to actually set a plan ahead of time. I'd go nc and look for other options, only responding if she is looking to meet up within the hour. Just keep in mind that girls like these should never even be your second option.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 10:37 AM
5

Cute nerd girls are used to a lot more attention from low caliber men. The typical highschool mentality beta thinks they have a chance with her. There's a high chance she tries to put you into orbit, since it's likely what she's used to. One advantage may be that she has less experience with actual alphas. But keep in mind that she will be almost certainly running her concerns about you by her friend zoned beta orbit group who will be doing the equivalent of a /r/relationships 'dump that asshole…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 11:47 AM
3

It seems like h&m stuff is meant to fit a certain body type and works wonders for them, yet it's awkward fitting for a whole host of people
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 11:39 AM
4

Youve been initiating a little too much and having too much concern for her own personal dramas. Considering you met her online and she is fairly cute, she probably just moved on to guy #622. If you are high value to her, she'll throw a text at you down the line when she runs through a couple more dorks that she thought were potential. If it's her with an ex, either it's going to be her texting you within a few days of the breakup, or during a fight. My guess is that you don't really have any ot…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 10:38 AM
1

Celebrity females have to be the most entitled women on the planet. The supreme swarm of beta orbiters would probably guarantee that any celebrity female be a total pain in the ass to deal with on a regular basis. Not to mention they aren't really more attractive for any reason but status. Fucking a celebrity would be something you do to get recognition or status from someone else. Doesn't seem like much actual benefit if you aren't looking for that.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 10:07 PM
1

There is a girl i'm talking to now who has a boyfriend. She keeps making up sex dreams and texting me the very detailed fantasies she has involving me, saying they are dreams and that since it isn't 'real' she isn't doing anything her boyfriend wouldn't like.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 06:39 PM
1

It would be that way in books too if it's a legal book.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 12:16 PM
14

My ex told me the story where back when she was a virgin (think 15) she asked a guy not to put it inside her and she was so impressed with his kindness and respect for her boundaries that she 'let him' go out with her one more time, before realizing it wasn't a good fit.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 12:15 PM
-2

Normally you'd be right, but when it comes to sex, having focus on her pleasure is very much a help, specifically for keeping plates around. That doesn't mean that you do what she tells you. That means you take control and do what her body and actions show you. You take control of her pleasure and then prove your worth with it in your hands.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:16 PM
2

It's not a huge error like people seem to think it is. Your actions will have monumentally more impact than your words
/r/askTRP10/03/16 08:51 PM
1

She's moving in with a bf of a month, in other words she is latching on for financial reasons. She asks you about your living situation. She is looking to trade up. She will not be very interested when she finds that she can't move in
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:19 PM
22

I usually tell them that I sing the national anthem at cockfights.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 01:05 PM
126

I had a live in girlfriend who made money on par with me, but even she agreed that she was fairly careless with money. We agreed and I put her on a monthly allowance for frivolous things. The first day of the new month she happily runs out to shop with her money. She comes home some hours later and happily tells me that I should be proud of her, as she did not spend her entire monthly allowance on day 1. She had about half of it left. Then upon looking at the amount of clothes she had, It didn't…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:10 PM
3

It's both. There is a huge psychological factor involved, which will impact her as you've seen. However, if she's not reaching orgasm with any degree of consistency and is capable of doing so (most women are, the statistic you are probably citing is that most women don't orgasm from only penetration) then you should be getting there already. The psychological hype from this time of you acting like a high value man won't be lasting if you don't change anything up.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 11:07 AM
1

Ex of mine plays a reddit-community based online game that she is awful at. She gets to be the queen of the nerds, though, so she's happy. Gamer girls, for the most part are just the low-end version of the needy, attention seeking social media girls.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 10:57 AM
2

This is assuming the ldr boyfriend is real and not an excuse to get around the awkwardness, but extending on that: I'd say she is interested in cheating, or she wouldnt agree to go out, but reevaluated who to cheat with. OP needs to ramp up the SMV. Either she found another Chad, or OP fucked it by asking her if they're still on and she felt the rush of sweet sweet power.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:17 PM
1

This is solid advice, but I don't personally take it because I enjoy the conversation myself. If I appear too available, they'll learn eventually. If they don't, I make a cold approach almost daily, so it's kind of irrelevant if they're gone. Ridiculous abundance means you can take risks
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:09 PM
2

Boxing was my first career plan and the only real passion i've ever had. There is not a situation where I don't feel in control, and capable of managing it. That said, i've taken enough hits to permanently impact my wellbeing. The effects of long term brain trauma are no joke. I'm not going to tell you to not fight, but know what you're getting into. Regardless of mental toughness, your brain can be physically beaten.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 01:05 PM
2

Unless they're actually deployed. In Marine terminology, Jody is the name of the dude that is fucking your girlfriend while you're out at war, not Chad.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 12:54 PM
2

The dancer girl I had oneitis with 10 years ago is starting to make more and more sense.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 12:51 PM
18

My grandfather was the classical patriarch. One thing I noticed early on is that in a room full of his 5 sons, their wives, kids, and friends, when this man spoke, you didn't. You listened. That's the kind of respect I want to command.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 12:47 PM
2

Just this. The biggest game misconception is that you always have to respond. Saying nothing speaks loudly, especially over text. Also, OP's girl probably had family plans she couldn't get out of which is why she shit tested OP for the particular day she knew she couldn't see him anyway. Now she's just going all-out powerplay and not responding to get control over OP. Judging by this post, it's working out pretty well for her so far.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 12:02 PM
4

That's about right. You can't find a person that does things that are entirely selfless, but it can still be respectable when someone's sense of self is measured by how much they help others. That said, it's practical to remember that people are self-serving first. Someone may feel good to help you once, twice, or a dozen times, but they'll still be taking care of themselves first.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 01:10 PM
1

You can't teach women lessons by dropping them. The entire beta world is waiting in the wings to pick them back up and assure them it's not their fault.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:53 PM
3

And wrap your dick for sure
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:52 PM
1

Maybe is not always a no. Ignore or short response and break contact: she'll contact you to confirm near or on the date, or she won't. Either way, you have your answer. Do try to make plans with others, though.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:44 PM
4

I spent the money I saved up in high school to donate to the family of a kid in my school that was battling leukemia. It's kind of a shame he worked so hard for such a dumb reason. Also, why the hell are those flowers a dollar each?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 01:20 PM
1

This kind of response is common in all blue male rooms too, from what i've seen. I've found myself discussing similar tit-for-tat ideas when it comes to dating, and someone always makes the comment "that's why you're single." As if it's not my choice. I guess no woman has deemed me worthy enough to bestow upon me the gift of spending my money for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 12:52 PM
26

Actually, you can deserve plenty, that just has nothing to do with what you get. Some people work their whole life towards something. They deserve it. But it doesn't always happen that way.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:03 AM
1

Nope, do both if you have time, but real world cold approaches are the best learning tools for sure. Abundance mentality applies here too. You just have to understand the raw approach and tinder differences. (namely, tinder has a much lower success rate but you can bang out a hundred approaches in a few minutes) Edit: also, you don't have to worry about a girl 'using you for a meal' if you just don't let them do it when they try.
/r/seduction11/02/16 01:13 PM
2

Being a fanatic is undoubtedly beta in addition to annoying, but I would cut it short of saying that watching sports in general is beta. As a former boxer myself, I watch the professional sport and enjoy seeing the techniques used. In general, it's an interest. It's like saying that watching a tv show is beta. If you enjoy it, do it. Just know that it isn't a productive thing, and that you'll have to put the work in some time.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 11:08 AM
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If you're with another girl when you run into them, be nice and smile, give her a short hug and a short conversation, and move along while being ready to tell the one you're with who it was later, and probably dodge a couple shit tests. While all you did is say hi, the 2 women have already started comparing themselves with the other side-by-side, and your girl sees your ex as competition, reinforcing your abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:29 AM
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A former co worker of mine has sent over 40 grand to his "girlfriend" across the atlantic over the course of years. Literally lives with his parents into his 40s and sends money over every time he gets a paycheck, oftentimes borrowing a hundred or so from people at work who would give it up. (never to be paid back) These people will trade their entire life savings just for the idea of a woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 09:44 PM
1

Yeah, it's kind of a shame how slim the pickings get when you start expecting some kind of effort or value out of women. Most of them are so used to everything being thrown at their feet.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:10 PM
13

My ex girlfriend asked me to go out with her about 5 times in the week immediately before she stole her parents car and moved cross-country to get married within a month to a guy who literally told me via text: She wears the pants, I make the money. Throwing her out was the best decision I ever made, for sure.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 12:03 PM
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This also works with just about any group of friends if you make sure the sex is mind blowing for the first one. Women do talk about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 10:32 AM
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Seriously. There's a way more simple way to keep a plate. Be good in bed. Despite the inner turmoil and guilt hamstering shit going on in her head, women do enjoy sex on a physical level, and they will come back if you learn her and hit it right.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 03:16 PM
2

Former boxer here myself. Being in a few wars in the ring gives you some disturbing level of confidence outside of it when dealing with simple things like a jealous orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 04:44 PM
1

My ex called me at 12:00 midnight on my birthday to be the very first to wish me a happy birthday. I guess that's not annoying or anything.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 02:26 PM
1

Agreed. She's trying to mold OP into the blue pill ideal she thinks she wants. But she sounds like she's already on the hook. No response, you'll get a picture in time.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 05:58 PM
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TRP is amoral. And thank fuck for that. So many of those mainstream subs are full of decent threads that turn into witchhunts or shit-on-op-fests instead of the interesting conversations that could take place
/r/askTRP15/04/15 05:48 PM
0

Most dumb questions (shit tests) like this, you can completely ignore.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 04:17 PM
1

Comic book store game
/r/askTRP15/04/15 04:15 PM
1

I agree with you on the concept of having no opinion of her, but I would disagree with the other part about having opinions on other things. I have no real system of beliefs and no strong opinions to fight for or express. I have ideas but don't insist they are without flaw. And given this, i've found the same scenario, that the women near me are always interested. I would say the actual source is not simply having opinions, but having that security in yourself (or your opinions, if any) , thus p…
/r/seduction27/03/15 01:41 PM
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I live in a fairly small town, approached just about every woman, and developed a reputation. When girls said something about it, I just treated it like any other shit test and it usually helped more than hurt. Me having a reputation was more like being a celebrity. I was the "mistake" all those girls made wayyy back when.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 01:29 PM
1

For me, it was experience. When I was a kid, I spent a lot of time thinking about sex and thinking about how big of a deal it was and worrying. When I had sex, I realized I had nothing to worry about. The same with fighting, approaching women, confronting people, etc etc. Theres really nothing that is THAT bad. It's comforting to know.
/r/becomeaman10/04/14 05:30 PM
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I watched women's college level hockey once. One girl was wearing #66 and I needed to vomit after watching Lemieux's number disgraced like that.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:24 PM
1

Sometimes I read old chat logs outloud directly to old flings to re-ignite some nostalgic lust. Good stuff, if done right. I have chat logs from up to 8 years ago, and when looking through them a bit, i do see some mistakes, as would be typical, but nothing too cringeworthy.
/r/askTRP05/04/14 02:34 AM
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It was a shit test, and yes it could have been easily turned around, but there comes a point when the attraction to a woman dies. While we can all chase the sexual success and think of it as the goal, we have to wonder what the point is if we lose attraction to the woman, and thus our enjoyment.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 03:28 PM
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Attraction is not a hierarchy. There is no scale or system, no one is better than anyone else. It's just a matter of what the individual is attracted to. Most individuals are attracted to women without tattoos more than those with them, so that's the logical way to go.
/r/askTRP17/03/14 05:30 PM
1

You'll think about her either way but think about how upset she'll be when she realizes what she missed out on.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 06:14 PM
1

She needs a physical relationship and you did not have a high enough value for her to wait for you. Few people ever do have that high of a value. Thats why LDRs are so difficult to maintain. Move on, improve yourself, make some approaches in person and you won't have to encounter this problem again. By the way, as far as Omegle meetings go, you did pretty good. Most of them turn out to be guys.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 03:28 PM
1

It could also just be that they're actually spending time at home with their wife and realize they're not as interesting/faithful as they thought.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 03:14 PM
1

The real problem here is the lack of words to define the difference between the social idea of men and women and the simple physical reasoning which I would think were the basis of the words, the only difference between man and male being that man indicates they are a matured male. At the same time, I have no problems with people who decide how they will identify themselves, but this language we use is never clear enough to know the difference unless it's specifically stated in which way we're u…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:42 PM
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Unpopular opinion here, but standing your ground is what this sub is all about. I agree with a lot of the points she makes. Not about "Man" being strictly a social label, thats bullshit. But as far as reality goes.. theres no doubt that the best way to understand an object is to look at it from a different viewpoint than only yours. The question is which is better, a purely objective view, or a view that summarizes all other subjective views? The reason I agree with the other person is that with…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:14 AM
1

It's hard to explain how much you took charge while at the same time describing your first sexual experience as her raping you.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 04:42 PM
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