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Yes, women fuck and stay loyal to toxic men. Non toxic men see this, and see how they were dogged for treating women right, then they become toxic themselves. Then women make kids with guys who are the least likely to stay around, she becomes a single mother, only to raise a son that is statistically more susceptible to becoming the rapist, abuser, uncommitted, drug-addicted, low-drive, man she complains about. This is what happens when you let women take the reins on anything, let alone somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:44 PM
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You made some interesting points, but I can’t really ascertain just how exactly anecdotal they are. I don’t think the comparison with serial killer and bodygouard is either honest or consistent with the principle I initially suggested. Having that said, I will address some of the more prominent lines of your post. The serial killer/bodyguard comparison was a farcical portrayal illustrating that there is a point at which the precautionary measures needed to engage in a certain activity/event beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:09 AM
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You’re conflating a lot of things and forgetting some as well. Regardless of our ability to ascertain paternity following pregnancy, a male’s resources, time, efforts, and hopes are still invested in the woman DURING pregnancy. Also, the simple fact that you say a man could simply get a DNA tests proves why he shouldn’t date a promiscuous woman. That’s like a serial killer saying to you “you can sleep in my guest room, just get a bodyguard”. The simple fact that you’d need such a contingency pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:32 PM
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Why is it that in order for women to do something they need “special reverence” or have to get out of it more than they put in? You guys are petrified by the idea of duty for duty’s sake. Mathematically, if people got out of society more than they put in there’d be nothing to remaining for anyone. You all don’t understand this, and it’s crazy because the only other beings I can think of with such a petulant, naive mindset are children - beings that expect abundance without work, receipt without …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:11 PM
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She’s a headcase. She’s everywhere too, no logical consistency whatsoever. She’ll post a reply, not realizing her last reply negates like 9 of the 10 points she’s trying to make in the new one. It’s just for kicks at this point. I know I’m right, she knows I’m right, but this is cathartic for her because it’s not necessarily whether she is right or wrong that she cares about, it’s about venting her emotion at a man. She’s made bad choices in men in the past, or just expects men to chase her, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:35 PM
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I’ll say this part and leave it here because I don’t think you understand… Being an adult is about raising children. The only life purpose we’re able to biologically prove is reproduction. Being an adult is therefore about duty and responsibility. If people thought how you thought there’s be no you, no society, no anything. Your perspective is therefore unsustainable and irrational as a result. By the way, women aren’t “giving men children”. I like how you try and count something women are biolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:52 PM
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You’re actually wrong. Women in abusive relationships tend to pick abusers. Studies have shown that if you take an abused woman and isolate her from her abuser her by placing her in another state, within 3 months she will find another abusive relationship. But anyway, I’ll just be honest with you, 99.999% of men aren’t abusive so I really don’t care about abused women. I simply don’t, and caring wouldn’t do anything anyway. The fact of the matter is there are terrible men. And women like these m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:42 PM
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So there’s no gender pay gap? Again, you feminists can’t have your cake and eat it too? Either men are making all the money and oppressing women but they’re also the providers, or women are the providers and pay is equal, or even perhaps, modern women make more than men. Get your argument together. The reality of it is men are breadwinners by a wide margin despite how disingenuous you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:18 PM
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If that were the case shitbrain, women wouldn’t get in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:17 PM
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I know lobotomized cows more capable of critical thought than you. Look, you admitted through your 39% of women are breadwinner stat, that 61% of men are. Also I don’t care what your weird ass feminist-inspired anomalous expectations of your guy are, decades of physiological and evolutionary psychological literature prove the vast majority of women mate select based on a man’s ability to protect and provide. And yet and still, if a burglar breaks into your house your bitch ass is not going to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:59 PM
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lol. You know, the crazy thing is, you call raising kids a pain and a thankless job because you have to provide for and protect them… and you don’t count their loyalty, love, companionship, and funniness as a contribution…which are all things you counted as a contribution to your man, from yourself... So you are agreeing with me. Because the role you play as a mom, is the role a man plays to you….provider and protector. We have to provide for and protect you, and if you’re saying all the minor, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:27 PM
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You think only men enjoy children? You think men do no work? Lol. You know how many men wish to God almighty they could be in the comfort of a warm cozy home with not an existential care in the world, changing a fucking diaper for human being that sleeps most of the day, instead of digging to the center of the earth with a pickaxe hoping their lungs don't turn black and to not quite literally dig their own grave in the event of a mine collapse? Who would've thought pouring baby formula into a fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:15 AM
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I didn’t say “only date”. READ. I said “only want”. The gap between what women want and get is why dating is shit. They want the 1 percenter, but get typically the guys they deserve…thus their frustration with dating and men’s inability to please them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:30 PM
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“How is he an anomaly? You literally just defended a man cheating on his pregnant wife, which is common…” Just because something is more likely to happen during a certain time, doesn’t make it any less of an anomaly. A statistical analysis of the Smithsonian Institution's global catalog of volcanic eruptions during the last 300 years revealed that volcanoes all over the globe are 18% more likely to erupt during the northern winter months than at any other time of year. Yet and still, volcanic er…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:21 PM
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You don’t know half that Shannan Watts story. You know what was told to cast her in a good light. She nagged, mentally and emotionally trashed that man to the point of doing that. Not that he should’ve. What people don’t realize is men show aggression physically, women show it through character assassination and mental and emotional battles of attrition. The only part of the battle that ever gets shown between a man and woman is the physical part. Chris is shit for what he did, but it wasn’t lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:48 PM
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I’ll look at your stat when I get home and pick it apart then. It’s not right and I have to find what’s wrong with it. If it is right, it’s probably because most women only date the same small handful of guys every other woman is dating. But as a general rule of thumb, the person with less options doesn’t initiate the break-up. Most men have no options whatsoever, and even ugly women have hundreds, if jot thousands of options. It’s simple actually, if you have only one car and can only get one, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:36 PM
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I’ll look at your stat when I get home and pick it apart then. It’s not right and I have to find what’s wrong with it. If it is right, it’s probably because most women only date the same small handful of guys every other woman is dating. But as a general rule of thumb, the person with less options doesn’t initiate the break-up. Most men have no options whatsoever, and even ugly women have hundreds, if jot thousands of options. It’s simple actually, if you have only one car and can only get one, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:28 PM
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Lol, “don’t really provide any value to a woman out side of wallet and protection” lol. All life is is provision and protection. What do you think a parent does for a child? That’s not value lol? 😂But you’re right, I should stay single, and I will, I just hate when women bitch that men are the problem. Men are simple. Y’all really don’t even have to do anything, just don’t cheat and a man is happy. Women are an unsolvable equation. Men are not the problem. Again, it’s not that I want a woman to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:14 PM
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Lol, “don’t really provide any value to a woman out side of wallet and protection” lol. All life is is provision and protection. What do you think a parent does for a child? That’s not value lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:03 PM
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Honestly, I don’t care that women are useless in relationships. I just expect you all to appreciate the mountain of shit a man does for you. It takes a level of arrogance I could fathom to have someone devote their resources and life to providing for a protecting you, and you thank them by demanding more or cheating. That’s modern women for you. Truth be told, a woman can’t really offer a mam anything of value, just be appreciative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:37 PM
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No they don’t lol. https://today.yougov.com/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2015/06/09/breaking What you speak of has never been the case. It’s a universal axiom that women depart infinitely more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:35 PM
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No that’s just not the case. Women initiate most breakups as well. Fuck crazy, you’re retarded if you think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:27 PM
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You’re crazy if you think women, who are observably more selective, don’t initiate the vast majority of divorces. Also, it costs men to initiate divorce, and costs them a hell of a lot more than it costs women. Women gain in divorce. Divorce is actually incentivized for women. You can cook and clean for a man and get his money that way, or you can divorce him, not do shit for him and get his money that way, which one do you think women would choose? Work for a paycheck or get a paycheck for not …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:39 PM
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Yeah, I see why she cheated too…because I gave her everything. She left for a drug dealer and that relationship lasted all of 4 months. She and I were together for about two years. Give a women a buffet and she’ll leave you after getting a full stomach, and you’ll be out a ton of food. Give a woman crumbs and she’ll stay with you in hopes of more crumbs…and even if she leaves because you aren’t giving enough, at least you haven’t exhausted all of your food. And no, I never dated multiple women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:28 PM
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No actually, wanna know about my mother? My disdain for modern women comes from my mom setting the bar so high. My Dad was the breadwinner, he had his own business but got sick. My mom put her degree to work and scored a six figure job supporting the family, and was still home every night to cook dinner, help my sister with homework, clean the house, do laundry, maintenance the cars, etc. Women of today don't any of the things I mentioned, let alone do them well. My mother is amazing, she's a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:29 PM
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No, not at all. I’m the kindest guy in person, I just can’t stand unappreciative little shits who sit on the sideline and don’t contribute yet bitch about the score, a.k.a most women. Most men are great guys, unappreciated and shat-on by women who believe the 1% of men they deal with comprise all men. Women are attracted to dickheads, abusers, low-empathy men …for survival reasons…supposedly…”supposedly“ because women aren’t smart enough to realize their mate-selector thingy-muhjigger is broke o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:53 PM
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I don’t care about that pussy-foot violence shit. Everyone experiences violence, men primarily. The fact that you think women should go through life unscathed by anything and it should be men’s responsibility to make that happen, shows how fucking unreasonable women are. Life is traumatizing, for everyone. Get the fuck over it with your glass half empty ass. You’d rather complain about a minority of men then focus on the majority who make your survival a fucking given. Women will always complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:02 PM
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My point exactly! Men took women from running from tigers and dying of cryptosporidium and hypthermia to warm, amenity-overflowing buildings that are impenetrable relative to huts -food-on-demand and on-site in refrigerators -nearly same-day shipping on any of the useless shit they could possibly desire running the fuck out of long haul, LTL, Amazon, FedEx and UPS drivers for -healthcare fit for the Gods -cars that olden Kings would envy -a well-defended first-world where they can lambaste the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:41 PM
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Women complain about shit because women complain about shit. Women complaining is less to do with what they're complaining about and more to do with themselves and the fact that "complaining" is just a function of women. Perhaps the most mind-numbingly futile dilemma created by modern women is the desire for hypergamous-fulfilment and equality at the same time...the desire for a plethora of men who are above them - for dating reasons, but also the desire for all/most men to be equal or beneath t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:59 PM
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Women are like fire. A fire can’t be satiated by feeding it/giving to it, it will only rage wilder. Fire consumes, and if out of control, it consumes until there’s nothing left to consume, and perishes itself. It’s indiscriminate in its consumption, even consuming the person who made and nourished it if he isn’t careful. Fire is useful, but only when controlled. Men don’t understand this today. They give to women, unendingly in hope that it will satiate them or earn their favor. They give women …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:16 PM
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That’s not the point. My point is female nature is unavoidably narcissistic. You can either avoid them altogether or deal with their narcissism, which is encouraged through reward by the government. You think I’m jaded because you simp like most other men. You excuse the poor behavior of women, faulting men for problems created by women. Women are infallible to you, and men like you are precisely why women are the entitled, narcissistic beings they are today. Needless to say, you, as well as man…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:11 AM
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I think the “shitty horrible” take is the one trying to paint 33% of men as rapists and 50% as abusers. I think those guys account for less than 1% of the male population, and by “less than”, I meant less than half a percent (0.5%). Keep in mind, men run shit. If that many men just didn’t like women you really think women would have the liberties they do? Especially today when women’s liberties have cost men an unspeakable amount, if men really wanted to curtail, or just flat-out snatch women’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:44 PM
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Dude, you guys are way too hung up on looks. Women care about money, primarily. I can tell you as a 6’1, buff, tatted, 25 y/o former model who hasn’t been laid in 2 years, looks don’t matter too much to women (my setback is that I’m Black and average earning). I’m telling you right now, I’m the guy you probably fear will take your girl but I don’t care how ugly or short you are, if you make $150k/year I FEAR YOU taking my girl (if I had one), not the other way around. I don’t think you all under…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:38 AM
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I stopped believing domestic violence stats. I know no men who just come home and start pummeling women. Practically every violent man I’ve ever met has been provoked to violence. And knowing how women show aggression, through character assassination and manipulative mental battles of attrition, a lot of the “abuse” women face starts with women abusing men, just not physically maybe…but because abuse is only counted if it’s physical, it looks as if men are just beating the ish out of women. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:15 AM
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No. Probably promiscuous, and women are indecisive enough as it is, I could imagine adding another 3.5 billion options for them to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:05 AM
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There’s just too much you don’t understand, or too massive of a gap in our personal understandings of women, for us to bridge that gap with a conversation. My view of women isn’t charitable at all; they don’t get any points they don’t earn. In other words, I attribute to them the qualities I observe. From what I see, you attribute to them the qualities society - which aggrandizes them - attributes to them. Women are vulnerable. Vulnerability inspires insecurity. Insecurity inspires fear. Fear in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:51 PM
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I understand that, but most guys won't be able to understand that until they've had it. I've had the bad boy phase too, not really a bad boy, more like a fuck boy. For most guys, neither of these phases ever come; so you, us, telling them that it's not all it's cracked up to be, is like Bill Gates telling a homeless man being rich isn't all it's cracked up to be. Sounds great when you're rich, but to a guy that's never been rich, money is everything. As much as reality is reality, most of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:25 PM
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But that’s not the reality of things. Plenty of those guys exist yet the only reason you hear women complaining about bad boys is because bad boys are the men they are attracted to. Women are attracted to toxic qualities in men. Women are attracted to men who are not good for themselves. Women’s desire to have the most fit offspring while having those offspring be provisioned for, in excess, poses a dilemma. The main difference between a nice guy and a bad boy is agrarian vs nomad/hunter-gathere…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:36 PM
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You’re insanely out of touch, my guy. Most women today open Tinder and match with any guy they swipe right on. If they have Tinder Gold, she can see the 1,000 men A NIGHT who swipe right on her. If she has instagram, facebook, tiktok she can see the hundreds and thousands of men who “like” her pictures and vids. Men’s thirst wouldn’t allow for a woman to even just accurately assess their attractiveness let alone underestimate it. New Tinder data has revealed women only swipe right on about one p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:16 PM
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It’s just odd how you admit women are more selective, but would sooner blame men for being poor listeners which no academic literature I know of supports in any way, than admit that women’s pronounced selectivity has any negative implications for the relationship. Compound that with a society that holds women accountable for literally nothing..I mean we literally would sooner blame an unborn for its existence and penalize it with death than place an iota of responsibility on the mother… Basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:57 PM
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I’m not arguing all of evolutionary psych just the relevant part you agreed with… Supporting that point, 88% of divorces are initiated by women. Now, women would say the men weren’t meeting their expectations, and I’d have to go with that because, well, it is after all the women initiating the divorces. But, this further proves my point…having agreed with me that women are more selective, and knowing that 88% of divorces are initiated by women, is it more likely that women are hard to please, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:51 PM
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I think you’re speaking for most women but from YOUR experiences, I’m speaking for most men based off their own accounts. Your account doesn’t comport with the physiological and evolutionary literature. Innately, women are vastly more selective than men. A higher criteria due to higher selectivity and “not asking for much” are two mutually exclusive positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:59 PM
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The calculus for what determines a woman’s “emotional needs” and for what constitutes a woman’s definition of “healthy and respectful” is such an ever-changing equation that most men don’t even try to embark upon solving it…constantly. This isn’t evidence of solipsism in RP men, it’s evidence of solipsism in women. At the end of the day, most men are happy to have a human being by their side devoting their lives to them. Is that not the greatest gift a person could give? themselves? For women, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:27 PM
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Well, if you look at what men give in relationships, it’s exhaustible. What women give is inexhaustible, yet women still have a problem giving it. So I don’t see how men RP men are selfish. Money can be exhausted. Protection can end in death. A woman is just asked to have sex, and her sexual organs never fall off. Plus, her orgasm requires far greater sexual expertise from the man than the man’s requires from her so who is REALLY doing who the favor? She might be asked to cook and clean, which I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:24 PM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:13 PM
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Women are the original plate spinners lol. Women spend FAR more plates than men. As a matter of fact, if a guy doesn’t have multiple women he is pursuing he is destined for bitterness and loneliness. Even moderately attractive women have THOUSANDS of options. If he’s not spinning plates, he’s banking on ONE woman choosing him of the thousands of options she has. That is stupid as all hell. Quite frankly, a man’s dating strategy should be strictly numbers if he wants success. Women dispose of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:16 AM
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Red pill just basically explains women’s nature. You all don’t like it, but for a man looking to attract and keep a woman, a woman’s advice is an incredible disservice to him. Conventional chivalry is observably NOT what women choose. Every guy, and I do mean EVERY guy has tried to do right by a woman and that typically ends up with them watching her run into the arms of a guy who puts in no effort and is the stereotypical “bad boy”. Men aren’t that smart, so they’ll keep treating women right an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:11 AM
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I think red pill men aren’t pathetic, maybe lonely, but not pathetic. If you understand women, the better option is loneliness lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:02 AM
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Essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:58 AM
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I would say Status, Money, Looks, Game. Game actually doesn’t natter. A lot of men “gaming” women were going to get laid before they opened their yap. Even when I’ve found myself in social situations where I was the alpha among a group of friends or acquaintances, me opening my mouth and “gaming” probably talked me out of more chicks than it got me, not because I was bad at gaming either, but because if your status and looks are a “go” for the girl, why interject your “game” into the situation a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:02 AM
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It is “that complicated”. Do you know anything about logic? So you listed three “guys”, right? 1. Good guys 2. Bad guys 3. Nice guys And you put these in ascending order from best to worst — (this is important) Because you separated good guys and nice guys, it’s only logical to assume that just because you are nice, doesn’t - necessarily- make you good. And I would agree with that… The problem is, you placed bad guys above nice guys, and it’s therefore only logical that you believe it is better …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:41 PM
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This is mostly true, mostly. A lot of the Red Pill’s gripes, unbeknownst to them, are actually caused more by equal pay than hypergamy, looks, and all this bad boy ish. The guys they complain about who get all the women, have problems keeping women too. When you consider Briffault’s Law, equal pay renders most men useless to women. It has nothing to do with jawline, looks maxing, muscles, height or any of that. It’s really about society changing and the basis upon which men are selected has chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:20 PM
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Because there’s no excuse for a woman to be overweight. Even incels know it’s no excuse for them to be fat either. No one should be overweight. When you hear incels talk it’s typically about face structure, height, body frame, and not being rich, which are things most men can’t do anything about. But you’ll never hear them talk about weight. Being overweight is just unacceptable. Like, if you’re not going to run or hop on a bike, just put down the ice cream, cheddar fries, and burgers and pick u…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:13 PM
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So there’s no men that say “let me treat her good if I want to be with her?” Just men who treat women like shit and men who secretly want to treat women like shit? You validated OP’s post. You basically said “nice guys don’t exist, those are just predatory men”. So what do you think a nice guy, who you just called predatory, is going to try to be? A bad guy. Because if “good guys” are actually “bad guys” to you, then “bad guys” must be “good guys”. Did you mean to prove OP’s point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:06 PM
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Snakes, cats, and women have a lot in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:25 AM
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The problem is that nothing you say comports with behavioral and evolutionary scientific findings. 1.Women are perpetually receptive to men of greater social, financial, and physical stature, and they actively seek these men out as a function of their biology, irrespective of their relationship status. There is no point at which a woman is satisfied. The literature backs these claims, as well as even a glance at the bulk of modern dating scenarios. You’re doing as most women do when asked what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:50 PM
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In my experience, women set the bar always just beyond what you’re able to give her. The idea that women have the ideal that, if it were just fulfilled, would satiate them eternally just doesn’t comport with current times. How many women stop buying clothes because they have enough. Stop posting selfies because they’ve taken enough? Stop looking for money because their partner makes enough? This idea of some sufficient ideal at which women are happy is actually more applicable with men; for men …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:57 PM
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I love how the female mind is one thar will make a bad man out of a man she deems weak, or rather, “nice”, but will perform all sorts of mental contortion to make a good man out of one that is objectively bad. If the bad guys you all actually dated are so good, then why do you have so many complaints about men in relationships? I really don’t think you all prescreen what you say because literally none of it makes sense. “Men are all users and abusers” yet “the nice guys who we don’t date are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:10 PM
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Society was kinda just fine and dandy before the feminism rolled around and started hiking the divorce rates, and single-motherhood rates (and all the drub abuse, domestic violence, suicide, incarceration, and depression that comes about because of single-motherhood). I mean it’s kind of hard to divorce how shitty things are today in society from feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:00 AM
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I really don’t think you understand the paradoxical nature of women. Every man who is a genuinely good guy has a story of a woman cheating on and leaving him for another guy who did far less for her. This says one thing to anything thinking man: “What am I trying for then?” Women literally encourage the low effort they say that hate in men by only going for men who put in low effort. I can’t stress this enough, if I had to give directions to a guy on how to ruin a relationship, I would tell him …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:55 AM
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I think it’s fair. Women expect every man to be rich, tall, handsome and buff...porn isn’t that difficult to emulate. Do you know how hard it is to make even $10k a month if you’re a man and can’t sell pics of your feet for $25 each? You can’t change your height or looks if you’re a guy. You know how hard it is to get buff? Working out will make you toned, but any even moderate addition of muscle requires substances. Keep in mind, the “buff” guys you see are all on roids. I don’t care if you’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:46 AM
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This coming from a modern woman? Modern woman don’t and can’t cook, won’t clean, are overweight, are promiscuous, are disloyal, dishonest, are are practically just audience members in a relationship where the man must essentially put on a better show than any and every other guy if he wants to keep her there. Listen, the idea that a man is supposed to go work his ass off 24/7 throwing his life away to finance your superficial, incredibly vain dreams of lavish living that are only a testament to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:25 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsnPjyfBUNU It's basic psychology. Given the risk of child-bearing and the dangers inherent in life, women want the most valued man. Given the reality of effort typically being the requisite for all things worth obtaining, the man whose commitment lies furthest beyond a woman's ability to attain it per and despite her efforts, is deemed most valuable by her. This means that - and as the dejection-born reiterations of "80/20", "AF/BB", and "nice guys finish last" t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:43 AM
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Not true. There's this notion that it's guyl men who struggle with dating. I know 6'2, fit, tatted, above-average looking guys who don't get any attention at all. I think the "pizza face" guys are just the loudest online because they tend to be the only ones in these spaces. But no, it's actually women who are the delusional ones when it comes to leagues. Men know quite well if a woman is out of their league. It's the women however that all want millionaires who look like Chris Hemsworth. As a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:57 AM
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Legendary response. This sums it up perfectly. You have an uncanny ability to explain complex things in very candid and clear ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:51 AM
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That's the problem, it's assumed that the purpose for living is to become some financial mogul. While women, due to their innate and undying since of insecurity, see money as the end of all means, men typically see money as a means to an end. It's not that most men don't care about themselves, it's that if an apartment will suffice, why slave more of your life away so you can afford a mansion, which is in essence just multiple apartments in one? In short, I don't want to become a billionaire. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:38 AM
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You're wrong. It's very rare to find a top 10% guy in his twenties, or at any age for that matter, who actually wants to settle down. The bottom 90% of men will settle down in a heartbeat because most of them don't have any options when it comes to women. Many of them don't (after they've experienced female nature) because they understand that for an occasional undercooked cheeseburger, seldom and eventually non-existent sex, and a minor tax-benefit...working your ass off to... make sure you mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:10 PM
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The idea of "constant improvement" is one that women entertain but isn't really reasonable. No one improves constantly, nor is life an improvement marathon. I think it would do women good to understand that for the vast majority of men, no care in the world exists beyond having their immediate bills paid. A Gulfstream priate jet or a piece of the Virgin Islands is something women want so they can feel so far from poverty that it's not even a remote possibility...and while most men might think it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:53 PM
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You want a guy who thinks of you and only you and will always and forever, every waking second of his life, only think of you as the object of his sexual affection above all other women. That guy doesn't exist. No such person exists. So many of you want a guy who is indefinitely infatuated with you but are turned off by the dependence on you that being with such a man would entail. The crux of a woman's attraction is to a man's indepdence, and that his prowess in being so is such that he can not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:06 PM
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Okay then, get with a guy who doesn't have options. You're asking men to display constraint that you don't even display. Basically - and this is every woman's complaint - "it's okay for me to cheat on and just not date certain men because I have better options than them, but when I finally swing out of my league and find a guy who has better options than me, it's not okay for him to cheat on and/or leave me". Then don't do realtionships. You're not suitable for an LTR anyway just hearing your mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:03 AM
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I mean, AF/BB is the default anyway. Women are hard-wired to do that. I'm talking about the AF you're trying to make into your forever AF/AB. That guy is going to have sexual options, and his exploration of those won't interfere with the relationship he as with you SO LONG AS you let him be and make aren't quarrelsome with him. Look, the brutally honest truth is that men's reproductive strategy is quantiy, and women's is quality. -You want a guy who has done the work to get an abundance of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:43 AM
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> Why can't we see couples like that though? You claim that that's the benefit, yet I see guys trading in their wife for someone younger the moment they make it. Men that don't...are an exception. Let me explain something to you. Women cheat because they're priming a new man in order to leave the one they have. Men screw other women (I purposefully didn't call it cheating) because we're sexually interested in them. Recap, women cheat because they're priming another man for a relationship, men sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:05 AM
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Well, men want to get together with a girl and grow together and have experiences together. That's all nice so far. We want that too. It seems whenever a woman gets that she quickly trades for the guy who is already established. The problem I hear from so many men is that women are skiddish. They don't stick around. The better you treat them, the more likely they are to leave; likewise, they hate poor treatment as well. The common complaint among men is "hypergamy", and that women use men almost…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:29 AM
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>What young men (under 25) want... Is not unreasonable on it's own, but it's unreasonable to expect women to play along with it. Explain please >And what I've personally noticed, that's never used in an argument, is that the woman counterparts of the sexless guys (the silent book readers, the arts and crafts girls, the autistic girls, the introverted, ...), aren't dating. At all. It's the other women that are dating and going after Chad and etc.. They wouldn't be relevant in this discussion then…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:19 PM
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Because what you and I see as a dagger in the heart of society, i.e the destruction of the family, is, to most, who don’t understand it’s importance, and impediment to freedom. You’ll find among the unruly is a gross misunderstanding or sheer lack of knowledge for rules and how they work to maintain a level of decency, and why said decency is important to maintain. But this conversation is bound to get us both suspensions so I’m done after your next comment. We can carry on in private if you’d l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:30 PM
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I’ll say this to avoid triggering people...our forefathers weren’t idiots. Not all curtailments of freedoms were born of oppression for the sake of oppression. As a matter of fact, absolute freedom is the harbinger of chaos, and chaos, the antithesis of society. As a matter of fact, what truly is a society but for a set of people organized by a set of rules, and what are rules but for the curtailment of freedom? The idea is to balance both freedom and rule, and I’m afraid the scale is tipping a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:04 PM
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I don’t think what men want is unreasonable. I think that due to the reproductive strategies of men and women, men seeking quantity and women seeking quality, combined with modern technology, you have a situation in which women have an abundance of male options from which they only choose the best, and the “quantity” imperative of the men they choose means that these men will not commitment, subjecting most women to chase these men in perpetuity, and most men to chase those women in perpetuity. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:43 PM
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I disagree. It depends. Is it selfish for a man to only worry about himself given the mysticism behind the female orgasm? Like, you and I go camping or hiking and the agreement is that you help me if I fall along the trail and I help you should the same happen. You fall once and I help you, but you’re fine thereafter. On the other hand, I fall time and time and time again, ruining our progress and the time in general. You chalk it up to “a bad day” and you decide to go hiking with me again. Same…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:28 PM
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I don’t think it’s that men are bad in bed. It takes a PhD to get women aroused, and most of the time it has to do with how a woman sees the man. For example, a woman who doesn’t see a man as “alpha” isn’t going to be that aroused during intercourse with him. Take 50 Shades of Gray. It was the man’s dominance throughout his non-sexual life that made him the object of her arousal. So for women, the sex scene is never ending, it’s the ephemeral culmination of everything that man has been to that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:03 PM
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