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| 4 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedThis, guys, is way too ‘this guys’ much for this guy | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?Mostly I pay attention to when she moans or pants or arches her back and then I memorize that location. Move on, find more spots. Return later and try new things with that area. Rinse and repeat | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | For guys, why do you want a woman?She can bring joy to my life, I feel a sweeter safety with a woman that with a man | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineWell, try to have some curiosity for that feeling. It bothers you, how? Dig deeper and see what is there. For instance, due you feel disgust for her having slept with him or jealousy or embarrassment? | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 02:16 AM |
| 3 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?Good question. Your arm can be the judge. The point of it is more about her getting the shock and awe of being slammed into a wall than going for actual force. If a light bump is enough to get her hot and bothered so be it. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 09:01 PM |
| 17 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?Yeah, be sure to get an idea of what she is okay with and what is not acceptable. The lady I was with did not want marks on her body and nothing with anal. So me being selfish in those ways would be BAD Also, being wanted and desired is a huge turn on so make clear your desire. Being selfish is one way of showing that. Oh! Pro tip on how to slam a woman into a wall: With my right arm, I cup my hand around the back of her head while my forearm goes down her back so that my arm is between her and … | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 05:13 PM |
| 4 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?Ian Kerner’s book She Comes First can point out all the sexy bits are and how to please them | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 04:45 PM |
| 34 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?Maybe don’t think of it as being rough, but approach it from an angle of being selfish. You are going to be selfish with her body. Making out when suddenly you want to smack her butt, then turn her around push her against a wall and smack that butt. She is sucking your cock when all you can think about is playing with her breast and nipples? Be selfish. Be demanding. Add in blindfolds and you got yourself a killer combo. Other than that, read books on cunnilingus Your desire inflamed her desire … | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Everyone thinks I’m a player but its the total opposite.My friend group from college thought I was skilled with the ladies but I was just had dopey golden retriever energy | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 09:55 PM |
| 12 | Everyone thinks I’m a player but its the total opposite.Amplify and make a joke out of it Oh Greg, you player you probably got a lady for this weekend “Oh for sure, I’ve about twenty ladies lined up for the weekend alone but it’s been a slow week what can ya do?” | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Sexual techqniues: best books?I’ve read it multiple times. It took me from “I’m sure the clit is real I guess?” to know where all the sensitive parts are and how to touch and tease them. It taught me to better understand how female pleasure, sex, intimacy works for the ladies. It gave me a basic game plan to oral sex. Lick in groups of 4 and then change it up for 4 licks etc etc. it taught me what types of licks to do to a lady From doing an upper case T to licking half way then dotting the i on her clit. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Sexual techqniues: best books?By Ian Kerner | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 03:46 PM |
| 12 | Wtf is up with bumble in Latin Americame shocked into rethinking my plan to move to south america | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Probability that girls in the range of 5-7 would be interested in me.Bruv, don’t measure women on a scale of 1-10. That is immature. If you aren’t attracted to someone then that’s a 0 If you ARE attracted then that is a 1 | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when she says "I don't want to ruin our friendship"It could be that she is worried that you will change after having sex with her. Perhaps a lot of men she has met treat her differently after sex and dating. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 04:20 PM |
| 0 | Is it weird that Im 18, don't text women at all, never had a first kiss or anything?Nope. Not weird. I didn’t have my first kiss till I was 19 and I didn’t have my first date until I was a junior year of college, 21. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Attraction fundamentalsI’ll be looking up David Hawkins and getting a book of his. Any recommendations? I’m leanin towards Letting Go cause that seems a a good fit for my life | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Keep struggling with building sexual tension/going past friendly vibesYou have “so much self concern” eating up your bandwidth is a great observation and one that applies to me. Thanks for the post and the advice! | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Do girls like it when a guy is checking her body out during flirting/vibing?Looking back I have friendzoned so any women by accident | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Do girls like it when a guy is checking her body out during flirting/vibing?No joke, innocent boy I used to believed that women would appreciate me not staring at their breasts until we were intimate. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Do girls like it when a guy is checking her body out during flirting/vibing?Oh. Oh no. For some reason I thought women would really appreciate it if I studiously avoid ogling their breast at all time. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 10:54 PM |
| 2 | I'm 29, and pulled a 9/10 18yo while in Aspen, feeling guilty and a bit depressedJust follow the “Campsite Rule” and you are doing fine. Leave people younger than you better than you found them. For what it is worth: When I was in my early 20s a woman in her 30s pursued me and well, she showed me some amazing times. She was great to me and helped me learn a lot about sexuality and my own self. I’m sorry you are feeling like crap over this. You don’t deserve to feel like that. | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm 29, and pulled a 9/10 18yo while in Aspen, feeling guilty and a bit depressedTotally easy to understand. Key questions I have: how did you treat her? If she walked away feeling uncomfortable then you definitely did something wrong, but if she walks away with a smile… | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 02:23 PM |
| 7 | I feel like a fake alpha at workHey, 40 yr old here. I grew up with only the most try hard of tryhards calling themselves Alphas and usually as a way of explaining asshole behaviors. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 10:33 PM |
| 4 | I feel like a fake alpha at workYou forgot Turbo Dudes who are above alpha cucks and beta cucks | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 10:30 PM |
| 14 | What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriend“Does your bf cry? I’m crying right now” | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you make women seduce you? Like yeah game is about seducting them, but how do you make them like you, makes moves on you and seduce you?This happened to me all the time…. because I was so oblivious to women’s interest that the only way I got action was from a lady making the first move. Not a good plan on my part. | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Dude here and I’ve acted the same way towards women. In the bar setting I’m filled with lots of nervous anxious energy so I am more active. When I’d meet up with the lady after in a non bar setting I’d be so low energy. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?You can only control your own behavior. Be a good dude. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 01:40 PM |
| 3 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowIt’s either fuck yes or fuck no If you aren’t responding “fuck yeah I want to hang out with them!” then you are a no. If they are not acting like “fuck yeah I want to hang out with him!” then she is a no. | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 07:37 PM |
| 9 | Having a hard time getting back after a messy breakupProgress not perfection. You have made a TON of progress and you should be proud of yourself. Not everyone can make those positive changes. The good lord knows I wish I took after you more. Start small and make progress. Maybe focus on making small talk with cashiers etc. or make a point of making eye contact with women on the street and smile. (No leering. Leering bad. Bad) Also, don’t be afraid to tell the lady. If you are dating or flirting and you two are vibing, be upfront and confident abo… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to have boners while talking to or hugging or playing with a girl that you know?It’s ok and normal. First figure out your comfort level. If you don’t like your boner being visible then follow your Deflation Protocol. If you don’t mind it that’s fine as well. Just don’t be rubbing it up against people. If during the wrestling or such the other person brushes against it just be calm and civil. “Oh, that thing gets carried away. If it’s a bother then we should talk about baseball for five minutes. Should do the trick. 😉” | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Is it okay to have boners while talking to or hugging or playing with a girl that you know?No matter who wins, we lose. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 05:36 PM |
| 4 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Dude here No joke: In my youth I took that to be an ironclad agreement from the woman and I would insist on it being followed. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | all that glitters is not goldKissing varies culture to culture. Some cultures view it as weird and unneeded. Others view it as an important part of intimacy. So nothing broken or wrong with you on that account. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 05:32 PM |
| 3 | What lesson took you the longest to unlearn ?That I should just talk to women normally. Like, I can talk with them the same way I chat with guys and women will like it. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Did my first cold approach todayDude, that is so cool. Good on you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | how do you respond to a girl saying "I like my men black"“Cool. Weird thing to lead with though.” | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Way too scared.Hey man, I’m the same way. For me, it is body shame bad having a hard time accepting that women can find me sexy. Here is the thing, women can love vulnerability. So you could tell her something like “look, I find you really attractive and I am having a great time with (you are fun, funny, a great person etc) but… I still get super nervous around you sometimes. So if I act weird or goofy, just know it’s cause I’m nervous. Hopefully, I’ll relax after a bit” Most chicks will really appreciate that… | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How can I escalate on girls at a college party?Shush up with that negative self talk. My whole life I have struggled with body shame and not thinking Women would find me sexy. Here is the thing about how you THINK women view men: you are probably wrong. They find all kinds of things and people sexy. Despite how low I viewed my appearance, some women found me super sexy and wanted to sex me up. I couldn’t believe that they could find me that sexy. But they did. Yeah, being classically good looking helps. Being athletic can help. But that shit… | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 07:24 PM |
| 13 | How can I escalate on girls at a college party?Escalate the physical touch. Touching arms then backs then the lower back. While always making sure the other person is into it. And if things are going well, you can say how you are feeling or your desires “Your ass is driving me wild right now” “Your lips are so sexy” “I want to kiss you right now” shrug | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Advice neededHmmmmm. A bit of wrinkle there. Look, I ain’t an expert. But a nice casual text ‘hey, how was your birthday? A good time?’ Etc might be good. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Advice neededLook up mark manson on the internet. He has good advice. Idea: if you see her on the campus, ask how her birthday was? Did she have fun etc. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:22 PM |
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