Jrummps Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	I FINALLY made my first approach today & I would love to hear some feedback!	Conversation	Jrummps	/r/seduction	20/03/22 02:39 AM
2	Girl from my hometown just moved to my area — how do I avoid the friendzone?	Escalation & Calibration	Jrummps	/r/seduction	18/01/22 02:40 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I FINALLY made my first approach today & I would love to hear some feedback! Believe it or not, I truly actually needed a fresh set of eyes to judge the skin tone lmao, so everything I said to her was true. Granted, I’d normally just send it to a friend. But also, you’re completely right. I didn’t really set any precedence of being attracted to her. Something to work on forsure, thank you!	/r/seduction	20/03/22 08:15 PM
3	I FINALLY made my first approach today & I would love to hear some feedback! That’s a good point. I may have painted the wrong picture — I came up and approached her and asked for her opinion on my photo before leading her a few feet back to my table. With that in mind, does your comment still stand? I will admit, I didn’t bring my Macbook to her out of pure laziness due to the tools I had plugged in lol	/r/seduction	20/03/22 03:07 AM
3	Does sex really ever 'just happen'? I’m a guy who has way more platonic girl friends than I do guy friends, and I can confidently say that it’s done much more harm than good. Yeah, you’ll have your friends… but your friends have other friends that you might meet at a social function. If you’re fun to be around and a genuinely good person, your girl friends will often support you & butter you up to one of their friends/acquaintances that you think is cute. Social circle is huge. It’s all about playing your cards right and being cha…	/r/seduction	10/02/22 08:41 AM
1	[deleted by user] “I’m a lot happier with how I looked growing up, and I’m glad it took the steps to get there”	/r/seduction	25/01/22 08:08 AM
16	When cold approaching, why telling a girl that she is cute is a bad idea? He may not have found it yet, but hey, he did find us what not to do!	/r/seduction	25/01/22 08:07 AM
1	Girl from my hometown just moved to my area — how do I avoid the friendzone? I definitely know that I could do better with sexual flirting. I mean, I do that quite well when it’s someone where sexual energy/desire has already been established. But I hear way too often from my girl friends about how so many men are creepy or just want sex. I think I have a fear of coming across in that way, even though I know (and have been told) that I have no creepy energy at all. Any tips on how to comfortably flirt sexually with someone whom I’m not positive is initially into it? I un…	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:07 AM
1	Is caffeine the worst drug for game? Only if done very sparingly. But do not rely on it for dating, or you will likely start to use it more & more. This is not a road you’ll want to go down, and I promise that the negative effects of caffeine pale in comparison to what kratom can have on your health, testosterone levels, emotions, etc. l just felt the need to give this PSA. I first took kratom when I saw people on Reddit singing it’s praises. Still struggling 4 years and countless quit attempts in, and I can confidently say that kr…	/r/seduction	17/01/22 09:33 AM
4	My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidence When you told that story, my mind instantly went to this girl I knew in college. After falling for it, I immediately realized she acts the same way to other men, which leads them to the same position. It’s fucked up. It’s always the ~artsy~ girls for me. Or maybe it’s just because they’re my biggest weakness.	/r/seduction	17/01/22 09:04 AM
53	Eye contact during sex I’m a guy, and I think eye contact during sex is hot as shit… when you do it at the right times. Oftentimes with my face real close to theirs, I’ll look deep in their eyes right as I’m about to be deep in other places… or when I’m about to be a little more aggressive. When done right, it exudes power and confidence. This drives them fucking crazy and that alone makes it hot. It’s a win-win because when a girl is turned on and actually engaged in sex, it will make it so much better for the both o…	/r/seduction	03/01/22 08:47 AM
2	First party No wonder why they named you the best seducer in Canada! This shit is genius!	/r/seduction	31/12/21 08:23 AM
3	I am so invested in myself that I have no energy left for dating My best relationship happened when neither of us were looking for a relationship. When people are happy & fulfilled with their lives, they naturally attract good things. I feel like I often see the best relationships coming out not nowhere, rather when chasing people with even a hint of desperation.	/r/seduction	20/12/21 08:32 AM
6	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm I used to ask myself the same question of how to jump from those points… lmao I still sometimes do. But like everything else - baby steps by breaking the touch barrier. Start with something innocent. Maybe placing your hand on her knee, or grabbing her hand to look at it or ‘compare it to yours’ and then use that as an opportunity to start holding her hand. The trick is, to do these small physical gestures and see how they react. If they did not want to be touched, they will pull away or suddenl…	/r/seduction	07/12/21 09:23 AM
2	Having passions and hobbies is crucial for self-confidence. Don’t put women at the center of your universe This is 100% me. A year & a half ago (I’m 24) and my ex of 3 years and I broke up. Since I dabbled in it a bit in high school and & had the camera, I decided to pick up photography. Instantly fell in love with it. I have grown so much in the past 1.5 of shooting portraits, and my work is more fulfilling than a relationship. And now, women are a hell of a lot more magnetized to them. In hindsight, I realized I was always subconsciously looking for a relationship or the next “fling”. I didn’t real…	/r/seduction	04/12/21 11:33 AM
9	[deleted by user] I always strive to dress well pretty much anytime I’m in public - especially in social situations/dates, but even if I’m taking a 10 minute trip to the dispensary. Believe it or not, as much as I love attention (lol) it’s got absolutely nothing to do with the validation of others. But the reason I do it? For myself. When I dress good, I feel good. I have confidence. The confidence I get from dressing nice FAR outweighs how others see me, and the feeling of it on its own is better than attention …	/r/seduction	27/11/21 10:50 AM
3	Is she just a bad texter? Not OP, but your comment just helped me a lot. Recently messaged a mutual from Twitter that I have never met/talked to before, but is insanely attractive. I asked her on a date. She said yes, and seemed excited and enthusiastic about it. But since, she has been terrible with texting…like a day or so in responses. I’m perfectly happy & fulfilled with or without her, but it‘s been confusing to me — my intentions were clear, and she texted me when I gave her my number for the purpose of planning a …	/r/seduction	25/11/21 08:48 AM
8	I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindset I’m with you on here. I used to have a bunch of random hookups, but it made me feel icky. Even if I’m not looking for a relationship, I still need to have a genuine and fun connection with somebody before I decide whether I will have sex with them.	/r/seduction	19/11/21 07:32 AM
5	[deleted by user] This is king shit right here. And I’ll bet there’s a good chance you attract more women there by having fun than the other guys do, being focused on women.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 06:49 AM
1	Why you should never fear hearing the word 'No,' and why it can often be the best place to start a conversation. I immediately knew exactly who you were talking about. I’ve seen the Instagram ad for his Masterclass one too many times.	/r/seduction	16/11/21 06:53 AM
2	How to Take Better Tinder Photos I’d still go a bit higher than that tbh, maybe $50-80 to start with. If you consistently are booking clients, keep slowly upping the price over time, until you’re not jam packed with bookings anymore. I mean $40 still $40, and you know best; I obviously haven’t seen your work. But since you indicate that you’re good with a camera — I would absolutely charge more, my fried! Don’t undersell yourself, and keep in mind that having it that cheap may deter people, just because the perceived value is w…	/r/seduction	16/11/21 06:38 AM
1	How to Take Better Tinder Photos Absolutely, go for it! It took a long time of friends/other photographers yelling at me to charge & charge more for my photoshoots. Because it’s a passion for me, it felt wrong to charge people — but if you’ve got the skills, and you use them, absolutely go for it! It’s a great way to make extra income, and a great way to meet new people if you’re outgoing and friendly! If your demographics are mainly college-aged, you might have to start a bit lower on the pricing and work your way up. A lot of…	/r/seduction	16/11/21 06:29 AM
2	How to Take Better Tinder Photos Haha, I was definitely being sarcastic. But I shoot with a Canon Rebel, which is pretty entry-level. You definitely don’t need to get a nice camera. But if you actually wanted to make money, you will have to invest in a nice lens, as the stock lens will not cut it. If you want to get one because of OP’s post, then go for it. You’ll likely find out that other than a blurred background, the photos will not look much nicer than you can take on your phone. If you were being serious about making mone…	/r/seduction	15/11/21 08:24 AM
8	How to Take Better Tinder Photos Well, shit dude. If the bar is so low, you should spend a few thousand on some good equipment. You’ll be amazed at how fast it’ll pay itself off, and how quickly you’ll become rich from doing so! You got this, buddy! Excited to see the art you’re producing next month!	/r/seduction	15/11/21 08:12 AM
10	How to Take Better Tinder Photos It’s a whole lot more work than just having a nice camera and pressing a button. If you aren’t genuinely passionate about it, you will likely lose interest well before you make a single dollar. You’ve gotta learn posing & what looks good with different body types, lighting, composition, and a whole list of other things. Not to mention editing on Photoshop/Lightroom/etc, which is a whole different ballpark. This is not to discourage, but to explain how photography is a lot more work than what oth…	/r/seduction	15/11/21 08:04 AM
10	How to Take Better Tinder Photos $20 likely won’t get you anything, unless they’re a good friend or don’t know how to use their camera. My rates are around $150-175/hr, or $220+ if you want an hour and a half with more than one location & outfit. If you go this route, expect to pay a lot more than $20. I know my rates may seem high to you, but mine are actually on the lower end of things. I take good looking photos, but I am not a professional by any means.	/r/seduction	15/11/21 07:50 AM
12	How to Take Better Tinder Photos This may be biased, because I’m a portrait photographer, but this is the best option. This is not to say that the photos you’d take wouldn’t look good. But a good photographer will take photos that make you look AND feel amazing, it’ll save you & your friends a lot of time, and you’ll be supporting a local artist. I’ve had clients book me just to up their Tinder game, and I have heard good things from them.	/r/seduction	15/11/21 07:05 AM
4	How can I overcome my fear of coming off as a creep? I appreciate you asking this, because I’m right there with you. I’ve been told by everybody that I have very good & non-creepy energy, but I’m still so scared to approach girls because I would never want to be seen as a creep. Even if I think I’m getting small hints, I have a difficult time making that first move. Women deal with enough shitty/creepy guys, I don’t want to unintentionally feel like one of them.	/r/seduction	23/08/21 06:42 AM