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Jsteezy47/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 06:37 PM
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This comment is so important. Although I’m neurotypical, the subtle rules around flirting and relationships was something that was very confusing to me. Even though I was able to attract women I would come off too strong and they would end up leaving. Some people need more rigid rules and since I’m a slow/methodical learner, the red pill was attractive to me at one point. But similar to yourself, being a leftist and knowing a lot about feminism deep down I knew the redpill was flawed. The redpil…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 03:33 PM
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Honestly it’s not easy but I’ve learned to forgive myself. My self reflection and introspection is what made me aware of my past actions, it’s natural to be ashamed of it. For me I got screwed over by women a bunch of times (not to sound bitter but it’s true) and eventually that made the redpill more susceptible to me. It was natural for me to feel bitter and jaded bc of past wrongdoings and the redpill played on that. Making me add to the toxicity through being a fuckboy and very dishonest. As …
/r/ExRedPill08/09/24 03:46 PM
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As fucked as it sounds, dating nowadays is hookup culture for most people. I started out in a long term relationship but once I started dating again I saw that the casual things is more common. Eventually feels can develop and sometimes it’s mutual; tbh en a real relationship can form. But I would say that a lot of men don’t engage in it because you have to put yourself out there. Like as messed up as it sounds you definitely have to meet a looks threshold, not come off to strong and be a fun pe…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 04:27 PM
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Really needed this, thank you
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 10:13 PM
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Exactly like that’s a situation I’ve dealt with in the past and I feel guilty about hurting someone in that way, they told me they were okay with something casual when they really weren’t. The thing is I’ve been dating casually for a while but this girl is different. She brings out a side of me that’s feels so natural and I see things going far with her and also I’m not dating anyone else. I dont plan on doing so either. Essentially I just want to make sure I’m truly ready for something long ter…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 09:13 PM
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To answer your questions I’ve never been the type to be controlling as I’ve seen that happen in real life with family members. The thing is at first I was just dating casually but meeting her I grew feelings and now I’m really thinking about something long term. I just want to truly make sure this is what u want before saying so, if that makes sense
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 09:07 PM
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Exactly 😂 it may not be romantic but it’s better to be clear about these things. Your perspective on this really helped
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 07:37 PM
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Yeah you’re so right about that. Like I even said that myself, that dating is a risk and getting hurt could happen. I’ve just never dealt with someone in this way before. Dating now is like hookup culture so seeing her in this way has been nice but it’s different to me. I guess we’ll see how things go but I really appreciate your perspective
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 07:33 PM
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I appreciate the comment because that’s what I’ve been thinking but I’ve been unsure. Like play it by ear and just see where things naturally go. I think being straight forward and asking her what she wants out of this is best. Because she really likes me and I really like her but I just don’t want to say I want I relationship and then realize it’s not for me.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 07:31 PM
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This one is tough. Like someone else mentioned he probably needs deep psychological help and deradicalization is a tough path. For me it’s a process of going back and forth with the ideology because some things they speak about are just common dating advice, working social skills and confidence. While other redpill talking points are just toxic and misogynistic so it could be hard for someone to distinguish between the two. What helped me is being a little older and knowing how I felt positively…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 06:20 PM
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