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He did, in one of the most awkward ways. He called me up and asked me to do a disciplinary. I asked what it involved and he said it was a member of the team who had been sexually harassed (the Romanian girl). I basically had to say that I couldn't do the disciplinary. When he asked why, I had to explain that we had been speaking in a 'non working capacity.' He knew immediately what I meant, because he went quiet on the phone. Thanked me for the honesty and then didn't speak with me for about 3 w…
/r/seduction27/04/26 08:55 AM
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I have a similar story..I actually met a girl on a date that was fairly average looking but seemed nice over text. She ended up seeing me, and staying glued to her phone before heading into a nearby McDonalds toilet and texting me to tell me to go home. Basicaly binning off the date. It was the first time I had basically been told to go. You'd think it would be crushing. But I ended up meeting a SMOKING hot Romanian girl at business meeting. Completely unknown to me that my boss fancied this gir…
/r/seduction26/04/26 10:36 PM
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Before she did that she sat on her phone for 10 minutes while I was trying to initiate openening conversation. Tbh whatever she was going through was her issue to deal with. It was pretty clear rejection to me. And I didn't go a second time.
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:52 AM
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I was speaking with a girl online about 14 years ago (plenty of fish - dating cesspool) before the time of dating apps. We met. Started to walk.. and she walked into the nearest McDonald's toilet and text me from the toilet telling me to go home and that she wasn't up for it. I waited for her to come out and she blanked me and walked off. The later text me again asking for a second chance.
/r/seduction21/04/26 02:01 PM
24

Slavic/eastern European usually. And sometimes east Asia. I've always had these experiences with eastern European women.
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:40 PM
43

Wtf is a performative man?
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:36 PM
3

You answered your own question. I asked my gf for an anecdotal answer and she said it's revolting. Take that as you will.
/r/seduction06/04/26 11:50 PM
1

Your first mistake was responding to her flaking.
/r/seduction13/09/25 11:18 AM
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Nope, I'm on the other end of the stick. I don't keep pictures or videos of exes, because when a relationship ends so does the consent. I'd generally expect that if they knew I still had videos they'd be pissed off. The amount of free porn online at any one moment means I don't need a validation tug looking at a mobile recording.
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:25 PM
12

You did nothing. You're still sat alone at home making up stories. Be better.
/r/seduction18/07/25 08:16 AM
5

You didn't start too late.. you just don't wanna be banging kids who can barely legally drink a beer.
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:33 AM
1

I think he did good Right. Long term is a pretty bad thing and it's going to drive away a huge quantity of girls. So which one is it? It can't be both.
/r/seduction01/07/25 06:31 AM
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If you both smoke, do it later when shes relaxed around you or when she suggests it. Don't make it part of your identity off the bat. You need to be interesting. What's interesting about getting stoned?
/r/seduction30/06/25 10:34 PM
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Suggesting you smoke a joint at your place makes you seem low value. That's absolutely not something you lead with. There's a thousand bum ass stoners out there looking for that. No wonder she deflected.
/r/seduction30/06/25 09:44 PM
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'how do you pull her back in'.. Dude seriously. You don't. This sounds ultra begatron. Move on and find somebody else. Sometimes you win and sometimes you don't. Rejection breeds obsession. Nobody wants the obsessed guy.
/r/seduction26/06/25 01:21 PM
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😭😭🤣🤣
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:17 PM
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So much fucking waffle here. That's not how relationships work. Yes.. it is. That's how the majority of relationships work. That's engrained into the majority of cultures. Couples who are non-manogomous are the minority, because you cannot always find safety, comfort and stability in relationships that are open. You have to be thoroughly comfortable with it. You've said a lot here without really saying anything at all.
/r/seduction24/05/25 10:34 AM
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I think it was a combination of me being the centre of attention. Bosses talking about my boxing.. girls trying to talk to me to get to know me. I kept my answers quite vague. She asked how long I boxed, I just said years. If i'd ever fought. I said I've won a few titles here and there. We chatted about music taste, found some similar bands, I'd seen them live. She asked me about work, I said I had a great team and moved the topic onto herself. Women love talking about themselves most of the tim…
/r/seduction20/05/25 10:06 PM
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Yes. I've done this several times. A few experiences below. Actually banged a manager from another site who my boss fancied for ages. That one was awkward when it came out. We were seeing each other outside of work for a couple of months. She was smoking, eastern European girl. I probably fucked up by giving her way too much validation towards the end, and she went cold. I was fairly honest about how hot I thought she was after a couple of months and it was like a switch flipped. At the begining…
/r/seduction20/05/25 06:06 PM
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A lot of men can't get laid because we've entered the generation of the internet, where millions of young adults didn't develop social skills, and spend every waking moment wanking over porn and communicating with women over WhatsApp and tinder. It takes actual social skills, that many of us developed in school. We would hang out with girls at 14/15/16 years old and into young adulthood developing a skillset that is drastically fading. I was at a bar the other week and there were entire bunches …
/r/seduction13/05/25 11:20 PM
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100
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:22 PM
7

Also - if she does like you and does most of the above. She likes to play games and is generally immature.
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:19 PM
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Honestly, I think a lot of Brits are just quite witty. We have a good level of dry humour that's often lost overseas. I'm not sure what country you're based in. But culturally here, you can border between being funny and offensive and it works well. He's just quick witted, and sharp with comments in the way a comedian is right off the bat. The key is to never let conversation be boring.
/r/seduction28/04/25 10:54 AM
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Either be rich or be funny. I have a mate who bangs 10s regular. Dude is fucking hilarious and has girls eating out his hands in tears on a night out. He's also fat as fuck. Funny gets fanny is a saying in the UK. Fanny (in UK) is a vagina to our American brothers.
/r/seduction28/04/25 08:41 AM
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Christ. Just tell him. Are we really at a point where people can't communicate.
/r/seduction28/04/25 12:01 AM
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Did you miss the part where she was on her phone for 20 minutes? She was an ignorant fuck. Sat there staring at her screen in a chair not interested in talking with me sitting there like a lemon trying to get her to talk. Was on her phone from before I met her to when she was leaving. You can read body language when people are rude or just disinterested. She did me a favour
/r/seduction20/04/25 09:28 AM
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Nah, I'm not about to have my time wasted and then crawl back..maybe it would have been fine or maybe she's a genuine nut case or got some other issues going on. I really don't care enough. There's plenty of women out there. Never will you catch me getting mugged off from a McDonalds and then try and make it work lmao
/r/seduction19/04/25 09:12 PM
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Went on a date with a girl. She spent 20 minutes on her phone, Went into the nearest McDonalds to use the toilet and text me from the toilet telling me to go home. (The date wasn't at McDonald's) Waited for her to come out and she blanked me and walked off. Had the audacity to text me a few days later asking if we could do it again. Also got stood up twice. Shit happens when you're going on dates. Both times I still went out and ate food on my own. I'm comfortable in my own space so it's not a n…
/r/seduction19/04/25 08:56 PM
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This sort of thing is only going to get worse and create a larger divide. I work with a team of which some of the guys are younger generation (early 20s). Have zero social skills because they spend all their time chatting to women on tinder and WhatsApp. When we were younger teens from 15-23 all our socialising with the opposite sex was done in person. It's a generational issue that's creating a flood of frightened kids who can't socialise. Social media is the death of day/night game. Easy picki…
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:00 AM
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So you're asking how you meet introverted, good looking humble women who don't use social media while also being too scared to approach them in the day? Well then the obvious answer is that you don't. You're not finding them on a night out and you're not finding them on social media. The only other option is to sign up for book reading classes or baking classes etc and try and meet them through a mutual subject.
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:22 AM
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My girl is a gym girl. Helps that I've been in sports for 19 years with a few dozen competitive boxing matches behind me. She actually approached me on insta to train with her. Best way to go about it is to present that sort of lifestyle as genuine. Most gym girls get hit up allll the time. But they will always want the one who's not a needy bitch and looks like he's doing his thing. Build up a relationship slowly over time. You don't wanna be the thirsty boy who's right in her DMs like everybod…
/r/seduction15/04/25 08:53 PM
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What kind of bank app are you using that looks remotely like that? It looks like something from windows 98. I have three banking apps and they all look significantly higher end than the screenshots on your app, which looks a bit like a calculator app.
/r/seduction09/04/25 11:43 PM
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And it could be a friend of his, it could be that they have a three way dynamic. You can't possibly know he's cheating for sure. Somebody should be letting her know if that's the case. Then if she's single it's fair game. I'm all for guys gaming girls. But I rule people out who are in relationships because that's dickhead behaviour.
/r/seduction08/04/25 05:52 PM
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You don't. She has a boyfriend and it's not up to you to know if the information is correct. Could be hearsay. Don't be a prick. There's plenty of women. If she's single it's fair game. If not, don't try and sabotage a relationship because you want a quick bang and no commitment.
/r/seduction08/04/25 05:48 PM
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Sample size is too small. 75% of what? Weekends out? If you're out once a week, he's been laid a couple of times. Sometimes it's a flood and sometimes it's a drought. Everybody has good months and bad months. Chances are he's just had a bit of luck, and an increase in confidence can be a small boon that probably has a small measurable impact. 75% of 12 months, and I'd be asking for detailed field reports. But there's unlikely to be anything special going on. Summer is here, people are out more. …
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:40 PM
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Best case scenario, you avoided a nut case. Worst case scenario, you avoided a bumming up an alley somewhere. Be glad for it.
/r/seduction16/03/25 09:28 PM
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My favourite part about all these guys who have access to this magical technology that is literally gifting you opportunities to speak with women directly... somehow are so mad at it they seem to think if it didn't exist they'd have more success. Like no.. you'd still be sad wanking in your shower alone because you don't have the balls to do anything about it.
/r/seduction09/03/25 10:56 AM
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Only a reaaaal badman is tougher than the sun /s Muppet
/r/seduction27/02/25 08:17 AM
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This is the sort of question a virgin teen would ask having just read The Game by Neil Strauss.
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:21 PM
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There are two issues here that are separate. The first is that the world is a huge place. Stop looking at the girls around you in your tiny bubble. Young Gen Z, social media obsessed fashion teens worried about the latest iPhone. Money is only one indicator of success and this really doesn't matter. I've never paid over 60 for a pair of shoes in my life and I wear mainly unbranded, clean clothing that looks good and fits me. I couldn't give two shits about what silly brand name I have. If I like…
/r/seduction07/02/25 05:43 PM
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'i have trauma' Erghhhh
/r/seduction23/01/25 10:07 AM
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I understand it's hard. But I'll give you my two cents. Escaping the friend zone isn't a thing. I would say I've had an opportunity to sleep with nearly all of my female friends at various times in my life. We are all at different stages with different feelings. My two absolute closest female friends I've never done anything with. I consider them my best friends. One I had an open invite to have fun. It wasn't worth that for me because I genuinely value our friendships and I love a woman's persp…
/r/seduction22/01/25 01:02 PM
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Friend zone doesn't exist. This is what simps tell themselves to be angry at women who reject them or come across unavailable. Work on your mind set. She is in a relationship. Leave it alone and respect it. Find a way to deal with your feelings without making it relevant or you'll be seen as the creepy crush guy.
/r/seduction22/01/25 11:52 AM
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Have you made any attempt at all to look through the wealth of information on this sub?
/r/seduction22/01/25 03:54 AM
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she says not ready even tho has kissed other lads Then listen to what she is saying. She is 16 years old. You're both barely legal in most countries. I know you think you've got your shit figured out but a lot of people aren't ready to have sex at 15,16,18 or even 20. I get it. You've had hormones for all of 5 minutes. But chill out. You and your friends have been reading too much into gaming. Girls and men at that age are extremely immature for the most part. The psychology behind 'gaming' bare…
/r/seduction21/01/25 08:59 PM
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All that does is make you come across as an asshole. I'd ghost your ass if I was in her shoes. And I'm saying that as a guy.
/r/seduction06/11/24 01:31 PM
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This comes across like a humble brag from somebody who just got laid for the first time lmao
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:42 PM
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It's a way of being a creepy c*nt.
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:52 PM
1

'Recording it with a hidden camera' Dude... You need therapy.
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:54 PM
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You come across like a bit of a smarmy prick. I don't think this post is the flex you think it is.
/r/seduction02/09/24 10:45 AM
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I went on a stag with some guys abroad not long ago. Some guys don't even need to because they get approached. It's rare, but one of the guys was fairly wealthy. About 6'2, 9.5/10 looks and generally funny. But in a not cocky way. Talk about living life on easy mode. I don't think I've ever seen so many women throw themselves at a man.
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:46 PM
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Been with just over 20. 3 of these were imo well below what I would normally go for. And ultimately it was the worst sex out of everything I've ever experienced. Had to pretend I had work at 5am the next morning..walk her to the bus stop and then loop back round the block just to go back to sleep so I could get rid of her. I know that sounds horrible but she was really annoying and we had absolutely no compatibility.
/r/seduction13/07/23 10:52 PM
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Lmfao. America is multicultural. What a stupid statement.
/r/seduction05/10/22 08:17 PM
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Not sure if you're aware but Romania have some of the hottest women you'll ever see. The country is known for its beautiful women..Dark eyes, olive skin, perfectly perky boobs and ass, curvy hips and that sexy line down the abs. The culture is very much about keeping yourself healthy and looking your best. Not to mention the accent is one of the love languages.
/r/seduction03/10/22 06:38 PM
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Oh for sure. I think though for me as a male.. it was more shocking in my 30s that I could stay hard. For her it's like she's found a new toy. I think I'm so unbelievably attracted to her that I can't believe I'm actually fucking her. Feels odd to say but she just ticks something inside my brain that gets me going. I know women generally last longer than men as a rule.
/r/seduction03/10/22 06:35 PM
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I thought this until I recently met a Romanian 10 at work. She gets hit on all the time and has been single for a few years. We hit it off at works event.. and my god this girl can ride. I haven't been able to keep it up after an orgasm since I was 18. But she can go for like 45 to 60 minutes. I'm in my 30s now.
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:01 AM
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I've been there. If it's a morning wake up I just say I got work. Walk her to the bus stop and loop back round the block and go back to bed. If it's an immediate,you gotta go. I just text one of my boys (level 5). They know this means I need an out immediately. Fake work call. Sick relative. Whatever..but it's a strict code and we don't joke around using it. If that pops on my phone I'm calling my dude from his uncles hospital bed and vice versa. Had this girl who was a 10 in bed but dumb as bri…
/r/seduction09/07/22 12:48 AM
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You are correct. Society deems certain jobs as low value. This isn't fair and is often a result of circumstances out of your control. Good thing is you can work towards a higher value position and income. Also previous advice, don't shit where you sleep. I work as a manager in a corporate banking office with dozens of high powered women. It is the last place I want to be fucking women. You don't want it going around the workplace. Btw, I started at KFC as a cook and then was a window cleaner. I'…
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:54 AM
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I dated a girl early 20s who had a major thing for me. She was smoking hot. Once she said she'd fucked 60+ guys I had no interest in being serious. She said she couldn't have kids either. We fucked bare back for months. (The only time I've not used condoms outside of a serious relationship). A) it was the best sex I've ever had. B) I dodge a bullet because she's now a single mom. Lessons were learned.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:12 PM
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You've got about 48 hours before Agabolo from Zimbabwe starts asking if you invest in crypto while pretending to be a chick. I get this shit literally every 3 days. Crypto scammer, sugar momma scammer, porn site scammer, Only fans bot. Those are the main ones. The crypto ones will legit spend weeks trying to be authentic until they casually drop out that they know somebody who makes money through trades.
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:39 PM
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Utterly brain dead TV. Forget it. Don't read into anything you see. Not only are most of these deeply insecure on some level. It's also extremely fake and all for the camera. The reason the shows had so many suicides is because it is taking people who struggle with self worth. Making them celebrity's and the 12 months later they realise they are back to being useless again. It's also not about seduction. It's essentially a visual experiment with a bunch of egos locked in a house.
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:28 PM
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Not me personally. If there's no sexual attraction I couldn't care less. I'm not specifically looking for anything serious so I'm happy to enjoy company. But I can usually tell within 2 dates if there's sexual chemistry. I wouldn't begrudge anybody for moving fast though.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:08 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's just hook ups. There's 4 billion vaginas out there. None of them are special. Different if you're looking for a long term partner.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:02 PM
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My gf of 6 years was a lawyer. You are talking out of your ass. She does this weekly. We're still close friends. Your initial statement is incorrect.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:35 PM
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By understanding the worst a person can say is no. Then you never speak to or see them again anyway. Worst case scenario is that everything in your life stays exactly the same way it is now.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:22 PM
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The tinder algorithm is absolutely shit. When I recently installed it I had about 16 matches in a few days. I couldn't see who they were. I was offered a promo code to "see matches and be more visible". I'm going to Zante in a few days so thought why not, there's gotta be loads of girls there. Once I cleared out the matches it's been dry as fuck. I used a boost at peak time and not even one like. It's so obvious that tinder limits your profile. Now realising there's a premium plus category to fu…
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:00 PM
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Thanks. Would appreciate an award.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:21 AM
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Read my above comments.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:21 AM
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Did you read the OP? No normal functioning human meets somebody at a bar and comes back to sleep in a person's bed. It doesn't happen. Never have I met a person, flirted and thought "wow.. can't wait to sleep in your bed!" If you're not up for anything state it beforehand. If you're turned off excuse yourself from the situation. Maybe you've come on your period. No problem, just explain it. Going back after a bar is a hook up. Otherwise just exchange numbers and not waste somebody's time. Its hi…
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:15 AM
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Stop.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:01 AM
1

He's hooking up. Not marrying them. Go and get a hotel instead of hitching a free room like a parasite (unless otherwise agreed).
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:56 AM
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Breaks the ice. Creates a laugh. Leaves them questioning why he did it. Sometimes they beg for a second photo. Other times they just laugh him off. And as mentioned below, hell scribble out the most attractive face. Her friends will love the attention and the hot girl usually seeks approval.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:45 AM
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Correct. Or if there's 2 girls and a guy he'd do it to both girls. It creates a laugh with the guy and breaks the ice.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:42 AM
0

I stole this from the game. "Do you want to kiss me" Yes/okay - you win. No - "I never said I'd let you". You still win, but do it with some humour. It can be done to turn around a no. But best done when you feel the tension, touching, hand holding. Most naturals or confident guys don't need to ask. But there's a time and place for being a bit cheeky.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:34 PM
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I've been athletic and in shape all my life. 17 years of boxing. I've never struggled with women but only recently have I tried to actually pull. I would consider myself attractive. In person I rarely go out and don't get at least a kiss. My closest friend is a fat guy. Let me tell you now.. dude has some timber. But he has God tier pulling. Natural as fuck. Confidence, humour, wit , comebacks. He's got the full package. He pulls bangs and moves on every week. I've learnt stuff from him. He will…
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:26 PM
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I'm not bitter. I'm just not chasing a person who deliberately leaves you on read for hours. It's rude and comes across like teenage games. Plenty more out there. I just wondered if calling her out for being deliberately boring and/or rude while also leaving it open is worth it.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:16 PM
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I'm not. But I can see why this post makes you think that way. Which is why I've just ignored it and moved on. Being honest about being bored is not insulting. It's picking up on a clear lack of effort. Or lack of balls to actually break it off. At that point I no longer care but am open to meet for drinks in future (as we vibe better in person). Otherwise we wouldn't have been making out all night the first time. It's not my fault some girls/guys are shit tier texters.
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:35 PM
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I'm bored because there is no flow. Send 1 paragraph every 30 hours is chase territory. I'm not chasing her.
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:36 AM
1

Zante? I'm going there in 3 days and can't wait.
/r/seduction06/06/22 01:41 AM
1

Sweet. I'll give that a go
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:58 PM
1

Sweet. I'll give that a go
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:58 PM
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Recently out of a 6 year relationship. Been out twice and got 5 numbers, one hook up same night. I feel like since I hit 30 it got way easier. Women late 20s, 30s and even up to 40s seem significantly easier to pull. Than they were when I was mid 20s. Not sure if this is just a maturity thing and women tend to no longer give as much of a shit about what they want or what. Or I've matured and am significantly more masculine and give less of a shit.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:08 AM
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Hook ups or casual fwb. I dont want anything long term. I cleared that one off first is what I meant.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:03 AM
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She said she wasn't looking for long term as she was recently single. Perfect for me. I dont want anything serious.
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:41 PM
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Fair point. In regards to the first part. She ended up getting carried out hammered about 2 hours after. We joked about it the next morning. She was fine when we were flirting but she went way over her limit. As for the rest good point. I'll drop a message and leave it.
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:40 PM
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It seems exactly that. I've cut a few short who were playing hard to get and my inbox was blowing up not long after. I have one now who's about to get the boot for doing the same.
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:46 PM
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I've stole a few from 'the game'. Did you see that fight outside just? Or did you see that insert ridiculous event. They never happened. But now you're in a conversation. Ask for directions that you're not looking for. If somebody is in a club taking a photo, I'll usually offer to take one for them and instead flip the camera and take a bunch of my own selfies. That or take a photo with her and then ask what she thinks while I scribble out her face. 9/10 it ends in a laugh and of not I will assu…
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:18 PM
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Are we talking relationships goals? I think it depends on what you're looking for. Interesting to read. I met type 1 recently. She tagged along on a stag do as friend of somebody I knew. I probably spoke 3 words all night and that was basically me just taking the piss out of her. She was hot but I had no interest in playing that game with all the other begs. Long story short we bumped into each other outside the club at the end of the night and 30 minutes later she was in my hotel bed talking ab…
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:35 PM
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This is fucking gold.
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:28 PM
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Fucking howling at this 😂
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:14 PM
3

Post nut clarity with new fwb will soon get over that crush. Plenty of girls out there my dude. I just finished a few weeks ago mutually with my long term long distance gf of 6 years. Went out with my friends this weekend and got 3 numbers and hot girl back to the hotel. I dont feel so shitty now.
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:22 PM
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Isn't it tailored under 'seduction' which is the whole point of this sub. To seduce..
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:44 PM
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Sex once every 2 weeks is dead bedroom territory. Especially with a gf.
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:43 PM
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