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Red pill urks me so much as a man. To watch all of these young boys and men fall into a pit that only wants them to hate. It's hard to watch. It's sad to watch. I really only hope that it helped at least one guy get out of its clutches. That's all I can hope.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/26 12:09 AM
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That's not how I meant it. It is definitely not her fault. I meant it in the way that that's how HE is going to see it. I don't encourage many people to leave a relationship, but I am encouraging her to leave the relationship. It's going to get much worse.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/26 08:55 PM
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If he's on his way in, odds are, he's going to go all the way in. This is Something that can only be stopped by him. I'm really sorry. And if all of his friends are pushing him, it's going to happen. Unfortunately, if you break up with him, it's going to reinforce that he is "right ", and it will get worse.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/26 08:47 PM
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1st, if you start to feel burnout with dating apps, stop using them. Take a break. 2nd, don't take the rejection personally. Remember, they are just like you, looking for what they want. Good or bad. You have preferences, they have preferences. If you ran into some AH, they are not representative of women, they are just AH.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/26 05:43 PM
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Just beware the next month or so. Dude is going to come crawling back, dump a laundry list of reasons why, DO NOT take him back. I'll be honest, I think you did you a favor. More than likely this was going to come up at some point.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/26 09:13 PM
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I'm glad you are working your way out. Read more books. Unlike watching movies or videos, your mind gets much more engaged when you read. On your days off, take short day trips to places around you. I also grew up in a small town, if you can make a plan, move to a bigger city. It really does help change your view on people. Just keep moving forward , never move backward
/r/ExRedPill07/07/26 03:37 PM
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I true feminist wants equality. That's it. Most of what you see in here on the internet is not true feminism . It's radical. And either it's put into the box of feminism to put down feminism, or it's about someone who is trying to wrap themselves in the safety of the movement so they don't look like men haters.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/26 01:43 AM
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An "ethical incel"? The fk? The entire point of the label is the hatred of women. It's why they are grouped as an incel.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 08:00 AM
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And, that term isn't used outside of red pill. IF... You aren't, you are still using a bunch of their terminology and still believe. If you're not, you have to stop using RP words, and stop defending stuff that you have learned.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/26 07:11 PM
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Try and make friends with some women. Go to a hobby get together, any group setting and interact with them. Actual communication will combat your thoughts. DON'T put them into "im going to hit on them" basket. Just friendly conversations.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/26 05:27 PM
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Simple, every single person is different. The most " masculine" men that red pill looks up to you, are the most emotional people I have ever seen. They are constantly crying, everyone's after them, i'm the greatest, I am the greatest, look at me, look at me! Everything that you do is run on emotion. But they only put certain traits as emotion in their box.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/26 10:05 PM
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He has what alot of guys suffer from. Hero complex. They daydream of being the hero of a scenario.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/26 02:59 AM
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I am in no way defending him, is it possible he's only looking at it through what he would do in that situation? And quite literally not understanding it? Does he have any knowledge of this subject, or only sees and hears stuff on the internet? Because I'm really hoping that he doesn't understand what happens. Maybe, he just doesn't have enough information. I'm really hoping that's why he's saying this.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 10:05 PM
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Why is he so living and kind right now? He's getting what he wants from you right now. Watch what happens when a disagreement comes up. Or when you have an accident of some sort. Or when an important decision has to be made.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/26 09:44 PM
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Unfortunately, you can't do anything. You can talk to him. Show him examples why its wrong. But he is the one who has to decide. I'm really sorry. I wish you luck.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/26 04:41 PM
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Biggest thing to remember is she is one singular woman. She does not represent all women. She was a user, and exploited you. You just didn't catch the signals until it was too late. That's what you have to work on. Looking to see if you are being used. One of the biggest issues guys have is they attribute what happened in their breakup to all women afterwards. Don't do that.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 02:35 PM
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/r/ExRedPill31/05/26 02:43 AM
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He honors his word. He commands ONLY when necessary. His wife/gf/whomever is not his property. He words hard for his family. He doesn't shine his dck for everyone to cheer. He is humble. There's a lot more, but I think you get the idea
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:38 PM
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That may be. Especially a father figure to show them how to be a man. A good man. The good man doesn't sling his dck around to everyone. They don't need Applause. And they certainly don't need to call themselves Alpha.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:23 PM
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And learning to work, living, loving, is the way there. Think of all the internet guys. The only thing they have are big arms and flashy cars. They don't do anything for brag and tell boys how to be men. They don't do anything. And, they're never specific about anything. That's how you know they are full of it.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:18 PM
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Ignore the word "status." That is pure redpill bullsht. Growing as a person is the way.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:13 PM
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You are 18. your life has JUST started. Most people (men included) will NOT be fu money rich. No matter what you do. At this point in your life, you should be learning. Siphoning information. All kinds. Figuring out where you want to head in the future.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:09 PM
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There is always going to be residual feelingsfor the rest of your life. I grew up when sexest jokes were fine to say. I still laugh at bad ones from time to time. But, I don't repeat them, post them, think "ya, theres a point here". I acknowledge they are wrong and continue the day. Make sure to remember they are wrong, take a breath, and continue your day.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/26 05:46 PM
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Hes going to make himself the victim. There's no stopping that. You keep yourself save, text him, then block in EVERYTHING. If he gets through, don't communicate back. Make sure he can't get to you.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/26 05:36 PM
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This guy inequivocally does not believe quality for men and women. You can't put women into groups that are considered higher or lower, then say "ya! Equality". Also, what you wrote, not only did he put men in the higher lower status, he thinks men can never get better. He has just enough red pill in him to be in the group.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 05:15 PM
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Wait. This is damn near polar opposite. Submission does happen, but one sex is not more powerful than the other at all times. So please dont sell that. Whatever relationship works for you, and you both agree on, do that. If this works for you, great i'm glad you were both happy. As a couple, you figure out what works for you. But dont start the X is dominate to Y. That will start the same problem as red pill. Again, don't take this as disapproval. You both figured out what you both want and are …
/r/ExRedPill07/05/26 02:25 PM
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Intervene now. This blossoms very quickly. And it's hard to stop. He needs to stop watching all of it. You need to have a plan if he does not.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/26 08:56 PM
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Definitely start therapy. Everything you listed is who you are. Don't be ashamed of it. Don't compare yourself to other guys you see on the internet. You're only seeing what they want you to see. I know a lot of guys who have a lot of what you listed, and they're dating life is fine. If you want to change something about yourself, that's great, and that's your decision. But I don't think the change is going to come overnight or over a couple of weeks. Changes like that happen slowly. But don't c…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 05:42 PM
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You listed at least three buzzwords. Things that he wants in a woman. I would cut loose if I were you. Because if he's not red pilled, he's very interested in the movement.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/26 06:49 PM
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Welcome to the internet, haha. I will say this though... make sure you don't go back to RP ideology. Don't let One bad woman in your life make you start judging all women that way.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:58 PM
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There is also a subreddit called r/vent
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:54 PM
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Jesus, I can't imagine a life like that. And I've already drawn a bad hand by being 5'4",haha. Luckily, I've been at peace with it for a long time.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:51 PM
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There is something worse than red pill? Damn.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 04:08 PM
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I'm unsure what black pill is. I hear it all the time, but I don't know the definition. Can someone clue me in?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 03:21 PM
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Here is a vet... DO NOT JOIN NOW if you have a choice. You do not want to be part of what's going on now.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/26 05:33 PM
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One of the reasons red pill is so successful is because they do have truths. And that's what they start with to attract the youngest boys they can. Workouts, build yourself up, ect... That is how they suck them in. Then, once they're in, that's when the crazy starts being pushed on them. It is a very successful formula. So yes, some red pill advice is legitimate, and that's its biggest problem. I don't think proximity is talked about because it's kind of a given. You actually want to see the per…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 05:34 PM
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If it can be used as a hammer against women, they'll say it as convincingly as possible.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:04 PM
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It's a" joke" that has been around for a long time. We had it in the 90s, and I'm sure it was there before. The other half is "ask a guy his number and divide by three", the key being that guys amplify their numbers. But there is absolutely nothing to back either one up
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:00 PM
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You don't help him. You help yourself and leave. Only he can change, and he has to want to. It's your first relationship, so its a very difficult decision. But this will continue to get worse, and you will be beat down to you don't want to do anything. Protect yourself. End this.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/26 11:57 PM
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Ummm, yes. Everyone has their own interpretation of everything. That's why, when you say something, it has got to be as clear as possible. In this case, and you said men, it sounds like you're implying all men.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 03:14 PM
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The point that I'm trying to make is, you can't get rid of hate that men have for women , but be okay with women hating men for any reason. It must be balanced, both must be worked on. And the way your post read, it sounded like it was okay for women to hate men because of the way they hate men.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 03:12 PM
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No matter how they hate them, we have to combat all of hate. From both men and women, no matter "how" they hate. But you cannot make the claim that all men hate women, just like you cannot make the claims that all women hate men.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 03:01 PM
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No. The groups of men who create things like red pill don't see women as people. If all men thought this way, we would all be part of those groups. Don't know, it's not that men are jealous or hate... It's that some do. Just like some women hate men.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 02:57 PM
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And they seem to hate women more than I remember when it started.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/26 05:34 PM
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Every man that can, that has influence needs to be in this fight. They go after young men for one reason, how easy it is to manipulate their world views. Father's HAVE to step in. They need women in their life as well.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 05:49 PM
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Also, look at where they are at when they film. Always a club where money is shiny and most people get shtfaced drunk.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/26 04:52 AM
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I have a list of words and talking points, that if iam on a date, i will drop the date immediately. Submissive, body count, "what do you bring to the table" ect. Luckily, I don't hear alot of women use them, haha
/r/ExRedPill17/03/26 02:17 AM
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I believe this one is it. I can't remember whether they came back or not. https://www.youtube.com/live/lPl1XTHQsHA?si=u_FaXYh9n_2eATxq
/r/ExRedPill17/03/26 02:12 AM
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I loved that interview, the one they walked out of.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/26 02:03 AM
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The woman he was dating, Angie... she is everything he tells men to stay away from. But she is the only person who with date him, mostly because he funds her life.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/26 01:55 AM
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Look up Myron gaines. It is in front of camera , versus him in real life.... He is a living breathing contradiction in every way.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/26 09:46 PM
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When someone is offering (this), you have to look ahead, to see where (this) is going. And if you don't, you have to recognize when it goes bad. Kids have a hard time with that, so its easy. And red aims for them. Their parents need to step in, and few do. There needs to be more anti red influencers. It's getting better, but for a long time, few were around. The other problem is red looks real sexy. The pitch is alluring. Unfortunately, its difficult to combat.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/26 05:45 AM
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Yes. That's the part that hooks them.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/26 02:53 AM
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To me, that's one of the worst parts, how red goes after HS age kids. Who have no experience and knowledge to defend themselves.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/26 02:50 AM
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There are some factual things brought up, that's what hooks you. Taking care of yourself, have goals ect... But once they hook you, that's when it nosedives into being destructive. Hating women, looking down on anyone who doesnt follow their ways.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/26 02:42 AM
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This is where self-respect comes into play. Cannot trash yourself because you don't think you're good enough, or whatever reason. Degrading language should not be used to describe yourself, or anyone else.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 10:27 PM
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Yeah, you can't call someone, man or woman, a bitch and also have respect for people. One of the top masculine traits is respect. And that is everyone, even the people you don't like.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 09:54 PM
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I think the biggest thing is HOW you present being masculine. How you act around others. Because one of the big red things is that you have to treat women like they are under you. So I don't think you have to change much , just your presentation.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 09:09 PM
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The reason why red pill is so successful at what it does is they do use truths too rope you in. A lot of the stuff you hear in the beginning, that attracted you, yes 100% true. Taking care of yourself building yourself up, aiming for something. All 100%. Send, when they have you in their clutches , they warp with masculinity means.. what you do as a masculine man. And that's how they keep you .
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 08:59 PM
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Jail alone? No. He has to want to be reformed. I went to jail three times for drinking, and I was no closer stopping, every time I got out. He may meet people in there that will show him a better way, he may just realize it, put jail itself, no.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/26 09:38 PM
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If you're still having problems adjusting, try this... Don't try and pick a woman up. Why don't you just have a 5-minute conversation about nothing, and then go your Separate Ways. If you feel that itch coming up, and tell her you have to go and walk away
/r/ExRedPill09/03/26 07:01 PM
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The problem is everyone ranks cold approach with online and you can't do that. They are both completely different animals. Dont compare them against each other. Cold requires you analyze the woman AND the situation at that exact time. Alot of men don't do that, and it screws them.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/26 06:20 PM
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Everything about it is "men have power". Read anything that has to do with you dating or getting married. Women have to follow your lead. You are not a man unless you are in full control. Most women are whores. There is not one respectful view of women in the red pill community. Not one.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 07:03 PM
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There is no 50/50. You can't have respect for women and utilize redpill. It is there TO degrade women while saying men are better.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 05:34 PM
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But Pearl said....
/r/ExRedPill27/02/26 06:54 PM
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Everything that went wrong was on her, out on you. She was a terrible person. ( grant it, I don't know you or your relationship) but it sounds like she showed you everything you want to avoid in a woman. Make your boundaries, and enforce your boundaries, and have your standards.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/26 02:49 AM
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So, why wouldn't any of this apply to a man? So a man can't be bored and lose the capacity for a deep connection? A man can't be damaged?. A man has no need for female attention? A man can't have an addiction to sex? Is that just how it is?
/r/ExRedPill22/02/26 03:28 AM
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The whole epiphany phase, and anything like it is simply to sell you something. None of that actually exist. The older you get, the more experience you have, the more you know what you want. That's it. There's no age group that is better than another.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 06:51 PM
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Definitely. Every relationship is different. I was pointing at the give and take of both parties. The extrovert will stay home a little bit more, but they're still going to do things. The introvert will have to help balance that, and go out more than they usually do. And, the introvert cannot control when the extrovert goes out. They can't get mad, they can't demand, it's something they're going to have to go along with.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 08:34 PM
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It can happen, but the introvert is going to be uncomfortable in the relationship. They will be "forced" to do extroverted things more often.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 06:56 PM
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That is one of the biggest problems I had with red pill content. You get sucked in by them saying the correct thing. Exercise, take care of your health ect. The problem is what they stack after that... Women are the source of your problems, if you get rich you don't have to worry about anything ect.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 11:13 PM
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And he's being investigated in britain, the us, and I think a few other countries
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 09:58 PM
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As always, some do, some don't. If you watch a video about a man being on top, don't pay attention to it.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 11:05 PM
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So that's what you have to take care of. I don't know why she told you. But it doesn't matter now. I would suggest, go see a therapist and you should be able to work through it.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:37 PM
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No. It's not. It sounds like you want that insecurity. She slept with a guy whos hot. Guys do that. Alot.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:00 PM
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It's a term that needs to be stopped being used. The only way for that you happen is to not use it yourself.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:57 PM
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I don't think your user name helps. Haha
/r/ExRedPill06/02/26 06:36 PM
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I think you have to explain better. I'm lost on this.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/26 04:04 PM
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And celebrities "live" in a different dating world. Don't worry about them. When you see any news that bothers you, think to yourself "this person in no way affects my life."
/r/ExRedPill04/02/26 03:18 AM
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Back in HS, i did. All of them got out. When they started working with and interacting with all sort of different people. Talking with and being around others is very important. I know introverted people have issues with it (I'm one), so unfortunately you have to make yourself uncomfortable, but it's worth it.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/26 09:38 PM
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That will be the case if you convince yourself that is the case. You have to get out of the mindset that you will be alone , and no one will want you. That is a must. Find a therapist, talk to them, and do not lie to them. This should be your first, and biggest step. You are a person of value, you're just in the wrong place right now. It's going to take a lot of work, and it's going to be tiring , and it's going to feel at times that you aren't moving. But you are. The fact that you are out of t…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/26 09:07 PM
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Dont do it alone. That is how they get you in the first place. Redpill wants you alone.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/26 08:33 PM
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Its a guess. Personality really affects attraction for me. See above comment.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 04:33 PM
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I 100% agree. And everyones different on how attraction works to them. My way isn't correct, your way isn't correct. It's only correct for you. And a lot of people think that their way of Attraction is the way it should be.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/26 11:07 PM
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The reason I say it's the first step is, 90% of the time, you see the person first. Your brain auto goes, "wow they are pretty or not pretty "
/r/ExRedPill27/01/26 11:01 PM
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Do I? No. I have a 70/30 spit. 70 personality, physical 30. The easiest way I have explained it , when I was growing up, Angelina Jolie what's the hottest girl on the planet. And I don't deny that she is beautiful. But her personality, and things that she did... I do not find her attractive. At all.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/26 10:59 PM
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It does matter. It's the very first step of being attracted to. Now, this is where is splinters off. Their personality can flush it down the drain. Or, it can enhance the attraction. For most people, there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Has to be. And this is where personal preference comes into how attracted they are. Remember, no one's exactly alike. Some people place physical attraction over everything else.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/26 10:55 PM
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Don't t try. Push yourself. Its hard as hell, but the outcome you want is on that side. If you think things are bad now, if you go down that hole, it's going to get so much worse. And then, absolutely no one will want to help you. Your life is uncomfortable now, it's going to be for a little bit. But it will end. As long as you keep pushing yourself.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 02:31 AM
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You are telling yourself that she is settling for you. You have no evidence to the contrary. Every single thing you listed, there is nothing bad about it. You are telling yourself it's bad. You are convincing yourself you are not worth it. And the red pill hole is telling you to think that way. All of it is wrong. All of it. Please, please, please stop listening to all of that crap. Please. You are scared, and that is fine. That is normal. You don't know what direction to go in, so you are worri…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 08:58 PM
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Remember, you took something out of your life. It HAS to be replaced with something. You are more apt to replace it with something similar. Your brain doesn't have to work that hard. If you see something even remotely close to all of that, Block.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 07:17 PM
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