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DebateJtodownlow88/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:58 AM
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Once the kid's are out of the house is she still a mother, or no? When she files her taxes does she put "single? " on them?..... so yes, she is still a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:20 PM
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Im just going to start copy pasting my respose because ya'll sound like robots and repeat the same thing over and over again- I've already addressed every point you tried to make...Im married, not on the market. I do not desire any man besides my husband so I don't care who she ends up with. it effects me none. I actually don't give a shit about what standards the women puts in place for a man she want's commitment from. I never said she shouldn't have standards. She should have REALISTIC standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:57 PM
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No. Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:47 PM
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Do you believe you should be equal and serve in the Draft/military alongside men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:54 PM
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Im not going to engage with you due to your consist strawman statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:40 PM
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I disagree. But men and women are different and have different roles in a commitment/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:38 PM
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Again, ive addressed it multiple times in my original argument and also below on the thread. Im not doing it a 3rd time. It's absolutely not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:35 PM
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I've addressed the single Dad's thing multiple times. Its not the same thing at all. **SHE, don't misgender me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:26 PM
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See, you just made my point. Why bash and insult men in a passive aggressive way just like I said women do? When men have a personal preference of not wanting to raise another man's kid's you take it as an attack on women. Its very weird. Your profile picture might be a boy but I can tell by your comment that your definitely a woman 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:22 PM
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making his statement even more False.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:07 PM
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Exactly, thats why nearly all of them are stuck on the dating market for a long time. Making exactly my point. Single Mother's have unrealistic standards. They don't expect to pay, they expect you to pay. It would actually be rare to find not only a single mother willing to pay- but women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:05 PM
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Why would I want to comply with my husband? Because it's a feminine quality in a women's nature most men are attracted to. I listen to what the Bible says about how women were created and are supposed to behave in a marrige. When you have sex with a man, as a woman- that's the ultimate form of submission. Since you don't want to give a man compliance do you want to be combative and work against him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:57 PM
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I never said it's a problem to not want traditional gender roles. I don't care about what other people do in their relationship. This was in response to his attempt at personally attacking on me. He threw out this lame, False accusation "Men dont want submission, YOU want submission" since he wanted to get personal with me, I corrected him and I shared my personal preference. His accusation was the exact opposite of the truth. I don't want my husband to submit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:45 PM
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Yes, I can agree with that statement. That doesn't make it the majority. There are outliers in most situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:28 AM
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I totally agree, men have standards for the women they give commitment to. Nobody's holding a gun to their head. Most men are saying no to committing to single mother's, and thats ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:24 AM
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Strawman. Your terrible at debating- ive called you out for strawman arguments multiple times now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:10 AM
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Exactly, going against their very nature as a female is a turn on for most men. Especially top tier earning men- the most desired on the dating market, with endless options. They usually choose middle-aged, single mother's who are combative, and offended by the idea of submitting to him in exchange for his hard work He turns down younger, childless, submissive women for those "queens"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:07 AM
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You literally just made my point, unknowingly. I agree, Men should expect her to raise and pay for her own children. 99% of single mother's would never accept that at all! She usually has an unrealistic standard for men to provide for her and her kids, who are another man's children. She would absolutely shut you down, demasculate, and insult you in an instant if you told her that was your understandable expectation of her. If you were up front with her and actually told that she would ghost you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:17 AM
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To each his own- Im talking about the majority of men. Most men arn't attracted to masculine, feminist women who wear the pants, are independent, and don't need him. Those qualities are generally a turn off to men. You just described a very masculine women- which a lot of men are actually repulsed and turned off by. What you just described seriously goes aginst the very nature of both the man and woman. Your description was a very feminine man with a very masculine woman. You understand that, ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:53 AM
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Exactly, the children should be her #1 priority. That is completely understandable, and expected by everyone. So, that would mean the man coming in is automatically NOT the priority in her life. Men know that, if they have any options at all they will almost always choose a commitment with a women who has no kids and can make him the #1 priority in her life. Why did she choose badly the first time and now she has higher standards the 2ed and 3rd time around? She made a poor choice, and thinks sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:09 AM
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If you don't care about the lives of single mothers, or men's opinion on single mother's, carry on. I do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:45 AM
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You dismissed and failed to answer any of my questions. Im calling check mate on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:07 AM
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Yes, her judgment is called into question regardless if you like it or not. If a man is truly a deadbeat he's a complete piece of shit and will have to pay the consequences for that. In my opinion he isn't deserving of any woman at all. Just like a woman should question a man when he isn't in their child's life- a man should question why she had a baby with a deadbeat. I actually don't give a shit about what standards the women puts in place for a man she want's commitment from. She can have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:57 AM
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You refur to them as "Deadbeat's" that would call into question her judgment with who she lays down with, let's have access her womb, and has children with, doesn't it? Do you think men don't consider that and do you think it's wrong if they do? 70-75% of the time it's the women who initiates divorce and has a serious advantage in court. The Father could be an amazing dad who wants to be in his children's life every day. The court generally sides with the mother when it comes to custody. The onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:39 PM
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I addressed single Father's in my original argument. Did you have a specific point or question? I don't believe it's the same thing if a women enters a relationship with a single Father. Two reasons/examples why is the fact that Father's usually have their children 20% of the time. Single mother's usually have them 80% of the time. 2ed- Men don't usually expect women to pay for, and support his kids-. Women usually do expect men to support her and her kids from another man. In fact, it's the #1 …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:57 PM
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Nice red herring statement, and lame attempt to derail the actual point im making. It still wouldn't change all the points I made in my argument even if your assumption of me were true. Your assumption is False, but I don't need to defend or prove who I am personally. That has absolutely nothing to do with anything that ive said. It wouldn't change all the Single Mother's who say they're struggling to find commitment. Why don't you focus on what they're saying? Do you assume they are men because…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:45 PM
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Nice strawman, "The ONLY way to know something is TikTok video's" No, that's not what im suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:28 PM
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This is getting off topic for me the only reason I brought up lesbian relationships is because you consistently insinuate that men are dangerous in any situation they enter. Lesbian relationships have more domestic violance reports then heterosexual relationships. They are also more likely to end in divorce then both heterosexual, and gay marriages. The topic is about single mother's struggling to find commitment. What is your point, anyway...Im honestly curious. Do you believe heterosexual wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:08 PM
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If you haven't seen any videos that would indicate and prove that you've never actually looked into single mother's dating expierence before. If you looked into it, even for 10 minutes- Or did the most basic search on tik-tok and youtube, you would uncover hundreds and hundreds of videos from both men and women. You saying, "I've never seen a video like that" doesn't change the existence of them, or the fact that this is a serious, painful issue for a lot of.people. I have actually looked deeply…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:40 PM
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Im actually posting this because I care about them. This is causing a lot of issues for them when it comes to dating and it seems very painful for a lot of them. They may view themselves as being a "queen" all they want but most men dont view them that way at all. If they want commitment they really need to drop that mentality. I never said they don't deserve Love and happiness. Im telling them how to get out of the situation they find themselves in and actually obtain Love and happiness- Insted…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:49 PM
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Im glad you're in a happy relationship, truly...and no offense to you, but your still a single mom at 47.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:28 PM
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That's absolutely False. It's an actual static that is coming from the CDC's National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS) and the Bureau of Justice Statistics. It isnt based on previous relationships lesbians have been in. You try and invert reality to make your point true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:20 PM
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Its actually rare for kids to be out of the house when the mom is 38. More women are having babies in their 30's. 57% of adults ages 18–24 still live with their parents. So having your son or daughter in the house when mom is in her 50's is not a rare circumstance at all. Were you a teen mom? Which is an outlier situation. Are most single mom's waiting for their kids to be out of the house to date? Did you wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:02 PM
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False, 44% of lesbian relationships report experiencing rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime, compared to 35% of heterosexual women. And 26% of gay men. The highest is actually women, the complete opposite of what your saying here. The numbers dont agree with your position and clear hate for men and negative viewpoint of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:51 PM
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How old are they when their kids are out of the house? Late 50's if they're lucky. "Kids" are staying in their parents house way longer now, more than ever. Most are not out of the house at 18 anymore. The market for a women in her late 50's is a very small pool of men. Its not exactly desirable. Also, most of these single women are not waiting until their kids are out of the house to find a man. They are looking when it benefits them- most of the time this is when their kids are still in the ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:31 PM
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Not for married women it doesn't. Your actually way safer with a man in the home who is expected to protect the women and their kids. A single mom who decided to end the marriage is in a way more dangerous, venerable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:25 PM
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Actually, if they truly put their kids best interest above their own they would stay out of the dating market altogether. The chance of something happening to their kids skyrockets everytime they introduce an outside man to their children. This is not my opinion, its a real fact that can be looked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:15 PM
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Good, im glad. I also said nothing about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:03 PM
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Im honored that you find my account with 4 posts so valuable that someone would purchase it. 🤣 wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:46 PM
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I could say the same for you. You have no experience of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:32 PM
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Personal experience in my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:31 PM
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Right, that's why I made a post 9 months ago when I was pregnant and had gastational diabete - a topic men know everything about. I was just role playing. Not seeking actual advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:29 PM
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Maybe I want a traditional marriage with natural, gender roles- something you can't seem to handle the thought of and are offended by. A dynamic that comes from being secure and accepting you were born a man or a women. The ability to accept what your God given role is when it comes to commitment/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:48 PM
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I actually don't want my husband to submit to me. Call me old-school, but I prefer my men to be masculine. Not a beta, feminized, simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:46 PM
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An example, of a standard that I think needs to be lowered is a man who is 6'0 or over who makes over 100K which is the top 10 percent of man. A man who makes 50K and is shorter then 6 foot, isnt any less safe. They have super high standards and think they can compete with women who dont have kids. Top 10 percent men have options and dont tend to take in another man's kids. Sorry, but its the truth. So no they don't have the obligation but they are going to remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:42 PM
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They can learn from their mistakes all they want. That doesn't mean the majority of men want to step in and be apart of a broken home he didn't create, or dismantle. This isnt just a little mistake. Its a life-altering mistake that causes issues and will impact everyone, and anyone who decides to take on a commitment with you. When the kids leave the house you are totally alone. When it comes to having a man you are totally alone, not by choice. Most single mom's dont want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:27 PM
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Correct. You come last everytime your expected to support them financially but have no authority when it comes to the child especially when it co.es to discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:21 PM
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Women arn't generally responsible for "authority" in the house, men are. That's why statics show children raised by single Father's have a better outcome then children raised by singles mothers. You can get all triggerd by this but its a fact that you could look up. This is not.a gender natural issue men and women are totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:19 PM
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I totally disagree. Its totally different for man then women. Men are expected to provide for her and her kids. Men dont expect women to financially support his kids. Men and women are totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:15 PM
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That's why I dont give a shit anymore about transphobic, bobick, and all the other trophics. They mean literally nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:12 PM
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See you get down voted because they can't handle the thought of men having standards when it comes to dating and what they want in a woman, It's only ok for them. They can have the standard of a 6 foot man who makes 100k but as soon as you say you dont want a 250 pound women who has kids your a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:09 PM
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When you guys get all triggerd you decide to make assumptions and cast them on me. Im 35 happily married stay at home mom with a mechanical engineer if you really needed to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:06 PM
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Exactly, that's why most men are saying no to this. Men have standards when it comes to who they decide to give a commitment too- just like women do. Look at the comments on here women get all triggerd and can't handle it. That was one of my points to expose how delusional they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:03 PM
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Sounds good but that isn't true for the hundreds of videos on tik tok and YouTube of the single mothers crying about how difficult dating has been for them. They cannot find a man who wants to commit to them. Dating has been such a struggle for many of them that they are saying they regret their divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:52 PM
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Why do you default to being all triggerd just because you disagree with my position? You formulate assumptions about me personally that you decided to make up and conjured up from nothing. Im happily married, which has nothing to do with all the valid points I made that you dismissed and failed to address.. I've been looking into this topic and I find it very interesting. Look up the reddit "nobody wants to date me me because im a single mom u/likeyou8. If you don't take my word for it hear it f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:34 AM
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You just got absolutely obliterated. Ending with you- literally just tapping out. I actually should have ended it the moment you started making straw-man arguments, red herring statemens, making up quotes that I never said.at all/ or misquoting what I actually did say. Last, making bad faith assumptions about me that are completely made up by you accusing me of lying and totally making up a story of my actual life. What I said was 100% truthful and you can't stand that. You hate the fact that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:41 AM
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While I hit you with actual statics proving your statement to be, by definition- COMPLETELY FALSE. you try to conjure up some weird quote that I never said...attempting to articulate some make believe, between the lines, emotional, FALSE statement that never existed. Dismissing and failing to address the facts I kindly presented to you, which made your statement completely void.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:02 AM
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Congratulations! You just got absolutely smoked. That's what you point Dexter's do when you have no argument. You attempt to derail my valid arguments with a stupid one-liner, immature statement "cool story bro" and try get the attention off the fact that you just got called out for making a strawman argument in a debate. Did I say "ALL single men?" if I didn't- there was no correction needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:41 AM
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Nice strawman argument. Tell me where I said ALL men? I said MAJORITY. You may "not care" what men like. That doesn't change the fact that their opinion actually matters and holds more weight then yours. You can act like it doesn't all you want. At the end of the day. MEN are the gatekeepers to commitment and marriage. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. They get the final say. You know all about Long term relationships...Are you married? I am!! .. Because I do care about his preferences and what …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:15 AM
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Your argument holds no weight, whatsoever- 80% of husbands stay with their wives following a serious illness diagnosis. Your little statement "No wonder men abandon sick wives MORE OFTEN THAN NOT" is absolutely, 100% false. 50% of marriages end in divorce. 70-75% are initiated by women. 11% of all divorce is.due to illness of that 11% yes, it's more men ending the marriage then women. 20% of marriages where the wife was the one who was ill ended in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:42 AM
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Why do you weirdos get so triggered and take everything as a personal attack? Men and women are different. They prioritize different things in relationships. Here's a reality check for you SEX IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE THE MAIN #1 PRIORITY FOR MEN. If men couldn't have sex with you, do you really think they would be talking to your crazy ass at all? You attempt to demasculate men, you treat him like he said he likes underage women. Men are attracted, and enjoy having sex with young, hot women. You f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:26 AM
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Wrong- Women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are the gatekeepers to commitment and marriage. It doesnt matter if they "think it's bad for women" that doesn't change their end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:30 AM
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