JuanLurks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-Davidowitz I think most men prefer thin women. Say the truth instead of something feel-good and you get downvoted. Sigh	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/23 02:41 PM
1	"People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-Davidowitz Good points, have no idea why you get downvoted.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/23 06:44 AM
1	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Source: https://web.archive.org/web/20091121080804/blog.okcupid.com/index.php/2009/11/17/your-looks-and-online-dating/	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 01:53 PM
0	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Thanks for the honesty. Yes, OKCupid published in 2009 that women rated 80% of men as "below average". And apparently less than a quarter of the remaining ones as attractive (4.5% of all men). Whereas men find almost two thirds of women somewhat attractive. Unfortunately, for some people criticizing the red pill, they assume the opposite will be truth. And so we get to hear that men and women are the same, when we aren't.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 01:52 PM
3	Current Red Pilled men, what is one problem you face(d) that only Red Pill had a solution for? Great thread. Kudos to OP. This is the kind of stuff I'm in this subreddit for. Stuff like "actions speak louder than words" is supposed to be common sense, but for some reason it seems it's mostly RP applying it to dating. I'd say red pill today is mostly a flea market with hustlers trying each to sell you their version with no regards for what is actually a decades-old discussion. I'd say Esther Vilar single-handedly kickstarted red pill in 1971. For anybody consuming more than one or two red …	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 01:17 AM
1	Current Red Pilled men, what is one problem you face(d) that only Red Pill had a solution for? Great write-up and great points. Sad to see you're getting downvoted to death further down. Upvotes mostly reward writing stuff that agrees with what most people reading believe, no regard to how well you expose your points.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 01:14 AM
2	A critique of Evolutionary Psychology Thank you for sharing. Well-articulated rebuttals like this one are the reason I joined this subreddit.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 12:50 PM
2	I wrote an article about people from this subreddit Thanks. I'm adding the end of the article, which was after a "Recommended articles" box (as pointed by the OP). There aren't many real-world mental health resources for men looking to recover from toxic internet cultures, Milo said. He was voluntarily institutionalized in 2018, but said the mental health services he's encountered haven't been any help with this specific problem. "The consequences of PUA and Red Pill ideology aren't openly discussed outside a few small forums," he said. "Even mos…	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 08:27 AM
1	I don't think I will ever meet anybody who likes me the way I like them. Everything I see confirms the same fears that led me to RedPill in the first place. I've always been an introverted, non athletic and not conventionally masculine guy. What I can tell you is: be what you want to be. "Academic, intelligent, well-read and successful." Great! But don't expect "just being yourself" to attract the opposite sex. I'm a huge video game nerd. I'm not changing that, I'm proud of who I am, but that's certainly not an attractive trait in itself. You're going to the gym, great. You may have other things going for you that you don't realize or you can expand…	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/22 03:20 PM
1	Engaged Christians & Premarital Sex IF your fiancé is mostly respectful while discussing this issue and others, and his calling you "selfish" is out of character and actually a reflection of his getting desperate, I disagree with other posters. ("Tell him it's not happening and that's final", "I'd greatly reconsider going through with this marriage"...) It's very encouraging that you understand the issue here is that he feels "hurt and disrespected". The keyword here is compromise. You want to be a virgin until marriage and I enco…	/r/RedPillWives	23/12/21 04:02 AM
2	Note on Femininity Thank you for such an inspiring post. This is a prime example why intersexual dynamics (the red pill) is about way more than "just getting laid". I've accomplished a life goal that would have me proud as a kid, yet now that I have what I longed for I'm jaded and hurt because of half a life of struggle. I would be so happy if my effort means my wife and children get to enjoy the fruits of my experience without all the suffering.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/21 06:02 AM
1	F20 with body count of 9 Very good point.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/11/21 03:18 PM
2	Tea Time 😁 Relaxed and happy wife is 1000x better than an immaculate home.	/r/RedPillWives	23/11/21 01:44 PM
2	Support group for men who are struggling with red pill recovery? I am suffering and I feel like I don’t have much longer. Unless you're Leonardo Dicaprio you will never have as many options as your wife/gf if you turn to poliamory. As other posters have said it was a distaster waiting to happen. If you're a man wanting to sleep with multiple partners, date non-exclusively. Your desperation pushed you towards believing those videos were the solution to everything. That doesn't mean though that they're the cause of all your problems either. Your arrangement with your wife sounds more like the cause. In your desperati…	/r/ExRedPill	20/11/21 09:48 AM