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Do you watch porn often?
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:38 PM
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Really depends on what you talked about honestly.
/r/seduction18/06/21 09:03 PM
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There is also a large amount of “incels” coming in here and giving terrible advice.
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:00 PM
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What are you even on? I never said girls can’t pick either (but following your stupid logic.. you’re saying she approached him because he was attractive, what if he wasn’t?). Both men and women should approach whoever they are attracted too. Don’t sit and wait for someone to “pick” you based on looks, we’re not fucking peacocks for fucks sake. And I’m not sure what you’re going on about in the second part. You can chose hot, attractive girls too...
/r/seduction26/12/20 09:57 PM
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Why would you wait for a girl to “pick” you. You’re not going to get the women you want doing this.
/r/seduction26/12/20 05:25 PM
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Sometimes you say 'yes' to things because it is easier to say 'yes' now and just back out later. It's much easier for a girl to give you her phone number and just ghost you later than to tell you no to you face. I'm not saying it's right but its human nature.
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:30 PM
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You engage the entire group. Not just the person you are interested in.
/r/seduction07/12/20 06:33 PM
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I’m not a tinder hater I’ve used it with some success. People will have different experiences. Personally I felt it was too much effort in exchange for lower quality girls that I didn’t want to date. I’d rather focus on other things especially when the type of girls I liked were rare on tinder. If it works for you than I’m happy. I do think it’s the future of dating so if you’re a younger guy you have no choice almost. Might as well get good at it.
/r/seduction26/11/20 06:03 AM
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5-10 minutes a day of swiping. Easy enough not so bad. Next. Choosing an opener related to her bio okay not so bad either. Customizing an opening message might take you 1-5 minutes depending on how creative you are. Cool. Now you’ve got to keep the conversations going and be “entertaining” according to OP. Probably want to build a little rapport before you “close” too. Gonna be at least another 10 minutes (but let’s be real probably a lot more). And this is just one girl, for tinder to be effect…
/r/seduction26/11/20 04:41 AM
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The problem is a lot of the work goes in before you even meet the girl.
/r/seduction25/11/20 08:44 PM
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Seriously. Between swiping and maintaining conversations you're probably spending anywhere from 30-60 minutes a day on tinder, maybe even more. Seems like a lot of time for a 1-2% chance of getting laid. I think there are better ways to spend your time and energy.
/r/seduction25/11/20 02:28 PM
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Exactly my point. If there's no challenge she may lose interest. Has it ever happened to you that a girl throws her self at you? Like is all over you, practically in love right from the start. And she may be super attractive but for some reason you lose interest in her. In these superficial relationships you need the challenge of the chase.
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:18 AM
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You’ve made it too easy. She knows she could have you at any moment she wants. So she’s lost interest. You’re no longer a mystery. If you don’t make a move on a first date, she might be left wondering why? Does he not like me? It’s human nature honestly. We always want what we can’t/don’t have.
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:45 PM
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Yeahhh I think what you both need is to talk to each other.
/r/seduction16/07/20 04:13 PM
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Why do you want him to beg for sex? If you guys are having issues it might be better to just talk it out. If its just a "we've been busy and we haven't had time" situation do something to tease him. You know what he likes. In my case it would be enough for my girl to start walking around the house naked. You could also just initiate the sex and get over this "standoff".
/r/seduction16/07/20 03:10 PM
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Totally agree. I don't fault you (or any woman) at all for wanting the man to make the first sexual advance. It communicates a lot of positive characteristics that are attractive and like you say it makes the woman feel desired and can even take some stress off her. Im no expert but i'm sure there are biological reasons as to why most women feel the same way as you do. It's become ingrained in our society just look at marriage, the man is expected to propose and it would be regarded as strange i…
/r/seduction08/07/20 02:22 PM
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Cool. Thanks for typing all that out. All valid points. Would be major red flags for me as well. To me these are givens, part of being a functioning human being. Things you learn as a teenager/young-adult (don't be a dick, don't lie, know how to hold a conversation, don't be a creep, etc.) . But I must be giving the average guy/gal too much credit. The only one I can forgive is number 8 because it doesn't reflect shitty character. Some guys are just clueless or painfully shy/scared/inexperienced…
/r/seduction08/07/20 01:01 PM
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Fair enough. I guess most guys do end up shooting themselves in the foot in person. What would you say was the overall reason most of them “lost” you?
/r/seduction08/07/20 12:22 PM
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You're also right.
/r/seduction08/07/20 09:57 AM
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It’s Tinder. If the girl agrees to meet up with you she’s already down to fuck. All you have to do is not fuck it up by being a creep. It’s not that much of an accomplishment to be honest.. now if this is true for you outside of online dating then that’s another story.
/r/seduction07/07/20 11:52 PM
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You also don’t have to hit the gym to get fit. Find a sport or activity you like. It will be much more enjoyable.
/r/seduction31/05/20 08:29 AM
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You would never approach with this. The op wasn’t clear but come on man. Seriously? This line is a little icing on the cake. It’s not gonna make or break you. If you get to the point where you can use this line, there was already a 99% chance you were going to make out regardless. The line by itself (or any line for that matter) will never get you a make out.
/r/seduction23/02/20 11:02 AM
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Definitely not an opening line
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:55 AM
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If you're at chill spot were you're just hanging out and talking casually (like a quiet bar, cafe, park) wait for a lull in the conversation. Enjoy the silence, be comfortable in it and be direct. Look her in the eyes put your hand out and say "let me see your hand" with a smile. Take her hand, hold it. You can say random shit like "hmmm interesting.." or "oh that's awkward.." or "wow!" anything really that is open ended and will prompt her to say "why?". You can also take a look at her jewelry …
/r/seduction12/12/19 02:14 PM
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Same dude. Don’t let it bother you. Joke about it. Tell her they’re really good for tight spaces. With a little smirk. If she asks what you mean. Tell her “well you know when you need to get your fingers in really deep” pause “like have you ever dropped something in between your car seat and the center console?” “Yeah, I can get in there super easy.” Maybe make some hand motions like you’re fisting the air if you’re feeling funny. And act all innocent. Less sexual you can just say “they’re reall…
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:27 PM
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This is not flirting...
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:13 AM
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If all you’re doing is complimenting a girl, being super extra nice, telling her she’s interesting, agreeing with everything she says, paying for everything and telling her you really like her. That’s great. But you’re probably gonna get friend zoned because she’s gonna lose interest very fast. You need to be a bit of a “challenge” make her wonder a bit. You have to create some tension at some point. Which is what I think the other guy means by “man-woman” frame.
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:08 AM
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There’s other methods that don’t require anything. One thing I usually do is put my hand out and say “let me see your hand” and I’ll just hold her hand. Super easy and straight forward. You can comment on jewelry if she has any on while you touch it. I have small hands for a guy so I usually joke about her big hands being perfect. Have fun with it. It’s a lot easier then it seems you don’t need some elaborate plan to break the “touch barrier”. You don’t even have to say anything, many times when…
/r/seduction08/12/19 03:33 AM
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Focus on having fun. Put a smile on your face, even if you have to force it a bit, and let loose. Don’t look at other people, think of the music, close your eyes for a bit if it helps. Express yourself, dancing is a creative activity who cares if it looks good if it feels good.
/r/seduction26/11/19 06:11 AM
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I have a feeling this subreddit is being taken over and this post and comments are being manipulated. Focusing only on your wealth is the worst advice I have ever heard. The comment reads like a fucking joke. He gave up because he saw some pick up artists gf was ugly?
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:01 PM
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Something strange is going on I think the sub has gotten taken over. I can’t believe this shit is getting upvoted.
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:54 AM
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I hope I’m being wooshed and this is a pasta.
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:05 AM
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There's actually communities of men actively avoiding porn and trying to rehabilitate themselves check out r/nofap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 10:33 AM
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You have a great attitude. I have no doubt you will have lots of success. You're right playing games is not a solution, we need to strive to live a life in which these behaviors become natural.
/r/seduction01/10/19 07:51 AM
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I’m assuming here a little bit but I think I’m at least partially right. You fall in love too quickly and girls eventually lose interest in you despite having really good first interactions. I had this same issue. I was always losing the girls I liked the most, because I made myself too easy too quickly. Take it slow man. You can do this. Keep in mind that while you think this interaction was magical, she may have had 10 others like it and doesn’t think much of it.
/r/seduction01/10/19 07:18 AM
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I would have left out the “if you change your mind, let me know”. This sort of implies that she can have you whenever she wants because you’re gonna be waiting for her like a good little dog. Moving forward just act normal with her. Be her friend. Focus on other girls. If she sees you don’t really give a fuck there’s a chance she might “change her mind”.
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:29 AM
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On top of the advice about seeing other girls you could also try meditation it helps you let go of emotions/feelings.
/r/seduction09/09/19 06:22 AM
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Sometimes a lesson you have to learn the hard way.
/r/seduction03/09/19 12:01 PM
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I’ll repeat. They went on 1 date... You’re going too extreme. This is an excellent learning opportunity for the OP.
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:45 AM
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Dog you realize how toxic your mindset is? They went on 1 date... You need to stop thinking like this you’re just gonna make yourself crazy.
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:16 AM
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Damn everyone here is so butt hurt. I’m surprised by the reaction of this sub. There’s a thousand reasons she might have gone cold, who gives a fuck. Even if it was because she was talking to another dude, who cares. People here are acting like she has to make you the number 1 priority after 1 fucking date. Take this as an opportunity to try something completely different. Obviously you didn’t create quite the chemistry you think you did. Think about what you did/how you behaved on the 1st date …
/r/seduction03/09/19 10:56 AM
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These sites work differently. You usually don't get to swipe on profiles. The "matchmakers" will interview everyone on their platform individually over the phone or sometimes even in person for the more premium packages. From there the matchmaker will decide what the best matches are and set up entire dates for the pairs they believe are the most compatible. This is way better than tinder for someone who is looking for a serious relationship in so many ways that I won't even go into it. We all k…
/r/seduction26/03/19 05:55 AM
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Not sure what you're getting at. But there are websites that charge premiums to connect you with potential partners. I've seen some that charge 1000s of dollars. They will go so far as to coordinate your schedules and set up restaurant reservations and offer many other customized services. So yes to answer your question there are professions in dating. They call themselves matchmakers usually. You're on a r/seduction surely you know that there are also plenty of dating coaches out there. I think…
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:50 AM
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There are plenty of divorced women out there. You gotta figure out how to find them. Maybe join a professional paid dating site (not tinder plus).
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:23 PM
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Practical tips: -Keep the texting sporadic. Don't be the guy who responds immediately to her every text. Don't respond for long periods of time every once in awhile. Or tell her you're busy and that you'll text her later, only to "forget". -Don't offer to hang out whenever she's free. Pick a specific time and day (maybe 2 at most). If she can't, don't try to accommodate yourself around her schedule. If she tells you she's not sure because she might be busy and she's gonna let you know later give…
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:15 PM
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I would say Adderall. Not blow. It's literally a little pill you take to make you smarter (more focused).
/r/seduction17/03/19 04:39 AM
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You can “buy” a social life if you join a fraternity. It might be worth it. It could help you develop socially. Just make sure you pick a decent one that isn’t full of jabronis
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:14 PM
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Most women will wait for the man to make the first move. It's just the way it is. Get used to it. It will save you a lot of time.
/r/seduction10/02/19 07:21 AM
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Like the other guy said. She was hoping you would show some interest (make a move) and you probably didn't. Now she is just protecting her ego by just ignoring you. You could probably still save it if you made a move, but it might be too late. Only one way to know.
/r/seduction10/02/19 06:24 AM
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That’s a fair point. Pretend to be a foreigner than? Haha I don’t know. I wish you luck my friend!
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:30 PM
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People are people man. Yes there are some cultural differences and you might have to tweak some things but the same principles apply especially US/Europe/Australia/and many parts of South America. I am American and live in the US, but I go to South America and Europe all the time and have just as much if not more success there and I don’t change my game. Anyways I won’t argue with you if that’s how you feel, just realize that you might be making excuses.
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:19 PM
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What? Yes they can and they do. There’s many companies that do. RSD for example tours all over the world. There’s no difference. Unless you live in North Korea, which I’m assuming you don’t.
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:49 PM
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A lot of companies travel all over the world. Don’t wait for them to come to you. Go to them. Trust me it will be the best investment of your life. Invest in improving yourself, if you truly feel like your seduction/social skills are stoping you from living your best life.
/r/seduction21/01/19 05:42 PM
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Don't give up man. I truly believe there is hope for everyone. You might need professional help. You should look into doing a bootcamp with any of the many legit seduction companies out there. I think it would be well worth the investment.
/r/seduction20/01/19 09:06 AM
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Insecure much? Never said you were a loser. But you seem to have a loser mentality. You can still get girls even if you have an ugly face. Stop making excuses
/r/seduction19/01/19 06:33 PM
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Agree with you 100%. However those two things help a bunch.
/r/seduction19/01/19 06:25 AM
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Totally fair. Sex really isn't a big deal. Keep working on yourself and you will eventually start getting girls. It's like going to the gym. If you put in the work you'll get results. It just takes time, effort, and a little planning. If you don't workout, you're not going to get ripped. Take action.
/r/seduction19/01/19 02:31 AM
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I'm not trying to say it will. If you're a loser you're still going to be a loser. But it seems this guy has anxiety about the act of just having sex. Getting laid even once might help relive some of that tension. Sex really isn't a big deal.
/r/seduction19/01/19 02:28 AM
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Nah sorry dude. There are endless amounts of quality girls out there, enough for you to bang a new one everyday for the rest of your life if you could/wanted.
/r/seduction18/01/19 02:21 PM
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Dude just go fuck a prostitute to get over the anxiety you’re putting on yourself around having sex.
/r/seduction18/01/19 02:14 PM
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Fear of rejection is a bitch. I try to think of this motto from RSD Max whenever I struggle with fear: "Fear is my personal guide into freedom". Doing the things that scare you is how you develop and improve yourself. Whenever I feel anxiety or fear of doing something I KNOW THAT I HAVE TO DO IT. It can also helps to think about what the worst thing that can happen is. What is the worst thing that can happen if a girl rejects you? Maybe she slaps you, maybe she calls you a creep. So what? You st…
/r/seduction27/11/18 12:09 AM
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One thing you can do is to stop caring if women (or men) like you or not. Start by realizing that as humans its natural to want people to like us and to not think badly of us because our reputations are important to us and our "social standing". However, this tendency can backfire pretty badly especially when trying to attract women because it can make a man look "weak". Also a lot of people that behave this way are often unconsciously behaving in manipulative ways because they are acting in cer…
/r/seduction26/11/18 10:24 PM
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Of course. There are many ways. The key is to be a "challenge" to women. If she can have you easily she will lose interest quickly. You have to maintain the balance in interest in which she has to try to "win" you over by investing in the interaction. There are many things you can do to achieve this but it comes down to how you behave around women. Some important mindsets to have that can help: -Abundance: There are billions of women in the world, don't focus on seducing just one. Having options…
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:52 PM
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Models by Mark Manson is great if you haven't read it yet. For videos I watch RSD Max on youtube. His free content is pretty good. Also I can relate to your problem of being able to get dates and thinking things are going well but eventually losing the girls interest. I think our problem comes from making things too easy for the girl and being more invested in the interaction than she is.
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:40 PM
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Becoming a good speaker and learning to tell stories is a good start. But you shouldn't worry about being the center of attention.
/r/seduction17/11/18 02:33 PM
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I actually don’t think mutual interests matter too much (they definitely play a role). If you can show your passion for something/anything women will be attracted to that. It’s happened to me in reverse. Just the other day I was talking with a girl I didn’t really find attractive but we got into a conversation about her work (something I knew nothing or even cared about) and I could tell how passionate she was about what she was doing that I actually started to feel attracted to her. Also I thin…
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:26 PM
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Fair. I think there might be a little scripting but it is live streamed so it can’t be too much.
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:14 PM
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Exactly and it shows just how important it is.
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:13 PM
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That’s pretty much what I got out of it. I don’t think I misunderstood. The other guys were Mr. Nice Guy and the one dude was just himself.
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:08 PM
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I think that’s the lesson. You could have everything going for you. Looks, job, the whole package. But if you’re boring you’re still going to be bad with women lol.
/r/seduction09/11/18 03:24 AM
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I honestly don’t think any woman wants a boring guy.
/r/seduction09/11/18 03:23 AM
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I still think there’s a lesson to be learned here.
/r/seduction09/11/18 03:22 AM
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I don’t think it’s heavily scripted, because it’s live streamed maybe a little.
/r/seduction09/11/18 03:22 AM
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Nah not scripted. It’s live streamed so would be hard to script. It might show the quality of the women but I still think there’s a lesson to be learned.
/r/seduction09/11/18 03:22 AM
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Seriously though that shit was enlightening.
/r/seduction08/11/18 07:14 PM
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You're putting too much pressure on yourself. Relax, enjoy, have a good time. Be curious, ask questions, ask for advice. People love to talk about themselves, see what you can learn. Don't think about getting "digits" and making the perfect impression. You are there, you already made it, anything extra is a bonus.
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:01 PM
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I feel your pain man. Dating is hard and can get depressing. Sometimes I feel like I will always be alone. I think we need to learn to be happy just being alone before we can find a partner. If we seek to be made whole by someone else that person will always end up getting pushed away. Also, I've ditched the online dating recently and I feel much better. I've actually approached some girls in person and it feels so good (even though its scary as fuck) and the connections are much stronger. Onlin…
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:00 AM
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You have a good attitude. I know you're gonna be alright. You're not alone in this. Most men have gone through this or are going through it. Take this time as period of growth. Focus on becoming a better person all around. Things will slowly fall into place, you have to work hard and trust the process of self improvement.
/r/seduction11/10/18 07:54 PM
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Dudeeeeeee. Honestly, you're investing yourself in this one person wayyyy too much and you don't even know her! You can't get attached to 1 specific girl when online dating. If you messaged her again on Tinder you would come off as extremely needy. Don't take this the wrong way but I want to give you some tough love and tell you that you are probably a needy/clingy person. This is something you can work on. Just move on to the next. If she eventually messages you back great, if she doesn't who g…
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:58 AM
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I think it's a small typo. He probably meant to write "Anything that is in your frame, not hers". So pretty much it means taking what she said and going in a completely different direction with it so that it puts you back in control of the conversation.
/r/seduction01/10/18 03:55 PM
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I know its harsh but welcome to life, its not always easy. At least you've got it easier than all the women that have come before you.
/r/seduction22/09/18 07:23 PM
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No offense, and I know this isn’t true all the time. But the women you can find online are “low quality” for lack of a better word. Sexy, successful, attractive women get tons of attention so they don’t need to go online to find partners.
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:26 PM
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Yup. Like the other guy is saying, it does depends on the chick but 99% of the time its going to be up to you. Don't wait for the girl to initiate or you will be waiting for ever. This is especially true the 1st time you hookup.
/r/seduction11/09/18 09:21 PM
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Try asking her out again. You should be able to get further this time, see what happens. Remember to lead as a man. Try the freeze-out if she stops you again. Some girls take more work especially if you're meeting off of Tinder because you're complete strangers. At this point you have to ask yourself if she's worth the work. Ask yourself questions like: Do you want to spend the time and effort it's going to require to get her to fuck you (it might take 3-4 more dates)? Do you want a relationship…
/r/seduction11/09/18 05:35 PM
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I don’t think asking for sex that directly would be a good move. Like you said let the kino do the talking to judge the situation. You have to make the first move as a man. Start with some over the pants touching moving closer until your hand is right on her vagina. Do some over the pants light rubbing, see how she reacts. If she doesn’t pull your hand away or move herself away try for the next step. See if she’ll let you put your finger slightly down the top of her pants. Then try your hand. So…
/r/seduction11/09/18 03:58 PM
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If you were both enjoying yourselves I would say its fine. Maybe tone down the kissing her neck and arms a little especially if she isn't reciprocating.
/r/seduction11/09/18 01:26 PM
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Some girls will just not go further than that on a first date no matter how hard you try, its totally normal (especially if there is no alcohol involved). It could be for a million different reasons (maybe she's on her period, maybe she's self conscious because she didn't shave her lady parts, maybe she doesn't want you to think she's a slut, etc. etc.). Just play it cool, don't think to much about it. Im sure she would want to go out again and you might be able to get further. ​ Tip: Try this a…
/r/seduction11/09/18 03:38 AM
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I really liked this. Cool guys. I normally would say thats a bad way to approach but they made it work because they were having fun.
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:45 PM
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I like RSDMax. He has a ton of great content for free on youtube. He's got a good approach about game and leans towards a more "natural" style. This video gives a good overview of his style and should get you fired up about getting back in the game. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXGhmjEt2JQ&t=7s
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:25 PM
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It's hard for me to help you over the internet to be honest without being able to see you in an actual interaction. I saw this video by RSDMax yesterday that really resonated with me and I think it might resonate with you as well. He's 5'7" btw and while not "ugly" he doesn't have model looks and rocks an ugly ass beard (sorry Max!). Here's the link to the vid I highly recommend watching the whole thing its about 30 minutes long. The rest of his free content is also pretty good. https://www.yout…
/r/seduction05/09/18 07:51 PM
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If you’ve actually done 200 approaches and had 0 success something is sabotaging you. You need to recalibrate. You’re doing something very wrong. I’m not sure what it is since I don’t know you but it’s something major that instantly puts girls off. Edit: and it’s not cause you’re ugly like the other guy is saying. Unless you’re approaching girls looking like a homeless meth head.
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:40 PM
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I don’t show teeth, but that’s just the way I smile. I would say do whatever you're comfortable with. Even like a smirk would probably work! Just don’t go super huge smile it might come of as creepy.
/r/seduction22/07/18 12:20 AM
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Take some dance lessons! Tons of benefits. Girls love a guy who can dance. It shows confidence. It’s fun. It’s good exercise. You can meet people. If you don’t have time/money for lessons go on YouTube there’s tons of content. Even if you don’t know how to dance (I suck) it’s all about having fun do whatever, jump around, be silly, it doesn’t matter. If you’re smiling, laughing and just enjoying yourself girls will feed of your energy and they will want to be a part of it.
/r/seduction16/07/18 06:54 PM
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Strictly related to pickup a strategy that works for me is strong eye contact. As an introvert I don’t want to go out an talk to everyone. So I hang out do my thing and try to make “organic” (don’t be a creep about it) eye contract with girls. When you manage to lock eyes with a girl SMILE and DO NOT look away. If she holds eye contact with you for more than a couple seconds and smiles you are golden. This is when you approach. It’s as easy as saying “hey” or my favorite “hey I don’t think we’ve…
/r/seduction27/06/18 04:38 AM
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This can work but you have to be careful it can backfire very quickly. I’m an introvert. I became a server. While it helped me learn to talk to people it also started to drain the fuck out of me and made me hate human interaction and made me very fake because I was putting up a front for my guests. It took me quite a while to snap out of it.
/r/seduction27/06/18 04:30 AM
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I agree with you. However I think lots of guys keep this "must only text logistics" mentality even after attraction has been established and they end up losing the girl because she's thinking you're not interested anymore. Unfortunately, and I say I unfortunately because I hate texting, texting has become a part of modern dating and the majority of girls see texting as a sign of a guy being interested.
/r/seduction09/12/17 08:04 AM
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I might get downvoted for this but texting 100% just for logistics does not work. Most girls will think you are not interested if you don't text them regularly/semi-regularly and they will move on. I've lost many girls that were interested in me simply because they thought I wasn't interested, when in fact I was. You need to show interest. Of course attraction has to be established before hand in-person. Your not gonna build attraction through texts only. The only time texting for logistics only…
/r/seduction09/12/17 07:50 AM
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You are a sociopath.
/r/seduction28/02/17 06:59 AM
11

This is all in your head. It's bullshit. You're just trying to rationalize things for yourself.
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:57 AM
1

The best thing you can do now is move on.
/r/seduction22/12/13 04:45 AM
2

Lying is beta. If she asks you about it just say the truth. That's what I would do. And if she doesn't like it then who cares at least you didn't have to lie
/r/seduction12/12/13 02:34 PM
4

what a boss!
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:30 PM
1

Yeah I agree. He is going to be joining me next year at the same school so I will be able to have a pretty big influence on him. I also liked Models a lot a it has shaped a huge part of my game, however I feel like I would not have gotten as much as I did out of it without my prior knowledge/experiences. I think I will do what you said and talk to him, lead by example, let him read the game and show him other more current sources.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:18 PM
4

Maybe... I'm not sure that's the best first step he could take though.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:13 PM
3

Exactly, I think that no matter what I do he has to eventually follow his own path and learn from his own experiences like I did. But I will definitely point him in the right direction if he lets me. My brother will be joining me at the same school next year making it a lot easier.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:11 PM
2

Hahah I had a friend like that too... until he got dumped by his girlfriend.. now I think he's rethinking things.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:04 PM
1

Yes I think you are right. My brother will be joining me at the same college in a few weeks so I think this is the perfect time to take him under my wing.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:03 PM
10

I think this is a great idea unfortunately I can't take him to a bar as I'am not even 21 yet but I can always go to the mall or some place of the sort. However he is coming to the same school as me in a few weeks so it won't be a problem. I really liked Models by Mark Manson. I don't know if you've read it, but do you think it might be to much to start of with. I know it would have been difficult for me to get much out of it without all the prior knowledge/experience I had gained before reading …
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:02 PM
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