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So to everyone there you're that guy that is so bad with the women you got slapped?
/r/seduction17/08/17 05:35 PM
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Don't try, be.
/r/seduction13/08/17 01:06 AM
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Here's the main thing you need: experience. You could someday meet the right girl, date, maybe even fall in love.... you could lose all that without experience. So do everything in the name of experience.
/r/seduction07/08/17 11:23 PM
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That's like asking how long it would take for you to become addicted to a game. Love is not very rational at all and it's when their mind is constantly thinking about you that they are falling in love.
/r/seduction03/08/17 07:48 PM
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Women are very feelings & emotions based. She had interest at first, in short time tho it became clear you were more invested than her and that's when the tides turned. Eventually she was not in the mood to respond and for that reason she blames you. Too many guys want to take over a girl's world once they get their foot in the door. They insta-respond often, asking questions, come up with "clever" banter that actually backfires because it's predictable after a short while. The interest of "tryi…
/r/seduction01/08/17 05:59 PM
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It's very try-hard, comes across that women are scarce in your world and you feel the need to entertain or impress. For the woman, this begins to feel like a chore to respond, and eventually they are likely to decide nah.
/r/seduction01/08/17 05:04 PM
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Social touching -> Friendly touching -> Romantic -> Sexual. Start simple and progress w/her compliance goes.
/r/seduction28/07/17 07:44 PM
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You plan the time and location, and make it out to be not a major deal. Basically you'll be her way on Sunday, is she down for meeting up If no, you need to get her more attracted & comfortable with the idea of meeting you. If yes, cool, how about ____ @ 5? Negotiate from there.
/r/seduction25/07/17 08:13 AM
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I get what you're saying. No, it's not like that, nor am I. I feel like seduction is not really where I belong, as I am much more about evolving into a better man overall. What seduction does do is make me aware and think of many topics that are good to think about. So here I am. Picture it like this: you find a new tv show and you watch the pilot. It's awesome and hilarious. You're excited for the new episode and how much you really like the show. Overall for the first few shows they seem to be…
/r/seduction25/07/17 07:37 AM
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Feels like you're at least starting to. She can tell you're more invested than she is. I would say the biggest thing was the "where & when do you want to meet up?" You just put a lot of pressure on her to decide those things, as well as show her that you're not the leader here, as well as the the fact that you'll meet her anytime/anywhere, which comes off all in all as lower value.
/r/seduction25/07/17 07:16 AM
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It's funny because this is the biggest flaw of seduction & PUAs, the need for things to be black & white. In all reality it may work early on but they can't keep a long-term relationship because it stops working once it becomes predictable. So they end up having to start all over again, this time a little more jaded, but they still don't realize that predictability is the death of desire. Would you watch a tv show that started out awesome but then is repetitious and soon becomes completely predi…
/r/seduction25/07/17 06:34 AM
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I can help in that area if you'd like. Quite possibly my best area of experience. The trick is to keep changing the "rules & boundaries" that exist in your relationship, but do it very subtly and don't 180° and do it every time.
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:00 AM
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Tell yourself it's cuz they are attracted to you in whatever way. Thatxll just help with your confidence
/r/seduction21/07/17 11:27 PM
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Probably the 2nd. There's a chance when she stares she's fucking with you. The 2nd, not likely
/r/seduction21/07/17 11:24 PM
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Handshake if anything at all
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:45 AM
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Yeah, just be "busy" all around, very minimal if she does message you in your replies. Just a "bad timing, gotta go" vibe. After that, then just come back around with a "hey, how you been, what's new" vibe. You don't need to be a completely "I'm so much better now" changed man but you've been on a 2-week journey and yeah your not the guy she remembers anymore.
/r/seduction18/07/17 11:06 PM
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Kind of apples & oranges here, I have a much more different approach to things than you. Rejection is very minimal (not sure if I've ever had 2 rejections in a night), but at the same time it's so indirect that it could easily be considered as not approaching with intentions at all. It's more like I make small talk about things you almost can't reject, things like "where's everybody at tonight" or "what's a good shot to do here" and sort of go from a feel from there to either transitioning or if…
/r/seduction18/07/17 10:43 AM
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Reminds me of Sex Drive... "I admire your ability to open"... honestly the fact that you kept going is admirable as well. On the flip side tho... damn dude tbh it is like you were trying too hard and your openers come off as too needy or too far out there. Like you're trying to be super witty when probably half of them already saw you get shot down earlier (making it 10x more likely they will shoot you down as well). If you must go the direct route (which definitely forces thrm to make an insta-…
/r/seduction18/07/17 09:01 AM
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Basically a lot can change in 2 weeks, and at that point if you have basically minimized contact with her (little to no replies, sorry just super busy) she is going to wonder if you're not interested in her anymore/you're now into someone else. It's like she'll have to reaffirm that you are still all about her to herself. In these 2 weeks it's a dual combination. 1) do try to move on & meet other girls, have other things going on. If some other girl comes along and wins you over, awesome. And if…
/r/seduction18/07/17 08:22 AM
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Consider the definition of "friendzone" as "predictable"... she knows your intentions, your level of interest, everything you do is going to be to try and shake that and even that will be predictable. At this current moment, there is almost nothing that will work, and more than likely only dig you into a deeper hole. There is a bright side to all this though. In 2 weeks (14 days, NO LESS!) you can have a chance to have somewhat of a reset and try again.
/r/seduction18/07/17 07:36 AM
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Sounds like you're establishing a nice way of life and such, you have goals and things going for you... You know, that right there is almost exactly what you should do right there. That would be perfectly acceptable to go up to girls and say "looking to meet cool people here but tbh I am a combination of somewhat busy and slightly shy, so what do you suggest, who are the cool people & the good hotspots and such..."
/r/seduction18/07/17 07:22 AM
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How can they dislike you or judge you if they don't even know you.... relate that to them in as calm and unoffended way as possible. Could turn a perceived weakness into a strength.
/r/seduction18/07/17 07:00 AM
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Absolutely not, if you don't want to drink than don't. There's a lot to be said to be that guy that doesn't need to drink because everyone else is. That shows character even.
/r/seduction18/07/17 06:48 AM
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As quickly and as best as I can put it, it's like they figure you out and once they finally do it's like the book they read and now they're done with. It was fun but now it's predictable and annoying. So the key to not being that is to be unpredictable at times (not always, not like a weird or creepy guy, but to where everything you do seems to always have that one or few instances of where you didn't do that at all)
/r/seduction18/07/17 06:44 AM
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The way I see it indirect is better for many reasons, the primary one being I'm never ready to "buy now" early on. I want to see if they've got their life somewhat together, not shallow or borderline crazy, etc., and even what they want as far as a relationship or just a hook up. There definitely can be times for direct, but overall indirect can save you from the many pitfalls direct tends to have.
/r/seduction18/07/17 06:33 AM
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I think he has the right intentions and makes valid points. That's very true about most guys waiting for the right moments.
/r/seduction17/07/17 10:42 AM
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It honestly sounds like she's playing you and showing her friends how she's stringing you along. While it's good to take chances, a lot of the things you've said sound like it quickly becomes obvious you're trying too hard. I think you should stop and go back to the drawing board on all this. Less is more. The whole fb messaging ppl you don't know thing, can be done but needs to be done in a way that is very casual and minimum effort., and come off as very non-creepy or needy as much as possible…
/r/seduction09/06/17 11:38 AM
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The whole thing works because anyone can relate to the fact that friends can get old after a little while, it sets limitations on things too. Even the fun friends typically turn it into a night of "aw shit, now where the hell did ____ go?" Contrast is good. Everything else seems like an agenda. So I love not having pre-planned everything as DHV, it makes it so they wonder why I said this or that...? And I'm in their head now so perfect.
/r/seduction11/05/17 03:49 PM
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The perfect response is absolutely nothing.
/r/seduction11/05/17 08:01 AM
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He's right, go where they are, and find ways to logistically ground being there often. Make it a routine to stop at a coffee shop for your usual. Go to the library to check out things & study some subject. They may be busy but plan out ways to make a natural interaction happen. Ask thrm if they can help guide you in the right direction finding something. Or you have a sister that would love her shirt & where she bought it... etc.
/r/seduction11/05/17 07:03 AM
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It's all how you frame it, man. "I do what I want, when I want, and don't feel like I need to run it through my friends first. Hell, I typically get annoyed hanging out with them after about an hour anyways. I like varierty, and I like getting to know new people worth knowing. Why, is that you?"
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:51 AM
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It's really simple, just early on, when you're in the late qualification/early comfort stage, just state where your head's at currently. You can say you're burned out from your last relationship and just want to enjoy being single, etc. Almost always, they will agree with you and you've set the relationship frame for what it could be. Even if they want a relationship (or secretly you do) they look at it as a challenge to win you over completely (and almost always want to see if they can). Same s…
/r/seduction05/05/17 11:17 PM
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My strength is the ability to turn things sexual by making it so I planted the seed but they think it was their thought. Therefore they become the aggressor, them chasing you, so to speak. I do this by saying things that get them thinking about sex, but not like me getting sexual with them. Examples would be: "There's a couple people in here that are pissy as all hell, damn they need to get laid already." "I never go to that bar across the street anymore, last time I was there I got propositione…
/r/seduction05/05/17 08:54 AM
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