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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Cheating STBXW wants to play happy family for kidsBe cordial not friendly, Don’t underestimate kids intuition. They will know it is fake and this not how we build relationship. It shows a bad example. Moreover, you need to heal and a wayward BS are trigger by definition | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | I Don't Think I Ever Loved Her...Hello emergency I have seen your posts. I hope you followed the milf advice and continued your healing journey | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Separated about to reconcile but wife has told me she slept with someoneOP, Did you sleep with someone else during this separation ? NO, but she did. All the memories, the love and the deep feeling meant nothing when she slept with the other Guy. You said it wasn’t adultery but she is still your wife. She left because she thought that the grass would be greener but I wasn’t. Now you are plan B. Is there more to the story? You can be sure about that and it will eat to know the full story. She is not a safe partner OP and you are want to read the same story expecting … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants to separate as she isnt in love with me any more and I'm brokenHello OP, I read your post history The titles are telling Why I decided to forgive my WW and some days afterward you don’t know how much will you stay NC as your WW is not sure about R. Do you feel that there is something wrong with your approach ? Anyways your circus , your monkeys OP Stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 11:28 AM |
| 5 | I’m very confusedNo one wants to be the vilain in his/her own story If she was that interested in your well being, she wouldn’t have cheated. Cheater always do thing for their own benefit ( emotional, physical and material ) You are doing the right thing OP | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Today is sock day.Congrats man ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Update: STBXW introduced AP to our kid already.Every step seems as a new betrayal an open up a wound that is still fresh OP. You have to let go for good. Use the Co-parenting App and stay always cordial in any form of communication OP. Don’t a a source of supply in any kind. She failed the wife test but stays as the mother of your child. Don’t wait for revenge, justice or closure OP. A partner than can commit such betrayal will be tainted for life. My father left his first marriage with two daughters and and never looked back. Stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | What is wrong with herMy two older sisters were abandoned by their mother. They always loved her but they knew who is there rock and anchor. When I asked them about their most beautiful moment ,they will always tell me about their trip around the world with Dad and it happened approx 1 year after they were abandoned 1,5 after divorce. Wish you the best | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | What is wrong with herBuild quality time and beautiful memories with them in this additional time OP. You can’t control her but you can make every second with your kids worth it. Moreover don’t let her actions affect you like that. If she was the stable parent she wouldn’t have nuked her marriage/family | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | When did the feelings of grief end for you?The grieving period is normal, it does mean that you are relapsing or weakening. It only means that the you cared, committed and mature in your relationship. But arguments and discussions are to be avoided post break up. It is like flagging a death horse OP. And You can’t shame the shameless. Nothing that the betrayer can do will gives you what was taken from you. As for feeling neutral or meh, it take times, depends on the person and the former relationship. Accept the it has happened to you an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 07:58 AM |
| 1 | STBXW introducing kid to affair partner, and we’re not even divorced.There is a trend of callous and immature behavior from her part. I wouldn’t be surprised that it will continue. This is the real she. I think that both of them AP/WW are like share this lack of decency. You focus on yourself OP. Her happiness/ unhappiness must not affect you. It is difficult to reach this point but you must see her as she really is now. A person that act this way is not to be missed. Don’t react in anger and stay civil, report every actions to your lawyer to do his/her job | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Final hearing date is set.My father left his first wife a debt and my two oldest sisters. Her married my mother approx 3 years afterward. Glad he did it OP Stay strong OP | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/23 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I wish I had been hit by a bus insteadGreat POST OP | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | What’s with her?Stay NC dragonfly and use Grey Rock during physical encounters. There is a life after divorce too. I thank my father for thinking this way (two half sibling) You deserve much more and I hope I will find you in a more joyous Sub | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/23 08:43 AM |
| 0 | Did you become persona non grata to other married men friends after Divorce?Hello OP, The thing that you describe exists really and you don’t need to get married to experience that. It any LTR’s break up. Sometimes people are victims of the ex smear campaign (it doesn’t justify their behavior ) or it is due to their own insecurities 🤷🏻♂️ As you said, you can use it to filter your inner circles Life is too short for this shit | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/22 09:30 AM |
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