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ADVICEJujubes06/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 12:21 PM
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Jujubes06/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 06:21 PM
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Just move on. If he's just not that into you, he's not worth the trouble.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 01:46 PM
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I don't equate being feminine with just being amiable and fluffy. It's about not aping male characteristics but about being charming, not snarky. I don't think being feminine should change anything about your personality or how you operate in the office. Don't be afraid to lead. You don't have to take a back seat, leading with elegance and grace will definitely be appreciated! I've often been told that I'm a nurturing boss, I protect my team, work alongside them and move the work along as we all…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/16 11:59 PM
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They don't take the lead in a relationship, they depend on their wives to make decisions for the family and to "socialize"
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/16 01:33 PM
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If you've ever met and interacted with a man from China, you'd know why there are so many 剩女。They aren't good captains and are really lacking in the ability to provide and guide the family. Sons are the little emperors and they are selfish and spoiled. Hence the rise of the unmarried women. I'm not defending Chinese women but I'd say that before you judge all Asian women, take a look at their potential partners. How do I know this? I'm Asian and I just returned from a 2.5year stint in the Chines…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 11:59 PM
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You need to stop thinking of yourself and your "mission". Guys know when you're trying too hard and have a deadline to meet and that's when women become really unattractive. I'd say you should stay off the dating sites and really look at widening your social circle, go to a gym, sign up for a cross-fit class or join a group that meets up for outdoor activities or even volunteer. That's where you'll meet real people and enrich your life at the same time. Find out who you are and be an interesting…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 11:52 PM
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Then if you layer the RP principles on, doesn't it make it more difficult for the men to lead?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 10:51 PM
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3) is most plausible. Most of them married their college sweethearts or people they had been dating for a long time so it wasn't a case of just settling. There must have been something that goes on behind closed doors that brings them to equilibrium
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 10:49 PM
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Well, I guess when a South East Asian girl falls in love with a North American man who is based in a North Asian country that's different from the North Asian country she's based in, it all gets complex. Technology breaks barriers but I guess there's nothing like being in the same place. Also, being a couple of years older and having a more established career makes the next move even harder to plot.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 11:54 PM
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Yeah. I guess in a moment of weakness I thought I could have this amazing man and the career I've built. We met when I was overseas for work, where he is based, just 2 hours from where I'm based. I guess the world is far more complicated than it seems.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 07:33 PM
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Thank you for the food for thought. I have spent the last 10 years building a career that I loathe to walk away from. I guess the decision now is about man versus career because it's very clear that moving to marry him is the only next step in this relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 07:31 PM
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So would giving it all up and moving be the right step?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 07:17 PM
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This is what I am grappling with. We met while I was on a business trip and it was the sort of connection that deserves more than just something casual. I could totally be a plate and at a stage where I wonder if I should invest more or focus on myself and my life.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 07:13 PM
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Apologies for the lack of specificity; I am also trying to understand what it is that makes me uncomfortable and how I can be a good first mate and a sweet and loving girlfriend. He wants me to move to where he is so that we have a proper relationship but I can't move there because I'm not able to work if I do move, given the language issues where he lives. He can't visit me often so I make an effort to go see him as often as I can so that we can spend time together, I also offer to meet him hal…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 07:11 PM
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This is what I don't understand about RPW, being with an RP man, I find this the hardest part. I'm not trying to be difficult but how do you communicate how you're feeling without coming off as being needy and disrespectful?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 05:16 PM
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Thanks for the support! At times I feel so drained. I have to always be on my best behavior and work to make sure he feels appreciated, admired and supported and still sees me as being high value. Sometimes I wonder if he really loves me. He tells me that he makes time for me and that I should know. When I tell him I love him and miss him, he says that it's nothing new. This makes me feel so small and lonely.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 04:41 PM
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Hi there, I'm new here and after lurking for a while, have decided to check in. I started seeing a Red Pill guy a few months ago and I'm trying to be the best girlfriend I can be so I'm here looking to pick up some tips. I must say, it is a jagged Little Pill to swallow. I've never been a chest thumping feminist but I have always been one of the boys so being feminine takes a conscious effort on my part. I'm also used to being a driver at work and at play so it takes quite a bit for me to really…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 10:57 AM
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