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The data were collected from July 1999 to December 2009 as part of the Gosling-Potter Internet Personality Project. What's the point of bringing data about self-esteem from pre-social media era? You want to tell me that today in 2020 in western countries women are still less confident than men? That's pure delusion. Social media and dating apps (as well as other things) are making women overconfident as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:26 AM
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It gives me as much pain reading FDS posts as a woman might feel reading TRP stuff. You don't realize how hurtful and misandrists FDS can seem to men, becasue you see it only from your point of view. Men and women see things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:41 PM
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They are already becoming more and more common. But even if the guy doesn't like the idea of open relationship, he still has an option b) which is having kids together, but not having a relationship together. You can imagine it more like divorced couples today who have 50/50 custody of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:20 PM
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Why do we still believe these girls will look for a commited relationship when they get older?Yes women want commitment from a guy, but they would rather trade it for a freedom to fuck whoever they want while making easy money online. In the future commited relationships will have an entire different meaning. A commited relationship in the future will mean either:a) Open relationshiporb) Having kids together, living separately, having 50/50 custody, fucking whoever you want. This will be the mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:39 PM
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That all our great grandfathers were evil oppressors of women and all our female ancestors were slaves to these oppressors and were forced to marry them against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:05 PM
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Young women have less sex then they did then. What do you even mean by that? Do they have less sex on average per year or something? While it's true that there is more women who are sexless than ever before. The ones who are sexual (most of them) are having sex with a lot more partners than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:47 PM
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It's because of the trend. Your average 22 years old girl today rode more dicks than average 30 years old. And it's only getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:27 PM
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Yes. It's so easy to be a woman these days that they have no concept of how being invisible, rejected and treated like you are disposable trash can make guys lose confidence and stop trying in life. Women are winning from the moment they are born and they think that this "state of mind" where you can overcome every adversity is achievable by everybody.They don't understand why low status, ugly, short men can't/aren't trying to better themselves. They talk about it like it's just laziness or some…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:43 PM
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It's just a harmless projection. This is the type of shit women would like to see on a guy's profile and they believe men will like these kind of photos as well. I don't really care. It's not that big of a deal other than to make me believe that she is high maintanance, which is a turn off. But I would swipe right either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:14 PM
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Of course and I never said we should live in that kind of world. My point was to illustrate that we shouldn't bullshit ourselves about the fact that there is this "free market" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:31 AM
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If you read carefully, you would be able to understand that I actually wrote that rape is immoral and that we shouldn't be able to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:28 AM
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Here it is! I knew there would be that one woman who will totally overreact and start crying about rapists. "All men are rapists" got it Someone who wants to fuck, but who is supressing his urges and doesn't rape is by definition not rapist. It's actually the oposite. "Muh logic". And you just proved my point about men being shamed for their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:26 AM
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I don't understand what are you trying to argue here. A marriage from convenience doesn't equal unhappy marriage. If you are marrying for convenienve then you don't have time to deal with stupid emotional shit like "love" and "attraction".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:53 AM
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Because men are shamed for even trying to express their sexuality. Men want to fuck most of the women they see, but we can't even show a sign that we are sexual beings because "muh harrasment". If we truly lived in a free market, men would be able to go up to you and use the only power that they have (physical strength) to have sex with you and they wouldn't get punished for it. Of course this kind of behaviour is immoral and we don't want this to happen in our society therefore we invented laws…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:39 AM
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They were prioritizing safety and resources over love. That's not the same as being forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:08 AM
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Women married men they didn't feel anything for. They had sex with and raised kids for these men. They lived quite lives of servitude and were more or less miserable. How do you know this? Women use this argument all the time, but is it even true? Just look at this pandemic we have right now. Suddenly when life gets a little bit tougher men get a little bit more appreciated. It's a running joke on the internet where many men experienced that their ex-girlfiriends suddenly started hitting them up…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:03 PM
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There might be a little bit of overlap, but it's probably less than people think. Majority of incels aren't fat neckbeards with greasy hair or skinny 100 pound nerdy boys with thick glassess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:21 AM
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Men are scared to commit. Commitment means that you are basically giving up control of your life and handing the controller to a woman. She can now do whatever she wants with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:24 PM
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Yes, but I don't really see having "too many options" as a problem. Sure it's a double edge sword and it has some downsides to it, but we all know that you wouldn't give up that power even if you could. It's like crying about being too rich, because you will have to pay a lot of money to the goverment because of the taxes. One thing I don't empathize with women is about not being able to get the guy to commit. All women want to get commitment from the same type of guy. Confidence is also a doubl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:04 PM
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No, you can fuck whoever you want. Nobody is saying that you should be able to share your vagina against your will with an incel or something. Is this what you wanted me to answer? Sexlessness in men is just a symptome of much bigger issues. Giving men free pussy seems to be a wrong way to go about fixing that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:30 PM
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I would expect from you to be smart enough to be able to read and actually comprehend what you are reading. I see I was expecting too much .. nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:58 PM
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Why? Because they gave you all the power to succeed in life? Because they dumbed themselves down and gave up their greatest strength for your sake so you could live happily in a society where women are treated better than men? You know why I hate women? Because as soon as they got power, they went like: "I got everything I wanted, so all you men, you better step up your game or fuck off and die". Women think their sexual revolution is worth more than men commiting suicide and dropping out of soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:47 PM
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Not in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:54 PM
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How hard or how easy it is is mostly irrelevant. What's relevant is the fact that women are playing completely different game than men. We are not following the same rules, therefore it's not hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:11 PM
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It's not hypocritical. Women have all the power when it comes to sex. Men are just playing "pick me" game. Some men are higher value or have better strategies, but they are still playing a "pick me" game. Because of the nature of this game, all I can hope for is that a woman chooses me. This "pick me" game is what's creating in us this need to feel special. We don't have any power, so you might as well make us feel special if you want us to commit to you. If she chooses to sleep with other guy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:55 PM
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I don't think so. Men want to bang nice girl just as much as slutty girl. It's just slutty girl seems like an easier target.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:38 PM
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If you reject somebody you are making the other person feel hurt. A single rejection is not really a big deal and it's not an abuse. It's when you go through your life always being ignored and rejected, when it starts to feel similar to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:28 PM
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I disagree with you. You are assuming that all women will be looking for commited LTRs. You are assuming that denying women LTR will be some kind of weapon against them. You are not considering the fact that monogamy is already dissapearing. These high N count women already think that LTR is overrated. They wil be just hooking up till they are 30 and if they want to have kids, they will pursue open relationship instead. There will be enough men who will be fine with this kind of arrangement to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:36 PM
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These lies aren't as bad though. At least you can be ballin for the first half of your life. Nice guys will have shitty lives from the beginning to the end and they are not going to reproduce either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:15 AM
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Feminine (heterosexual) men have it terrible. Masculine women can live decent lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:02 PM
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Open relationships mostly benefit women. Some men will suck it up and let their wife fuck other men. But I also see a lot of men having problem with "sharing" so that's why they will stay single and just hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:42 PM
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I don't see monogamy lasting very long. Open relationships are the future. Young women are now cheating more than men. Anyone who uses social media could notice a trend that young women are trying to make cheating borderline socially acceptable. Even if they don't cheat, they are jumping from relationship to relationship and it's "your fault for getting too attached if you get hurt". Of course men aren't all innocent either. Top 20% of men are getting all women and they are not willing to settle…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:28 PM
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I will admit that most of my reasons are egocentric. I fail to see however why women think that there is something wrong about a man's ego. Why shouldn't I feel hurt? Personally it's very hard for me to describe my feelings when a girl reveals her high N count. It's just bad.... it hurts. It almost feels like I have been betrayed or something. There are some feeling of jelousy, resentment, insecurity, lack of respect for the girl .... and many more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:56 PM
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From my perspective I feel like women only care about men's issues that involve physical harm and sexual abuse. Women feel a lot of empathy for men who are going through these issues, because they understand it very well. Anything that doesn't involve physical harm and sexual abuse isn't taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:19 PM
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nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:45 PM
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You weren't very moral in the first place if you'd suggest that men should start raping women in response to it. Where did I suggest that? I said that if you think that morality doesn't matter, then rape should be allowed.Obviously I don't believe that men should be able to run around freely and have sex with whoever they want. Neither should women though. There is nothing stopping you from having sex with whoever you want. But you are still part of the society whether you like it or not. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:54 PM
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No they don't. There is this thing called "morality" that you don't think is important, that stops us from fucking every woman we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:18 PM
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Some women think they are entitled to follow all their instincts and fuck whoever they want. If that's the case then should men be entitled to follow all their instintcs and fuck whoever they want as well? Morality doesn't matter, so we should do whatever we want right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:09 PM
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I have no sympathy for women who cry about having to deal with "indiscriminate" men trying approach her in public. How dare they approach me? Women want to have all the advantages of dating without any downsides. They want to move dating entirely online, so they can do whatever they want and control everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:34 PM
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People who don't know any better think of confidence as some kind of inner power that you can just pull out of your ass if you try really hard. The reality is that you need positive experiences and validation to be able to be confident. Most people in that group have unhealthy amount of negative experiences to be able to just muster up the courage and ask the girl out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:12 PM
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If we're being honest some guys literally put in zero effort; wouldn't that make him as voluntary celibate as the 18% of women that are usually ignored in the debate. You need to have a certain level of confidence to even try. Most guys in this group don't have that. I wouldn't call that kind of person a "voluntary celibate".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:01 PM
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Do you also have stats about custody of the children when it comes to fathers vs mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:27 PM
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Because men value niceness in women AND because men also value niceness in other men.There is extensive programming in place to raise boys to be nice. Women are crying about sexual assaults and abuse all the time. They cry about how women were oppressed in the past and want boys to behave more like girls (because it's assumed that girls are nicer than boys). They are all telling lies about how they are looking for nice man. We listened to you and we got the message. We want you to live happy in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:38 AM
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The way I see it, is that both men and women have morals. But women don't have the capacity to admit their mistakes, and don't feel accountable for their actions. That's why from a guy's perspective it seems like women don't have any morals. If a man cheats on his girfriend, the man is at fault. If a woman cheats on his boyfriend, the man is at fault. This kind of "twisting the logic" is happening in a woman's brain all the time. She is always the good girl, even though she is doing immoral thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:36 PM
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Women will definitely need to change if we want to solve this problem. Giving men free pussy to keep them happy is going too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:56 PM
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No. I am merely giving an answer to the question whether men are the problem or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:45 PM
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I would blame the ones who have all the power if I had to choose. If you can't even meet your basic need for intimacy, then you can't stop being thirsty. Men are thirsty because they can't meet their need for inimacy .... DUH. Women can satisfy their need for intimacy 10 times over, yet they refuse to take responsibility and shift blame to men. Men how dare you to be thirsty so much? Look at meeee. I am a woman and I am not thirsty like you! All of my needs are met and I expect you to get your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:10 PM
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Far as I can tell people have no problems getting laid in Europe and just focus on other things than having children. "Incel" is mostly a thing in east Asia nerd culture, and in the USA where there is increasing economic inequality and decreasing socializing. It's everywhere bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:08 PM
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Instead of removing online dating completely, programmers could just artificially rig those apps to make it so average man has the same chance of finding a date as average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:00 PM
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Because it's easy to spot a guy who will cheat on you. It's easy to vet for it. The same thing can't be said about a woman. Even ugly or shy chicks could be cheaters. Women are better at pretending and manipulating so it's not that obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:19 PM
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I never said that. They can sleep with whoever they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:16 AM
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Men commit suicide because they can't get sex? Yes. I see how you completely ignored my point about men dying from circumcision and domestic violence. People have died from circumcision and domestic violence. Got it. Just like people have died from not having access to intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:16 PM
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Men, do you view a woman not being attracted to you/sexually interested as blatantly insulting? No, I just feel hurt or sad. But when you then sleep with a bad boy, then I feel insulted. It almost feels like you are sleeping with my enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:03 PM
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All the time. It's called suicide, which is something you said that you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:58 PM
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I don't think a person who is in that position can see it that way. For example if every time you try hard to achieve something and you always fail, you will start to associate "trying hard" with failure. Is it not wise in that case to give up? A person who was always rejected or ignored, wouldn't be able to look at the situation positively and continue trying forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:57 PM
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You not gonna die from domestic violence, circumcision or rape either. However you will be mentally damaged which is also what happens when men don't have access to intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:47 PM
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It's something, but it's not the same. For an older guy who already experienced relationships, getting a prostitute might seem like a good idea. But for a young guy who is virgin hiring a prostitute might feel like a defeat. You are accepting that you are loser who can't get sex any other way. It can be destructive for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:38 PM
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I don't want to spend my time arguing about the literal meaning of the word "need". You KNOW what I meant when I used that word. If you don't give a shit about men's issues then you don't need to have this argument with me. You don't need to play these "Gotcha" games with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:27 PM
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I used the word "ability" in terms of "don't have a chance" or "not capable" of finding a mate. For multiple reasons, men these days aren't able to get into those relationships you are describing, because the bar is set too high for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:15 PM
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"You are not entitled to .... " argument can be used literally for everything. People should stop using this as argument, because it leads nowhere. Men need sex/intimacy for healthy development. It's important and I wish that everyone had access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:04 PM
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It is. If you take away a man's ability to find a mate he won't have any motivation and he will develop mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:42 PM
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Would you want to get married to a guy who in his teens and 20s has been fucked in the ass by gay dudes and was riding the cock carousel until he met you? If not, then you are INSECURE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:47 PM
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But that data is from 2018. In last 2 years the world changed so much that the number is probably higher now. Things have got even harder for guys since then. It feels like there is a new era every few years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:02 PM
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Being kind does not require groveling or ass-kissing-- if you're Christian, you know that Jesus was kind and nurturing and caring, and yet also strong and confident and ethical. How many men can achieve that though? I think that you believe that you can be warm, nurturing and kind and still be confident, strong and independent. Mabe it's possible, but if you are confident, strong and independent, chances are that it takes away from your femininity. But imagining that women only like bad men is j…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:48 PM
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Yes, but I think it's easy to fail as a parent when it comes to boys nowadays. For example my parents really tried and weren't the lazy type that leave their children to play videogames all day long. My parents were just a little bit too authoritarian and I developed bad social anxiety from very young age. I even played soccer for 10 years during my teens on pretty high level. I was also doing other sports and had many (male) friends and wasn't some nerd who was at home all the time. I wasn't ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:11 PM
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are not incompatible within the same person. People often say this, but the reality is that it's very hard to achieve this within the same person. NOT being cruel, NOT being destructive and NOT being deceitful isn't the same as being caring and kind. But for a woman it's good enough to label the guy as "nice". From a woman's perspective a slightly assholish behaviour isn't a bad thing and it adds to a man's masculinity. In the same way from my point of view being weak and passive isn't neccesser…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:51 PM
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Men care a lot about your personality. But you shouldn't be projecting a woman's idea of "good personality" with a man's idea of "good personality". When a man says he wants a woman with "good personality" what he actually means is kind, warm, nice, caring, ethical etc. When a woman says she wants a man with "good personality", what she actually means is confident, strong, competent, assertive etc ... Men and women often misunderstand what the opposite sex wants because we are projecting. I ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:18 PM
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Men are the ones who are more likely to be assaulted, but women are the ones who are more scared of being assaulted. You have to understand that men and women are different. We are scared of different things. I am a guy and I don't walk around being scared of getting assaulted ... ever. And I am pretty short and I don't know how to fight and yet I am not worried about it. However there are other things men are scared of. Like being manipulated and cheated on by a woman. Being falsely accused of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:45 PM
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Except you can't pull confidence out of your ass. You need success and validation. "Just be confident bro !" is the best non-advice I ever heard. If society treats you like you are toxic and disposable trash and if women don't show interest in you then you definitely won't have confidence. If you experienced too many failures, dissapointments, rejections, bullying or any other negative experiences then, you can kiss your confidence good bye. Your brain will remember those experiences and make yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:49 PM
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If you phrase it like that, then it sounds like men are just too shallow or something. "You are not entitled to blablabla " is literally the worst argument I ever seen. It can be used for anything, yet I noticed that some women on PPD think that this is a solid argument. This is just an example, so don't get mad, but are women entitled for wanting to go out on the street without being raped? Because guess what, you are not entitled to be safe, despite of what the law says. There is nothing in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:46 PM
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You are overestimating the amount of free will people have in life (if any). You are making it look like being successful is just a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:26 AM
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BEING A DECENT HUMAN BEING IS NOT A QUALITY. ITS A BASIC REQUIREMENT. Women say this shit all the time on this subreddit. "Being nice is not a quality. Everyone can be nice . You are not bringing anything to the table by being nice. duh? " You are stating this as a fact, like it's something that everyone already knows, but here is a news for you. Outside of TRP and PPD, men don't know this fact. That's because men see "niceness" as a quality. Shocking right? This might be a news for ladies, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:18 AM
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simps are also victims
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 02:31 AM
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More attractive mabe, but definitely not more fashionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:49 AM
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A lot of guys that whine about being "lied to" are confusing gentle reassurance they received from well-meaning friends and relatives (i.e. "just be yourself", "there's someone out there for you") with a declaration that they can just be a slob and women will flock to them. Can't relate. All the unattractive/slobbish men in my family were able to find girlfriends and wifes just fine. That's because they grew up in different era where men didn't have to look good.They didn't find it necessary to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:20 PM
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In last 10-15 years the world changed too much. Before internet era men didn't need to look as good to get women, but now it's a requirement. The change was too fast. A lot of parents didn't adapt enough and weren't able to raise their boys properly in this new era. I am 28 years old male. When I was in my teens, I remember being shamed all the time for trying to rock some long-ish surfer hair styles etc. I gave up and learned to maintain some basic ass haircut and dress as plain as possible to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:24 PM
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They haven't had a time to step up. Give them 10-20 years and there will be more female CEOs than male.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:18 AM
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Those guys all want to have sex and date just like girls, but most of them don't stand a chance because of current dating dynamics. Whether you like it or not, male confidence is strongly tied to their sexual/romantic success.If a guy isn't having sex he is weak. For a guy to be seen as weak is the worst thing in the world. That's why guys at that age don't want to discuss dating and sex in a group, because most of them are not experienced. Like, you want them to circlejerk about how their crush…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 04:09 PM
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Yes and that's the point! It's not as dramatic when it comes to women. Therefore there has to be something else that is driving the male epidemic. "Lack of social skills" is just contributing factor that affects both genders. But it's not the primary cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:28 PM
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The inc*l 'epidemic' is largely due to social ineptitude/ mental health issues brought on by too much technology and helicopter parenting. This is nonsense. If what you are saying was true, then we would see the same rise between female and male sexlessness. Women are exposed to the same shit as men when it comes to technology, helicopter parenting or whatever. These things affect both groups. so we should see proportional rise in sexlessness in both men and women right? But that's not what is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:57 PM
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This is just some minor stuff so don't get triggered: V shaped bikinis. It always reminds me of those cheesy 80s workout videos. These bikinis reveal parts of your groin that should stay hidden, and it makes your body look out of proportion. I always imagine "Borat" when I see an instagram model wearing these. Huge butts. I am talking Kardashian and Brazilian styles. There is a small portion of guys who have a fetish for this, but most of them don't. Again, it's a proportion thing. Big boobs. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 10:15 PM
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