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| 14 | Do you think Online Dating just makes it too easy for the opposite sex (either one)?it's like a person of either gender doesnt experience suffering emotions of iniating a face to face conversation with someone or suffer the possible pain of rejection when failing. This just shows how little women know about male experience when it comes to dating apps.Dating apps for men can me the greatest confidence killer in the world. Good luck if you think you can get rejected thousands of times in a row and still think you are awesome.Personally I don't use dating apps, because I can't ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Obsession with sexual historyGrowing up I didn't realy care about how many body counts a girl had. In fact I thought these kind of girls were pretty cool. I only started caring when I realized that I wasn't being included to have fun as well. I guess for me it's all about ego. Women don't allow me to have fun and explore, therefore they shouldn't be allowed to have fun either. It's simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:18 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismIt's basically this. Women: "Thanks for giving me power in society. Now step up to my level or fuck off." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Male sexlessness - an American problem?Of course it doesn't affect you. Women have it so easy today that they don't even understand how failure and rejection can stop people from trying harder in life. Women are winning from the moment they are born and they can't understand why these pathetic men aren't able to win as well. This kind of mindset is a luxury that only modern women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Male sexlessness - an American problem?Isn't that the opposite though? From what I have seen, the people who experienced the most struggle in life still struggle to this day. The people I know who are the most successful are also the ones that had the least amount of struggles in life. These people usually come from financially stable family with 2 loving parents. She also assumes that "losers" who play video games and watch porn had struggle free life, which is also not correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?Because what's the point then? If you don't have access to women then all that's waiting for you is a lifelong of adult responsibilities without any kind of adult benefits that men find important (like sex, family, children). Confidence for men is also closely tied to success with women. If you don't have confidence you will suck at life and then you will be depressed. I believe that women are self-destructive the same way without men. It's just very difficult for a woman to get into that kind o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Both: how do you feel about online dating/ what has been your experiences with it?Confidence booster if you are a woman. Confidence killer if you are a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Most men massively overrate women and can't tell who is truly attractiveYou heard it here folks. Most men can't recognize who is attractive, but u/BigCCPenis is one of the chosen ones who can. Men find Emma Watson attractive because she has a right balance of features that give off "good girl" type of vibes, yet she is still sexy enough without having to look like a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Do less physically developed boys tend to internalize sexual shame/repression since puberty?surely not THAT many men are "naturally" trans? Of course not. Here is a post from sissy subreddit that can give you an answer as to why they do it. Basically a lot of men admit that they are jealous of how easy it is for women to get sex. They understand that it's far easier to get that sexual attention and validation they crave from other men instead of women. Most of them aren't really gay either. They just learned to like it "both ways". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 9 | Guys' caring about a partner's sexual history is incompatible with a sexually free society. Thus, such guys should not commit, since then it doesn't matter.Women' refusing to date men that make less money than them is incompatible with financially equal society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Women's dating/relationship standards are warped by social media the same way men's are by porn.Porn is all about sex, but you are trying to somehow conflict it with relationships. If porn was really inflating standards for beauty just like you are suggesting, then we would have to look at sex first and not the relationships. Do you see and evidence in your life where men wouldn't want to hookup with average women? If not, then porn isn't affecting men as much as you think. Or do you believe that porn only has effect on standards when it comes to relationships, but it somehow bypasses the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 13 | Women's dating/relationship standards are warped by social media the same way men's are by porn.How does porn alter men's expectations? Average healthy weight woman is hot enough for men to have sex with. As far as I know "not being fat" isn't some kind of unrealistic standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 06:23 PM |
| 72 | 28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?)And? It's not that surprising to me at all. Women don't approach men. Why would he think that he is attractive if he didn't get any kind of positive feedback from the opposite sex? There is no reason for him to think otherwise if he doesn't have any success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Women are afraid of men being weird/agressive/rapists, but how about men being afraid of other men getting triggered/mad? Can men here relate to that?I am sure there is a female version of this although more subtle. The problem is that an anxious introverted guy is facing a far harsher consequences for his "weakness". If he can't hold his own, he can get into some dangerous situations. The worst case scenario for a girl is that she will be ignored all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Women are afraid of men being weird/agressive/rapists, but how about men being afraid of other men getting triggered/mad? Can men here relate to that?This is the reason why a lot of socially anxious introverted girls are still able to go to parties and have a good time and be accepted by the group, while their male counterparts will just suffer if they try to do the same. Men can see the weakness in other men and they will try to dominate or degrade each other every time a woman enters a room. Some men don't even realize that they are doing it while other guys do it on purpose. It is what it is. I had to cut out som friends because of this bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 05:02 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The majority of men have absolutely no conception of how much sexual and emotional trauma the average woman is carrying around with her and mens’ approach to sexual/relationships would be drastically improved if the majority of men could understand this.Trust me we understand. This knowledge has been beaten to us from birth. We might not be able to understand exactly what's going on in a woman's brain, because for most men sex is associated with positive experiences. However since women talk about harrasment and abuse so much it must be important to them and men accept it and try to correct their behaviour. It's just that women don't seem to care about men's problems and men are fed up with it being one sided. If I told you that I have social a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Question for RedPill: How do you view non-traditional relationships? Are they acceptable to you?Are you monogamous? Have you cheated on him? Every time I see this kind of relationship I can't help but to think that the woman would inevitably cheat on the guy or at least manipulate him into some kind of open relationship, which is bad deal for most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are not entitled to sex as women are not entitled to commitmentWe should automatically ban or delete any posts that use the "You are not entitled to blablabla" argument. We as humans are not entitled to ANYTHING. People use this argument all the time here and think they are winning the debate or something when in fact this argument can applied literally for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 01:14 PM |
| -1 | I think I found a solution to the male dating problem.Just ban all women from work force. Problem solved. It used to be that a woman would get wet just by having a guy (any guy) next to her. Now that they are able to provide for themselves they can't respect most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Are traits such as confidence, charm etc learned or situational?Most people think of confidence as some kind of inner power that you can just pull out of your ass any time you want like we are some kind of Dragon Ball Z characters or something. The truth is that confidence is just a feedback loop. Confidence = Confirming evidence. Basically when you live your life, the world will give you feedback on how well you are doing and depends on how successful you are, you will get a result that will reinforce your beliefs in positive or negative ways. You can't lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Why aren’t men fighting for their rights the same way other groups (who’ve claimed inequality/discrimination) have?We are used to not getting any sympathy from the opposite sex for our problems. I feel like men approach collective male problems the same way as individual male problems. We either deal with our shit on our own or we give up. Women wouldn't listen to us anyway. Women would never willingly give up power in society in order to help men. Imagine the backlash we would get for suggesting that we should take away some rights or privileges from women. The only way they would back down is if men used f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't wait for men at the finish lineYes they do. This is also the reason why women wouldn't date a guy who is virgin. He ALREADY has to have experience with women or he is diqualified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:41 PM |
| -2 | CMV: The Red Pill is Cult-Like and PredatoryFemales are Eeevil though. They are directly rewarding bad boys and punishing good guys. That's evil as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Have you ever met anyone you consider to be a “lost cause” and why?28 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 04:42 AM |
| 4 | [Q4All]Have you ever met anyone you consider to be a “lost cause” and why?I know I am. I never got over my social anxiety and confidence issues. Now I have too much emotional baggage and regrets in life and very negative view of women. Frankly I am just too messed up to be able to date and I don't even try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | To men, is *everything* you do just to attract women? Is there any self improvement that you do only for yourself?Yes, for me it's exactly like that. I wish it was different, but it's not. I believe that the same thing applies to most women as well. It's just not as obvious to observe, because it's almost impossible for a woman to get into a situation where no man would be ever interested in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Are women less likely to be introverted compared men?Introverted women don't usually reach the same level of antisocial behaviour as introverted men. That's because introverted women are valued and treated well even if they are quiet. The world isn't as scary for them, because they will be accepted by others either way. A lot of introverted men are antisocial because social situations are more "dangerous" for men compared to women. Men have to constantly prove their worth otherwise they will be seen as weak, unnatractive or even creepy. Men have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Do you think stepping out of gender norms is more harmful for a man's dating life than a womans?Boys have to "man up" though, otherwise they will become rejects in their dating life. But feminists don't care about that, because their sexual revolution is more important than lives of men who are dropping out of society and commiting suicides as a result. Feminists support feminisation of boys and feel sympathy for them AS LONG AS THEY DON'T HAVE TO BE THE ONES TO DATE THEM. You see when it comes to dating, suddenly different standard is applied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Why would the sexual history of a woman be important ?Some people say it's biology ... which is probably true to some degree. But I personally believe that a huge part of it is just the nature of the game. Majority of men are undesirable for the most part. Most men have no power when it comes to sex. Women are the ones who are choosing. These "rules of the game" where men have almost no control when it comes to sex are what's creating these negative emotions in us. It's very possible that Giga Chads who are able to sleep around easily don't feel th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Why would the sexual history of a woman be important ?There are pragmatic and egocentric reasons for it. Both of them are valid in my opinion. You can shame men and call them insecure if that makes you feel better about yourself. Men are in fact insecure. But it's not just insecurity. There are a lot of other negative emotions that men feel when it comes to high n-count women like ... jelaousy, resentment, disgust, disappointment etc ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Who doesn't have anxiety?It's the same as with depression. A lot of people claim that they are depressed, when they are just a little bit sad. Being depressed and being sad is not the same thing. Most of these women are just bullshit artists. I've had social anxiety all my life and it prevents me from going to social events, date or even work an office job. Yet some of these women walk around like they own the place, they go to parties, sleep around and don't have a problem being social, yet they claim they have anxiety… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Study finds marriage is in decline mainly due to a lack of "economically attractive" menGood for who? The way attraction works between men and woman makes it bad for society and bad for average man. It's one of those cases where men dumbed themselves down and gave up their power in society for women thinking it would make everyone more happy. Instead women went like "Thank you for this opportunity, now step up to my level or fuck off". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 08:20 PM |
| 43 | Study finds marriage is in decline mainly due to a lack of "economically attractive" menThe more successful women are in society the more they find average man undesirable. In the past women would be all wet from just having a regular man by their side.Nowadays women can survive on their own and they raised the bar and now they see most men as losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Women are better off without men & most women don’t understand male nature.1.) False. You just need to pass the minimum requirements for looks. If you can pass them then it's all about personality. My sole value to men is how fuckable I am If you talk to a TRP or MGTOW men, then yes, because these men don't want relationship anymore. For every other guy it's false. 2.) False 3.) Men will always be aroused by other women. That doesn't mean they won't be satisfied with one. 4.) This is partially true, but you are overreacting. You don't need to be a virgin. In fact some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 04:36 PM |
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