Jules2106 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	High heels 👠 This is the kind of energy I like to see! Glad to know it's been helpful! :)	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/21 03:56 PM
8	High heels 👠 TL;DR: I don't like the narrow definition of femininity/gender, the focus on homemaking and the submissive aspect of it. Also, I don't like the political ideology behind leading figures. I'm bisexual and don't really care for gender. It's not that I'm not feminine or that I reject traditionally feminine things (my interests are VERY girly) but the emphasis on gender performance paired with the focus on heterosexual relationships immediately disqualified the movement for me. Character wise, I'm a…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/21 03:55 PM
16	High heels 👠 I want to be straightforward - I'm quite the opposite of a "redpilled" woman and I don't believe in the ideology (just lurking out of curiosity) but I've got some tips since I've been dancing on high heels for years. The most important thing is to not skimp on quality. Your high heels need a good sole (not too smooth, otherwise you'll slip), a well attached heel and good ankle support, especially if you want to wear them more as an every day situation so you don't twist an ankle by accident. Don…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/21 12:22 PM
3	What do people on here actual define as a high value person? Honestly, this is probably going to get downvoted to hell, especially by the red pill part of this subreddit but mediocre often doesn't mean bad. Very few people actually put in real effort into their lives and relationships though and that's what makes everything mediocre in my opinion. I'm nothing special and I struggled a lot growing up. As an adult, I went to therapy to work on my mental health issues, started to practice self care rigorously, I dedicated an entire year to working on my char…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/21 01:36 PM
0	What do people on here actual define as a high value person? This is somewhat interesting because I find the red pill men an extreme turn off and most women I know do too. I think it's the air of arrogance that surrounds these kinds of men. I've heard similar things about "alpha women" from men in my circle. What I usually do find attractive/"high value" in both men and women (I'm bi) is being emotionally mature, financially stable, self sufficient, assertive, having a good heart and a matching sense of humor. Good looks help but good is very subjective. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/21 12:07 PM
1	feminine hygiene books? "The Vagina Bible" by Dr. Jen Gunter is a really good book in my opinion because it's written by an actual gynecologist and backed by scientific research.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/21 02:16 PM
-3	"Alienating Young Men is Deeply Sad" and the messages society sends to young men also calling out double standard: empowering young women = great. empowering young men = misogynistic I didn't see the discussion of the video as I'm not an active member in this sub, fair point. I tried to be way back but I got a lot of hate, so I stopped years ago. I mainly came back on this post because I think Jordan Peterson is a lot hot air for very non revolutionary and even harmful ideas. I actually believe he is genuine in his intentions and I don't dispute that the issues are worth discussing, his answers to these are rightfully controversial though and that's why I don't like him as a…	/r/MensRights	04/12/20 05:40 PM
-17	"Alienating Young Men is Deeply Sad" and the messages society sends to young men also calling out double standard: empowering young women = great. empowering young men = misogynistic I would encourage others to watch Contrapoint's video on the issue instead. I believe she has more nuance in her statements and she dissects it without declaring feminism or the rise of individual freedom as evil. I'm a feminist woman and I simply can't stand Peterson because of some of his views. I overall symphasize with the sentiment that men are feeling increasingly pressured to be "a modern man" without any guidance on how to do it and that this results in frustration (I've seen it in frien…	/r/MensRights	04/12/20 03:13 PM
1	My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationship I think this is an interesting point because while it is true, no one can really, definitely explain why. I'm with the theory that it just becomes a sunk cost fallacy after a certain point because I've seen this with friends. You live together so the next logical thing is to get married, without second thought. Still, you shouldn't neglect that first year! I'm only giving out this advice as a different perspective as to why OP's mom might be worried. Being led shouldn't be following blindly and …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 11:12 PM
1	My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationship Maybe more understanding? I mean, from the outside, traditional women come off like doormats sometimes (no offense to anyone). Showing that she is indeed in control would help, e.g. having a plan B, showing a financial plan, anything that makes her mom see that she is prepared for this and actively planning for it. That's how I convinced my mom that I know what I'm doing by getting committed at 20 and I'm not even traditional. I just fell in love.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 09:19 PM
4	My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationship Yeah, probably. I'm just mentioning it because OP's mom probably sees it similarly and I think OP would benefit from hearing the thought process behind it so she and her mom don't lose each other over this.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 08:43 PM
6	My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationship That I actually agree with! But some things aren't resolvable, even if you want things to work. That's totally okay and you should accept it if it happens for, that's all I want to say.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 08:19 PM
6	My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationship I mean if it's something that causes you to be resentful? I think so as resentment kills marriage. I just used it as an example, it's not a personal deal breaker for me tbh.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 07:52 PM
5	My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationship I have no intention of talking about my feminist ideals, I definitely respect the fact that some women want more traditional lives. That's totally okay with me. I already explained this in another comment but cohabitation can turn out very different than dating, even when you spend a lot of time of time together. It might not what you imagine at all. Regardless of your personal beliefs, you should be ready to leave if you feel like it's not what you want.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 07:23 PM
8	My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationship Messiness, frequency of sex, emotional support, financial disagreements or one partner changing for example. It's not that these things don't come up while dating/courting, it's more that what you think is realistic might not end up being realistic in hindsight. People tend to be way more optimistic about their habits than what actually happens in their lives. I think very few couples who decide to get married actually discover deal breakers later on but if it happens, you need to be in the clea…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 07:05 PM
11	My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationship I recently commented on here, so many probably are already aware of me being a feminist. I don't think waiting until marriage to have sex and living together is the worst you can do but marriage is a huge commitment compared to living together and problems will surface when you get married and start doing these things. You need to keep in mind that things might surface you never thought about before and that might be a deal breaker. Are you willing to leave behind a marriage in case things go so…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 04:14 PM
3	Where does the resistance/defiance in here come from? Yes, that's exactly what I mean! Why tear others down when we could lift each other up? Also, I forgot to mention this in my original comment but especially young women aiming for a more traditional lifestyle are encouraged to have kids early and stay home full time in the Red Pill movement, which I'm very critical of. This not only makes them very vulnerable for abuse as they often lack further education, work and life experience, all things that make leaving a lot harder, it also puts them at …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/20 04:23 PM
9	Where does the resistance/defiance in here come from? I feel this. I'm a bisexual woman, happen to be a feminist and am politically active. I'm basically what the internet pictures when it comes to SJW people. I mainly lurk on here for a different perspective. Pretty much my only concern with redpill/tradwife culture is how close it is to super religious and right-wing circles because those groups actively work against my interests as a woman who doesn't really want children and is queer. I have absolutely no issues with women wanting a traditional…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/20 01:27 PM
11	Dealing with negativity from closed ones? I'm a feminist (I ended up on here by accident but I think it's interesting to see a different perspective) and I agree. While your mom is a bad feminist in my opinion - feminism is freedom of choice after all, that includes staying home as a mother - I don't think it's wise to immediately give up work to become a SAHM. You'll put yourself at a huge financial disadvantage long term. SAHMs are at a bigger risk for ending in poverty at old age. Not having any money or job experience make you more …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/20 08:40 AM