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If you are not so interested in men or sex get a cat is a better option. Just maybe you are actually happy single and no man can make your life better? Or maybe you consider yourself too much above men who knows. No point forcing yourself into something mediocre or putting a guy through that. To get to your age and no one has sparked you could even mean you are asexual particuarly with no interest in sex. Don't force yourself to be with a man its ok to go against societal norms and to be honest …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 07:03 AM
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Be authentic, be yourself. Don't be anything you are not, not even for a man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 12:59 PM
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I can't deal with uninterested men I fade them out. Who likes someone not keen. I want lowkey obsessed because I am that too
/r/seduction11/08/23 10:57 AM
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Men do this too though. When I looked amazing I was accused of cheating and he didn't like me looking so good etc when I put on weight I was ugly. You just can't win for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:13 PM
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I think this notion sets men up for future disapointment. Nothing in life is promised nor is the future. Enjoy life today and live today. Do what you need to do better yourself etc but to assume your 30s are going to be better than 20s and to wait will potentially be disappointing. If we all put things in life off until we are richer, older aka never being good enough it can spur depression and bitterness when they discover many younger women are not ready for the things they want nor are they i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:58 AM
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The one I connect with and feels right. It's about the way they treat me, the sexual connection, feeling safe and the knowing, add good kisser and amazing sex and I'm lusting day and night. Also agree with the smell being right too.....yes I do lust after just on looks too down the street but takes more the above to keep interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:01 AM
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I have a very high libido always have since a girl and certainly know some of my friends some that are older than me that are just as horny too. But a lot seem to be indifferent and seems to be the ones with life pressures like young children or that are married that are in a sort of see it as a chore attitude. Men seem to not be as affected in that way so it is certainly more common in men to have high libido until they reach older age. Quite a lot of older men struggle with a drop in libido. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:34 AM
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His physique, good beard game, tall, good skin, polite, smells good, nice eyes, cute smile, nice hair, a deep voice gets me going too, what he is wearing, his aura if we talking just physical check out in public type thing.....Add good humour, kind to animals and to people and I will be smitten. They don't have to have all those features either just one that catches my eye. Surely men don't find most women attractive either I don't believe it's just a woman thing. Plus initial attraction has to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:32 AM
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On occasion but not often but attraction is a personal thing really so what they find attractive and what you do are completely different things. A few of super fit guys like their body opposite in women so certainly see this in the gym I work . Vast majority of couples are matching on looks levels however that I see in public as pretty much most people are regular very ordinary looking so very ittle differences to say. Even with age they match each other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:02 AM
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Not really but attraction is way more than looks. Most women are ordinary average as are most men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:19 PM
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Absolutely. What goes around comes around and loyal loving people are not in abundance. Appreciate those that are before they are lost forever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:02 AM
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They normally get their tail stung and realise the grass is not greener though so not particuarly a good idea at all. Then they become a moany old man who blames women for their ills in life instead of realising that they singlehandedly threw the best they had away. If you have a good faithful loving wife don't swap her (and same for husbands). If you are actually in a crap relationship fair enough but normally then they don't change or work on themselves they just swap the person and end up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:55 AM
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There can be dangers but by and large majority of women who are on dating scene will not agree to meet in risky places and yes psychopaths are normally clever enough to gain trust first before showing who they are same for narcissists and suchlike too. I think dating is partly risky for both sexes to a degree as takes time to really know anyone thats actually the most scary part that what you see is not what you will get
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:56 AM
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Most the women I know love sex some others are just indifferent and find it a chore on a long list of other things they need to do. If they are not enjoying it is normally medical, hormonal, low libido, high stress levels or with an inconsiderate man. Sounds like the one describing sex like that is just explaining it in a very negative light but thats her when in reality it's more tied to who it is you are having sex with. Sex with an actual boyfriend/ husband if you are compatible is amazing. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:51 AM
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I'm 5'4 and I feel protected as opposed to intimidated by 6' plus guys. I can understand if you are not used to being with taller men though but maybe you just picking the wrong ones
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 04:17 PM
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21?!....women take better care of themselves then men and easily look better and age slower. And 21 year old women by and large prefer men their age or max of 4 years older
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:18 PM
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We all lie to ourselves. They need to be realistic. Most these take poor care of themselves so no chance even with money. Unless they enjoy being used
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:59 PM
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They don't. Some men do most do not. Most look older than age
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:55 PM
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It is a common theme with lots of men sadly and you are right it is insecurity. They want you to look like a model but then don't like it when you get attention naturally ( as in you are not seeking it). We can't win
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:07 AM
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The issue I have found is they don't want you being fat nor do they want you looking too good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:56 PM
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Out of those choices no option A anyday
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:34 AM
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I agree. The man I see told me the first time we kissed how passionately I kissed him and yes we have an amazing connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:41 PM
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A) cut him off....he is not what I want in a man at all. Not my Mr Perfect. Would hate it and it would make me insecure and jealous. This is a worst case man. I want loyalty and love over money and shallow things. The other women are welcome to him ppfffff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:31 PM
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Thank you and I accept it is what it is and certainly don't expect every man to want to date me etc I accept its a dealbreaker for some and that's fine. Just trying make best of what happen.I don't think it's a nice trait to box everyone up though it's quite repugent trait in someone. Like an I'm better attitude ugh. I'm still a good person and a good woman, I work and provide because I have too and try my best. Do what I have to do. Still a feminine woman. Literally any of us could be single pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:30 AM
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Still just after half left. However must be very similar statistics for men in the west too? A lot of those things cannot be helped either if you are childless, single mum or divorced it probably wasn't the choice they wanted. The finger cannot be entirely pointed to women. I can agree something is very wrong in society but that is men as well as you pointed out. For example I am the 40 year old single mum part however that was not my choice I couldn't force him to stay could I and you can bet I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:58 AM
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Wow you met every single modern western woman in the world that's quite an achievement. Yes we are all clones of each other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:36 AM
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I would of regretted not doing a pre video call. Have actually experienced this we had the date still but I just said wasn't interested after and kept the date short. No attraction so we could be friends but no more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:50 PM
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It is but just need to be wise to motives etc they can make you feel you have a chance but you never will. Some men do the same too but not in the way these women do as I don't find men have a word like creep and are more straightforward. Men tend to lead on in the way of pretending they want serious when they don't. But thankfully many are not like this there are good people in the world still. I just think social media made a lot of women very attention seeking and think they are something spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:35 AM
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Yes can imagine it's similar for men. Straight off we just know majority of time but a lot of women will use the men they find unattractive for attention, money, validation, to make the man they do find attractive jealous, to slag him off to other women to make themselves look popular etc of course these are not good woman List wise again some women have a unrealistically long list hence why they end up single forever and they are trying to punch above a lot of time when they have flaws themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:02 AM
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Not entirely true. Some men yes may grow on us but mostly attraction is instant. However if they had a bad personality etc then they become a turn off no matter how attractive they are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:59 PM
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No wouldn't bother me at all. Not every man is made of money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:39 AM
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Thats why it does good to find a partner that you are truely compatible with. I know certainly for me I would never cheat. I don't get it just be single but for many it's the thrill I guess but they want stability too. Literally cake and eat it. The married friend I have says 'it's just sex' she seems to be able to seperate love and sex but I just don't understand how she cheats so easy on him but claims to love him too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:51 PM
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Yes she does have issues too. Likely they were both toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:58 PM
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I know right these are literal perfect bodies. Majority of women are not like this even naturally of perfect weight. Spent my life trying to be perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:58 AM
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Majority of promiscious people are doing so simply because they are single for years. Doesn't mean they will ever cheat. What they do when single and when in relationship are 2 different defined things. A drug addiction a sex addiction are completely different to an occasional recreational drug user and recreational sex doer. Cheating comes down to thinking grass is greener etc and if you had a promiscious past then you haven"t missed out on anything and sleeping around loses it's appeal if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:29 AM
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Yes she would be termed the classic psycho ex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:13 AM
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I would say having lots of one night stands does not equal a potential cheater at all. What we do when we are single and what we do in a relationship are 2 different things. Someone who previously was in a relationship and cheated yes odds are high on that happening again. I think I would appreciate his honesty
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:39 AM
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Yes and the older ones that look attractive are often called that because they look younger than their age. I mean there is a reason women more than men buy into botox and wrinkle creams. No one in their right mind actively wants to look their age or older as they age. Men are told they look better with age so they don't do treatments as much or feel too feminine doing so but even that's a lie as women like youthful looking older men not crusty ones
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:45 AM
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I would thought it depends on the woman. Some younger women are attractive others are not it depends on a lot of factors surely. The age doesn't really account for looks as such
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:41 PM
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Absolutely...I did that myself until he was no longer loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:01 AM
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I wish I knew. I think we are not taught to appreciate what we have and gratitude from a young age instead always wanting what we percieve to be better in all areas of life. We are never taught this is good enough. Sadly it's too common a story. Look at me 17 years with ex blessed with 2 children. I had little experience before him then he decided to cheat on me thought grass was greener with a work colleague ( she had a fiance and child too). He threw everything we had away for an 18 month rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:56 AM
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It's a slightly romanticised view to suggest being a virgin makes you different as a person or automatically better. In reality we was all virgins once and once your not your just not that's it. Sadly a lot of men like the virgin novelty but not the reality. Once the deed is done and there is no compatability it won't be guaranteed to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:50 AM
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Yes that makes a lot of sense. We all change massively from who we are as a teen/younger adult too. I have one friend who got with her husband as both teens but she been cheating on him for many years ( I don't personally know him) On one hand she keeps hold of him but on other she craved to know what she missed out on. I was a late bloomer and I get the feeling insecure part of it too certainly the more experienced men (not all) want you to perform like women they had before or you are 'boring'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:25 AM
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It doesn't always avoid future promiscurity though as the flipside is they think they missed out and the grass is greener
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:06 AM
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I actually have no preference. Little to no experience or a lot. Either is fine just no lying and know how to treat people decently
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:26 PM
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The women from school I know that were attractive mainly ended up having too much too young, sex too early, relied too much on looks that they couldn't keep and ended up with a loser and then became a single mum or divorcee. The attractive ones slept around us former ugly ducklings didn't have such opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:47 AM
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Your 24 it doesn't matter to decent women. Most of us are just trying to find a man who treats us decently. If you can be that then you are higher and better than most men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:39 AM
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Less male attention. The age they say is wrong though as if you look after yourself no one knows your age. I still get lots of men interested and I'm apparently well over the wall
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 06:00 AM
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I want a man who treats me well but not needed in the material sense. Loyalty, chemistry and values are more important. I don't see the appeal of being with someone simply because of bank balance. Yes great if they are but have the other attributes too. If they broke and I love them doesn't matter either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:58 AM
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They actually do need protection to recognise signs of narcs and abusers and creeps. Some of those men are charming. The creepy ugly old men no they put them in place easy but the better looking ones can be wolves in sheeps clothing. I work with quite a few 18 year olds and they refer to older men as nonces
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:45 AM
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Oh no your right there. I mean more that 25+ women that are choosing to date older don't need the protection under 25 do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:38 PM
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We are protective of younger women like big sisters. If the woman is 25+ and with an older man then no issue. I'm 40 myself and date a younger man of 28. If I went under 25 that's creepy and weird and thats no different for a man of my age to do so. Being older brings a need to be responsible. Once all parties are over 25 age is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:29 PM
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No thats not it. We too were young and are wary of the man's motives. Depends on age too though. Once you dating 25+ age doesn't matter. I enjoy younger men for example for various reasons but certainly only those 25+ any younger is weird and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:22 PM
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Not unrealistic to want to be attracted to a man for looks and personality. Why would anyone go for someone they not attracted too? Unless its purely for material benefits but thats not me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:47 PM
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Agree 27/28 is my favourite age of men they are at their finest and lots stamina and know how to give it good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:08 PM
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Agree 27/28 is my favourite age of men they are at their finest and lots stamina and know how to give it good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:08 PM
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Untrue....many of us women go for looks combined with personality. You are not correct on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:06 PM
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In the real world plenty ugly women have husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:47 PM
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I disagree. Personality comes into it a lot. I know many people on the not very attractive side but they have great personality so don't get treated any worse. Likewise we all know attractive woman that are rude and have terrible personality. There is a lot more to it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:45 PM
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Most the older ladies I know do hook up with younger men as they have more interest in hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:47 AM
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I find men very sexually attractive, love how different they are to women, their dick fascinates me (and the rest) and there are some amazing men out there with interesting personalities what is not to love. I never seek men with money either. I love men for who they are. Men a beautiful wonderful creatures that fill me with curiousity and make me wet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:30 PM
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They don't mean older men in general but ones that hit on them is vile. As long as you not being a creep. As for friends generally most women don't trust men as friends unless known from young age. It's unlikely at your age you will have a friendship with a 18 -25 year old but a 30 to 50 year old more likely
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:54 PM
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People are indivduals with individual situations. Not all single mum's are the same have the same reasons why etc. Go on a person by person basis rather than pigeon hole everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:05 PM
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Who mentioned easy and vagina not me. I mean actual dating and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:46 PM
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No quite a few women my age I know are in committed relationships with younger men. Of course some are just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:38 AM
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We want and need chemistry and tingles definitely. There has to be a spark or what's the point of being together you will become just friends in a long term relationship. I have to lust and love you in every way so that any not so desirable qualities I don't even think of or notice. This is why so many now end up in dead bedrooms they never had the spark but because those people had good qualities they got with them thinking that would sustain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:41 AM
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Older women can literally date hot younger men what are you talking about. We are doing great. The age gap that is creepy is say 40 with 18 year old. 40 with a 27 year old no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:30 AM
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Well the 40 year old men want 27 year olds. Difference is 40 year old women can actually pull the 27 year olds and that is definitely not talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:10 PM
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Not had a 40 year old yet to be fair ;) I know what I like and younger men are fun, chilled and very sprightly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:08 PM
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I'm 40 and date 25-45. I really do enjoy younger men more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:36 PM
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More often than not its to impress other women too and feel more confident. Like women get a lot attention from other women too when we dress nice or our boobs/bum look good etc not just from men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:11 AM
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You are quite wrong here. Looks and attraction is very important to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:54 AM
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Disagree. Depends who you are with. You can feel very alone with wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:36 AM
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4, 5, 8, 9(wants kids),12
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:33 AM
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Not true. Many of us prefer younger men as older women. Not sure where you get such information
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:05 PM
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The trouble is the younger girls are not ready to settle down and be wives they want to have fun and travel. They want completely different things to older men plus don't want to end up being their 'carer'. Yes they are happy to use them for money. There are exceptions but it's not the norm. Every girl I know of this age thinks older guys are creeps. My 18 year old friend calls them nonces when they are interested
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:39 AM
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