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| 25 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive? | JulySkies94 | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 09:31 AM | |
| 20 | New boyfriend seems to have low sex drive... confused. | ADVICE | JulySkies94 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/17 10:50 AM |
| 15 | What homemade gift should I (23f) bring to my boyfriend’s (27m) family when meeting for the first time? | LIFESTYLE | JulySkies94 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/18 03:32 PM |
| 13 | Going forward with a new relationship, navigating serious logistical difficulties | DATING ADVICE | JulySkies94 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/17 07:33 AM |
| 13 | Share ways that you keep things romantic/exciting/loving in your relationship? | DISCUSSION | JulySkies94 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/17 06:09 AM |
| 11 | Being loving, supportive, etc when in an LDR? | DATING ADVICE | JulySkies94 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 04:23 PM |
| 9 | What is the "Red Pill" perspective on an extreme imbalance of oral sex in a relationship? [NSFW] | ADVICE | JulySkies94 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/17 05:22 AM |
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| 4 | What homemade gift should I (23f) bring to my boyfriend’s (27m) family when meeting for the first time?I really like the idea of something special from my hometown! I just have to think of what that is now... haha! It is also difficult because they don’t really drink (wine is usually a go-to of mine), and also I asked my boyfriend and he said something “oh don’t be silly, you don’t need to bring anything!” But I want to bring something anyway. I think I’ll go for a small batch of homemade treats and something else small that represents my hometown together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | “Glow up” buddies wanted!NYT didn’t conduct the study, they wrote an article about the results of a peer reviewed study. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/18 11:32 PM |
| 2 | “Glow up” buddies wanted!https://mobile.nytimes.com/2018/02/20/well/eat/counting-calories-weight-loss-diet-dieting-low-carb-low-fat.html | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/18 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Best YouTube channels or resources for teaching yourself how to cook at home?The Kitchn — it’s a website but sometimes they put videos too. The have all these amazing “how to” guides, as well as inventive recipes. Usually everything there is healthy and focuses on things you can make pretty easily. I would definitely start with their how to guides!! Also buzzfeed tasty honestly always has a great, cute ideas for new things to try out! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/18 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Boyfriend wants me to start transitioning to stay at home- I'm apprehensive.I would also suggest waiting until you married to transition. For one weddings and honeymoons etc are expensive and having you both working and saving until then will really help. Also I’d say it’s just best to have the security until the knot is truly tied. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/18 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Cute lingerie sites that are somewhat affordable?Following this thread for suggestions — I can add that sometimes I’ve found surprisingly good stuff at h&m and target! Other then that it’s just keeping up with Victoria’s Secret sales for me, and that gets old (and still expensive!) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What is the "Red Pill" perspective on an extreme imbalance of oral sex in a relationship? [NSFW]I could/will but I am hoping for advice on how to bring it up without sounding either needy or demanding. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/17 09:18 AM |
| 1 | What is the "Red Pill" perspective on an extreme imbalance of oral sex in a relationship? [NSFW]Yeah, I guess I am not dissatisfied overall, but just with this one aspect. For now... I do see potential sexual incompatibilities, but so far over the six months he's been opening up more and more and sex has been getting better when we do have it instead of just a blowjob and bed time. I think your advice is good but I don't know exactly how to implement. I often signify my interest in sex by kissing him or just kind of putting my hands on him or something. Generally he takes the lead and eith… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/17 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Gifts/preferences?I love this -- PLEASE send me a message to my inbox if you want good advice for places to go in DC to get great craft beer! I am from DC and I love it and beer! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Gifts/preferences?Instead of making my own post I'll post here b/c I need a little gift advice: I am in a new-ish relationship (~5 mos) but it is quite serious. His birthday was a few months ago and I got him something cute and goofy (a membership to a semi-serious online community called the "cloud appreciation society" where they send a membership certificate and send emails about clouds. He seriously loves clouds so he loved this gift, and it was perfect because it was small and intangible and inexpensive, but… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/17 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Share something cute/sweet your SO has done recently or things that are going well!This reminds me a lot of my BF, who in the middle of night will always notice how I am sleeping. If I have woken up and can't get back to sleep (I am a bit of an insomniac) he will rub my back and ask me what is on my mind and make sure I fall back asleep. If the covers have fallen off me, he puts them back on. If the pillow isn't under my head he puts it back under. It is so sweet and adorable, but sometimes I get worried and feel bad that he isn't getting enough sleep because of these things!!… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/17 03:55 AM |
| 9 | New boyfriend seems to have low sex drive... confused.Okay, so first thank everyone for the advice. This was all super helpful. I think working on myself in terms of separating his sexual desire for me from my own self validation of my looks (and also doing even more to work on my looks if they are important to me like working out, dressing well, etc) is exactly what I need to do. Also - building a deeper emotional connection and honestly with him and seeing if that can lead to a deeper sexual connection. And also lastly, focusing no on directly in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/17 06:00 AM |
| 3 | New boyfriend seems to have low sex drive... confused.I think this is definitely a part of it and a really helpful way to think about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/17 05:43 AM |
| 6 | New boyfriend seems to have low sex drive... confused.This is such good advice, and totally reframes how I was looking at it. Thank you. I will definitely do all four things you mention.. In regards to point 4, I am still unsure about how exactly to bring this up in conversation without sounding too needy/insecure - but sometime that it feels natural, I will. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/17 05:42 AM |
| 2 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2014/06/05/growing-number-of-dads-home-with-the-kids/ (Not that I endorse that lifestyle at all...) ^ | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 03:26 AM |
| 3 | New boyfriend seems to have low sex drive... confused.Both | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?Maybe I'm too desperate seeming? Make it too easy? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 03:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?Never. I love having sex with him and crave his sexual attention. I would never reject him. He knows this. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 03:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?I am american. Honestly these aren't values I've ever felt like I could share with any of my girl friends. I don't think these are common ideas for girls my age. But I assume more politically conservative girls have these values, in general. I am quite centrist, politically. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:58 PM |
| 3 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?99% sure, yes. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?Okay well, it is your choice what kind of relationship to be in. I am just saying that I reject that "women's empowerment" a la modern feminism should revolve around women being career oriented and gaining equal financial status. That just leads to less jobs and kids being raised by foreign nannies. If I have children I want to be able to provide them the type of home environment my mother provided for me. Also many men look for a partner who can take care of domestic duties, with or without kid… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:35 PM |
| 8 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?Yes in college I was definitely a huge "feminist" - however as I started to mature and understand who I am as a person better, I started to drift further and further away from the ideas that feminism emphasises. Last year I made the mistake of living in a group home full of social justice warriors (purely because it was the cheapest rent I could find) - they were mostly lesbians. They treated me like shit because I was strait and feminine and would invite strait males (both platonic friends, and… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 01:48 PM |
| 3 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?This feels very possible. How do you think I could go about fixing that or creating more of a sexual spark? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 11:02 AM |
| 7 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?I am just legitimately and interested in/believe in the sexual gender dynamics that I've read about on these message boards and wanted a different perspective on this issue then I could get by googling how to increase his attraction to me or talking to my more feminist leaning female friends. It just seemed like a helpful place. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 10:33 AM |
| 11 | How do I increase my new boyfriend's sex drive?I am 5 foot 4 inches, 110lbs, 34b, and work out. I am not going to post a picture, for obvious reasons. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 10:28 AM |
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