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There are degrees/levels of attraction. Most men aren’t with woman that they find crazy attractive, compared to other women. Most men have a pretty low standard of what they consider attractive, which js why women aren’t satisfied when they are told “if he wasn’t attracted to you, he wouldn’t be dating you”. Because they know most men can’t afford to be picky and their base line for what is attractive is kinda gross rather than comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:43 PM
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You said “raw desire” not attraction. So I replied assuming you meant what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:02 PM
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Yea..they have a lot of raw desire for many women…. who they have no chance of dating. Most people don’t feel a raw desire for their partners right away until an emotional connection is established. Like most men in askmen express how they find their wives post baby body so sexy blahblah, but basically they find it attractive because it’s “her” vs. just going off of looks. Same thing with women. “Most men can’t say no to sex”. But women can and have rejected advances all their life. I’d be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:09 PM
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It’s the same with men. Do you believe most men have thjs raw desire for their girlfriends? I’d say men are more swayed to act on the sexual raw desire they feel for someone who isn’t their partner, if given the chance. The average man doesn’t know how to say “no” to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:05 PM
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Show them off… for who? For attention… for people to notice you? Showing off is done for attention, so people look at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:04 PM
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Do you grow facial hair? I know many woman with PCOS have to shave
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:11 AM
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I mentioned that there are average men I’ve known who have turned down the local hoe because they had standards, and it peaked the interest and respect of other women who witnessed it and found out later. It made them come off as high status in a way, it honestly changed how I viewed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:12 PM
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This is it. Chad has the ability to reject women who don’t meet his standards, that makes his validation significant. As a stacy, nothing turns me off more than a guy who is so desperate for sex he can’t reject a woman. It shows me you’re undesirable, lack standards and lack self respect- and that having sex with you means nothing. I have met men who aren’t Chads who have standards and it’s such a turn on. It’s pathetic to know a guy would have sex with any girl just because she isn’t fat. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:11 PM
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Raya is so bad. No one messages, it’s like an art gallery. It also shows people from all over the world, which isn’t helpful. Sure, it has a lot of industry people on it but since no one really uses it, it’s kinda pointless. Speaking of Billionaires, one of the Winklevoss brothers is on Hinge. He had his IG connected to his profile as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:56 PM
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I agree. Just because you are attractive doesn’t mean you’ll be everyone’s type. The whole point of having a type is something specific. If you’re an attractive curvy brunette but a guys type is attractive slim blondes, you will not be his type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:19 PM
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Most men are not attractive, AND they don’t know the first thing about how to appeal to the female gaze. Women grow up in a society where most things in the media are all about the male gaze. From lotion ads featuring half naked women on billboards to just the average television show (those scenes that pan the women’s body from head to toe). Men don’t know how to appeal to the majority of women. Women discover what their physical “strengths” are (beyond what’s between their legs) from a pretty y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:49 AM
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They do. Men are just too focused using their looks for sex when their younger rather than finding a partner. By the time they are ready to settle down (if ever), their good looks have significantly diminished and they don’t have dating skills, since they have never practiced serious dating. And mostly don’t have a big enough bank account to make up for it. And yes, many women will overlook looks to a degree that men won’t. And women, well, even when their looks diminish they still have them in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:56 PM
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The whole reason women like tall men is because it makes them feel feminine and “protected” in a sense, it amplifies the man’s masculinity. If you’re lanky, you’re probably just making them feel fat or something when their next to you, like you can’t manhandle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:14 AM
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Are you lanky or muscular? Or at least lean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:50 AM
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The not fat thing means you have normal standards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:13 AM
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No age limit? Are older woman (mid 50s+) and slightly overweight an option? If so, you technically have a lot of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:12 AM
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Yes, many.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:22 AM
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I find this hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:41 AM
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Not at all. Don’t have many followers either. I’m guessing one of my photos came up on his FYP, that’s usually the case. They usually like some of your pics, I like some back and then they follow/DM. It’s a pretty solid technique
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:50 AM
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The NFL player did yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:30 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:29 PM
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I have, not really date. But we talked. NFL player for one. He was just unsophisticated. Offered to fly me out for his games and stuff. Kinda fuxk boi vibes. He wanted to actually date he was very immature. Met him through Instagram. Other one is a famous musician. Over 10 Grammys. Was a good texter. Funny. He wanted nudes and I bailed out once he asked lmao. I knew his manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:07 PM
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Most men overrate themselves. He probably is not an 8, aka one point away from being a Chad. I’m guessing he’s a 6, not ugly not striking. Just plain. As in if I were to refer to the good looking guy to my friend she wouldn’t think I was talking about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:46 PM
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So you admit that if a guy is interested in you, he will offer to pay for your meal? More evidence to not go 50/50 OP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:23 PM
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Great points. Girls who wear makeup also will attract more males which make greater competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:59 PM
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But that’s someone who has a romantic connection with you. Biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:58 PM
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Please see post above. You can’t relate to what a hot guy experiences. They can say anything and yes they would still get laid. I don’t think you can comprehend this. They have their pick of girls. “Another hot desirable guy: https://www.instagram.com/p/ChkmiAfuxK3/?igshid=NDc0ODY0MjQ= Has been in a long term relationship with: https://www.instagram.com/p/Chz2UOZpAef/?igshid=NDc0ODY0MjQ= This model is engaged to an NFL player: https://www.instagram.com/p/CdtLyIcl1qy/?igshid=NDc0ODY0MjQ= These wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:02 AM
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What do you mean tell me? I just look at who they choose to date and they don’t care. Or they wouldn’t be in a relationship with the woman. They date women who have hooked up, engaged in casual sex and are comfortable with posting sexy photos of themselves. Until hot guys are dating modest women, women won’t care. Hot men; They like dating women who other men sexually desire. Another hot desirable guy: https://www.instagram.com/p/ChkmiAfuxK3/?igshid=NDc0ODY0MjQ= Has been in a long term relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:11 AM
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I don’t think you read my comments. They aren’t men I’ve dated. They are men I know and/or are friends with. But yes the men I have dated that are considered desirable aka chads haven’t cared. I was the most modest girl they have dated. The girls they eventually went into relationships with ended up being pretty promiscuous (modeled for playboy NUDEE!!!), promiscuous IG model. Guy in question: https://www.instagram.com/p/ChriKI0uf1y/?igshid=NDc0ODY0MjQ= Guys who look similar just don’t care. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:14 AM
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But everyone has a different definition or what makes a whore, That’s the conundrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:45 AM
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Could you answer the other questions as well? How you personally go about it? And if you look at porn or not? Are you only counting men as sexual partners? What about bi sexual women? I honestly have not encountered a (grown) man who has cared (I know their girlfriends, exes or have mutuals with the women they have dated) so I am curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:32 AM
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This doesn’t really answer any of my questions. I know they don’t care because I know their girlfriends or at least know enough about the people they’ve dated. They didn’t care. I don’t really know any men who struggle with sex so these women had the same sexual outlook as the women they dated. The most desirable men I’ve known don’t care. Then men who complain, they can’t even get a date however…. It seems to be a real concern to them. Interesting thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:23 AM
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You really can’t tell by that. Also that doesn’t make sense. Not everyone with a stable family abstains from casual sex. At all. You would have to wait a long time to really get to know her family to even determine that. That’s not first date sort of questions. Sounds like a waste of time to go through these motions with multiple women. I live in a big city, and I’ve never met a man who cared. Relationship seeking or not. But I guess if you’re from like idk Indiana or somewhere where I can see m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:14 AM
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I don’t think a guy paying a for a girls fight so she can come visit him is simping. There a ton of men who do that without blinking an eye, and many more who suggest it (and these aren’t exactly rich men). I consider simping putting the pussy on the pedestal. Average guys usually find plain Jane girls attractive. I mean look at your ex or girls you’ve had crushes on, I’m sure if you suddenly earned a lot of money they wouldn’t be ugly to you. But they sure are no model, yet you were still inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:58 PM
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Is it unreasonable if there are men who are willing to satisfy their standards? Doesn’t sound unreasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:19 PM
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I’m curious: playing on the comparison of the “ideal 6 foot plus” preference. You can accurately measure that. A promiscuous past, you can never be sure. Ever. Would the men who hold the body count standard really stop dating the women if he found she actually slept with 3 more people than what she initially recalled? Would he stop getting erections with his partner after finding this out? Would he no longer find her personality appealing? Im so curious how the whole body count thing works. Woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:17 PM
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Men have a pretty low threshold of what they consider pretty, so perhaps what I consider plain/ unattractive would fall under what men think is pretty. Most people don’t have great faces so it’s disadvantageous for a man to prioritize wanting a pretty face. Most people (with their hair pulled back) don’t have great faces, most people are plain to unattractive/nondescript. I’d say Alexis Ren doesn’t have a pretty face, she’s rather plain looking but her body helps add to her overall attractivenes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:30 PM
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She looks like a trans man who has gone under that many surgeries to try and appear more feminine. The editing is also ridiculous. She looks comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:08 PM
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Same logic as men obsessing over a women with a nice body but a plain/unattractive face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:51 PM
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🤣🤣 he lost me there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:26 PM
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That’s horrible. But how old are you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:28 PM
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So does this mean HVM like makeup then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:24 PM
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They never liked you. It was just casual fun. Simple.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:45 AM
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I actually think a man with a lot of female friends is jsut a guy who tried to fuck them and they weren’t interested so they demoted him to the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:41 AM
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Him being hot and having his choice of women, and choosing her is making her feel special. How are all of you missing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:05 AM
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You’re right. They are banging alphas because they feel “picked”. He could have banged “any” chick but he chose her for whatever reason (doesn’t matter to her because she feels chosen)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:04 AM
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2: yeah women hold all the cards. No way a man in power would abuse his power to gain access to women and then use his power to ensure that access. That’d be crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:30 AM
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How many men have turned down sex or avoided sex (when offered it) because they are afraid of being falsely accused?? I mean it’s a legitimate fear,I would probably avoid sex until I know I could trust the girl. Do you practice this? What ways do you ensure you are protected? I find it hard to believe the sAme men who complain about lack of sex, really fear being falsely accused enough to turn it down. So strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:26 AM
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Hey, so. Girl here. Peeked your Instagram, just a casual glance. It’s a cultural difference. Your look is urban, the aesthetic a little “out there” and not clean cut. It doesn’t give off middle class vibes. Most white women, even if they don’t come from a middle class home are attracted to that look. If you are a man of color, aren’t rich or have no clout and aren’t clean cut and are trying to pull white women…. The odds are against you. Easy as that. You’re whole look is rooted in African Ameri…
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:16 AM
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Girl you weren’t even really attracted to had a ONS with you. She won. She had sex someone she was attracted to. You had sex with someone you weren’t even like sexually interested in.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:55 AM
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Been single 4 years. Wanting to date but haven’t found someone interested, even unattractive guys won’t shoot their shot. TONS of matches on dating apps, little to no messages. But I do seem to catch the attention of male models, social media influencers, professional athletes and wealthy men (dating wise) the rare chance someone does shoot their shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:18 AM
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100% true. I’ve never forgotten to text someone I like. Neither has any of my friends. Male or female.
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:26 AM
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Perfectly put!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:10 PM
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Yes. Make it easier because I am in No danger of catching feelings. Well, not ugly but I didn’t find him attractive. He wasn’t hard to look at, just not exactly blessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:03 PM
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This is the reality check many men on here need to realize. You aren’t a 8/9 if you’re struggling to get a 6 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:19 PM
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This 100% Some guys think girls are into them just when they are being polite. OPs post is extremely embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:28 AM
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You’re best looking mates have told you they feel like they’re settling for their gfs because they aren’t good looking “enough”? Hang out with different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:28 AM
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Sizes look different on different heights.. and proportions and doesn’t account for fat distribution, It’s not the equivalent, as when a female says she prefers men 6+ ideally 6’3, because 6’3 looks the same in person, on everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:37 AM
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What’s your ideal height/weight for a woman? If you don’t have an answer, and if the women you sre often attracted to don’t fit the criteria then yeah it’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:46 AM
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Yikes
/r/seduction26/12/21 12:57 AM
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I’m serious, like actually. Serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:05 AM
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Feels good to know I’ve dated someone on that handsome Google page. (Seriously) AMA. I am also pro FDS, and don’t settle. It pays off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:26 AM
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I didn’t mean fat, I meant thick curvy women who are wider than most men and have bigger thighs than most men. If most men want someone smaller than they are, why this phenomenon of average men loving curvy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:46 AM
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Then what’s with all these slim guys loving thick women who are considerably larger… bigger… than they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:38 AM
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They needed a study to prove this? Ahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:37 AM
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eMpOwErMent, because male attention and validation is key to some females feeling powerful. Without it.. they don’t feel powerful. They think it puts them control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:34 AM
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Most guys can’t afford to be picky. So they end up dating women whose looks they don’t necessarily love but more like don’t mind/ mildly like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:57 PM
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What’s considered shallow? Isn’t it wanting to date someone just because they are attractive? And putting little to no value on other traits? The way it’s used in this subreddit is confusing. It’s like guys on here think a women wanting to date an attractive man is shallow? Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:23 AM
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Excellent point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:52 PM
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But they never will lollll that's the kicker. The desperation will never cease! Women of all kinds will always be in demand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:32 AM
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Right ahahah Men will fuck anything- now statistically proven!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:18 AM
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Now this is a ring!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:23 AM
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Right 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:08 PM
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100000% this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:05 PM
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Why did you keep replying to him? He has NO respect for you and is treating you horribly. No one should have to deal with being treated like this, stop giving him your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:47 AM
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I don’t think she’s attractive. This isn’t about lOgiC. I don’t find her attractive, appealing or (sorry for be rude) worth a dollar or date. She isn’t worth attention. Geez stop being a white knight and chill. She’s some random internet bitch, she isn’t worth ur wall of text. You sound like a simp. Embarrassed for you dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:39 AM
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Her ego seems very inflated. I just don’t find her attractive. Body or face. Guys will toss a dollar to any ole naked girl though so not surprised about her career. But I do wonder how it raises the social worth of actual attractive girls. If men are willing to spend money on a girl like this, it makes actual attractive females..... very very uh, expensive (in terms of attainability).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 11:36 PM
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1000% my thoughts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:00 PM
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There are beautiful woman who seem fun too. Average body, average face- and she has an inflated ego. What a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:51 AM
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Are we actually trying to play off that this girl is beautiful?.. I’m actually confused
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:45 AM
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Most woman don’t have a man who is eager to share their millions with them. Lmao. Most woman aren’t that beautiful. Especially when you are used to having what an average joe would consider a “9/10” on ur dick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:43 AM
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I love a dominant man in bed. Nothing better. I wouldn’t be able to be in a relationship with a sexually submissive man, I would be so unsatisfied and miserable. A dominant man just does it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:57 PM
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They specifically mentioned my age being “hot” when I was younger. It’s not that uncommon. But strange to hear. Most older men can’t afford to be that picky and turn down a woman in their own age group, but if you were to ask around what age do woman look the best, a female in her 20s is the answer. It’s universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:10 PM
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You wouldn’t last with a sexually dominant partner? Wasnt talking about outside of the bedroom (I don’t last long myself if you know what I meannbnn)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:07 PM
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19-24. (I still hear it now too) And I look younger than I am so I hear a lot of men say that it’s “great” I look 21. I am almost 30. I’ve had older men (and men my own age) ask me out thinking I was much younger than I was- creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:46 PM
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I’ve actually had multiple men make comments about being turned on by my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:42 PM
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I would hate to be with a sexually submissive man. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:29 PM
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Oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:22 AM
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What. So you’re saying they aren’t unattractive they jsut aren’t your type? Only black chicks though. Asian, Latina and natives are all okay? Just black chicks no matter their skin tone or features just don’t do it? Guys are so strange. I always hear this. I’m mixed so it’s interesting hearing guys who say they aren’t attracted to black girls justify their obvious and open attraction to me. I look black. But they say I can’t actually be black because they are attracted to me, you sound like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:15 AM
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I was thinking about that, but I honestly don’t think so. I’ve never attracted male attention, (if I did it was negative growing up). Even now, I’m not ugly, I’m pretty attractive but men don’t take notice me “like that”. I’m very neutral to them when it comes to desirability and lust. Seems very opposite from others, which I’m surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:56 AM
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You don’t find any female faces who look black to you, attractive? Or is it culture? Or it doesn’t matter. Black features such as full lips, non straight hair... and whatever features you find completely unattractive? Even if they are on a non black person?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:48 AM
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I like the glasses actually!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:42 AM
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16-17? Guess I’m an exceptionally ugly girl? or I literally just didn’t notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:14 AM
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TRUTH
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:56 PM
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Leave her? Leave us? There will always be a string of guys wanting our pussy tbh. And if one hot guy won’t (which is rare) there is another one who will and an audience of average looking dudes begging to be acknowledged lol. And all this just because she posts booty pics. You can’t say guys don’t like a promiscuous women- most of the guys on here are practically crying that these women won’t give them a chance lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:26 AM
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Some are pretty hot. And they do give females free attention. All the time. Every time. They can’t help it lol literally lol. They can’t even help but drool over a big butt in yoga pants even if the chick is mugged. It doesn’t take much to get them to notice. Instagram gives insight to how desperate guys are lol The attention they give less attractive girls just ups the value of actually beautiful girls while making the less attractive girls think they are more attractive than they are- in turn …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:06 PM
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Elon Musk has entered the chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:11 AM
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Now if she’s seducing high SMV/RMV, Chads into giving up all other women just to commit and be loyal to her only, then yes, good job, you win. Why thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 08:02 PM
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No matter how hot a female is, a man will always desire other women. So... win-lose? But it's being desired back that makes the woman the winner here. Men will desire women just because we are... women. The average male doesn't have any social value, they are disposable. What's wrong with being fucked? Lol. You put it likes it bad thing. I'm just saying you guys are easy to manipulate. I've always admired men who know how to use their sexual power over men to get what they want. It's an art.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 07:53 PM
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Appreciate you for posting a photo. but you're within the spectrum of what I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 07:29 PM
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imgur
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 07:20 PM
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You can just post it here as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 07:17 PM
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Depends on who you want to commit to you. Like if it's some average guy, his commitment means nothing because like.... who would give up Chad cock for an average guy lol. You don't need to be hot to be a slut, guys desire sluts no matter if they are hot or not. just gotta be cute. It's easy lol. And what's even more sad is even when they land a "good girl" she usually isn't hot they end up desiring us even when they are if their low n count girl. So again, we win. Lust is a real bitch. and the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 07:13 PM
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I wish everyone was required to post a verified selfie before posting their opinion on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:59 PM
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No.... we don't. You guys say it yourselves, females would rather spend our whole lives going after chad than settle for some unfit short loser. (cue girls complaining about being lonely and no one wanting them but having 100+ texts from loser guys. To females, Most men have no social value. Their opinions don't matter. Their attention is cheap and unless their Chad, we don't care if they want us(of course they do. they can't afford not to lol)) Also we still get your attention for cheap, only f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:56 PM
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Why would the woman want commitment from him though lol. Guys on here really don’t have anything to offer but “commitment”. Lol. Guys love sluts, they can’t help it. The power girls have over men that are suppposed to hate us is.... pathetic but again, funny. Ya’ll so weak lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:49 PM
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From what I’ve seen, it’s never the extremely attractive women who are having the most casual sex but the more “attainable” cute girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:42 AM
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And men keep sleeping with, lusting and praising high n count women. Funny isn’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:40 AM
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Well put. Most men aren’t in shape and are indeed in no position to demand (or even attain) a fit slim woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:39 AM
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If she’s Americans, an Americans idea of thin is “healthy” for the rest of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:36 AM
1

I like tall blonde surfer like guys with long hair. That’s my type. Not every guy I’ve dated, liked or been in a relationship with has fit that type. I’m sure not every guy the chubby chaser girl has been with or dated has been chubby. A guy might be into curvy, busty latinas and end up in a long term relationship with a small chested skinny blonde. And yeah it might be kinda awkward when she turns 30 and is still trying to date a guy in a frat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:25 PM
1

Men absolutely base what they like on other men. Aka trophy wives and the other trending body types.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:44 PM
1

Tbh for girls.. sure, that may be what they are attracted to, but who do they end up dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:42 PM
5

YES Happens way too often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:17 PM
32

RIGHT She’s 100% a pickmeisha and is then surprised that a man she had sex centered relationship with isn’t interested in a sexless marriage? She something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:12 AM
32

Marries a man who she had an affair with while he was with his third wife- then she is surprised he is a scum bag and revolves his world around pleasure?? So glad she dropped her pickmeish ways but damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:11 AM
1

I 100% ask. Good to see what image he projects to the world if his profile is public. Also good to see who he hangs out with and who he follows. It’s saved me A LOT of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:32 PM
1

Why the blow jobs here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:02 AM
1

I can’t believe she still even has their numbers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:57 AM
7

been with him since high school Hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:20 PM
15

I don’t pretend to not cook. That’s a weak cope out. I simple let the men know I don’t want to. But I guess lying works too? Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:48 AM
3

Yes!! I spent years baffled and confused by what women put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:32 AM
39

Wait what, he abused Selena? Is there particular video I should look up? Or what’s the story?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:26 PM
-2

You couldn’t even retain OPs post. Stop with the arrogance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:51 AM
2

I mean how else is she supposed to know where he stands? It's not like she can figure out what his intentions are without interacting with him first. His first reply sounds like he expresses he was looking for an easy lay. Please re read the post. Again, how did you miss this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:49 AM
-1

Resorting to calling people insane and crazy. Do I sense a past pick me here? You don’t owe them an explanation. Don’t waste your time. But heygirlhey- you do you girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:48 AM
1

I matched with an absolutely beautiful man on OLD, he started a chat and was quickly very upfront about wanting a FWB. How did you miss this? Honestly. Are you okay? This explains so much. I think it’s a literacy issue. Men tell you, SPELLED THE FUCK OUT they are looking for casual encounters and ya’ll still stick around and chat. Smdh. Where was the confusion? OP wished him luck???! and is ready to throw a pity party for the guy. I’m sorry but WHAT. OP even admits that she thinks she is one of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:30 AM
6

Why do ya’ll insist on having conversations and entertain men who express nothing but casual intentions. You aren’t his mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:54 PM
4

I hope there is something more to the story. Because yeah, it sounds bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:39 PM
24

And honestly even if he does, it sometimes doesn’t mean shit. Think about what you want/need. We aren’t letting ego/flattery drive us into relationships!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:30 PM
3

They think you are gonna chase their validation when you can practically get it anywhere And get it from objectively better looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:43 PM
3

Reposting my comment: “You can also expect, jealousy and treachery. I used to approach all types of people for friendship but the bigger/fatter/less attractive the person was the more bitter and resentful they were. They were less supportive, understanding and acted on insecurity.” No sympathy or empathy from your average person. Also adding that it’s caused more problems with connecting with others than not. Dating the "average guy”: compliments and reassurance next to none. Backhanded complime…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 03:00 AM
1

Exactly. Also expect less sympathy and empathy from people, including your friends because they are under the illusion that because S or C are good looking, that the great powers that rule the universe, are kinder to them. You can also expect, jealousy and treachery. I used to approach all types of people for friendship but the bigger/fatter/less attractive the person was the more bitter and resentful they were. They were less supportive, understanding and acted on insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:50 AM
4

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:45 AM
2

Disagree. Am a good looking person. My depression and mental health is often swept to the side because “I’m good looking so I’ll be fine”. People honestly think because I’m attractive I can’t have insecurities, anxiety or suffer from mental illness, and if I do, it’s not that bad. It seems they take pleasure in actually ignoring or devaluing any past traumas I’ve had. Please actually think being good looking means it’s easier to deal with life’s burdens. Amazing. They build a whole fantasy about…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:42 AM
22

“Not knowing any better” what does this mean? I would say they didn’t know any better the first time, but second time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:31 PM
1

That’s my approach as well, I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:02 PM
2

Idk about all women. I’ve known some very very cruel narcissistic women/girls growing up. And I have no reason to believe they’ve changed. Like really mean, just vicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:03 AM
10

That’d be a dealbreaker for me- point blank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:00 PM
10

Yes Point blank. Not interested in details, or why. It’s a dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:02 PM
15

This this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:16 PM
1

This is simply for general discussion. I was wanting to hear personal preferences and thoughts on the subject. But good questions nonetheless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:30 AM
6

Thank you. This is nonsense. Don’t go out of your way to engage with your ex. Get over him. OPs ex has obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:47 AM
7

My thoughts exactly. Why would you do this OP? You aren’t dating him anymore. This was a waste of your energy and is kinda concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:46 AM
2

Ever read any Carl Jung? He's theories revolve around the ego "Jung described the animus as the unconscious masculine side of a woman, and the anima as the unconscious feminine side of a man, each transcending the personal psyche." really interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:56 PM
2

Sandra Bullocks character from The Blind Side is a good example of being feminine and not being submissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:54 PM
11

Your ex did the classic "negging" manipulation tactic. He was trying to take away your self esteem. Sounds like a dick. It had nothing to do with you. Normal healthy minded people don't make these kinda of comments to people they are in relationships, hell- they don't even make these comments to a stranger. It wasn't you. To think you "triggered" this type of behavior in him is not the way to think about it. He hasn't changed, and acting the same way with his new girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:46 PM
2

Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:21 PM
14

Cute dead guys is actually a super popular site as well. It’s really disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:20 PM
3

What site is this from? Looks like it’s from a personal blog
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:19 PM
2

Yessssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:29 PM
2

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:13 PM
10

I agree with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:17 AM
85

Probably are interested in you, but are incapable of talking about anything outside of themselves. Self centered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:16 AM
8

You expect an ex boyfriend to pay/fund your life? A HVM would never. If I ever learned that a man I was seeing continued to pay/take care of an Ex partners expenses- that would be a HUGE red flag for me. Girl, you’re going to need to make some clarifications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:07 PM
1

Holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:49 PM
3

Dude, I feel like I could have written this! I agree and relate to this to the ‘t’!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:34 PM
2

The whole argument that people have needs and urges and thus can’t stay committed or can’t go without sex because it’s their “biological wiring” is silly- FDS acknowledges this. If a woman or man can’t go for X amount of months without sex (while in the early stages of dating someone or when taking a break in dating- you need to address this might be a problem) It’s absolutely not controlling to question if a potential partner might not be compatible with you. If a man sleeps around he isn’t for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:14 PM
7

Exactly! Same idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:30 AM
7

I’m talking about people who don’t care at all about a potential partners current or past sexual practices/approach to sex. I was speaking about how I go about it. I want to know about a mans sexual past. I bring it up indirectly (after certain dating milestones) Would you not? I don’t like surprises. “Did you used to sleep around? You did? Why don’t you anymore? You didn’t? Was it a choice or lack of opportunity?” I was not referring directly to body count but more sexual practices. In my exper…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:21 AM
7

What are you talking about. I never said I ever dated a guy concerned about sexual partners. Quite the opposite. The literal opposite. Did you mean to reply to me? I’m saying a man who doesn’t care about a potential partners current and past sexual practices and approaches is not the man for me. There are plenty of intelligent, educated and conventionally rational woman, who I personally know, who are extremely promiscuous. If he isn’t bothered by these women engaging in threesomes and casual se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:53 AM
5

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:14 AM
31

Just a note:: A lot of guys know girls look at photos they like (and that there is a chance it might come up on their followers explore page) and will instead send the photos I post, accompanied by a reaction! If a guy is liking photos of other females where she is half naked or something, it is in my opinion, him validating her body, looks etc. the fact it is done publicly is embarrassing. Sometimes I will come across a girls booty pic (like straight up ass shot) and can see “GUYwithGF”, “Engag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:06 AM
4

This is actually kinda funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:07 PM
11

Dear god, change your bio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:19 AM
1

lol strong reason to use the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:06 PM
1

I wonder how OP factors in the disrespect and how looked down upon single mothers are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:25 PM
1

Not sure respect is the right word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:20 PM
0

Yah, actually. Simple example: A woman telling a man who has a college degree is very concerned about his educational career, is very in tune with the love languages present in the relationship and enjoys working out, which he does frequently. he lives a life based on regime.... .....that he’s not like the other guys.... >> she’s dated before<< - Who have been uneducated or educated and uncaring about their career, does not take into account the love languages, or think they are “fake” and could…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:05 PM
1

Wrote a reply to a post (a few days ago) about my experience with men finding women intimidating a few days ago. I was told almost the same exact thing as to "why".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:39 AM
2

Agreed. Not sure why so many of posters here are so in denial that some people do feel intimidated by other people... and that some of these people happen to be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:34 AM
2

I always thought the full sentence should be: "you're not like other girls... I've dated".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:30 AM
19

She was gonna have a kid with someone she wasn't even married to? and at 23. smdh. i will never understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:03 AM
21

He’s been ignoring my phone calls, texts, avoiding spending time with me. Didn't bother reading after this because it sounds like he already broke up with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:00 AM
2

No. She isn’t the problem. It isn’t her job to make guys stick around, that’d b an unhealthy relationship dynamic. You shouldn’t have to convince guys to commit to you. Society and expectations have changed. It’s a notorious topic in this sub. OP, ignore this dingleberry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:14 PM
0

My input; I do think men do get intimidated by some women (not as a whole though). It’s case by case. My experience: Well, I’ve heard it said to my face as a reason some guys didn’t “bother” pursuing me, casually or romantically. When I asked for a more specific “why”, I’ve had many straight up say it had to do with how they perceived my self esteem/worth (I come off as some who goes for respect rather than likability from males- which is true). But the reason I have heard most; I come off as so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:26 PM
29

I’m physically cringing on how convinced you are that people are intimidated by you because you model.... part time. You’ve mentioned it more than once in reply. It’s not a reason. To make my point, I’m an agency repped model, and have never thought that people are intimidated by me because I somehow expect them to know I’m a model? Even mentioning you’re a model in this situation is so besides the point. He obviously doesn’t care. The attraction/chemistry obviously wasn’t there on his end. And …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:08 AM
14

I’m assuming he knew what you looked like before the date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:49 AM
8

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:04 PM
10

Jesus how old are your friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:03 PM
33

I had the same response. OP mentioned how growing up she was taught to value finances/job stability/hard work. (at face value: not a negative thing) Y’all, I called my mom. He could be “the one”. I wonder if her mother agreed that him buying her a New Years Eve dress meant he could be husband material (?) That single act (so early in the relationship) equated to him being worthy of marriage? I don't understand this. I'm sure there is more to the story. As someone who grew up in an upper middle c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:33 AM
34

As another poster pointed out- The relationship doesn’t come off equal, at all. You’re completely dependent on him financially- that paired with the age difference sounds like a sugar baby turned wife sort of situation. And That’s very nice but a guy spending money on his wife or anyone doesn’t equaal a high value man. It’s concerning you that you equate money spent on you as high quality. And honestly cringe that your “HA- look at me” comment was that he bought you plane tickets. Okay, that is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:42 PM
30

I had 20k cash left over after I closed my law practice; he suggested I put it in a separate account since I wouldn’t have my own private income anymore. How nice of him to suggest that you keep your money, that you earned. What a treat. AND he let you have your own bank account? Big girl moves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:30 PM
3

Idk he’s got a point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:02 AM
7

This answer. Sounds like she finds male attention to be extremely validating and won’t stop seeking it out/encouraging it even when in a relationship. The amazon wishlist is what got me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:22 PM
16

No time for that. The notifications are annoying. I like to make the point that they have been rejected-loud and clear. Either way, ive found many will go out of their way to DM me and ask if I “actually” unmatched them. I don’t reply to that message either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:58 AM
28

You should have unmatched immediately- that’s what I do. no point of engaging. He’s told you what he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:03 AM
2

Men are just so lazy with their appearance, and completely dumb when it comes to improving their attractiveness. I wish more men whitened their teeth, or didn’t have yellow teeth- would brighten their complexion. And would suggest they take care of themselves/hygienic. Many men accept that they will never be a Chad, so why even bother trying to look good. That’s a major problem. You can still attempt to look YOUR best. C’mon guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:28 PM
3

I have noticed the few men that don’t make exceptions to weight- don’t find the majority of woman attractive. (Foreigners coming to America have different opinions on what is acceptable weight vs Americans who have grown accustomed to larger people/woman) Just from what I’ve been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:20 PM
4

Because men don’t exclude woman based on height or weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:07 PM
7

What book or article is this from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:00 PM
1

Having a toned body requires disposable income?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:02 AM
7

Sexual release portal I’m gonna start using that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:46 AM
15

I’m with you, so much for an open discussion...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:00 PM
7

I should add I would never check electronics without reason and especially so early in a relationship. If I feel the need to check their history and social media, then the vibes must be off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:43 AM
9

I don’t do it, but interesting to see your defense of it. If you think it has worked for you, and you can be open to the person with the person you are seeing to admit you go through their personal business- so be it. But I think it’s deceitful and you are sneaking behind their backs. But again, if you are fine with men you are getting to know going through ur electronics- then it must be a match. But if a guy I’m seeing goes through my private information, emails and browser, text message histo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:40 AM
12

Sneaking behind SO backs and going through personal items so early when knowing someone- that goes against my principles completely. I would not be okay with a man doing that to my phone tbh. Not sure if with FDS on this one. But interesting to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:17 AM
8

I’m conflicted, so what’s FDS stance on going through phones during the dating period? Yay or nah?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:33 PM
2

Same. My experience hasn’t been that bad though. It was me who ended things with the instachads I went on dates with. But none went on to date average girls- so maybe we aren’t talking about the same type of men- objectively. From what I’ve seen from my explore page, one is now dating an ignite model (I think). One was looking for marriage (and was VERY conservative- sexually too) , the other was very keen on improving himself (character wise), but had other issues (he should have been addressin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:05 PM
1

I’ve never seen it personally. Maybe it was your definition of a Chad but not a 100k+ instagram Chad. Usually they date other good looking people, or someone who has clout in other area- Instagram chick, rich, or influential. I thought chads were just extremely good looking guys. I wouldn’t try to guess someones character just because they are extremely good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:09 PM
5

Also not many women are on chads level, aka woman a Chad would even go after for a casual encounter, so I agree. The average female doesn’t have Chad access like a lot of men think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:30 AM
1

They DM you on Instagram. That’s been my experience at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:29 AM
1

OP sounds unstable. She is abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:33 PM
1

You sound abusive af. No sane man can withstand that type of behavior long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 02:40 AM
1

-Bad hairline/balding -tiny legs/small calves (no small calf muscles- it’s a DB for me) -undefined arms -yellow teeth -bad skin -unkept facial hair -small/thin penis -little to no stomach definition, (I prefer abs or at least be firm and tight. ) -excessive body hair (I know some of you will get mad at this, but as a woman who is naturally pretty hairless and prefers herself hairless- I don’t see a problem) -shorter than 6 foot. -big noses (or should I say unflattering nose) -gummy smile - doesn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:45 AM
6

I have defined abs, and I’d be damned if I can’t find a guy who can’t put in the same effort. If I can work towards having low body fat to reach my goals- I don’t see the problem of wanting a SO on the same fitness level. No double standards here. But it does make it a LOT harder to find someone I am just attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:39 AM
1

DELETE TINDER Hunny what you doin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:45 AM
5

Truthhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:05 PM
11

Very true. In my experience; HVM don’t like seeing LVM get credit where credit isn’t do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:02 PM
6

I quite like Matthew Hussey though, thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:59 PM
7

Every time I have, the girl ends up getting mad at ME. Every. time. I decided I would stay out of it after a bad third experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 06:03 PM
6

This. They ALWAYS come back. Just wait a few week, usually months- and he’ll hit you up to see if he can still have access to you..... on his terms. Ain’t nothing friendly or beneficial from a situation like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:28 AM
5

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:10 AM
2

How?! I am currently an agency repped model and have found that it’s actually harder to find HVF in the industry. Especially when your aspirations go beyond modeling. Although it’s great to be surrounded by fellow females who understand the lifestyle/industry challenges- it’s kind of like any other work friendship- takes a bit to find a “match” in terms of interests/hobbies outside of work. Did you meet them at castings, parties or photo shoots?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:12 AM
1

SUCH A STRUGGLE. Would love more content//discussions addressing this issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:01 AM
28

So extremely simple!! The signs are always there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 11:44 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:00 AM
0

🤣🤣🤣 So basically: “This poster uses too much logic, must be a man” ya’ll crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:39 PM
1

I asked that in Ask Men. I’m a woman. And yes why don’t men just shave off their hair instead of putting off the inevitable. What do men do when they know you are too good for them. I am woman. You can’t seem to offer a good counter argument toward the valid points I made in my post, and are throwing a tantrum posting unrelated posts. If this is how you argue in your relationships, I too, would leave you. Illogical and off topic. Trying to change the subject and attack me instead of sticking to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:08 PM
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Women dating on their own terms, and not acting like they “need” a man to come save them or complete their life. And they get to choose what men they want in their lives. Setting standards, and living by those standards. High standards. But this post gives men too much credit. A man I sleep with, is a lucky one- but if I chose to only have a sexual casual relationship with him on MY terms- that’s the whole point. Casual encounter while I take a breather on dating. My terms. No compromise. But ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:21 AM
1

Don’t be ashamed of yours standards. Sexual attraction is very important in a relationship.
/r/seduction24/12/19 05:16 AM
9

This might be aggressive but: I don’t give a shit what the majority of men care about lollll (also what do these men look like tbh lol) Guys will fuck anything. When I’m insecure about something of course I know there’s a man out there who won’t care, but I hold myself to a higher standard then “well he doesn’t care so it shouldn’t bother me”. I don’t feel comfortable letting a man “approve” of things on my body. If anything I mostly feel like saying “oh I’ve noticed, I’ve seen the last girl you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:09 AM
3

Emma Watson? I think I’m a little confused here, but it seems like you are referring to more white Culture/ Eurocentric views on beauty..... typical,... but disappointing. I don’t think the majority of African/Caribbean men would look twice at Emma Watson. Different beauty standards/ideals. It’s interesting how you a user says his exes are basic looking girls, and then you choose who I would consider a very plain basic white girl to prove your point that not all men are attracted to the same coo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:48 AM
1

I actually agree with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:38 AM
1

Attractive and “would I date him” are very different. As a man, you should know this. I’ve seen plenty of short attractive guys, do they get my blood pumping though? Nah. Same concept as a guy who prefers fit girls saying a chubby girl is “cute”, cute enough for one night? Sure. Cute enough for him to desire her and keep him sexually satisfied? Not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:03 PM
2

I agree with you. It’s almost like the guy finally lost weight so she now would LET him fuck her. It’s pathetic on his part and kinda a power move on her part. Am girl. Would find it entertainingly sad I could disrespect a guy like that and he would still desire and lust after me enough to actually go through with the deed. She literally laughed at you while you were being degraded and you still wanted her. Das a bad bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:00 PM
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