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| 1 | Women desire respect for being *anything other than* sex objects. Men desire respect for *being* a sex objectMen can build the resources and provisions and status for themselves but it takes a woman to give him proper intimacy and sexual validation, which on a primal level is his worthiness of breeding. That's the missing puzzle piece. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Women desire respect for being *anything other than* sex objects. Men desire respect for *being* a sex objectI would say, at least personally and with what I've seen from other men on here and in real life, is that if given the choice between the hookup and the husband, the hookup is who we'd rather be. It's about being desired for what we can't get without being expected to give what we have in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 09:40 PM |
| 55 | What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events?won’t like the type of guy that has to go to singles events to meet women This here is the key | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleLetdowns as in interest but no sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:40 PM |
| 7 | “Women give men bad dating advice” is a lie. The manosphere will discredit anything women say if it doesn’t fit their narrative.Ya'll give bad faith advice because if a man is in a state where he feels he needs a woman's advice, he almost immediately gets relegated to Beta Bucks status and the women he asks will gear their advice towards that cucked lifestyle for the man. If he was truly a desirable, he wouldn't have to ask for shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?This is better laid out than I could've ever wrote down, awesome job. And I completely agree. My parents had me older than yours did and they're annoyingly set in their reclusive, conservative ways to the point where it fucked me over socially as much as the stability was helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 01:20 PM |
| -4 | Why do you personally hate or dislike The Red Pill?Well good luck to them being baby mamas for the top 10% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:41 AM |
| -4 | Why do you personally hate or dislike The Red Pill?Um....ok? Let's not sit here and act like women play no part in this and are innocent little papayas that evil men crumple up with no fight or provocation. You're moralizing an amoral dynamic like so many on this platform. Women are plenty aware of the power of their pussies and the beauty surrounding it and they absolutely leverage it with men in the dating pool that are less than Chadly in their eyes. Even their own husbands who they come to resent despite supposedly being everything they ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do you personally hate or dislike The Red Pill?Blue pill guys who get laid are mostly not aware of their genetic gifts or the fact that they were applying red pill without even being aware of it, preventing them from having to struggle and skip that all-encompassing anger phase that the rest of us go through. Or they're just good enough bullshitters that you THINK they're bluepill, when actually their supposed lack of repulsion towards sex positivity and a promsicuous past is just a tool to get you to let your paranoid and pretentious guard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?Downvotes don't change facts lol I'd hate to see you fall off that high horse of yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?That is insane that you don’t think that things like maturity, being grown up enough to make a decent parent, having stuff in common with you, and income, count as “bringing something to the table”. It's insane how you and plenty other women on this sub can't see that men and women are different and value different things. Aside from maybe things in common, as that's not terribly critical either way, these are all things women desire from men. Youth, fertility, and modesty are what men desire fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:37 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menThey care about their financial security. It's also gonna be hilarious when they lose all of it in the next few years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 08:27 PM |
| 3 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateDamn if only more men had those benefits lol. I've experienced that desire from women, although not while overtly in a relationship, who otherwise put up some "sTrOnG, iNdEpEnDeNt" front in a neutral state. It really is funny to watch them try to be like men only to crumble so easily. Also mega lol at the downvotes. It's quite obvious ya'll women here aren't "above it all" like you wanna preach to everyone so you can talk down on men for not buying into the female imperative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 11:11 PM |
| -2 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateIt's not because women are just "above it all", and this exact attitude you just displayed is exactly what he's talking about. It's also the main schtick with women on this sub or any dating-adjacent sub, which makes any debate or calling them out on their shit hopeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 06:31 PM |
| – | Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effectiveThis is just too much brutally honest truth about women for this sub to tolerate, my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 05:13 PM |
| 6 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.We men don't claim to be amazing judges of character or have "masculine intuition." If women were similarly modest about their ability to judge character intuitively, we'd have more modest standards. And not to mention, women who commit paternity fraud are a lot less obvious than even the most charming, Ted Bundy-like manipulative male abusers. Even the sweetest, most reasonable (seeming) women can fuck a man other than her husband/bf and try to pass the baby off as his. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?Laughable buzzword salad. I'll have fun with my wet dick this weekend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?Or, God forbid, she's a human and made reckless decisions when she was young, like all people do. You can try something and not like it. Some people learn from their mistakes. Why should she do something she doesn't like just to stroke her husband's ego? Would you treat your wife the same way you'd treat a hooker in bed? Then why should she treat her husband the same way she would treat a casual hookup? Absolute copypasta comment from a woman. Also on a month old post, kinda odd, but I'll indulg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why pickup artistry and redpill advice is better than SCIENCE_TM/bluepill advice.You can try to emulate Logan Sargent for your racing. But you can also emulate Max Verstappen or Oscar Piastri. And this isn't even a great analogy because Logan Sargent definitely saw a lot more success than the vast majority of redpillers and pua's lmao. Cute analogy, but the Verstappens and Piastris of the world have a lot better tools to work with than the Sargaents, enabling them to be frontrunners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:37 PM |
| -5 | Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband?Shhhh you said the quiet part out loud Now other men know the rules they play by | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Paternity Test vs. Escape FundThis is why I think, at a certain point in the marriage, if she hasn't had to use the escape fund, she should invest it back into the marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:29 PM |
| 2 | If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore.within society if you sign paperwork you are legally bound to the creation of said life and a human being thus you WILL be forced to support that human child. Thus in the eyes of court and law at birth “parents willingly signed documentation stating responsibility until 18 years old” at least within the USA. This law needs to change as well. I saw on an earlier thread about standardizing, not mandating, paternity testing and giving the potential father the ability to opt out if he deems it unnec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:28 PM |
| 5 | If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore.The test doesn't guarantee fidelity. Only that the whelp was conceived with the tester. The mother still could have been cheating at time of conception. While you're right, the big deal is being on the hook for a child that isn't yours. Makes it much easier to walk away if she's still cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleOh I've applied this 100% and it's been nothing but successful compared to what the bluepill wants to push, but even then, I've had some frustrating letdowns I still don't understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleToday is the easiest day to secure it without committing, and tomorrow will be even easier. The hoeflation is real. Consider that >50% of Americans are obese, so just by getting fit a man launches himself into top 20%. Throw in style, cologne, manners, and you're in top 10% Eh, from personal experience I wouldn't say it's THAT easy. Women are still fickle as all hell even if they're more liberated, and obesity isn't the disqualifier you may think. A man still has to walk a fine line to get laid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleMen are more at peace single, which doesn't always mean happier but certainly doesn't mean unhappy. Sex is an existential need of being a male; hell it's why we even entertain women to begin with, but most cannot secure it without committing. And while TRP advises against pandering to a woman's needs like that, almost all of us have been there and you can't blame us. Maybe she could even make a good wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?As disgusting as it is (exit only guys, exit only), it seemingly goes beyond the actual act itself. Plus the male g-spot is up the ass so gay dudes probably couldn't fathom it not feeling good. There's been plenty of stories, many of which women will try to discredit or justify from the woman's perspective, of men having wives who wanna be all ladylike and tame with him in the bedroom, only for him to later find out that when she was in college, her ass was fair game for all the hawt guys on spr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:20 PM |
| 2 | How much do you agree or disagree with these statements on male/female imperative?Is the 1-5 scale whether or not that's how it is or how it should be in my eyes? If the former, I'd say both are a 5 as simple objective statements. As for actual practice, they run completely contradictory to each other, as intended by nature I guess, and neither is really compatible with a truly civilized society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?Yeah pretty much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 12:43 AM |
| 28 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?It proves that women's sexuality is far more valuable than men's, as nature intended. That's all. As another commenter already wrote, women see men's sexuality as predatory. I'd say it only applies to the men that don't turn them on, which is the vast majority anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:49 PM |
| -1 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?Women find male sexuality as predatory When he's not 6'3" with a muscular build and maybe a solid bank statement to boot. This is true for the vast majority of men who don't get them wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:47 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneIf sex is the only thing you want from women, yes, being friends with them is worthless. But so is dating or marrying them, because that would also involve having liking them for more than just sex. This paragraph tells me you're on another bluepill moral superiority high, but I'll indulge. Sex isn't ALL most men want from women, but it is the primary driver that incentivizes talking to them in the first place. If she doesn't go for it, so be it. I won't waste more time. But the hole between her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:40 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneBro, they say "be friends with women" so that you can get used to talking to women without feeling awkward. If friendship is all this man gets while they continue to fuck other men, this method is worthless. Friendship with women only works if there's ZERO attraction and/or the man is already getting laid, whether it's by them or some other women. They say "see women as people" for the same reason they say "take pussy off the pedestal". Because women are not magical moral beings who are gentle a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Do women ever regret cheating ?They SAID they regret it, doesn't mean they actually do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?If the man is this story's a waiter (public job, likely lots of good socialization and interactions with women) and this woman is finding him hot enough to let loose and have sneaky links with, he's definitely got other irons in the fire and she's just sucking the fun out of their arrangement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 06:37 PM |
| 17 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreThey want plausible deniability for ego preservation. That's really the gist of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 06:19 PM |
| 11 | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?I'd have no problem with it, like most men. The fact that she wants my dick without expecting anything else makes me the winner compared to the men she "loves". Hopefully I don't have to run into her ACTUAL boyfriend or hubby, because then I'll feel like shit lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women prefer (Benevolent) Sexism over Equality in DatingHmm I think it'll blow up in their faces but we'll see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women prefer (Benevolent) Sexism over Equality in DatingThose are good things to go away I agree, but can we rely on them to be valuable contibuters on their own without needing men's help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:23 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women prefer (Benevolent) Sexism over Equality in DatingAt that point, women would just be treated like weaker men and civilization would move backwards quite drastically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:03 PM |
| 19 | CMV: Women prefer (Benevolent) Sexism over Equality in DatingWhile plenty, well all, of gynocentrism is male-caused, the laughable aspect is women either denying its existance and trying to flip it as men being the privileged ones. Or they acknowledge it and rightfully call it out, but act as if they would be just fine in adapting to the disappearance of gynocentrism. If men truly treated women as equals like ya'll seem to want, and set their desires for pussy aside (which kind of goes completely against nature), women would be toast and this world would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:56 PM |
| – | Questions about men being allowed to cheat after x amount of time with no sexHe can leverage the preselection. No guarantee but walking around with a woman by your side makes it much easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:56 PM |
| -1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsGlad you agree! Now say that to the women living a life of chasing the dragon and FOMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsMeanwhile you go to the mall and see ugly men, short men, fat men, poorly dressed men, basically all manner of “average” men who all still have girlfriends. Is she truly with these men because she desires them? As in, does she put out for these guys as freely and enthusiastically as the tall, confident, handsome men? Is he her first? If married, her one and only? Has she had any of the 6' tall, cream of the crop men in her past, even if just one? Or is he the best available given her dwindling c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Yes, and not because of my own actions, but because of men before me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"we call you things like that because you say shit like this. Didn't know spending a few minutes of my workday on Reddit watching men get shit on for being abusive and controlling and daring to have a problem with it meant I wear a tinfoil hat but whatever. What do you want me to hold women accountable for? If a woman is a dick to me, I've never had a problem telling her to pound sand. I've also never had a problem ignoring her existence after that. We just have different methods of not taking th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:06 PM |
| -1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Ah yes, I refuse to subscribe to egalitarianism, so I must be some paranoid, woman-hating, tinfoil hat wearing conspiracy theorist who's never touched grass REEEEEEEEEEE Seriously, can you bluepillers ever hold women GENUINELY accountable (as in, not forced to or not trying to 'both sides' or 'all people do it' the issue) or are you gonna keep calling every critic of the status quo some untouched, internet-consumed virgin? Or better yet, try to continue to act like women are still victims of som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 01:39 PM |
| 2 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"I wouldn't disagree that men created gynocentrism in a way by pedestalizing women and going way too far for their protection and benefit, but it's now a systemic way of life that women themselves have assured they will never lose. Not just male pedestalization of women on a social and personal level. If we truly took pussy off the pedestal, there would be much more than just women getting treated with the same indifference men are treated with, unless they give some kind of tangible benefit, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Gynocentrism is a lowkey TRP tennant, but it's one of those things we just accept and adapt to how we can. But yes, the rest of genuine redpill is to just control what you can control and don't give up frame ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:30 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Lmao you're the one going as far to say we're prostituting women for having the audacity to want, not forcefully demand, something in return for our effort. But that's about right in this 'men bad' sphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Some of us have traditional values, buddy, and don't want to have sex with someone just because he bought dinner. Only a valid point if you've applied that to EVERY man you've had sex with (chances are, a man before him didn't have to spend a penny or that much time building "rapport" for you to open your legs; miss me with that "traditional values" bullshit) or you're a virgin. Otherwise, if you ain't puttin out, you're using him for free food and denying him your best. All I ask is to respectf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Get off your self-righteous high horse and ask yourself if you'd really accept a one-sided deal working against you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Men who are in deadbedrooms are there because they are not willing to have sex with other women. That makes them less attractive.Not willing or not able to? The latter is more of the reality, even if some men insist the former. Your point does still stand though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you CrazyNope, she'll still be hung up on them in some way. Whether she puts restrictions on what I can do from past trauma (likely) or for some reason thinks it's ok to reminisce about her younger, wilder days if she supposedly sees me as the best she's ever had, like all you ran through women like to pretend you see your "dear hubbys" as. She's never truly yours, even if she may be physically loyal. And just because she doesn't actually hop on new dick doesn't mean she won't actually feel the drive for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsCareful. We can't admit egalitarianism is a lie out loud. Must pretend men and women are the same, and how women think is the only way, when reality clearly shows the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 11:37 AM |
| 4 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsI know right. How dare a heterosexual man not see someone of the opposite gender, who he could be mating with, as just one of the guys?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:19 AM |
| 17 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.Women give better relationship advice because it is situational and nuanced. However, even then it is murky because women tend to be biased and take the side of the woman rather than focusing more on your side as well. This is exactly the problem. Women over-nuance dating situations and life in general in a way to absolve fellow women of accountablility for their actions or habits. Life may not be black and white but there is not nearly the grey area women make it out to be. Not every situation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it.And promiscuous women can't stay committed if they tried because the grass is greener mindset is so engrained in their mode of operation. Every hoe started out as that virgin you describe. Not every virgin falls into this trap though. It's a risk either way, but at least with the virgin, you can say you planted the flag. That's a pride that'll never go away. Perhaps the best women are the ones who have had one or two LTRs with those men being the only partners. They're horny as fuck but if they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityI remember vividly as a child listening to the Sandy Hook shooting. One of the teachers had risked her life to protect her students and fellow staffers, using her body as a shield. I mean, as the only adult in the room, the children are more "valuable" or helpless in that scenario. Put a man in that room and he jumps on that woman, who both protect the children. A man will always be the exposed layer if they're actually present in that situation. women’s work in maintaining households, raising c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityWhile I never wanted this to become a typical PPD pissing match about which gender has it worse or pulling the old "well that was the past" to invalidate genuine problems, consider this final point: men and women are different and are built for different roles physically, mentally, and emotionally. Hell, our sports are segregated for a reason. Our struggles are never the same, and that's not to say women don't have them. But what's an accomplishment for women is an expectation for men; men have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 12:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityAll I hear is an attempt at victimhood in these responses. Men built these institutions, fair or not, they did the shitwork, so of course they naturally end uo with the advantage. Women would unquestionably do the same for themselves if they took the initiative with all that world building. No one gives a shit about us without our contributions regardless of how that ends up for us. Women get all their emotional turmoils, many of which they cause, bent over backwards for. I'm simply speaking on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityFor the majority of history, there WAS no hierarchy. Men created hierachy because we needed a way to coexist for the future of humanity. Not women, but it was done for women to be able to raise the next generation while the man risked everything and provided. We're simply less dog eat dog now. Never said this system was perfect, but it was men who created civilization, for better or for worse and definitely FOR women. women were deliberately excluded from medical research, which had stemmed from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityHeart disease research has very often been conducted on men, leading to a lack of awareness and understanding of how heart disease presents differently in women. This has obviously led to both misdiagnosis and a lack of diagnosis of heart disease in women. Due to men's proneness to engage in stressful activities for the relief of women. Terms such as: "chairman," "fireman," and "policeman" inherently suggest male figures… whereas the female equivalents ("chairwoman," "firewoman," "policewoman") … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityWe live in a world that was built by, for and around men For the protection and provisioning of women and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityWe sure as shit do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityMen predominately put the work in for everyone to have the benefits. I never said that we don't benefit from these luxuries, but men mostly do the shit work to uphold it. The lunchpail work if you will. Women do it too, but they are, always have been, and always will be the minority in these fields, seemingly by nature. Lots of men using “men do dirty dangerous jobs etc.” are men working in climate controlled offices. I work in manufacturing. Step out onto any plant floor, and you'll mostly see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:43 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From Insecurityneurotic insecurity and obsession with some imaginary cuckoldry scenario This is what you defined a man in a committed relationship's self-respect as. Sure he could just leave if he doesn't like it, but he also wasn't the one who did anything to cause her to go to a place that allows for a cheating scenario. If the roles were reversed, you would 100% unprovoked be telling the woman to leave the relationship because the man is too immature to leave that life behind. And don't come back acting lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 09:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityGender double standards are simply a reality we have to accept, at least those that come naturally. Desires, goals, and incentives for individual lives and intersexual relations vary innately between men and women. What we bring to the table for each other varies. The effects of promiscuity are different. We are complimentary pieces for each other. Not equals. Not one superior to the other, although women need men more than vice versa. The difference here is that men acknowledge the little bit w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityThat emotional distance is much easier to keep for men than women. We can theoretically impregnate as many women as our balls can handle in a day and walk away like nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityAaaaand it's where you perpetuate the common falsehood this sub operates on that men and women are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityWho would women and other bluepillers be able to talk down to then? This sub would fail instantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityNot sure if we're talking about the same thing here. When I say "sexual dignity", I'm referring to the fact so many men lack standards in their sexual partners. Essentially they operate as "any port in a storm", and end up sharing their sexuality with women who aren't good for them. This is what I'm getting at in a way. Those infamous "2/10 at the bar during last call" jokes and shit like that. They're definitely rooted in truth, because due to men's far more raging and nondiscriminant sex drive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:30 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecuritySociety would actually be much better if more men had self-respect and sexual dignity Now sexual dignity is valid, but that's mostly an internet problem. There's dark circles of the internet and society for every self-deprecating simp joke/meme made, but sexual deviancy isn't limited to struggling or outcast men. But if this male self-respect increase goes against the best interest of women, which it likely will, does that change your stance on this at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 02:45 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityI wanna give this a million upvotes. Women, and gynocentric society, do not want men to have any self-respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 02:14 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Most Redpill “Concerns” Really Do Stem From InsecurityInsecurity is the term they give for a man's self-respect. He must take whatever slop they throw on his platter (high body count, past traumatic relationships that she enabled, etc) or else he's insecure and weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t agree with no fault divorce, how much are you willing to change?I'm saying the marriage is all about the wedding nowadays and the posing as a madly in love, happily ever after couple and not actually a pair of late 20's/30's washups who paired up out of jaded desparation of social proof (mainly from the woman's perspective by showing that she could secure a man beyond her vagina). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Women will defend women no matter whatSure its an insecure line of thought but she tilled the earth and watered the soil and bought grade AAA fertilizer for it to grow. Nothing insecure about a man having self-respect. She put out quicker for another man? I'm not getting her best. She can go try and convince him to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Liberals politicians support adding women to Selective ServiceTbf liberals in this country aren't really left, they're just TO THE left of the very right leaning political ecosystem. This attempted move is to feed the war machine above all, not "equality". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshipThey can also not make the mistakes in the first place. Age is no excuse, because young people are definitely capable of mature, emotionally intelligent relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 09:28 PM |
| 2 | If you don’t agree with no fault divorce, how much are you willing to change?Not to mention, marriage anymore is just a wedding day and honeymoon to plaster on social media for validation. Maybe every so often a baby comes along and the couple seems so in love and together on the Meta apps. Far cry from the sacred covenant it was intended to be and used to be treated as, like you say. Not just something you can do, get wrong, say "oopsie" and get redeemed. It's also fully for the benefit of women and offspring, at the compromise of men. Even in today's society, men are s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 05:37 PM |
| – | Who Opposes No-Fault Divorce?Seeing as how many women seem to view marriage nowadays as a wedding/honeymoon photo op for socials and then get bored and wanna run away for new dick when the reality of marriage and being a repsonsible adult hits, but maybe still wanna keep dear hubby around for provisioning and validation even if they constantly give him shit, it serves no man to get married or at least be faithful to one woman. Also, prenups and paternity testing get shit on because every married woman wants the power and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?I certainly don't care about how much a child of mine is like me. Just the mere fact a woman innately found me worthy of passing them on and allowed me to nut in her and push the baby out after 9 long months. As others have mentioned, it's one of those primal things that's buried underneath eons of evolution as a species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:32 AM |
| 2 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeThat's this entire sub, my man. Woman gets called out on thing women mostly or exclusively do, action is then projected onto men or the actions of men must be to blame for women's behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 01:53 AM |
| 1 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggageStop trying to reverse scenarios as if they're equal. A 10/10 won't do that unless she's held at gunpoint or the man has quite the estate she's about to cash in on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.Do you think she actually likes me like that without trying to get some one-sided benefit out of it? Naive if you think not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggageDespite having to put in less work than average men, they're still men who need to qualify themselves. A 10/10 man is still no better off as far as racking up options than a 5 or 6/10 woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.Not interested in friendship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 04:51 PM |
| 6 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.If she had to "warm up" to me sexually, there is a permanent asterisk next to her interest in me. Almost a guarantee some hoops had to be jumped through, even unintentionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 04:09 PM |
| -3 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggageNot a double standard, just nature working. But yes, men are way more easily sexually triggered than women, yet have to prove themselves worthy of a woman giving it up. Act all self-righteous and appalled you want, it doesn't change nature.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggagewe took “men are slightly more likely to experience spontaneous arousal and seek sex” and somehow turned it into “women don’t want lots of casual sex so those who do are useless unhealthy sluts; men do want lots of casual sex so those who do are healthy red blooded studs.” Men have to prove themselves for sex that women offer. All women have to say is yes. This is just observable fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:54 PM |
| 2 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggageOne of those tennants where TRP isn't taking a righteous, scripture-type stance on society and is simply saying "don't pay the price for another man's damage, even if you cause it yourself". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:17 PM |
| -2 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggageEh, plenty of discourse on this sub is just women and BP men creating false equivalences on how men and women operate, or at least their incentives/consequences for actions that both genders might indeed have in common: Slut vs. Stud is a valid difference that doesn't make one gender superior to the other, just logically explains the valid difference between male and female promiscuity. Men trading committment/resources and women trading sex to get a handshake deal on the other's offering is jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:15 PM |
| – | I think some men are jealous of women with high body count… because it means they have more life experience than them.Men are jealous of “players” for this same reason but the jealousy becomes even more intense with women because they don’t have to utilize rizz. Men have heard stories of below average women running through men. And… while women might hear this and think about what a headache this could be… some men hear this and think… adventure. It’s FOMO. This is the only right part of your post lol. We're repulsed by high body count women because there's nothing special about being with the town bike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 09:01 PM |
| – | Big problem: women’s delusional standards are now a flex.Exactly, this is why most conspiracies are fuckin stupid: no one in this world is that smart and well-put together to be able to pull this devious, clever shit off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:19 AM |
| 5 | 3 Kids, different dads, divorced twice, does OF, on alphabet soup of Meds. BTW NO MEN UNDER 6 FEET TALL. I HAVE STANDARDS. MODS Link does not work https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/322678/3_kids_different_dads_divorced_twice_does_of_on_alphabet_souThis almost feels too egregiously in the repulsive direction that even some feminists would admit she should be avoided. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/05/24 09:19 PM |
| 71 | Bumble now admits that their main marketing ploy has been dumb this whole timeWhat women want, just like in real life, is to have men that they find undesirable completely removed from the equation whatsoever. Men that women find undesirable shouldn't have the ability to approach women at all. Boom, all of the internet and real world debates on dating and sex are summarized. No more need to be on Reddit. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/05/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Men are the ones who settle.When it comes to sex, there is nothing the hookup girl gets that the LTR/wife girl doesn't. There may be softer "love-making" with the latter but if the girl who gets to meet my parents and become my home wants to be railed like a dirty whore, that she gets, with an "I love you" post nut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 02:42 AM |
| -1 | Men are the ones who settle.Data shows that men at every age level are most attracted to women in their early 20s, whereas women at every age level are most attracted to men their own age. That is a true statement. With a tweak. Women are attracted to men their own age AND OLDER. Not to mention men are way more forgiving of quirks and flaws than women in general as long as we get desire from the woman in question. The 6/10 girl who's nerdy or dorky or a bit plain but is crazy for us with raging desire and passion to have o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Why its important for men to have female friendsJust the quiet part out loud, that's all it is. The men who don't seem "redpill" that you supposedly prefer to interact with think this way too. Hasn't stopped me from finding new women, as all I need is explcitily stated sexual attraction from her to pursue. Perhaps I exposed our hand too hard, men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 11:21 AM |
| – | My advice for not getting screwed over.Not like the conversation means anything, because no chick is actually gonna eliminate roster pieces during a relationship and any woman who already has such going into that conversation is not worth committment anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Why its important for men to have female friendsHow is laughing in a man's face and tossing him aside when he shows emotion or falls on hard times not dehumanizing? How is divorcing a man and depleting him of his money and assets that HE HIMSELF EARNED not dehumanizing? How is a woman getting knocked up by another man and making the man she "loves" believe it's his not dehumanizing? Hell, how is going into a date expecting the man's gonna rape you unless proven otherwise not dehumanizing? Yet they still happen and gynocentrism and feminism le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Why its important for men to have female friendsyou’ve really drunken the coolaid, eh? Apparently not the stuff you and other women want us men drinking to keep us bought in to your gynocentric narratives. but that’s kinda the issue - is it not? you can value sex and sex appeal in a woman while still seeing her in a context outside of it, and you can value sex in women while also not viewing women as disposable otherwise Here's the issue I can return to you, even though you'll only be able to see it through a female's perspective: why should … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Why its important for men to have female friendsUm, I'm not sure if you're willing to hear the reality, but sex is women's primary value to men. You can be a great daughter, sister, mother, friend, cook, employee, teacher, coach, have all kinds of crazy talents and shit, whatever, but that's secondary at best when you're qualifying yourself to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Why its important for men to have female friendsLike Rollo Tomassi (I know, eyeroll) says "You are either her boyfriend or girlfriend. If you are not fucking her, you are her girlfriend." I mean perhaps if I already have a rotation or a girlfriend THAT I FUCK, then female friends aren't a problem as I already have my sexual needs taken care of. But if I find her attractive, it's a cuck move to give her friendship while other men get the goodies. Only truly good point here is distinguishing a friendly woman from a flirty woman, but even then, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 03:10 PM |
| – | Do women often marry men that they don't passionately love?Men get upset about their options being a bunch of ran through, past their prime, ungrateful, jaded, egotistical harpies. Not that she's downright ugly or impossible to be aroused by/passionate about (don't know why they would want to be either). She's just a bad bet for long-term committment. This is exactly why TRP promotes abundance mentality and discourages marriage in most cases as these hoes are not in anyway worth it and well-meaning Billy Beta is sure as hell not receiving the same passi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 02:31 PM |
| -7 | Do women often marry men that they don't passionately love?Yeah, enough with this "people in general" false equivalence bullshit on this sub. On the rare occasion a man is desired enough to have abundant options beyond her and not NEED the woman but for some reason he just needs to be married, then yes MAYBE a man does this. But contrary to your seemingly solipsistic beliefs about marriage, no even slightly self-respecting man is marrying a woman he isn't incredibly passionate about or is only marrying out of desparation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 11:23 PM |
| 19 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"I wish I could upvote this a million times. Women's entire frame of mind is solipsism and the narcisisstic child's mindset of taking all the credit for the good and rejecting all responsibility for the bad. Also a facade for how empty and disappointed in herself she really is, so she tells herself this crap to flip the script and stop the bleeding from her ego. And they wanna say we have the fragile egos lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?You basically covered it here: a shitty dynamic when you put them together. Mid 30's women with baggage from excess, inflated egos and unrealistic standards who have lost or are barely clinging onto what interests men (at least the top tier ones they want): fertility, youth, pleasantness and general purity. Instead it's replaced by wrinkles, a thousand cock stare, bitchiness, and a more combative, masculine attitude from perceived wrongs against her as well as the falsely egalitarian belief that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?You first have to look at each gender's biologically, as well as socially, innate incentives and desires for their intersexual relationships, whatever they're casual or serious. You sort of covered the gist of it from the woman's side: a mid 30's woman can certainly still get fuck buddies, hookups, and overall attention from men her age that she might actually want (assuming she herself is still conventionally attractive, because she certainly can be), but this isn't what she truly needs or want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:08 PM |
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