JumpyApricot80 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Married for 10 years and confronted four times in the last two months when I found my wife cheating. I don't know. I too was in a decade-long relationship that ended in divorce when she cheated. Don’t feel like you are throwing that 10 years away, because staying in the marriage would be wasting the rest of your life away if she continues to give you disrespect. Work on yourself and be the partner you want to have, then you’ll attract others who are aligned with your life goals and personality. Good luck💪	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/26 02:19 AM
5	After the dust settled, life was kind of lit after she left Yes! Very happy and excited for you in your life AD. This is now your season!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/26 06:08 PM
6	How long did you wait to be intimate again? I know what you mean by ‘feeling dirty’ and all. It took me 2 years. But now on hindsight, it was all in my own head. My ex had already initiated separation and moved on, why didn’t I?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/26 02:49 PM
3	This is a post from divorced women page… you can’t make this shit up. I will never marry again Good grief.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/26 03:25 PM
5	How many months before giving up I made up my mind at about 5months. What really helped me make my mind up was when I found out about the other guy at the 2 month mark. I stopped begging after that.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/26 08:17 AM
6	Man im in a dark space again You’re not alone buddy and trust me, it really does get better. For now, you have to love yourself and let her go.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 08:43 AM
7	What does a divorced Christian dad do on the nights when he doesn’t have his kids? Start a business. Or join local meetups so you can expand your social circle and engage in shared hobbies together.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/26 09:24 AM
1	Mental health check I forced my ex out of the house after she tried to open the marriage on her own. We’ve been separated for 2.5years now and I’ve been living alone for 1.5years. The time alone has given me a lot of opportunity for reflection and healing. I am only considering dating again after the divorce is done at the end of 2025. Give yourself that chance to be apart from her and heal. This will give you a better shot at dating for a long term relationship. You really do not want to be attracted a second time…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/24 09:08 AM
1	How to move on from feeling taken advantage of? Self-healing for the last 2 years and eventually, I’ll be going into therapy. I’ve been watching self improvement content and reading a lot. Hitting the gym daily from Mondays to fridays to build my physique and release the pent-up frustration/energy. Weekends are for cardio where I can sort out my whirlwind of thoughts during a long run. I am now more open about my emotions and share a lot with loved ones. Their emotional support has helped me so much. I treat myself to a good meal once in a wh…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/24 10:14 PM
2	I’m Tired Hi brother, I just want you to know I’ve been there and was forced to live with my stbxw for an entire year before I had to call the cops on her for self mutilation. That move shocked the hell out of her and she moved back in with her parents. You are not alone. You’ve got this.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/24 06:16 AM
2	Due to a sense of duty, some husbands are the guards of their own prison. I’ve still that sense of duty to her. Weve hurt each other throughout the years, culminating in her discarding me to pursue another man. When I found out, I agreed to the divorce. During this time, I still maintain a good relationship with my in laws because they’ve treated me well all this while. I still look out for my stbx because she’s undergoing depression, but I only do so within the boundaries of separation. I can’t bring myself to date anyone until the divorce is finalised. Too much bagg…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/08/24 02:38 AM
3	Is your new girlfriend way better than your ex wife? 2 years for me bruh. Still getting used to my peace.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 03:01 PM
2	She has HIV I read that HIV can lay dormant and without symptoms for a long time. Do seek a doctor’s advice. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/24 01:00 AM
1	Would you take her back? Haha yes 100% agreed on this.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/24 06:01 AM
2	Would you take her back? Sometimes they just sort themselves out, don’t they?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/24 02:06 AM
3	How do you reconcile the lying? I understand the pain and grief you feel. It’ll get better with time, I promise. Focus on your loved ones and family. Don’t isolate yourself. Finds support in forums like this one, it’ll help you know that you are not alone. Get back into old hobbies you enjoy. Pick up new activities and meet new people. Pamper yourself and have fun. Find your ‘why’ again. Work on yourself by seeking therapy. Go for hikes or runs. Go to the gym if you need to vent your frustrations. When you find yourself gettin…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/24 01:02 AM
15	Would you take her back? My wife asked for separation and immediately hooked up with someone. I discovered the relationship and realised all her ‘solo staycations’ where she need time alone to ‘heal’ were spent with that guy. Then after that, he probably broke it off with her and she wants to come back. No way I’m opening that door for you again. All this time, I’ve never bothered with dating or screwing around. The hurt has just been too much these 2 years.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/24 04:40 AM
6	Everything was ok, suddenly it’s not If a married man or woman truly believes in the vows they took, then even being apart for an entire year wouldn’t give them any reason to give in to any outsiders. Whatever happened to honouring promises? This truly sucks.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/24 05:59 PM
12	Everything was ok, suddenly it’s not Your situation is very similar to mine. Wife and I were in a relationship of more than 10 years. Married for 3 years. We were completely fine and happy, was planning a big year-end holiday even. I went through a job transition and travelled twice in 2 months for work. 2 weeks at a time. After the second trip, she tells me suddenly that she wanted to be separated. She gives me many reasons for us being ‘too different’ and said that I was a very selfish person, etc. Before this, she had spoken abo…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/24 09:31 AM
3	Don’t mind being alone but I hate being lonely. My wife left me Agree with you on how we all cope here. I’m not a professional, and I’m still waiting for her diagnosis. She’s been depressed, cutting herself, crying a lot. And yes, new dick as well. It’s that last thing that killed the marriage on the spot. I could deal with everything else.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 06:02 PM
8	Don’t mind being alone but I hate being lonely. My wife left me Same story with me, bro. I suspect my wife has BPD. She had gone from intimate and loving one moment, and cold and hateful the next. She asked for separation and then I found out by accident that she was seeing some guy. I knew they were being intimate. So I told her I wanted to proceed with the divorce. We’ve been separated for 1.5 years. It’s still not easy being lonely all this while. I’m not even actively looking for a new partner. Just taking it slow and seeking therapy for myself soon.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 10:09 AM
14	Be honest did anybody cheat at their bachelor party if so to what extent? No. I took some buddies out and climbed a mountain in Borneo. Never had it in me to have multiple partners, even now while separated.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/24 01:09 AM