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There are more male narcissists. Men have main character syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:40 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:34 PM
1

It is still harder to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:10 AM
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Because men who want what you do are not as desirable to most women. Most women do not want a stay at home husband who wants her to carry and birth 3 children while he stays home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:00 AM
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I think most people are dishonest about how much attention they like to receive especially in the age of social media. I think you might be an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:05 PM
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I do not think it’s fair to say men should be glad for this when most women never have experienced what it is like to feel invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:02 PM
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6’3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:06 AM
2

Whatever makes you feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:13 AM
3

I responded to your question. You just don’t like the response I gave you - which proves my initial interpretation of the tone of your question as demeaning and judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:09 AM
2

That’s what prenups are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:07 AM
4

What makes you think i dont do other things? You imagine im vapid quite conveniently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:01 AM
7

Yeah he most often tells me to buy whatever i want and to do what i want and i listen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:52 AM
5

Yeah, this is the dynamic of my relationship with my husband and I’m happy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:57 AM
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Financial abortion pushes responsibility for the child on to everyone but the biological father as those who opted for one would mean the child would receive benefits be paid for by taxes of men (and women). So the woman has the baby or an abortion and still pays for other mens children in her taxes. Abortion - to those who wish to terminate the pregnancy is beneficial to both men and women and only women have a consequence regardless of what she chooses. If men want financial abortions for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:29 PM
1

I think it’s a case by case basis. I mean women do the same thing on 90 day fiancé.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:31 PM
1

It is because most men are much stronger than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:21 PM
4

It isn’t rare - that is the difference. You are being disingenuous and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:43 AM
8

Yeah, and we are talking about men who are everywhere, aren’t we?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:12 AM
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Yeah, I would take precautions around those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:56 AM
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It’s called taking precautions because there is always a chance. You say they don’t happen on average but most women have had something scary and unwelcome happen to them at least once. All it takes is one time. That is what we understand that you are missing. We are raised from kindergarten to be wary of men, and for a large majority of women, it is their fathers doing the teaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:30 AM
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They aren’t irrational fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:23 AM
2

This is interesting and i’ve read some psychologists and male therapists say that it’s why a lot of men don’t like talk therapy. There is no physical action being associated that allows their emotions to process reducing the level of internalization they might suffer from later on. Men can process easier when they do something physical or even if it’s just with their hands - essentially problem solving which allows them to “feel their feelings” and emotionally regulate themselves. And for younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:58 PM
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That man was also birthed by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:49 AM
6

Those men were able to do those things because a woman went through LABOR and birthed them. You wouldn’t exist without women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:55 PM
2

This isn’t a man or woman thing - it’s a people thing. The better looking you are the better you will typically be treated by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:22 PM
1

I agree it’s more popular than people here make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:15 PM
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I hope so. I think it’s very possible as long as they remain open to finding someone and are ok with dating younger as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:13 PM
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I have always been way more attracted to older men. They are simply more attractive to me in most cases than men my age for a variety of reasons physically, emotionally, and intellectually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:10 PM
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And women face majority of the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:59 PM
2

They can also cause infertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:29 PM
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No it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:56 AM
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Blue pill just means they don’t believe in redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:52 AM
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Redpill describes male nature as the above. It’s interesting you don’t know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:36 AM
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Doesn’t the redpill say men are violent sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:33 AM
2

They feed into each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:22 AM
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No it isn’t. You just don’t know what an ideology is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:34 AM
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Red pill needs someone to blame when it doesn’t work and it blames women. Red pill thrives on men failing so they shift the blame to keep men consuming for their profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:43 AM
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Blue pill isn’t an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:41 AM
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I’ve noticed a lot of the guys here with the red pill flair don’t seem to follow any of the advice of redpill when it comes to their own self improvement. A small percentage of them seem like they actually put in the work and the way they speak about dating seems much more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:18 AM
2

Some are, some aren’t. I think it’s pretty mixed with both men and women on that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:53 AM
5

They do it on 90 day fiancé pretty often
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:56 PM
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We aren’t taking about you OP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:10 AM
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I thought so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:59 AM
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You have no control over what people think about you. However it seems like you really value your friends and I’m sure they trust you as well. The thing is that sometimes trust can be broken - and that is a very painful experience that happens all the time in relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:23 AM
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That doesn’t mean you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:19 AM
6

No, just that it’s possible. There’s a reason most rape isn’t reported. It’s also much less common for their rapist to be a stranger - it’s usually someone close. They aren’t going around assuming it about you - but their confidence doesn’t blind them to the possibility that they don’t know for certain. Just like you don’t know for certain about any of your female friends, even if you’re confident - you don’t know for certain right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:17 AM
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I am sure they are if they are your friends. But again, women see this differently than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:02 AM
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They probably are. It’s very common for male friends to be shocked whenever they find out their other male friend was an abuser or anything of that nature. Men act different when no other men are around but a lot of men don’t listen to women when we tell you this. The most caring charismatic person in public can often be someone else when no one is looking - not exclusive to men, but men are particularly naive about this. I think it’s good to see your friends as good people and not assume the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:52 AM
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You have no way of knowing how people act behind closed doors when you aren’t present. - friends and family included.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:46 AM
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A lot of people lose themselves in relationships- especially their first one. Men can and do these things as well to break a woman down. I’ve been told the solution is for men you describe to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:09 AM
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No, he’s talking about giving men sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:50 AM
1

I appreciate the full display of your covert narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:25 AM
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You have zero concept of how women are raised - we are taught from a very young age to cater to men. You have no idea what you’re talking about and I will say it again, I pray you don’t have a daughter you will ruin her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:37 AM
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Abortion isn’t legal in all 50 states nor is it free nor is it without risk of infection or infertility. I know you think you’re fair, but your misogyny shows up really fast when you talked about women choosing better fathers above. How about be better men? It also shows up everytime you think you know how women are raised or what their experiences are. I pray you never have a daughter because you will do nothing but groom her for abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:22 AM
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No, that isn’t the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:15 AM
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Asking for it is victim blaming. In what world were men’s actions her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:15 AM
1

Women should also be able to financially abort then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:54 AM
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Totally. Because women being forced to have sex with men they aren’t attracted to is rape. Is that your complaint?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:30 PM
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If men can financially abort you do realize that means all men will be paying for children they did not help make? It would be unfair to all men to enforce this except to the one man who actually had a part in creating the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:25 PM
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Be tired then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:49 PM
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It’s not that all men do it. It’s that most women have encountered a man who has violated them in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:36 PM
1

Read this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:19 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:13 PM
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Because many of you complain that women don’t make it easy enough for you - you want low effort to go as far with women as it would go with you and when it doesn’t you complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:05 PM
2

Could you say being loose with your standards or having low standards is a form of laziness?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:51 PM
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I think she’s saying that you’ll have sex if it’s available even if you’re not really into the woman offering. She doesn’t have to “woo” you, she just has to be available.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:45 PM
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Yes and it’s understandable to be sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:42 PM
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Why are men surprised when women don’t believe most men like them for anything but sex? It goes both ways on this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:17 AM
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What if they are trying to choose better?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:22 AM
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You don’t have to be in a relationship with someone to love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:30 AM
2

Wow. Thank you so much for sharing. This is awesome. I hope you’re proud of yourself for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:14 AM
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I’d wonder if there was some trauma from his childhood that hasn’t been addressed. Some people are just slower to get the hang of things of course. But there could be something deeper he isn’t aware of affecting him and I’d encourage him to have compassion for himself before blaming and shaming himself. Perhaps talking to someone he trusts and can open up to. It’s ok to be different but not everyone will understand the nuance in these cases. Sometimes when you excel in one thing other things fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:16 AM
3

Can you elaborate more on the parts of red pill thst helped you the most? You have an interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:10 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:49 PM
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Do you still love her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:45 PM
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Pointing out your hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:12 AM
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Deflecting again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:11 AM
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You don’t think it’s the case because of your own biases which you are completely blind to which we all read everytime you try to talk about your big IQ or deflect and do exactly what you accuse someone else of doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:40 AM
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Men still commit the majority of all violent crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:26 AM
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Can’t help but notice crime rates are missing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:16 AM
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I think you may be the one ideologically poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:59 AM
1

Women have been the heads of the households, not men. You guys just give yourselves that title while women have been the ones making sure they run smoothly while men took all the credit for their wife’s unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:52 AM
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No I understand why he would be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:29 AM
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Something to consider is many women take hormonal birth control and that really affects sex drive and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:55 AM
2

Can you expand more about women not being attached to their identity to the same degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:40 AM
2

Did they expect you to solve those problems for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:11 PM
1

You can have any opinion you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:08 PM
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What do you mean by “safe guy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:06 PM
1

I thought you mean the next one sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:03 PM
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You probably grew up having to manage one or more of your parent’s emotions and it comes naturally to you. Your experience is pretty common for someone who grew up with an emotionally immature or neglectful parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:02 PM
1

Ok will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:00 PM
1

In my opinion it is not hard, no. Is it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:59 PM
1

Yes, I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:55 PM
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I can. Thanks for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:52 PM
2

I think you’re right I’m thinking about a brain with ptsd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:51 PM
3

No, it was about women’s and you want to make it about men’s taking precedence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:50 PM
3

On women’s lived experiences? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:44 PM
1

Women are socialized to manage men’s emotions nonstop from a very young age and we do it nonstop without you even realizing for our own safety. That is why men believe they are less emotional and more logical than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:13 PM
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Someone has to figure it out first right? Otherwise how do you know it’s a solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:10 PM
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Yes, but that takes government funding and requiring corporations to adhere to sustainability measures. They work together to put the responsibility on the consumer (like Pepsi/cola and recycling marketing campaign). The only way for change is if enough individual consumers band together to demand it from our government/corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:07 PM
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Genuinely, I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:56 PM
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The science to measure carbon offset doesn’t even exist. Start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:55 PM
1

I respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:52 PM
2

You made it pretty obvious 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:47 PM
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Individual solutions can lead to systematic solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:45 PM
6

This is an interesting and helpful perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:42 PM
2

I think that is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:39 PM
3

Fun fact - the brain cannot differentiate between a true threat and a perceived threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:37 PM
1

In other words could you say - it’s better to matter for something than it is to not matter at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:34 PM
1

Or experiencing cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:15 PM
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Or incapable of critical thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:07 PM
6

You’d be wrong twice then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:05 PM
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No, you think your opinion holds more weight than women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:00 PM
3

Yes. We know, that’s why ugly women wish men understood this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:56 PM
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I was raised and socialized the way you described as were many women I knew growing up. It doesn’t have the effect it used to before the internet and access to resources, information, and education. Girls in elementary school already have been taught to cater and consider men in some way shape or form. Women have to abide by dress codes so their first grade shoulder doesn’t become a distraction for boys. Men don’t seem to have the same experience - boys will be boys. You guys have main character…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:13 AM
1

Yes it is, there’s nuance to behavior. It’s not a black and white explanation there’s context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:19 AM
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I think some men who aren’t open to dating their own age can be post divorce and not willing to date someone around their ex wife’s age depending on how things ended and if they had kids or not. But I think a lot of these men are pretty open to both. I don’t think many men outside of Leo boycott age if a woman is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:15 AM
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I’ve dated older, some older men have a way of manipulating younger women to be and do what they want them to by convincing them their life experience makes them wiser and always know what’s best for her over herself. I’ve seen this a lot when it comes to pushing their boundaries. Some women can see what the older guy is overcompensating for by dating younger - what he might be hiding. Now fair to say often the older person does know better but it can become very controlling without the younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:36 AM
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Phrases or cadence when speaking or texting, micro expressions, temperament, signs of insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:26 AM
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Aren’t you the one who pretends he’s a womanizer? I don’t take what you say seriously no offense you’re full of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:23 AM
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Women aren’t perfect at it. But we do detect certain behaviors quickly. Better than some of you think (that’s why some of you struggle in dating). Why do you think so many women read and post here? More read than post i’d imagine. We recognize men irl who are similar and say similar things as the toxic men here. We use what we learn here when men speak anonymously and apply it irl. But of course people aren’t always right, women included. A lot of people will also ignore red flags if they are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:36 AM
1

You did it before that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:21 PM
1

Did you block and unblock me? Anyway - no it’s not it’s called being smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:10 PM
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It’s personal for me. I’ve never had sex outside of a relationship, I don’t really date casually, so it’s a vetting process. I see what men do rather than listen to what they say. There are men who will tell you what you want to hear to gain access to you. If you’re dating men with options it’s better to be cautious to understand their intentions. Men with options make it clear when they want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:24 PM
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Initiate commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:40 PM
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Yes, of course. But what reason would there be for me to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:39 PM
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The meaning is more if he doesn’t he isn’t THAT interested or sure about you or possibly just wants sex. But I don’t think you’re wrong about there being toxic implications in certain contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:33 PM
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I didn’t say it was fact or without nuance I said it’s my experience. Male relatives are the best people to get advice from for women about men. They tend to tell women the truth from a different space since that a lot of men unrelated won’t. I’d believe my dad or brothers over a random guy on the internet when it comes to advice on dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:22 PM
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Yeah, she was wrong for that. I think you made it pretty clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:00 PM
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I think it comes down to the whole “if he wanted to he would” thing. Speaking for myself, this is what male relatives also enforced in me when selecting a partner at a young age. Basically men will make their intentions clear when they want to be with you. You’ll be confused about their intentions if they don’t want to be with you. In my experience this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:58 PM
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How much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:23 AM
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Makes sense, thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:41 AM
1

Honestly, I don’t feel like I can share emotions either. Women’s emotions are written off often as well, but not in the same way men’s are, and probably not the same level severity either in a lot of instances, but I do think it’s something a lot of men are unaware of about women’s experiences and how our emotions are also weaponized against us, just in a different way. I don’t think women are any more valued for who they are than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:28 AM
0

Do you experience women who aren’t like what you’ve described?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:11 AM
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I don’t think men open up to other men but IME men are way more emotional and need way more emotional support in friendships than my friendships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:42 AM
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I don’t think I’ve seen it explained that way before. Thank you for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:27 AM
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How do men express their emotions differently than women in general? Can you expand more on this? I’m not talking about like a blow up - I’m more asking if men express themselves in some subtle ways that are ignored? Basically can you explain the differences from your pov?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:20 AM
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You think it’s most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:54 AM
0

What does “giving a shit about men” look like to you in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:31 AM
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What does TRP teach about communication relationships? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:19 AM
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This is also an emotional response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:11 AM
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That’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:05 AM
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This is an emotional response to an intellectual argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:33 AM
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It is proven science that you inherit your intelligence through your mother’s genes. Men are not more intellectual. If they were they wouldn’t have needed to write women out of history and take credit for their work to convince everyone they were superior. You just convince yourselves your emotions are logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:23 AM
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You inherit your intelligence from your mother. For as smart and capable every man thinks he is he has his mother to thank for that. What skill does it require for you to inherit the ability to develop skills? What skills did it require for your mother to be able to pass those same skills down to you that you boast about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:09 AM
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Why do you guys talk like you have money?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:02 AM
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The only reason you’re allowed to have your dumb opinions is because a woman grew your brain inside her body for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:00 AM
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Everyone wants to be heard but no one wants to listen. Creates a lot of the divide. It makes sense that men and women would have stronger feelings about what they experience first hand. It’s just that the longer someone is left unheard the louder they’ll scream if they don’t have the tools to self validate - which allows them to consider others the way they consider themselves more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:22 PM
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People sometimes chase love that seems harder to get because it can feel more valuable if you have issues with self worth. You want to be validated by the one who doesn’t offer it freely. Even if these women are well adjusted they can still have hang ups around what love should be like. Sometimes people base value on how hard things are to obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:19 PM
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Breaking down a definition doesn’t make it a valid argument against the term. What’s love to you may not be love to others it’s subjective to what you’ve experienced or haven’t experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:17 PM
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You’re probably not, it’s just hard to believe in the context of the sub I suppose. I understand why what you do works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:16 PM
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Life isn’t fair. Good things don’t happen to people for being good. Bad people usually get further ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:14 PM
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I never believe you guys when you talk like this about yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:13 PM
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Which isn’t the same as friendship alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:10 PM
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It’s still intense feel good chemicals firing in your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:08 PM
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It sounds like you’ve never been in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:02 PM
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I don’t have an answer for you there. But it does happen for some people. I’m not trying to suggest it’s easy to find for the men you describe because I do think dating is harder for men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:43 PM
6

These are good points. The reality is though there is nothing worse to men than being called a woman or compared to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:41 PM
3

Men also crave male validation more than women and more than they crave female validation. They use female validation to show off to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:38 PM
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It is so weird how relationships are talked about here. So depressingly transactional. When you love and care about someone you want to do things for them and vice versa. Plenty of men have a lot to offer women, plenty of couples do things for each other because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:35 PM
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Yeah, I understand what you’re saying. Fat ugly guy has to be rich or something, fat girl just has to be right time right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:33 PM
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It’s not complicated it’s just that there has to be some attraction to want to fuck the fat girl do I’m not sure she’s delusional as the fat guy who wants to date fit girls with no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:13 PM
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That’s why women shouldn’t have sex with guys they want relationships with too quickly. But some men will complain that it means the woman doesn’t truly desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:03 PM
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That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:01 PM
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I don’t think men are more particular than women about relationship material. They should be but I don’t see it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:59 PM
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Why do fit fit guys want to fuck fat girls instead of fit girls though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:55 PM
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I don’t see women doing this any more than men. Seems like men do it more to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:53 PM
9

You aren’t getting any women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:55 AM
3

Men don’t have the power to wear a condom or get a vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:22 PM
2

How do you prove it was? After she says she’s pregnant or before?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:19 PM
3

How do you prove a man consented to a child? When he gets her pregnant right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:17 PM
8

They shouldn’t have to force men to do their part in preventing pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:15 PM
1

Good job working out those big feelings. You’re going to be ok I promise, as you said that’s life right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:09 AM
0

I will thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:06 AM
-1

No, men have always hated women. That’s what you don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:19 AM
0

You do realize the manosphere which is rather popular is all about hating women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:00 AM
2

Yeah a book written by men would say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:36 AM
-1

Why do men think they aren’t emotional all the time? You guys think emotionally and rationalize your emotions as logic. Men are nagged like children when they act like children by weaponizing their incompetence. Most of you have zero clue to the amount of misogyny women face daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:29 AM
-2

Men in 2025 still seem incapable of understanding women have their own internal worlds just the same as what you described. Everything needs to be centered around men or you aren’t happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:02 AM
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It’s a lack of consideration or understanding more than it’s good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:57 AM
1

Can’t fix stupid I see
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:10 AM
5

Guess what the retraction was retracted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:07 AM
1

This was a recent study btw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:03 AM
4

I figured you’d post that. https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/living-single/202503/why-more-marriages-end-when-wives-become-ill-than-when-husbands-do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:54 AM
2

Can you share that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:33 AM
12

Then how come men are more likely to leave their sick wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:51 AM
1

24
/r/seduction19/11/25 02:14 AM
1

If a guy was holding out on his feelings for me like this instead of just owning them I’d be so turned off by him and see it as weak.
/r/seduction19/11/25 01:27 AM
0

Men are not more logical. You guys make emotional decisions and convince yourself it’s logic.
/r/seduction19/11/25 01:24 AM
2

I am sorry that you’ve gone through that. I understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:19 AM
0

I do have a mom like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:13 AM
3

This means you’re selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:03 AM
2

A lot of men are raised with main character syndrome. They believe if their needs are not centered it is a grave injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:30 AM
-2

Yes, this is true.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:58 PM
3

I think that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:53 PM
4

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:31 PM
2

Choose better is relevant but the delivery is often misguided. It’s often delivered as victim blaming. It oversimplifies the reasons people get into bad relationships and excuses the abusers behavior which contributes to the cycle of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:29 PM
6

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:11 PM
-1

Usually Chad isn’t the guy who is abusive, it’s the guy who feels inferior to Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:51 PM
6

I am a high earner and I don’t want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:02 PM
2

Guess what? That’s actually what you did :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:34 AM
7

I wonder who created those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:03 AM
3

Sounds like you just wanted to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:56 AM
1

Thank you for conceding by not backing up your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:54 AM
2

Why’d you send me a YouTube link if you want me to open a book? Use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:46 AM
2

Data that proves men are being denied modifications in mass if they lose their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:40 AM
1

I asked for data.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:33 AM
4

Women were legally considered property. Doesn’t sound like men considered they were people. Men don’t get a gold star for allowing women to be legally people just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:30 AM
3

You know who else has to pay child support when they make more than men and have split custody? Women. Show me proof of these modification denials when a man has lost his job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:27 AM
1

How do you think child support is calculated?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:20 AM
7

Rights were never men’s to give in the first place. You don’t get credit for something that should have never been taken from us in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:10 AM
3

By your own logic you are ok with forced labor of everyone - but when it comes to men paying for the kids they helped make - that’s when it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:58 AM
2

You should probably not compare men paying child support to slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:40 AM
7

What does any of this have to do with bodily autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:20 AM
16

Men only work if they have to pay child support? Men can’t get paternity tests? Why is taking care of your child violating your bodily autonomy but not women’s who also work to take care of their children? If you don’t pay child support guess who pays for those kids? Tax payers - and by your logic that is a violation of everyone else’s bodily autonomy except for the guy who is half responsible for the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:33 AM
15

Men do not get pregnant - that’s why you can’t get abortions. Abortion benefits men and women - and women are the ones who risk infertility and trauma for getting one. When men can get pregnant I fully support their right to abortion. Paying child support isn’t a medical procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:14 AM
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Do men fear men as well? I’ve seen a lot of posts on Reddit of men not helping a woman in public that is clearly being harassed or followed by a man - and I’m not shaming men for that because everyone reacts differently. But it seems silly for op to say only women only pretend to fear men, because women will look to women to help when they are in danger because they are more likely to step in. Men also seem to be blindsided quite often when they find out one of their friends isn’t such a “great …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:51 AM
2

I know a lot of men who are big shoppers - men just buy different things than women. Usually more hobby focused. A lot of men like nice things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:24 AM
2

Thank you. I was asking in good faith btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:50 AM
1

Manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:51 AM
2

You don’t seem like you’re a very nice guy. Other women must have picked up on that based off your responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:43 AM
1

I’m saying you should stop speaking for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:36 AM
1

We don’t need a reason other than we aren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:31 AM
1

Women are cautious whether you’re too nice or not. Women are cautious of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:02 AM
2

You don’t always know, that’s why women are cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:31 AM
3

Can you post the data you’re referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:18 AM
2

Is it just for themselves or for the family (kids)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:45 PM
2

What makes up the increase?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:38 PM
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Learn the difference between a statement and a threat. Don’t let those big emotions affect your logic buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:44 PM
8

When we talk about hygiene this is something we’d say makes you unhygienic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:41 PM
13

That’s because some men refuse to learn their way around a grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:35 PM
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You really told her bro, watch out this guy has a keyboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:33 PM
8

Grew up with a SAHD and this is exactly what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:15 PM
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I don’t understand, can you explain it another way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:35 AM
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You realize you’re suggesting men should be allowed to rape women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:09 AM
5

Birth control can have a similar effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:33 AM
2

She’s generalizing. Of course not all men are like this neither are all women. Sometimes people just haven’t found the right one yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:10 PM
4

Well, are those the women you’d want anyway? I would think it’s unattractive when women never want to improve or try to understand other perspectives - women who do that exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:29 PM
4

Everyone likes attention but it should be mutual. Love bombing is a red flag. Sometimes men will do and say things to get access to sex so smart women are careful. Dating in the beginning is harder for men, I do think some of men’s frustration is understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:28 PM
4

Your first statement about personalities is the problem - men say this so often and expect women not to react by not wanting to be used in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:19 PM
1

Even if men make more there is still a large amount of people who have debt from student loans etc that can be very financially crippling. It’s not easy out there right now a lot of people are struggling to survive - it’s not always their fault either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:16 PM
7

Being ok with being single is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:11 PM
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I have stopped giving men dating advice unless it’s a really specific question with context. It doesn’t seem to help which is fair since I don’t date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:31 AM
1

I think a lot of people go through this and it’s really hard to see while you’re in it. That’s one of the best things about knowing who you are, your boundaries, and your standards for a partner before getting into a relationship. And I hate to say it - but this is where “choose better” becomes relevant. I say that with compassion - I just emphasize the ability to self reflect on things you may have missed or tolerated in the past so you don’t get into a cycle of thinking you deserve to be treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:10 AM
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Men do not understand how women feel any better than women understand how men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:50 AM
1

What is the bare minimum?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:21 AM
2

I don’t think you will make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:05 PM
3

They can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:57 AM
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I stopped giving advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:49 AM
2

Men’s pain is recognized far above women’s pain. Men do not help women, men feel entitled to women’s emotional labor. Feminism is about equality and women still don’t have equal rights as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:20 PM
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Men do not care about women’s problems nor do they help. Men want women to center their needs and their problems and that is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:13 PM
4

Women don’t like that because it isn’t loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:17 AM
1

But those aren’t the kind of women you should want to be with anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:29 AM
15

I have noticed that a lot of men also don’t know how to spot a lot of the subtle red flags some women display early in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:25 AM
3

You don’t know what women go through, you’re not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:49 PM
1

I think it could be both depending on the relationship dynamics at play. Either way it’s not an easy thing to get over and I think a lot of people want to fix it but they don’t actually want to make the effort to see their role in the issue at hand and make changes. Change is really hard for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:25 PM
1

I wonder why people who dead bedroom don’t seek therapy or doctors or help more often to figure out why they don’t want to be intimate with their partner anymore. People really struggle to communicate and that’s a bulk of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:19 PM
2

Who said I complained?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:18 PM
13

More thorough education on absolutely everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:19 AM
3

So is it women have always known that men are capable of bad things but men are just finding out women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:56 PM
2

Why technology? Wouldn’t life experience show you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:15 PM
4

It’s something many men tell women about their male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:12 PM
15

Do you love unconditionally? Do you love the women who don’t love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:55 PM
3

It’s amazing to me that so many men still haven’t figured out women are people and with that are capable of doing bad things. You needed technology to tell you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:53 PM
3

Depends on how turned on I am, penetration feels good but it feels best when there’s clitoral stimulation at the same time. I prefer clitoral orgasms as do many women. Not every woman will orgasm from PIV only.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:39 AM
3

Do it and report back please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:15 PM
3

They are more likely to seek it from women and get upset when they don’t receive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:58 PM
6

If they don’t care then why is any of this a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:50 PM
4

So do the men, so what’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:41 PM
3

The manosphere is pretty popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:39 PM
6

Well if that’s the case those men are more likely to seek it from women so other men don’t see them as weak right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:38 PM
6

Men do not take it on the chin, they threaten violence and turn to the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:32 PM
14

I do see the desire for sexual validation, sure, but also men want women to empathize with their dating struggles or other struggles being men as well. Men want to be validated for many of their emotions, especially by women. Men don’t always have other support networks to validate each other as easily. I personally do empathize with dating being harder for men in a lot of cases, but I do not empathize with men who blame women for all their problems either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:30 PM
4

I do not but a lot of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:26 PM
31

It seems like men often have a bigger issue with women not validating men’s opinions the way they want them to. You don’t have to validate women if you don’t agree with them. Emotionally healthy people can self validate and not need to seek it from others about every little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:24 PM
1

I am proud of you for going to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:21 PM
2

Oh, that must have been a typo then, you meant men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:20 PM
6

Who said those were male spaces? Men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:18 PM
1

What male spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:17 PM
6

Women are told no all the time. Women are criticized more than men in general. Men who think like you have main character syndrome and think women’s lives need to revolve around men’s opinions. The problem is that we don’t care what you think otherwise you wouldn’t care about this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:15 PM
2

What planet do you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:11 PM
6

It means it is more evil to force women have sex with men they aren’t attracted to because not only does it violate their bodily autonomy but it also puts them at a much greater risk than it does men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:53 PM
11

Sex comes with much bigger risks for women than it does for men. Women have more access but carry more risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:47 PM
14

You don’t see why rape is evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:26 PM
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The fuck you choice is the dumb choice and fueled by emotions rather than logic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:32 PM
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No, they are the undeducted choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:22 PM
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It doesn’t matter, democrats are in on it anyway. It’s become clear that they aren’t the good guys they pretend to be. The only thing I’ll give republicans is at least they aren’t afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:15 PM
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The democrats lost because those who think Trump was the better choice are too dumb to know how dumb they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:12 PM
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That’s ok, boobs have distracted me before too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:55 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:40 PM
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It is, but I figured you were half joking anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:38 PM
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Nothing yet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:28 PM
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Those are pretty big
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:25 PM
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Crying is actually very good for you. It releases feel good hormones. You’re confusing empathy with sympathy I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:00 PM
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Understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:58 PM
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Do what you did to give yourself one while having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:57 PM
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Yeah, this is true for a lot of people I think. Choose better is relevant but usually poorly delivered. Learning from mistakes and self awareness of how you contribute to these things is imperative in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:50 PM
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How big?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:43 PM
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Have you ever had an orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:42 PM
1

No, I am attracted to men. I can find women beautiful but I’d rather see a man naked than a woman. Women don’t turn me on, men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:38 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:20 PM
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How did you learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:19 PM
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Democrats made a huge mistake with their campaigning to draw in men so I understand your POV there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:30 PM
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Republicans are dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:24 PM
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Can you describe how that helped you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:19 PM
1

Same damn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:37 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:14 AM
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Ovulation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:53 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:51 AM
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Is that you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:48 PM
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That choker is cute on her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:09 PM
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Wooooooooow. What did she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:48 PM
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👀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:38 PM
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This reads like a male wrote it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:35 PM
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Tru
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:24 PM
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😼
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:19 PM
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