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| 1 | Is the "beta bucks" ALPHA in disguise?There is nothing unattractive about these characteristics. As a woman who leans RP, I also want this man to have a backbone. To have high standards as to how he's treated and what type of treatment he accepts. None of these are inherently alpha. They're just well-adjusted and self-confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Any man with an ounce of self respect should say NO to marriage, in any kind of LTR (even if he wants kids). A woman who really loves and respects her man, shouldn't even care about marriage.But the contract also binds her to you, regardless of your behavior or contributions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 10:13 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Any man with an ounce of self respect should say NO to marriage, in any kind of LTR (even if he wants kids). A woman who really loves and respects her man, shouldn't even care about marriage.The piece of paper protects the family unit. It creates sanctity and stability where otherwise there is only ritual. Someone recently told me there are also, like, over a thousand federal rights and responsibilities tied into marriage, so like, that can't be ignored, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 10:12 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Any man with an ounce of self respect should say NO to marriage, in any kind of LTR (even if he wants kids). A woman who really loves and respects her man, shouldn't even care about marriage.This is what I wonder. Marriage is better for children. The thought that a father would be so selfish is heartbreaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | What do we do with this knowledge?Everyone - and in this case, all women - should filter extremely hard for a man with very strong values, who values family and marriage above himself. Women should find men whose parents are still married or who had other positive marriage models in his life, who have giving spirits, who believe in the importance of doing good. And if after all of that, I end up a starter wife, well. That's fine. Nothing in life is guaranteed, and at least I know I did well for myself and my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation?Ahh, I see. My stance is that you two are a team and should act as a team. Put all your concerns on the table, listen to his, and come to an agreement that suits you both. Both of you need to trust the other that there will not be any resentment - him for you relying on him, you for pausing your career for him. Also, fwiw, 5-8 months isn't a terribly long amount of time - for long distance or for not pursuing work right away. After all, depending on your field, the hiring process could take 6 mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Do most women marry men that they are not physically attracted to?Really? I didn't know that! I admit, I'm not the most scientifically-literate, so that's really cool to know. How weird that it seems like such a common idea, then, in pop culture? Anyway, maybe it's not pheromones, but the smell of my husband's skin, especially after the gym, makes my mouth wet and my ladyparts ache. I've not been with many men, but I had never before felt so intensely horny from just pressing my nose into a man's neck. That feels significant to me? But maybe there are other th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 3 | If future biotech were able to perfectly replicate a male or female body for people who want to transition, would you be willing to 1) have sex get and 2) get in LTR's with them?Wait. If you'd prefer a woman with a man's brain, why'd you say in another post that you specifically sought a very traditional woman? Would you want your man-brained woman to also serve traditionally feminine roles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation?How does he feel about being long distance for 5-8 months? How serious is he about moving to English-speaking city? Like, "I'd like to move back eventually" serious, or "it is my priority to move back after this project finishes" serious? Is it possible for you to find remote work in your field? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this dichotomy to me?You're a fascinating man! I feel like it's rare that men admit to being hypogamus and even rarer for men in your position to care about being good, ethical human beings. Thank you for this exchange. I've learned a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this dichotomy to me?Interesting! So it's less that you looked for a traditional woman and more that you looked for a woman with no better options. I'm a fairly traditional woman (submissive to my husband, feminine, pregnant with our first and about to transition to being a SAHM, happy to be a homemaker), but this sounds like a recipe for financial abuse. I hope you treat miss moral well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Do most women marry men that they are not physically attracted to?I don't know what instinctual programming you're talking about. Pheromonal attraction is extremely instinctual. I very much believe in nature's imperative, and I am following it by how I define and understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this dichotomy to me?All of this makes total sense to me. I expect you understand even a traditional woman would be doing the same with you, w.r.t. vetting. Do you have any sense of how common your perspective is in this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Do most women marry men that they are not physically attracted to?I answered both questions, but I could simplify it for you if you'd like. Yes, in the type of physical attraction that matters in online dating. See: my whole second paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this dichotomy to me?Do you make enough to support a family on a single income? Edit: Thank you for answering my questions! I'm new to red pill stuff, so this is interesting. Different follow up question: since the original thing I was responding to was men wanting women to pay, how would you, like, control for that? Like, if I'm a traditional woman, and I go on a first date with you, what could I do to make you not bitter about me wanting you to pay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Can someone explain this dichotomy to me?Oh, okay. So if a woman was playing her roles, men in this sub would gladly step up to fulfill theirs? But because women don't want to, men are retaliating? What roles specifically are you thinking of for women, by the way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 10:24 AM |
| 7 | Do most women marry men that they are not physically attracted to?My husband is technically unattractive by conventional Western beauty standards, and he's technically not someone I used to think was "my type," but I'm attracted to him on a chemical/pheromonal level. Does that count for your first question? He's also caring, thoughtful, funny, a good communicator, faithful, and has a growth mindset. We share the same values. I believe he will make a great father. We are sexually compatible. I like watching him interact with his friends and coworkers. His laugh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Can someone explain this dichotomy to me?Hmmm. Are you saying, then, that these men are specifically bitter about their evolutionary role as resource providers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 09:42 AM |
| 2 | What do we do with this knowledge?while she was young, and didn't realize her worth yet. This is also my recommendation to women. The trick is finding a man who is young and relatively inexperienced but shows signs of being high value while also invested in his growth. And then you both grow together. It's not a forever guarantee, but there are no guarantees in this world, so this is enough for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 08:44 AM |
| 1 | What are mothers supposed to teach their sons about acquiring women?Okay, so, I'm new to this side of Reddit (a friend recommended I check this sub out), and this is not at all what I was expecting to find. I'm really interested in reading what folks say, because the linked comments are pretty damn ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (01 December 2019)Lol at my very poor middle and high schools, we had a game called 7 Seconds, which was basically the harm reduction approach to serious fights. If you had a problem with someone, you challenged them to 7 Seconds. Then y'all fought for 7 seconds while your friends timed. At the end of the time, you stopped. If someone didn't, friends intervened to split you up. I sincerely feel like this saved a lot of folks from serious damage and escalation. It was good to get it all out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (01 December 2019)I got all mine out at once with only local anesthetic. It wasn't awful, just uncomfortable. I did feel some alarm when my dentist said, "uh oh!" though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 05:23 AM |
| 5 | With designer babies on the horizon, will parental sex selection shift heavily to pro-female?This will depend heavily on the country. Female infanticide is still prevalent in certain countries outside the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 04:07 AM |
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