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My parents are divorced now but I have memories from childhood of my mom not being receptive to my dad's gifts. For example, we brought her back a blanket from a vacation and I remember her saying she knew that we bought it at a gas station (which was true) and her feelings were hurt that we didn't give it more forethought. She would often finding fault with the gifts my dad bought her. She felt like what he bought was more his moms taste, she would laugh about being gifted something like a vacu…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 06:31 PM
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So Laura Doyle talks about surrendering control. It's not about being subservient or giving your man the "final say." So, for example, if you are trying to choose where to go to dinner, the Laura Doyle way is to purely state your desires- "I would love Thai food for dinner!" The wrong approach would be to say "Whatever you think" when he asks what you want for dinner then say "Ehh I don't know..." when he suggests Chinese food. Men hate that. They don't want to make every decision, they just wan…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/20 03:47 AM
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I think of it as being kind of girlish, smiling, laughing, being easily impressed, acting captivated with anything he talks about.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 01:18 AM
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I used to do the dramatic exit thing, too. My husband actually addressed it with me while we were still dating and made me feel very ashamed. It feels good in the moment- like you're really sending a message- but it doesn't translate to the way men think. They just think of it as "playing games." I have found Laura's suggestion of creating a culture of gratitude really worked. You preparing that dinner was to show him how much you love him, right? It was an act of love. Think about the ways in w…
/r/RedPillWives24/11/20 03:40 PM
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The "ouch" thing Laura recommends has worked well for me. The point is to show your vulnerability in that moment in a way that can't evoke defensiveness from your partner. "Ouch" or "that hurts" are good. My husband and I don't really argue. Arguments used to be more about me wanting to control something he was/was not doing. Us not having enough sex, him not remembering to take the trash out, him never wanting to spend time together, him watching too much YouTube, etc. Since the skills have tau…
/r/RedPillWives24/11/20 01:47 PM
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I love Laura Doyle! I first read one of her books 3 or 4 years ago and over time, I have adopted all of her skills and it's seriously been life changing. That may sound dramatic but there's no better way to describe the shift that's happened in my perspective and in my relationship. Since starting the Laura Doyle journey, my now-husband bought us a house, surprised me with a proposal, we got married, he started a business that's been very successful, and I quit my job with his encouragement. Bey…
/r/RedPillWives24/11/20 03:20 AM
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Dave Ramsey can help to give you a good framework for your finances and listening to his show can get you really pumped up to pay off debt. My husband and I followed Dave Ramsey and we are debt free besides our house. We didn't take everything he said literally- we still ate out and took vacations and we have a credit card- but it helped us to plan for our financial future. I would start with the free resources available like his YouTube channel and Facebook group.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/20 05:53 PM
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That sounds great. Her advice has been life changing for sure. I like to reread her books every now and then to get new perspective but I find that I'm always wanting more so I might look into the program. I wish there was more talk of Laura's work on this sub or somewhere on Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/20 04:22 AM
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What do you get out of the program for $300 a month? I love Laura Doyle's work but I've just stuck to her books for the past few years and now her podcast. I've been interested in joining one of her programs but I'm not in a crisis so I wonder how much I'd get out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/20 03:37 AM
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I'm so proud of the happy dynamic I've worked to cultivate in my marriage. My husband is happy to come home after work, he seeks out my company in the evenings, and he loves spoiling me with gifts and favors. He's a wonderful man but I've also worked to make myself a soft place to land and I'm proud of how far I've come.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 03:42 PM
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Well here's my RP truth: people are complex and everyone has toxic traits. There is a mentality here on Reddit and in general- one which I used to prescribe to- that calls people "toxic," deems one person a victim and one a villain, and applauds people for cutting out the "bad energy" in their life. But the uncomfortable truth is that people are more complex than that. I have toxic traits. You have toxic traits. It's too easy to call people toxic and dismiss the nuances of a person or situation.…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 03:32 PM
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Like I said, of course men don't find all women attractive, but from what I've heard and read, most women are at least moderately attractive to most men. Dr. Laura Schlessinger talked about it in her book.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/20 03:40 AM
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See I think you're making your appearance your core issue. But the reality is that men are attracted to all women. They think we are all sexy. Seriously. (And I'm not saying that every man is attracted to every woman, but overall, our standards for ourselves are so much higher than men's standards for us.) So back to receptivity- you're feeling so unattractive and unworthy that you can't be receptive to a man's positive attention. You don't feel like you're worth it. And men pick up on that mess…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 11:15 PM
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I think this has less to do with looks or interests than it does with who women seek out as friends does not always translate to who men are interested in as partners. Are you a helpful person? Like, quick to come up with solutions, jump up and start cleaning up after a party, give advice when a friend has a problem, tell someone when they have something stuck in their teeth, etc. Those are all good traits, and they translate really positively in the working world and in friendships. But I have …
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 06:42 PM
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Try to let go of your expectations and timelines and expect the best from your boyfriend. Even meditate on it. Spend time thinking about how much he loves you, all the things he does for you, what a wonderful husband he will be. He will feel that energy, and it will create a space for him to live up to the man you know he can be. Even if it's been unintentional, it sounds like you've been putting him on the defense and he needs to know that he's in control of his own destiny. You can say things …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 03:51 PM
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You made great points! Thank you. I definitely am guilty of getting caught up in doing things "homemade" but no one has ever mentioned a difference when I've made my pastry from scratch versus from a box. And in the same vein- if you were to ask your husband to choose between a beautifully decorated house with a homemade meal and takeout Chinese food, he would choose the Chinese food if the difference meant that his wife was happy. Don't let yourself get spread thin.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 03:31 PM
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That's really touching. It reaffirms what I've come to learn about men and marriage- more than anything else, men just want us to be happy. If she hadn't let her husband take on the role of cooking because she felt like it was something she should be doing as a mother and wife, she would have been depriving him of the fulfillment that making his wife's life easier gave him. It reminds me of what Laura Doyle says- receptivity is femininity. I think you can have the career you dream of and still h…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 07:44 PM
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A woman who makes comments like "I could never put that much time into my makeup" is feeling competitive and wants to bring you down in an effort to make herself feel better. Respond with a warm "Thank you!" or a pitying "Aw that's alright" rather than shame or embarrassment. Don't give her the satisfaction.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 04:38 AM
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If you "ruin" sensitivity, can it come back?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 04:22 AM
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I like Kate Middleton. She's classy and has a feminine style.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:42 PM
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Thank you! He deserves it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 03:16 AM
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We are celebrating on Friday due to a hectic work week and not currently living together. I'm giving him a lunch box filled with goodies. We've both gotten into saving money, so this will encourage bringing lunch instead of buying. Also, we're moving in together soon, and I'll be able to start packing his lunch, so it's in celebration of that, too. We had been casually shopping for a lunch box but we hadn't found one large enough for his preference. I found a large Igloo brand lunch box with a d…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 02:06 AM
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