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| 4 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.I get that but I still don’t understand what the difference would be from you just remaining in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:07 PM |
| 13 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.Omg.... fifth.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:44 PM |
| 14 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.So once again what’s the point of y’all getting engaged if y’all don’t want to get married? A ring? Like if you don’t want to get married just don’t get engaged..... what’s really the point of your engagement then? I understand that the ring may mean something important but if it was meant to be passed down through the family from marriage, it’s not really yours. But whatever if you’re happy that’s on you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:32 PM |
| 30 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.Lowkey I thought it was just me and the fact that he looks like a sleazy dude I dated when I was 18 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:12 AM |
| 56 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:48 AM |
| 11 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.Ahh ok! I’m 20 so none of my friends or immediate family are married yet and tv just makes wedding planning seem like it takes forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:48 AM |
| 10 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.I haven’t really been alive to see any weddings in my youth so I just assumed it takes like a year and a half to plan? But yeah that does seem like a long time to just be wasting especially if you want to be together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Don't worry about the background image but I live by this motto!Lol I’m finding Dangan fans everywhere lately! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:21 AM |
| 6 | Yea...I got your joke Ijust didn't like itGross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Why do women tolerate this? They know but they stay...A big reason why I’m taking a while to think about if I EVER wanna be in a relationship again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 8 | Faking pleasure- pick me behavior?It’s a habit I definitely need to learn to get rid of the next time I decide to get into a relationship. There is this like backtone about sex in my head that’s always been “maybe I’m the one being weird, maybe it’s me” that has been brought on by my sexual traumas. No more tho! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Interesting spot from the local bookstore, her face says it all 😂This looks like open book | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Best be ready to step it up!Ugh I had a friend who would constantly talk about how women didn’t want to date him even though he had “has a job and a car”. Like.....are those your only qualifications? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I love how she remains unbotheredI honestly really hope she’s ok. She seems like she’s going through something’s again (not to “diagnose” her with anything”) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:01 AM |
| 26 | And that's that!Did you make them?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 21 | LVM be like🤡🤣🤣I love Amber! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:27 AM |
| 3 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisRosemarie vlogs! She has a super cute chubby bunny challenge with her son 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 18 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisShe got outed as Bi in a conservative country, had to deal with all of Ed’s bull, SLEPT WITH HIM, and didn’t even get paid 😔... support her YouTube channel y’all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:56 AM |
| 16 | It's thursday, which means it's date night queens!!Looks yummy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 23 | Just... WHY IS THIS PIC ON YOUR TINDER PROFILE?!?!They really just don’t care 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 9 | Is having a Snapchat a red flag?🚩That feature isn’t turned on by default on my phone. I only turn it on and send my locations to friends when I think it could be dangerous. But yeah it’s optional...... idk if you’re calling me a clown, but that seems hateful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:15 AM |
| 7 | I saw this today and wanted to share. It’s NEVER too late to level up ❤️These kind of stories are definitely the things I need to hear right now. I want to go to medical school but I feel so far behind and like I’ll never get there. Some of my friends are graduating and starting big jobs and I have to start over. Thanks all the ladies here for always motivating me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:44 AM |
| 12 | Is having a Snapchat a red flag?🚩I use it mostly the same way I’d use any other social media except it’s a lot more private. I had problems with a stalker a few years ago so public socials are out of the picture but everyone I know has a snap and it can be fun to see your friends post random pictures of their day/ pets. I use it in a way that most people use Instagram 🤷🏽♀️ But also, it’s helpful on dating people to. I don’t feel comfortable giving out my actual phone number but a Snapchat feels like a nice middle ground. I don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:37 AM |
| 10 | I hate these types of questionWas just thinking this. All too often you’ll have guys with like openers “do you like handsome men with big d**ks” and they’re not really asking you a question, they’re fishing for compliments and to see how desperate you are for a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Joining in on the level up/vision board. Haven’t done this in way too long.Here’s to bringing our goals into fruition! 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 11 | Is the myth that “men who are attractive will women badly”,spread by unattractive men who are just trying to manipulate attractive women into giving them a shot?Honestly, I’ve notice a lot of not traditionally attractive men take a lot of satisfaction in NOT being a bad person. Like a disturbing amount. It gets to a point where you have to see for yourself if that’s all they offer, and most of the time even when they are “nice” it’s almost always in small quantities until they get what they want. But it’s like I also have more attractive male associates who’re also the same level of friendly, but have more “promiscuous” relationships. All in all most me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 9 | 30-year-old man child wakes up at 4 pm. Blocked 🤷🏻♀️Yes! Real queen shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 120 | A literal nightmare.Ugh the normalization is terrifying 😲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:10 AM |
| 6 | Joining in on the level up/vision board. Haven’t done this in way too long.I am loving all these vision boards! I’m working on making a vision wall in my apartment alongside my whiteboard and they’re giving me a lot of ideas! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | It’s the audacity for me 🙄Did he actually say this or just repost it. I saw it as a meme FOREVER ago and i didn’t know where it came from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of a former pick meMines was men who didn’t put in a single drop of effort toward the relationship. Or anything ever really. Who cried and told me I was making him feel like he wanted to get himself committed because I asked him to ACTUALLY do something. Like meet my family or friends or hang out atleast once a week. But of course I had to always hang out with his family and friends. Whose own mother congratulated me when we first got together because I made him clean his room (with help). Who stopped paying for s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 36 | UGH!Omg.. it’s definitely a thing I didn’t know existed until I went to a nice Italian restaurant with a prospect and he legit ordered off the kids meal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 25 | "nice guy" that's "not good with money"... i wish to god I'd read this 20 years ago! she NAILS it! i married a man-child exactly like this and it took me back over a decade. but i am a queen (and raising another one) and my life is back on track now!I love how she clear as day says no. So many advice columnist would kind of work around saying no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 19 | LVM needs a “walk date” because an actual real date makes him feel trapped. Boofinghoo grow up!Yes! It seems like I’m seeing more and more of this excuse used for why first dates should be “coffee shops or park walks” but it’s like, for what? Most dates now a days spark from OLD, and if you’re doing it right you can atleast get to know what type of food the person likes/the basics of if you find that person interesting. Your lack of wanting to put in effort because “my personality will woo” sets the tone for the ENTIRE relationship. That you’re lazy and won’t put effort/ time/ money into … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 12 | Of course the pick me gets upvotes while the WOMAN gets downvoted for acknowledging her worth and stating facts.The whole thing doesn’t even add up tbh. So he was already going to be on the road trip by the time your birthday came, which you knew about? And if he knew before hand that they wanted to go to a strip club, why didn’t he just plan to do something else if he “didn’t want to”. The things women put up with..... Edit: lol just saw someone said the same thing as I did a lil further down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Most of these are exceptions but why would you date someone for 10 years with no ring 🤡🤡Tbh while there is a lot in the formula, there are some situations where it is definitely clear what happened. Sometimes people only continue to date because they’re afraid to breakup and figure, “hey might as well get married” and then later find out that getting married isn’t going to suddenly make them happier as a couple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...Ugh I have a love hate relationship with southern men. I’ve found a lot of southern men tend to be the “my woman doesn’t even have to look at the bills” type that are respectful and smell good and have good relationships. But they’re often sooo possessive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 25 | Broke PickMe proves to her multi-millionaire boyfriend that "she's not like other girls" by spoiling him with gifts and not asking him for anything. Then when she ask for help with her $1000 rent he says NO.That’s so gross of him..... he watched them say that corny line and “You” and really decided to make a go of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 7 | We need to be attached to a man to be worth an ounce of respectAnd even that doesn’t work anymore...... men routinely pull out that “oh so you can’t have friends?”thing. Last time someone pulled that on me and I said no he like went off about how I must be in an abusive relationship and that I should let him save me.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 102 | If a guy ever posted about me like this I would divorce himAnd she’s freaking drop dead gorgeous?? Wtf is wrong with him to make him think it’s ok to post this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | 😂 they're watching us 👀Tbh if you can’t afford a bed frame you shouldn’t be dating. I bought my first one for $79 at IKEA...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Ex and I broke up today. Any one I could just talk to today?Thanks ❤️🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Ex and I broke up today. Any one I could just talk to today?It isn’t really an interesting one lol so I thought to add. Just a normal relationship. Broke up because of differences in choices. He wanted to settle down and get married and have kids within the next 2 years. I didn’t mind the marriage part but I really wanted to travel the world while he didn’t. I’m probably going to delete this post because tbh I don’t even feel sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 74 | This is by far the most repulsive LV behavior a man can have.. wanting a woman to woo him. 🤮 That’s so effeminate. Hobbies include video games and makes 50k a year. Any takers? Nah passGross. What do you even learn about someone on a 15 minute coffee date? Their favorite drink? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:53 AM |
| 7 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMThat’s super valid. I was the core demo when it came out (9 year old black girl who lived in the south) and I don’t think I’ll ever be able to see her that way. Even today I still relate to Tiana more than I probably should | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 16 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMThe problem isn’t Tiana herself, it’s the lack of black stories being told period. The fact that she’s the ONLY black princess is a problem. Tiana herself is an independent hard worker who works towards her dreams despite struggles with no handouts. She’s something that should be looked up to. I don’t see her as a struggle story but a success story 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:06 PM |
| 60 | Men: I wanna hook up with women who ONLY want a relationship so I can emotionally abuse them and inflate my egoLol don’t forgot how the trust issues are with someone from the distance past. Had a Lvm back in the day tell me he had trust issues and “trouble feeling anything” because his middle school girlfriend cheated on him. Like I get it y’all dates for 2 years but that was from the time you were 12-14. You’re a 27 year old man why does that matter? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:56 AM |
| 6 | Imagine coaching your young, impressionable daughter for a skit about how little you trust your man. The full video is even worseAnd if they was real it’d actually be an extremely sad situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:17 PM |
| 6 | Imagine coaching your young, impressionable daughter for a skit about how little you trust your man. The full video is even worseFurther into the video she asks him for his laptop and watch. He says he’s “just going text mommy” but the way it’s framed seems like he’s definitely been texting other girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 15 | “She takes care of me and the kids and provides financially...but I like sleeping with you.” Can we take art supplies away from men?Lol so pretty much he doesn’t love or respect either of them, just wants to use them both | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Recommended K-drama(s)?An oldie but good is Kim Sam Soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 7 | Age, job, education, mattress statusLiterally IKEA has $29 bed frames now a days 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 25 | Husband makes birthday gifts for his wifeI love Rachel and Jun! Jun seems super sweet and like he loves and respects Rachel to the fullest extent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 104 | Woman marries the father of her child after he promises to stop paying for Onlyfans, but guess how that goes!Yep! Hope she does that annulment and leaves his ass. She has to “fight” for the family when all he has to do is stop buying nudes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Canadian mom has enough of her stepson freeloading since lockdown is over and he can go get a job. Husband bodyshames her. Reddit calls her a Karen.Ah ok I’ll delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:04 PM |
| 155 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡This would definitely be a dealbreaker for me. I think I talked about it here before, but I had an ex get me a child sized necklace and be mad at me because I wouldn’t wear it. Bro, it couldn’t fit around my neck. While my current bf for Valentine’s Day drove an hour and a half to this vegan bakery I raved about wanting to try and got me one of everything they carried, flowers, and a really nice dinner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | He almost broke up with me after 1 month, now we’re taking a break.It says “seeking advice” and yes I have. I’m just going delete my comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:17 AM |
| 18 | It's almost like... we're right😳?? Count the 🚩Oh geez. I wish there was a FDS outreach program. A year and no real dates? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 64 | Thoughts...It’s two very very different stages of life and that’s why I and others find it predatory. A 22 year old is just finishing their bachelors, internships, careers. They’re truly fresh adults. At 30 you’re old enough to have been in your “adult” life for 8 years. You’re almost a decade older than your partner and in a whole different generation. My views on age gap dating has changed ALOT in the past few months as I’ve come to see how a lot of the time the older person in the age gap is using the i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:56 PM |
| 209 | Wow, they are truly disgusting. We haven’t spoke in 3 years. Old me would’ve thought “Aw I was on his mind”. Nope, she’s dead now.What really happened is he thought that you’d be waiting on him to text you after all these years and the come flocking to him all “please sex me sir”. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Someone clearly hurt this man...Don’t take this the wrong way but as someone who has worked a lot in the food industry, I’d never date a chef. Some of the pure misogynist tendencies I’ve seen displayed has turned me ALL the way off from that. As well as the rampant drug abuse, yelling and abusive language of staff, and anti vax shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:18 AM |
| 11 | What's your best HVM story?So this is just a recent example but my anxiety with everything going on has been off the roof lately. Like, there are legit days I won’t move. I have somethings that help me a lot that I tend to count on, but he’s always there when I call him no matter how late or what he’s doing. A recent example was this past week I called him at 11pm (he works 1am-10am so he’s usually asleep by then) because my anxiety was becoming too much. I really just wanted to talk about it but instead he came over, bru… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | This “meme” is posted waaaayy too often and whenever it’s posted anywhere it is full of pickmeshas saying how they’d be just fine with a date that is just sex behind a dumpster and men using the “women are gold diggers” excuse for why they can’t find a partner.“It’s my kink too :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:29 PM |
| 19 | Always remember to love yourself 💕Ya girl recently got into more “natural” type makeup, and my bank account is so mad at glossier 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:51 AM |
| 3 | *update* I’m tired and going go to sleep but it’s funny how I’ve been called a gold digger for saying that the woman should get a soda on a date if she wants one.I’ve been in a really sassy mood lately otherwise I’d just ignore them lol. Can you guess what subs he frequents tho? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:22 AM |
| 7 | *update* I’m tired and going go to sleep but it’s funny how I’ve been called a gold digger for saying that the woman should get a soda on a date if she wants one.I’m like... actually frustrated? Like I might have to stop going on the front page just because it’s always some stuff bashing women for wanting to be treated well. And when you’re like “Maybe she wants a soda” I’m a gold digger and then the male circle jerk about how much they hate fds starts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:17 AM |
| 58 | Always remember to love yourself 💕❤️ me spending $300 dollars on makeup at 5am ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:12 AM |
| 35 | This “meme” is posted waaaayy too often and whenever it’s posted anywhere it is full of pickmeshas saying how they’d be just fine with a date that is just sex behind a dumpster and men using the “women are gold diggers” excuse for why they can’t find a partner.“Gold diggers, wanting a $2 fountain drinking, my mommy would never” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 20 | This “meme” is posted waaaayy too often and whenever it’s posted anywhere it is full of pickmeshas saying how they’d be just fine with a date that is just sex behind a dumpster and men using the “women are gold diggers” excuse for why they can’t find a partner.Say it again please! You’re not oppressed because people don’t wanna go to your piss bottle cave. You’re not going die because no one wants to date you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:43 PM |
| 51 | This “meme” is posted waaaayy too often and whenever it’s posted anywhere it is full of pickmeshas saying how they’d be just fine with a date that is just sex behind a dumpster and men using the “women are gold diggers” excuse for why they can’t find a partner.Yes! One dude calling people gold diggers because they didn’t wanna date him because he’s 30, living at home, doesn’t work, and won’t take them out on dates because “I don’t want to waste my money on someone else” Like I get that you’re going to school to better yourself but like, nothing about you sounds appealing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:42 PM |
| 25 | Ugh. At least she’s trying to change 🤡Same! I’ve dropped some friends because of their toxic behavior (one threw my keys in a river because I didn’t want to go to a party, some of their whole personalities are based around either their boyfriends, getting a man, or about their exes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 07:59 PM |
| 42 | This man is very obviously not under 25 and is bragging about a car, home, and career while being 5’9. Dude there’s like a million taller guys in your same positionImagine thinking that having the minimum is enough to make women automatically drop panties for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 07:57 PM |
| 118 | Peak LVM behavior? Making fun of your pregnant wife’s LAUGH on a podcast that millions of people can listen to.When he first heard her laughter, he was confident that he was “wooing” her, but then makes fun of her saying “I wondered if she was like the joker and that’s why she’s single”. Trash I personally think making fun of anyone’s laughter is a shit thing to do and is just weird. Imagine taking a moment of pure joy from somebody and being like “I don’t like that sound” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 01:21 AM |
| 17 | More pickmes posting this thinking they're "real women" for doing 50/50. You already are a queen dont demote yourself to bangmaid. Throwaway this "wifey" aka being an unmarried bangmaid nonsense.Sounds like an ex of mines who got me a cheap CHILDRENS necklace and was mad asf that it wouldn’t fit on my neck. Like he wanted me because I was thicc but not the consequences of thickness. But eww he gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 20 | I hope she gets picked. Also, getting in a car with a stranger on the first date... Couldn't be me 🤡🤡🤡That ain’t a date, just chilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:28 PM |
| 138 | I'm ROFLing rnLol “been together 15 years, and he finally proposed!! Can’t wait to start my life of servitude and begging for a crumb of attention” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:06 AM |
| 35 | NO NO NO NO 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Yucky. Let’s not feel ashamed for standing in our stuff and being our naturally strong selfs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:04 AM |
| 12 | Found some FDS hate in the wild... love this cult lolUgly r/ActualPublicFreakour is a messssssssss. The racism is in stock there. I need to find more positive subs but they are few and far between | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:33 PM |
| 13 | Found some FDS hate in the wild... love this cult lolThats because they see their toxic behavior being called out as “violence” due to their personal lives having very small amounts of them taking responsibility for anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:24 PM |
| 50 | Found some FDS hate in the wild... love this cult lolMy favorite is the thought that we MUST be incels because there is no reason anyone would call them out on their shit or want someone who isn’t a slob | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:38 PM |
| 18 | Best thing I never hadYep. He broke up with me because “He fell out of love with me” but is consistently commenting on all my socials and asked to get back together 3 times lol... auto blocked after last time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:15 PM |
| 65 | Best thing I never hadLol mines dm’ed me a dissertation coming at me for my involvement in blm protests and volunteering.m, and tried to explain to me A BLACK WOMAN about how I was hurting his feelings and invalidating our love because he’s white | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:20 AM |
| 63 | Giga Pickme gets fatass husband to lose weight by rewarding him with anal and blowjobs. Can’t make this shit up.Tbh that’s what I was thinking. Atleast when it’s two men doing it, it’s possible for them to orgasm. But it just, sucks and is uncomfy and painful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:17 AM |
| 38 | These NVM keep getting scarier!I just want to add on this post to please please vet the people you date. If you ask their last name and they act all weird about it, block them. If they give you a last name and 0 hits come up, block them. Protect yourself at all costs even if it seems irrational. When I was 18 I got manipulated into “dating” this guy I had met in a depression super. we were both very depressed and lonely at the time, I took him to the hospital after he told me he wanted to kill himself and I guess he thought t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:14 AM |
| 9 | My friend sent this to me. She told me in under a minute, 6 other girls retweeted this. I hate how universal this is!Couldn’t be me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:10 PM |
| 26 | Who Pays On A Date? What Women MUST Do!Yep! You’ll deal with so much bullshit if you feel trapped in the situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:10 PM |
| 35 | Who Pays On A Date? What Women MUST Do!Tbh I feel like a HVM wouldn’t feel comfortable with you paying on the first date anyways. Even after almost a year of being together my boyfriend gets so uncomfortable if I pay for ANYTHING while we are together (IE before all this happened insisting on buying my stuff and bbw, at clothing stores, anywhere). Edit: I don’t really let him pay for everything, it’s just how my personality is and men switch up HARD after breakups and are all “I want that one really specific thing that I’ll probably … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 69 | 🙄Har har har men can’t do basic cleaning tasks without being reminded a million times and even then just don’t har har | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 10:01 AM |
| 7 | Going out places aloneTbh I feel like right now is a really odd time to start getting back into the dating scene because while things are opening, I’ve found that a lot of people worth much aren’t the ones going out to restaurants and bars but have the extent of their social life to things that are done outdoors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:26 PM |
| 16 | What are fictional characters that you consider HVM ?There are very very few hvm in media at all and when they are included in media they are portrayed as either the bad guy, the guy the girl doesn’t chose in the end, or the guy who stole the girl from the “quirky yet lovable” good for nothing protagonist The husband from Ghost Whisperer? Accepted her even with all the supernatural stuff, always protected her, literally came back from the dead to make sure she and their child was ok and cared for. Fit, attractive, had a good job as a firefighter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:45 PM |
| 20 | What are fictional characters that you consider HVM ?I wouldn’t say Marshall is HV. He is very “women choosing who to have sex with” shamey , misogynistic, and is ok with his friend taking advantage of drunk vulnerable women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.Idk how I really feel about this comment. Like I in general really need there to be more black princess. More black princess who are born into royalty, soft, and who don’t HAVE to be strong. But also Tiana was a really big inspiration for me growing up in the south as a little black girl. She was just like me in the fact that she didn’t have a dad, and she had dreams that seemed so far away. I have a lot of problems with the movie itself but she is also a much needed hero for young girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:44 AM |
| 26 | The straights are definitely not okCouldn’t be me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Don't use OLD, definitely if you're lonely or anxiousCan I ask y’all what OLD means? I’ve been here for a bit and gather that it’s a dating site? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 05:29 PM |
| 19 | Was cleaning up my old texts and found this old gem I forgot about. Nothing sexier than a man who wants you to fix his plumbing for him.Lol yeah! Imagine thinking that having someone come over to fix something for you is 😂😂. And unpaid labor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:49 PM |
| 67 | Was cleaning up my old texts and found this old gem I forgot about. Nothing sexier than a man who wants you to fix his plumbing for him.The “something for us to do this weekend” is throwing me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:48 PM |
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