JunkDrawerExistence Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	finding a counsellor		JunkDrawerExistence	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/22 02:38 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Was I wrong? Husband had 1 hour sports massage (I bought him for Father’s Day); I got nails done. Both had 1 hour free time, rest spent with our child together. He wanted an extra hour for playing a game on his phone and said the massage didn’t count as free time because it was a gift. Commenting so this gets more notice. Brilliant advice said in an understanding way.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/24 05:10 AM
8	How to handle/communicate small issues that upset you to your partner in a feminine way? It sounds like you felt hurt, and sad that he didnt seem to care about your well being. You say it was a phone conversation - in that moment the only way he could have showed he cared was verbally, which he did not do. Ask yourself - is he usually one that shows love verbally? Some people show love and care in different ways - maybe if he were over he would have cleaned the house while you relaxed on the couch, or given you a massage. If he usually shows care in other ways - then when those feel…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/23 06:30 AM
-10	Should I quit or find someone who accepts me for me? It would be more likely ypu could find a man who has religious/Christian values and already smokes and then introduce him to religion. There are many men who hold traditional values that just haven't been introduced to God, perhaps you could be a portal of sorts and then I imagine your smoking would be more tolerable to him.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/02/23 05:54 AM
21	If Women are the prize, then what do I get? I'm going to get philosophical and rambly. Women are the prize, and we get polished and spoiled and taken care of. We have to be a worthy prize. However, men are the ones that earn the prize and are the true champions. Think of it...a trophy is actually worth nothing. (Not saying women are worth nothing). But it's value is earned by the person who accomplished the thing. Men have the true value, in a sense, and a woman gets to be the physical reminder, the trophy, of all the things he earns and …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 06:37 AM
3	My partner has “Peter Pan Syndrome” and I feel guilty for wanting to leave because of that. Oh I felt this post. So much. And I'm appreciating the advice too!	/r/RedPillWomen	06/12/22 06:07 AM
3	Help! My husband and I are at a complete gridlock as it relates to personal belonging boundaries. Because this is just a snapshot of her relationship - we can't really know. Based on the snapshot, I agree, it doesn't sound healthy, and he sounds very controlling. However, only the OP knows the truth of their relationship , and so I wanted to offer an alternative more hopeful view of the situation	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/22 02:27 PM
2	Help! My husband and I are at a complete gridlock as it relates to personal belonging boundaries. I've read a few of the comments. I'm going to offer a slightly different viewpoint. If everything else in your marriage is going well; this can work. Aspects of it are things that I, in fact, would enjoy and bring me security. If your husband is holding your heart sacred, then those tools you use in your daily life will still be at your disposal. They are just at your disposal because of his will - so it allows you opportunity to be grateful for him in those moments. If he truly wants to lead yo…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/22 06:16 AM
3	I drew my line in the sand about my fertility with my husband. I'd love to hear more about how your feelings in regards to sex changed. I am having this issue myself. Having a child not be as much a priority for my man, and I have found it has impacted my perception and enjoyment of sex immensely. I am unsure how to overcome this..	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/22 06:07 AM
7	domestic discipline and submission I couldn't disagree more - however, I respect your opinion. Something like this isn't universal, and I dont claim this is how every woman experiences it. I just know how I experience it - and I wouldn't consent to this sort of thing unless I was with a man who made me feel safe enough to do so.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/22 12:45 AM
8	domestic discipline and submission It started with showing him an article that said things in a way I never could. spankingyourwife He thought of physical things in the context of a scene or sexual expression - and hadn't considered the more practical side of it, how it goes deeper than that for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/22 10:55 PM
7	domestic discipline and submission I partake as well. My husband is/was more timid about the idea than I was.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/22 09:58 PM
8	Crotch Goblin ~ Fur Babies I am also one of these people. Mom of 5: ages 8-15. I consider myself lucky as many I know suffer through it, but I found/find raising children almost easy. Carrying my puppy down the stairs, and outside in the snow every 3 hours so he could pee sucked though haha.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/22 03:58 AM
8	Why are men attracted to innocence? Yes. All of this. Thank you for expressing it so well.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/21 04:08 AM
2	Writing about femininity Oh..the "wanna" at the end made me cringe. I appreciate seeing this perspective without a religious component	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/21 07:45 AM
2	Is anyone here able to take care of a child, cook and keep the house clean? I'm not sure if it did - as we had no real comparison. My girls potty trained by 2. My boys were day time potty trained by 4. I've actually never spanked my kids- but thays because I don't feel I have the proper relationship dynamic with them for it to be effective. I believe that kind of discipline most effective when coming from an authority figure that there is an appropriate and respectful level of admiration. My kids don't have that person. There are 4 co parents, 2 are male, neither are me…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/21 03:53 PM
2	Is anyone here able to take care of a child, cook and keep the house clean? We cloth diapers for cost purposes- it really was much cheaper when we had 3 in diapers. But yes, soon much laundry. I will offer a differing and controversial view point. please read my whole post before jumping down my throat anyone I believe in the right circumstances, with the right child, and child/adult relationship style that physical "discipline" can be a useful tool. I also believe this is true for adults- the physical "altercations" can be a perfectly fine way to settle a dispute, or d…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/21 06:19 AM
3	Is anyone here able to take care of a child, cook and keep the house clean? I have a complicated family lol. But the kids have been raised by myself and 3 coparents, 2 of which live with us, one which lives about 5 minutes away. When they were little, yes, they were all on the same page. We did a lot of the attachment patenting things- which I didn't know thebword for at first and called it lazy parenting. Lol. My kids coslept and nursed so I didn't ever have to get out of bed or prepare/was bottles. Baby wearing saved our asses, as there was no way to fenangle a stroll…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 08:48 PM
2	Is anyone here able to take care of a child, cook and keep the house clean? Please - ask away - this is my passion so I love talking about it. I think my oldest would. Of the 8 people in my house- only 3 are extroverts, and he is one. He really thrives when he can be around people and it is better for his mental health. The other extrovert is very active online and fills her cup that way. Inbthe 3rd extrovert and I work to fill that need. Walforf kindergarten is so unlike public school or any other kindergarten that I don't think it had an effect on that desire. It was …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 08:35 PM
4	Is anyone here able to take care of a child, cook and keep the house clean? I love it! Unschooling totally works for my family. They went to Waldorf kindergarten, which was honestly an amazing experience and I'm so grateful we were given scholarships so they could attend- it was magical. Then they stayed home from grade 1 on. When the oldest was in grade 5, they expressed a desire to school- and so we sent them. I also had to work 2 jobs. When covid hit, we kept them home, I lost my job, and we began unschooling again. My oldest decided to return to public school, and w…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 08:20 PM
7	How do you deal with your SO’s annoying habits? Is it the habit, or are you feeling disrespected because you have expressed an irritation and he hasn't complied? If it is solely the habit that is bothering you - ie leaving socks- change your mindset. The socks bother you, but they don't bother him. Why is he responsible for your feelings? If most things are balanced in the relationship, then realize that you being irritated at it is your perspective. So - pick up the socks. Then they are gone and so is your irritation. You can get rid of this…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 07:54 PM
3	Is anyone here able to take care of a child, cook and keep the house clean? Definitely possible. I manage a house of 8, 5 kids (14, 13, 12, 11 and 7). Unschool 4 of them, and I work 30 hours a week as well. There are two other adults in the house - there other parents- who take care of the kids while I work. But I would wager about 80% of the cooking, cleaning, finances, logistics, kid schedules all falls under my domain. It's definitely possible. Is it hard? Absolutely. And at times things slip - I haven't been doing as much reading with my 7yr old and I feel much guil…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 07:49 PM