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| 1 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?Yep, this is it | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 03:56 PM |
| 24 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?Respectfully, almost none of this matters. These are all things you'd see in a "Get Laid" book that just fill pages. I can't even count how many times I got laid violating a multitude of these rules at the same time. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?i'm somewhere in the vicinity of the hundred mark, and what I've found is that it was best(at least for me) to maximize the situations I was in where women were disarmed. Obviously I don't mean that in some creep way, I mean I didn't do particularly well in nightclubs or bars(as a patron), as I tried to avoid repeated rejections.. and hot girls just seem to have their guard up from constantly being approached in these situations. I worked my way thru my "extended" college years in various restau… | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 03:41 PM |
| 3 | The worst advice dating advice I've ever received.It's not the person's fault that you misunderstood the advice. "Just be yourself" does not imply "absolutely no effort", nor is it mutually exclusive with being the best version of yourself. It is sound advice to avoid pretending to be something you are not. People can easily see through this and it is off-putting. It also prevents you from ending up in a situation where you're with someone based on lies that you cannot nor want to uphold in perpetuity. The "right person" is possibly referring t… | /r/seduction | 01/05/23 03:13 PM |
| 3 | I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to beEver notice how you can accurately feel when someone is looking at you? Yeah man, the brain is a beast of a machine. Imagine how easily it can pick up someone being disingenuous. Pay closer attention to how you act when you try to be "on". Chances are, you are putting on some kind of mask in some way, and others are picking up on it. And they likely don't even know that they're picking up on it, they just get a negative vibe. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Why “nice guys finish last”Nah, I know guys that are just beta as hell. They're super nice, good personalities, fun, etc. but they have a terrible time with women. There are endless reasons why someone might be "finishing last", and it can even come down to something as simple as always going out with single friends that are similar but much more attractive than you. | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do I get a lot of number but only few dates ?Sounds like a soft follow up. Walk us through after getting the number | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.This is the best advice I've seen on this sub. Becoming the best version of you is better than practicing any PUA shit | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How to approach sex/dating (controlling escalation)If you want to be the one to escalate, you're gonna have to be the one to initiate. The ones that are all over you are always gonna be there if you are attractive. The chicks that are gonna follow your lead are doing exactly that: Waiting for you to lead by approaching them. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 08:26 PM |
| 8 | How to approach sex/dating (controlling escalation)Its pretty common at that age, honestly. People are trying to figure themselves out/experiment and the majority of them are in the most promiscuous phase of their lives. This is also the phase where people mess around with substances, which tend to promote sexual behavior. There are a LOT of chicks out there looking for a dude like you though; spend less time at the bars and dorms and try looking for a relationship online, mutual friends, etc. Meeting someone outside of an alcohol-fueled event m… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | 6 Signs Someone is Attracted To YouThis is more like "6 signs that mean she will have sex with you, right now, in the bathroom" I've gotten with many girls that exhibited little to none of these behaviors. If this stuff is happening to you, I don't feel like you'd need this guide to know. This is as natural and obvious as signs get. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met?I actually just commented about this below. Rushing through the encounter is one of the biggest noob mistakes | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 6 | How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met?You come across desperate if you are acting desperate. If you can read the room properly, you absolutely continue the conversation. One of the biggest rookie mistakes is rushing through the encounter to get it over with. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met?This is bad advice. Not raggin on ya, but shy, nervous, or timid women will jam the radars. Once you recognize that they fit in this category, you have to measure by a different metric | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met?There aren't a specific set of rules to adhere by. Learning to read the room is one of the many skills you need to be successful in dating. If things are going well, I wouldn't end it short. Gather info by weaving inquiries into the conversation: Finding out what her responsibilities are for that day, if she has something to prepare for tomorrow, etc. There's no sense in cutting it early if things are going your way. Keep making a good impression until the conversation starts to fizzle or you ge… | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | How to get any girl you want, period.Without him realizing it, he was “alpha”. I once hooked up with this lawyer chick who told me the next morning, "You know what the best thing about you is? You're huge, but you don't have "big dick mentality". One of the nicer compliments I've gotten HA | /r/seduction | 11/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | First Approach TodayWhen I met my wife, I had JUST gotten into online dating. I met her online a couple months after starting. I was soooo excited about it, as I was cleaning up without having to scour the city. I barely got a chance to dabble in it when I met her. She ruined it! :D I'm quite happy and settled with a family now. No regrets. I have a high enough body count for three lifetimes anyway | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | First Approach TodayOne of the last pickups I had before I met my wife was in a grocery store too. I was on the phone with my earbuds in, and this girl locked eyes with me for a moment. I literally just said to my friend, "yeah this girl here is beautiful, I'm gonna let you go, I want to say hi to her" and she immediately laughed and conversation started right away. Dumb, strategy-less shit like that works just as well as anything else | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | First Approach TodayPro-tip: The intro line means absolutely nothing. The conversation and body language absolutely matters, but you can break the ice with virtually anything and have the same chances for success. Sharing in case this helps others with anxiety to make the open | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone.Friday happy hour is the time to go. Bars will eventually switch over to weekend mode, but there is a period where its a combination of both after work and night out folks. Great time to meet people. | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouHa. Whatever you say man. I'm not even sure what PUA means. It's a shame that you'll likely go through life so sure that you have it figured out, when in reality that attitude just prevents you from seeing the right perspective. I'm not on this sub to shitpost... was offering sound advice based on my wild success and coming from a place of pure social awkwardness. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouWomen are more emotional creatures than visual. Again, you're wrong. I tended bar for over a decade and I've observed thousands upon thousands of interactions with opposite sexes. I've also been objectively hot and disgusting at different points in my life, yet my close rate did not fluctuate. I've personally been friends with short/ugly/poor men that always had women out of their league. I see that you want to simplify something you don't understand, but it won't change reality. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouNah. That's inaccurate. Even myself personally, have been in situations where I met girls I was not physically attracted to. After getting to know them, their amazing personality and the sexy way they carried themselves made them exponentially more sexually attractive. Lots of women have no problem going after men they find attractive. It's more determined by personality type than gender. | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouAssuming the rating system is based on looks, it's ridiculous to think that any women only chase after good looking men. It simply is not true | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouSorry was kinda going on your sentiments and unpacking it more, should've mentioned that | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 03:32 PM |
| 5 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouWorking on your ability to identify insects may be improvement but isn't gonna do shit for mr. pee pee. It's knowing what aspects of you specifically that need to improve, and where they need to be. It's usually in a number of areas in your life, and almost always in specific skillsets for attraction. I was a nerd in high school and socially awkward. Couldn't get any girls. After graduating, I improved my situation substantially; to the point of being objectively hot. I got laid like crazy. By m… | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouYou're wrong and I hope no one actually listens to this garbage. | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 08:55 PM |
| 0 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouIt actually is pretty easy for anyone that isn't disfigured or something similar. I can definitely get you laid. It takes work and drive but I guarantee I could get you there. I'll help you, msg me. btw OP is definitely right, but didn't mention that there are specific areas any given person should be working on depending on their shortcomings | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | lifestyle, the key to game.Right. So the most genuinely interesting and decent human being on the planet doesn't stand a chance with you, because they fell in love with Lamborghinis as a child and now has the means to drive one. | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 9 | lifestyle, the key to game.He's simultaneously correct and too vague to be helpful at the same time. Depending on how badly you are looking, there are endless things you can do to up your chances. Few that come to mind: How you peacock will determine the types of girls you will attract. Knowing which strategy to use is paramount to success, and involves the skill of identifying personality types. Getting a job in the front of house at a restaurant will yield many opportunities, both with staff and with patrons. Do shit th… | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 05:26 PM |
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