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I wouldn't. I don't care. I'm a sexual liberal. But if he straight up tells me - if I find out from his own facehole - I will use it as a proxy for his low IQ, which I do care about. He needs to be able to pass for normal so I can show him to friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:34 AM
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Every McDonalds is hiring. Prostitution is a choice - a reflection of her laziness and inability to give anything besides her own body to the world, if we are talking about the kind of prostitutes that you'd actually put your dick in. There is some girls who were trafficked, some underage girls around the block, but the elite ones are there willingly - you can offer them a middle class job they'll laugh you out of the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:28 AM
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If anyone consents to anything it's technically - drums - consensual. Your argument is that a man should consent to sex acts he does not find appealing. You would not agree that a kinky man gets to fuck you in the ass just cuz, would you? Dumb take. It's the stupidest thing I read today, and I consume a lot of content.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:10 AM
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The dynamic is true. What is not true is that it's entirely self-inflicted, but fuck it, let's say it is. What is even more untrue is this assumption that if individual women went for guys in their league they would obtain relationships that are better than casual sex - nope. An average Joe, once given a girl, will get used to having her very quickly the same way your paycheck is always barely enough no matter the number of promotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:36 PM
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You are assuming only above-average men are toying with women. Boy let me tell you - everybody has the capacity to be a pig once they think the deal is closed, this is when you see their true face and it ain't pretty. Every woman has a tale of how she gave a shot to a normal guy who "worshipped the ground she walks on". Ask the women around you. This is how it went: guys are very good at relaxing and treating girls like pieces of furniture once they think she is not going anywhere. This is not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:26 PM
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I think most people who badmouth high n women are not insecure - they are jealous. Somebody parties somewhere without them. If these men got to party with everyone else we would not hear one negative word from them. The girls who badmouth high n women are the insecure ones. That's why they choose to align themselves with men to score social brownie points.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:44 PM
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Women can't control how men select women, but women can control what women do it. If whatever selection criteria + rate of discrimination women are applying were working against them women would not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:35 PM
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Average Joe will have a limited choice, which is not synonymous to "will not go anywhere".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:25 PM
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Older women are not expelled from the harem. If the game was rigged against women women would change it. You are not going to seat your ass in an uncomfortable chair. Just a side note. Everything in excess leads to devastating effect, but just the right amount of hypergamy - women applying standards, but standards are adequate compare to what women provide - is what makes the humanity evolve. Not only does it benefit women, it benefits people in the long run. If it did not work we would not be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:24 PM
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It's tiring to see wannabe social scientists claiming that Tinder is the problem. Women are not attracted to them and are not incentivized to mate with them since women have financial independence - everything else is just means to exercise the standard that they already have, and always had. Now that that the restrictions are lifted the invisible hand of market does its arrangements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:30 PM
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There is no left. The left is about individualism and freedom. In this country, the right represents the left, lol. What you call "the left" is a bunch of careerist bureaucrats and imposters who hijacked the 60s agenda and pretend to like freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:16 PM
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I don't care, and it has nothing to do with our conversation. No, you don't meet the demands. You are hooking up with girls on Tinder and make no attempt to find the woman who you say is worthy of your commitment. Because you don't want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:39 PM
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Sounds like you are trying to continue fucking girls, and for you to feel good about yourself you have to think that "good ol' days" type of relationship deal would be impossible to obtain because some women lie about being virgins since the social norms now have been lifted. I'm claiming this is empty theorizing from somebody who never attempted to meet a traditional woman. We are going in circles. I'll tell you what, if you were sent back to the good ol' days, I have a sneaky suspicion you'd c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:46 PM
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How does it matter if they're out there if there would be no way to identify them? But how in the world do you know? Have you been around virgins? Have you talked to them? Do you know how they think? No, no, and no. You've never studied this group of people, so of course when I say "virgin" in your mind it could be anybody and couldn't be anybody simultaneously. If you spent some time with like minded people - and from what I'm reading you are spending time trying to market yourself to people li…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:43 PM
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Here is one way to know that: import a girl from a traditional society. In all seriousness, you are not listening. This is not even your problem yet, and you are already listing all the potential ways how your plan can (apparently) go wrong once you get your shit together. I'll tell you even more: if you get rich and hot there will be hundreds of people pretending to be who they are not for personal benefit, so the higher you elevate the more you have to read people because they will absolutely …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:15 PM
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Fine. Let's say they lie, let's say they lie even in anonymous surveys. This is not even your problem now, we are putting the cart before the horse again even by focusing too much on all the ways people will try to cheat their way around your expectations - and you probably have a point because people do and will cut corners all the time. The current roadblock is that you are not at the level where an actual virgin, if one is hanging around in your social circle, would potentially be interested,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:30 PM
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I'm not demanding it. it's not available. Sure, that's why it's not available. Ok. I said it's becoming scarce, but just like good food it's available to those who qualify for it. How would you know it's not available? Did you do anything to find her and be attractive to her? No you are too busy enjoying the decline! ​ There's no way to know if she's a virgin anymore. Don't you fucking get it? They didn't know 100% back then either, but these norms and rules made it so you could at least be like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:54 PM
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They had help. Women couldn't even work or own a bank account lol and now you demand the same masculinity as men who were shepherded to their seat at the head of the table. Exactly! You know what else is dumb? To demand from women who were born into this world just like you were to be feminine virgins when there is not masculine men to protect them and provide for them. You are just killin' it today, the little engine that could! It's almost like first you become the masculine man/the feminine w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:48 PM
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You don't owe anybody a jack shit, yet here we are arguing about what is objectively rational. If that's not what we are doing - there is no point in this, you can just say "sure I'm hypocritical" to end any conversation you dislike. What do you mean by "without personal benefit"? You say you want good ol' days. I say I don't. The solution is obvious: you create your own life with a virgin, and I will create my own, and we will not impose it on one another. Your product is the personal benefit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:03 PM
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Okay but hear me out: it's the same as socialists crying that capitalists suck, but when confronted with "hey, you can donate to the cause you say you believe in" they make a 180 "I'm going to be as greedy as possible because my actions will not shake the structures around me and will not change everybody". It's exactly the sort of virtue signaling leftists are criticized for: they are all pro-something, but when they are offered specific ways how they can lift their asses from the couches and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:41 PM
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Whatever. Broadly speaking, this is true about the society. All I can control is what genes I do and don't pass down tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:47 PM
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Sorry. I guess not...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:45 PM
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All you need to worry about is your own situation in the world that goes to hell, not changing other people who explicitly tell you they don't want the change. How do you know you can't find this woman - have you ever tried? No, you've sat on your ass or fucked around on tinder, and now are irritated that nobody bends over backwards to be pure for you. If you claim casual sex to be the reward you don't exactly want the "good days", you just want casual sex. Cut down on the hysterical smiley face…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:45 PM
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I said it multiple times and I'll say it again: nobody chained you to the Western society if it sucks so much, you are more than welcome to immigrate anywhere where women don't have freedoms, in Mali your survival does in fact depend on ammo and food - what the fuck are you still doing here, if your dream life is a plane ticket away? But so far you are just an NPC who takes whatever dick is extended to him up his ass. Excuse me my blunt language
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:35 PM
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if you think everybody is a hoe by default you will find approximately 10.5 behaviors which confirm your suspicions including the fact that she does not shy away from your penis and bought condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:41 AM
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If you are the sort of men women want you will have countless options. so the only person you are making sacrifices for is yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:37 AM
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Because it is not the actual reality that we are confronting - it's a bunch of stigmas in people's minds. From what I've gathered, social implications are a big part of it, having a girlfriend nobody else can have and stuff. Men translate too much open skin and too much flirting into "she is definitely interested", and if she does it with everybody, then "she is definitely interested in everybody". Also, rumors play a big part. She might give somebody a kiss on a cheek and before she knows it th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:10 AM
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If a girl appears available for most guys it's enough. Whether she is somehow misunderstood is irrelevant from this point on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:59 PM
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No, I actually told the truth to my boyfriend, but with other people I just pull a number outta my ass and roll with it - they don't need to know. Did you do it/was it done to you? How did it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:57 PM
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English is in fact my second language, but this has nothing to do with me not understanding your point Could you restate it in a sentence or two? I'm not following
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:51 PM
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"Don't party unless I'm invited" attitude It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:28 PM
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I'm irritated when they say they hate basketball while throwing the ball because "there is no logic in not playing basketball". How would they know what will happen if they put the ball down - have they ever tried to quit playing the game, go to church and create a traditional family unit? Again, if they just play and want to be happy in the current environment - that's one thing. I just don't like whining along with that and putting the burden of responsibility for setting up the game on others…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:13 PM
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I am a woman. It's a bunch of horoscope science coupled with common sense. If you are obviously acting available then yes, they can tell, the same way you can tell a girl is promiscuous. Some girls just give out the aura and brag about their adventures, date everybody in their social circle, attention whore. If you don't dress for male gaze, don't go around in a bra and shorts at a party, are not known to service men and don't attempt to attract men - they can't tell. If you want to, you can gas…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:57 PM
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So is it about taking what defense gives you or is it about getting what you want? What if whatever defense gives you is not what you want? Do TRP men want to live in a conservative society or do they want to live in the society where they can easily fuck hoes? If a.) they are clearly not getting what they want, because the western society is "circling the drain", therefore they are a bunch of NPCs If b.) they are pretending to be who they are not. They are not conservative men and do not have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:50 PM
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Sounds like somebody had to find whatever options they can. It's not rare nor unheard of: he lost his high paying job and suddenly decides to marry the girl he was forever girlfriending, etc etc. I don't have enough energy to get mad at people having to downgrade their appetite. If it's something the other person can swallow and work around - who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:33 PM
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​ Men don't have to sacrifice a jack shit Misogyny? Look dude I break it down one more time: if you are actively engaged in XYZ you have no moral leg to complain about XYZ. If you don't donate money to a social cause you say you believe in, quit complaining about greedy capitalists. If you don't wipe your ass with a palm leaf quit bitching about climate change. Extrapolate to sex. Done
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:24 PM
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Your point is women like themselves rolling around in layers of interpersonal drama more than their partners, correct? It says a lot about you and your experiences, but trying to generalize it to the entire dating scene is pretentious. Do you have abs? Do you look like you could be on a cover of a magazine? If not, you have no idea how attracted women are to handsome man and are not in the place to make some generalized statements, to be blunt Why are you even reading women's magazines? I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:15 PM
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Oh, yesterday, I guess yes, I was very irritated just not at the things you said I was. What do you mean by numbers? Like, body count? I can't care less but for some people they do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:38 PM
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Okay, then my point does not apply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:09 PM
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I fail to see your exact point. I think you are upset because there are a bunch of men who figured out they would get more sex by being in a relationship. What? No. I'm irritated at people who simultaneously benefit from X and complain about X. My screws are okay I think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:08 PM
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OP, no. All people are horrible at sex. They can only figure out what you like and be reciprocal - and most men don't have a problem with it because they will absolutely play by your rule book. But otherwise, how is anybody supposed to know your body unless they already had sex with you many times?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:42 PM
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I'm wrong then, and you are like the third person who pointed that. I got it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:37 PM
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What? It's stupid to criticize the women who do X because most women do X? Most women are also fat, can I criticize them for being fat, or it's stupid too? If most people do something, I suddenly can't criticize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:36 PM
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I did not know. Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:34 PM
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There is not a "we". There is an "I". You don't get to lump yourself with some men in the past who did some good things, just like I don't get to hold you responsible for bad things they've done. I'll tell you more, if you wake up a Bezos tomorrow you will not feed the hungry and cure the ill. If you wake up a tinder Chad you will never work against yourself to equalize the system. You are not heroic unless you prove otherwise in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:33 PM
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Bro, the culture could be on the rise and I'd still do what I'm doing. In fact, I think the culture is on the rise - but that's not the point. I'm a degenerate, this we figured out in the first paragraph. Guess what? I am not the one complaining about about men not delivering me X, Y and Z and making excuses for why it's okay for me to be a degenerate, nor am I trying to pretend to be somebody I am not. My post is not about sex, my post is about endless whining about X combined with participatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:18 PM
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Men do whatever they have to do to get laid: Do they think whining is a part of it, or... ? Everything you said about privilege: sure. You can't suddenly hate the game just because you are loosing though is my point. If they woke up with 100 tinder matches tomorrow they'd start liking it. Indecisive hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:01 PM
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well, I guess I learned something new :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:55 PM
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You always, always have to swim against the current because the current will make you stupid, broke, fat, in a committed relationship with somebody you despise, then will put you through a miserable divorce. This is what your community says it's all about: turning people into actors, so switching to reactive position whenever it suits one is quite a change of rhetorics. You guys are trying to ride too many dicks simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:54 PM
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No one cares do whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:49 PM
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I do in fact have a problem with socialists being employed by capitalists and criticizing the very system that put food on their plates. I consider them a problem too. They can stop bitching or not - I wrote this post as self-therapy, and I realize that nobody gives a fuck. And, that's the shift my target audience says it wants. If it's not, then I don't know how the world can possibly accommodate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:47 PM
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I'll tell you more: people who hook up are still the minority even if so. I still fail to see how the current situation is a novelty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:38 PM
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Yeah abortions lead to complications. I think the first abortion is the riskiest - you might never ever be able to get pregnant. Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:35 PM
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Then 70% of women ride short bus I guess, what do you want me to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:33 PM
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If so my response is no they shouldn’t just accept it, they can change it by raising their own sexual market value. yeah, this. ​ Everything else you’ve said just sounds like incoherent word salad. No comment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:31 PM
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My argument is in the title. I'm happy you have this arrangement. I don't see what your points have to do with my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:28 PM
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Thank you for your detailed response. As you said, everybody is born into a shitshow of some type. You can either play the game - which makes sense, you get out and not ruin everybody's time - which also makes sense. To me the sort of person who wants the world accommodate itself for them is the most frustrating person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:26 PM
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I never had to deal with this. If somebody does not want to use a condom their low IQ genes are not to be passed down to the next generation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:38 AM
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Slut shaming makes me feel good. I am worried about the practicalities tho. How does anyone ever find out who is a hoe and who isn't? It's a bunch of horoscope level speculations. Unless you know that a girl is promiscuous you would not know. That is, unless she, or somebody in her circle, tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:35 AM
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I empathize with these men. Occasionally I see a good-looking twink who I'd gladly exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:22 AM
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They are also the ones most likely to die from AIDS have an abortion and fertility issues Not like they will line up to pump the baby out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:17 AM
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Actually, this shit is textbook, you punk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:12 AM
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We are not very visual. Objective beauty is just one dimension. Intelligence, personality, talents, social status - are all rubrics that count for attraction. For example, a guy can be very good-looking, but if he sounds dumb when he opens his mouth I immediately dry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:05 AM
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Why would we buy men's clothing if men already bought men's clothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:39 AM
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OP, your mom is low quality too ;O *disney channel laughter* sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:35 AM
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Again, I don't know if you are looking for consolation or an advice, or even if you are looking for anything. I don't want to be presumptive. Consolation: as I said, wherever she goes, her crap is hers permanently and she brings it to every relationship and interaction she has, while whatever she did to you is temporary Advice: unplug ASAP, this is a psychologically abusive dynamics. This is reddit advice ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:32 AM
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I'm sorry you are going through that. Is there any reason why you are still in contact with this individual / hearing from her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:14 AM
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Your mother cooked for me after I cooked your mother ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:10 AM
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Actually you are not making sense to me either and I don't have a learning disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:08 AM
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I think the argument is that the average woman is not exactly someone who deserves more than an average man, whatever "deserves" means
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:06 AM
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How is the online business going? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:04 AM
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He refused to do knife play and then he got pissed off that I fucked someone else ;\/ The someone else refused to do knife play too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:01 AM
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Oh :D alright you can ride a normal bus then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:43 AM
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Who is "yourselves"? Am I personally responsible for what women do? What is this collectivism - do I blame you for the fact that Afghani men beat the crap out of women? Do we also need to blame white people for slavery? This shit belongs to the shortbus I seriously don't want to hear it unless you have a spare chromosome or two
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:37 AM
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This is natural selection. Like some social darwinism level shit. Do you guys ride a shortbus together, or like, what's up? Where do you find these women? What do they look like? No, I always make dudes wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:30 AM
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I think you are mad because somebody's daughter took your hoodie ;O Call the cops on Stephanie. Do it. Bring some justice into the world where there is none PS It's like a trophy thing tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:22 AM
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In all seriousness, she is someone else's headache. You did not allow her to trap you, but some other dude allowed her to trap him. You can think about it this way, or you can live till 90 obsessing over her being or not being punished and go into psychosis. She is carrying her baggage of shit everywhere she goes with her. What else do you want to happen to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:15 AM
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Tell her husband. Do it If there is no justice you have to be the one to bring it on her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:09 AM
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/\ Basically, this. The mainstream media also pours gasoline into the problem by turning a blind eye to it, they go cool-guys-don't-look-at-explosions mode on every problem which has to do with male loneliness, or male sexuality, or male spaces. Of course the people who are willing to admit the truth will win, because they are at least willing to admit the truth. We have cheap corporate Starbucksy feminism - that's no competition to aggressive dry truthbombs of Trumps of the world, as wrong as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:07 AM
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So the thing is that TRP starts in the right place - it identifies the problem correctly like many ideologies do. We do have a lot of hypocrisy and entitlement in the dating market, and we don't admit that men have a problem by continuing pedaling the same 2.5 feminist talking points when they lost their relevance a few decades ago on a broad societal scale. Imma throw up if I hear one more time about the wage gap and the me too movement. Then a bunch of capitalist opportunist hijack the convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:55 AM
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Thank you for your opinion and the breakdown. These men have been growing up during the exact same decades as I was, most of them born in the 90s. Weren't the 60s and 70s wild? Hookup culture is not news to anybody in my age range and hasn't been for as long as I can remember myself, just like the internet, so I believe it to be another excuse. I think it's an integral part of (some) people's behavior: "there is so much litter around!" but then they act like total swines and throw cigarette butt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:34 AM
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Here is the diagram I personally find helpful: are you better than disgusting stains on the lenses of honor? If yes -> you dodged a massive bullet since your ex is your ex and thank god you didn't start a family with her. If not -> ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:22 AM
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spinky_bum, even such cretins as yourself will not make anybody hate men. You are giving yourself too much credit. Hello from another thread. I literally walked in, and here is my king slaying like I told him to When we talked about women's suffrage we talked about starting an online business to fund ultra conservative campaigns, not arguing with radical feminists on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:06 AM
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Gosh I miss it when men were masculine. Now they seat around on podcasts and share ideas about rrrrrelationships instead of conquering the world and slaying poon like they are supposed to. Men became women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:53 AM
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Wait who is the stain, your ex? Just frame it as something generic. Don't nuke. You are valued and deserve love and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:48 AM
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Do whatever. Are you asking for my permission? Yasgirl! Slay kween slay!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:46 AM
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I look up to highly questionable individuals. Some only fans girls, or anarchist punks, or sociopathic kinds. I am totally gripped by these people, and it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:24 AM
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How interesting! Now go write a post about it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:15 AM
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You would make enough money to buy a plane ticket, start a business and move to Afghanistan
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:13 AM
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Moralizing, whining, shaking a finger, or placing themselves on a moral pedestal, thinking that the other gender is a problem/has created the problem that they ought to fix, placing the blame for the dating landscape on a group of people = not taking responsibility, as I understand it. You don't do any of this from what I've read. "I am itchy and I need to bust a nut" - ok. "I am itchy and I need to bust a nut, it's the best thing to do since all women are whores, if there was a worthy woman I'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:10 AM
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You did not have to, I don't know what fucking salty surprise you waited for in the end since I outted myself in like the first paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:54 AM
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I did it for myself, not for them. It was like a therapy session but for free
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:46 AM
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Some women are willing to do it, and these will be exactly the women to have an affair with Adam Levine and pretend they were "young and vulnerable". If you watch the lives of top 20% of men, you will of course see a lot of examples of this dynamic. The problem is confirmation bias - if you know your ENGL 101 fallacies please correct me. If you constantly look at scat porn you will genuinely believe women like eating feces - it's like no, you are just stuck in the pornified world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:42 AM
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B.) - yeah, if you are going to complain about something and simultaneously rip off the benefits people will give you shit. Ironically, this mismatch is their go-to accusation for the radical left. Yet they are doing the same shit as Greta Thunberg: "I want everybody on Earth to change the weather for me but oh well I'll wipe my ass with toilet paper because we have toilet paper anyways and I might as well enjoy it".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:30 PM
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Let's cut the flirting out: it does not cause trauma to teenage boys ;\ sex is all teenage boys can think about, it's their water and oxygen and I'm tired of pretending they have anymore going on than that inside their heads
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:31 AM
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I'm not a sociopath but it actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:27 AM
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on your moms face ;) jk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:24 AM
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Just some food for thought: they go with an intention of fucking you - because going someone's place frequently implies sexual consent - and then they see your standard of living and decide to withhold sex from you + manipulate to keep you invested. Could be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:07 AM
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I'm asking him if he is doing horoscopes, since he is into all sorts of pseudo sciences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:59 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:58 PM
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So? ;0
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:57 PM
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You are going for some classy ladies XD I can't believe she was telling you about her ONS on the first date. I can't believe someone is dumb enough to do it. It's the equivalent of a unsolicited dick pic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:28 PM
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OP, you are annoying. This post is a prime example of generation of Americans who grew up in a participation trophy environment where mom and dad always catered to them. Nobody gives enough fucks to "understand" some enigma about "men", or "mindread", or "think about his true intentions" in the world where a girl can just fuck a guy and see what happens. When did men become so effeminate? "Oh but we are so difficult, I don't even know how *gender* will understand my true intentions, we're all so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:14 PM
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FOR THE THOUSANDS TIME. There is not such a thing is overrating or underrating, or blowing the rating out of proportion, or inflating the rating on the sexual market. However people rate you is in fact your rating by definition - whether the people are thirsty, hungry or some other goddamn thing. Take economics and don't waste people's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:01 PM
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I would go 50/50, but I'm also not the one to offer sex or commitment easily. If a guy makes no contribution into me, than im not letting him "ruin" me or get a constant and exclusive membership ;0
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:58 PM
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Your image of slut is a cartoon. If somebody advertises themselves as a walking red flag, while going out with all the available girls in town, it does not take a h1shman to guess that they might be the same. What about the ones who meet and fuck strangers on the pink app, without bars, friends and heels?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:53 PM
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As follows: If you come in, you are not allowed to physically touch anybody in room A. In A you come in and small talk. You walked into A to meet people of the opposite gender, so nobody is allowed to bitch that someone approached them. If you want to touch people, you have to physically get up and go to room B. In room C, you are allowed to make out. In D you fuck. No personnel will disturb you in D - free game at this point. You get a partner in each room, you go into a cabin and you do whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:25 PM
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I think some combination of 1&2 will happen: some men will feel more at ease, and for others it would be curing a symptom. Women will not approach men tho. It's not my job to make it easy for somebody to turn me into a damaged good ;O I want to remain high value therefore I am to stay agreeable and quiet, and men who want to obtain sex with me are to do everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:18 PM
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Oh, then my point does not apply. Forget about it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:10 PM
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Wait what if I don't drink, and my friends range from "married at first sight" to "stuck in situationships" - how would you make a determination? Or is it a guilty until proven innocent kind of approach? I'm a Scorpio, if it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:09 PM
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Who will I see - you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:03 PM
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Fucking you is exactly how virgins quit being virgins. It's like expecting to ride a brand new Bugatti in a car dealership without wanting to buy one. I wish you did casual dating instead of polluting the pool of unmarried virgins by dipping your penis in it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:01 PM
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I actually told my boyfriend my high count was higher than what it is and created a few fun stories ;/ I don't know why I did that. I just lie a lot and about random shit too. Should I tell him or should I just let it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:53 PM
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How did you find out? If you are going to tell someone something you have to be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:50 PM
2

Do you also fuck with horoscopes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:49 PM
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if everything that comes out of walls face holes was a "calculated tactics" you would be on Wall Street and the world would revolve around your dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:46 PM
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This is what I don't understand. Who would find out and how would they find out? I feel like I could lie not only to prospective partners but also to all the dudes who ran this train, worst case there is always the Shaggy defense. If you say "it was not me" enough times they'll all believe it. People will actually doubt themselves and go insane if you hold your story, never underestimate gaslighting as a tool against social judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:30 PM
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Very. Not the social consequences: nobody will know unless I tell them, and I simply would not tell anyone. It's the fact that fantasies and real life are quite different. When you fantasize you are in control, but in real life half of these dicks will be smelly, and someone's hairy ass crack will ruin the scenery. I think threesomes for many men don't turn out to be as great as they are in porn, sex is awkward and sex involving multiple people is double as awkward. We need to stop pretending th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:24 PM
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Sorry. I meant to say, it's largely representative of women: we don't imagine somebody's soccer dad when we talk age gaps is what I'm trying to say. We imagine somebody a few standard deviations away from what we see in real life. Technically they don't have to be a celebrity, but we rarely see a 40 year old who we desire and giggle. This is why your gender complains that women are delusional, so it's like which one is it ;/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:15 PM
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No, they really have not. I was born to a more conservative - but not too conservative - society, and there is countless stories of housewives being abandoned when they are forty, or when they are fifty with no survival skills whatsoever. They might or might not have a stupid degree which they never used, no housing, no bank account, no alimony (because men coincidentally don't believe they owe the pretty dumb women that they adore an alimony) - nothing. So all the people recommending that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:59 PM
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Where are you competing, with who and for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:42 PM
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This is true. That's why I hate these conversations: every dynamics goes both ways and before complaining about something we should really watch our own behavior. Dudes will not care if OP is valedictorian, but OP will not care if a dude is not a partner at a law firm by 30. "Why does not anybody recognize my accomplishments?" - cries OP, "Why am I supposed to waste my life on earning arbitrary social brownies?" - cries her date. Welcome to human species.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:31 PM
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Men craft their entire identities based on what is going to give them sex, and are petrified of female sexual selection. So many guys in TRP are paranoid that women will cheat on them, or find someone better, or not fuck them and base their whole behavior on what girls might do. This is not something to debate about. Chimps do it, birds do it, and human males do it too. For example, you think that if you act arrogant and cool people will perceive you as intelligent and you will harvest mad pussy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:26 PM
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Your POV is based on two incorrect assumptions. Being sexually selected by men is a success. There is nothing sadder than a beautiful idiot. It's equivalent to a local trailer trash winning a lottery and showing off cash to everyone around: these women walk around with targets on their backs and do not end in places that are good or desirable even if somebody desirable marries them. If intelligence in women does not matter to male sexual desire, it does not matter. You are in a position of being…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:14 PM
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Then your point under my point is irrelevant to my point, go post it elsewhere. Hope you took yours without the essay portion :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:03 PM
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I never ever said that. Did you take SAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:38 AM
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Yes, I know. I'll give it to TRP undesirable women believe they are entitled to all sorts of things. But also undesirable men complain that women are no longer feminine virgins for them. That's all I wanted to add: delusion is not unique for women. That's why these statements should be evaluated based on whoever's hole in the face they're coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:05 AM
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Both. I'm saying, many young women will go for an older guy, but this will come with drawbacks of her finding a side piece her age who "understands her better". This is where male friends usually pop up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:56 AM
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So there is two conversations that need to happen on sexlessness I think: women should notice good men, encourage men who try to become better and not bash them constantly at every attempt to stop being lonesome, and sexless men need to understand that sexlessness, while a problem, is their problem and nobody is obligated to be their hooker or therapist. At this point every statement needs to be made in two paragraphs: a paragraph to men, a paragraph to women, because on every gender dynamics bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:52 AM
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Why does everybody assume I'm a man? I'm a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:39 AM
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Young down count agreeable girls are the 20% of girls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:37 AM
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Online - maybe. In the real world women are very outspoken about wanting all sorts of things, even though they aren't necessarily rude about it. What I personally witness is my acquaintances and girlfriends acknowledging their hypergamy with wide-eyed naiveté, but complaining that guys exercise standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:25 AM
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Yes, angry jealousy. This level of selectiveness is an ultimate wet dream for all of them, and they have a bunch of broke people's illusions of what it's like to be rich - even if they acknowledge that for women it's not that fun to be a 1%'s side pieces, on the emotional level they still think it's a good deal. They see the problem of choice as a step up from the problem of scarcity and try to talk themselves out of it by shitting on women who pursue top tier guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:14 AM
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Different people complaining about different things, some men say we are not honest enough while others cry we are rude bitches and the society allows us to get away with too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:02 AM
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So? A lot of guys desiring young women are not young. Guys desiring virgin women are not virgin. Guys wanting agreeable girls are difficult and stubborn. The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:00 AM
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For the same reason why a local trailer park trash who eats McDonalds for every meal shames you for enjoying a take out from a nice steakhouse. "Look at this rich motherfucker, enjoying his steak when we are getting food stamps!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:56 AM
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I never said women are victims of men. I said women bear more (whatever percentage is a good enough figure of speech) consequences for sexual acts, which is painfully obvious, and everybody and your mama knows it. This crap is textbook and is a whole basis for why guys think women should not fuck around. Because if you think sex does not affect women, you can't simultaneously want a young childless virgin. Because sex is how she stops being one. Make up your mind and pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:51 AM
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It's not worth it. If they thought it was worth it, they would display the behavior you say they should display. You didn't fuck around - here is a gold star, no one gives a shit and no one needs your sacrifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:49 AM
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I agree. They want to have a wet dream, I just let them. 30+ women are good enough for Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos, and Mark Zuckerberg and Bill Gates, but not good enough for a sigma grinder on Reddit - GTFO with that. It's good that men are doing the self-improvement stuff tho, this is what women want from them. We should still give them some encouragement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:46 AM
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If you're competitive is a catch here. Most men are not. When I say I can see myself fucking an older dude I'm thinking of a Hollywood actor or at worst a very good-looking doctor or a lawyer, not something that I can get in my age range on a university campus (a good number of future doctors and lawyers btw walking around). If you are a Jake Gylenhaal or an Adam Lavigne I confirm, it's very easy to get with young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:40 AM
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So the point is there is not enough of them for every rando trying to get one, even if I take your point that 20-24 women are willing to date them (which some are, but not all of them).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:35 AM
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"This isn't what TRP is about, and what TRP is REALLY about is what I find reasonable" Sure, and no feminists say that all men are toxic. Can I get a citation please? Except it's obviously not men who come up with this, it's coming from somewhere. It's not the women like me and the other commenter who come up with shit like "women after 24 shed value" and it's less polite derivatives. It's people who have as much right to represent your community as you do who consider you a "rando saying things…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:32 AM
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"having a job" and "not being overweight" is not good enough. The women you are going for have jobs, because everybody, broadly speaking, has to work. And they are not overweight by definition. If the aces up your sleeve is your bearable physique and a 9-5 what are you even doing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:24 AM
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These hundreds and thousands of young hot women are a small fraction of the population even though there is hundreds and thousands of them (!!!), and there is even more dudes competing for them. It's an illusion of abundance. If you walk into a Gucci store there will be a crap ton of garments. If you can buy a Gucci garment it does not mean it's available to everybody - it's an experience reserved for a certain % of the population and saying "but there is a fuck ton of clothes!" is irrelevant to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:21 AM
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Some women don't care. So now you are going for a fraction of the 5% that is willing to pursue that, not some broke 20 year old Chad's dick. And of the women who claim they don't care half will secretly pursue both while sweetalking to you that "age is just a number" like you are half demented, which has coincidentally been female dating strategy for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:13 AM
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"And what is TRP? Well here is my subjective idea of what TRP is and the list of things I personally find reasonable"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:07 AM
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Most people get fat and broke, no matter the looks. If you are not fat and broke at 35 you will stand out and be "hot", whether your facial features are fortunate or average. The playing field levels out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:05 AM
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"that's not what I think, so that's not what TRP is saying" Well clearly we get these lines from somewhere, we aren't just sitting on our asses crafting one liners to put in your mouthes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:02 AM
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Meh, not a hard science
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:30 AM
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This is the weirdest criticism ever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:28 AM
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you guys have sex dungeons too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:23 AM
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I am quoting what I hear from ppl here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:18 AM
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So, both genders are brutal. Men will not file for divorce because they have the luxury of fucking a side chick and having a family, so he has no reason to divorce, but he has an incentive to make everybody's life in a marriage subservient to his selfish needs. But tbh, I am just here to explain the biological instincts of women. I just work here ;) If you are fixated on divorce stats write your own post and talk to someone who finds it just as infuriating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:16 AM
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It's not entitlement - they just don't want you, so why would they put in the effort to obtain something they don't want. It's called free market. People collectively decided you are undesirable and don't give enough shit to put in the effort - either deal with it or make peace with it I'm being blunt but you get my point: no girl is going to risk pregnancy and trip over themselves so they can ride your below average dick, the effort part is on you if you want something from them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:10 AM
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dude it's not worth it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:43 AM
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Mm yeah, who do you swipe on - everybody? Just because you are an omnivorous swine we aren't supposed to stop fishing for the eye candy on the dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:47 AM
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Yeah, what did you think? Women bear like 80% of the consequences associated with sex, so of course they will not actively search for a major risk and definitely will not beg for it on dating apps, generally
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:43 AM
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If she does not make eye contact she could be very attracted to you but intimidated btw
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:39 AM
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You should always assume we are friend zoning you unless there is an evidence pointing to the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:37 AM
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He should treat them with the same level of human decency and respect is what people mean. But he should adapt his communication and behavior strategy so that they don't talk past each other, if that's a better answer to the question. She should do the same. Their goal is to meet in the middle and each gender should do their half to understand where the other is coming from. The difference is that "normal" thoughts that men/women have are read as insulting by the other gender, so some things jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:29 AM
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Having an opinion on abuse is a red flag. Let me explain. Abuse is something normal people agree should not happen, and this is where this conversation needs to start and stop. If a person says anything along the lines of "X abuse Y all the time" - they are a walking alarm bell, a man or a woman. A healthy individual should be too busy bettering his life and fixing his own shit to develop any sort of elaborate perspective regarding abuse. If you developed a whole conception of who does what to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:58 AM
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Of course. How do I know he is capable of performing his male role if he never practiced it outside of the bedroom. It's not a "run through" thing, it's a "you are someone else's problem not mine"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:19 PM
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B. I am not sure what your point is? Nobody likes simps. Otherwise will take A, if A can ball up and have some self-respect and not worship anybody, let alone me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:10 PM
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People can literally go for whatever the fuck they want, what causes eyerolls is complaining that they can't get the thing. It's like getting a liberal arts degree - shoot your shot but fuck off with your whining if you don't make it. This sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:20 PM
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Right, no one ever told us before you that we are hypergamous :0
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:17 PM
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Women have a whole array of struggles that you can't even conceptualize because you are so stuck in your one point perspective. What do you want us to do, donate to your gender reassignment Gofundme?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:15 PM
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And a even smaller minority will actually stay married to him, and an even smaller minority will be happy in this marriage/will be his only woman, so? They are not the ones complaining here on PPD, the OP is. These women are fine. And if they are not fine - drop the links to their posts, we will collectively have an entirely separate conversation which has nothing to do with OP's love drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:09 PM
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A person is not going out of their league if they are not complaining about what they're getting, are they? They are fine. You are the one with a problem. I don't mean it in a patronizing way, I'm making a point: the women around you are happy with whatever arrangements they have or don't have. Don't go for overweight girls - this is like applying to a minimum wage job, become fit yourself if you are not (and you are not judging by your post) and shoot up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:05 PM
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I don't have a penis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:32 PM
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I am not close enough with men around me to ask them that, you guys is my only source of wisdom
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:07 PM
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Are you under 32ish, childless and attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:01 PM
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I don't have a husband because none of them men want to do mmf threesomes ;<
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:42 PM
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No, I have no interest Does it mean that you tried eating shit my guy, since you don't wanna do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:37 PM
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I feel comfortable with many things that nobody wants to accommodate. It's pretty selective how adventurous people want to get that's what I found out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:30 PM
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No it does not! Maybe I'd try the fruit if it looked appealing to me, but I also would never try heroine what even is this point. bro would you ever fuck a dude? Would you ever eat shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:27 PM
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Trying to see whether there is anything you would not do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:21 PM
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Your warm wet hole is much better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:20 PM
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That's fine, I say the same things about dudes who don't take me out on expensive dates
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:18 PM
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If they did not eat your poop while orgasming they weren't really into you. Sorry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:17 PM
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Does try stuff include MMF
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:15 PM
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How would you know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:13 PM
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Do you want to watch your gf have sex with another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:12 PM
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I agree, I deserve the full Chad experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:11 PM
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LOL who is gonna tell him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:10 PM
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since merely finding someone I find reasonably attractive, under 32ish, and without kids is proving to be somewhat challenging alone. whatever money you are making isn't enough. just my 2 cents
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:07 PM
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Bro get std&IQ tested
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:01 PM
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I've never done it tho, so wdym by "had her fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:56 PM
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But OP, what about hot young chicks who fuck deadbeat weed smokers living in a trailer and working on "the novel" while doing car maintenance gigs? You will be surprised how many women deliberately search for useless men, or men to support, or men to dominate, or uninteresting men who will not leave them for someone hotter, or hot and stupid sorority boiz.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:58 PM
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I said top 1% of OF chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:13 PM
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I truly admire how logical and rational you are. So am I speaking on my behalf on PPD, or am I speaking on PPD's behalf? What's your criticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:12 PM
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I truly admire how logical and rational you are. In fact, I am not speaking on behalf of ppders, I'm speaking to ppders about the behavior I frequently see on PPD. Sure, but "a lot of" slapped in front of *gender* makes people's arguments collapse like a house of cards, because their opponent response will be "then I'm not interested in most *gender*"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:08 PM
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​ "I think X don't understand what they are attracted to"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:59 PM
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It's not like anyone feels amazing after "owning" somebody in a keyboard war by stating the opponent "just does not get it"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:01 AM
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why do you think you're exempt from being questioned on the notion that I'm not exempt from being condescendingly preached to? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:59 AM
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For people here patterns are basic arithmetics, we all know there is patterns. It does not require somebody condescendingly preaching to us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:56 PM
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of course! being alone is an option
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:39 PM
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Which one do you like more: marriage or hookup culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:05 PM
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In another comment you said you don't want to have a girl who lies to you about who she is by making you wait? That's a standard, and application of standards is where agency begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:57 PM
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Some are - but those are individual cases of chicks who were also a trouble when they were young. It's not like they were a sweetheart and then something flipped upside down just because they got older - they were always unbearable. Jealous old women are a rare demographic though. Most of them genuinely look out for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:37 PM
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It's the same as privileged young people bitching at Musks and Zukerbergs of the world because they don't donate money to the good cause and when you tell the angry mob "why don't you start with yourself? Go and donate!" they will say some variation of "well nobody is doing it, so there is no point, the world is going to shit anyways. My donation will not change anything." It's just an excuse, because this type of person actually has a selfish agenda and the whole traditional values thing is a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:25 PM
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Just pay for it - and you can dictate all terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:16 PM
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if somebody gave you a fuck off stare, it's not because you tried to hit on them in Barnes in Noble, or the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:56 PM
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If none of that matters what are you even doing on our sub? you know you can actually go and have sex with the women you say you fuck, but this place is for people with strong opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:43 PM
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So: a. you have no agency b. you have no responsibility c. you are the way you are, but other people should change. It reminds me of the modern feminism - the very thing your community criticizes. Whoever wins them becomes them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:35 PM
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Well, the hoes you are banging like it by definition, and the rest of us don't care enough to make a random dude on the internet commit to anyone. Sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:27 PM
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It's actually pretty insulting when your partner treated somebody with more willingness than they treat you, there is no way around the insecurity no matter how they rationalize it. This is controversial, but I think people should not disclose all the stupid things they ve done in the past because all it does is ruin everybody's time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:22 PM
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honestly, as long as you are willing to finance your dating life you call the shots
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:15 PM
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By earning status. Options are just a byproduct in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:59 PM
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The option creates itself if you are desirable enough as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:05 PM
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I never said I have a problem with people not dating OF girls, because I don't. this criticism is not relevant. My point has nothing to do with people who choose not to date OF girls, what I'm saying is for you to choose not to date somebody you need to have an option to date them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:31 PM
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Coincidentally, that was the exact message of my post, dear commenter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:48 PM
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Women are not as clueless as you think, and men don't ghost women as much as this sub wants to believe - if anything, a guy will try to keep a girl around if she puts out. I don't care enough to fight about it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:47 PM
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Options for sexual encounters. They just take what's coming to them and commit to it because it's their only option irrespective of how it behaves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:29 AM
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If they have more than 0-1 options, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:10 PM
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Dear commenter, repeating that my post does not make sense does not make you right, just like me saying "it makes sense" does not make me right. But you iterating it is rather useless. You need to realistically be able to get her, you don't actually need to pursue her and dump her. Broadly speaking, you need to be a five to reject a five and you need to be a ten to reject a ten. You need to actually be a millionaire for your ripped old jeans to be swag, otherwise you are just trailer trash
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:09 PM
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Sounds reasonable in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:04 PM
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that's what I said, you are too stuck in your own perspective. What you are doing is you are placing the origin of evil on group X and then assume that it's the X who fuck with Y's feelings FIRST, and group Y are just chilling so if they do anything it's just reactionary to X's misbehavior. It's what SJWs do. It's divorced from the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:17 PM
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Your underlying assumption is that women are proactive con artists, while men are entirely reactionary. I need something more sophisticated than this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:35 PM
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Got it. You want somebody to grab you by the ears and fuck you good. The problem is you probably will not experience it as a woman either - men will probably be too nervous to not fuck it up, and have sweaty palms and you will end up holding their hand and guiding them through this whole intercourse thing. I don't know how people ever find anybody to play masculine role and do it well. This cult of alpha culture is just smoke and mirrors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:10 AM
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So not wanting a woman who likes assholes is the same as not wanting a guy who sees you as a sexual object. Grow up and make piece with it. Are you stupid for wanting an attractive woman who hasn't been through a lot of dick, OP? Gosh where do we find a guy whose head is on straight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:58 AM
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80K is a very high bar. if he makes 60K as a young person - he is on a good trajectory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:50 AM
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but.. every dude here is a doctor or a corporate lawyer, wdym ;) they so often talk about what high value men want, one could really believe they are the high value men on whose behalf they speak
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:47 AM
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dude, most men don't control anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:39 AM
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Yo we don't make it difficult, we just don't actively make it easy. I would say, men can lie to get sex in the world where tinder swindler exists and I hate the "ethics" argument because I don't believe in it. Just the men who do it should not be surprised when somebody outsocipaths them, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:36 AM
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Then I'm even more puzzled why you give enough crap to trumpet the fact that you fuck but, happy to hear it regardless :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:25 AM
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TRP mysoginy is reactionary to shallow corporate feminism, so it's no wonder we have a ton of dudes trying to play the system for its vulnerabilities. Of course it works, that's what it's for. I don't see it as useful to criticize the mass produced version of TRP for being unable to give somebody love and satisfaction, so it's a they get what they want type of situation, but I guess some do eventually grow out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:18 AM
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You are too slow I can't even I miss good old days when men were the logical gender gtfo of my post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:59 AM
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Like, you look into the social dynamics hard enough to where you developed a tunnel vision - all you see is that some social dude talks to women, you don't know if it constitutes sexual success as we know that a large % of them is white knights and "male friends" who do not get anywhere near the actual vagina. Their extraversion and handholding with women is just smoke and mirrors. Did you actually see them doing the deed? Could it be that you are giving too much credit to so called "naturals"? …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:54 AM
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Are you in high school or college? Your post is not affecting you, your post is an evidence that some other crap is affecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:52 AM
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OP, you need to unplug ASAP. This whole matrix of who falls where and who is who, and your little social ideas, and you splitting hairs, and your opinions are paralyzing you and are preventing you from allocating your time and effort to bigger and better things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:46 AM
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And I don't think you understand basic logic and have a smaller intellect, and are proving that men generally clueless about their own nature - is that the response that you want to hear? If not, cut it. Second of all, we are not talking about the men women want by definition. We are talking about not so bright, not that good looking not corporate lawyers yasgirling each other when they gossip about who fucks who. Of course they will sell their dicks indefinitely for a monthly allowance, are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:37 AM
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Well, if the bodybuilder is rich, then you have a point - women will line up for fat millionaires of the world so something tells me they will line up for grilled chicken looking gents. Like OF girls prostitute themselves, but they are rich and attractive to men. Bodybuilding itself is unattractive to women, so we need something superficially attractive on top
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:15 AM
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Because they are shooting well above into the league of men who select among pretty women and who have money, obviously. I said 1% of OF girls. Many men will swallow their pride when it comes to a hot chick who has a lot of cash - why are we pretending that everybody is loyal to what they claim to be their principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:12 AM
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If he has average facial features, there is little to no way how he can get ahead of the attractive dudes, so here is what you realistically need to do. Make money. End of the manual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:03 AM
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Besides the fact that for many it's not true, they don't say it like that. Craze needs to be combatted with reason. If you engage in mobbing you are what you are fighting. I don't differentiate between people who call women damaged goods and people who say men are mysoginists for not wanting to date a fat woman - they all should be locked up and interbred in zoo cages so I can buy tickets and popcorn to watch this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:44 AM
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But they don't say it like that do they? Dudes - and I guess girls too - sit in a circle and brag about all the imaginary boyfriends and girlfriends they would not have, and they try to make it as inflammatory as possible. Yes, it's a derivation from this idea: good person needs to have an opportunity to be bad and consciously practice being good. You have no reason to believe that you are a good person until you encounter a "either/or" situation. I think many of these men argue with themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:28 AM
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Nice, so you as an individual have something to back up loud and proud statements and coming from you it does not sound stupid - you were able to have sex with a woman, you rejected her, you don't fuck with IG models. Sounds like a storyline to me. I don't know why dudes screech I "dictate that men should want OF girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:16 AM
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Because she is rich and hot, and money+looks make things happen. I don't dictate what men are and aren't attracted to. Do you disagree with what I said or you want it to also apply to Mia Khalifa? You kind have to pick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:13 AM
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Okay, I get your point - people can genuinely feel like they don't desire X. But there is no virtue in freeing yourself from desire when you are not tempted by proximity of the subject. In some sense it's the easiest thing for you to do in the current circumstances. But it comes from the place of convenience, not virtue: virtue is always expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:24 PM
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Micro level is in fact a correct level to look at any social issue: if you are an environmentalist, your primary job is to minimize your own footprint, and then we will talk. But even if I look at it from the macro level - the majority of dudes would be happy to date a rich 10, because money and sexiness make things happen. Sure there is a % of guys to who these things are easily obtainable anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:17 PM
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Sure, everybody thinks that. And then half of us lives with a dude because he is rich and the other half simps after OF girls they say they would not commit to. Ofc not half but you get my point - It's easy to think something, your actions is what defines a person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:13 PM
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nope ;(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:01 PM
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Not kind of like a man's dating life is, because they still have looks and money. And money makes things happen. But frankly it's an entirely separate conversation, and it's to be sorted out among the OF chicks and the guys who OF chicks want but can't obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:30 PM
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Kinda. Your internal self wishes X. And the outter self tries to fight the internal self. People don't argue with feminists, or redpillers, or some other goddamn thing, they argue with themselves. Especially if the subject of their hatred is random strangers on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:23 PM
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I don't get it... Are you agreeing with me? Because that's sort of the part of my point: everybody gives beautiful speeches of how that would not date a 20 year old 10/10 because she posted some nudes online, but it's just words
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:17 PM
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Not a sex worker - OF girl of any kind btw. So, if they were unattainable to you it would be a different you. Technically you would not know that you really and truly don't want to pursue the opportunity until a. have it b. don't pursue it. I'm saying that being selective among people of above your league does not make one selective, it's just cheap talk. It's like people who say that they would donate 90% of their income to charities if they were a Jeff Bezos - okay, do you actually have the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:14 PM
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So, it's an entirely separate conversation. Sure, they search for some men somewhere, but unless you are the guy they search for you don't necessarily get any virtue points. Select among the people of your league, then you are selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:01 PM
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If you are vocal about it, rejecting one does not make you more selective unless you have one in your back pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:55 PM
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It's not good. Abby is actively pursuing Jack while being tangled up with some other dude. Abby is a sloppy person, probably in everything she does, not just her dating life. Do you have the right to have a messy bedroom or to forget to pay a fee after taking a tollway? It's this kind of thing that burdens people around you if they have a misfortune to have you as their anything. But in today's marketplace I can't blame Abby too much: one of them should have asked, another one should have told. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:49 PM
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But how can we differentiate the two? Excuse me my cynicism, when it comes to temptations, the starting point should always be "you want it but you can't get it" until there is a serious reason to believe that otherwise is true. If there is no reason, you might think you don't want it when it's so out of reach, but what if it becomes a little more attainable? Some people are truly moral, some are afraid of the punishment. Neither commit crimes. Both claim to be moral. Well our starting point sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:26 AM
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Not a problem of course. Once your opinion is on the internet especially with your face next to it, people will of course break down your characteristics if you are a source of aggressive criticism. If a person is extremely vocal about "not wanting" somebody and is vocal all the time, he is just trying to pass as "selective and therefore desirable". But my point is you don't actually become more selective unless you discriminate against people who already want you, right Depends on who the guy i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:13 AM
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I would let them get into a bed with an icon before they tell us how boring it gets For now it's the same as broke people saying that money does not buy happiness :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:02 AM
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Exactly! Of course you need to be beyond pathetic to do it. If I'm a guy who can reasonably only pull broke overweight Starbucks baristas, how low am I willing to fall to hypothetically obtain some rich 9? Am I willing to marry her if she posts her nudes? God bless him. Even If I'm a guy who can pull some broke nines, once we start talking about the rich one it's an entirely different story because money makes crazy things happen. So we are still facing the problem of can you actually obtain the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:55 AM
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while it might be a good thing for you, it's cringey for him, which is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:33 AM
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yes, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:31 AM
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Right, if you are already interested. What if you don't even know he exists and he decides to say it and sprinkle with some blunt little opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:30 AM
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Those are not average guys though I think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:23 AM
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I'm saying people who say these things try to artificially create the aura of "I'm selective and therefore valuable", so by "does not count" I am trying to state that the act of rejecting someone does not in fact make anybody a valuable asset unless they have an ability first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:20 AM
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Well, from what I've learned men need a continuous supply, so I guess it will go the same way it goes with non-OF average-looking girls: she gives me sexual company so I am dating her, or even marrying her if the guy is horny and desperate enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:14 AM
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You can think A or B - you are not a part of my point. I'm more interested in the chubby 5 than your reaction. if a chubby 5 looks at your gorgeous and rich Ryan Gosling self and says that she "does not fuck with them rich mfs in their 30s" people will not openly shut her down, but the same sort of thought runs through my mind. I think it runs through everybody's mind. I don't say it because it's not socially acceptable. But the first person who aggressively rejects a population of people will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:08 AM
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Second. But just because they don't want to commit to them we don't know that they actually will never commit to one if it's the price of sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:54 AM
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They are putting the cart before the horse. In order to "not have desire to have them as partners" they need to be able to have uncommitted sex with them. If a guy says "OF girls are one night stand material" then I'll wonder if he actually had the ONS he says the OF girls are for, if the answer is no then he is obviously trying to pretend like he has more leverage than he does. Donald Trump is a billionaire, so he would be a temptation for me due to the financial resources and opportunities thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:46 AM
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Or maybe he is just deathly scared of failure? And his brain paralyzes his attempts to do something by "laziness"? Because if he tries to have sex with her and gets rejected it will ruin his manually constructed identity? Let's stop at this one before we go all the way to "does not desire them", I'm reminding that OF girls become what they become by exploiting male vulnerabilities, mostly, male sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:25 AM
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So is it a straw man or is it fair enough? if an average girl said that she would not date a Calvin Klein model I'd think "mmkay, look in the mirror". Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:59 AM
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lol, the good woman is the woman who bends over backwards, and the smart woman is the woman who listens and yes ends their sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:45 AM
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I don't have a chip on my shoulder with regards to religion My point is precisely that - it's not an irrational fantasy to marry a virgin, I literally gave them a step by step instruction on how to get one and not fuck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:43 AM
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They just want to feel like they make decisions in the world where they have 0 negotiating power. So they have to be discriminatory to feel in control I think men who want and have the leverage to get a hot virgin just go and get one and that's that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:39 AM
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Your story so far: - It does not happen. - It happens but it's the fault of women. Pick one. Men are so effeminate these days my fucking god
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:31 AM
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mmm... got it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:43 PM
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Do men want to get married at 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:04 PM
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But not before?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:46 PM
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I don't know how else to tell you that it happens all. the. time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:12 PM
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unlike men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:07 PM
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They think 18 year olds are awesome and im not gonna change their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:30 PM
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Exactly, so I'd appreciate if you did not tell me that these things don't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:41 PM
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Then I guess you would
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:09 PM
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I'm saying if you apply all of your requirements on top of the fact that you only go for a fraction of people, of course no woman will satisfy your checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:49 PM
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mmkay, so know we are getting selective. I understand your pain. I want a millionaire, but most of them are nerdy, boring and hard-working
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:45 PM
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No, no when they say it's hard to find a virgin they mean that it's hard to find a virgin for them, because let's face it, they are requiring women to perform their feminine duty when they didn't perform their masculine duty but of course she needs to be a bombshell too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:39 PM
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Your stream of thought is so fast that I can't quite catch up to it. Can you break it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:32 PM
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But AppliedAutism, I am not gestapo. I am happy you know what you want in life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:24 PM
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I said, the more conservative her sexual behavior, the more difficult she will be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:23 PM
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I'm like a drug dealer here - I supply them with what they want, no questions asked, no teachings about consequences ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:22 PM
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How many dudes have you been on a date with, romantically involved with, in a relationship with, hooked up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:20 PM
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Can you be more elaborate? Now let's use a paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:16 PM
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I have to explain to a bunch of virginity obsessed dudes why a virgin woman is unattainable for them. They don't believe that women don't use pussy as a bargaining chip. I have to base my narrative in what they believe in - which is, women want to trade their pussy for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:12 PM
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Because a Kennedy needs a Jacquelin but wants a Marilyn ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:09 PM
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...Mmmkay then...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:07 PM
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everything tends to radicalize if enough people join it, even a gardening club I used to be a part of became totalitarian. bring back checks and balances
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:06 PM
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If you don't want it then my post is not targeted at you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:04 PM
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So? Conservative alpha men with their shit together are also scarce, and most sigma grinders are basement dwellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:04 PM
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If you like these conditions - I am your biggest cheerleader, pop them all. Fat shaming is right so I dunno why fat shaming is wrong. It's not wrong to me. Is it wrong to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:02 PM
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You would not of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:57 PM
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There is another type - a perfectionist. It ties in with what you are talking about. Because sheltered princess does not understand men or people for shit, she might eventually get pregnant by a Prince Charming thinking that every man will worship her for continuing his bloodline. Then she will find out her Prince is a charming sociopathic smooth talker, and she will make up the 30% of the abortion clinic clientele you are talking about :) one such highborn virgin mademoiselle blew a literal pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:54 PM
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it's all 6ft tall muscular sigma grinders
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:43 PM
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I'm like a liberal arts department. I'll sell them what they want to have with no personal liability for the outcome ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:42 PM
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the more conservative her behavior is the more requirements she will put on the way to sex is my point. Virgin is an extreme case scenario but it illustrates the tendency well I think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:40 PM
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I don't know how to respond to that. If you are not this type of person then my post is not about you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:38 PM
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sure, that true. but I doubt many people here are in their teens so it's too late to talk about that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:35 PM
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of course, I'm sure that happens as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:34 PM
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If it's not attainable for you then it's not for you :\ it's just as ridiculous to be proper and uptight in our postmodern society
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:32 PM
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It does not make sense. They aren't born with n-counts. All virginity hunters have to do is catch them before they go off to college. According to TRP protocols if they are the masculine men they say they are there should not be a problem with attracting a young girl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:15 AM
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Of who? Of me? What do I have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:13 AM
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different standards for men and women: women are expected to be virgins, men are expected to be financially secure and generous. You don't have to be a virgin yourself on top of that, that's an extra
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:47 AM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:31 AM
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reddit should check in on you because I clicked this help and support button though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:28 AM
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I'm a psych by trade too. I'm on PPD - we're all psychs by trade. \^ is some professional material crap
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:24 AM
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no virgins for you then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:23 AM
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I agree, I want the best of both worlds. In fact, I want the best of like three or four worlds. I generally tend to like the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:15 AM
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I recently learned that therapy sessions start at $100/hr, but since my qualifications are in an entirely different field we can work something out for $50/hr or so if you really feel like you need my counseling services
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:09 AM
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I know that a truly religious woman will look for a guy with the same values, but we have a whole population of men who are certain they can dip their d in a pot full of Christian virgins after sleeping around with women unworthy of commitment, to put things in their terms. I have to speak their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:06 AM
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Probably. I preach what I observe though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:00 AM
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sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:44 AM
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My post is the wake up call for them to be the Chads they say they are)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:08 AM
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people still complain about taxes too so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:49 AM
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Fusion Peru
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:30 AM
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I can in fact imagine men wanting the situation of the past but being told it's no longer possible. I paid $6,700 for this semester so I can graduate, so I can go back to work where I will make money instead of being impregnated by a responsible masculine husband. tell me about feeling disillusioned
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:21 AM
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Better, because you get to encounter them in clusters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:15 AM
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A&M. We also have football on Saturdays and a fucking dope hole in the wall family owned Peruvian eatery
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:13 AM
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Sure, I get it - as I said women do feel like they are entitled to all sorts of things. I'm on your side ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:11 AM
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Only if she applies to be a professional SAH pill addict
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:09 AM
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Sure. I don't care. I'll buy tickets and popcorn to go tour this shit if they offer interactive exhibitions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:07 AM
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It's not five percent all the way across. It's 1 in Cali and 9 in Alabama
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:01 AM
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I understand that this is a minority of men. But I have no way of checking who types what, so I was targeting my post at men who feel some way about promiscuity, whether they are millionaire Chads or baristas at your local Starbucks - no clue. PPD equalized their voices. My argument is, in fact, based in the extremes but how else am I supposed to write a post. I opened the video on submission. I don't see how she is different from Lauren Southern or Classically Abby - women need to be team playe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:59 AM
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Quit straw man bullshit arguing. Yo, quit responding to posts that are not about you and not targeted at you. Your problem is hoes pretending to be virgins. Now write a post about it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:40 AM
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welcome to PPD :D They are a stranger on your morning bus, they are your friendly neighbor, that are in the cubicle next to yours. They are among us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:38 AM
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If he marries her and they do let's say 75/25 or some proportion where guy contributes more he isn't. Or he is, but it's mutual. If he marries her and they do 50/50 but she is the one who a. is a virgin b. is required to pop out a kid. then we have an asymmetry. Because he requires her to perform 100% of her feminine role and 50% of the masculine role on top while he only performs the 50% of the masculine role. That being said, is men wanting women to act in a way they think is dignified in sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:30 AM
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But we also apply a whole bunch of standards regarding their social status and finances tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:16 AM
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I said, the more liberal your expectations are, the shorter the waiting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:08 AM
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cool)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:57 AM
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The hypocritical minorities are the only people worth addressing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:53 AM
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Can you use full sentences? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:50 AM
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Because that's something some of them apparently want. As simple as that. No point in arguing with that, I just take it as a given
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:47 AM
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We need to take it all the way to the beginning. I am saying: applying a double standard in the aspect of sexual behavior is compensated by applying a double standard in the aspect of finances, and vice versa. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:43 AM
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As a girl who goes to a christian uni in red state, after observing virgins... They are virgins because their standards are through the roof. You are right - they are weird. And they will want to be spoiled 20 or 30, those who are chill are not virgins by the time they are sophomores. Weirdness starts at 21. Those aregirls who have very high opinion of themselves. The guy needs to be handsome, successful type A person just like their dad and treat them like a princess just like their dad, and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:36 AM
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ok, sounds good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:17 AM
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That's your personal subject of complaint, but my post is for people whose standards are more strict than yours. Yo, your office is rock and roll, where the fuck do you work? How do I apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:15 AM
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It's beauty + virginity = rich guy. Apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:11 AM
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EXACTLY! But this is the deal. This has always been the deal. Your second paragraph: of course it legitimizes taking advantage of men's earning if men state that they want to take advantage of women's youth, beauty and virginity. I'm confused, what are trying to say? Genders have requirements for one another, if you want somebody to meet yours you need to meet theirs. How else is it supposed to be if it's not transactional?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:07 AM
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Your goal should not be to make every guy happy. Winning would be finding the guy that you want and that wants you which you absolutely can do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:55 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:54 AM
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I purposefully left out the issue of people faking it, which I'm sure happens. A few decades ago people also used to get married before sleeping, and men would provide for women, in my opinion, those are insane requirements for exact same reason why virginity (coupled with beauty) is an insane requirement - because very few people can/want to fulfill it. If fulfilling their requirement is something you are willing to do - I promise I know which women in my circle are virgins and which ones are "…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:53 AM
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If they aren't my post is not for them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:42 AM
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And then they complain that modern women are ruined by all these cocks and have emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:41 AM
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Of course, but how else are we supposed to have this conversations unless we boil it down to a transaction? If you, as a woman, want a successful lawyer, be young, hot and fertile. If you want a young, hot and fertile woman, be a successful lawyer. People who say the arguments you are saying typically just want to exploit the opposite gender :/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:39 AM
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I don't know, I've never been to church. The church is a hypothetical of course. But I go to a conservative university and there is a plenty of actual virgins who do go to church, and they are not swamped with requests. They have high and rather exhausting demands, and nobody in the XXI century trips over their shoelaces to meet the requirements. That's how they remained virgins till 22. Come down to Texas, we have a plenty of brand new wifeys for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:32 AM
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I know it's stupid, you know it's stupid, but they want what they want and I have to speak their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:28 AM
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"And I want a millionaire! Also, I don't know why guys decided that their bank account is the ark of the covenant!" If you are not fetishizing virginity/low n-count my post is not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:26 AM
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Noted. Dishonesty is a whole another issue. Meh, I mean you don't sound like the target audience of my post if you don't care about virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:21 AM
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So what do you thing should be the price for female virginity? 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:18 AM
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I never said the man needs to be a virgin himself. I said that the man, broadly speaking, needs to be willing to pay the full price for getting a brand new doll of a girl, and he needs to pay it before getting the asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:15 AM
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If it's not you this post is not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:10 AM
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Well I don't know what you mean by "men are always responsible", because we narrowed down our conversation to women who have already accepted responsibility associated with femininity, so... I also never said that a virgin is for everybody. I'm sorry most men can't have that, or a house in LA, or a Lamborghini.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:09 AM
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Okay:) Do you have the cash though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:33 AM
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By the same metrics we can close down the PPD. Okay guys, bye everyone, this sub was dope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:55 AM
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But OP, maybe you are just as average? How are we to know? After all, men decide which women are average. And women decide which men are average. So if you are the censorship committee who determines which women are allowed to want millionaires, do we get to be the censorship committee who can go through your "fact that you want a virgin" with a red pen?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:50 AM
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Dude, any discriminatory opinion will result in you getting shit from people.I argue that a woman should never give any of her time to a man who does not pick up the bill on the first date - I have to verbally fight off offended men till blood runs down my throat. If you don't want to people come after you don't talk about your dating preferences. If you talk about your dating preferences people will come after you. as simple as that. I dunno im sorry we didn't roll down the red carpet for you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:36 AM
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But OP, when women go around and openly say they will only date millionaires or Chads we have so many offended men that we have the whole TRP. Do what you want and say what you want, but other people might give you shit. They have the freedom to discriminate against you just like you are discriminating against virgins. If you want to be socially accepted - tone it down. That's the price you pay for being liked. What do you want us to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:30 AM
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And I want a Lamborghini. I am fully justified to want a Lamborghini. I will not buy it tho. I just wanna have without paying the $$. WHY ARENT ALL CARS LAMBORGHINIS PS. Are you gonna marry her before penetrating or you want her brand new without paying the full $$?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:25 AM
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For the same reason why men thirst after slutty Merilyn Monroe types even though they swear up and down that they want a maternal christian goody-two-shoes. It's not power, and it's not fame, and it's not money, and it's not even beauty. It's because these people appeal to primal instincts of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:01 PM
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You can call it what you want, but you view Sneako in a positive light. The problem is not that he is a mysoginist. Look there is three types of role models: right ones, wrong ones, and then there is Sneakos. I think both of us tend to fall victim to wrong ones. But when I say I admire assholes I mean sharks of higher caliber - like Martin Shkreli, Tom Riddle, or Dark Knight's Joker. You get the idea. Sneakos did the same analysis you are doing and are trying desperately to mimic a villain. Him …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:37 PM
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you seem to think that the world is divided into "charismatic assholes" and blue-haired feminist SJW. SJW movement is, in fact, pretty stupid, and has nothing to do with being a good man. And until men start - but they have already started - standing up to it in ways that are constructive and productive, you guys will have to swallow it. The key words here are constructive and productive. Because if you Sneako your way through conversations you can't complain that people are treating you exactly…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:06 PM
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Oh boy I wish it was about pussy, because this is just dumb. Does it mean that you want to traumatize her with your dick? Or did you traumatize your exes by having sex with them? Are you willing to marry this virgin so that she knows you will not traumatize her? Or is it just everyone else's dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:50 PM
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My point is gay men tend to use condescending language much more often than straight men. And if you guys don't like an outsider pointing that out, maybe those of you who don't do it should tell it to your community so I don't have to make people uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:39 PM
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What is this with your community that allows you guys be completely inappropriate towards women, like what is this "honey" thing? If you were a straight man and addressed me, a stranger, like that, I would make an embarrassing scene over it You ve been given a card blanche to exist outside the social norm for too long and we need to start talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:47 AM
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For example, you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:55 AM
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Waitaminute, so you are among people that you said you see as smart and you simultaneously are telling me there is no room in the world full of smart people? Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:10 PM
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sorry for the late response. Of course he has followers, but you know who else has them? A crap load of onlyfans chicks, the Kardashians, and even Hitler. It don't mean anything. So Andrew Tate is a queen bee among his girlfriends, what does it have to do with people outside the hive? Good ol' masculinity is defined as working with your mind and/or hands more than your mouth throughout personal relationships as well as careers. A masculine man does not agree nor disagree with Andrew Tate's philo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:06 PM
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Douche look but, ironically, female brain. Talks about women, relationships and who fucks who all the time like a sorority blonde. What I say is we need good ol' masculinity, and inspite of his equally as feminine followers, his feminine interests make my pussy dry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:28 AM
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First part: okay, you personally did not, collective responsibility on the basis of sex isn't cool and I should have phrased it better then blanket "men" Second part: TRP started out as a way to not be a beta orbiter - make fuck you money, get a hobby, build your life, don't chase pussy, make pussy chase you, holding it accountable - and honestly good for you, I was sitting back and actually thinking "okay, they are realizing something". But sex was just a part of the whole philosophy. Now, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:41 AM
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I did not know that. You know why? Because manosphere still fangirls for him. And for fresh and fit. Though I admire Tate's aggressive capitalism, I'm not interested in him, I'm interested in people who purchase his mass produced alpha male shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:20 AM
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Where do you stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:18 AM
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Dude, im not your therapist. Away to 19 year olds you go
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:40 PM
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Anything, honestly. You can bird watch for all I care. What's unattractive is having nothing to do besides texting me and fucking me - lack of hobby makes my pussy dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:31 PM
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I think they are searching for somebody who will fuck them. Honestly the problem is overrated if your problem is getting sex just hire a hooker, if your problem is being liked $10M will not help
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:27 PM
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..To a 30 something year old who talks and thinks like a little teenage girl, he evokes my maternal instincts but not sexual instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:18 PM
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You don't have to if you don't want to. This is not North Korea. Advantages of dating women in their 30s: same stage of intellectual development, you can expect some degree of financial independence from her, disadvantages: you would want her younger, whatever that means Advantages of dating younger women: fresh and tight, disadvantages: you better pay for that, because nobody will hand out a college pussy to you for free. Sounds like you want a bunch of strangers to explain to you why 1 is bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:29 PM
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"Harvard is full of idiots" - whatever. What is more interesting is that you just identified a place which is not full of idiots or gurus in your world - and that was my initial point. These smart people in tech who replace manual labour with AI: maybe you could join them? This experience will be nothing if not humbling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:24 PM
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You absolutely need a high IQ to be a medical student, a law student or Ivy League student. There just isn't much to debate here. Harvard is full of very intelligent people. Not that revolutionary of a statement. Saying that they got on top of the food chain just because they "put up with shit" is an excuse used by people who would really want to be appreciated for their intelligence but are rejected. It's the same as fat women saying that hot women get tons of attention because the hot women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:46 AM
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Women are actually attracted to success though. BB is a category created by dudes for dudes to bash dudes, and if Elon falls under something that begins with "beta" don't you guys thing your category is slightly out of touch? So, yes to everything you said, except a woman will actually respect you and be attracted to you if you are competent so let's not get all doomy. The women you want to date will turn down an easy bag if it's coupled with you being a POS, the same way dudes we want to date w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:58 PM
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What gurus? No need to go to gurus, the western world has set up institutions to identify and train intelligent people. Ivy League universities are launchpads for people so smart I can not believe they exist. Or you can make friends with Wall Street sociopaths - they are anything but stupid. If you (or someone) have superb engineering abilities you can apply to SpaceX. Or not even SpaceX, you can apply for a posting at any functional organization, there is sectors and industries that have not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:43 PM
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But nasty women do not "hide" their nature. Nasty women use a different outlet for their aggression - specifically, they go after people's good standing/reputation by social manipulation. Male aggression is more physical, which takes an overt form by definition. A woman will smile you in the face and do awful shit behind your back because overt aggression will put her at a disadvantage, however it's horrible to fall victim to female bullying, I'll take male bullying any day. What I think is happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:00 PM
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Noticed how I am not using laughing emojis? That's because I'm treating you with human decency so we can have a better day than we otherwise would. What's up with the fucking laughing emojis in your community - the more behind the person is in life the more of these bloody clowning faces he puts in a row. Seriously don't do it I don't care how Tate got successful, he is not interesting to me even though he is a millionaire because I'm not on the streets starving. I know how men who I find attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:07 PM
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Neither gender values the other one for niceness. Nobody cares too much about you being a good person, but it goes both ways. I guess the dating market is brutal but fair? Let's say you are right on the first part, but it's just half of the story. The other half of the story - and here Is where I disagree with you - is that men do not care about niceness too, you guys admit yourself you care about youth/beauty. that's why there is so many relationships that don't work out because someone cheated…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:19 PM
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Dude, we decide who HVM is. Not you. Unless you are the one fucking them. Your job is to decide which women are attractive. And we - the target market - collectively decided that fresh and fit/tate both have unfortunate facial features, which is probably why they bitches about pussy all the time and also why they works out, you get it? Unlike a Chad next door they did not get enough of it. We don't like them - period, case closed. Not invalidating their success. Invalidating their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:02 PM
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No tryin to be smart over here because who the fuck am I, but I think if you got to 15M net worth you would be rich no matter what in any situation, and people who did not (all of us) are not gonna be rich no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:42 PM
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My family is overseas and I have no other option but to live on my own, but I think it's normal considering how difficult and expensive life is. The better question is why would not you live with your family if you are going to school and trying to get established + your family is functional? Like, that on its own does not mean a thing, if you are doing something with your life I would hope that girls super don't care. You are 22, so am I, it's not like girls my age are desperate to have a house…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:36 PM
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https://nypost.com/2021/10/02/martin-shkrelis-ex-christie-smythe-if-he-manipulated-me-im-glad-it-worked/ that's the one I read and it still haunts me. I don't know why I said Elle magazine she left her husband because "this relationship put limitations on her", and I was like... Isn't it like the whole point of getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:14 PM
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Yeah, that's true sometimes, but its the same for both genders. In fact, guys are even more fixated on looks, so now we are in the territory of "if you get screwed over it's always your fault". Somehow everyone wants to apply this set of rules to the other gender and never to their own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:18 AM
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you are saying: ill only date her if she fucks me soon enough if she makes me wait, I'll wait but after sex ill dump her You are incentivizing women to not have sex with you rather than have it with you sooner. You better be good at hiding this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:42 AM
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You are arguing in favor for making you wait + treat you like garbage in the process. Do you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:12 AM
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Average guys will take advantage of a woman too if presented a chance. I don't know who told you people that average dudes are morally better than top dudes. Among two shitty people I'll choose the prettier one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:01 AM
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For the same reason why Coca Cola can't *simply* charge 35$/can. You can't just set whatever price you want. Think economics and apply it to the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:56 PM
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Funny, I thought of Shkreli when I read the title. The woman you are talking about is ridiculously stupid, but is no more shitty than all of us, because rarely do people simp for goodie two shoes. A complicated troubled person will always attract more sexual attention than a church goer, both men and women want to fuck someone with an interesting twist. So, she is pretty average on morality, but she below average in intelligence as most of us are smart enough to not follow our impulses and not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:39 PM
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We can argue about where TY stands forever and we are not gonna agree so I don't see the point in debating something that's inherently subjective. Last sentence - if anyone wants to sit around in a classic TRP "there is no way to improve from 0 to 1 if you were not blessed with a good genetics" then I do not know how to help your community. I literally do not. This is just a new round of oppression olympics where now dudes engage in because they are lazy and want to justify their fears with eter…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:15 PM
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Yup, cool video AM - question of taste, he is above average so fair enough, but I think his singing just produces halo effect and really enhances it. Thom Yorke, lol, could for sure pass for one of those cool under-the-bridge people that I see when I drive around. He looks like a bum and he is like in his fifties, none of which is above average in attractiveness. But none of that matters, because here is the main point: We do not know how successful they would be had they been talentless, but if…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:30 AM
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Oh, gotcha. Yeah true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:02 PM
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I said that being a dance or a singer helps. I never ever ever said that not being a dancer or a signer will hinder anyone, so I do not have any doubts that you paved a different path to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:26 AM
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I do not follow. Can you relate it to my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:23 AM
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What I mean by logic is the process in which you first gather evidence and then formulate a belief system. Human mind is not designed this way, because we have too much personal bias in the way. What people do is exactly the opposite: they have a pre-existing belief system which is a product of their temperament, and they gather evidence to reinforce it. Like, we hardly have any say in what we feel or do, otherwise we would all implement our side business ideas and eat organic broccoli. From tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:21 AM
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Okay, I think I see what you mean. Like people are trying to take convenient bits of logic and throw em out there just to keep pushing their "biased" view or whatever, eh? Definitely seems to be a new thing people are into, yeah. I think they are kinda just copying their favorite youtubers and whatnot and it makes them feel.. cool? I don't think it's outstanding for someone to be arguing with the intention of trying to deduce something, or learn something, or even teach something. Yeah, definite…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:11 AM
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So your narrative is completely valid, but just like any ideology TRP/FDS capitalizes on it and dismisses the other narrative, which is just as valid as yours. One-sided truths (communism, feminism, anything -ism +TRP/FDS) are fast-food for mass consumption
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:15 AM
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This dynamics is not some ground breaking knowledge coined by TRP, it's the most basic law of sexual marketplace. Just because this community took somebody writing a book about it does not mean that the rest of us are ignorant and happy. We knew the trick all along. It's not the sub. It's the whole cultural landscape, where "rational" is the new black. They say: - baby's right to life takes precedence over your right to your bodily autonomy. I say: - my bodily autonomy takes precedence over baby…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:47 AM
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But I mean, if a lot of people in a room seem stupid to you, should not you be in a different room? It signals one of the following: a. you are not maximizing you intellectual potential, and sitting on your arse jerking your ego off, while you should be pursuing more complex endeavors with more intelligent people. b. you are just as stupid as everyone else + even stupider, because you are unable to recognize the fact that you belong here. None of that sounds good to me, and all of that sounds li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:21 AM
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And that is fine, but it has nothing to do with being logical, nor does it impose such burden. Which is my post. We are going in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:05 PM
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10s are more successful because looks are more obvious, NOT because looks are more powerful. Dudes underestimate the degree to which musical talent, artistic ability, high cognitive ability are captivating. Watch the number of chicks fan girling for musicians who are average at best - personally, I am obsessed with Thom Yorke, and it's like look at him. Frankly the front man of Arctic Monkeys is simply decent-looking but not more than that, girls in the comments to their clips/videos have litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:07 PM
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None of what you said has anything to do with my post which can be boiled down to: quit trumpeting rationality because anyone with a brain can prove you very quickly that you have close to none anyways. If you have more than an average person here, get a phd in sociology/psych/some other field from a serious institution, conduct your own research and quit wasting your potential on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:16 PM
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Congratulations, you are a Chad - not according to TRP, but according to actual women. This particular example is not luck: women are chronically attracted to men who can dance or play an instrument. Apparently ballet dancers slay mad poon (the ones who don't slay mad dick), so your situation is a rule, not an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:01 PM
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Logical is the new kind of woke
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:54 PM
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I don't actually agree with that. Ted Bundys of the world marry Beckies because they are willing to turn a blind eye on blood on their husband's laundry. And this is totally anecdotal, but I suspect we have a whole population of women accommodating psychos and pedos, so what people assume is luck might actually be an ugly trade off. Same with hookups: a sweet feminine 10/10 one night stand can drag a guy through nine circles of hell. I'd be cautious if luck in the face of a partner I objectively…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:35 PM
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Well yeah, that too: sometimes it's grounded in the wrong assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:20 PM
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You are nothing and nobody even if you provide sex. Try harder, I'm still miles ahead of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:12 PM
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When can't confront with evidence you fight with emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:06 PM
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No, I have a baseline value no matter who I do or don't lock down. Why do you think nobody will send me to fight in a war? Why do you think I can get sex all the time? Because I am valuable. And you are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:05 PM
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It's also hard to eat tree bark. But you also should not eat tree bark. If fucking around is hard for you, it's not for you: you are genetically unfit material, period, case closed. For Chads who do fuck around, it's easy by definition. What a fuck do you want us to do, applaud you shitting your pants to get crumbs of pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:24 AM
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Oh, yeah? Another healthy natural behavior for men is to provide for his low n-count meek partner who is not-like-us-college-sluts. What are you, a doctor, a lawyer or delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:11 AM
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But you aren't just pleasuring yourself, or, to be more precise, you are not pleasuring just yourself. If sex was just masturbation we would not have this sub, but the fact that people get so angry when arguing to one another shows pretty clear that sex has a ton of emotions/vulnerability mixed into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:33 PM
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Where did you get the information that: a. I think I'm hot. b. I am not as hot as I think I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:11 PM
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And young hot men can adapt just as fine in the current dating landscape. If you were with a successful 60 year old sugar mama you would not be faithful to her. Everyone wants B and is willing to settle for A for money. Which part of this makes men not want to marry us? The part where we don't desire old and rich, just like them? In that case, their illusion will be crushed and expectations will be adjusted with a couple of paragraphs from a biology textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:14 PM
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Right. But all dudes want to nut in you. So if I have to sit through this circus of them marketing their dick I'll gladly choose to be paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:42 PM
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I wish, but anecdotal experiences are pretty clear: the a person invests in you, the more he values you. If a woman is going to have kids it's smarter to make him value you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:41 PM
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I'll keep it short so I don't exhaust you with too many arguments. Excuse me my cynicism, this is what I don't get about the equality argument: one day I'll turn 35 and the same guys who trumpet "equality" among me and them will not even look at me, even if I have as much money+looks as them. It's almost like the equality is only brought up when my market value is higher, but once women hit like 30 this conversation ends very quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:37 PM
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Even if at some point you are interested in personal qualities, you are asking a woman out because of her looks. Why can't I ask a guy demonstrate his finances, before we jump to personality? And why would I demonstrate finances on top of looks? I am not a nonprofit after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:06 AM
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Tell that to all the cheating young wives of the world. Look, what I'm saying isn't new: everybody is sexually attracted to young and hot, generally speaking. Leo Tolstoy wrote a fucking novel about it 200 years ago, Anna Karenina - check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:57 AM
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Dude, we would not "pick over" we would "settle for". And option A should be grateful if we don't screw option B on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:28 AM
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She can, but it's short sighted. You are literally sitting across from a stranger with a goal: to nut in you with the least amount of expenses and move on. Why would you ever help him reach it? Women like that think: if I show him what I can bring to the table I will not be treated like a thing. Wrong. He will still treat you like a thing, just a multi-purpose one. OMG thanks for the award!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:12 AM
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When people make accusations about hypocrisy - this is what they are talking about: bitching about the problem and not following through with an easy solution. If you don't like litter don't litter. If you don't like being fat stop eating. If you don't like women don't date women. If you don't like overpopulation (the prediction of which everyone and your mama already knows was a huge flop in the scientific community)... There is an easy solution for that as well. "But what difference does it ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:40 PM
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Pretending is not better than truth, but it's the prerequisite for fucking with no commitment also known as dating. Seriously, people need to pick one: either they adopt responsibility and learn the truth (aka get married), or they don't adopt responsibility and play games just like the rest of us. If you don't want to/are not ready to/don't believe in adopting responsibility, then you are playing games by definition. You want to fuck me, I want to extract resources from you, you are sitting acr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:02 PM
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So how do you imagine it then? He asks about my sexual past, I ask how much $$ he is going to invest?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:42 PM
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Then how about we extend this analogy to me asking a guy how much money he makes and how many expensive dates he will take me out on? Romance is fun precisely because the two people are trying to read one another as oppose to blurting out THE TRUTH
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:23 PM
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I want prostitution to be legal. And you got the sequence wrong. The effort comes first, sex comes second. You can argue with it but as TRP frequently says "I don't make the rules"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:11 PM
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My idea of the past comes from the entire past. Most of what wealthy men did to women is classified as rape in America of 2022, simply because the woman was rarely asked if she agreed with the arrangement. For poor people there was more freedom, but poor people worked so fucking hard, you would be in the ER if followed an average person around for a week or two. Fun sex or mental health were never the priority, or you think what, husband and wife would have 2 hour conversations about why she fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:37 PM
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It's not idealistic to want fun sex. It's idealistic to think of it as a norm as oppose to deviation from such. Seriously, why do we think that most sex isn't dry sex in the dark bedroom? Because we watch too much porn, that's why. I understand that if that's my world you would want to hear it, but some things just can't be phrased in a way that's helpful and productive because they are not meant to be said. There is an obsession with "gOoD CoMmUnIcAtIoN" and it's sexy to be a good communicator,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:14 PM
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I don't like the word "complaining" as it's not exactly what I'm doing, but to answer your question If they want women to want to spin on their dick like a disco ball as soon as they walk into the room - yes, they are delusional. Not even "if they want", because every guy wants, but if they get resentful because they did not win the lottery. Very few men actually have this happen to them, but excuse me, an experience of female raw sexual attraction was not reserved for everybody and your dog. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:47 PM
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And to idealists like you I always ask the question: how do you envision the world where genders tell each other the truth given that modern people have so many requirements? In the past, men did not expect women to be attracted to them, dry sex in the dark bedroom was the norm. Women did not expect men to give a fuck about their emotional wellbeing, formal interactions with your spouse were the norm. Now, with all this pornography on top of social isolation on top Hollywood and Disney fairytale…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:20 PM
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Dude women sure complain about a lack of men to date but you don't fall under their definition of men anyways, whether they are 40 or 20
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:42 AM
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You give enough shit to write a full on comment about some vague corporate Karens. People who don't give shit pass by.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:07 AM
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Who should they prioritize? You? As Kendrick Lamar once said, bitch be humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:35 AM
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And I want to be purely evaluated based on my personality, but it sucks to suck because men can't isolate my personality from my looks. Requesting this is childish, because dudes are simply unable to deliver it. This is exactly how you sound. If we are talking raw desire the way men experience it, it's not something women can deliver. You can work on your physique and this will improve your chances to get hookups, these hookups will still be linked to her wanting to establish a relationship with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:11 PM
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IMO it's impossible, only like three crazy marxist academics believe social conditioning can override things like hunger, death, sex. Hardcore porn capitalizes on boy's existing biological impulses, going no gender roles or being unafraid of death runs against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:38 PM
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Before the introduction of birth control people thought of genders as more rigid categories than what they are now, and we can see how this shifted once women could control their reproductive function. Now from what I've observed people are starting to think that conversation about going no gender was and is premature. At our level of scientific advancement, gender roles are impossible to escape. I ain't no evolutionary biologists so someone more educated on the topic can correct me, but right n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:23 PM
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It's accurate. I think it's common knowledge. That being said: there is a fine line between observing the dynamics and implying that women as a gender should hand out participation trophies (aka date down) to men who failed to reach their level in terms of lifestyle. Overall, this conversation, even if it's intended to be neutral, gets highjacked by discriminatory, lazy, arrogant individuals who quickly lead it to the conclusion that women should not go to college if they want to have a happy re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:03 PM
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