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You seem to be dead set on telling men that they are condemned to date only a couple of years down and that isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:23 PM
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I see what you’re saying, but people can lie to make what they are doing sound like they are trying to help someone who is getting mistreated, but upon further inspection they just end up doing that to another class of people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/22 03:21 PM
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Yeah. Feminists. I was generalizing.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 05:06 PM
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If feminism ever dies I doubt it will come back because women don’t like to admit they ever make mistakes or pass wisdom onto younger generations. It would involve admitting that their decisions lead them to their results in life and they like to act like they are perpetual victims an nothing can ever be their fault. They like to place the responsibility of anything that doesn’t work out in their favor on men. If family culture makes a comeback, it may help rid us this cancer. If they outlawed o…
/r/MensRights16/06/22 08:12 AM
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You. Never presented anything. You literally proclaimed you were correct without proving anything. You think your declaration counts as some sort of law because you want what you are saying to be true because you think it would be beneficial to you if it was. It isn’t. You think you can scare men to getting with older women because women want men to be there for that. Every woman meets the criteria of being young at some point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:01 AM
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You can’t manipulate man into unseeing the truth or reality. I don’t deal with ego driven, superficial heartless females. If vanity and superficiality are her god, she doesn’t meet the internal criteria. I don’t care what a woman wants. I filter for what I want. If a woman doesn’t want me, I don’t deal with her. I am not into peacocking or creating interest, that is pathetic, disgusting, and degrading. They aren’t that important. If a woman thinks I have to prove myself to her, she is in for a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:31 AM
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Because you cited invisible studies. I was providing evidence of magazine articles talking about things people feel the need to write about as far as relationships are concerned. I thought you wanted counter information so you could adjust your point of view to include other information. I wanted you to be more well read so you can have a more informed perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:29 PM
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https://www.bonobology.com/older-man-younger-woman/ You are stating alleged studies in an attempt to brainwash me. No one is talking about that because it isn’t reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:14 PM
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I would argue that is it biology. If all men could get a beautiful young fertile woman when they are younger, most of them would. I do think the 2.7 year age gap is wrong. It could be an average and it could take in to account older ladies that tend to want someone their own age because they are getting older. Men understand if’s they are getting attention from the women they want. They are very aware. A lot of men are unsuccessful with women in their teens and early 20s and they don’t understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:11 PM
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https://graziadaily.co.uk/relationships/dating/younger-women-older-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:16 PM
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https://graziadaily.co.uk/relationships/dating/younger-women-older-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:16 PM
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You’re literally trying to deny the existence of women into older men by suggesting that it is some kind of small minority. It isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:56 AM
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I don’t care about convincing you to understand what I am saying. I was just explain it. Whether you want to accept what I am saying or understand what I am talking about isn’t my problem. I was just providing my perspective. You’re framing things in the way that you want to look at them. Just because some people can’t make things work or have unrealistic expectations or they want to impose the way they think or brainwash others to think in the way they want them to, that isn’t going to affect m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:41 AM
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They can do that is that is what they want and their priorities. Men can decide what they want to do as well though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:29 AM
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Women like experienced men. Men usually prefer a woman that they can give experiences instead of a woman that is jaded and has seen and done it all and isn’t impressed by anything and can’t appreciate anything you do for her because of her “preferences” and “standards” and she has dozens or hundreds of experiences to compare it to. Men don’t like to be compared and “competing” with other men for a long time relationship partner. If a man is pumping and dumping and is more about short term relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:28 AM
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Why would I, a man, care about women’s standards? If I do not meet a woman’s standards then I will not be considering the idea of a relationship with them. Plenty of women date older men. They aren’t being forced into dating them. They are getting men of all ages throwing themselves at them, so they do so if they choose so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:22 AM
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Leonardo DiCaprio isn’t beta buxxing. He was always a lady killer ever since he was younger. Personally I filter out materialism and shallowism when dealing with females. I would rather the human race end than me being with someone that views me as someone to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:19 AM
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I’ll be sure to cite that study when I decide what I think and how I navigate my personal life. Why would I care what a Debbie downer thinks and have my life dictated by their point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:17 AM
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Men don’t have to subscribe to women’s values. If men can and prefer women in their 20s or 18-19 teens when they are in their 30s and 40s then there is nothing women in their 30s and above can do to change what they want. You can’t shame people into wanting you. Maybe a guy wants to have a woman grow into who their are and spend their youth with them and take care of their family and have lots of children. Women that make a decision to deprioritize family earlier in life will miss out on those m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:11 AM
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We definitely need to look out for men’s interest, and not allow women and men that worship women to to derail the quest for looking out for men. There is a psychology term called women are wonderful effect. It basically means that people have a positive prejudice towards women thinking they are somehow more just or moral than men. It isn’t true. Women are just as capable of lying, deception, and evil as men are and it isn’t more rare among women. Arguably men are probably more ethical overall b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/22 02:24 PM
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You don’t give women the ability to taint what you think. Women have an in group preference that even if they agree with you, they still are going to have loyalty to women kind over men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/22 02:05 PM
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Mens’ prime is later than womens’ prime. Universally men agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:19 PM
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Am I supposed to use examples from my real life to strangers on the Internet? People that you couldn’t possibly know because we obviously don’t exist in the same local area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:25 PM
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Sure. What is the basis of your belief system?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:44 PM
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Men can get young and beautiful women well into their 30s, 40s, and even 50s. If he has high standards, he will be able to get younger women. Just don’t act how older people act.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:05 PM
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Yes. Never let anyone tell you differently. The second a woman stop sleeping with you or if she isn’t interested in getting with you as fast as she has in the past, leave (unless of course you find a virgin). I don’t benefit by telling you this. Don’t let yourself get used. Men regularly get used for their time/energy/favors/advice and problem solving/friendship/nonsexual attention and validation/creativity/money/life force. Don’t get with women that have slept around. A person is the kind of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:54 PM
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Have you ever heard of a generalization? Older successful men get with beautiful younger women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:48 PM
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There are plenty of examples of bigger age gaps. It’s been happening since the beginning of time. You do know that you don’t represent every woman right? All of Leonardo DiCaprio’s girlfriends have been 25 or under, even now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:46 PM
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Women get together with older men all the time. You’re telling me that you see women mostly with dudes their age or younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:45 PM
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This is hilarious that people say stuff like that. There are 65 million more men on this planet than women. If most men were like that, it would be very obvious.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 03:42 PM
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Women like older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:41 PM
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Because they are getting alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:38 PM
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I think I read that 80% of all dog attacks are by pitbulls. There is a commonality in distinctions that may contribute to similar outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:03 PM
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Dang guys. Be careful. I just got a message from Reddit about “promoting hate”. Also funny jokes.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 12:38 PM
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The just be yourself is actually great advice. Entry level TRP scratches the surface of this idea incorrectly because it doesn’t properly explain how to think about it. I am saying that the TRP is wrong about this. I am not shilling a product. I don’t need you to buy a course. I am telling you the real truth. You need to understand who you really are first before you can be yourself, your real true self. You need to purge any people pleasing tendencies you have out of your system. It is a habit …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:38 AM
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The just be yourself is actually great advice. Entry level TRP scratches the surface of this idea incorrectly because it doesn’t properly explain how to think about it. I am saying that the TRP is wrong about this. I am not shilling a product. I don’t need you to buy a course. I am telling you the real truth. You need to understand who you really are first before you can be yourself, your real true self. You need to purge any people pleasing tendencies you have out of your system. It is a habit …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:31 AM
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Yeah, Chris Rock said that on Tambourine. You can find better women, but you have to filter for character and her soul, instead of just looks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/22 02:44 AM
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The pook manifesto.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 02:20 PM
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Not surprised. Women can’t handle humor. People who get offended at jokes don’t have the capacity to understand them.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:05 PM
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In society, I think we should have equal opportunity. In relationships, you should have a an equal opportunity to explain your perspectives on things and let the other person be themselves. No nagging, as it is psychological abuse. I generally think that men are better at regulating their emotions and the man (or if the woman is more emotionally stable) should usually be the emotional leader. This means that if there is a dispute, the more level headed party is to diffuse the situation and bring…
/r/MensRights07/06/22 12:36 PM
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Just explain that her feelings do not change what is right and wrong and also her thinking she can get you to change with her feelings doesn’t leave you with a good feeling. You don’t like selfish people.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 12:18 PM
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They look at men as labor slaves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/22 03:23 PM
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Retool his belief system and believe in something above other people’s opinions. Also do stuff he is passionate about and don’t care about negative or positive comments from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:08 PM
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Correct. They created the problem of men and pitch themselves as the solution.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 04:57 PM
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Literally say that you don’t want to be manipulated and point out the manipulation. They get so enraged. “Oh my god. Why do you hate women?”.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 02:03 PM
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I disagree. It depends on who you are surrounding yourself with. Know that most people in general are not to be trusted and that certain things can only be shared with certain types of people. Never expect people to be better than they are. People aren’t basically good or basically bad. You need to pay attention. If you have a superior or a mentor, you might be able to accept guidance from them, so it might be appropriate to share what you have going on, so you can gain some insight on how to ha…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/22 02:54 PM
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They have never built anything, only able to move in the ranks of what men build by using the system to gain unearned accommodation and therefore never having to go through the necessary growth and having the necessary long term thinking and sacrifice required to be a great leader and build. It is not a sacrifice many of them are likely to want to go through, which is why you always hear them saying things about work life balance and having groundbreaking ideas and being a leader worthy of admir…
/r/MensRights03/06/22 06:37 AM
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Crazy how the default way they see all of these groups is victim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/22 03:10 PM
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Don’t talk like you are above him or that his perspective doesn’t matter because you are bringing in the money. Don’t emasculate him and make comments to make him feel like he is less of a man or that you are better than him. Materialism isn’t important. Who you are on the inside is what matters and why you are doing what you are doing. Just pay attention to what he might be thinking and not try to put things in a dynamic where you are his boss. You are a family and what you do is benefitting th…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 08:50 AM
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This is the only subreddit that I have been pretty honest about what I actually think. I was debating with some chick and she made my account get banned for “harassment” for responding back to her comments that she responded to my comments. I wasn’t sending her messages or anything. Feminists cannot debate because they are interested in control and power. That is why they are always trying to invent rules to bend you to their will. They do not believe in natural society. To them everything is a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/22 03:45 PM
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We should start calling a bad marriage rape commitment. “She led me to believe she would be a better wife. I want to sue for damages to my net worth, time, mental health, etc. I did not sign up for this.”
/r/MensRights31/05/22 07:38 PM
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Nice brainwashing attempt. Classic shaming tactic 101. Suggest the guy is either gay or can’t get laid. Men become immune to that as they get older.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 02:42 PM
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Sticking to your beliefs and having the balls to do what you think you should do is masculine. Being independent of other’s input and approval. The strength of your own resolve and mental toughness is masculine. Trying to prove yourself to other’s and trying to achieve social status is worrying about what other people think of you as and giving away your autonomy and power to other people. It is a submissive state of mind. Your choose your spiritual motivations. Other people guiding your thought…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:06 AM
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MRAs don’t admit that their opposition doesn’t care about misrepresenting them and using deceptive tactics to dominate them and gain leverage and control over situations involving men. You have to understand how the opposition thinks to effectively be able to outthink them. You also have to be honest about white knights and other men that will work against men’s interest in order to protect all women’s advantage. They don’t realize what rabble rousers and demagogues are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/22 07:31 AM
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That sounds like carelessness. If you are really masculine, you are grounded by morals, ethics, values, and principles. That means that you use your values as a way to determine what you care about. You go by what you think is right, not by some cartoonish portrayal of what you think seems cool. Chasing an image of vanity or trying to seem cool or portray a certain image is actually driven by femininity and insecurity. Being concerned by what you think other people think is weak. True inner stre…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:22 AM
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Yeah, until men smarten up and realize that the most important traits in a woman are he behavior and true character. Women that have a good soul are valuable. If a woman is shallow and manipulative and materialistic, to me she is worthless. It is important to see yourself past vanity and materialism. That is why they are both condemned in all of the the religions.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 07:13 AM
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Conscientiousness isn’t a feminine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:20 AM
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What is persuasive about your views to men? What is in it for them? I don’t particularly feel my spirit lifted by reading why you’ve typed. Men don’t want to be mentally policed by women. That is called nagging and is a form of psychological abuse. I don’t seek approval from women. There is nothing wrong with being a man or the way that a man naturally is. There is also nothing wrong with a man being different than a woman and thinking differently than women, because he is a man. Just because yo…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 07:55 AM
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No one is taking away your rights. Rights come with consequences, so be careful on which decisions you make. Men aren’t going around abusing women. Most guys are actually overly nice to women at the detriment of their own self worth and dignity. There will always be bad things that happen in this world. I don’t typically hear a lot about sex trafficking, but men get trafficked too. I believe it is usually little kids. It is sad. Be careful of the thoughts you think. “The things you think about d…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 07:44 AM
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I understand you perspective. I just disagree with it. We have different perspectives and experiences. I am not going to change how I think to suit what you want. I don’t care whether or not you agree with me. I am not making women’s points of view the focus of my life. I am the main character in my life. A woman could never be anything but a side character in my life. A woman could be an awesome and valuable side character, but I’m never going to let her think for me. I enjoy thinking too much.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 07:36 AM
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I think you would be surprised at how little men would care to stop you. What would be the point? Why not do something that I enjoy instead?
/r/MensRights30/05/22 07:31 AM
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Then if you want to be left alone by men, why would you search out a men’s rights page? It doesn’t seem to go along with your previously stated statement of wanting to be left alone. No one twisted your arm to get you to this page. You can express your thoughts like anyone else, but literally no one forced you over here (as far as I can tell).
/r/MensRights30/05/22 07:27 AM
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Again. You made no points. You just proclaimed yourself to be smart. You are can’t brainwash me. You’d have to be cleverer than that. “You ain’t gonna change no one’s mind with what they want. Women want to be free. You won’t see them back down and you have never seen them back down.” I never said anything about caring about changing women’s minds. Go be free. Women can choose however they want to behave, but I do not have to accept any and all behavior and motivations that I disapprove of. Just…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 07:24 AM
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“A man has left the plantation of exploitation and serfdom. He doesn’t worship all of these queens. This peasant must be re-educated. He must be an incel.” You just don’t have a compelling argument. That is why you didn’t point out the flaws in what I said and instead just proclaimed your own righteousness, based on no virtues.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 07:03 AM
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So why is it that when a man who learns about certain knowledge and understands a lot of things they were kept in the dark about, they start to understand life a lot more. Also what does whether someone has had sex or not have to do with anything? Are you saying that you determine someone’s worth based off if they have had sex or not? That is the only reason that you can possibly use incel as an insult. “You’re only valuable if you’ve gotten sexual validation from a woman”. That is using women a…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 06:43 AM
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Never. You tell your friend his girl is a cheater. Never betray your friends or allow them to be betrayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:23 PM
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Dude, tell your friend to not let women manipulate him with sex either by giving it to him or not giving it to him. If a woman makes you wait longer than the quickest she has had sex, leave. The only exception for this is if she is a virgin, which she isn’t. If she makes certain rules for you that she didn’t make for other guys, she isn’t as into you and instead enjoys using you for your nonsexual attention. If she was into you sexually, she would be sleeping with you because it is something tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:18 PM
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There are social consequences for men being emotional. That is a fact. Men aren’t trained to be mentally strong and understand manipulation and resist people trying to coerce you into working against your own interests. Men try to do what is right a lot of times and end up suffering and women a lot of times end up “doing what is right for you”, even if it is immoral or done through deceptive or Machiavellian tactics. The thing you are missing is that men aren’t allowed to have a point of view or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/22 04:25 PM
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Social domination unfairly over men. They want unearned and undeserved advantages and privileges and they don’t see they men they take from as human beings. They don’t understand that you can try and even try your hardest and fail and they want life on easy mode and compare themselves to the most capable and elite level men. Other men that are doing the same as them or worse, don’t register as mattering to them.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 09:21 PM
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If they didn’t get any privileges or opportunities reserved for being a women, you might have a point. Men built everything without having anything reserved for them. Not all men were great, but there were always great men.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 08:32 PM
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Depends on what you filter for before and during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:18 PM
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It is a manipulation tactic used to use guys they don’t want to have sex with and shows they don’t mind being in a selfish one-sided relationship where they don’t care if they are depriving the guy of physical intimacy because they just don’t care about giving it to him. If a woman is iffy on sleeping with you, just leave. If she makes demands for you to have sex (chore sex), leave. A woman should be loving and giving towards you. She shouldn’t just come around to take. That is a disgusting way …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:14 PM
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Another mainstream news attack on men demonizing being a male, also with no compassion for what it is like being certain kinds of males. When men are constantly emasculated since birth and not allowed to behave naturally in a way that displeases women or some other authority and they haven’t been raised to have and dignity or self respect, and been constantly forced to submit against their will to some thing or other, that can bother people. It is unnatural for the male of a species to be so pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:39 PM
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Those guys were chosen to have sex with and selected to get married in the first place. Other dude’s don’t get the chance because they have been filtered out of even considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:29 PM
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Women usually can’t conceive the average man’s experience in dating until they get older. Asking the fisherman is a good rule because they know what they are doing. Women think of the kind of guy they want to date and give you advice based on what they wish the guy would do usually. They don’t take your goals or give you advice where you can win. They think from the perspective of the women for her to win. That is why women’s dating advice is usually bad. Women like to critique your thought proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:22 PM
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You are choosing the kind of guy that you spend time with in the first place. Choose better kinds of guys. Don’t chase the tingles. If you deliberately choose a guy and then decide not to treat him right because he there is a chance he might be a jerk, you still aren’t being the person you should be for the kind of guy that you would want, unless of course you want to chase excitement. Chasing excitement won’t lead to a man really liking or caring about you. We don’t want to be a woman’s enterta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:03 PM
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If a woman is virgin, you would prefer that. You don’t want a woman that sleeps around, but she should really desire you and not make you wait a long time. Genuine desire cannot be negotiated. If she makes you wait longer than the shortest amount of time she made other dudes wait, she doesn’t desire you as much as her past lovers. Impulse control is important, but her doing it to have control over you is another story. Low n count is important. The lower the better, but making rules for you isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:09 AM
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Read the book the manipulated man by Esther Vilar and she outlined how women use religion to control men. Your friend is definitely going to get cheat on. He actions already prove she doesn’t desire him, she can restrain herself from getting with him. She is past 30, the phase where women decide they want to settle had probably been incoming. They have their wild sexual years and then settle down with someone who will provide financial security, someone who is safe. Internal characteristics are …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:49 AM
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That is a very interesting theory, however, is would like to dispel that theory. It is incorrect. Men want a woman that desires them. The way she treats you will tell you how she feels about you. If I have to pass some sort of test, it turns me off and I will never talk to that woman again. Some people don’t care about being misleading or lying and expecting men to be a mind reader or win some stupid power game that most men aren’t even aware that a woman would try to play with them. Most men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:56 PM
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Maybe point them towards Warren Farrell’s books The Myth Of Male Power and Women Can’t Hear What Men Don’t Say. After you make them see the light then teach them about manipulation and brainwashing so they can be aware of how they are being manipulated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 04:10 PM
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Their minds are asleep. You might be able to shock their system by showing them what they sound like. Mock the idea of what they are doing, not them directly. If they are still brainwashed by the feminist agenda, they probably do not understand what they are doing or how they are being. Shame is a way to train children how to learn. Do you think that ends when you become an adult?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 03:01 PM
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How to get the white knights to convert? Take their position in an overly enthusiastic and naive sounding tone and exaggerate how perfect and incapable of fault or evil women can be. Mock their position by comedically showing how dumb it is by taking it seriously. Maybe even say stuff like, “men matter to” or “don’t lay yourself down on a puddle to keep these queens shoes from getting muddy”. Basically use comedy to make fun of the idea that is stupid, but don’t do it in a way to directly bash t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 11:32 AM
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Just tell the guy that you felt that you felt he might have been flirting with you or you that you may have detected some signs of interest and that you just wanted to make sure that you let him know where you stood because you didn’t want to give him the wrong idea. Tell him you don’t want to accept any other guy’s romantic advances or flirting, because it would be spiritually and emotionally cheating and psychologically cheating if you were enjoying it and you are firmly against that kind of s…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/22 02:34 PM
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It is sad, but you have to think smart when you are dealing with possible dishonest and conniving people and an unjust system.
/r/MensRights21/05/22 02:29 PM
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Also maybe try Pook from sosuave. He had a lot of good advice, but he doesn’t have a YouTube channel. You would have to find the books of his work on the internet. I have watched Richard Cooper and MTR as well. They are okay. That is good surface level RP information. MTR has some good insight, but I differ from him philosophically. Sandman literally came up with the term red pill rage. He is very insightful. Everyone else has mentioned it. Undead Chronic mostly just roasts people with comedy. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:12 PM
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What gives you that impression of those content creators?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:44 PM
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Undead Chronic and sandman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:10 PM
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For men: pay attention to who she is as a person. Her looks will fade over time . Her internal characteristics are who she really is. For women: think about the kind of guy that you decided to give a chance. You know what kind of guy that is. Don’t punish new guys for your bad filtering of the past. The new guys you date aren’t responsible for your past experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:09 PM
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Start periodically and documenting different good interactions in your relationship and if there are any bad interactions, try to record them as well. Also if you have children, please try to periodically record you spending time with them and them loving you, so you don’t ever get accused of other negative accusations involving your children.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 10:26 PM
2

Say, “I’m flattered that you like me, but I am in a relationship and I don’t feel comfortable having other men flirt with me. I don’t want to disrespect my man like that, so I would really appreciate if you would please not flirt with me”. That sounds respectful to me. It acknowledges that you understand that he likes you, but you are already spoken for and don’t even want other men’s romantic attention because you value your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 10:22 PM
-1

Nah, you’re projecting your insecurities onto me. Men like to look after and protect their woman. This involves her body, emotions, mind, and spirituality. I know it might seem foreign to a lot of people to care about the person they are with so deeply, but fully actualized men love very very deeply and want to make sure they can be there for their woman and help he grow in the right direction. It is hard to teach someone to unlearn bad habits and incorrect beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:36 PM
1

Watch older stand up comedy before everybody because too overly PC.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 07:10 PM
9

Learn the difference between a man liking you and a man liking to have someone to have sex with. Many women cannot tell the difference. Going after super hot dudes or super successful guys, you have to be realistic of what you look like without make up and what kind of partner you are and what you bring to his life (not talking about materialism).
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 05:01 PM
-1

Not really. It has to do with being able to have first experiences with someone and be special to them. Women are more open minded and have less baggage which puts a strain on a relationship and they feel like they are fighting the biological clock, so that puts unneeded pressure on a relationship with a man and older women tend to be less understanding that men have their own perspective that is different than theirs. Older women try to shame men that date younger because they are out of those …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:31 PM
-15

Just say “I was trying to express my interest and shoot my shot”. Stop caring about their whining. Stay in your own point of view and tell them to stop slandering your name.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:09 AM
2

This is what happens when you let other people think for you or you need their approval to stay firm in your opinion. Don’t listen to what people say, watch what they do. Society should never have bowed down to groups inferiority complexes and systematically kneeled to them. You can overcome tuning out nonsense, legislating nonsense and having a committee of disingenuous, whiners is where the problem comes in. Most people are dumb. This is why group ideas and collectivism is cancer to society. R…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/22 01:07 AM
1

It depends on how much they entertain incoming attention as well. You can easily spot if it is good girl “game” (manipulation) because she thinks that is what you like or the character she is trying to portray. Her values and behavior coupled with intention (the why of her actions) if added to your solid understanding of yourself will lead you to being able to read other people’s motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:39 PM
2

If they are a social butterfly, that is also a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:23 PM
4

Yes. If a woman is extremely overly confident in regards to sex and if she is arrogant, you can be sure she has been around the block. Also if she is attracted to drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:12 PM
1

Just think of it as bowing down to female authority at the expense of your own self respect, dignity, principles, ethics, and values. Defending women’s points of view in order to gain favor and denying common male experiences in the process is definitely simping because of what the acronym of SIMP stands for. Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pussy. A mediocre sheathing area is mediocre because of the the community nature of the facility and also because of the lack of integrity and valuable characteris…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:09 PM
0

That isn’t even realistic. The setting for that book doesn’t fit into the real world. Also that book doesn’t represent men’s behavior in our technological society. Men are happy not having a woman trying to have power over him. There are certain things a man can agree to, but combativeness isn’t worth putting up with. Someone who wants to constantly nag, nit pick, critique and give unasked for negative input because of their selfishness and lack of understanding of the way the guy thinks or what…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:00 PM
1

Men only find that kind of content after suffering through a manipulative woman. Pain forces men learn how to avoid putting up with BS. It is inconceivable to a man that a woman tries to “test” his manhood (disrespect him) until he is repeatedly met with challenges to his authority in himself. Also no one teaches men how to have dignity and self respect, so that also has to be learned later in life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:53 AM
0

Interesting that brought up lord of the flies, there were no women ruining any of those boys lives. I don’t understand how that involves interpersonal relationships between men towards women. Men treat women more kindly than they do to other men, so that also makes no sense. Yeah, but those are specifically female problems in mean girls as well. Men never have any problems like in mean girls without women. Not all women are evil predatory bimbos, but it is good for men to not be naive to women b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:49 AM
10

I was just called an incel on a subreddit for saying that respect is earned and not given to you because you have a pulse. You have to stand on the strength of what you say. I said, how is that being an incel? I never said I can’t get laid. They said “I diagreee”.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 02:47 PM
0

Yeah, it’s a boy who cried wolf scenario. Certain types of people try to demoralize and re-characterize what other people say or do to their point of view without understanding the context of those actions in the other persons point of view and what they are doing and trying to accomplish. If someone is trying to accuse me of Xyz, but the context was different than they are accusing me of, I am not going to humor that perspective. For example, I cannot say “because you are a child” if I was in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:39 PM
-1

No, men don’t really have these kinds of problems in the absence of women. If you have ever watched mean girls, you can see on an extreme and exaggerated level of certain kind of problems that men don’t typically have without women. You think men understanding how people use psychology against them is toxic. It seems to work for interrogators and lawyers. Being aware of deception and manipulation is a good way to protect your mental clarity and peace. Men cannot think clearly when they are emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:26 PM
0

Because people that constantly accuse people of those things are so in creative that they cannot conceive of anything different from someone they have a bias against. For example, if a woman or a minority gets into a situation with someone that is the same as them in the exact same way as someone in a different category, they don’t accuse that person of those things. Having double standards like that is an indicator of that kind of prejudice or an in group bias. Only an intellectually lazy perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:15 PM
-1

Who said anything about being toxic. I take care of who I am with. I also have standards for the behavior, heart, and soul of the person I am with. I am not in the business in trying to change people. If you are unpleasant, I leave. I don’t have to put up with an attitude or someone trying to make me their workhorse. I don’t ask for anything I am unwilling to give and I also a don’t deal with selfish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:05 PM
0

Most of the time the person accusing someone of racism or sexism is projecting their own way of thinking on other people. They think everyone thinks like them because we think we are the standard for how to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:30 AM
0

Doesn’t it just make me aware of manipulation? Men don’t like being jerked around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:28 AM
10

Because they hate to see a free man and manginas don’t understand how to feel like a man outside of female or societal validation. They would rather you follow the way (a pre-established path chosen for you at your expense) over your own way of your own design and tailored to your own value system. Most people are afraid of individuality and integrity because they will have to face others disapproval and they hold being popular as a a virtue instead of going with what they believe in because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:20 AM
2

Don’t let the person you’re with mold who you are or lie to get someone to like you. Use protection and get people tested. Be fun and playful. Don’t let people project their insecurities onto you and make you question who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:56 PM
1

Okay beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:13 AM
1

If the beard thing didn’t prove your femininity, this exchange certainly highlighted it. Your natural beard make up can’t hide your lack of internal manliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:07 AM
1

You’re the one dancing around trying to get attention because someone had a different opinion about something trivial that doesn’t affect your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:02 AM
2

Whatever helps you sleep at night, princess. Not taking this exchange to heart. Show me where the other person’s opinion touched you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:01 AM
1

Why are you so emotionally invested in this? Fine. Men constantly checking to see in their beards is reminiscent of women checking on their make up. And manicuring it and meticulously checking to make sure they look nice. Is taking a light hearted jab at an observation of what people do as an excuse to get one’s meat curtains wrinkled up and bent out of shape, masculine? I don’t have a need for a committee to approve of my perspective for me to be able to hold it, nor do I start drowning in my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:56 AM
0

What does wiping it away have to do with what I said? Very strong argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:13 AM
4

Look up drake without a beard or basketball players without beards and see what I am talking about. It is night and day. Or type in beard vs clean shaven. It is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:13 PM
1

You must be a good woman then. I’m sure that as long as you appreciate your man and let him know that you do, you should have the ideal criteria successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:11 PM
14

I believe that having a beard is actually feminine because it is a way to hide your physical flaws and poor bone structure. I know I am in the minority in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:41 PM
21

It is just a word used for manipulation. It is a character assassination attempt to make you have to try and defend yourself and you can’t disprove a negative. Here’s a tip: You know what is right. Never let anyone tell you who you are or what you mean. Some people are fools. You have to be okay being hated or disliked or misunderstood. Don’t let it get to you. Their delusional belief system is their problem. That is just assuming that they legitimately think you are actually a misogynist. They …
/r/MensRights07/05/22 04:32 PM
1

I’m happy for you guys. Make sure you treat him right and don’t play stupid power games to emasculate him and “test his manhood.”. The chad and Tyrone thing is really an abstraction for an idea of a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:01 PM
1

Those are any two real people. Those are a filler for a hot guy that lots of women want to sleep with. Asian dude: Chan
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:56 PM
1

You didn’t say anything funny yet. You having an opinion isn’t funny. Saying things that are funny is a completely different thing. So you’re saying you’re trolling? If you were, that can be funny, but I definitely think there would be better ways to do it. I might recommend practice. It is going to be hard to get feedback on being funny as a woman unless you’re older because young women are lied to about how people really feel about them. I refuse to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:45 PM
1

I don’t care about you mischaracterizing me as racist. It is a simplification of an idea of a hot or elite man. It isn’t racist. Just because you might not understand my point of view, it doesn’t means you should try to slander my character. Those stock examples are nothing personal. I could have added Abdul, Talik, Chan, Ignacio or any other names of other stereotypical group. I used those for simplicity. I don’t care for other people nit picking what I say. We just use this two examples to rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:41 PM
1

Solipsism has nothing to do with this. I know what it means. You are solipsistic. I am Not going to be with a fat woman. I am not attracted to fat women. Women don’t get a say in this. If it is a medical condition, that would be addressed. 95% of people don’t have that. Also, if you have that bad of a medical condition, it is very unlikely you will be picked. Men like fit and in shape women. Go to the gym. Squat three times a week. Your mindset is feminism. You think you get a say in what men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:33 PM
2

Male and female friendship is a myth. They cannot really be friends.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/22 07:48 AM
1

It isn’t even the main concern, but it isn’t something that is unimportant. You cannot manipulate men into being okay with their women letting themselves go. Allowing yourself to become unattractive is a slap in the face to your man. He would have chosen a different woman if he knew you would value laziness over staying attractive for him. That isn’t the only unattractive idea that you had right here. The mindset you have in regard to men would automatically bar you from having any really good m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:23 AM
1

A chad is hot guy, most of the time it’s in reference to a hot white dude and and Tyrone is a hot black guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:57 AM
1

Why does pleasing her man make it a bad things. Sounds like an unloveable woman to me. I think it is better if people are conscious of trying to stay not fat for each other. They didn’t get with a fat person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:58 AM
1

Names.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:56 AM
1

For diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:29 PM
1

Common names used to refer to a physically elite or desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:16 PM
1

An ideal of a super hot guys that sleep with the most women because of their lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:53 PM
1

That is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:43 PM
1

That isn’t a very smart conclusion. It is a stereotypical cultural name for a black American. What is racist about that? I know plenty of dudes named Tyrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:42 PM
1

So a woman’s husband’s point of view means nothing? Sounds like a person like that doesn’t love her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:40 PM
1

Aging is acceptable, obesity is avoidable. What is wrong with taking care of yourself. Men like fit women, they can skip the make up. Men don’t like fake women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:04 AM
-5

I don’t. However sloth is a sin and I prefer virtuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:02 AM
-5

Well not every guy is a chad and a hit with the ladies like Mr. Natural chad and Tyrone. I was saying that the guy judges himself negatively because his woman decided to allow herself to become less appealing and it wasn’t a big deal to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:33 AM
-1

Yeah, because women don’t have any flaws and men’s preferences are just oppression. Women are perfect little angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:21 AM
-2

Not every guy has good confrontation skills especially when it comes to women automatically. If a woman is is nagging, or controllling, or she she explodes being overly emotional with things she doesn’t like happening, the fallout of the situation might be too much for the guy to withstand. Men aren’t taught to be mentally strong anymore because they have been raised by domineering women for the most part and have been emasculated by the school system and society. For future reference, men don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:16 AM
1

I wasn’t implying that women are mostly good or that men are bad. I was saying that you have to be observant enough to detect deceit, evil, and parasites. I want men to succeed. I agree that the majority of people aren’t very appealing to me and the motivations for the majority of people disgust me. There are a lot of people that are users and you must be ruthless in kicking them to the curb. I don’t think it is forgivable to waste time in someone else’s life playing stupid mind games. I would r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:24 AM
7

Men need to learn to vet why a woman is with them. Her being with you doesn’t mean anything if it is for the wrong reasons. That is how you avoid getting a bad woman. You literally have to see if she is with you for superficial materialistic reasons and filter those types of women out. Sometimes life can get hard and you if pick someone who is going to leave you because you might be going over one of life’s hurdles, you chose a bad choice. When men get older they eventually learn to filter out w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:38 AM
2

Focus on liking yourself and being unapologetically yourself without worrying if anyone else accepts you. Be unwavering in your youness and refuse to change to accommodate other people’s preferences. Don’t dampen your enthusiasm about things you are passionate about or pretend to be into things you are repulsed by. Have your own principles, ethics, morality, values that you live by because you believe in them even it it means you end up isolated and alone (sticking to your own principles is masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:18 AM
4

Vet for character. Treat them how their behavior dictates they are. Stop treating them so nicely if they are being manipulative or disrespectful. You can show common courtesy, but respect is earned. Remove yourself from disrespectful women and stop accepting friendship so they can take free attention/nonsexual attention/your energy, effort or time/your life or exploit you. Male and female friendship is a myth. What do you really have in common with women that you couldn’t have a better time with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:39 AM
0

Hit the gym and get jacked and then stop listening to what women tell you that they want. Decide what kind of person you want to be and if they don’t like it, they can kick rocks. Just make sure you aren’t being selfish. It isn’t that difficult. There are superficial and shallow women, just like men. Learn to vet character. Who someone is on the inside (inner beauty) is more important than what they look like on the outside. Figure out what is motivating their behavior and if it is shallow or ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:58 PM
2

Guys don’t look at it as a social status thing. That is weird. Why would you care what other people look at you as?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:49 PM
2

The whole men are blinded by sex and pleasure said by women is a projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:16 PM
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