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JustAnotherBoomer/r/MGTOW02/01/20 01:58 PM
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You can not be far enough way from her orbit of destruction. Sounds like she has no one to unload to - as in friends. Does she even have any? She certainly sounds like a mess to me. I worry about her parenting skills.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 03:44 PM
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What her AP didn't know was he was not only getting her he was also getting all our debt. In her affair fog mixed with a measure of guilt, she offered to take all our debt with her. Inflation adjusted it equaled 30k, and I was not making great money. She needed a separation agreement ASAP--he was getting nervous at this point. So I agreed to one, and I insisted this debt be detailed in the agreement. She got her guy and even paid for the divorce. Weeks after the separation agreement, he found ou…
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 02:38 PM
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My ex-wife left me and stated I am not a "good provider." At the time, I did not know what to say. 45 years later, she 71, divorced a second time, and living in an apartment. She is retired and has about 10k in savings-- according to online source. I, too, am retired, live in a house with a paid mortgage, and have 800k in savings. So she was wrong. I am a good provider when I only provide for myself. -
/r/MensRights23/12/24 09:20 PM
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She doesn't want "consistency"; she wants control. I am sure you have experienced this "has to be my way" behavior before.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 04:01 PM
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The problem is that if he does divorce her, \he may be financially responsible for her care--which costs a lot
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:52 PM
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At 69, I have been alone for most of my adult life. At times, I have experienced depresstion. I suppose this is natural. However, I have never felt more alone, isolated, and depressed than when I was in a marriage just like yours.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 01:12 PM
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Just think of the embarrassment her two children and husband must feel.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/24 02:13 PM
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God no, I would never marry someone like her. I love financial security above all else, and that means staying away from someone like her. I wouldn't even date someone like this.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 06:48 AM
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No one had a gun on me. She proposed. All I had to say was no!! What a tragedy.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 07:55 PM
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The event was terrible!! And here it is; we got married.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 02:27 PM
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You sound like a rock solid guy to me. I think the real lesson here is that some people change. This is the greatest problem of marriage and the scariest part. The person you marry may one day be a total stranger, and there is nothing you can do about it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 06:51 PM
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Oh no, I don't. And what gives you the right to even state this? You didn't even read the f*****g book!! Sometimes, IT IS ONE PERSONS FAULT. Other times, it is not.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 05:12 PM
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Here is a good read: In Sickness: A Memoir by Barrett Rollins His wife Dr.Jane Weeks, founded Dana-Farber's Center for Outcomes and Policy Research. She was famous in the medical field But she made his life Hell in regard to his relationship with his daughter from a previous marriage. He still has regrets. Great book on loss and marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 01:20 PM
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Mine does sometimes. I think of it as her revenge for not loving her. In my defense, I did thoroughly like her early in the marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 11:55 AM
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There are many good points here, but there's one thing I like to add. For many, a wait and see attitude is just not on the table-- who can live on the edge like this; it would drive me nuts.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 03:58 PM
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Good move. Just keep in mind that this order will not protect you against someone as crazy as she can be. Have protection of some kind and a plan.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 02:14 PM
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Now, how doing that old joke go? Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 07:35 PM
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Once a comment like "you are the love of my life" becomes equivalent to "where do you hide the AAA batteries this time?," then you will reach the promised land.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 07:19 AM
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Nope, neither is being wrongfully accused of rape or domestic violence. This is just the road we are on.
/r/MensRights15/06/24 01:54 PM
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Get her out of your head. If you keep picking at a sore, it will never heal.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 05:57 PM
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Your post is so sad, but that last sentence is a heartbreaker. Everybody read it again or don't. It's that sad. Hopefully, she will find someone else soon, and the more enthralled she becomes, the better. This way, she will have less time for the kids, and you will have more. Somehow, someway, you will always find a way to be a great Dad. This I am sure of.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 01:52 PM
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Now about this "women on women female violence"issue. The real question is this: would a woman rather be alone in the woods with either a man or a bear or a angry lesbian?
/r/MensRights29/05/24 12:11 PM
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Good, eventually, there will be no men to hate, and they will turn on each other. Women love drama.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 02:59 PM
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"If they had equal custody, they were the enemy" Just imagine the legal fees her Ex had to pay.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 03:16 PM
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What a delusional woman! A 50+ woman with no real career path expecting to score big on the singles scene.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 08:47 PM
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Thanks, I supected there was a good story involved. I really doubt she will find the wealthy guy of her dreams. Generally, wealthy men are not stupid, and she seems unregulated and uses poor judgment. Most will see through her.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 03:33 PM
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Super great post!!! Could you tell us more about "freaked out" part. What did she say?
/r/MensRights25/02/24 06:30 PM
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I'm with you, but for many STBXW's, this would never work. How does a girl experience a dopamine rush by buying index funds? A 400.00 handbag is much more exciting than 2 shares of VIG. Really, though, what divorce does to long-term financial planning is blasphemous.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 08:37 AM
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Blew it on what? Maybe this will be my first big laugh of 2024.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 04:36 PM
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The OP is right. You should be more supportive. Not marrying again is not as easy as some believe--not if you are still dating. I have been pressured many times over the 33 years since my divorce. Women will pressure you!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 05:48 PM
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I am not saying you are not contributing what you can. However, I would guess that your lack of income is a major contributor to her dissatisfaction with this marriage. No matter what some people claim, most women do not like to be the breadwinner. Many grow to resent it. I have witnessed this again and again. I hope she is supportive of you during this transition.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 05:23 PM
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I listened to this month ago. I love the part about the few women being shocked that will have pay Alimony!!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 02:04 PM
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" Instead, he sat at home watching made for TV christmas movies." Way to go, dude, you are my hero!!!
/r/MensRights14/10/23 01:59 PM
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I knew this divorce news would make it on this sub reddit !!!! I am so glad that I'm right. First Ashton and Mila and now this. In this world, you are on your own. Marriage, what a joke.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 08:08 PM
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What you have planned is perilous and is potentially life altering. Repeat the following again and again until it sets and hardens. Women change. This could seriously fuck your life up. She could take your kids and your financial future. You are no youngster. You'll never recover.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 11:18 PM
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For every one of us, there are two married men with wives waiting and hoping for the day these dudes die.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 06:49 AM
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She should now help others and give them a leg up.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 10:14 PM
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She will be eligible for parole in 4 and a half years.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 12:25 PM
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Some people were meant to be parents and you are one of them. I am very happy for you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 08:10 AM
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She spoke to some very inflammatory female attorney when she was shopping for an attorney to represent her during the prenup and that crazy bitch put all sorts of dumb shit in her ear. And if you divorce she will find another aggressive attorney to represent her and they will put more dumb shit in her ear. I can tell you what the "what if I get into a accident and can't work" is all about. She is working a angle on you. Alimony should not even be on the table. She wants it there.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 11:53 AM
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Welcome to the world of online dating. Your ex is a very good example of what is available and is why most of us stay clear of the format
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 09:54 PM
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Leverage , scheming, oh yes I know this type well. This is why you never tell them your secrets.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 12:41 PM
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Exactly how much will your Ex miss that money?
/r/MensRights18/05/23 12:13 PM
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She had decided to take care of my daughters while I’m at work which is fine bcs I don’t want to come between them even though legally I can. The judge gave her 90 days to leave my house and she’s still here and has 7 more days left. She is not in a position to decide anything and you need to hire someone ASAP. Give her normal visitation rights about two days a weeks and that's it. Get her out of your house now. This woman is up to something.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 12:46 PM
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Wow the lawyers--75, 000 for yours and your STBXW will pay the 150, 000 for hers? Does she have a good job? Marriage is such a waste of resources.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 01:14 PM
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We did go to trial and she didn’t get anything Great story!! How did you come on top when so many other men on Reddit did not? Was it the state you live in, or how long were you married or did she work?
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 08:47 PM
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No they are not victims they are victors. I am on your side . However, I think for the most part they are beating us fair and square and this is something we (men) really need to look at. I heard on NPR that in the USA men 40% of men 25-30 are living with their parents. The rate for women was far less. This link is from Brookings https://www.brookings.edu/blog/up-front/2021/10/08/the-male-college-crisis-is-not-just-in-enrollment-but-completion/ We need to understand why this is happening. I susp…
/r/MensRights05/02/23 02:42 PM
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Is birth control pill turning women into lesbians and bisexual. I don't know. but all we can do is hope.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 09:03 AM
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I think women tend to be more social. I do not think their friendships are deeper however. I have met so many shallow women. Many of these women had no real friendships with women at all--which is always a flag. Not that there are a storage of shallow men.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:43 AM
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Alone is way more preferable and profitable. I need my money MUCH MORE than I need them. It's not even close.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 04:52 PM
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By giving the relationship time and keeping both eyes open. Talk is cheap, It is all about behaviors. All three of them were "settling" which is a thing all men should know about. One of them did her best to destroy me after I dumped her. One of them--to her credit--never said she loved me. But she said I would only get that tailpipe if I married her. Actually she only kissed me once with passion. 15 years after I dumped her I found her picture on a porn site. All thing considered, it was not th…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 04:32 PM
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Here is a success story. I got divorced in 1990 and have not remarried. There ! Oh and during this period of over 30 years three women wanted me to marry them and not one of them actually loved me. Keep both eyes open Dudes and do not dismiss what you actually see.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 10:01 AM
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I think the reason why marriages fail is because people can't be content alone, and then marry and when there's an issue they have no happiness alone or with the other person and so it explodes. Put another way marriages fail because they should not happened in the first place. Yes some people are unhappy and desperate if they do not have a SO. I have seen this again and again. Do not let your happiness depends on another. Do not let your financial well being depend on another. I am sick of meet…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 09:52 AM
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Were we not married but I left the only woman I ever loved. We we living together. When we were breaking up at last she said "I know a lot has been said" She knew she pushed me too far. I made the right decision. She went on the marry someone she did not love. I knew she didn't because she was still writing me. She had a bunch of kids with him and then they got divorced. 30 years later she found me on FB. She said something "like remember me" Turns out she had married again. I am glad I got rid …
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/23 05:22 PM
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I see your point. I just think ten years is too long to be unhappy and she is not the type to stand in someones shadow.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 04:35 PM
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Did anyone actually listen to what she was saying? She said it was because he got to have a life(ie go golfing and have a career) and she had to put hers on hold to one support his dream but also to raise children. Thanks for the much needed relevance. I wonder why they didn't hire a nanny? She would have been making great money. Affording Princeton was not easy for her family. Sitting at home with the kids seems such a waste of her capabilities
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 08:18 AM
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Be myself? I’m feeling sad. Feeling overwhelmed. How do I communicate without sounding needy? I would not communicate any of this to her. See a Therapist and tell them all this needy stuff. Other than this clam down and enjoy the ride. Don't sound like a whiny bitch when she is around or you will lose her. Also you need to grow up and realize things do end sometimes. So enjoy now. Don't think about marriage or having kids with her--you are not ready,
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 03:55 PM
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I'm paying $1,750 for just under 500 square feet," she said, adding thatit was also difficult finding an affordable place that allows pets. Soooo many poor women I have met have pets. Their pets cause many complications. If you are poor and do not own a home you can not afford a dog. Some of these women wanted to come live in my house and their dog are deal breaker. If I wanted a dog I would buy my own. I have also met many, many women here in the US still living with the Ex's. They cant not aff…
/r/MensRights19/11/22 03:48 PM
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I love happy stories like this one.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 05:19 PM
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Good idea. There is a lot of broke women these days. If you don't one day your kid will be eating cereal across the table from some tatted dude named Chuck.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/22 03:38 PM
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As a 67 year old man I can state it has never been worth it in the USA.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 08:51 PM
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I appreciate what a man brings to the table. I'm on your side. Many women do not appreciate shit.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 05:00 PM
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I recommend marriage to every man I hate Add and then have Kids to recommendation. Then you can join the pro tour. You are already way ahead of most of us.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 04:53 PM
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Playing in the context of this post means marriage. Remember the OP was talking about Wives. No one here means one should go without female companionship. What we are saying is that a relationship can take different routes, and if you see a sign saying "marriage next right" just stay straight or take the next left and leave the interstate.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 04:40 PM
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Good one Mountian; you've got to play to lose.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 12:31 PM
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This is what I have learned: whats done is done.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/22 07:30 AM
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Take this time that you know about her but she doesn't know that you know and find a cutthroat shark of a lawyer and hit her hard with a divorce. Then tell her about the tracking when she is old and bitter. Timing is everything.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 08:38 AM
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Now here's a story. I know a guy-- he's a neighbor actually. His ex live-in girlfriend got herself a lawyer somehow and he pursued a lawsuit against him. This lawsuit claimed the she was owed half the value of his food supply business simply because she was his girlfriend for about 10 years. She also wanted his house. At some point this my neighbor called the lawyer and said "if she gets this house I promise you I will take a bulldozer and push it right into the river". The lawyer said he will g…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 09:58 PM
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Number 12. My bread machine does not sneak around and make bread for other guys.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 03:08 PM
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Do not ever let your happiness depend on someone else. Never jeopardize your financial well being because of a relationship or great sex. Play it smart. All you got is you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 07:49 PM
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In his original sentencing, Anderson was ordered to register as a sex offender and remain on the Michigan and Indiana state registries until 2040" . I remember at the time the original judge--very old and traditional-- was very prejudiced against him because it was a internet hookup between strangers. Something he found very offensive. So it really didn't matter when the girl admitted she lied about her age. Some judges are too fucking old.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 02:49 PM
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I said 'You know, I've always been good provider' One day she may find out that many men are not. There a lot of Losers out there and many woman fall for them. Those FDS type of women call them LVM (Low Value Men)
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 07:16 PM
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community property state Love your story BTW. Maybe this link will help others. https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/community-property-states
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 11:16 PM
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This was definitely a rebound situation for both her and I. We were both ib our late 40s. She presented herself as poor,heartbroken woman who was hurt and left abandoned by her husband for another woman. She also presenting herself as virtuous and old-fashioned. And for a while she had me fooled. This is why it's never good to be in a rush because with time and keeping your both eyes open you can save yourself from disaster. First came the little comments. Such as "I wouldn't kick him out of bed…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 01:50 PM
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which is fucking disgusting, manipulative, self-serving, immature shit. No one is stating that he is a nice guy. All they are saying is his move was smart. I'm not stating that he is smart. If he was smart he would never have went bareback. Actually given the above narrative I do not know what to believe. I do not buy her reasoning of staying with him. Nor do I believe in full that she was actually trying to break it off. She certainly loved he attention he had given her that night. She went int…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/22 09:24 PM
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This. This. This. Listen to this guy OP. If you love her marriage is not the way to keep her.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 02:41 PM
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There’s PLENTY of info The one word "loophole" is enough for me. This woman is worthless.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 03:29 PM
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The number one reason not to marry the "perfect girl" is this: PEOPLE CHANGE. Never risk your financial security on anyone. If she is perfect now then enjoy her now but don't count on her tomorrow.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/22 10:34 PM
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Get over that shit. Have some faith in your ex He once did have faith in his Ex and look what happened. Quit being dismissive. The OP feels auguish--rightfully so and here you are kicking him when he is down.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/22 08:42 AM
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I surrendered and sacrificed so much for a woman who insisted I do it, but resented me for it. Yes they can be funny in this way. Underneath her current behavior she is now gaining a new insight and appreciation on the new man you have now become and she will hate you for it. She has lost her power to hurt and abuse you. Your child and the arrangements thereof will the only way she can effect you life now---so be on guard.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 11:47 AM
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I drive a brand new car. I have nice clothes. I work a lot and I can't exactly hide what I do for a living. I'm not going to dress in street clothes and burn my car to the ground to convince some women that I'm poor. I understand where you are coming from. You worked hard for that money; why hide that you are successful? Also there comes a age- about 35 or 40-- when you are judged. If, by then you appear to be unsuccessful you are considered a Loser by many people--men and women both.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/12/21 12:30 AM
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She wanted to test its generosity. So all young men listen, DO NOT BE AFRAID OF FAILURE!!
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/21 12:50 PM
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I bet she will lie about all this the next time. Now the lesson for us is to never put your business in the street. I have no problem asking women "why do you want to know that?" Try it sometime; it's fun
/r/MGTOW214/11/20 06:43 PM
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Great Post. Corporate America is America's wealth and power base. Invest in it while it is still on sale or lose out.
/r/MGTOW227/03/20 01:53 PM
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This is correct thinking for many. I am a homeowner, but if you are under 40 and making good money your route should be considered. In today's job market you must be mobile and consistently investing keeps your financial momentum going. Utilize the Roth IRA advantage if you can. Buy a home and your investment not only is parked but is costing you money in ways most people do not understand. Also know when you hear about the tax advantage of deducting the interest on your P&P it is not that much …
/r/MGTOW227/03/20 12:51 PM
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"Could be any number of reasons, but I don't care, I know enough from her actions" Games, Games, Games but least now have her number. There is a plague of insincerity out there.
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 02:17 PM
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