JustBeingMe426 Archive

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1	Attractive men: Dating is a joke now, women are delusional. Literal gremlin land whales on Reddit: “yOu’Re pRoB nOt aS aTtRaCtiVe As YoU tHiNk yOu ArE” I'm 5 ft 3.5. 133 lbs My measurements are 37-27-38 I just turned 35. Am married with a 2yearold. I dont think Im a 9 or 10, but have been called attractive before. I'd say I'm average, maybe a bit above on some good days. My husband has fielded "how did you land her" comments a few times when he has introduced his co workers to me. I have never used TikTok I hate it. I have an Instagram for my pet I rarely look at. I only have Facebook to keep the Messenger app to keep in touch with family. Nonu…	/r/AllPillDebate	16/08/23 03:32 AM
4	Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic? that’s also ignored if she has a petite frame. Absolutely not. Most men with thin women bitch about her lack of boobs behind her back if hes nice but alot to her face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:43 PM
5	Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic? He wont specifically say them...he will just make vague statements about how the girl with poor eyelashes is less attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:43 PM
0	Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic? False- you may not Sporkfoot but your peers in general do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:42 PM
12	Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic? but just like incels many women overestimate how much all those things mean to men. See my last comment about how much dating I did and how much my looks were criticized by average men. We dont overestimate its very real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:41 PM
22	Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic? No it isnt overplayed. I dated extensively for 8 years before I met my husband and the majority of men criticized my looks at some point. I would get told "you have a nice stomach, you're thin" but then theyd complain my boobs and butt werent big enough. The funny part is, alot of these men towards the end admitted for a thin woman my boobs are a bit bigger than average, yet it still wasnt enough apparently to stop them from criticizing me. And before anyone comes at me- absolutely NONE of these…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:40 PM
5	Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic? See my above comment, few women naturally have this shape you speak of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:39 PM
3	Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic? - Be tall, or at least not short (genetics) Short to me is 5 ft 3. I am just over 5 ft 3. The only "short men" for me are preteen boys.- Have all your hair (genetics) Pretty much all the men I dated in my 20's had most of their hair (even men in their 30s). I did date 2 that were losing their hair. I briefly dated a bald guy and was rejected by another bald guy I liked for years. Facial attractiveness trumps hair for me personally. I think the losing hair part is more for older men. - Spend year…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:36 PM
1	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? Anecdotal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:31 PM
1	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? No, men just would prefer to be single than to date someone at their level. Most men dont value relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:29 PM
4	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? If men stopped ignoring the average plain not exciting woman theyd have no issues with being single. Every man Ive met IRL who complains about being single do this. They have women interested in dating them but those women arent good enough in their eyes. Men only want the highest quality women, even the low quality men prefer it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:41 PM
3	Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first dates Ive only had a small % refuse to split the bill. Of that smaller amount of men, none followed up to actually schedule another date. A few may have shown lukewarm interest just texting me vague crap for a bit after but then stop. These men werent interested in me. Yes I act the same. They take my offer to pay for myself because they know at the end of the date they dont want another date with me and dont want to spend their money on me thus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:39 PM
3	Q4W: Would you marry a promiscuous guy? Yeah well I speak the truth, not trying to be hateful but I wouldnt if I were you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:36 PM
1	Q4W: Would you marry a promiscuous guy? The most high value men Ive ever met didnt sleep around even if they were able to, so false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:22 PM
2	Q4W: Would you marry a promiscuous guy? if I ever get the faintest hint that he's thinking of other women in bed, wishes I was more like whats her name, wishes I was more open to x thing he got from some number of women. 90% of men with a high n count regularly engage in this behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:21 PM
2	Q4W: Would you marry a promiscuous guy? Yikes, youre gonna be the girl he settled for. He will enjoy your perks but not feel much passion for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:18 PM
4	Q4W: Would you marry a promiscuous guy? No, sex isnt like food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:17 PM
2	Q4W: Would you marry a promiscuous guy? No I dont. I think the only exception is if people are partaking in casual sex due to mental health reasons and trauma related responses but thats very rare. Its usually their personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:17 PM
17	Q4W: Would you marry a promiscuous guy? Absolutely not. There are well done studies showing a history of casual sex, the more there is, the higher the rate of divorce for both genders. Its not because Im against people who like sex, but I prefer someone with my values. Also, the studies show this result due to personality. People who have a lot of casual sex in their history score higher in these areas: egoism, impulsivity, hedonism, superficiality, more easily bored and less likely to ride out the natural highs and lows of a LTR as w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:14 PM
6	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? This comment is gold.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:09 PM
6	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? He could marry a woman with kids. So not necessarily. Edit: my female cousin who never met anyone then found out at 37 she never was able to have kids (undiagnosed reproductive problems til that point) and is happily married to a mid 40s man with two children she is close to. One of my male friends in his 40s is close with his new wife's children. Ive met people closer to their stepparents than biological parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:08 PM
19	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? If my husband dies Id never date again. I will never find another man like him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:07 PM
3	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? Sex and love wont make your marriage survive past the age of 40.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:05 PM
7	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? Women are much less likely to remarry if their spouse dies than men, I disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:04 PM
2	If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life? My piece of advice is to stop ignoring the average plain boring woman and you wont end up alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:03 PM
2	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men No, men greatly prefer hourglass shape (less than 10% of women naturally have that shape) and a pear/hourglass combo shape (less than 20% of women naturally have that shape too). These shapes have women with a small waist while not sacrificing her boobs/butt while being thin. AKA store fat only in certain places- which is genetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 05:57 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Its the hypocritical nature. Men who have a high body count are disgusting low quality men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 05:30 PM
1	CMV : Women don’t like men who have to approach because the men they want are the sort of guys who don’t have to approach I dont like anyone who approaches me. See my flair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 05:04 PM
2	If a man struggles with dating, romance, or sex, why is the default assumption that he is misogynistic or at least has problematic views on women, and that he doesn't see women as people? SO on this specific dumpster fire woman hating forum (Purple Pill my butt, it is the Misogynists Club)...this assumption is true. Sorry not sorry the majority of men here whining they are single are misogynists who dont respect women or see them as human beings. IN REAL LIFE (these men would hate you all, for real) that is not the case. It could be he has unrealistic standards, but it is often the type of girl he goes for, where he is meeting women, he is too introverted, gives up too quickly/do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 05:01 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? " I have a high bodycount as a man and I prefer to not date high bodycount women." This and your other post where you listed your woman must be an extreme giver where you dont reciprocate just confirms youre selfish trash.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:59 PM
1	Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first dates Men are the ones pushing to pay for the first date, not women. Most women are fine with paying for themselves, but men still do it. I dated alot in my 20s and always offered to pay for myself, the ones who accepted me paying for myself was a small amount of men. (Also were men I never heard from again, LOL, so they let me pay because they werent interested in me it seems).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:55 PM
3	Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first dates In my circle of friends all my married/LTR couples split everything as both people make around the same amount of money so it doesnt make sense to not do this. The only exception is if the woman isnt working due to small kids (Childcare is very expensive here so often the woman's paycheck only pays for childcare and thus, she stays home while they are before school aged). However, it depends on the couple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:52 PM
7	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men Well men cannot handle the answers and get angry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:43 PM
1	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men And those details vary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:41 PM
2	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men We’re speaking in generalities. In general, I’d say women are less likely to compromise on looks because they actually do get attention from men that meet their looks standards. Men are more likely to compromise on looks because they know they know there’s tons of competition for the most beautiful women, and because of that those women can be harder to deal with. This attitude is based on the individual, not the gender. Personally, I know more men who wont settle on looks than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:40 PM
2	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men Most men wont, men on here would because theyre desperate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:39 PM
8	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men No shes right they should have more preferences. Alot of men end up in LTRs and end up feeling unhappy because he eventually realizes they arent compatible and he doesnt want to change himself. If men vetted for compatibility more there would be more happily married men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:38 PM
6	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men No, hes not called shallow, hes viewed as a typical guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:36 PM
4	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men And to have a certain body shape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:36 PM
6	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men Actually, men are attracted to a certain body shape in women (hourglass or pear/hourglass leaning...), its not just NOT being a landwhale. Also, that body shape is genetic. So either woman have it or dont. Or they get surgery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:35 PM
1	Men: what makes you want a woman? Most women will leave it as theyll eventually realize you're a net negative with all of your expectations of her giving and giving and you dont.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:28 PM
1	Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first dates No, Ive had men take me up on my offer (the ones not interested). So I dont assume they will reject. Doing the right thing isnt "virtue signaling"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:27 PM
1	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? I have never seen a female mannequin that is fat. Im pretty sure I shop more than you too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:25 PM
3	Divorce reasons Yet in other posts, stats based on self report from men are indeed facts. I enjoy your mental gymnastics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:23 PM
-5	Who do you consider icons of Misandry and why? Thats not feminism. I dont associate with fake feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:20 PM
1	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? Nah, they feel they have settled and are happy because they know they cannot get anyone better. Or they are happy because the plain jane provides perks and a safety net, but their true passions arent taking place in their relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:20 PM
–	Q4W: Have you ever rejected a man to test his determination in chasing you? He probably wouldnt have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:12 AM
–	Q4W: Have you ever rejected a man to test his determination in chasing you? Never. Im honest to a fault its not a good thing alot of times. I give off no mystery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:12 AM
3	Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first dates Yeah its weird I dont know. Men here write that women are golddiggers and they resent having to pay but in the next breath state they have no issues paying and dont think about it if they really like her. Because of this, whether or not a man will pay for me is a vetting technique. I always offer to pay though. I have a good job and dont date men for their money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:10 AM
2	Men: what makes you want a woman? WOW. Good luck finding her!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:07 AM
3	Men: what makes you want a woman? Men looking for LTR's are pickier than most women and have alot of expectations, I agree with your last point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:06 AM
2	Men: what makes you want a woman? Lots of submissive and giving qualities...so you need one sided relationships gotcha...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:05 AM
1	Men: what makes you want a woman? Well yeah, men always expect something in return! But when women do it, men dont need to reciprocate. This guy sounds like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:04 AM
1	Men: what makes you want a woman? She already knows from the beginning when l approach her and ask her out, l already like her You need to lose this attitude. You are the type to become complacent and selfish in a rel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:03 AM
-1	Men: what makes you want a woman? Thats a lot of stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:02 AM
11	Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first dates Because anytime I end up paying for myself the man was never really interested. In America, men have NO issues paying for a woman they are actually interested in. I always offer to pay for myself and know if they accept I wont hear from them again. Ive never been wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:51 AM
-5	Who do you consider icons of Misandry and why? Men, at large, have internalized misogyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:49 AM
1	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? Yep, so I guess women just need to physically change themselves into a new woman every few months to make men happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:20 AM
–	Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it. Wow right over your head!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:19 AM
3	Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it. When men stop being so damn thirsty and desperate for sex then sex work wont exist. I blame men more than women. Hate the player not the game. If men focused on intelligence women would be competing with each other and setting up apps to give lectures lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:48 AM
1	Women: what makes you want a man I was never into hookups. Im married now. -Financially stable, meaning you can pay your bills and save some (nowadays a small amount due to inflation!) -Attractive to me. This one is subjective. -Loyal -Supportive/Kind -Respectful -Similar values to me involving being authentic, no casual sex, family oriented, not materialistic -Not super religious -Shared sense of humor -Emotionally mature/easy to talk to/no major emotional problems/baggage. Im ok with baggage if it can be managed without impac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:24 AM
3	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? I really enjoy all the contrary statements from men on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:18 AM
-1	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? They were forced to "settle" for them, as most men do have to settle because they arent Chads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:17 AM
1	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? Most men want a woman who is WAY too attractive for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:17 AM
3	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? No, most couples are average people paired together. Its more likely the average guy is shooting out of his league and thats why he is single. There is an epidemic of average guys that are very harsh with women and are delusional. They think women who are actually out of their league are "average" These men are rampant on OLD apps. Your league is what you can attain. If you cannot attain average women you are below average bud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:16 AM
3	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? Men are lonely because they ignore the women at their level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:15 AM
1	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? Most couples are average people together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:14 AM
1	What percentage of men can date/sleep with conventionally hot or head-turning women ? Nope. Beauty standards have risen for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:14 AM
1	How common is it for women to date and/or marry men they have no attraction to or affection towards simply because it's "the norm" or because they love the idea of being in a relationship moreso than actually being in a relationship? Its not very common. Women are much more likely to lose attraction than to marry while never feeling it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:13 AM
2	Divorce reasons Well men just need to pick better women :) Its your fault you pick her and then she asks for a divorce. You should have known.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:09 AM
1	Divorce reasons Yep, the same way men pick women who are golddiggers and are very materialistic. Shame on them, I dont feel bad for them, they should have just picked better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:08 AM
3	Divorce reasons The most well conducted studies show men cheat more in all age cohorts but theres a 3% difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:07 AM
2	Divorce reasons You should have never let her not work then. I actually have a divorce going on in my family right now that sounds exactly the same as this, except the husband initiated the divorce despite the wife asking to work on the marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:05 AM
2	Divorce reasons Good luck convincing men here of these points, especially the divorce ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:04 AM
–	The most impactful problem in relationships and it's not women or men This. Its crazy how small the actual middle class is now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:58 AM
–	Q4W: What is “the spark”? Chemistry. PPD doesnt understand chemistry isnt just physical looks though. Ive been on dates with conventionally attractive men that I felt no "spark" with. Yet, I felt sparks galore with average looking men. Its hard to describe, its a vibe and the way you "gel" with a person, and not just looks. When you leave you cant wait to be around them again. It was very difficult for me to feel "sparks" with men via OLD apps. My husband is literally the only man who gave it to me for the 8 years I used…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:53 AM
1	What would a society in which all men are red-pilled look like? A world as a woman I wouldnt want to take part in, I honestly think Id rather kill myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:51 AM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Men hardly care for how tall a woman is, or that she has a career that is taking up most of her time. I dont care about height. The only men my height or shorter are preteen boys. I am actually turned off by overly ambitious men. Workaholics always annoyed me. Theres more to life than your job. I always wanted men with a good work life balance esp. since my top Love Language is quality time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:50 AM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? I dated a crap ton from ages 20 to 28 and only had one man ever ask me my body count. Men tended to ask me questions trying to figure out my values more than body count (me too, I never needed to directly ask you can kind of figure it out as you get to know the person)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:49 AM
–	The men here aren't advocating for free sex but for a greater chance and ability to get a relationship so they won't be alone, but somehow the people here have a hard to processing that. Yeah PEW isnt a reliable research source IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:48 AM
–	The men here aren't advocating for free sex but for a greater chance and ability to get a relationship so they won't be alone, but somehow the people here have a hard to processing that. This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:46 AM
–	What is an "below average" man ? how do these men differ from average men? I have, Im happily married bud! :) My husband blows all you idiots out of the water.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:44 AM
1	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes Definitely not "most of the time" I'd argue "sometimes"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:43 AM
1	"just be skinny" doesn't work Theyre rampant on this forum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:42 AM
1	"just be skinny" doesn't work Well I guess thats good because my husband is hot AF	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:42 AM
0	"just be skinny" doesn't work No????	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:41 AM
2	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes There is a massive shortage of men who can meet the bare minimum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:40 AM
3	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes Nah, some women immediately give off those signs, men do the same and overlook it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:40 AM
1	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? " we just don't need as much to be happy." Go visit the /r/infidelity forum Men describing the perfect wife and they just arent happy though- so they gotta cheat. LOL. Thats a good one arvada14!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:38 AM
1	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes Women figure it out once the honeymoon phase of their rel is over. Men do the same thing with very bitchy women, once the honeymoon phase is over they realize their SO is a bitch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:38 AM
2	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes The only defense, of course, is to be preemptively hostile to all men so as to repel the bad ones Where did I say that? I didnt. I just said kind people will have more stories of men and women trying to take advantage. Hey, I acted nice, and I ended up with my nice guy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:35 AM
4	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes Theres people who do it beyond the first few meetings. I find selfish mean men are attracted to selfless kind women, its like a moth to a flame, so kind women will have more stories of assholes to weed through. Bitchy women repel selfish men so they have an easier time. The same with genders reversed. All of the kindest men Ive met have ALOT of stories of women trying to take advantage of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:31 PM
3	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes Nice isnt a turn off. Nice is bare minimum. When a girl rejects a "nice guy" she isnt rejecting him for being nice. She is rejecting him for ONLY being nice. He is lacking in something else. Often it is chemistry. Ive rejected nice guys because Im not attracted to them or there are very obvious incompatibilities. Or I didnt like other personality traits (too introverted, too opinionated for me, etc). You need multiple things for a rel to work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:28 PM
1	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes All women look for different things though. Two of my female friends who grew up in toxic families look for WAY different things than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:27 PM
2	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes No, its because they have poor character. Your looks, money, interests and personality does not determine your character. Your character does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:26 PM
6	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes LOL I know right. Every person who has ever told me to "pick better" and I just need to "vet better" has also themselves fallen for the same thing and they have no self awareness about it. The last person who said this to me when I was single was being straight up manipulated by their childhood friend and she pushed this statement away from others and couldnt see it. My social group talked about it all the time too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:25 PM
2	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes Yeah I agree, it depends on the person's mental space and how they perceive things. Every man in my extended family who is divorced, I instantly didnt like their now ex wives...meaning the very first time I met them I noticed bad traits... and the men said "I didnt see their problematic behaviors until years later" This was one of the biggest things I struggled with when dating while experienced in my mid to late 20's. Knowing what is an actual red flag and what could be but is not and is probab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:21 PM
19	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes Yep. People dont walk around with DOUCHEBAG tattooed on their forehead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:18 PM
13	Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholes Many "nice guys" are just assholes who havent shown their true colors. With the exception of my first boyfriend (I was dumb), every single asshole ex after that acted nice, agreeable and mild mannered until about 2-4 months in when their guard came down. One literally started acting like an asshole the day after he asked me to be his gf and meet his parents, no joke, it was like a light switch flipped. Other poor qualities can take longer than this to come out. BTW, I have found the same with fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:16 PM
2	Men: what makes you want a woman? Nah its more than that, its doing whatever he wants so he does not have to "sacrifice" his needs at all. This is why I was always "picky" with men. They refuse to compromise and expect you to adapt to them, not the other way around, so if I'm committing we better be EXTREMELY compatible because I am done doing all the compromising and adapting. My husband and I are very compatible, and its nice unlike my other relationships where I constantly had to change myself and do things I didnt want for t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:03 PM
3	Men: what makes you want a woman? Your c point is what I looked for in a man too. The "pleasant personality" part is where alot of men today fail. (I may have lower looks standards than other women though- Im perfectly attracted to average looking men). They want a pleasant, supportive, agreeable partner when they're the opposite. I am not a fan of that Boomer relationship dynamic and no wonder so many Boomer women pursued divorces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:59 PM
0	"just be skinny" doesn't work Read her history bud. When she was 20, a 36yearold man chased after her and they got married. Shes also not too intelligent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:30 PM
1	"just be skinny" doesn't work Thats because I go off of actions, not words. When a guy isnt satisfied with an average woman and tried harder to get someone too good for him that tells me what I need to know. Pretty much every perpetually single nonintroverted man I know who says he cannot find a woman its because he shoots out of his league. He says he wants an "average woman" though, LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:28 PM
1	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? Thats the average man's ideal though. I'd argue "interesting" over intelligent though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:26 PM
1	"just be skinny" doesn't work You mean women DONT want to be valued for their looks, willingness to be chef and a maid, a childcare center and an emotional punching bag? Shocked Pikachu face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:25 PM
3	Most guys struggle with modern dating because they struggle to adapt to modern society itself Hes right. Its so difficult to find men not heavily into porn and video games who actually do productive things. Occasionally you meet workaholics only (they dont obsess over things outside of work though)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:51 AM
1	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that Yeah I can tell OP isnt meeting women from a wider variety of places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:49 AM
1	Are some people fine with going without love or a long term relationship? I think its more people are fine being single over being in a relationship that isnt a net positive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:47 AM
7	Are some people fine with going without love or a long term relationship? No, women on average spend more time on nonromantic relationships and tend to have more deeper nonromantic relationships they can depend on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:46 AM
1	"just be skinny" doesn't work Very self aware but dont think a 36yearold man is grooming a 20yearold woman...mmmkay...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:42 AM
2	What is an "below average" man ? how do these men differ from average men? As a 5 ft 3.5 inch woman...I find 5 ft 3 men to be short so this is all relative. I also live in a HCOL area so less than 50k would be poor here. Im older so over 50 is old to me. I think skinny fat guys are cute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:22 AM
-2	"just be skinny" doesn't work You and your rel arent as trad as you think you are. Or you arent self aware enough of your mental health issues. I find a 50/50 split on which one it could be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:21 AM
7	"just be skinny" doesn't work Why would I be jealous of a relationship where Im valued for serving men and ignoring my own needs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:17 AM
-1	"just be skinny" doesn't work I know NO truly happy trad wives. They all have low AF self esteem though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:14 AM
-6	"just be skinny" doesn't work I insult trad wives. Trad wives (luckily are rare now) are just pathetic doormats. Their husbands treat them like sh** and they have mental health issues so they think their life is great. So yeah bud your quote doesnt apply to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:59 AM
10	"just be skinny" doesn't work No they dont. Average looking boys want a Stacy. Theyre delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:58 AM
1	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? Yeah you're def waaay superficial	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:55 AM
3	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? Both women and men need nurturers. Women dont need to pair with someone who doesnt care for them or encourage their growth either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:54 AM
3	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? This is the only man here being honest. PPD men would not date an average woman you gotta be kidding me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:53 AM
10	"just be skinny" doesn't work Men would take this but while dating her, not treat her as well and be on the lookout for the Facial Attractive Perfect Slimthicc Girl. Also to add to your post OP: Be skinny but happen to have BIG BOOBS AND A BUTT. Just ADD your fat in the RIGHT places. Aka: be genetically gifted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:50 AM
4	"just be skinny" doesn't work SO you want a chef maid servant bangmaid...got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:49 AM
1	In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity? Nope. I tend to get along easier with men as friends on average, so in my 35 years of existence Ive had more male friends than female friends. My female friends have done some of the following even more than my male friends: " pay for group outings and Ubers, perform gendered courtesies such as accompanying the girls home, help out with any physical tasks like moving/furniture, etc."	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:46 AM
7	Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male Good luck finding a man like this, its probably like .005% of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 08:05 PM
1	A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship " Being a male friend also implies a lot of responsibilities with usually zero reward, except maybe some status. You are expected to put her first, fix her stuff, carry heavy stuff, help her move, emotional labor, accompany her to car at night, etc. Even at work, and HR can get mad if you don't help a woman, even if it is beyond your job." You are so out of touch with reality. Literally NONE of my male friends have done this stuff and Ive had alot. And these are men who actually do care about me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 07:58 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit The average american male is overweight. They usually arent satisfied with an overweight girl though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 07:39 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit False	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 07:38 PM
0	Saying women should not invest in their careers and aspirations is toxic because most janitors and retail workers are not going to marry doctors and CEOs. You should go live and date in Washington DC. It defies what you wrote. Men dont just care about your job very much there, they also care about the status of your job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:47 AM
1	Saying women should not invest in their careers and aspirations is toxic because most janitors and retail workers are not going to marry doctors and CEOs. I live in a high cost of living area in the United States. Several women in my social circle with very good paying jobs (lawyers, experienced engineers etc) make enough for their husbands to stay home or reduce their hours. Their husbands do this because it makes financial sense since they make less money and childcare is very very expensive where I live. My husband is an engineer and his closest female work friend is married to a stay at home dad too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:45 AM
1	Saying women should not invest in their careers and aspirations is toxic because most janitors and retail workers are not going to marry doctors and CEOs. LOL comparing a stripper to a teacher. Teachers are greatly underpaid and work harder and smarter than many people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:42 AM
1	Saying women should not invest in their careers and aspirations is toxic because most janitors and retail workers are not going to marry doctors and CEOs. that a lot of men in middle management would happily date a female janitor Im really curious where you live because in my social circle this is not the case. The men would look down on the female janitor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:41 AM
1	Saying women should not invest in their careers and aspirations is toxic because most janitors and retail workers are not going to marry doctors and CEOs. Yep, your husband could die or leave you anyday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:40 AM
1	Saying women should not invest in their careers and aspirations is toxic because most janitors and retail workers are not going to marry doctors and CEOs. Anyone who says women shouldnt invest in themselves is an idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:40 AM
1	Do women find lottery winners attractive? Money attracts a certain type of woman. Not all women though. However, the type of woman it DOESNT attract, is also the same type you'd likely overlook or not like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:37 AM
2	Men today act so feminine I am so glad I am married now because in my 20s dating was rough and its worse now. For BOTH genders, dating is wanting all the perks without any of the risks or responsibilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:23 AM
3	The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriends You might think this is the typical woman experience- its not. I wish what you listed actually happened to me in my relationships- its not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:21 AM
2	Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex? Well you're a gem and a lady would lucky to have you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:18 AM
2	Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope? Genuine question: how does your ex make so much money but you're still paying 25%?	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 08:51 PM
1	Men do care about a women's career I whole heartedly agree with OP. I work in an underpaid overworked field. I have always earned enough to support myself but not a life of luxury. (Im very simple and dont spend much so thats fine by me). Now I actually make decent money but Im married. However, when I was younger I had men reject me over my career and tell me Im not rel material even when they realize my third sentence. In my social circles in my 20s, the few marriages/long term relationships I observed where the guy made signif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:49 PM
1	CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rights You do have a choice. Insist on wearing a condom during every sexual encounter if you dont want to pay child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:46 PM
1	Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''? I did OLD apps for nearly a decade and alot of men cannot hold a conversation either. Society is just f***ed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:45 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit I find men only hyperinflate (if they do, many dont) in the very beginning. I dont know any in relationships long term doing that kind of stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:41 PM
0	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Ummm yeah bud I am 5 ft 3.5 and 129 lbs. My measurements are 36-26-37. There is NO WAY they are more attractive than me. Several of these men even ADMITTED IT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:36 PM
1	We often talk about women being entitled, misandric and anti-MRM, but we fail to acknowledge that most men have those same views Ok, gather up these men and send them my way because nobody i know IRL is like this. Ok, well my husband is but I had to go through 30 men to find him. Where are they??? I must find them!!!!! I want to be treated preferentially!!!	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 08:33 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Is there a Pill that just hates everyone regardless of gender? I need to find it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:29 PM
3	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Well yeah I dont think I am amazing but these men are in no way too good for me. At the time I dated them I was financially stable and did not expect them to pay for me all the time, I got told I was pretty frequently (in fact multiple of these men admitted I was too good looking for them and many outsiders after we broke up commented "why did you date him you're too cute for him") I definitely had a better personality than them- I had more friends, carried the conversations and generally had mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:27 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Yeah I find this to be most women's experiences. The men here are wack!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:21 PM
3	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit I said "weary" to commit. Like I had to convince them and they didnt seem thrilled. Alot of men no matter how they are doing socially view commitment as a negative. I dont think it was they were "just not that into me" because virtually all of them werent happy when I broke up with them, tried to get back with me later or later admitted they screwed up a good thing. Only 1 didnt do these things. The average American male is 5 ft 9, doesnt make 100k and is a bit overweight. Thats literally the av…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:18 PM
0	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit If the guy is from an OLD app its B.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 07:48 PM
8	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit This actually sums up the situation well though. The average male today thinks he deserves a model looking woman whose personality and character is also better than his.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 07:41 PM
3	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit False. None of my exes or guys I dated who were weary to commit to me were ladykillers. 90% of the men Ive dated are under 6 ft, dont make 100k and were at best just average body at worst a bit overweight. I also had more friends than virtually all of my exes too. Edit: If you dont believe me, DM me and I will send you a picture of the 10 men Im thinking of. Not a single one is that good looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 07:40 PM
1	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works You are a gem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 07:01 PM
2	When approaching someone, it feels like you have to be as indirect as possible Approaching a stranger and just immediately asking them out will never work. Its unnatural and forced. Whenever a man does this its so weird and creepy I just know he wants to screw me and thats all he cares about since he has nothing but my looks to go off of. Women dont want to be viewed as cattle. Why is this weird. Approaching a woman and getting to know her a bit first will better serve you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 06:57 PM
1	When Rhode Island accidentally legalized prostitution, rape decreased sharply I would 100% move if prostitution becomes legal where I live. I'd also never marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 06:43 PM
1	When Rhode Island accidentally legalized prostitution, rape decreased sharply They should just start executing the men who use prostitutes then after this law takes effect. This would be a good way to cleanse the gene pool of current humans and just get rid of the rapists full swoop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 06:42 PM
1	Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex? /r/pornaddiction /r/pornaddictionforum /r/loveafterporn /r/pornfree /r/nofap This is in addition to 10 men I dated who had this problem and the other 100+ men all my friends (I am have more social connections than the average replier here) combined have dated with these problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 06:25 PM
-1	Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex? Oh right, I forgot you have the power to predict the behavior of billions of other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 06:15 PM
1	We often talk about women being entitled, misandric and anti-MRM, but we fail to acknowledge that most men have those same views but most men have strong "women are wonderful" attitude Lol Thanks for my laugh of the day. I needed it.	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 06:08 PM
7	Bill Maher calls 'Barbie' 'preachy' and 'man-hating' Most people dont fit neatly into boxes. Most of the world is not black and white.	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 06:06 PM
-3	Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex? Maybe you, but not other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 05:51 PM
-1	The world is pretty unfair for men "Now for divorce, if a woman divorces with a man, they get to take most of that man's money" Nope its 50% of your pooled money and 50% of shared property...the vast vast majority of women work like their man and dont have a dramatic income difference. If you're really all that worried about this, dont date a woman who wants to be a stay at home mom, it isnt hard. "and also his kids" Nope. Over 90% of non 50/50 custody arrangements are due to mediation, not court, where men agree to it. I used to…	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 04:56 PM
-8	Megan Fox Says Her Body “Aches” From Carrying the Weight of Men’s “Sins” Her Entire Life Misogynist alert!	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 04:52 PM
2	The problem with online dating is just that it breaks dating dynamics and only promotes one piece of the pie I dont think this is always true though. One of my favorite memories to tell my friends about my OLD days is once a guy cancelled our date at the last minute. When I asked why, he said he found me on Facebook and look through my photos (I guess back then my profile wasnt that private as he looked at alot of them apparently) and he thinks Im too shy and quiet for him. Whenever I share this with my friends they all die of laughter and say something like "We WISH you were more shy and quiet."	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 04:19 PM
2	The problem with online dating is just that it breaks dating dynamics and only promotes one piece of the pie You are my spirit animal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 04:17 PM
4	Where would society be if men didn’t have high sex drives? Less single mothers, Less STDs (men are carriers and show symptoms later than women), Less incompatible relationships (men wouldnt stay in not great rel's for sex), More compatible relationships, More accomplishments/cancer would be solved (men waste so much energy on sex when they could be doing other productive things), Less divorce	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:32 PM
3	Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex? If you got a woman, once the novelty wears off with her you'd slowly start preferring porn over her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:28 PM
-3	Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex? Most men in LTRs over time start to prefer porn over sex. Porn is very bad for society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:27 PM
1	Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex? They want the perks of an average woman while watching porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:26 PM
5	Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex? Yes, porn is a quick fix to horniness so men will turn to this if they arent getting sex. In relationships, men will pick porn over their partner. It is extremely common and I dont understand why PPD men dont believe me when I say this because it is very common. Why is it common? 1) Most women require foreplay to have an orgasm, lazy/selfish men dont want to do that but still want their orgasm so watching porn fixes this. 2) Alot of men are wired for novelty (not all thank the lord) so even if h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:06 PM
1	Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive men 99.9% of women prefer not a fuckboy and not an incel. Why is everything so extreme? Most people are in the middle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:17 PM
15	The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to women Why then are pretty much all the couples I know who met using OLD apps very average people paired together then? By average, I mean the guy is average looking, a bit chubby, not a stand out, not making 100k/makes average income, not particularly charismatic and accomplished.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:18 AM
1	A mom-of-two has taken the internet by storm after teaching her seven-year-old on how to be a good husband. Stop picking women who dont want to work and who want to be SAHMs. Stop picking women who dont have good work ethic. Most couples I know make similar amounts of money so if they divorced there wouldnt be one person making bank. 90% of divorces are via meditation, not court, where the guy AGREES to less than 50% custody. If you get divorced, go to court as most states are 50/50 and the bar for proving the other parent unfit is very high and few reach it. I'm not sure why I even need to tell you t…	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 03:14 AM
1	A mom-of-two has taken the internet by storm after teaching her seven-year-old on how to be a good husband. No, sex doesnt solve that. When a guy treats you like shit and you screw him, he learns he can continue to treat you like shit and he will just feel more entitled to sex than he already is. It isnt a magic pill that makes him treat you better. Most women are financially worse after divorce. Im sure your cherrypicked studies dont show that LOL I understand marriage is compromise- most men dont understand that. They want their way all the time and are entitled.	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 02:50 AM
1	A mom-of-two has taken the internet by storm after teaching her seven-year-old on how to be a good husband. it’s absolutely fair as sex is a driving force of intimacy for BOTH sexes and you will white literally undo your own feelings towards your partner by withholding. It bre LOL no buddy. Im not forcing myself to fuck a guy who treats me like shit. No wonder you are single, you have very messed up views. You are out of your mind. Have fun cherry picking all your studies.	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 02:34 AM
1	So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex? Well myself personally I never required one locked down before sex, I just needed to feel they were a potential long term match. I found my gut instincts that someone was good for me always lead to them being good enough for sex. There were a couple overly selfish, superficial dudes that I ignored my instincts on in my early 20s when I first started dating. My instincts were right- they were BAD with sex too (mostly selfish) You seem like a nonemotionally intelligent person though, so you probab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:27 AM
3	Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old? American men arent hot either. The amount of fatter American men holding out for a thin woman is crazy. I studied abroad in New Zealand and Europe and I did appreciate the eye candy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:23 AM
18	Would you use male birth control? facepalm	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:21 AM
3	Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive men There is no such thing as a retired fuckboy without any issues. They just like to pretend they dont.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:16 AM
2	Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive men Yeah they are Jonah Hills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:15 AM
1	Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive men I had an ex say "you shouldnt wear makeup" and he literally couldnt even tell when I wore makeup, it was extremely amusing. One day later he was like "Oh i LOVE you arent wearing makeup!" And I was. A week later he asked me why I was wearing makeup and I wasnt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:14 AM
1	Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive men Some insecure men in relationships want you to lose your looks just enough to not attract other men, but not enough to deter his attraction to you...its a fine line to walk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:13 AM
1	Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive men I wouldnt say Im insecure but when I dated in my 20s, I weeded out men who were too hyperfocused on working out and looks. I did date 1 for 6 months like this and after that, never again. Spending time at the gym is fine, its another hobby, but some of them spent an insane amount of time at the gym and expected me to revolve my entire life around their meals, their workouts and other things that come with it. Like video games and other obsessive hobbies that derode relationships. relationships a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:09 AM
1	Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it? Men would go for it in the beginning. But heres the kicker and what OP should focus on instead: How would they treat her in the long run? Unfortunately most of the men here are mentally and emotionally stunted and have messed up views. I know men like this in real life. The most interesting thing (Ive seen this and its like watching a slow movie IRL) I have seen some stunted men IRL get into relationships with a girl like this and lemme tell you, boy oh boy do they treat her like SHIT over time.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:01 AM
1	Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it? So youre admitting you have standards then...cool cool...gotta love all the AveRaGe gIRlS doNT eVEN waNT Me StOp haVINg StaNDARds. Very contradicting y'all on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:00 AM
1	Those who are not doing well in their 20’s will probably carry on as they get older It depends on why. Plenty of men and women not doing well financially or who are out of shape can reverse the scenario in their 30s. If the reasons are related to poor personality, character, mental health, social skills...then yeah they wont do better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:56 AM
1	People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing it LOL comparing TikTok women to real life. I'm glad I dont do the reverse with men, I'd be too afraid to leave my house and become agoraphobic considering the amount of male TikTokers who think women should be routinely beaten for just existing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:54 AM
14	Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing? All men would expect the SAHM/woman to do ALL the cooking and cleaning, very few would do more than like 10% of it. I think its fair if you dont work. I think the issue is more with young kids and sleep with the SAHMs. Men expect women to cook and clean all day long with no break, on top of childcare while doing this, on literally 2 hours of sleep a day for weeks on end the first 6 months-1year of their child's life, depending on when they start sleeping through the night, and this isnt doable a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:39 AM
5	Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing? Men like this are rare unfortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:36 AM
1	People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing it Wow you must deal with some pretty terrible women. I hope you get therapy so when you eventually meet a nonmaterialistic, good hearted, selfless girl (tons of them where I live btw!) you dont scare her off with your nasty views on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:34 AM
1	CMV : Plenty of average looking young men are not in relationships, young women just perceive above average men with women as average You have confirmation bias or it could be where you live. Most people in life are average bud and there aint anything wrong with that. I see average people paired together all the time. Unfortunately, most people in the US are a bit overweight. Hence, you see a little bit overweight couples together all the time. You all focus WAY too much on looks and income here. The real issues with finding someone is vetting character and compatibility. Most people looking to date have looks and income thres…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:30 AM
2	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' As with everything in life, it varies on the individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:28 AM
1	A mom-of-two has taken the internet by storm after teaching her seven-year-old on how to be a good husband. I think it depends on the prenup. Statistics show men are more likely to be abusive and that cheating is equal among genders. With-holding sex isnt really fair. Its not with-holding if behavior turns our sex drive off. It is impossible for alot of women to feel sexual desire towards a man mistreating them. Should we just do duty sex instead where we arent into it and you get to feel like you're raping us? (And again...it isnt punishment...its natural to not want sex when you're being degraded li…	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 01:24 AM
1	So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex? No I actually agree, first time sex is rarely the best you'll have with that person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:20 AM
1	So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex? Sure that happens, but many men who do what I originally wrote know they dont actually want a relationship with that person, lets be real!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:20 AM
0	People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing it No they do not. 95% of women won't date a man shorter than them. Considering less than 1% of men are shorter than the average woman, this isnt an issue. Heck, an average starving North Korean male during the height of their famine is taller than me. (These men are on average 5'4, while I'm 5'3.5) What physical attribute would you change on a woman where that would be true, other than giving them a penis? Even then, you have plenty of bisexual men that would probably be into it at a rate higher t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 04:09 AM
11	So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex? Pretending to like the person and verbally stating you prefer relationships,	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 08:54 PM
-3	People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing it Women weigh looks less than men. If both genders create a pie chart of what % of looks/attraction goes into picking a LTR a larger portion of the pie is looks for men. Looks is a portion of womens, just not as big. Personality will make up for looks with men, the reverse is never true for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 08:53 PM
2	How do we feel about the phrase "men marry up, women settle down"? Most men dont want to marry or have to be forced into it, hard disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 08:13 PM
8	How do we feel about the phrase "men marry up, women settle down"? Nah, alot of men settle with their marriage partner. Its an individual thing. I find guys prefer the too-hot-for-him, drinks alot, super drama filled woman who is high maintenance women. who puts out quickly, is flirty and gives him dopamine rushes with her push-and-pull behavior. Especially in their 20s. Then men get sick of that and settle for the "cute stable loyal wholesome" chick who he knows wont treat him like crap and will do most of the childcare and housework while working like him. He…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 08:12 PM
-1	The Male Loniness Epidemic Nowhere have I ever complained about that. And yes, the same way you should pick better women. (OH RIGHT you only think WOMEN are held responsible for their choices, not men, gotcha...)	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 07:53 PM
-1	The Male Loniness Epidemic No, plenty of women arent toxic and manipulative, you have a problem where you dont weed them out to pick the right ones. Whenever a woman ends up with a guy who treats her poorly, you say "she should have picked better" Maybe follow your own advice. Also 90% of men are selfish and entitled and expected more than they are willing to bring to the table in a rel. Its a people thing not a gender thing.	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 07:29 PM
2	The Male Loniness Epidemic Why are you arguing with this guy, hes too far gone. You cannot help him.	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 07:01 PM
0	The Male Loniness Epidemic The vast majority of marriages in America involve two working people (with minimal income differences too btw, most people marry those in their own socioeconomic status, the only time this isnt true is when their kids are young, and its because of the cost of childcare, then the woman goes back to work) Despite this, women do more childcare and housework. Men tend to be more disrespectful due to "boys can be boys" He can make rude comments and not act loyal and get away with it more. Sounds like…	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 06:59 PM
0	Women trudge through my history and attack me because I have posted here! Someone who calls an unborn baby a parasite isnt a feminist.	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 06:54 PM
2	Many of the problems in the dating landscape can be attributed to a lack of viable social venues for young people. Cold approaches arent a great way to meet people. I 100% agree with OP. Alot of people's dating woes if they dont have major dealbreakers are they simply havent met enough people yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 06:52 PM
1	A story You should have picked a better woman. Im not trying to be mean, but genders reversed (which happens alot- lots of marriages involve a couple who BOTH work full time and the man barely does anything outside of his job in terms of housework, household management and childcare) women are always just told they should have "picked better."	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 06:41 PM
2	Decline in marriage rates and it’s impact on men. People pick a partner based on their values. With the cost of living today, most couples want to reach a certain financial threshold for comfort.	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 06:39 PM
0	Women Are DUMPING Their Boyfriends After Watching BARBIE \| Feminist Mission Accomplished Oh boo hoo. You know how many movies come out each year that portray women badly and we dont react this way? Get over it!	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 06:38 PM
7	What the actual F She sounds crazy but she likely blocked you because you didnt agree with her, not because you're a man.	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 06:32 PM
1	A mom-of-two has taken the internet by storm after teaching her seven-year-old on how to be a good husband. I dont think its bad as long as she teaches him boundaries and what treatment he should accept from others.	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 06:31 PM
-10	A mom-of-two has taken the internet by storm after teaching her seven-year-old on how to be a good husband. Women dont need to be taught by their fathers, its shoved down our throats by everyone else everyday.	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 06:30 PM
1	Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightist I find men exhibit that behavior more. The men brought it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:58 PM
2	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man ...yeah with a female version of them. I have 3 male cousins who are all fuckboys and they all live with female versions of themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:46 PM
0	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man Most fuckboys I know have absolutely no desire to ever get married. The few Ive met that have are married, who tend to be richer, are married to promiscuous women who really value them for their money. They dont end up with hot, sweet, loyal women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:38 PM
-1	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man Nope. The men are legit immature and have negative qualities. Sounds like you cannot take criticism and have a huge ego. (People who always assume jealousy are like this usually).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:21 PM
20	As a man, you always have to try to initiate sex with a new date, even if you are not that type of man. "If she lets you sleep with her, she's the kind that fucks around easily. If she rejects your advances then there is hope that she is relationship material (for me, not judging if you prefer otherwise). " This can backfire. I have never slept around and want a man like me. If a guy tries to have sex with me too early, I wrote him off because that means he tried to sleep early with every girl which to me is a Yuck. I wanted someone who matched my values. I like how you judge women but are free fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:17 PM
8	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them ....yep you're autistic for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:15 PM
2	Which societal preferences are evolving faster? No men who nitpick their partners body (which most men do once the New Relationship Energy wears off or their guard comes down) arent satisfied with their partner's body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:08 PM
9	Men who leave women with cancer are no different from women who don't date men with health conditions in the first place They never break down who is seeking the divorce. Funny how men use this excuse to deflect men's wrongdoing in this instance but never ask "who is breaking down the marriage and actually seeking a divorce" when discussing statistics regarding women filing divorce petitions via the court more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:55 PM
1	Which societal preferences are evolving faster? Most guys arent happy with it. They may commit to you because they think they cant get better but they arent truly satisfied with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:45 PM
0	Which societal preferences are evolving faster? When I have a really nice looking booty, most men would say my waist is not quite thin enough. Then when I get my waist thin enough (insanely hard) my booty is not quite good enough. Even with weightlifting. The solution: get that very tiny waist and then get butt surgery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:28 PM
1	If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractive Yep, I think this is why some people dont find other people that are conventionally attractive that attractive. Or why you go on a date with someone who is hot, perfect for you (you yourself dont have mental issues) and yet you dont feel chemistry. Your genes dont line up. Its a good thing, you shouldnt procreate with someone where your genes dont compliment each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:21 PM
-1	Which societal preferences are evolving faster? Nope, its not be fat WHILE having the perfect natural genetic shape for a booty or years of dedicated weightlifting. (at least for half of it- you cannot build boobs weightlifting but you can a butt)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:01 PM
2	Which societal preferences are evolving faster? Nah, a small waist and a booty is harder to attain than just being thin. You cant pick where your fat goes so its weightlifting or surgery if you arent genetically gifted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:01 PM
1	What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships? LOL no they arent! They view them as a burden and lose respect for them. If you have ever seen Pride and Prejudice, look at the way Mr. Bennett has checked out of his marriage with Mrs. Bennett. His reaction sums it up well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:48 PM
1	Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ? Most people Ive met with severe depression dont return the favor. Its why I avoid mentally ill people for all relationships now- friends, dating, co workers, etc. The juice isnt worth the squeeze. Ive only met a few exceptions to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:42 PM
1	Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ? I think its less what you are crying over and more the frequency. But to be fair, this is for both sexes. Men arent ok with women who cry all the time either- they judge her or check out emotionally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:41 PM
2	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them I highly doubt you match the level of an Instagram thot. You wouldnt be bothering with this forum if you were that much of a Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:26 PM
1	Has anyone actually seen Pick Me Girls act like “Not Like Other Girls”? None of these men were romantically interested in me and would have no motivation to encourage me to dislike other women. In fact no men I date even in early stages tries to make me feel unique. You must be surrounded by desperate simps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:25 PM
1	Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightist Ahhh yes great PPD logic: if my experience doesnt match yours, mine is just an anomaly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:13 PM
3	Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful? Umm...I've seen it happen a lot..	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:12 PM
3	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them My male friends have commented their exes who are too attractive for them were the most "starfish" y in bed as they just rode on their looks and nothing else. I am sure Instagram models are WAY too attractive for you, and since anything less than that is settling in your eyes, yes youre hypergamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:11 PM
1	Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightist Nah, I have several tall female friends and they tell me their dates all get insecure that theyre taller, even though they themselves dont care	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:10 PM
1	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them You're making the assumption very attractive women immediately land a high earning man who is willing to pay for them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:09 PM
1	Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightist One major myth is that men without options arent picky. Yes they are. Most of my average and below average exes are still single because they dont have options and are too picky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:06 PM
1	Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightist No they dont, they just get insecure their woman is taller.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:03 PM
2	Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful? It comes out later in his actions once you get into a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:01 PM
4	Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful? Any guy Ive met IRL that accepts red pill ideology (they dont usually say Red Pill though, but once you get to know them and their guard comes down they express views that are in line with Red Pill) if they are successful, they end up with shallow, vapid, mean and/or mentally ill women. The few women who arent superficial have self esteem problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:59 PM
2	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them So you are hypergamous. LOL. Im also laughing you think IG girls arent hung up about sex and give better sex...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:57 PM
14	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them Your first 2 sentences sum up the entirety of PPD men, it should be a banner when you visit this forum. Pretty much every whiny male post here comes down to the fact that these average men whine and complain they cannot get Instagram models and generalize Instagram models to the average woman. The frightening thing is they think above average women are average. All of the angst about average men is funny because men do it to average women. Most people are average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:55 PM
1	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them No, most women arent as superficial as you bud. You're projecting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:54 PM
0	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them Most people that are divorcing dont include insanely attractive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:53 PM
3	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them "For a woman it’s very easy, especially if willing to throw a few grand at it, to make themselves way hotter than nature intended. Fake perfect boobs, teeth, facial fillers, hair, make up and clothes. And throw going to the gym regularly on that and damn, these women are already too physically hot for most men." -All of this costs WAY MORE than a few grand. You do know most people are financially struggling right now? You must be in the top 10% of wealth yourself to have thoughts like this. -Alo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:51 PM
1	Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ? I dont expect you to understand since you dont physically bear children. This is like me giving my opinions on morning wood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:47 PM
1	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man Not in my social circle- they are seen as fun boys but super immature and "wont be a good boyfriend" material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:46 PM
3	Has anyone actually seen Pick Me Girls act like “Not Like Other Girls”? Except for the comments towards me have nothing to do with my hobbies. They comment I act way less petty, catty and fake than alot of other women...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:06 AM
2	If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards? You're assuming most men know they aren't attractive enough to be doing that Truer words have never been spoken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:02 AM
1	If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards? I cannot read that...but yes, they are painfully AVERAGE.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:01 AM
1	If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards? Ehhh...maybe some unattractive men but not all of them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 01:59 AM
-4	What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships? Men reject women for opening up too, most men I know dont want an emotional woman anyway...so our society in general doesnt like emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 06:58 PM
15	What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships? That men are desperate and not discerning and that women are selective. I dont find this to be true and it more varies by individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 06:57 PM
–	The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male height None of the women I have been close with that used OLD apps like me filter by height. We are all short though (5 ft 5 and under).	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 06:57 PM
1	Has anyone actually seen Pick Me Girls act like “Not Like Other Girls”? I didnt say they were shitty. I just described behaviors I see more in females than males in terms of social interaction and how I dont exhibit those behaviors. I think I do stand out in that I dont participate in those (other men have noticed this unprompted too btw and commented on it to me, so I dont think its all in my head) Men have plenty of behaviors that you see more in males versus females. Want me to describe those and you can determine if you're Not Like Other Men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 06:54 PM
–	Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusive " Demanding to know where a man has been, who he has been with, and where he is going is par for the course in most heterosexual relationships. Women want to have communication of their man’s every action and input or control over it. " No thats just your social circle bud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 05:17 PM
1	The standard rejections of "no spark, not enough chemistry and not feeling it" is just a nicety of 'I didn't find you sexually attractive.' Yeah this forum isnt indicative of real life. I find IRL, even on OLD apps!, men are way pickier with everything (looks, intelligence, personality, character, hobbies, etc) including who they sleep with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 05:16 PM
3	Has anyone actually seen Pick Me Girls act like “Not Like Other Girls”? I dont think Ive ever been a Pick Me girl (which in my head is a girl who acts like a doormat to keep a man, and puts down other women not doing harmful things in their relationships to make herself look better) I do consider myself Not Like Other Girls in some ways. The ways: -I am not petty or catty. I only have started saying negative things about ex friends once I STOPPED being friends with them and they knew I stopped being friends with them too. Alot of girls stop liking each other over st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 05:11 PM
5	I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak” Yeah "just in case" When I was 32, in my group of friends including 7 girls not including me, we were all trying to get pregnant. Me and the 30 year old had the most issues getting pregnant. Each of us took a year or longer. (Ironically Im the only one out of the group who really tries to be healthy) The 6 other friends who are 35+, they all got pregnant under a year. 2 of those got pregnant within the first 2 months. Another 36yearold friend on the edge of this social circle, she got pregnant o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 05:04 PM
2	Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. " Men want to be loved but they dont want to love. This is why men expect things from women, they expect you to put out by date 3 even if they have shown no interest in you and you went Dutch on dates. When you're in a relationship, men let themselves go while their woman cannot and cannot even age normally like them. Men want their woman to work just like them and do all the "traditional" feminine duties too while still acting like a pornstar after being so exhausted. Generally speaking, men ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 04:27 PM
2	Do most people only look for partners in a narrow age range? Thats funny. When I was 25 I went through a phase where I dated men 30-35 because I didnt have luck with men my age on OLD apps. My aunt actually told me to do it- she said I was "too mature" for men my age. I legit ended up rejecting 3+ men in that age range for the same reasons you listed: the men were bitter and jaded as crap from poor experiences and I didnt want to deal with their baggage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 04:22 PM
2	Men are hypergamous when it comes to looks "You really think the average men is dating exceptionally good looking women and switching parterns for younger hotter women like is underwear? " They want to, men that dont simply dont because they cannot. Men generally tend to end up with the absolute hottest woman they think they can land.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 04:19 PM
–	Men don't care as much about women intelligence in dating, but they do apprecitate it Yep, but she still has to do all the "traditional" feminine roles IN ADDITION to contributing financially. This is why divorce is so common now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:43 PM
–	Men don't care as much about women intelligence in dating, but they do apprecitate it Considering I was dumped once for not being "smart enough" (at math and physics/science anyway) I disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:42 PM
1	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? Yeah, but do women check out, or do they check out because their husband checked out first? Men are more often wired for novelty than women, so they check out quicker IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:14 PM
-1	What is a 'high value woman'? This is true for the honeymoon phase. Once that wears off the guy will start criticizing any way she falls short in his eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:12 PM
4	What is a 'high value woman'? Men also weigh loyalty and respectfulness, plus agreeableness more than women. Due to societal conditioning, women are expected to be more of a "people pleaser" than men and let "boys will be boys" with their disrespectfulness. If women weighed those higher, there'd be SO many single women because few men have these traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:11 PM
3	What is a 'high value woman'? Also want to add that she is willing to be a therapist without getting support in return with no resentment on her end, is not disrespectful at all but puts up with her partner who is ("boys will be boys"), has interesting hobbies and effortlessly integrates herself into his social circle. A people pleaser in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:10 PM
0	Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain? Its both. For the women I personally have known, its A usually. However for men I have found its B. Which is ironic as women are typically viewed more harshy for casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:08 PM
2	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? Nah, I had a wedding of 90 people and my husband wanted it more than me. I get nervous being the center of attention and I was insecure I didnt have as many people to pick to be in my bridal party. The thing is...I'm not ugly...but Im not smoking hot and most men here would consider me to be boring. Thats the catch. I've typically been the "great gal" who is overlooked. The women YOU ALL want and think you DESERVE will DEFINITELY want a big wedding :) Just start picking better man!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:03 PM
1	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? Most men fall out of love with their wife eventually (its why I scratch my head at all the women who want to marry easily, most men will they dont get what theyre signing up for) they just choose to stay and be miserable, or get the benefits of being married while cheating or just being checked out (the perks usually include a cook, maid, therapist, a childcare center while he can further his career at her expense and can get subpar sex whenever he wants) and not fear financial ruin. Few men are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:01 PM
1	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? Women are not more sensitive, men are less sensitive and much more complacent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:59 PM
3	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? Men overstate women "taking men to the cleaners and living it up" while divorcing because they are always the victim. That narrative really only happens to the top 5% richest men anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:57 PM
–	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? The statistic that 2/3rds of divorces are initiated by women ONLY COUNT PETITIONING THE COURT. I use to work in family law! You dont know what the he** you are talking about!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:44 PM
7	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? Pretty much every woman I know who wants their man to make more its because she does everything else. *Its not fair to both work equally and still be responsible for the "traditional" feminine tasks (the average American male thinks this way, hence why it took me so long to find a decent guy who isnt like this)* Also, lets be real, women ALWAYS bear the brunt with children. Its not selfish its simply self preservation. All the women I know working full time at high stress jobs with children …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:41 PM
2	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? That statistic exists because it only shows who petitioned the court. It doesnt show who behaviorally initiates the downfall of the relationship, who ignores repeated cries for help, who doesnt follow the marriage counselor's advice etc. All this statistic shows is that women truly do bear the brunt of household management tasks. Its also a legal tactic to make the other person file in court, even if you want the divorce and she doesnt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:40 PM
3	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? with equal earnings, women can choose to marry, they no longer need to do it for survival but to thrive with someone they love This is why women are marrying less. The quality of men isnt too great I mean most men dont have extremely basic social and emotional skills needed to sustain a relationship and men cannot use their money and marriage-pressure-for-survival tactic to land a woman too good for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:37 PM
-1	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? Also kids are a necessity for the economy...I dont understand why people want Americans to have even less kids than they are now, its going to cause economic problems later. When you're old and in a nursing home thats understaffed dont go crying nobody is there to help you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:35 PM
3	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? So why are 1/3rd of American marriages involving a female breadwinner and this number will continue to rise?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:34 PM
3	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? I live near Washington DC and Im surrounded by couples making about the same amount of money. Very few examples of dramatic income differences, like 40k or more. Also there are women who make a bit more. The only time theres a dramatic difference is when the woman takes off a few years or reduces her hours for small children but that goes away once she returns to work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:33 PM
2	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? I dont think most of those are women thinking they can do better but more men act different once they feel emasculated. DV rates go up when the woman makes more for instance. That just includes PHYSICAL violence not verbal or emotional abuse which is more prevalent than DV. Ive very rarely met men okay with their partner outearning them by a significant amount. Most take it out on their woman because theyre insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:31 PM
1	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? No marriages will just be more equal in terms of contribution outside of income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:30 PM
5	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? Men can easily opt out too, it's called porn. Just a quick 10 minute wank every day mostly kills the sex drive. Lots of men in relationships do this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:28 PM
2	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? Very very unattractive women have nobody who wants to sleep with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:27 PM
0	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? No, ugly women do not have any options. They dont have any men who want to sleep with them. I dont get why you find that hard to understand. If I didnt want kids, I'm not sure I'd date. I went through hell to find my husband and hes not out of my league, hes my equal in every way. If he dies Im never ever dating again. Nope, no man out there is worth the stress and I'd doubt I find an adequate husband replacement. Juice isnt worth the squeeze for most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:26 PM
2	CMV: People try to blame their personal problems on society. For females, it’s usually their self-esteem. For males, it’s usually their dating problems. Hmmm...I have been a lurker of this forum for a long time and regularly see posts of various body fat percentages and BMIs where men rate women for who'd they date. 90% of men on PPD only pick the thinnest women (who happens to also have huge jugs and a big shapely butt of course) They also only rate women on the bottom cusp of the BMI range as the most attractive. Are you saying men on PPD don't represent men? Because thats what youre saying to me...its not just Hollywood. Edit: Im at the upper…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:09 PM
1	CMV: People try to blame their personal problems on society. For females, it’s usually their self-esteem. For males, it’s usually their dating problems. American women are oppressed, but the amount varies upon where she lives, her family, job, race, socioeconomic status, sexual orientation, religion etc. American women are definitely not as oppressed as third world country women but its not the suffering Olympics. Just because someone else is more oppressed doesnt invalidate my suffering. BTW, everything you wrote quoting Barbie's complaints are true. I have personally experienced everything she said in the past during the 10 years I dated inten…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:06 PM
1	There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding. I'll answer this question because it happened to me once. I am turned off by heavily muscled guys but did date one briefly after we got to know each other in a social circle. I started dating him in spite of him not being my physical type, because he was funny and easy to talk to. I also appreciate his fitness dedication despite his body not being my ideal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 03:16 PM
–	Do you think status has a big affect on attraction? Im very introverted and private, dislike having to social with new people a lot, so status is actually a turnoff to me. The thought of having more eyes on me than needed repulses me. I deeply value my privacy. I'll take my middle class average earner anyday thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 02:26 AM