JustBuildAHouse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Stop the "emotional labor" Also they’ll unironically claim that there is no emotional or mental labor in being the sole provider for the family and that losing your job means being unable to support. No emotional labor at all lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 02:22 PM
1	Women, in order to avoid abusive males, shun the completely opposite demographic. At the end of the day “Chads” are the ones with the main opportunity to hurt women. Incels seething online is just that. Sure there’s the occasional crazy one. But the Chads in relationships are the ones continuously taking advantage and abusing (ofc not all of them). But just from a numbers perspective those Chads cause the most misogyny and pain on women. They have their way and take advantage and then somehow some guy who has never touched a girl takes blame. Halo effect is real	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 02:17 PM
1	Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences? They put up with it bc they don’t want to be the ones working full time simple as that. It’s laughable we try to equate the two workloads. Yes taking care of the house is labor but if you have no kids let’s be real it’s nowhere near the same. Even with kids that mental labor still falls on both people. Being sole provider and worrying about being laid off etc. At the end of the day it’s just a more comfortable life to be the one taking care of the home related stuff	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 05:16 PM
1	Q4M: For those who avoid women... how & why exactly? I’d rather have something more genuine. Not really interested in being a passport bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 02:27 PM
9	Q4M: For those who avoid women... how & why exactly? No I don’t have much family and I’m not religious so there would be a large culture gap. I grew up here in rural Alabama	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 01:30 AM
21	Q4M: For those who avoid women... how & why exactly? I’m an Indian man living in the US. I am hyper aware of the stereotypes and preconceived notions that women have about me. I mostly just keep to myself. In the workplace I’ll avoid most social gatherings that take place outside of work. I do have a few coworkers I get drinks with but they’re also awkward nerds like me. But yeah I avoid approaching and especially looking. I have to make a conscious effort since I stare into space a lot and have to make sure I’m not accidentally looking at someone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 01:15 AM
0	Fix for dating and loneliness lies in valuing happy singledom (mostly for men) Once again this all comes down to the definition of single. The single life of an average man and average woman is way different. Someone who goes on weekly dates and has fwb can claim themselves as single. If that was the same experience for most men I doubt they’d complain about the single life. If anything “Chad” is doing this with his roster of women until he’s ready to marry and choose one. But again not the experience of the average man That’s why it’s so funny when women claim that men ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 03:26 PM
2	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit I mean here’s a simple thought experiment exaggerating the numbers. Do you honestly think someone who’s been with 100 ppl has the same emotional intelligence as someone with 5? And yes this goes for guys too but typical women want and encourage that behavior. Also you’re assuming that all of this were healthy interactions and no rebound, revenge etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 05:19 PM
–	Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism created It really seems like a majority of commenters have no idea what the red pill and blue pill is even from or the definitions of them. From the matrix the redpill is basically learning the true nature of the simulation (illusion). Blue pill is just accepting it and living in ignorance. I would argue a lot of guys follow the red pill without even knowing about it. Things like going to the gym, improving yourself, getting money are all considered “red pill”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 07:57 AM
7	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit Pussy itself doesn’t but emotional baggage and trauma for the person themselves does add up	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 07:39 AM
5	Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions. This is the same poster that genuinely thinks women are out here getting gifts for men on dates. Massive delusion about the current dating landscape and this post just adds on to it lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 07:35 PM
–	Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex. Don’t feel desired when she gives you gifts I always laugh when you mention this specifically. Just shows how out of touch you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:55 PM
1	Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular? Choosing bear for “man or bear” then going to get blackout drunk at a frat house. Very curious line of thinking indeed	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 09:52 PM
3	For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear Ding ding ding. Embracing that single life with their roster of guys and orbiters on their phone “Single” can mean entirely different things and circumstances and everyone treats it equivalent	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 08:06 AM
2	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Fair enough just not really many other places to talk about these kind of things. I do appreciate what you guys do. I don’t see that same racism here like I do in other subs	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 07:44 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I understand it’s a rule but this is more of an observation and it doesn’t hurt to have a discussion about it with the current political climate	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 04:50 PM
–	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Never has been a worse time to be an Indian man rn. Stereotypes not great to begin with but with the recent controversies the blatant racism in even left leaning places has been pretty heated	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 10:21 AM
–	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? I agree with everything you say. Sad truth is there are alot of desperate men out there who don’t mind putting up with the lack of enthusiasm or effort etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 05:17 PM
–	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? This needs to be asked with genders flipped for a true response. Like asking women how they’d feel if their bf was known to go the extra mile with his ex. But now he’s “learned” that it’s unnecessary and putting in extra effort for amazing dates is not worth it now that he’s with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 03:52 PM
1	If you’re waiting 3 dates (or a month) to fuck someone, you would have been better off having a hookup and fucking immediately. So he doesn’t feel desired when she’s giving him gifts? He doesn’t feel desired when she’s spending time with him? He doesn’t feel desired when she is spending time caring about his interest, even if those are not particularly her own interests? He doesn’t feel desired when she’s taking time out her day to get to know his loved ones and meet his family? This is so laughable where to even begin. You think women are doing all this before the 3rd date? Especially gifts??? Who tf is meeting family b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 06:52 PM
1	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? Last point is so funny and true. It all makes sense when you realize how terrified they are of the default male experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 04:59 PM
3	The man vs bear "debate" is a case study showing that women struggle with logic and are overly emotional, and thus not worth arguing with. It is hilarious how quickly the bear girls and 4b movement became quiet as soon as the CEO shooter guy was hot. They don’t even try to hide it at this point lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 03:05 PM
2	Women have nothing to gain by dating men, CMV “Single” can also vary a lot. A girl with a rotating roster and hookups is considered single. So is a guy who hasn’t even been on a date	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 04:30 PM
2	Are more and more women choosing to stay single into their 30s? And you’re still missing my point about how both cases are considered single	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 01:44 AM
23	Are more and more women choosing to stay single into their 30s? The word single also means completely different things to different ppl. A woman sleeping around in situationships will claim she’s single. A guy who hasn’t been in a relationship or anything sexual in years or ever will also be considered single. 2 very different single lives	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:33 PM
1	Ukrainian man gets conscripted in Odesa They get conscripted to tinder in Western Europe	/r/MensRights	11/07/23 03:34 PM
6	"In a world increasingly dangerous to women." So sad seeing the posts of large amounts of Ukrainian women popping up on Tinder in Western Europe	/r/MensRights	15/06/23 04:32 PM
2	Anybody else is sick with the whole notion that ugly men are creepy by default? In my personal experience, most of the sexual assault cases I know are by men under the attractive category. Pretty much my brutal experience as an below average Indian dude living in the SE USA. Just painted with bad stereotypes and preconceived biases	/r/MensRights	04/05/23 02:13 PM
5	My wife is leaving. Check to see if she’s cheating on you so you don’t get screwed in the divorce	/r/MensRights	26/11/21 06:36 PM
4	Genuine question - why does a 5ft1 girl care if you're 5ft8 instead of 6ft? That’s not the airplane mode icon. It’s the gps icon. Airplane mode would be at the top left	/r/PussyPassDenied	25/03/21 04:59 PM
4	Genuine question - why does a 5ft1 girl care if you're 5ft8 instead of 6ft? He’s not?	/r/PussyPassDenied	25/03/21 03:05 PM