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| -2 | Pew Research shows that 63% of American men ages 18-29 are single.You do know the B in LGBT stands for bisexual right? Meaning that they like both sexes so they can easily reproduce. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/26 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Men’s Health Month: Men’s health begins at birth. Why don’t we talk about that more?There’s only so many months in a year so some things overlap. Same thing with holidays cause there’s only so many days. For example May which just ended shares Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month and Military Appreciation Month | /r/MensRights | 01/06/26 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Women's expectations for men vs men's expectations for womenSome of y’all will make any excuse to be bad fathers I swear. On one hand y’all complain about being treated like a wallet/ATM yet here you are basically being one because of instead of wanting to actually take care of your baby you just want to “provide resources”. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/26 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Why is it widely accepted and even encouraged for young women to get cosmetic procedures like breast implants, lip fillers, or nose jobs, yet when men pursue comparable aesthetic enhancements, they often face disproportionate ridicule, backlash, or hostility. What explains this double standard?Really cause in my experience, anyone getting plastic surgery especially drastic ones like BBL’s or face lifts etc get critiqued regardless of gender. Especially celebrities cause they’re often getting plastic surgery that makes them look uncanny or botched | /r/MensRights | 16/04/26 05:37 PM |
| 1 | There's no winning as a man in today's worldIf you truly think men are trying to trans themselves so they can be respected more, you clearly aren’t paying attention to the currently political climate that’s been targeting trans people for a while now. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/26 03:05 PM |
| -6 | Dating is scuffed because good men are being thrown under the busThe only issue with dating is that it takes two people to consent to it. Unfortunately if someone doesn’t want to date you (anymore), there’s nothing that can really be done about it. You can feel how you feel but eventually you have to move on and pursue others. That’s really why people don’t really care that men or people in general might struggle to date, because forcing people into relationships isn’t any better. It sucks when people try really hard and are still unsuccessful but unfortunate… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/26 03:02 PM |
| 7 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?LGBTQ kids exist dude. We didn’t just spring up as adults. No one is harassing kids to “accept the rainbow” y’all are just weird when it comes to queer people. Y’all say let kids be kids as if some of us don’t know we’re different at a young age. Y’all consider even mentioning age-appropriate things like “some people have two daddies or mommies” as an indoctrination or grooming. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?There is no nuance with the first topic. Don’t out people in general especially vulnerable kids whom rely on their family for shelter. If you want your kid to feel comfortable coming out to you, make your home a safe environment. 2nd schools are for learning in general. Not just math and science, but also literature, culture, etc. it’s dumb to say that. Kids learn what’s “normal” in their culture and other cultures all the time. It’s education. Also as for your last point, y’all expose kids to h… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?So the issue with outing queer kids is that you put them in danger. You don’t know if the parents are affirming or not and that can cause them to become homeless and abused. Coming is out is a very personal process and it’s really not uncommon for us to come out to peers and trusted adults first before family because those peers and adults can’t make us homeless like family can. If your kid hasn’t come out to you yet, make it a welcoming environment where they’ll feel comfortable. I have very ac… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?So misgendering people is offensive cause you’re doing it to be rude. Mind you even cis people like ourselves can get misgendered. I had a coworker with long hair who got maamed until he turns around and people see his big burly mustache. I had another one with an androgynous name that got constantly he/him-ed through email despite her having her pronouns in her bio because professors kept mistaking her for a guy cause of her name. And as I said no one is gonna call you cis unless it’s very cont… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?Cisgender isn’t a slur. It’s a scientific term. All it means is not trans. It’s like making a fuss over the term straight. Also as I said the average person isn’t going to use the word cis unless it’s very context specific. This is coming from a cis gay dude btw. It’s just the word for someone like me who’s okay with being the gender they were born. The reason y’all get pushback is because oftentimes, the only reason y’all view being called cis as disrespectful is because y’all don’t like trans … | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?How am I the one gaslighting when I’m giving you several examples of conservatives caring. I just find it funny when conservatives try to tell me, a gay person, that conservatives don’t care, meanwhile their politicians do everything I stated above. Don’t piss on my leg and tell me it’s raining. If they truly didn’t care, than anti-LGBT laws wouldn’t be such a pillar of conservative politics but it is so | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 01:39 AM |
| -3 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?Except conservatives have repeatedly try to repeal gay marriage, and other rights from queer people. Not even allowing age appropriate books if they happen to have a queer character or just a character with two dads. Not to mention some states mandating they out queer kids to their parents. Conservatives definitely have an issue with queer people and idk why y’all try to act like we can’t see it with our own eyes. Hell in Kentucky they basically invalidated all trans peoples drivers licenses ove… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?Cisgender just means you’re not trans. It’s not really complicated as cis means “on the same side”. It’s just a short hand description of saying not trans and the only context you would use it is like right now trying to define it or when you need to make a distinction between trans men and cisgender men. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 01:13 AM |
| 10 | If a man is expected to give his life to protect his wife and children, why can't the same be expected of the wife?You know no one is putting a gun to your head and making you do these roles right? Just don’t date or entertain people who expect you to do certain things just because you’re a man. It’s so strange as a gay man seeing how some straight men put themselves in such a restrictive box like just do what you want without caring what society thinks, that’s how social changes happen. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/26 09:18 PM |
| 5 | One of the subtle , and uncomfortable aspects of men losing their voice in society.I personally don’t give af as long as people aren’t literally naked in non-nudist settings. Humans are sexual beings, it’s how we all got here. Sex isn’t anything to be ashamed of, obviously there’s time and place to not mention it around children or at certain events but let’s stop making it a taboo. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/26 07:45 PM |
| 0 | How do we "Fix Inceldom" among boys?Idk it’s hard. Inceldom is more of a mindset issue that ironically just makes their problem of isolation and rejection even larger cause people really don’t wanna deal with all that baggage. It’s just a doom and gloom mentality where they feel like people who just aren’t into them are enemies, completely ignoring the fact people can be kind to you, they don’t have to date you tho. It would also help if a lot of boys or men in general would stop chasing after women who’ve made it clear they don’t… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/26 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do men have to do the hardest and risky jobs?In this day and age you have a choice of employment (well kind of with how shit the job market is). Truth is a lot of these jobs are terrible but they usually provide really good money so that’s how they get people. Maybe women don’t find the money worth having to do labor. Nobody is really forcing it. I’m a man and I don’t enjoy physical labor so that’s why I got an office job. I wouldn’t find the money worth having to break my back nor be away from family. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/26 02:51 PM |
| -6 | What are some examples where the concept of toxic masculinity is used to condemn men and masculinity in general?Yeah I really don’t get it either. Saying things about toxic gas doesn’t mean ALL gas is toxic. Same thing with masculinity. You can have a healthy and secure amount of masculinity. But if you’re bringing other men down for not being as masculine as you, or not allowing yourself to do certain things because you’re afraid of not appearing masculine enough, that IS toxic and not good in general. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/26 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Emasculation examples?I like how I got downvoted yet no one has yet to explain | /r/MensRights | 30/01/26 03:39 PM |
| -1 | Emasculation examples?What exactly is “emasculation” to you people? Anytime I’ve seen someone talk about it, it’s usually just pointing out that men can be more feminine now or do things such as paint their nails which who cares? Shouldn’t we be for all men whether they’re masculine or feminine? Gender roles are dumb, let people do what they want, whether they want to follow them or break them | /r/MensRights | 30/01/26 02:20 PM |
| -3 | TwoX is raging today about men "putting down 'not political' on dating apps"It’s not an organized political effort tho. I mean for fucks sake the reason a lot of women don’t like the right is because of how they’ve been trampling on abortion rights. However there are still plenty of right leaning women, so why not just go with right leaning women? | /r/MensRights | 28/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 2 | TwoX is raging today about men "putting down 'not political' on dating apps"You have the freedom to have your opinions, as much as women have the freedom to not want you because of said opinions. Compatibility is a really thing. I know shocker. You know there’s plenty of women who are conservative or might have similar views to you. Go with those. I will never understand people trying to chase after people they don’t like or would have a problem with. If I was extremely religious, why would I wanna date an atheist? If I wanted kids, why would I date someone who never wa… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/26 02:18 AM |
| 5 | TwoX is raging today about men "putting down 'not political' on dating apps"Why would you wanna avoid those unless you have something to hide? If anything your religious views, your economic wealth, and your politics can be a sign of incompatibility. Hell even talking about kids, wether it’s possible for you or not is also something that should be discussed so you don’t waste each others time. Is someone doesn’t plan on having kids ever but someone else really wants to have children, that needs to be discussed. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/26 02:17 AM |
| 12 | According to a 2024 OnePoll Survey, 82% of Men Say Physical Affection from a Partner Is What Makes Them the HappiestI think it’s because straight men tend to not have intimate close friends whom they can rely on emotionally so they tend to without meaning to offload a lot of their stuff into one person, usually their partners. While women might spread theirs more evenly among friends and partners. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/26 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Speaking as a gay man, why are women taking over all of the *very* few spaces we have?Really that’s interesting cause a majority of drag scenes is still men? Of course there’s different types of drag like male drag aka drag kings. Even on RuPauls drag race, they’ve only casted around 4 biological women (1 of which is a trans man) and every other woman that’s been casted has been trans | /r/MensRights | 19/01/26 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Can the far left be MRAs?Why are you people so hung up on trans people? Yes if a trans man gets pregnant it’s technically a man getting pregnant. Who cares. You would think a MENS rights movement would also want to include trans MEN since trans men who pass deal with a lot of the same issues along with added on transphobia | /r/MensRights | 18/01/26 03:30 PM |
| 5 | People don't have problems in being eugenicists and even social Darwinists about the male loneliness epidemicThe male loneliness epidemic is sort of a controversial subject because there’s camps that don’t believe it’s a thing since EVERYONE is reporting more loneliness and it’s a societal thing happening with the loss of third spaces and rising isolation. Some also think it’s just another way for people to bash men. Now if there is a male loneliness epidemic and it’s caused by males not being able to maintain or make friendships then yes it is sort of on us to help each other and be there for each oth… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/26 03:07 AM |
| -2 | Selective ServiceI mean I don’t blame them. The draft is a terrible thing and we should work as a collective to just abolish it rather than inflict it on other people. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/26 02:14 PM |
| 4 | You've heard of the "pink tax". I now present to you the "blue hole" - where certain product categories for men have fewer options, less features and are generally neglectedEh it’s sort of a chicken or the egg situation isn’t it? It’s complicated because is the lack of options for men preventing men from making those decisions and buying more decorative stuff or extravagant clothing or is there lack of options because men didn’t show interest like women did, so companies took the feedback and prioritized women when it came to fashion or care products because women were the main ones buying. Even now some men are trying to change in fashion what’s considered masculi… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | The Manosphere movement is about men emotionally supporting men, already it’s being attacked by gender studies students.I think the issue with the Manosphere is that the image had been hijacked by the likes of Andrew Tate and other grifters who just spew out red-pill bullshit to vulnerable young men in an attempt to sell them some product wether it’s a class on self help, supplements to get “manlier” or other bullshit. It’s unfortunately filled with actual mysoginistic men who are gonna exasperate the problems those lonely and lost men already have. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Single mother by choice - what do you think?And yet children of same sex couples do just as good if not a little better than their peers. Mostly because unlike straight couples that can just accidentally make children willy-nilly, gay couples usually have to plan ahead with adoption or surrogacy which takes time and money. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Germany on their way to bring back conscriptionWouldn’t the goal to be to get rid of the draft. I don’t get why your sentence is relevant. If you’re against something, you want it gone. Hell it’s like in The Hunger Games, the districts wanted it gone. It’s not like the adults were volunteering to make it where it’s anyone of any age versus children from 13-18. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/25 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Man, 41, Asks for a ‘Gen Z Perspective’ After a Co-Worker, 24, Called Him Out in a Tense Work MeetingIdk I think it’s pretty standard to give credit where it’s due instead of acting like you did it all by yourself. It really shouldn’t be that hard. Maybe she didn’t go about the best way but maybe she felt like she had to nip it in the bud before you do it again. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/25 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Even if feminists are to be believed about female disadvantageRadical idea, how about we treat people as individuals and recognize there’s advantages and disadvantages to being either a man or a woman? Men shouldn’t have to be drafted into war and women shouldn’t have to be subservient housewives unless the individuals want to do that. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/25 12:55 AM |
| 16 | Why Men Are Choosing Solitude Over Dating in 2025 | Psycho ShiftPretty sure they don’t care when a guy they’re not interested in prefers a dogs company over them. People don’t tend to care about what other people do that don’t really concern them | /r/MensRights | 26/10/25 03:16 AM |
| 4 | There are, literally, only TWO reasons why men & women can’t be strictly, platonic “friends”. . .Speaking as a guy, it’s almost like on number two you realized what a friend is (that’s not friends for benefits). Also there is no objective answer, everyone is different. Some people like more mellow low maintenance friendships, others want deeper connections where you know a lot about each other. And yeah friendship entails a lot of things such as letting them friends vent, being there for them. Now if she’s taking advantage by not paying for stuff idk have a spine and do so bit of your volun… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/25 12:18 AM |
| 2 | How Is "Women And Children" Not Misandrist?A yes it’s so nice to have all your decisions made for you and have generally no autonomy. I get that on average men tend to have a hyper-agency problem where women tend to have the opposite in the past and still today in many cultures. It’s a grass is greener situation where of course the person who has to make big decisions would love to be able to turn their brain off for a bit and let someone else take the wheel. Meanwhile, the person who’s been doing other peoples whims would love to have c… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/25 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Is it ‘inevitable’ that men die more than five years earlier than women? This life expectancy gap should get more attention from public health officials, experts sayMaybe men could come together to try to make work-life balance more of a thing? Maybe advocate for more safety standards in normally dangerous jobs? Advocate for a longer weekend and worker protections that would help men not be as stressed? | /r/MensRights | 14/09/25 01:57 PM |
| 3 | What is a female loser?No one is selling the “lifestyle” as perfect but as more preferable than having to solely rely on someone else to gain income. Being dependent on someone else for money (not talking sbout employment but more for single income families) can be a gamble because if things go wrong, it makes it a lot harder to leave or go through life without being able to fend for yourself. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/25 03:46 AM |
| 2 | What is a female loser?I don’t really get how that’s contradictory. A woman being independent just means she makes her own money and isn’t relying on someone else to fund her. Depending on medication for mental health doesn’t mean you aren’t independent and it’s a weird take since a lot of men also rely on anti-depressants. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | It's brutally unfair but so many women refuse to date a man under 5ft 8in OP: More male hate.Has it occurred to you that women like that are just dumb and therefore wouldn’t be worthy of being your partner anyway? Why would you wanna be with someone with no brains | /r/MensRights | 10/09/25 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Why do women always choose the wrong guy.Why do straight men complain women are too picky but then at the same time complain that they “dont pick the right man” | /r/MensRights | 12/08/25 06:24 PM |
| -2 | Explaining "Nose Ring Theory"I’ve never seen people online care if men have tattoos or piercings unless it’s more conservative old people pearl clutching about decency. As for women having nose piercings, I’m sure they’re not trying to attract the guys that don’t like them | /r/MensRights | 12/08/25 06:14 PM |
| -1 | Response to feminists who justify any/all injustices towards men with "But who set that system up"That particular man yes, men as whole tho no. And that’s why your statement falls apart because you said women should be thankful to men instead of women should be thankful to the men that helped them gain rights. And even then I think it’s a stretch to thank someone for doing the bare minimum such as not oppressing others. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Response to feminists who justify any/all injustices towards men with "But who set that system up"All I’m saying is it’s really weird to tell minorities or people who were oppressed to “be thankful” to the very people who were barring them from doing stuff or being seen as fully human in the first place. That’s why I used marriage as an example as I’m a gay man. I’m not gonna be “thankful” to straight people for letting me do what shouldn’t have been denied of me in the first place. Don’t get me wrong I love my allies, but that doesn’t mean I need to thank straight people for not being shitt… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/25 09:03 PM |
| -1 | Response to feminists who justify any/all injustices towards men with "But who set that system up"“See aren’t men like us so generous, we could easily enslave y’all again but we choose not to” y’all in no way are helping your case and I’m saying this as a man myself. You sound like an abuser who says “you should be grateful I only do this much, I could do much worse” | /r/MensRights | 11/08/25 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Response to feminists who justify any/all injustices towards men with "But who set that system up"That’s like saying gay people should be thankful to straight people for finally letting us have the right to marry in all 50 states in America back in 2015 when straight people when it shouldn’t have been banned in the first place. Y’all sound fucking ridiculous. And it’s so funny that y’all are saying “if women were in charge, men would’ve never been given rights” which is a hypothetical, meanwhile men in REAL LIFE were in charge and oppressed women so isn’t that projection much. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/25 01:31 PM |
| 5 | Rewrote Flowers from Miley Cyrus as if it was singed by a ManIt’s okay I don’t exactly see what it has to do with men’s rights tho. Also Miley’s song is already a rewrite (or if anything a different perspective) of Bruno Mars’ “When I Was Your Man” where he laments not treating his girlfriend correctly | /r/MensRights | 05/08/25 02:43 PM |
| -8 | I feel like more men would be happier to break free from gender expectations if we change the terminology surrounding "toxic masculinity".Idk I’m a man and I’ve always known the difference between masculinity and “toxic” or fragile masculinity. Some examples would be not allowing yourself to feel any emotion, being way too afraid of doing something perceived as feminine such as getting a “girly” alcoholic drink (or even iced coffee). The most bizarre example I’ve seen is some guy on TikTok that doesn’t even let his sons use umbrellas to shield themselves from rain cause it’s not “manly” like okay buddy 💀 | /r/MensRights | 04/08/25 12:47 PM |
| 0 | Male Loneliness Epidemic- Let's talk about itIt’s a debated topic because there’s lot of unneeded blame going on when loneliness is a complex issue that can be both environmental and due to someone’s own short comings. You can be lonely because you’re not in the right environment, with the right people whom you can form a genuine connection with. You can also be lonely because you display antisocial behavior, self sabotage or just aren’t good with social interactions which is whatever because everybody has a weakness somewhere. I see some … | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Post in r/askfeminist asking about the "female" loneliness epidemicIt’s unfortunate this sub attracts people who genuinely care about Men’s rights but also people who clearly just hate women and want to misunderstand everything about them | /r/MensRights | 19/07/25 06:34 PM |
| -2 | Post in r/askfeminist asking about the "female" loneliness epidemicWhile yes they may be more of a minority it’s still very important for women and anybody really to have bodily autonomy and we’ve seen the effects of the abortions bans which yet again are hurting more than just women who want abortions. Overall places with these strict abortion laws are seeing higher rates of maternal mortality. So it wasn’t just women freaking out about sleeping around. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/25 03:06 PM |
| -4 | Post in r/askfeminist asking about the "female" loneliness epidemicActually the thing about abortions is more about the right to bodily autonomy and the government staying out of your business. Not only that but restrictive abortion laws have killed and hurt women who wanted their children, either because of miscarriage or ectopic pregnancies in which women had to give “birth” to an already dead baby or in my coworkers case, she couldn’t get anything to pass it until her body started doing it or until she was “sick enough”. Women have died because they finally … | /r/MensRights | 19/07/25 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else feels like this community can be a bit petty sometimes?Feel like the sub would be helped a lot if there was like a venting megathread so people don’t clutter the feed with stuff that doesn’t really have to do with men’s rights. Like yeah dating is hard or unfair, but no one has a right to a relationship. A relationship of any type whether it’s romantic, familial, or a friendship is a two way dynamic in which both parties mutually agree to be in one until one person doesn’t. You can’t legislate friendship or dating | /r/MensRights | 04/07/25 05:35 AM |
| 8 | Why men are not united?Men still do tho? Just because obstacles exist, doesn’t mean men shouldn’t need to organize. Every other group of people from women, queer people, black people etc organized to get the stuff they needed from society. Men have to organize and advocate for ourselves or else why would anyone else care. If the people being affected by something don’t care, why should others? | /r/MensRights | 29/06/25 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Misandry Must Be UnlearnedYeah people don’t get a pick me girl is basically the female equivalent of what MRA call white nights. Brining down your own gender to look like “one of the good ones” or to appear unique | /r/MensRights | 25/06/25 11:04 AM |
| 2 | I'm pretty sure that Women wanting Men to pay for Dates/First Dates is Wide-Spread Financial AbuseI wouldn’t necessarily say that considering men have a choice to not date women like that. Just be upfront you wanna go Dutch and if she has a problem with it then boom you immediately find out y’all aren’t a match and dodge a bullet. Win win. If it reduces your dating pool, it’s just a natural consequence of being more selective in which case it’s up to you how flexible you wanna be with your requirements from people. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/25 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Tinder rolling out filter by height.But isn’t it better to know immediately that they weren’t gonna give you a chance because of height? Idk I feel like it’s just the trash taking itself out | /r/MensRights | 10/06/25 03:17 PM |
| 0 | You know what feels weird about Reddit todayIt’s simply because more people care about Pride and are actually wanting to organize and talk about it more. Both should be celebrated and talked about, but queer people put in the effort to organize and continue to celebrate/talk about it. I think this also separates those who truly care about MMH and weren’t just using it to bash Pride. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/25 08:53 PM |
| 12 | Modern Society 's Gender Roles Pressure HipocrisyBe the change you want to see in the world. Stop expecting women to care about men’s issues and have men get together and fight all these stigmas. We have the power to liberate ourselves | /r/MensRights | 08/06/25 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Where do men even stand in society anymore today?Well it seems like your problem is you’re stuck in those older times and have refused to adapt. Men just need to forge their own paths and decenter women the same way they’ve done man. Stop holding on to old outdated expectations and live for yourself | /r/MensRights | 05/06/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Tinder is testing a HEIGHT filter - as devastated users say it's 'over for short men'As shallow as some people are with their preferences, at the end of the day it’s their prerogative to only pursue people that meet those preferences. If they wanna be really strict with who they date, that is ultimately on them if they end up finding fewer and fewer partners. You can’t scream at people to change their preferences. Don’t chase after the people that made it clear they don’t want you for shallow reasons. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Men's mental health month starts tomorrow!Well queer people have been celebrating pride month since the 70s in celebration of the stonewall riots of 1969 which birthed the modern day movement. They fought really hard for it to be recognized. Also you can celebrate both. It doesn’t have to be one or the other | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Womans past is my problemMaybe start by not idolizing women and recognize that they’re human beings with lives, and pasts and flaws. To tell you the truth you’re hurting your own feelings by pushing this strict image on women you seem to barely know and get “heartbroken” when you find out they’re not like that. Also they’re not wife material for YOU. Try and find a women who had similar values to you and start with an open mind instead of projecting an image she didn’t ask you to project on her. I simply don’t get this … | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Why are men required to give honest biological signals, while it is permitted for women to lie?And honestly, no one really cares if you have a preference or type as long as you don’t be overly mean or put down other people who aren’t. You don’t want to date a fat person? Cool. Just say they’re not your type instead of saying they’re a fat whale. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/25 04:33 PM |
| -2 | TV Guest Says He is Backlisted For Asking a Female Staffer Out For Coffee, Might Sue NetworkPower dynamics are definitely going to play when it’s a boss dating a subordinate. That’s exactly why it’s not allowed due to the power a boss can have over someone that works under them | /r/MensRights | 18/04/25 09:34 PM |
| 2 | If it's #YesAllMen, then what is the fault of gay men?Hey every step is a good step. Like I said in MY experience women tended to be less weird about it but everybody is different of course. But yeah that’s pretty much why queer men tend to gravitate towards women and ally with them instead of straight guys | /r/MensRights | 31/03/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | If it's #YesAllMen, then what is the fault of gay men?From my experience women were way more accepting especially if you’re not a traditionally masculine guy. Straight guys on the other hand not as much or at the very least they were just weird around gay guys. Course not all straight guys. Some are very good allies | /r/MensRights | 31/03/25 12:24 AM |
| -1 | If it's #YesAllMen, then what is the fault of gay men?I understand that which is why it’s kind of irksome when straight cis guys say they wish they were gay or trans. Like it’s not all sunshine and rainbows and no dating other guys isn’t like dating a bro, it’s like being in a relationship which can be just as complicated as straight ones. Especially with this poster said that being a cis man is a crime these days when trans people are actually in danger of becoming a crime just by existing. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 08:15 PM |
| 0 | If it's #YesAllMen, then what is the fault of gay men?Trans people in America at least are also being unfairly persecuted in this country despite being less than 1% of the population. Hell in Texas they’re proposing a bill to charge trans people with “gender identity fraud” which would be a felony. And in several states they are trying to get gay marriage banned again and left to the states by going to the Supreme Court. Be thankful if you are straight or cis, you don’t have to deal with this bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 07:47 PM |
| -1 | Why are people so unaware of male struggles?The reason no one really cares that men are lonely is because A) there’s no right to NOT be lonely. That’s not a right. Nobody is obligated to be your partner and friend. B) Loneliness is a personal issue that anyone including women can experience. C) and this doesn’t get talked about enough but a portion of loneliness is self inflicted when you exhibit anti social behaviors that make people either not want to be around you or you self isolate too much. D) people not wanting to be your friend or… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do men's rights not get as much attention as women's rights even though men face major inequalities?Speaking as a gay guy it’s because women are usually (keyword USUALLY) more accepting of us in our youth than straight guys. Straight guys tend to get all weird once they find out you’re gay despite the fact some of them do gayer shit to each other when playing around. Also it seems like the bold faces of the Manosphere tend to not be the most friendly towards gay people, especially those that are more obvious and gender-non conforming. Don’t even get me started on the transphobia towards trans … | /r/MensRights | 11/03/25 02:30 AM |
| 2 | What is the definition of unintended pregnancy?It just means getting pregnant without intending to. It’s very simple. If you had sex but didn’t intend to get pregnant (even if no protection was used, as dumb as it is) it’s UNintended. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/25 01:28 PM |
| 0 | This is a praise for the "nice-guys" - you are stronger than they recognize youOkay but that has absolutely nothing to do with my original comment. My original comment was in response to the person saying that nice guy is considered negative while nice girl is not and I showed them that nice girl is in fact not positively associated as there’s an entire sub dedicated to shitting on them | /r/MensRights | 06/03/25 01:03 AM |
| 0 | This is a praise for the "nice-guys" - you are stronger than they recognize youWell yes it’s hard for ugly people in general. But my comment was how nice girls isn’t actually considered a positive thing like the comment above is saying. I was telling them there an entire subreddit dedicated to criticizing and making fun of nice girls | /r/MensRights | 05/03/25 11:40 PM |
| -4 | This is a praise for the "nice-guys" - you are stronger than they recognize youIt’s really not tho. There’s an entire subreddit dedicated to “nice girls” which are just the female equivalent of nice guys | /r/MensRights | 05/03/25 02:00 PM |
| 0 | This is a praise for the "nice-guys" - you are stronger than they recognize youI think you’re misunderstanding the term “nice-guy”. There’s a fine line between being a guy who is nice and caring and being a “nice-guy”. The latter is a guy who pretends to be sweet and caring and “nice” up until he gets rejected by a woman and all is sudden starts being mean to her, thus showing the niceness was more of a façade. So no one is making fun of actually nice guys. They’re poking fun at guys who go claim to be nice and different, only to not be that | /r/MensRights | 05/03/25 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I hate how disconnected straight males and gay males' experience are when it comes to societal toleranceAnd yet the conservatives in the US have stripped women of their right to bodily autonomy, have expressed in several states wanting to re-ban gay marriage, and just recently in Iowa took trans people off of the protected class status which prevents them from being discriminated against. But sure it’s the liberals that hate people for their characteristics. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/25 03:22 AM |
| -2 | The Emotional and Social Fallout of Divorce on ChildrenIt’s probably worse to be in a household where two parents obviously shouldn’t be together. There’s a fine line between the occasional argument and hard time versus near daily fighting and instability. Also not to mention people didn’t always stay in marriages for “love” but out of necessity which isn’t good either. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/25 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Combating (Male) LonelinessOr it’s the fact that there isn’t really a cure to other peoples loneliness other than the person having to try to go out there and meet new people…there’s no practical way to make someone less lonely. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 09:21 PM |
| 2 | On Male LonlinessWhile ideally no one shone be alone, the fact is friendship is a two street and you can’t force it. There’s really no practical way to enforce it. It’s not that people are letting other people suffer it’s just that loneliness is a problem really only that person can help solve. And even then people can be lonely for a variety of reasons, including their own anti-social behavior that drives people away. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/24 02:56 AM |
| 3 | On Male LonlinessIdk if people are just sitting around more than it’s the fact not having friends is a persons problem. No one is entitled to friendship so no one is bad for not wanting to be someone’s friend as much as it sucks. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | 4 women have died since 2021 because of the abortion ban. By the lowest estimates (CDC refuses to track cases) circumcisions kill 10 boys a year. We need to stop allowing women to control the narrative. Mens rights are human rights.The problem with the “exceptions” part is the laws are too VAGUE and up to interpretation. Basically hospitals and their lawyers have to test and see what exactly constitutes “life or health” or else there is a chance they can get sued and lose their license. For example my coworker unfortunately had a miscarriage but she couldn’t get the pills to help her pass her dead baby until her body started passing naturally or until she was “sick enough”. Basically when laws are too vague, it causes a lo… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What happened to "we know it's not all men, we just don't know which ones?"Cause even women who wanted to keep their kid or had miscarriages are dying because the laws in some states are so strict and vague that doctors aren’t risking going to jail to do procedures that are legally and medically considered an abortion. So you know if you have any female family members you love or friends that happen to be in these states hope to God the pregnancy goes smooth. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Controversial opinion: We should stop talking about dating and focus on other issues instead.Is this sub not about mensRIGHTS. Dating is not a right. Dating woes and feeling lonely isn’t something you can fix with legislation. Those are personal things. Things like the draft, male rape not being taken seriously, women not being able to be charged with rape, child support laws, etc CAN be changed through legislation | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Controversial opinion: We should stop talking about dating and focus on other issues instead.The issue is though is that dating isn’t a RIGHT. It’s a privilege the other person lets you do with them mutually and can be ended at any time now matter how shitty the reasoning. Putting dating troubles at the front of men’s rights is why it’s not taken seriously because it’s just a bunch of guys complaining about being lonely. But loneliness and being dateless aren’t things that can be helped legally. You can’t force people to date each other or be friends. Those are personal issues. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | “Transmisandry”Gender is a social construct though. What we consider feminine and masculine really boils down to culture. You know there’s actually cultures that recognize more than two genders? Not to mention what’s considered feminine or masculine changes so much throughout time. We consider today make up and wigs to be feminine yet out fore fathers probably wore more (white) make up and wigs then some drag queens do today. The color blue was considered feminine at first but nowadays we associate with boys t… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/24 03:08 PM |
| 5 | What are your constructive criticisms for the MRM, if any?That defeatist attitude is another reason why mens rights can rarely take off. You think minorities like black people or queer people just gave up? No they fought for their rights to be equal no matter how much people were opposed at first. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/24 04:01 PM |
| -2 | Abortion pill or not: should he have a say?Ultimately you’re the one that has to deal with the physical affects of pregnancy. You can consult him but the final decision is up to you | /r/MensRights | 01/07/24 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How many of y'all just found out this is men's mental health month?Pride month kind of came first but also it’s in June because the Stonewall riots of 1969 (which basically birthed the modern gay rights movement) happens in June and the first pride parade in 1970 was also in June a year later to commemorate. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 04:08 PM |
| -2 | How many of y'all just found out this is men's mental health month?Actually May is military appreciation month which is something you’d know if you actually gave a damn about veterans and military people. Not to mention 4th of July, Veterans Day, Memorial Day etc. also Pride is in June to commemorate the stonewall riots in 1969 which basically birthed the modern gay right movement. Remember gay people couldn’t even marry in all 50 states until 2015. Also both things kind of go together because accepting queer men also helps their mental health. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Modern relationships are built on leverageEvery single relationship, gay or straight, is built upon leverage and compromise. If you want your partner to do a certain thing or be a certain way, you gotta something as well. So yeah if you want your partner to stay home all day, you do have to provide a stable income for both of y’all. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How to explain to my girlfriend that I don't want to get married in the future but still want to be committed to herTBH I feel like this is something that should’ve been discussed earlier in the relationship? It would be good to provide some context for how long y’all have been together because I feel like it’s best early on in the relationship or before establishing one to lay out expectations for major life events like having kids, or in your case a legal marriage. Your life is your life and you need to be prepared for her to leave if she finds having a legal marriage very important and valuable to her. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/24 02:13 AM |
| -38 | Majority of "Incels" began as "Allies..."How is it women’s fault that they don’t want to sleep with you or dare you? No one is owed a relationship. No one is ever guaranteed a date or a relationship despite whatever “rules” you try to follow because relationships are a two way street. You can’t force people to be with y’all. Women not wanting to be with you is more of a personal issue. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/24 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Male to Female transistion industry. QuestionTell me if you’ve never talked to trans people without telling me you never talk to trans people. Trans people get surgery to help a thing called gender dysphoria. Being trans in general is not an easy thing to do especially with the up keep but also the transphobia that is really boiling in society right now and yet people like you are convinced this is something people just casually wanna do to escape being male. Being trans isn’t exactly a walk in the park. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/24 09:11 PM |
| -6 | There is nothing wrong with being an incelThere’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin and having a hard time dating or connecting people. However, that doesn’t give them a free pass to be assholes to people and on top of that being assholes to people just keeps them in that cycle. It’s perfectly normal to be frustrated with dating but the whole “Chad” and “Stacy” and “Tyrone” gimmicks are what’s gonna lose a lot of sensible people who would otherwise empathize. The ideology and negativity is what traps some people in that cycle… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The term "pick me" is just a misandrist equivalent to the racist term "n-word lover"Really cause I’ve seen it used on those “not like other girls” girls all the time. Those who bring down other women to look “better”. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/24 04:29 AM |
| 13 | The term "pick me" is just a misandrist equivalent to the racist term "n-word lover"Wouldn’t pick me just be the female equivalent of a white night to y’all? Someone who’ll bring down their own sex to look better to the opposite sex? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/24 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Rant: I think that there is a cultural push for more men to be LGBTQ, and that they wouldn't be without it due to gender discrimination and a lack of real counseling for men and boys.Yeah you can’t just convince someone to be gay or trans. It’s how we’re born. Second of all, being transgender and transitioning isn’t something that happens very fast at all. You act like some guy is gonna be willing to go through countless therapy appointments, inject hormones, and possibly go through sex reassignment surgery because society told him too. These things are time consuming and expensive. Gay people just exist | /r/MensRights | 25/02/24 05:15 AM |
| 2 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Well yeah doing basic chores and maintaining your home IS the bare minimum. Along with just treating your partner right. Are we at a point where y’all feel sad because women won’t applaud guys who do the things they’re already supposed to do? It would be more reasonable if you put other examples of guys going out of their way and the woman still being ungrateful but stuff like treating your spouse right, doing chores around the house, and parenting your kids IS the bare minimum because EVERYONE … | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Why has the media turned so against strong male role models?So are gay/feminine men not also men? What is wrong with a MAN being MAN of the year. Men come in all different shapes/sizes/sexualities/races etc. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why does nobody talk about biphobia against bimen?Can said person explain why they wouldn’t date a bisexual without using biphobic or homophobes stereotypes such as them being more likely to cheat, being seen as less of a man/provider, never going to be satisfied with one sex as a partner, etc. If you can’t explain why you wouldn’t date a bisexual without spewing out some form of ignorance or prejudice, you’re probably being biphobic. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/23 03:30 PM |
| 0 | How to argue for Paternity Tests?What I’m saying is that you can’t tell your partner you can’t trust them fully and not expect some blowback. It would be the equivalent of her out of nowhere asking for an STD test to test if you’ve been faithful to her. That’s all I’m explaining. Someone being upset cause they’re being asked to do a test isn’t always indication that they’re doing something wrong. It can simply be because you are saying to their face you don’t think they’ve been 100% faithful and it’s mental to think that nothin… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/23 06:06 PM |
| -1 | How to argue for Paternity Tests?OR they’re upset because they’re being accused. If you trust your partner you don’t have to test for these things. And sure she can be upset at the implication about it but if she ultimately does the test and it turns out it is yours, you have to deal with the aftermath of looking like an asshole. Like I said fathers have every right to know if the kid is theirs but mothers have every right to be upset at the lack of trust and the implications. You can’t have your cake and it eat too. You can’t … | /r/MensRights | 10/12/23 06:00 PM |
| -1 | How to argue for Paternity Tests?Except asking for a paternity test does on some level imply you don’t think your partner was faithful. I don’t exactly get why you people can’t get this through your head. It’s the same with asking to go through your partners phone, if you don’t suspect anything, you wouldn’t need to do that or test. A father 100% deserves the right to know if a child is his, BUT the mother also has every right to be upset when asked to do a paternity test. We need to call spade a spade. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/23 05:49 PM |
| -4 | Treated differently for being gay.Maybe instead of bringing other queer people down because you’re a more “normal” gay then you’d be treated a lot better. You’re not better than other LGBT people just because you’re a “normal” acting gay guy. Nobody really cares if you don’t like make up or you don’t act stereotypically feminine. What people might have a problem with is that you’re basically doing the whole “not like other girls” phenomenon but the gay version. “I’m not like other gays, I don’t wear make up or do feminine things… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/23 04:04 PM |
| -1 | why is it misogynistic to protect young men against brainwashing?You people are just way too hung up on other peoples sex lives. You’re allowed to have your preferences but for fucks sake stop trying to shame other people for how they live. If someone wants to be a slut, let them be one as long as they are being safe and not hurting other people. When someone is single, they can do whatever the hell they want in terms of how much sex they want. If you have different values, you don’t have to date that person but at the same time you also don’t have to bash sa… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/23 03:25 PM |
| -2 | why is it misogynistic to protect young men against brainwashing?What does cheating have to do with anything. If you’re single and want to have sex you should be able to do that. You’re single, there’s no rules. Now if you’re in a relationship and the other person is that completely different. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/23 03:21 PM |
| 12 | college quiz. this one pulled down my grade. sociology class is just trying to force everyone to be gay. subtle misandry directed at white men embedded throughout. for example, it referred to white males as misogynists, homophobes, transphobes, etc... with no proof. teacher is a woman so it figures.All you posted was a word and definition quiz. Socially doesn’t turn people gay 💀 | /r/MensRights | 29/07/23 11:46 PM |
| -5 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?Yet again that’s not a gotcha. Meh shouldn’t have been doing that in the first place. So there’s no need to thank them for having human decency and deciding not to be oppressive anymore. It’s the bare minimum and nobody should’ve been oppressed in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:59 PM |
| -4 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?But it was also meh that kept them from having rights in the first place. That would be like telling blacks people the only reason they have rights is thanks to white people when white people were the ones oppressing the black people in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:45 PM |
| 35 | I think men should not be ashamed for having certain preferences/standardsAs long as you’re respectful to women that aren’t exactly your type, people should have no problem. I feel like that should be a general rule for everyone though. Have whatever preferences you want as long as you aren’t being nasty or rude to people that don’t fit them. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 18 | Barbie (2023) is Pro Feminist Propaganda MovieThe entire franchise of Barbie is based around well Barbie, so of course Ken is just another accessory she has. What made Barbie so different from other doll lines when she first premiered is that she had different jobs and wasn’t just another babydoll or housewife for kids to take care of. So it makes sense that in a movie about Barbie, that Ken’s would just be Ken’s. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/23 12:38 PM |
| 0 | The forceful inclusion of women into Male only clubs or groupsAh yes GTA, a game where someone can literally die and be brought back via a hospital multiple times and where you can literally get away with murder, but it’s a woman forcing people out of cars that ruin it. And Sady is ONE character in the game but it’s ruined because she’s more hardened due to her husband passing away. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/23 12:41 PM |
| 0 | The media has made women truly fear men.It also doesn’t help that when a women is a victim of a crime, the thing people immediately say is “why was she out at night? Why was she by herself? Why wasnt she more careful?” It’s like people can’t decide wether women should be cautious or not because being cautious hurts some people’s feelings but then in the same breath want to blame the women for not being cautious enough | /r/MensRights | 26/06/23 12:53 PM |
| -6 | The media has made women truly fear men.It’s kind of a double edged sword and women can’t really win in either situation. If she’s too cautious y’all complain because women are wary of y’all and yet whenever a woman gets assaulted or murdered, the first thing people are gonna say are “why was she out at night? Why didn’t she take precautions against the bad men?” So which is it? Should women be cautious of strangers or not? | /r/MensRights | 26/06/23 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Anyone find it weird that June, which was men's mental health month is now pride month?Except Pride month has been around since the 70s and predated men’s mental health month. Also with only 12 months in a year, there’s a lot of overlap with special events and holidays | /r/MensRights | 05/06/23 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Gillette's Toxic Masculinity ad directed by a woman; Bud Light's ad approved by a female VP... see the trend?Jesus Christ you people are so sensitive yet you call other people snowflakes. Trans people existing and being on ads is not shoving anything down anyone’s throat. You don’t have to buy the cans if you don’t want to. As that person said Budweiser and other beer companies like Coors have been pro LGBT for a long time before it was cool and profitable. Get over yourself | /r/MensRights | 11/04/23 12:42 PM |
| 9 | Tried explaining my issues to a girl. It didn't work.I mean in this instance you basically and presumably shared a lot of heavy things with someone you haven’t seen since the pandemic 💀. Heavier conversations can be hard to navigate over the phone, especially with someone you haven’t seen in a while. You probably caught her off guard if anything. However if you warner her ahead of time and she agreed to call that can be a different story. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/23 01:23 PM |
| -6 | Showing interest is an affront?Well yeah I’m pretty sure anyone would want attention from someone they find attractive. But my point kind of still stands, in general people don’t like being approached out of nowhere especially when they’re trying to go about their day. Especially when they’re making it clear they don’t wanna be talked to. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 05:16 PM |
| -12 | Showing interest is an affront?Do you guys in this sub just never talk to women and get why they don’t like being approached when they’re just trying to go about their day? If they’re not reciprocating, have earbuds in, or are generally trying to make themselves smaller so that people won’t see them, they’re more than likely not interested. It’s not hard to get that some people don’t like being approached because it’s happening to often and they don’t like the unwanted attention. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.This might be unpopular but I’m of the camp of every guy deserves to know if his kids are his and that at the same time the woman being asked to do the test also has a right to be offended and even leave the relationship. I believe paternity tests should be done at birth to spare the awkwardness and every party’s feelings. If you truly have doubt your kids are yours and you want to tell your partner to get a test done, you also have to be an adult and deal with the consequences of telling your p… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 01:21 PM |
| -16 | Why are men constantly shamed for their high sex drives or “only wanting sex” as if it is some horrible crime?I mean men sleeping around or being sexual isn’t as stigmatized as a women doing the same thing. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 04:45 PM |
| -26 | Why are men constantly shamed for their high sex drives or “only wanting sex” as if it is some horrible crime?So are you implying that men are just horny sex beasts that can’t control themselves? If you just want sex you can do that, as long as the other party is aware that that is the situation. And men only get “bashed” for their “high sex drive” when they try to force their partners into sex rather than it being more consensual or when they cheat as a result of not getting as much sex. Men are perfectly capable of controlling themselves. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Are most women bisexual? And the raise of lesbianismThey would still be bisexual because bisexuality is about attraction and less about who you date. Bisexuality is different for each person and the attraction isn’t always 50/50. It can be 20/80, 30/70, etc etc. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/23 12:53 PM |
| 2 | In my experience, outspoken feminist 'pick-me' guys usually do more sexist things towards women than the average MRAIn my experience, the “Pickme” girls are usually women who bash other women in front of guys in order to look better. Kind of similar to “not like other girls.” It’s okay if a girl is more masculine, no one likes someone who bashes other girls in order to look like “one of the good ones.” Similar to white knights for men. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/23 01:21 PM |
| -12 | I gotta say it drives me nuts that the "body positivity" movement only applies to women. For men? Expectations are higher than ever. And you see it everywhere.Well the woman who were doing the same thing weren’t exactly called good things either and still aren’t. Women weren’t just handed it. They had to fight for it too. That’s the thing is that men are too prone to give up on these issues when they face any sort of push back but you have to continuously fight push back if you want people to listen. This whole defeat attitude is exactly why men’s rights or issues doesn’t gain as much traction. Other minorities like black people or LGBT people had to … | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 07:52 PM |
| 6 | “Progressive liberals” cheering the exclusion of J. K. Rowling from a Harry Potter forum hijacked by far-left totalitariansSo what does this have to do with men’s rights? Oh no a known transphobe figured out people don’t like her because of her views. Transphobes don’t belong in any community feminist or MRA. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 06:20 PM |
| -20 | I gotta say it drives me nuts that the "body positivity" movement only applies to women. For men? Expectations are higher than ever. And you see it everywhere.More men just need to advocate for body positivity and to have more male models of every size. Body positive women didn’t just get representation out of nowhere. They actively fought for it and talked about it. Men need to do the same if they want that kind of representation. The squeaky wheel gets the grease. So far it seems like men are fine with the status quo so unless they say something like the women did, companies are gonna assume men don’t care about it so they don’t have to do anything … | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 04:58 PM |
| -2 | Do you think that it’s a man’s right to question the paternity of their kids and ask for a paternity test?I was being hypothetical. In any sense he has a right to be suspicious if he wants and she has just as much of a right to not want to be with someone who finds her suspicious. Asking for a paternity test is saying you don’t trust your partner. If your partner agrees to it and it turns out the kids are yours, then you can deal with the fallout of having accused your partner and look silly. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 02:45 PM |
| -4 | Do you think that it’s a man’s right to question the paternity of their kids and ask for a paternity test?Well asking for a paternity test is basically telling your partner you don’t trust her. Heck I’m a guy and I’d be pretty miffed if I was a girl and my boyfriend/husband did that. Course I’d do the test and let him have egg on his face when it turns out it is his. She has just as much a right to her feelings as he does is. You keep asking her to consider the guys feelings but then downplay hers and her reasoning for not wanting to be with a guy who mistrusts her. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 01:32 PM |
| -2 | “We can still be friends”I kind of doubt they were flirting back…maybe being polite because it’s awkward to be flirted with by a complete stranger but I feel like OP might have just been mistaken. They outright told him they were already in relationships and that they could just be friends. I don’t know how much more clear that could be. Some people mistake any act of kindness or politeness as flirting. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/23 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Shot down after request to be my valentine, turns out she was polyamorousSo first of all, polyamory isn’t cheating so long as ALL partners are aware of each other. If it’s not your thing, fine, but don’t make ignorant statements and be shocked she isn’t speaking to you.Second of all, did she actually have feelings for you considering she admitted that she was in love with someone else? It kind of sounds like you were mistaken, tho I don’t know all the details | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on passport bros marrying foreign women rather than western womenI just find it interesting when people in the MRA say they don’t want men viewed for their wallets but will then also be passport bros to get women who are probably in worse financial situations then they are who may or may not be using the man to escape her own situation. It’s very confusing | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 01:38 PM |
| 6 | I think its high time western society go back to ChristianityIt’s not just one crazy guy tho. Christians for a long time we’re protesting that very friend’s right to get married and even preach Conversion Therapy. The whole thing about Saudi that you mentioned is completely irrelevant to the conversation. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/23 10:23 PM |
| 6 | I think its high time western society go back to ChristianityThe same Christianity that forces men into gender roles to be the provider and do work for women? The same Christianity that’s homophobic towards gay men, the same Christianity transphobic towards trans men? I don’t get how you can be for men’s rights and at the same time advocate for a religion that forces men to be in positions and customs that they are trying to free themselves from | /r/MensRights | 04/02/23 08:38 PM |
| 6 | Is birth control pills turning women and children that they carry into lgbt.That’s a ridiculous assumption. What does this have to do with men’s rights? Also maybe because it’s more acceptable, more people are coming out instead of being in the closet. And people fight for LGBT rights because it’s dumb that people can be discriminated against for something as stupid as sexuality or gender identity. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Does Anyone Else Feel Lost When It Comes To Defining Manhood?It just seems like you have an extremely narrow view of what masculinity is. Also masculinity, like femininity, changes with the times. Usually we associate wigs and make up with feminine things yet the founding fathers and rich aristocrats of the old days did just that, wear powdered wigs and make up. You’re kind of thinking too hard about it also who cares? Let men do what they want. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/23 04:39 PM |
| 23 | How Disney's Turning Red normalises false accusationsYou do realize this scene was used to show just how insane and detached from reality the mother is right? It would be one thing if it was actually promoting it in a good light but the entire plot and point of the movie was that the mother was in the wrong because she sheltered her daughter too much and could not fathom that her daughter wasn’t some perfect version of her that she made up. This scene is supposed to paint the mom in a bad light and show how insane she is along with other scenes th… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/22 01:36 AM |
| -6 | Anyone tired of movies where 4’2” tall women massacre 42 military trained men?I really don’t care. I feel like most movies nowadays have a good mix of either gender dying in a fight sequence against the protagonist. If they happen to fight against an all female or all male institution it’s whatever. Black widow was kind of like that because they were in an institution whos sole purpose was to kidnap girls and turn them into murder machines. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/22 06:18 PM |
| -1 | Anyone tired of movies where 4’2” tall women massacre 42 military trained men?I never get this kind of complaint when the same thing can be said about some of the male leads/superhero’s in films. One guy is just as unlikely to be a one man army that can kill 100s of armed strangers that are all trying to kill him as a small petite woman is. It’s about the action. A lot of small unrealistic things like cars blowing up at a simple touch or shooting guns inside not causing anyone to go deaf happen yet that’s what you get tired of? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/22 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW?And that’s true. The trouble is people like OP are putting all the superficial things on a pedestal and can’t see that there’s a multitude of reasons why couples break up and usually it’s due to one or both parties being unsatisfied in the relationship. Having a good career, and looking good might boost your chances of getting into a relationship, but they won’t necessarily be a fail safe if it turns out y’all just aren’t as compatible anymore as y’all grow and change throughout your life. Long … | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 10:10 PM |
| 8 | Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW?That has nothing to do with the conversation tho. People like the OP are acting like all the superficial things he listed like the guys career, how much he made, etc. somehow negates any issues the couple might be having. A) she out earns him so it clearly isn’t about the money. B) You can be a star athlete or a billionaire and people still won’t want to be around you or stay with you if your personality/values don’t necessarily compliment or match theirs. Relationships are complicated because h… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 09:50 PM |
| -5 | Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW?Yeah do people like this poster not think that two people in a relationship can simply just grow apart because their personality/values no longer align with one another. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 03:26 PM |
| 37 | Aita for mocking the person who works hard all day so we can have a house and food? Just gross how many people think she did the right thingEven if the Dad works hard all day it doesn’t give him a right to act like that. If that’s truly how he acts, he needs to change it because it’s clearly getting at his family. Being the one that provides stuff isn’t a free ride to be an asshole | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 08:19 PM |
| -4 | YouTuber: “Guys are gonna be creepy and it’s sad”Or maybe chat with them in places where it’s expected to talk to strangers like a party, social events, or clubs. I think most people in general don’t want to be approached by complete strangers while just getting some coffee at Starbucks. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/22 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaSo since women don’t punch men, you’re basically saying that men can’t be victims of domestic violence from women? Isn’t that the opposite of mens rights? | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 01:24 PM |
| 9 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaAnd somehow a man beating the same 200 pound or bigger men is more realistic? One man that can kill about 1,000 other men in a fire fight and survive is “realistic” but a woman doing the same thing isn’t ? | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | how men's rights is perceived as cringe and what to do about itIt also seems like it’s less accepting of non-heterosexual males. I’ve seen some homophobic/transphobic stuff on here be upvoted which is weird because men can be trans and can be gay/bi. So it makes no sense to tear down men in a mens movement. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t women like men having opinions?Anyone can have any opinion they want, that doesn’t mean people have to be with you. Everyone has their boundaries. You probably would break up with a girl if she starts saying misandrist stuff. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 12:54 PM |
| 3 | “Studies show young & middle-aged men are the loneliest they’ve ever been and it’s probably going to get worse. They found that the most vulnerable people to loneliness were young men living in individualistic cultures.”Yeah that’s not how it works like at all. You can’t make someone who’s straight be gay and vice versa. I knew I was gay at a young age. Have never desired women. In my 20s, still the same thing. Straight men are gonna wanna have sex with women. Also you’re really discounting the fact that bisexual men (and people in general) exist. So you’re more talking about bisexual men who have sex with both, then straight men who turn gay. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | The truth about gender-affirming care - a short videoTrans people aren’t sexually confused. They know who they are. You can’t say you’re pro-mens rights and be against LGBT men because we’re also men. Trans men are men. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/22 05:20 PM |
| -2 | The truth about gender-affirming care - a short videoOh god more transphobia on this sub? Mens rights is for all men, no matter race, sexuality, or gender identity. Also cis people receive gender affirming care all the time. Cis guys take testosterone. Women get boob jobs after having their breasts taken out due to cancer. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | This can't be legal to take a father like that from their child.Except the family wasn’t being respectful of the child? Cant expect respect when you’re being transphobic. She did the right thing. The father should be defending his kid. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/22 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Whelp, they just ruined Joker 2. ANOTHER good film with a female part crowbarred into it to try to attract feminists-Infamous feminist Lady fucking Gaga cast as "female joker" female lead, distracting from Joker.....So it’s a movie about World War 2 but it’s somehow not “political” even tho it’s about you know a war, which is part of politics. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/22 11:11 PM |
| 2 | I find myself disgusted by "sex work" and wonder how, in a world it's respected, men by and large can be any more than financial slaves or lonersSo how is it that a man going to an escort or some BDSM place is fine but onlyfans is somehow predatory? | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:31 PM |
| -1 | bro what is up with all the toxic groups on reddit?So you were being transphobic? | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 10:09 AM |
| 2 | It's not sexist to expect someone working in the service industry to be kind and courteous or smile when doing their jobAlso some people just gave resting bitch face 💀. Like sorry my natural face makes me look pissed, smiling for too long hurts my face cause I have to force it. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | I did not know anything about Men’s Mental Health Month being last month until I googled when it was.Pride month is in June to commemorate the Stonewall riots which birthed the modern gay rights movement which, as you guessed it, happened in June. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 12:04 PM |
| 4 | Genuine questionsJust as a point, May is actually Military Appreciation Month, so they do in fact get a whole month as well. Also a lot of LGBT people include men so. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | A more nuanced poll on abortionWell that’s YOU. People shouldn’t have to carry to children to term because of YOUR convictions. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | A more nuanced poll on abortionMy mom was responsibly. She was taking birth control. Women should be able to abort for any reason whatever. Fuck the traditional marriage and relationships. Those mean nothing to me. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 0 | A more nuanced poll on abortionYet I didn’t care. It was my mothers decision. I believe every woman should have that decision. The fact she wanted me, means she actually loved me. Children should never be born to parents that did not want them. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:38 PM |
| -2 | A more nuanced poll on abortionMy mom was on birth control when she had me. Apparently one of the medications she was taking to help with flu messed it up and she ended up pregnant with me. She even considered aborting me. But I don’t care. I’m glad she had the choice. She chose to have me. Every woman should have that choice. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 7 | A more nuanced poll on abortionPro-choice, I don’t need anyone to justify why they want an abortion. Not my business. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.Yeah people apparently don’t get satire or parody to make a point. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.You realize it was just something to show how ridiculous it is to police women’s bodies? It wasn’t a legitimate bill. It was just pointing out that just like it would be ridiculous to make it mandatory for men to go through vasectomy, it is equally ridiculous to make a woman carry an unwanted pregnancy. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 10:32 PM |
| 4 | "Rape is rape - it's simple you idiot".Sex without consent is rape…literally if you did not consent beforehand to having sex while asleep (as in they never said it was okay to do that) it’s rape. It does not matter how long the couple has been together. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 07:49 PM |
| -3 | Zuby: I hate the way modern society constantly tries to tear down good men.Even if it was 10 years ago this man was in his 40s. He was grown. Even teenagers ten years ago knew it wasn’t a good word to say. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/22 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Just had my first son.....What do trans people have to do with this? Also that’s just a transphobic stereotype. You’re probably not gonna see a guy in a dress trying to molest little girls in the bathroom because a simple sign isn’t going to stop predators. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/21 03:08 PM |
| -2 | Men's rights Censorship by social mediaFreedom of speech goes both ways tho for companies and people. Reddit has the right to have whatever (legal) content it wants and to censor whatever it wants because it is Reddit’s property. Ellen Degeneres can disinvite or outright ban anyone she wants because it is her show and her property. You have the right to say what you (legally) want so long as it’s not something like a bomb threat or threat to politicians etc. there are limits everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | The UK trans debate really speaks to how little care is paid to menWell passing trans men probably go through the same issues as, people are going to treat them as they do other men. However transmen also have to deal with unique issues for being trans in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Protect Yourself Against Sexual Misconduct“She was also really drunk” why the fuck are you hooking up with a drunk woman? That’s definitely gonna be a case | /r/MensRights | 08/02/21 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Are modern women and feminists contributing to the rise of men who identify as incel?So I’ve read some MGTOW things out of curiosity and I feel like there’s a difference between “incels” and “people who just happen to not be able to get a relationship or laid.” Incels are those guys that overly hate women and act really misogynistic because they can’t get a date or laid. YOU however seem to just be someone who happens to not be able to find a relationship at the moment. As for your question, I feel like it’s far more complicated than women having high standards. Getting a succes… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/21 11:58 AM |
| 1 | How do we get equal reproductive access for men?You act as if fathers are gonna die. At the end of the day it’s the mother’s body. The fathers don’t have to go through anything physical. Fuck what the father wants, it’s her body. He wants a kid so damn bad, go adopt | /r/MensRights | 29/12/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I turned down sex because she refused to let me record her consenting. I feel really bad about it, and I’m not sure if I made the right decision.I mean even saying that she consented on video doesn’t exactly hold much. People can withdraw consent at any time during sex. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | A bunch of girls made this guy take down this post lolI feel like there’s a slight difference between undersecualized and fetishized. Fetishizing is never a good thing. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 2 | The gender bias in this post is disgusting. Agreed to kids post 30 and tries to force someone into having kids. anyone even saying the man has a choice here is getting downvoted insanelyWhat does this have to do with a man’s choice? The man had a choice, he made the choice not to support his wife throughout the pregnancy and now that the baby is born and he changed his mind, all of a sudden he wants to reconcile. She’s under no obligation to take him back. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Pump n Dumping Gay ChicksOr gay guys just like guys and some get horny | /r/MGTOW | 16/02/18 04:11 PM |
| 7 | Why has You Tube star Logan Paul been ruined for accidentally coming across a suicide victim and posting it yet this female is given prime space advertising what she filmed? Double standards or what?It’s literally a forest known for having dead bodies. No one going there should be that surprised to find one. | /r/MGTOW | 23/01/18 12:50 PM |
| 9 | MGTOW - When women complain about sexual abuse and harassment just remember this image. There's also tons of women that freely sign up for abuse pornI know that people have some weird fetishes bit as I said, just because someone likes this stuff doesn’t mean they want to be raped. Plus there’s that whole debate if a rape fantasy is even rape in the first place. Like if you want it than it really isn’t rape. | /r/MGTOW | 30/12/17 03:52 AM |
| 11 | MGTOW - When women complain about sexual abuse and harassment just remember this image. There's also tons of women that freely sign up for abuse pornYou do realize that signing up for porn, no matter how physically violent, means that this person is giving consent right? That’s what separates sex from sexual assault/rape. Doesn’t matter if a girl is into hardcore shit, that does not mean she’s down for being raped. | /r/MGTOW | 30/12/17 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Suck it tradcons! First marriage was deconstructed with widespread lifetime singletons/MGTOWs, and now even reproduction is being deconstructed with "snowbabies". 25 year old woman gives birth to healthy baby from embryo frozen 24 years ago.Thanks for the correction. But my point still stands. Are people on this sub really bashing a guy for wanting to be a parent? | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/17 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Suck it tradcons! First marriage was deconstructed with widespread lifetime singletons/MGTOWs, and now even reproduction is being deconstructed with "snowbabies". 25 year old woman gives birth to healthy baby from embryo frozen 24 years ago.Are you guys seriously ripping into a dude for being an adoptive father? It’s not being cucked. Some people wanna be parents and sometimes can’t do it the traditional way. | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/17 01:55 AM |
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