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| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.My issue. Is they don’t care enough to listen or consider something than their own assessment. A ten year old being slandered on national television after being assaulted and impregnated isn’t a small one off circumstance, nor is it negligible as a measurement of the state of things. My views were also shaped by my own experiences and the people in my actual, physical life, long before social media had any presence is my upbringing. The idea that anyone but sexual assault survivors can assess th… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.I know you’re not responding further but it just occurred to me. A ten year old girl was raped and Impregnated this year and slandered by the governing officials in her state and the media in defense of abortion laws. A ten year old. Come on. Tell me that there is real justice for sexual abuse survivors. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.1) feminism is a movement not the beliefs of every single individual who follows it. Just like any movement. 2) MRAs are e really passionate about the prison system so what is even your point???? 3) they’ve supported other men and also apparently opened some men focused shelters a welfare systems which we are lacking. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsJhj5gcYR/ Just 1 post. Filled with comments of their own experiences with cervical biopsy. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/30/sunday-review/women-sterilization-children-doctors.html Barriers in voluntary sterilization. Going back 9 years r/childfree had to create a resource for people to find a doctor that is even open to discuss voluntary sterilization. We go to the doctor. We say a procedure hurts. It needs anesthetic. We get told it doesn’t. We don’t want to exp… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.🤦♀️ I am not the only woman experiencing these things. It is not one OBGYN. Or one state. That is what makes it systematic. I do not need to divulge my medical history to speak on why it is abhorrent to perform a painful procedure without pain medication. No where in that did I place the burden of blame soley on men. Because what women are experiencing and what men are experiencing is being perpetrated by both men and women. Both men and women tell men and boys to “man up” “stop crying” and the… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.While you’re trying to convince me people give a damn. The approach to tell me that this shit isn’t happening. That my own experiences. My families experiences. My friends and loved ones. It didn’t happen. That people care so much, that I’m full of it, when I say there is no actual accountability and support. That isn’t caring. It’s minimizing and expecting me to be satisfied with laws that might as well be for show. I don’t know nor waste my time on how many are committing the crimes because it… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Happy to help ❤️. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Hey it’s okay. It sounds like your mother was a complicated person who tried hard to be a good mother despite not knowing how to fully put aside some scars and baggage. She must have loved you. I’m glad she was able to be there for you in a way that made you feel the need to say it now. Sometimes good people do bad things. Sometimes bad people do good things. The world is crazy and confusing. It’s ok to be mad at her for the things she did that hurt. And love her for the things she did that help… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.And thanks for stopping to have a conversation. Talking to people helps spread awareness and change. When we stop having conversations we end up with -waves hand broadly at the pc vs pL atrocity- things like that. I would love if you joined r/ProProtection We do need more male voices lol. Especially ones that can have a conversation with someone they aren’t sure they agree with, without pulling out the pitch forks | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.She was in an abusive situation. And frankly I don’t get to decide what hurts you or anyone else and neither should someone else get to look at another person and tell them their pain isn’t real. Just getting an IUD inserted is enough to bring me to literal tears. That is how my body registers pain. You telling me “it doesn’t hurt you” does not make it any less painful for me. That isn’t how it works. So a cervical biopsy without pain management while I’m told I’m full of crap and being treated … | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Well I’ve always been passionate about sexual safety advocacy in general and over time it has just expanded. But I would say that my greatest push would be my husband. Not the way you’d think though. He is… an amazing guy. Like just the best person I know. But we are still human and have had our difficulties. So I would be talking about our issues and people would run to my defense or to place blame on him. And it would be such an uphill battle to get them to understand he wasn’t the problem. We… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Your mother wasn’t a feminist. She was a man hating extremist who stood by while her child was abused and participated in it herself. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey to brain dumpling whatever garbage she imprinted on you. I hate that you’ve experienced sexual assault but hope that recognizing and validating your own experience provides some healing to you, and your voice as someone deserving of the same bodily autonomy as anyone else. As for the last portion. I understand your p… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Second edit: that young boy you spoke about. He was also a victim of a sexual crime. That girl, lying about his actions is going to affect his relationship with sex and sexuality for the rest of his life. The heinous nature of sex crimes is only partly about the physical. Much of it is the lasting psychological scars it leaves on the survivors. So everytime he wonders if someone is going to accuse him of something. Everytime he wonders if he’s only seen as a rapist. Everytime his sexual integrit… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Oh no it wasn’t lol. I was saying that I thought my words sounded condescending and stating they were genuine | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.I’m glad that the cervical biopsy wasn’t painful for you. For many close to me it was quite literally a traumatic experience both physically and mentally as they were told that having a piece of their body punched out didn’t hurt. Medical mistreatment is a systematic issue that men and women are both responsible for. As for my sil, what context do you need? Voluntary sterilization is a decision that affects no one but the person opting for it. But it is an option denied of women everywhere for a… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Nice to meet you, I would love to know what has brought you here, and what issues you’re passionate about. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.It’s cool. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.A person can have a house rule that shoes are not allowed in the house. But if all they do is repeat the words “shoes are not allowed in the house” when someone does it, then it is blatantly permitted. The homeless shelters do not stop the issue. They’re a bandaid. For everyone. And I recognize that men don’t even have that. But when my grandmothers rapist, my mothers rapists plural, my molester and so many more walk free, even when we report, it is illegal in name only. What I am trying to tell… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Pap smears?? Honey. A cervical BIOPSYis not a Pap smear. And who said I blame men for Them?? Who? A Pap smear is exactly that. It’s a swab with a long Qtip. A cervical biopsy is a literal hole punch from your cervix. Just like a uterine biopsy is a literal scraping from your uterus. Again. Fully awake, no pain management. I’m talking about the systematic medical abuse faced by women in our medical care And I’m also talking about the medical neglect men face. FFS. Medicine doesn’t even stop and c… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Do you hear yourself? That’s the exact same argument used by anti women men to say that feminism is about male Oppression “unless you start talking about the prison system” The reality is both MRAs and Women rights advocates, “feminists” or not, are a part of the systematic problem that creates victims made and female. There are so many comments in here and posts about men who were Alleys, being subjected to conversations about how all men are rapists without so much as a “oh but you’re differen… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Thank you for the link. Started the article and I will continue to read it and see what it’s about | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.One of your comments actually said “look at your boys” when it came to male sexual assault and violence. Edit: copied it here And… y’all are the ones committing them! Against each other! By an unbelievable margin! Talk to your boys, not us. Which is why I commented that. The reality is many male victim sexual violence and domestic violence crimes go unreported by victims. They’re also taught to not identify them. So unfortunately any numbers we have on the rates of violence against men aren’t re… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Thank you for responding thoughtfully. That sounds super condescending.. I mean it very genuinely. And I hear where your coming from. I did it because when I initially came to this sub I actually came here to invite men to a group I started to stop talking about sexual issues from a one side approach. This started as not pc vs pL or conservative vs lib, but I realized it needed to expand to not women v men. When I started, I didn’t even realize so many saw it as men vs women. So I came here to s… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Broken women break men, women and children. Just as broken men break men women and children. If you don’t know enough about local issues to speak on it then get informed. It’s why I’m here. As for the cervix: uterine biopsy. A part of womens discrimination in health care that I focus on is things like cervical biopsy. If you pop into any womens group or even on Tik tok, Twitter, anywhere, you can find testimonies of women who’ve had basically a “hole punch” inserted into them and used to remove … | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.I’m saying it based on the nature of the crimes. As in how violent they are, where they occur and the reaction of the local connected community (friends family local law enforcement) But thank you for providing the information on cases against men by women. The gaps on how we talk about sexual violence is why I’m here. I believe that isolating male victims from the conversation of sexual violence makes more sexual violence and victims. As victims of any gender are more likely to become offenders… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Yea I did do that. And I recognize it is in poor taste and poor received. But I don’t regret it. And I’ve done it in other groups for various reasons as well. Including women dominated groups. (Almost got banned and harassed by a mod in the pc group for advocating for women opting to give men parental rights instead of adoption or abortion if experiencing pregnancy isn’t an issue) Because echo chambers harm us all. It turns a good movement into a toxic trap. Particularly when it’s own members al… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Hun. Men get assaulted by women too. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Nothing offensive about it. It’s important work and needs to be done. Homelessness, illness, social needs affects everyone. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Have you ever heard the squeaky wheel gets the oil? It’s an absolutely garbage practice. But a common one. The sexual crimes in India against women are some of the worst in the world if not the worst There was a young woman taking the bus home in college with a male friend. Both were beaten by the bus driver and some of his friends to the point of being incapacitated. But only the woman was raped to death. That is the reality of their situation. Both absolutely should be addressed. One was given… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.I didn’t make the post because of men advocating for men. There’s nothing from weonf with That and I often do it. I made it because of claims that women don’t face any issues in the west or that advocating for any improvements for women is equal to wanting oppression for men | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.There was no Ill intent in my post. It was exactly what it was. But the comments on it show why I felt it was needed. I responded to someone else with this but I’ll copy it here for convenience -/ Im literally the third generation walking talking result of crimes against women being blatant and permitted. Born in a city, of PA. My mother was 15. SAd. Impregnated. Beaten and abused during her pregnancy and for the next four years. And when she went to people about it, they said “what did you do t… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Im literally the third generation walking talking result of crimes against women being blatant and permitted. Born in a city, of PA. My mother was 15. SAd. Impregnated. Beaten and abused during her pregnancy and for the next four years. And when she went to people about it, they said “what did you do to piss him off”. My Sil? not granted a divorce despite recorded instances of violent abuse, financial abuse, and child neglect. According to the judge it was “her responsibility” to try and make th… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 03:38 PM |
| -2 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.I’m glad you’ve had the pleasure of only having good company then. But the reality is both men and womens advocates have members who think if you support one it is about supremacy over the other side. I already identified that we agree Advocating for mens rights isn’t advocating for abolishment of womens rights. And advocating for womens rights isn’t advocating for abolishment of mens rights. Not much else to say is there? Unless the point of responding is to start an argument. Which is pretty l… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 06:21 AM |
| -2 | Sexism is a real issue that plagues both men and women.Yea exactly. But there’s a-lot of voices that disagree in practice or just out right. Which is why I made the post. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)I support 50/50 custody with the exception of abuse cases or situations where it would be a danger to the child regardless of which parent. Proprotection is inclusive to Prolife views. We do not advocate for abortion. My personal views do not dictate the subreddit, it’s actually a big point of the subreddit. You don’t need to support social welfare programs to benefit from knowledge + awareness. Really the goal of proprotection is to have a space where even if we don’t agree on everything or any… | /r/MensRights | 19/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Why does no one care about male genital mutilation (circumcision) ?🙋♀️ female genital mutilation is already a thing and already protested. But I think a big part of the issue is Not having enough voices in the mainstream speaking out from the people who are affected by it most. I personally think it should be something that people are given the choice to do later in life. If someone wants a circumcision so bad it can always be done later But you cant put it back once it’s been done. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.You shouldn’t have to work 14 days strait to achieve your goals. Knowing that Is just taking the time to value yourself beyond how much money you bring in. Anyway. I hope that you reach all your goals and are able to have a good home life balance when it becomes something that matters to you. In mean time, I don’t think there is ever a reason to stop fighting for change. As my husband always says “there’s always room for improvement”. The world will never be perfect so satisfaction with the stat… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.An opinion Ed article is not a source. The sources provided within it are. And you’ve gone from stating no one has any proof on wage gap to arguing with me about a anti wage gap source that actually agrees with the existence of gender wage gaps but justifies it and even extends it to an issue that harms men cause you know GENDER wage gap is just a wage gap between GENDERS and is not limited to harming just women. The existence of it doesn’t change just because you flip whose getting the shit the… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.He is applying his own risk reward ratio. You’re an engineer. How much time did you go to school for that? How much money did you spend on your education? How much time to you lose with your family and loved ones working long hours? You’ve decided that risk to reward is worth it for your life. If I want to work in a coal mine and risk getting black lung that’s my business and I want to get paid for taking the same risks at the same rate. Just like men should have the ability to make those same “… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.No where have I said wage gap is caused by nothing but women hating discrimination. But the reality is money does equal power. The more money a person has the more equitable power they have. That equity translates over into the option to be home with family, take care of your health, determines the quality of your food, housing, education options. Is it reflective of men over women? No. Unequal distribution of wealth or resources will always mean the person with more money, has more power compar… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Watched the first video. Quotes from Warren Farrell within the video ⬇️ “Pay is about the power your forfeit to get the power of pay” ”My definition of power is happiness” That first video doesn’t even check anywhere at all on the existence of wage gap or even refute it at all.He just talks about the pros/cons of early feminism. Sacrifices made in the work force. And ignoring that Work = access to money. Money = access to the tools necessary to carve out our own happiness without being dependent… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.“you couldn’t bother to so much and click on one of them” https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/vqa5tv/ftm_men_are_an_ally_to_mens_rights_please_read/iftjqa6/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Watched the first video. Quotes from Warren Farrell within the video ⬇️ “Pay is about the power your forfeit to get the power of pay” ”My definition of power is happiness” That first video doesn’t even check anywhere at all on the existence of wage gap or even refute it at all.He just talks about the pros/cons of early feminism. Sacrifices made in the work force. And ignoring that Work = access to money. Money = access to the tools necessary to carve out our own happiness without being dependent… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.I wish. :p That’s like claiming men get fair say in parenting. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.That’s fine and all. But it doesn’t stop the spread of various interpretations of different labels. If society has 10 different ideas of what a feminist is, then 9 definitions are wrong. Just look at the idea of extremists vs moderates. Example I identify as prochoice. But being in the Prolife subreddit I’ve read a ton of “Prolife” people telling me we believe almost exactly the same thing and on occasion the exact same thing Another example would be the antiwork subreddit. Originally the subred… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.Wage gap exists for a multitude of reasons. sexism is just one of the many contributing factors. But sexism isn’t limited to “x gender sucks” social bias is a form of sexism. That affects everyone. Which is generally the approach taken by any “feminist” whose opinion is based on improving society and not JUST being angry I don’t consider myself a feminist mostly because your definition feminist isn’t necessarily the same as mine or the next guys. But I think most moderates would. 🤷♀️ while extr… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.🤦♀️ yea there are studies that take into account hours worked , occupation, tenure etc. Also. If a teenager is doing the exact same work as an adult and being paid less Then yes. It would be age based discrimination. Pay for the work. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteExtremists who just want to harass people would be muted. Female, male. Non binary. 🤷♀️ last I checked “incel” was the trending term for an extremist but I don’t spend a lot of time following that stuff to be up to date. Which is why I used the “” | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?Acknowledging pay gap and that it as a part of discrimination is literally a part of recent legislation congress. GOV Shown Here: Passed House (04/15/2021) Paycheck Fairness Act This bill addresses wage discrimination on the basis of sex, which is defined to include pregnancy, sexual orientation, gender identity, and sex characteristics. Specifically, it limits an employer's defense that a pay differential is based on a factor other than sex to only bona fide job-related factors in wage discrimi… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?That entire excerpt was a direct copy from the whitehouse website. So either the entire US government is in on it. The census bureau The labor board The government accountability office And me! All in kahoots. Or youre right. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.College educated already and furthering my education in the field of data analytics. More assumptions. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?Changing the rules again? You’ve said countless times that the government has made no official word. They did. There it is. I’ve sent and collected links that they have accounted for that. Different government organizations. Private ones. Public one’s. It doesn’t matter. That there are countless studies looking at it from all the little angles you claim are necessary But none your reaction is surprising because studies have shown that showing people facts actually makes them double down harder. … | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?Ya gonna bother to respond to the many comments I’ve responded with the white statement or just gonna keep avoiding it after yelling at me for days that there wasn’t a single official statement in pay gaps? Nice of you to talk about how Asian women out earning men is enough to discredit literally everything. But bread winner women working 25 more hours than bread winner men is nothing. Good to know when outliers matter. Also, like everything else I’ve sent. They bring up the way race affect wage… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Of the two people in this conversation I’m not the one spreading hate. Those topics are the sorts of things my husband and I talk about. while you’re busy making assumptions on my marriage, education and beliefs | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?In 2020, the average woman working full-time, year-round, for wages or a salary earned 83 cents for every dollar paid to their average male counterpart. And once again, the disparities are even greater for Black, Native American, Latina, and certain subpopulations of Asian women when compared to white men. Disabled women also continue to experience significant disparities and make 80 cents for every dollar compared to men with disabilities. The pay gap reflects outright discrimination as well as… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/presidential-actions/2022/03/14/a-proclamation-on-national-equal-pay-day-2022/ WHITE HOUSE.GOV In 2020, the average woman working full-time, year-round, for wages or a salary earned 83 cents for every dollar paid to their average male counterpart. And once again, the disparities are even greater for Black, Native American, Latina, and certain subpopulations of Asian women when compared to white men. Disabled women also continue to experience significant d… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Name single right men have that women don't?https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/presidential-actions/2022/03/14/a-proclamation-on-national-equal-pay-day-2022/ In 2020, the average woman working full-time, year-round, for wages or a salary earned 83 cents for every dollar paid to their average male counterpart. And once again, the disparities are even greater for Black, Native American, Latina, and certain subpopulations of Asian women when compared to white men. Disabled women also continue to experience significant disparities and m… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/presidential-actions/2022/03/14/a-proclamation-on-national-equal-pay-day-2022/ In 2020, the average woman working full-time, year-round, for wages or a salary earned 83 cents for every dollar paid to their average male counterpart. And once again, the disparities are even greater for Black, Native American, Latina, and certain subpopulations of Asian women when compared to white men. Disabled women also continue to experience significant disparities and m… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Name single right men have that women don't?“The us government has never outright said blah blah blah” The US GOV accountability OFFICE . GOV Gender Pay Differences: The Pay Gap for Federal Workers Has Continued to Narrow, but Better Quality Data on Promotions Are Needed The gender pay gap in the federal workforce has decreased considerably since 1999, but has not yet closed. In 2017, women earned 93 cents for every dollar earned by men. The pay gap is greater for certain groups of women, including Hispanics/Latinas, Blacks, and American … | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Name single right men have that women don't?Ugh. The stats on men and womens labor and wages are all available on the labor boards website to see. I’ve posted some on my account already. In honor of my dear friend u/pactsharp there I’ll point out you need to swipe left to see all of them. Glassdoor also did their own study which compared hourly wages/ industry and a bunch of other apples to apples variables. And if I get some free time to care later, maybe I’ll just include the link my dear friend himself sent me from the pew research cen… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.-sigh- The labor board has plenty of freely available statistics on the wages of men and women. I’ve posted some on my account but they are freely available. Citing all women who advocate for women issues as man hating monsters who don’t do anything for men, before even taking the time to get to know them Is the same behavior that lead to #notallmen trending. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Oh wow it’s so horrible to talk to my husband about how shitty it is that if he’s walking down the street and some woman happens to be walking in the same direction he’s worried she’ll think he’s a predator. So awful. Ohhh and don’t forget telling him if he likes being the little spoon that’s okay and it’s so dumb anyone ever made him feel like that was only for women. God I’m such an awful horrible wife. Or telling him hes crazy to say that if we got divorced he would plan to give me the house … | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?>Gender Pay Differences: The Pay Gap for Federal Workers Has Continued to Narrow, but Better Quality Data on Promotions Are Needed U.S. Government Accountability Office Published: Dec 03, 2020. Publicly Released: Dec 03, 2020. The gender pay gap in the federal workforce has decreased considerably since 1999, but has not yet closed. In 2017, women earned 93 cents for every dollar earned by men. The pay gap is greater for certain groups of women, including Hispanics/Latinas, Blacks, and American I… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?I’ve sent you enough articles. I’ve sent the stats. I’ve even pulled the info out of the one single source you sent me that countered all of your claims You have access to the same internet I do. Do your own work, or leave me alone unless you want to actually talk about something other than your own opinion or harass me At this point you’re just wasting both our time. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.TLDR: self reflection isn’t a great method of growth when there is no outside feedback. Most people wouldn’t do shitty things if they knew they were shifty IMO. Not all men talk about how they’re feeling with women. (Yea I know why. I’m not blaming men) And the ones in my life were and to this day are open about a lot of their issues and never framed them as a gendered issue. It’s not like I wasn’t trying. Different geographical and societal communities have different problems 🤷♀️. Even now, im… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?No it’s not. That particular user has been following me all over this sub. If you look at their comment history you can find all the actual Sources I sent regarding the topics. Over having shared my experiences with a FTM post that had me rethink the male Experience and go “huh. Ya know maybe men are dealing with things I don’t know about and I should check”. Which is only happening because they decided to label me a feminist and an idiot for 1)taking the important parts of that post rather than… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.I’m being asked why I’m not discussing things I am discussing and have been long before entering this sub. That’s a problem everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?I am fighting gendered rape laws. Because everything you said about the rape laws and how men not getting justice are true. Nor did my original Comment represent my opinions on the demographic all rapists. The comment I mentioned was just outlining that women do face actual issues in the world and it’s not some giant made up conspiracy The only broad opinions I have on who rapists are is 1) disgusting people 2) victims of sexual assault are more likely to commit it themselves, abusers create Mor… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2017/nov/29/remembering-women-killed-fighting-for-human-rights-in-2017 You’re making the case right now. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:57 AM |
| -1 | Name single right men have that women don't?I’m not every woman on the planet. But I am a woman. And I listen to the people in my lives about their experiences and I know my own. I know my SIL wanted no kids and was denied sterilization for years and now has five. A few of which were conceived in abusive situations. Despite having a record of domestic abuse and her husband being deported over the abuse, she couldn’t buy a house while married. My friend is annually told it doesn’t hurt when she gets a piece of her cervix ripped out for a c… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?Uhhuh. Yea sure. That’s definitely evident all over the subreddit I made and I’m the only main contributor. Yep. Not a single thing in there on mens rights at all. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Name single right men have that women don't?Of course I would believe a female rapist raped a male victim. Rape isn’t limited to just someone penetrating you with a dick. It’s also always been something I’ve hated that if a male teacher has sex with a female student it’s rape. A female teacher does it to a male student and he’s “lucky” That’s sick. I commented what I did because there is a lot of non gender neutral ideas in here. So while I’m here advocating and trying to educate myself on mens issues I take the time to comment on blatant… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.SWIPE LEFT ON THE POST I SENT YOU LINKED To MY ACCOUNT. That’s where the rest of the pics are. THERES MULTIPLE PHOTOS IN THE POST. Here! Your source again. The pew research center The gender gap in pay has remained relatively stable in the United States over the past 15 years or so. In 2020, women earned 84% of what men earned, according to a Pew Research Center analysis of median hourly earnings of both full- and part-time workers. Based on this estimate, it would take an extra 42 days of work … | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.You claimed no women have ever been harmed. I included a very specific source because it doesn’t even matter to you how many women have died fighting for their rights. So why am I going to send anything beyond that? “Gee I wonder who had it worse” It’s not a pissing contest of suffering. “I routinely suffered much worse” Okay? just because someone did something horrific to you and that resulted in you not caring about your own well being enough to understand it mattered and was a big deal Doesn’… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.From your article. In households where the father is the sole breadwinner, his total workload exceeds that of his spouse or partner by roughly 11 hours (57 vs. 46 hours per week). In households where the mother is the sole breadwinner, her total workload exceeds that of her spouse or partner by about 25 hours (58 vs. 33 hours per week). from your article These findings are based on a new Pew Research survey of 2,511 adults nationwide conducted Nov. 28-Dec. 5, 2012, and an analysis of the America… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.From your article. In households where the father is the sole breadwinner, his total workload exceeds that of his spouse or partner by roughly 11 hours (57 vs. 46 hours per week). In households where the mother is the sole breadwinner, her total workload exceeds that of her spouse or partner by about 25 hours (58 vs. 33 hours per week). from your article These findings are based on a new Pew Research survey of 2,511 adults nationwide conducted Nov. 28-Dec. 5, 2012, and an analysis of the America… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.I already sent you the federal labor board statistics which includes hours worked. On top of this. On top of the US census information. At this point the only credible source is one that agrees with you. And really? Pay negotiations? that’s the whole point. Pay and promotions are supposed to be based of work. Not “negotiations” especially in a country that illegally tries to discourage transparency about wages amongst employees The entire US government and half of the US population isn’t just ma… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.The night of terror Library of congress on the night of terror. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:12 AM |
| -5 | Name single right men have that women don't?Men and women are both human. I can promote rights for both all day. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:10 AM |
| -7 | Name single right men have that women don't?Are you a woman? Are you every single woman on this planet? Who are you to say what happens to someone else? How absurd is that? I’m not coming in here telling men don’t deal with shit. I’m not a man. I’m not every person. I’m not god. So until you have the ability to be every single human on this earth, the only one qualified to say what they experience is the people who experience it. I mean FFS have you ever looked into how the one child policy affected people in China? Girls were being abort… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.https://www.reddit.com/user/JustMissKacey/comments/vsgmp6/just_for_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf From the labor division. You done following me now? Those are the statistics for the labor board in a national level. Women get paid to work what? A hour? Less daily than men and get our wages aren’t even measured on the same scale. And then at the same point. We spend more hours raising children, doing housework, cooking and cleaning resulting in more of our day spent doin… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.Here. >The gender pay gap is real, both in the U.S. and around the world. Men earn more than women on average in every country we examined, both before and after adding statistical controls for personal characteristics, job title, company, industry and other factors designed to make an apples-to-apples comparison between workers. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Looking for the post I saw in here on the “invisible slice” male SAYes thank you! | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | This affects little boys as much as it affects little girls...Yea I know. I just hate the argument that “everyone has it shitty so what’s your point” whenever someone points out a problem with something. Particularly with a holier than thou attitude. Doesn’t really matter what the topic is. It’s just devoid of any human empathy for what other people experience. People don’t have to invalidate, ignore, or tear down other peoples issues to talk about their own or build up their own communities or beliefs. And the hypocrisy of it is maddening “pay attention t… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.The entire United States Census Bureau is feminist? Really. That’s your argument? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 02:25 AM |
| -15 | Name single right men have that women don't?You’re correct. People doing shitty things to me isn’t an absence of rights. That’s why I explicitly stated women’s issues surround the absence of change to reflect the laws. As in, people doing shitty things to women on the basis they are women is the problem. Just like part of mens issues are people doing shitty things to them. Or did you just make up whatever you wanted instead of actually reading my response because you’re still mad I won’t pretend being a woman is peachy? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 02:23 AM |
| -14 | Name single right men have that women don't?What’s even your goal? To have one less mens advocate? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | This affects little boys as much as it affects little girls...Just because people are hurting, Doesn’t mean we have to stand by and let it keep happening. Is that what MRA is about? | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | This affects little boys as much as it affects little girls...“Be a part of the solution” There are lots of ways to do that. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 11:34 PM |
| -20 | Name single right men have that women don't?I have a set of married friends who are both marines and married. M + F. They met in the marines. The F has a history of SA, and was dealing with gender based harassment. Her now husband didn’t believe her for a lot of the reasons being outlined in this thread. Like just told her she was crazy and it was in her head. An absence of current laws blatantly oppressing women or on paper discrimination just made him not believe it. Then he got his current job assignment. He escorts convicted marines t… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.Look. Clearly. Women aren’t welcome in your circle of mens rights advocacy. That’s fine. This subreddit is a big place. I don’t care if you like me or not. I don’t care if you believe me or not. I’m still going to advocate for men and women equally. I’m still going to share when I find resources, avenues for change, and small evidences of change. I can’t stop you or anyone else for considering me their enemy for any reason let alone for having a vagina. But you are not mine and I care about your… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.1) your hourly wage should have nothing to do with how many hours you work. Hourly wage is hourly wage. 2) The US census bureau has done multiple national level “multi variant” analysis’ studies all showing the same the same thing. Women work more hours, fill more positions, and retire later making $.83 for every male doctor. Not a single comment sent my way has provided any sources for these claims about “gender age gap” being dubious. I’m not interested in wasting time going back and forth abo… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.On wages. Some Highlight fromthe US census Male nurses had higher median earnings than female nurses in 2019: $73,603 compared with $68,509. Large shares of working women are in education. For example, 80% of elementary and middle-school teachers and 97% of preschool and kindergarten teachers are female. Similar patterns of pay disparity are found here, too. In 2019, male elementary and middle-school teachers reported higher median earnings than women in the same jobs: $57,041 compared with $51,… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.Yea, I didn’t actually reread the post. I went and found the link and verified it was the one I remembered 😑 and talked about what I took from the post and how it affected me This is from the national archives (yes government national archives) Passed by Congress June 4, 1919, and ratified on August 18, 1920, the 19th amendment granted women the right to vote. The 19th amendment legally guarantees American women the right to vote. Achieving this milestone required a lengthy and difficult struggl… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.I didn’t say that no men have a problem with feminism. I was saying that just like you (was it you? Idk someone commented it) only personally knew men who had a problem with it. I also only experienced men who didn’t. My husband. My ex. My in laws. My brother. Friends. Classmates. Sorry for the misunderstanding 🤷♀️ I haven’t read the trans post in years to comment on the white imperialism. But tbh it doesn’t really matter because it wasn’t the portion of the post I was commenting on or took any… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.Depends on who you ask. But I don’t label myself as a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Men beating up other men because one isn’t “manly” enough or is “too feminine” isn’t Misandry. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 0 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Do you consider voting rights Equal pay Working women Women being a part of medicinal research Part of the problem? Genuine question | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.This is a larger conversation than I can have at the moment but I would love to continue sometime? I don’t think is fair to blame feminism for the lack of humanism. When a group isn’t being oppressed or feels under attack they are focused on their own survival. Much like how many in here believe in many of the things women want but denounce them because mens rights have been being stomped on for so long. Feminism also questioned the status quo. Without it, there’s a good chance it would have tak… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 08:41 PM |
| 0 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.That men will be men thing has literally been around for centuries long before feminism. Like legally women weren’t able to be granted divorce but a husband could get one, with one exception. If the man didn’t perform his duties in the bedroom. So in a period when women legally had next to no marital say. She could still divorce a man for that. She couldn’t get a divorce for cheating or abuse or anything. Just.. that. That isn’t Misandry. And think of how many good men ended up divorced over ED.… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.That’s fine. Hook up Culture isn’t for everyone. But I leave that more as a personal choice than something to debate policy wise | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Can you provide a source for no resources for boys? Children are generally taken in shelters unisex or that’s what I thought. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Really? Because a big part of homophobic violence is based on the idea that men are supposed to be men and like women or they aren’t men. Misandry hurts men and it hurts women. Misogyny hurts women and men. It’s a two way street. The point of recognizing the role misogyny plays to hurt men is to help dissolve the us vs them mentality plaguing mens rights and womens rights. Men are not my enemy. And I am not yours. Also. By social media standards I don’t qualify as a feminist. I’m pretty sure a f… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.🤷♀️ ya win some ya lose some. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Feminists wouldn’t put their resources towards a mens shelter because they’re focused on issues women face. But the loudest voices never represent the majority. And even those voices can be silenced with facts on how few mens shelters there are. Society doesn’t have resources in place for single individuals and especially not for single men. They barely include resources for family men. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteTotally fair. But we all have. If we don’t keep trying everyone just stays oppressed. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers website🤷♀️ | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.More like instead of fighting about abortion Why don’t we actually do something about the reasons we are so afraid of losing it | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:44 PM |
| -1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Easy example. A female student has sex with a male teacher it’s assault. A male student has sex with a female teacher and it’s a victory. They’re both children. Viewing women as less intimidating and beneath men let’s female predators run free. And male victims (of any gender abuser) run silenced since sexual conquest is a measurement of a mans worth. Also. Misogynistic culture paints parenthood as a woman’s job. Nurturing, kindness, child rearing. Yea it’s no secret that idea forced women into … | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Thanks for sharing this! I’ll give it a watch. If you could provide some sources for the video I would love for you to post it in r/proprotection If not I’ll get to it hopefully tomorrow | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteProProtection is about spreading facts and Awareness. So unless someone is a “incel” or a “troll” who isn’t genuinely concerned about mens rights there really isn’t anything we don’t want to hear. Can’t do research or spread facts if I don’t know what’s being talked about 🤷♀️ | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Men are men. But trans mens existence doesn’t redefine what it means to be a cis man. Nor does being gay redefine what a heterosexual man is. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Happy to share a resource. It’s important everyone be heard | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteVasectomy? Nah I would hope people talk to a doctor lol. But we can’t share the role social media plays in forming our opinions and biases. So it’s still important IMO | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Yea echo chamber effects are bad for everyone. Would love to see you in r/proprotection though. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.I don’t think continuing to perpetuate the stereotypes of misogyny is a result of Misandry. But it could Misandry in practice. Which I guess is still both. Like let’s look a female misogynist. A woman who hates other women or thinks women should be subservient to the men in their life might advocate for women to stay home, and against women voting. (This does happen in real life). This woman is doing it from a place of male ideation and a lack of support for other women. BUT that ends up perpetu… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteCan’t refute that as it’s true. Which is why I take the time to post on mens issues including the facts about vasectomy. And push for better alternatives for mens contraceptive. Vasagel for example could be a great asset to mens reproductive rights soon! It’s a really cool product. Reminds me of the same principle of a mucus plug naturally created by the body during pregnancy, but used for men to prevent pregnancy until their ready. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Op here. Thanks for saying this, I’ve been seeing a lot of transphobic stuff in the subreddit so I titled it this way to be more inclusive to the audience who needed to know. But trans men are men | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 03:59 PM |
| -1 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.And in my 25 years of life I’ve never known anyone to have a problem with feminism. And it’s not like I don’t talk about it with the men in my life or I was surrounded by women. I had virtually no female friends until my early early 20s. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.I don’t think it’s reasonable to judge your friend for something outside of his control. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteI mean… The way womens reproduction came To fruition was a part of a for profit movement that completely removed actually providing medicinal care. That’s something to be angry about. Just as like men having no reproductive care at all is something to be angry about. But ignoring each other’s issues doesn’t create conversation. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 06:00 AM |
| 5 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.🤔 fair. But also I’m not a man so I guess I’m both? | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:57 AM |
| 3 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Equity over equality man. Equal isn’t always fair. We are different. Just not less than each other — Edit: If a person in a wheel chair is told to take the same stairs as everyone else that’s equality. They need a ramp obviously. That’s equity. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteWell I’ve created a space away from all that. r/proprotection Could use some male voices in there. Hard to remove the barrier of gender or politics with only one gender dominating the conversation. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:56 AM |
| 18 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Easy example. A female student has sex with a male teacher it’s assault. A male student has sex with a female teacher and it’s a victory. They’re both children. Viewing women as less intimidating and beneath men let’s female predators run free. And male victims (of any gender abuser) run silenced since sexual conquest is a measurement of a mans worth. Also. Misogynistic culture paints parenthood as a woman’s job. Nurturing, kindness, child rearing. Yea it’s no secret that idea forced women into … | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:54 AM |
| 6 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.I don’t see how Allie’s and MRAs are anything different from each other but I think we agree in the important parts | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:45 AM |
| 4 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteI agree. The way men are left out of topics like SA has lead society to talk about SA like it is an epidemic that only affects women. When it affects everyone. If it’s only affecting women then we talk about men as if the majority of men are monsters. Because that’s how we feel we have to live our lives. Never knowing when we are safe. But that doesn’t help anyone. It doesn’t help women. It doesn’t help men. And it certainly doesn’t help SA survivors. And that fear has spread to how we talk abou… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteI will say it takes a short minuet to cater to womens anger. (Maybe one page) but it really is about things that matter. It’s also necessary to validate the anger of the women who read it, so they take the time to read it instead of writing it off as some neck beard pseudoscience before making it to the third page. For what it’s worth. I’m sorry. My reproductive healthcare might be basically medieval torture but at least I have someone to ask when I have a problem. That’s more than men have righ… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:14 AM |
| 5 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteTLDR. that’s fair. But it’s good to use these resources to carve out mens equality even when it’s not coming from the sort of change you’d want. Womens rights to vote and race equality wasn’t granted because people suddenly approved of it. People had something to gain. So take the opportunity to have a conversation while people are willing to listen. Even if they’re only listening because their desperate. Don’t waste a chance to create change. —- That’s fair. And I only started getting into advo… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteThe book is only about how men don’t have reproductive health care/ the history of healthcare/ how division of the sex’s shaped medicine. I am PC. But my advocacy is focused on separating healthcare from the topic of abortion as it is a divisive issue and distracts from real problems. Edit (I do think women having access to abortion is a serious issue and it does affect men. So I guess what I mean is other problems) Like the closest thing a man has to a reproductive doctor is his GP and a urolog… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 04:50 AM |
| 10 | Feminists are intolerant of men. I will not tolerate those who are intolerant of me, just because of my gender.That’s the echo chamber affect of just staying in a bubble of people who think one thing. Like prior to coming in here I’ve never met so many men who opposed feminism. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 04:19 AM |
| 16 | Book on how the separation of genders + sexes as unequal left men without reproductive medicine. 15 pages free on publishers websiteI understand your frustration. But with there being no reproductive medicine for men it is pretty difficult to talk about how men ended up without any without covering the history of what we have. It’s like a 300+ page book. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 03:28 AM |
| 3 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)I appreciate this comment. SA awareness and advocacy is a big priority of mine and the verbiage of laws matters just as much as social beliefs if not more. Changing peoples minds on male SA doesn’t do much if they still can’t get justice Would love to see you in r/proprotection | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)Yea it is obvious. But is it happening? Cause I spend an insane amount of time in the PL community just talking to people about rates of sexual assault, the reasons and numbers of people who don’t have access contraception, the real health risks of pregnancy And there is a lot of stuff that just seems to go completely unnoticed. Same for the PC. A lot of energy is spent fighting for abortion but it’s definitely taken for granted that people actually know “reproductive care” is not a code word fo… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)Yea my “father” I mentioned was an abuser + a rapist. Neither woman chose him. Abuse cycles aren’t as simple as choosing the “chad” My friends serial cheating father was a perfect pillar of the community and is well loved by everyone but his kids to this day. This is why so much time is spent advocating for information on informed consent and knowing the signs of abuse and sexual assault. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)I mean… I was my “fathers” second child by the time he was 18 with two women. He actually had three kids total before getting a vasectomy. And my friends dad has like three baby moms. (From completely different backgrounds and locations. It’s not a geographical trend) So I believe it. It’s a big part of the complaints women have for shouldering the shame of abortion socially. That one man can Impregnate multiple women while one woman can only be responsible for one pregnancy a year. I think in t… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)I think regardless of where we land on abortion it’s worthwhile to work to diminish the occurrences of these “consequences” With education and social equality between the genders when it comes to Reproductive issues | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Non hormonal male birth control entering next stages is testing this year!!Ohhhhhhhhh Sorry lol. There’s been so much back lash I broke a golden rule and assumed making an ass out of you and me. Sorry about that! | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)🤷♀️ I never supported amber heard from the get go. Not really sure what the point is of advocating for mens rights if the advocacy begins and ends with being angry. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 08:22 PM |
| 4 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)Doesn’t have to be. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)There’s nothing easy about the decision to abort adopt or raise a child. In the scenario you presented it was the mother who bonded with the baby and made that choice. The father did everything he was supposed to do to prevent pregnancy and that is enough to protect his rights. Plus. Just because a man takes that route doesn’t mean it is easy for him either: the world is complex and diverse. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)I understand why you feel that way. But when there’s an opportunity don’t waste it. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 08:51 AM |
| 10 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)lolololol. I’m a house wife. So I guess my husband fills my paycheck? He’s actually less vocal about mens rights than I am so… knowing him he wouldn’t have much of an answer. Why am I here? Honestly because I love my husband. I know it’s pretty shameful to not think about something until it affects someone you love but here I am. Not that he’s directly experienced this stuff on an interpersonal level but when I read things online and the way mens feelings/opinions/social rights are ignored in th… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 08:51 AM |
| 2 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)100% agree. Women feel so unheard about how we feel that we have societally believed that men can’t possibly feel anything at all. Two wrongs don’t make a right. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 06:54 AM |
| 3 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)A week ago the media wasn’t acknowledging men at all. It’s not much but it’s a start | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 06:52 AM |
| 8 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)100% agree | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)I’m sorry it makes you feel that way. I attempted to avoid that by isolating the parts of the post that were most relevant to mens rights vs citing the entire article. Namely acknowledgement of the impact and emotional response men experience Happy you got out though | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 06:27 AM |
| 5 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)Only if we turn our back at the change being presented and stop being willing to have a discussion on how to move forward and acknowledge the change being made | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Non hormonal male birth control entering next stages is testing this year!!The commented about it being useless progress? | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 06:18 AM |
| 5 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)Change never comes at the pace we need it Or the way we need it. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 06:17 AM |
| 7 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)Face masks aren’t being talking about right now because vaccines are available to the most vulnerable. It’s also 1) media manipulation keeps people occupied 2) natural that peoples focus would progress as new issues arise or become worse. The important thing is to make change while it is priority and keep advocating even while other issues take priority. “Being a single policy voter” literally and figuratively hurts everyone. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 33 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)It absolutely can. And I hadn’t considered that until I entered this sub to see what concerns men were discussing. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Reproductive anatomy health “sex ed” shown to improve social relationships between gendersThey absolutely could and still can! We just have to take the time to consider how we talk about things and what perception it creates for people whose lifestyles and beliefs are different than our own :) If you find anything interesting please cross post to the Reddit! ☺️ | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 01:51 AM |
| 8 | NPR- discussing how abortion affects men too. (Revised post)After reading the article and finding a lack of sources I looked into the author and I wouldn’t consider that a credible source for psychology/ sociology type information. He’s a ghost writer whose only formal training or experience was in economics. Which is a perfectly credible resource to get an idea what someone else might be experiencing but not to determine a social trend in a population. I agree that kindness can and does be weaponized. And there’s no doubt that the row v wade situation h… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Reproductive anatomy health “sex ed” shown to improve social relationships between gendersYou too! I’ve started a subreddit explicitly for this purpose if you’d be interested. r/proprotection | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | NPR including men in the abortion discussion - link on first pic.The dr advocating for this is male. If you read the article he’s talking about how men are left out in the conversations and in studies. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | NPR including men in the abortion discussion - link on first pic.From what I read it covered the topic of men being left out of the studies as a whole Unless I’m misunderstanding | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Reproductive anatomy health “sex ed” shown to improve social relationships between genders1000% | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Non hormonal male birth control entering next stages is testing this year!!If a woman has a failure on her birth control or worse, chooses to get pregnant without his consent, a man can end up a father or with child support he didn’t want and believed he was safe from. Having access to male controlled birth control beyond just condoms means men have more power to prevent those situations. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Non hormonal male birth control entering next stages is testing this year!!And men having greater control in not being forced into parenthood prematurely doesn’t benefit them how? | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Reproductive anatomy health “sex ed” shown to improve social relationships between gendersI’m not a scientist nor a feminist. I am someone passionate about advocating for the issues that affect men, women and people as a whole. Just because the study is focused on women doesn’t mean it doesn’t have merit. Some policies found with the intention of bettering womens lives will benefit men equally Some policies found with the intention of bettering male lives will benefit womens lives equally Because we all live on the same planet in the same society and require each to reproduce in some… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to *gain* reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent.I agree with the intent here but it isn’t covered under bodily autonomy. Bodily autonomy is referring to the literal use of your body to sustain another living human directly. Not through indirect labor and financial hardship. It would be better proposed under a different term to more accurately represent the issue at hand. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | We're going to see a mass of false rape reports and innocent men thrown in jailDude I am the living breathing proof. Just because you’re not out there raping people doesn’t mean it isn’t happening to others. Do you really think the government wants its people to believe living here is shitty? | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | We're going to see a mass of false rape reports and innocent men thrown in jailYea it is madness. That’s what we’ve been saying. I’m literally a third generation Rape baby. Like dude it’s wild out here. Having a vagina is legit a terrifying way to live. And the crazy part? Other countries have it worse That stat doesn’t even include that some states allow child marriages and don’t consider it statutory if it’s done between married couples. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 04:48 AM |
| 2 | We're going to see a mass of false rape reports and innocent men thrown in jailIt’s really hard to misuse those statistics to Make things worse than they actually are. the cdc has it at like 1/4 women experience completed or attempted rape. And 1/9 men experience it as being forced to penetrate. And 1/26 as those being penetrated. But the reality is not all sexual assaults get reported And male sexual assault is grossly under reported due to how misogyny labels men as sex fiends who are weak and “can’t experience SA”. So not matter how you slice it. There’s no exaggerating… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 12:43 AM |
| 2 | We're going to see a mass of false rape reports and innocent men thrown in jailYour initial statistics don’t make sense I think there is a type error. I agree that there needs to be acknowledgement of false accusations. But the reality is that sexual assault is an epidemic issue that affects a greater quantity of the population than those who are wrongly accused. So it discussed louder and more publicly as there are more people experiencing it. That does not mean there isn’t support for greater accuracy. We want accountability. Not a witch hunt. It doesn’t take minimizing … | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | We're going to see a mass of false rape reports and innocent men thrown in jailThis is a totally valid concern. But Rape statistics are absolutely not false or exaggerated. I know more people, women and men, who have experienced sexual abuse than I know people who haven’t. by far. And if I included harassment I would know no one: | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.I can give you two examples. For misogyny hurting men. When I was growing up even in a liberal area, all the media I consumed painted men as always DTF (down to fuck). They always want to see your tits. They’ll stick their dick in literally everything. But this wasnt female sitcoms shitting on men that taught me that message. It was the sexualization of women. If men didn’t want to see tits every second then why were women being turned into sexual objects instead of people? It was watching thing… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 10:42 PM |
| -6 | Woman jailed for poking holes in lover’s condoms to get pregnantEhhh. I have definitely celebrated those articles when it was a rapist or child abuser. But I also support capital punishment. 1000% excited about this verdict though. Forced parent hood affects both parents and should be treated that way legally | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.🙋♀️ totally agree that mens bodies need to be respected more. I don’t support gendered drafts. I don’t even support drafts tho I question the viability of absolving it entirely as someone not informed enough the issue. Misandry hurts women and men Misogyny hurts men and women. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?If it preserved the status quo then roe v wade wouldn’t be being over turned since that’s the stance PC has taken for years. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Has staying divided until the other-side conceded after worked for the benefit of the majority | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?My sil was a accident.. not sure if that’s the best word. But she wasn’t intended and it was during an abusive relationship my MIL was in to escape an even worse situation. I’m a third generation rape baby. All five of my sils kids were the result of incompatibility with birth control. Several of which were conceived in abusive relationships. And my sister was an accidental pregnancy (committed relationship thought the father was sterile). One of my friends has two kids. The first kid is a resul… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Rainn, the rape abuse incest national network currently estimates 1/6 women has experienced completed or attempted rape. The CDC estimates it at 1/4 women. And that doesn’t even account for male victims. In both cases that is more people than the entire population of several individual states in the US. But the other thing is, we can’t know which one us will end up the statistic. Who ends up raped or who ends up raped and pregnant. That’s why people advocate for blanket protection. There isn’t a… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Well I’m here. Extending a hand to find one. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?I don’t think that’s a great recipe for a happy marriage. And as you mentioned Rape. Sexual assault is very high, and assaults that result in pregnancy are more likely to occur in a relationship than not. Especially as the living breathing product of rape pregnancy I don’t appreciate the implication that avoiding pregnancy is as simple as keeping your legs closed. Nor do I appreciate reducing mine or anyone else’s sexuality as something to be used for procreating or a measurement of value. I’m n… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Honestly after spending some time in the pc sub Reddit and the pL subreddit I understand and respect why you feel that way. But even outside of the conversation of abortion there are issues surrounding womens health care And issues surrounding how men are treated in terms of parenthood, emotions and finances. I believe that these issues can be rectified as a majority if we all take the time to listen to one and other despite where we sit on the abortion debate. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Honestly I wish. But I have five nieces and nephews because my SIL finds abortion to be immoral and her body isn’t able to handle most methods of birth control and they refused to sterilize her despite repeated requests. And yes you could argue it was her choice to stay pregnant and not abort. But you consider something to be equivalent to Murder it isn’t really a choice. That also doesn’t touch upon the women who just don’t have access to contraceptives. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?No you’re who I meant to respond to. But honestly I’m not understanding you either 😬 Pregnancy also isn’t as much of a choice as we’d like to think these days. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Yea it is a grown decision to keep a child. But i risk having to unilaterally experience an abortion or pregnancy, and financial responsibility. Just as much as you risk not having full authority over the existence of a child and the financial responsibility. Over all it’s shifty. But unexpected pregnancy is generally shitty. What we can do is work to make sure that mens voices are heard instead of being steamrolled the entire processes. And expand on contraceptives for all to decrease the risks… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?generally both parties are able to assume equal risks even if they don’t choose that arrangement. That isn’t the case with pregnancy. Also You have full authority over what health risks you take. So you can do pretty much anything to your body without your spouses consent. And your spouse cannot force you to undergo any procedures or lifestyles that affect your body. Example. I can’t force my husband to stop eating sugar Nor can I force him to get a vasectomy. I also cannot stop him from Getting… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 05:48 PM |
| 3 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?I have no idea what this comment is trying to say at all. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?My point is that life isn’t perfectly equal and I can’t decide what risks you take with your health anymore than someone else can decide what risks I take with mine. So until men and women are able to equally carry the health risks associated with pregnancy (aka a perfect world) Perfect equality on this one topic isn’t possible. Because it is already an unequal experience. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 08:34 AM |
| 2 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?No I’m talking about the health risks. I’m fully aware men are forced to carry financial responsibility without being given the emotional and parental privileges that are supposed to come with it. But the list of health issues that commonly come with pregnancy are extensive and non ignorable. Diabetes, thyroid issues, diastasis recti (separation of the abdominal muscles), incontinence, osteoporosis And that doesn’t include the literal ripping of your vagina or being sliced in half for a c sectio… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 11 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Jumping in here. I actually think men should have more say in the termination of children because they are equally their children. BUT a man cannot carry a pregnancy nor take on the physical toll or risks of pregnancy. So I generally advocate for men being given a voice when a woman isn’t against experiencing the risks of pregnancy. Like if a woman just doesn’t want to be a mother and isn’t concerned about pregnancy then I think morally as women men should be given the option to be single father… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 03:33 AM |
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